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It means how easy for him to attract girls. My point is that I wanna try lightly at attracting girls just like him. I don't wanna try hard.
/r/seduction02/06/24 09:18 AM
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I'm not in my head saying life is unfair for me. But I'm saying that I'm doing it wrong and I should look into other ways to attract girls that fit my persona.
/r/seduction02/06/24 09:15 AM
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Sure thing, thank you.
/r/seduction02/06/24 09:08 AM
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If I can give you a reward for your comment, I would do it without hesitation. Thank you.
/r/seduction13/10/22 01:41 PM
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Respect.
/r/seduction28/03/22 04:30 PM
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It's okay to go to bars/clubs just to meet girls, there's nothing wrong in wanting women, hookup...etc. In fact, this convey confidence that you go after your needs. And on the other side, the girl will be turned on when she feels wanted by a guy. But the point is to not be thirsty. You need to have other things going on in your life.
/r/seduction28/03/22 03:23 PM
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If it comes naturally, you are right. I mean don't force it.
/r/seduction21/09/21 03:28 AM
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Ma friend, In day game you have to try so many times to get what you want. And what about the embarrassment that you are gonna get to yourself. Also am known in my career, what if someone I know sees me, am I gonna say 'I'm hitting on girls'. I'm not afraid of others, but it doesn't feel right in first place. In night game, nothing wrong to approach girls or any of that stuff, but It doesn't have to be one of your agenda. Let it happen naturally.
/r/seduction21/09/21 03:10 AM
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Amazing reply...+1
/r/seduction21/09/21 02:56 AM
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Dating apps and online game doesn't need that effort as cold approach. Also in night game, I'm hanging out with my buddies. And am not there to get girls specifically.
/r/seduction21/09/21 02:48 AM
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I think you're right. But I'm not that brave in initiating a convo with others. Or maybe not excited that much to start.
/r/seduction21/09/21 02:41 AM
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I've tried it in the past so many times, and got girls that wanna enter a relationship with me. But when look it now after a year or so, it doesn't feel appropriate to me anymore.
/r/seduction21/09/21 02:37 AM
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I'm not fan of cold approach, I think only guys who are thirsty for women do it, especially the day game.
/r/seduction21/09/21 02:29 AM
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I was like you, and I've discovered that without pickup there nothing else going for my me. And that was the problem. You seem thirsty for women, which is a big turn off in a guy. Please pause for a while, and answer these questions: What are you doing with your life? Do you like your work? Do you have any hobbies? Do you have male friends, not just acquaintances. I'm mean homies you see on a regular basis. What's about your communication skills? How's your personality? Are you needy? Please 🙏 s…
/r/seduction13/08/21 09:50 AM
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So, don't hide your emotions. But, here's my advice on how to do it: It has to be genuine. You don't need to approach every girl you see like a mission, do it only if you feel the attraction. Depending on the surrounding environment, you decide the best way to open her. There's no a fixed way (e.g always direct) on how to approach.
/r/seduction21/05/20 07:35 PM
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+1, that what I was thinking, I'm not gonna stick to them, but also not leave them completely. I'll keep some bond between us to help my game.
/r/seduction25/02/20 11:45 AM
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That post is relatable to this: https://www.playingfire.com/real-social-dynamics-review/.
/r/seduction25/01/20 02:49 AM
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I would like to add that the context is also crucial. Because at night or a high energy area, you see some girls really wanna get approached. So you can be more blunt, however in a non-sexual and social-norms aware way like saying "Hi, how is it going" or sparking the convo from something contextual...etc. The goal is to be genuine. There nothing wrong if you really liked a girl, and felt you wanna talk to her.
/r/seduction14/11/19 09:28 AM
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Totally right. I think no need for fancy gamey lines, just say Hey, how is it going looking in the eye, your sound loud enough and giving off a vibe of ease and relaxation. If she's also interested, boom...there is a connection.
/r/seduction09/10/19 01:43 PM
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Yeah, I used to be nervous when someone approach me asking for directions or something else. Slowly I get used to it and now I feel calm. Other than that, I justify approaching women by my daughter (lets say I have one). If a guy approached her in an un-creepy way and really he is a genuine person. I'm totally fine with it.
/r/seduction09/10/19 07:16 AM
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Don't approach any girls for now. What you need to do is to sit down, take a deep breath and start identifying/analyzing what you've done wrong. Maybe it's in your inner/outer game, body language, what you say to them, are you on ease with yourself, do you pass their tests, your openers, the context you're in (like me in a conservative country), and sometimes it's not you but the girl you are with...etc. It happened to me before. I approached like 70 times and got 1 number from a shitty girl lik…
/r/seduction07/10/19 08:13 AM
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If you have a strong sense of self and really confident, then start with Models, otherwise read No More Mr Nice Guy then Models. After that start going out and applying what you learn. Watch some pickup videos (RSD, Willy Beck)...etc. Also that subreddit is really a mine of gold, learn from it as much as you can. Find dudes you can pickup and do that shit with sometimes, It's a lot easier and more fun actually. My point is: Start your journey and let yourself evolve overtime (no need to rush) an…
/r/seduction15/09/19 09:57 PM
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your comments hit the reader instantly and let him say "Wow, I got it now". You sum texting efficiently with great examples, should write them in a separate post , so that everyone can learn from.
