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Good for you brother, your mental strength clearly remains intact!
/r/Divorce_Men13/09/24 08:52 AM
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That sounds terrible but honestly a blessing in disguise that she left brother. I don’t know the details but treat it like a funeral, hopefully you have taken the time and done the work to get over the loss and are now focused on not letting anyone steal your future happiness moving forward. Your best years are ahead of you, keep your head up and stay focused on being positive. Keep your mindset positive, mental strength is required here
/r/Divorce_Men11/09/24 12:58 PM
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I was there and I can promise you your best years are ahead of you, don’t give up on life over a women, dont let her do that to you.
/r/Divorce_Men05/09/24 08:18 PM
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protect yourself
/r/Divorce_Men24/07/24 09:43 AM
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Learn to train and control your negative thoughts. Do not allow them to control you. Start to focused on increasing the good days you experience. Stop worrying about if there will be another person, of course there will be, it is an epidemic of single ladies out there but you have to get to the best version of yourself in order to put the right energy out into the universe to attract her. Listen and read about positive thinking and self improvement, work on yourself moving forward and don't dwel…
/r/Divorce_Men11/06/24 03:36 AM
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I hear you. My x would take the leashes with her when she left the house because she didn't want me to take the dog even for a walk. You can't reason the unreasonable, it heart r breaking i'm sure but karma is a bitch. Have you gotten another dog of your own or thought about that? Maybe go to the same breeder if possible so you have a connection with your old pup? Good luck brother and remember, always be grateful, she can only bring you down if you let her.
/r/Divorce_Men07/06/24 02:21 AM
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try putting on a headset and listening to something while in bed to get your mind of whatever is keeping you from falling asleep....an e book or podcast, i found it helped me fall back asleep. Also anxiety meds might help if you haven't considered them.
/r/Divorce_Men15/04/24 01:52 PM
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thank you for. i'm stuck in this house for now and it's almost as bad as being alone.
/r/Divorce_Men31/03/24 10:20 PM
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thanks
/r/Divorce_Men20/03/24 10:43 PM
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brother i think you are off to a great start with such a positive attitude and the optimism and determination you have. I hope you are ok financially and kids situation is sorted out, good luck!
/r/Divorce_Men01/03/24 03:19 PM
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Hey brother, you are not alone, so many of share similar stories. I have two children, I am in the process as well and can feel the wedge she is slowly but covertly driving between me and the kids. The children will always be your children, nothing she can do about that and eventually they will realize that dad is an important person to have in their lives and they will come looking for you. Don't let your thoughts wonder to the negative as difficult as it is. Hit a church even if you are not re…
/r/Divorce_Men27/02/24 02:29 AM
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how you managing?
/r/Divorce_Men22/02/24 03:02 PM
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very well said, stand tall and and don't let anyone steal your inner peace....sounds like you are in control.
/r/Divorce_Men12/02/24 11:20 PM
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well said, definitely great advice!
/r/Divorce_Men08/02/24 11:59 PM
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experiences. find someone to look after kids and start doing things just you and her. Dinner, a 5 day trip, more help around the house and with kids
/r/Divorce_Men27/01/24 11:17 PM
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settle now for the sake of your sanity and the ability to move on
/r/Divorce_Men20/01/24 03:08 PM
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Sorry my mistake, in some places the courts look negatively on this when rendering judgement but i see your point all.
/r/Divorce_Men05/01/24 09:23 PM
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ask your wife if she cares if you start seeing people.
/r/Divorce_Men05/01/24 05:36 PM
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how are you doing these days brother?
/r/Divorce_Men04/01/24 11:03 PM
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Hey brother, You really sound like a great person who really has there act together and I think that any women who got to know you and gave you a chance would be lucky to have you. You should be really proud of yourself for all the things you have accomplished. Use that pride amd find your confidence, put yourself out there. If you are out and about, be friendly and say hello, at work at church, at the grocery store, at your local restaurants. Also put the word out to family and friends and let …
/r/Divorce_Men04/01/24 02:56 AM
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my steam room at the gym is the most relaxing thing ever, steam helps me sweat out the bad stuff.
