JLifts780 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Do you believe that there are truly some people are unattractive and cannot become attractive? It does work if you do those things. How come I was able to lose 50 lbs and maintain my weight? It’s all about how you view yourself and your environment. Reference my other comment and read “Feeling Great” by David Burns. Do the homework and work on reframing how you view yourself. Right now you’re passing everything through a negative filter in your mind so to you nothing works even though it does if you follow through.	/r/seduction	17/09/24 06:36 PM
0	Do you believe that there are truly some people are unattractive and cannot become attractive? Try harder then Do you track calories in a journal and stay below your tdee? Are you working out a minimum 4 days per week? Are you getting a salad or lettuce wrapped burger at restaurants or filling up on greasy food and junk? Are you only drinking water or are you drinking empty calories? Are you telling yourself I’m fat and can’t change or are you telling yourself I’m fat and want/need to be a normal weight? Stop looking for a pity party and do the work. Edit: You said in another comment you …	/r/seduction	17/09/24 04:42 PM
0	Do you believe that there are truly some people are unattractive and cannot become attractive? Can you list off the good qualities you possess? I’ll bet you have several that someone would be interested in. If you jump straight to “I don’t have any” then I’ll tell you right now nobody wants to hangout with someone that negative all the time. To preface I’m not a shill but please read “Feeling Good” by David Burns and do the exercises with pen and paper. It helps reframe your mind to be more positive and less negative which is what you need right now more than anything. That book was life …	/r/seduction	17/09/24 04:37 PM
1	Should I (22M) lose my virginity to a MILF (51F)? Yes. If you don't you'll be kicking yourself for years.	/r/seduction	04/05/24 11:17 PM
1	Failure in real life approaches but master at online dating Yeah I just fail at flirting and have an aversion to touch until I’m more comfortable with them. Inevitably leads to the “no spark” text because I come off too boring/platonic.	/r/seduction	03/05/24 03:27 AM
2	Failure in real life approaches but master at online dating Same man, I’m awful at the actual date but getting a match and setting up a first date is pretty easy now.	/r/seduction	03/05/24 03:20 AM
2	If she had more relationships than you It’d be nearly impossible for me to find a woman who hasn’t so yes I still would date them. Now if they’ve somehow had like 20 actual relationships in a short period of time then my senses would perk up.	/r/seduction	25/04/24 06:01 PM
9	It feels hopeless. No girl is attracted to me. Live in a small, remote town Get our of there if you want any dating success.	/r/seduction	15/04/24 08:43 PM
3	Is it creepy to go to a club for the sole purpose of hooking up? That’s been a thing at clubs since clubs became a thing	/r/seduction	15/04/24 02:30 PM
7	How do I keep calm when I "found out" the girl I was DM'ing is very attractive? By reminding yourself she’s most likely doing this with multiple other redditors	/r/seduction	12/04/24 04:47 PM
6	How do I finally drop the soft nice guy personality and become a bad boy? Join an mma gym+class and spar to toughen yourself up (hard to let shit bother you after taking a few punches to the face or rolling) At the same time learn to stand up for your morals and beliefs (meditation, therapy, journaling) What you shouldn’t do is act like a douchebag to people for the sake of being a “bad boy”.	/r/seduction	10/04/24 07:19 PM
36	How to get her mentally hooked with me ? She talks to another guy more than she talks to me. Don’t be an orbiter man, you’ll end up looking pathetic in her eyes.	/r/seduction	07/04/24 06:11 PM
6	Never compliment her looks Has not been my experience. A genuine compliment from me has basically been a sealed deal in the past. I’m sorry man but the “wow” and reel were kinda lame and I can see why it turned her off, you came across like you were timid to say the compliment you wanted to say.	/r/seduction	06/04/24 08:02 PM
27	New Study Reveals: 1 in 5 Men on Dating Apps Utilize Artificial Intelligence - Thoughts? Dating may actually end up being like that black mirror episode with the AI picking partners and timelines lmfao	/r/seduction	30/06/23 04:15 PM
2	Stop chasing and pick the women who choose you There’s always something to improve upon. If your fitness and job are in order maybe it’s your social skills, flirting , and overall charisma that needs improving. What qualities do you envision in men who date many women? It’s a self fulfilling prophecy type thing, once you have those qualities that you picture the women will come.	/r/seduction	24/07/22 02:37 PM