/r/seduction15/09/19 08:26 PM
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I'm not with "work on your garden first and then butterflies will come" anymore. If you are on ease with yourself, taking care of you look and have social skills, then nothing gonna stop you from attracting the girls. My uncle used to told me about one of his old friends, who was top notch with women, despite of his failure in college and professional life. Also another example is Willy Beck, who's a PUA - not buying into that shit so much - but his story is really inspirational. He used to live…
/r/seduction15/09/19 11:22 AM
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No Mr Nice Guy is better than Models at first. Because it focuses more on the person in general. Unlike Models, which is oriented toward girls more.
/r/seduction26/08/19 08:59 PM
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Totally right.
/r/seduction25/08/19 08:33 AM
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WTF. It's the first time reading about that and it's awesome. Not afraid of ducks, but from things in life generally (e.g my old friends saw me walking alone more than once and I thought they probably talked about my social value).
/r/seduction25/08/19 08:31 AM
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If the things between me her got along in first place. Then here seduction is a skill to me. Like body language, maintaining a good vibe, handling awkward situations, keeping a flirtatious convo, touching...etc. All these things I wanna be good at. Also, she's might be in the middle (e.g lurker response), then I'll invest some energy trying to convince her using my "seductional" skills. We are not black and white. But I don't try that hard, once or twice and maybe a third - it depends - and that…
/r/seduction22/08/19 08:15 PM
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I approach her ----> likes me ----> things will go from there. I approach her ----> doesn't like me ----> things stop here ----> finding another one who likes me. The wrong path: I approach her ----> doesn't like me ----> trying to manipulate and make her likes me.
/r/seduction22/08/19 01:52 PM
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You said to her she's cute, isn't that the same kind of "trying" you are trying to stop? Friend, the goal when he said don't try to chase women is to not care about her if she've rejected you, but not to avoid approaching her, there is a huge difference. I mean if you like a girl, why not to initiate the talk with her, if she said YES, cool let's see where we can go from there, if she said NO, also cool, your are gonna continue with yourself until the prospective mates are attracted. You get it …
/r/seduction22/08/19 12:38 PM
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I completely agree. I used to force myself to say what they recommend, but now, whatever I want. My sole focus now when trying to do pick ups is trying to make the girl laugh. Now I don't go with an agenda, that she have to laugh, I say whatever I find funny. If she laughed...fine, didn't, also fine.
/r/seduction19/06/19 08:02 AM
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I'm really down with that video. Maybe the word "Alpha Male" in this quote is causing misconception. That you need to be alpha and dominant...etc. But that's how I understand it: Do what you like to do and go with your life naturally. If you are awesome deep inside, the truth gonna flash soon or later and the girls whom you relate to will get to you in the end. Also, don't be afraid of your sexual desires. Say it out loud, despite of the negative or positive opinions. Look, I don't wanna be alph…
/r/seduction05/06/19 09:27 AM
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Man, I don't care if someone calls me Beta or Alpha. These words are just signs of the right thing to do, which is being yourself whether rich, poor...etc.
/r/seduction04/06/19 02:59 PM
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There are plenty of people who are unapologetically themselves that don't get any 'mates' at all. I think of it like that, If you approach a girl lets say and that girl is attracted naturally to the personality that you have, she's gonna show some interest in you. Don't shame the people who have to work for it. Working on your self is amazing as long as you want to, not because the girls gonna like it. Your concerns stop there. It doesn't matter what the surrounding gonna say about you, either p…
/r/seduction04/06/19 02:39 PM
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I don't like the fact that you are showin' us off her beauty.
/r/seduction21/05/19 06:56 AM
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Pre-selection/social proof is all true. But don't use it as a way to get girls to like you. Let it happens naturally along that way: first you're in peace with yourself (confident, healthy integrated male...etc) and then have a lot of activities you good at, where people can see you. Now here you start attracting attention to find that social proof is under your belt. And If it doesn't happen like that, don't insist to it. Fuck it. You know yourself remember!
/r/seduction06/02/19 12:20 PM
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😄
/r/seduction03/01/19 12:41 AM
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Do you know what my friend after some time you'll realize that Nothing will help you to get what you are dreaming of. Let me explain, first you start reading about pickup and discovering materials to help on the cognitive side and that's amazing and it allows you to jump steps ahead of yourself. However if you keep doing that for a long time without taking action simultaneously, your subconscious will reveal this fact about you which I referenced it in the first phrase: You wanna hit on girls wi…
/r/seduction02/01/19 11:15 PM
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that's my 30 try I think, not the first.
/r/seduction02/01/19 11:10 PM
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Totally right.
/r/seduction02/01/19 10:06 AM
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100% Accurate.
/r/seduction02/01/19 10:03 AM
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What rules?
/r/seduction01/01/19 10:39 PM
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Awesome.
/r/seduction01/01/19 10:18 PM
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Ture. I edited the post adding what I felt.
/r/seduction01/01/19 10:06 PM
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;)
/r/seduction01/01/19 10:02 PM
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