/r/Divorce_Men31/12/23 04:01 AM
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That's tough, I worry about that as well. Maybe try a dating app, at the very least get yourself out there and maybe just take it slow. I think if you manage to find someone nice it may he's lo the healing process
/r/Divorce_Men30/12/23 12:12 AM
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what do you do for work?
/r/Divorce_Men28/12/23 05:39 PM
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Offer to pay half for a new puppy she can raise and call her own if that is an option for you financially and that the dogs should not be split up for their own well being.
/r/Divorce_Men20/12/23 01:48 AM
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agreed, friend of mine though he was doing the right thing by taking less than his share of value in the family home so that his kids could remain in the home, a few months later she had it sold, made bank and bought a new place with a boyfriend she had all along. Do not be a sucker, we never really know what is going on until the divorce is final and then all the secrets come out.
/r/Divorce_Men19/12/23 08:34 PM
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they are happy for now, but it will eventually fall apart for the same reason it fell apart for your relatives. she is likely trying to mess with you by being with your friend, don't let her. if you find a nice women don't push her away. i'm not saying jump into marriage again but enjoy that nice person for who she is. Whatever it is you can handle it.
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/23 05:01 PM
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Hey brother, great post, very well said! What ever it is, we can handle it.
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/23 01:12 PM
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well said💪👍
/r/Divorce_Men16/12/23 04:29 PM
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Hey brother, that is a permanent decision to a temporary problem. There are people who love you and need you. Breath deep and slow and go get yourself to a hospital, people want to help you, you are not alone, we are with you.
/r/Divorce_Men13/12/23 12:57 PM
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i was listening to a podcast on spotify called "a man's journey through divorce" that someone on the sub recommended, really good level headed information if you are interested about the whole journey, i have listened to it a few times, worth a listen.
/r/Divorce_Men09/12/23 05:38 PM
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lawyer immediately. don't give up anything you have the right to keep like a house you owned before her, you will regret it.
/r/Divorce_Men08/12/23 10:56 PM
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humiliating for her, not you brother so keep your head up, you are the dad your child needs, nothing for you to feel ashamed of atvss all. in fact I admire you for your strength and resilience. Stay strong, seek counseling to get over anything you still struggle with, read, listen to podcasts, self help, you got this.
/r/Divorce_Men06/12/23 02:07 AM
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she wants to get back together with you for sure. She realizes after trying the dating scene what a huge mistake she make leaving you....maybe have some fun but that's it!
/r/Divorce_Men04/12/23 11:25 PM
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hey brother, get back into the workforce, find something you like even if the pay is crappy. Check out volunteer work, find something that gives u purpose
/r/Divorce_Men19/11/23 02:36 PM
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we didn't go through with the divorce the first time.
/r/Divorce_Men10/11/23 08:57 PM
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i went through it when my daughter was 8. we went through the entire divorce process, paid all the legal fees and then she decided to stay and like an idiot i agreed because i though it was the right thing for my child. . fast forward 10 years later we now have a second child and she again wants a divorce. I regret staying and stayed for the t wrong reason and here i am again getting divorced a second time from the same person. Stay if you think there is hope for you and your spouse, talk to the…
/r/Divorce_Men10/11/23 02:16 AM
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You have any kids?
/r/Divorce_Men16/01/23 02:29 AM
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Mad
/r/Divorce_Men05/01/23 07:45 PM
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Why is she so made?
/r/Divorce_Men05/01/23 07:45 PM
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You actual should be very proud of yourself for putting all you heart and soul in trying tobsave your marriage while busting your ass to complete the Reno(which i am sure you were doing for your family) while at the same time going to counselling to try and work on yourself. You did everything you could, just because the end result was not how you had hoped does mean make you a failure. Hold you head up high .
/r/Divorce_Men03/01/23 03:30 AM
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You sound like someone i could have a beer, solid question and thought process, I hope all goes well for you.
/r/Divorce_Men07/11/22 05:51 PM
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Whatever you decide to do make sure it is done through a lawyer because things can change quick. Say you find out your ex meets someone quickly and ends up moving into the house …u ok with this? Play all possible scenarios good and bad and decide what is acceptable for you. After 5 years does she buy you out at the new value of the home or the value when u left….gotta be careful, your intention are good and this can be done but pttect yourself from being blind sided.
/r/Divorce_Men22/10/22 12:07 AM
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