1	After first approach in ages I was told to kill myself. Should I continue with seduction? “I’m sorry for whatever you’re going through that that’s your response I thought you looked like a friendly person, hope you have better days” and then move on to the next.	/r/seduction	20/07/22 03:51 PM
1	[24M] A dating conundrum I cannot understand Are you making them laugh and creating sexual tension?	/r/seduction	17/07/22 02:12 AM
2	Why do I only get hit up by monstrously fat chicks on dating sites? I'm a good looking, athletic dude. Because the app wants you to pay to match with hot girls and then pay more and more and more	/r/seduction	15/07/22 09:28 PM
1	What are some skills u should learn to impress girls or make them interested in you? Communication	/r/seduction	06/07/22 02:12 PM
3	Why do women say they don't like players yet they feel attracted to guys with options and a lot of experience in bed? Never trust what woman say about dating. It’s a few things: Those guys are attractive They’ve proven to be dateable People want what they can’t have	/r/seduction	04/07/22 04:20 AM
5	What do guys mean by : I never had trouble getting women ? They’re typically very social and outgoing and don’t let the people who dislike them get under their skin	/r/seduction	30/06/22 01:07 AM
2	Stop thinking and start acting At least one will find it funny but you’ll be be banned from multiple bars and possibly arrested before you meet that one	/r/seduction	27/06/22 06:28 PM
1	What does a woman mean when she say's she just doesn't feel the connection? What is that supposed to mean? Lol	/r/seduction	21/06/22 04:01 PM
4	Are we as men working too hard to get women? You’re on the internet bub	/r/seduction	16/06/22 02:11 AM
1	She said she was on Birth Control? STD+baby or neither Idk you decide	/r/seduction	12/06/22 08:27 PM
1	Would She Still Try to cheat even after being caught ? This relates to seduction how?	/r/seduction	09/06/22 02:49 AM
2	Are Girls Attracted To Men With Long Hair? Having an athletic/muscular body is more important	/r/seduction	09/06/22 02:46 AM
6	What makes Jack Harlow attractive to women? Charisma and money Same reason Pete Davidson gets the hottest chicks	/r/seduction	09/06/22 02:44 AM
5	So I am a police officer, very pretty girl, no BS. I was told I am 8-9. Why guys are afraid to approach me and just say hi, or is it the idea of dating a cop is scary? Hitting on a police officer in uniform sounds like a one way ticket to jail. Also dating a cop just doesn’t sound fun since there’s an obvious leverage in power over the other person in the event of a fight or breakup.	/r/seduction	07/06/22 01:46 PM
1	should I move on? Give a specific date or time. If you ask if she maybe wants to do X at some arbitrary time it gives her an out. Be bold ask her “hey lets go do insert somewhere fun on Tuesday!” At that point it’s up to her to reschedule whereas the former she can just say no right away.	/r/seduction	07/06/22 01:45 AM
1	I don't understand why losing fat wouldn't be the absolutely priority for any man One day, one meal at time Do this long enough and it’s just your daily routine	/r/seduction	07/06/22 12:47 AM
2	I don't understand why losing fat wouldn't be the absolutely priority for any man Doing roids will make you look unnatural and unattractive yes but being muscular absolutely does attract women. It’s night and day for me and some friends who went from skinny to muscular.	/r/seduction	07/06/22 12:42 AM
1	I don't understand why losing fat wouldn't be the absolutely priority for any man Dude if your BMI is 18 you can put on a ton of muscle, just eat a ton of protein and pick a good program off r/Fitness	/r/seduction	07/06/22 12:40 AM
1	I don't understand why losing fat wouldn't be the absolutely priority for any man Lots of people don’t want to face reality that a good body is almost a prerequisite for dating beautiful men and women	/r/seduction	07/06/22 12:31 AM
5	Loners, where did you go to make new friends? Sand volleyball league, bowling league, bars, bjj, the gym, work, meetup.com	/r/seduction	05/06/22 10:06 PM
13	It depresses me that I do not have the ability to fuck any super model I want. How can I overcome this depression? Lmao this sub is a joke at times	/r/seduction	03/06/22 07:57 PM
3	You are enough to take action as you are right now. You don't need to be perfect or maxed out at everything, life's too short for that Thinking like this is probably why you’re failing.	/r/seduction	03/06/22 03:02 PM
4	You are enough to take action as you are right now. You don't need to be perfect or maxed out at everything, life's too short for that We gonna talk like /r/incel now?	/r/seduction	03/06/22 02:55 PM
8	You are enough to take action as you are right now. You don't need to be perfect or maxed out at everything, life's too short for that Then try not looking shit?	/r/seduction	03/06/22 01:17 PM
1	Did any of you do the whole “invest in yourself” and become non needy thing? Did it work? What’s your story? It’s easier to market a good product	/r/seduction	03/06/22 01:12 AM