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1	Is cold approach really the best way for most guys to meet women? It feels like a lot of the conventional advice on here doesn't really apply to me How I see it is: If you're not at ease with something, there's a reason for it. First find out what that reason is, and the rest will follow. Of course it's easy to say, and sometimes it takes time, but ultimately, you need to know yourself if you want to gain the needed confidence to make someone truly happy. Be positively self-centered (not selfish!), once you achieve that, you'll notice people will look at you differently. Don't act based on what you think others expect of you. That will neve…	/r/seduction	29/06/22 04:42 PM
1	How do I get better at cold approaching/build more confidence? As a girl once told me: "Don't depreciate yourself. Most of the time, the negatives you see are not seen by the woman in front of you." You say your face is 6/10. Who said so? Not the girl you haven't met yet. The fact you know every little imperfection you think you have, doesn't mean people spot those as soon as you enter their field of vision.If you want a girl to like you, act as if she was your friend already, what's the point of acting any other way?And don't forget, people can't read mind…	/r/seduction	29/06/22 01:45 PM
2	Is cold approach really the best way for most guys to meet women? It feels like a lot of the conventional advice on here doesn't really apply to me Ultimately, confidence comes from within and has little to do with the amount of girls you manage to hook up with.	/r/seduction	29/06/22 01:32 PM
1	Is cold approach really the best way for most guys to meet women? It feels like a lot of the conventional advice on here doesn't really apply to me I think a good thing to start with is to stop focussing on meeting women. Just try to be more socially active without afterthoughts, doing things you enjoy for the sake of enjoyment, without trying to calculate if or when it might lead to meeting a woman. Girls and boys are not that different, we all like to meet genuine people. If you can find a way to be yourself among others, and enjoy that, you'll ultimately draw the attention of someone who might be fitting for you. Don't pressure yourself,…	/r/seduction	29/06/22 01:26 PM

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