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Have a good dating profile. Go on dates with multiple girls. This week is primetime too cause valentine's day is coming up so it's easier to get dates right now.
/r/seduction06/02/26 04:17 AM
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There's plenty of examples but one that comes to mind is for example the girl says "I don't think you're my type." A failed shit test would be the man saying: "But...but I am. I'm loving, caring, etc." And the man makes an attempt to qualify himself. A passed shit test would be the man saying: "Yeah you're not my type either." In a flirty/cocky way teasing her back. If there's attraction between the both of you and she tries to disqualify you: "You're bad for me", "You're not my type", "I don't …
/r/seduction05/02/26 01:03 AM
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Boyfriend Text: hey babe how was your day? Wanna FaceTime later? I know this great restaurant we should go to this week! Fuckboy Text: What're you doing? Come over. It boils down to interest. Are you interested in getting to know her? Or are you interested in hooking up? Some guys wanna be fuckboys but don't have abundance, they're afraid of losing the girl so they send the boyfriend text to keep her and end up in positions like this. If you have abundance, you don't care if she drops you cause …
/r/seduction03/02/26 12:48 AM
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Find out what his hobbies are and bring those up in conversation, that'll make him talk.
/r/seduction13/11/25 06:32 AM
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Go to therapy if you can. I wish I did in my early 20s. I was awkward, lacked confidence, tall, and girls often approached me at bars so I could relate to people thinking that I'd have a high count. Don't waste your potential while time runs by, idk how old you are but I'm guessing early 20s and that's the easiest time to date. Thankfully for me I got enough experience talking to girls when getting approached so over time I gained more confidence, but I'll be honest. If you're admitting that you…
/r/seduction10/11/25 03:29 AM
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Models helped a lot when I first started going out and dating. If you know nothing about game and haven't had a girlfriend yet, then yes it's a great starting point to get an understanding. But honestly, having friends that like to go out and talking to girls you never met, especially if they're attractive. That's the best way to learn.
/r/seduction18/04/24 04:37 AM
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Doesn't have to be a week but don't do it tomorrow. If you give yourself up too easy there'll be no challenge for her. Wait a few days and keep the texting to minimum. You want to get to know someone in person, not over a screen.
/r/seduction30/04/20 08:57 AM
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I would agree to this anytime of the year, but I feel different about this in the quarantine.
/r/seduction10/04/20 09:42 PM
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Talk to more girls
/r/seduction10/04/20 09:33 PM
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I feel like you've already been showing interest in her in commenting on her posts. But without knowing the context, I'd say that's an indirect way of showing interest. The best way to show interest is just to send her a message and say hi. However I am against too much texting. You should really keep it to a minimum until your next date. If you have been texting her and you still don't know if she's interested then you should stop and see if she starts any conversations with you within the next…
/r/seduction05/04/20 04:17 PM
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People like a challenge in life. If you work hard for something, you'll value it. If you accomplish something without any effort, it loses its value. Think of yourself as that. Throw yourself at her and she won't value you. Has she been the first to message you at all yet? It's small but it shows that she's interested in talking to you.
/r/seduction05/04/20 05:15 AM
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Snapstreaks aren't an ioi. A guy with a 20 day streak could be in the friendzone. The kiss means she's into you.
/r/seduction05/04/20 05:09 AM
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Depends on the living situation I feel. With it being college, it may be a dorm. And sharing the same room is a problem.
/r/seduction07/01/20 06:50 PM
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Cool.
/r/seduction18/06/19 05:42 PM
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I couldn't of said it any better
/r/seduction22/02/19 10:21 PM
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I like this advice
/r/seduction22/02/19 10:18 PM
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I've had the same dream like that for the past 2 nights. I know how you feel man. The dreams are the worst part because as soon as you forget about her, she comes back. They happen to me at least once every few months and they fuck me up for a couple days. It's hard to ignore them too because if psychology is correct, dreams show you want you really want in life. I think our generation has it worse than others. Back then if you broke up with someone or that girl you had a crush on didn't pan out…
/r/seduction04/01/19 05:26 PM
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Just find the best comment from the last one and get some karma
/r/seduction09/07/18 03:29 PM
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It’s mainly about if you want someone to agree to something, you ask then a question to make them say yes, then you ask the serious question next. According to the book it’s easier to get a girl to come home to you if you first ask a question you know she’ll say yes to you like, “Do you think you’re out of my league?” Then ask “will you come home with me.”
/r/seduction05/07/18 05:37 PM
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Read that like a Nike commercial
/r/seduction30/12/16 06:29 AM
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I just joke around about them like how thanks make me look like a little kid and whatever. And plus most people have gotten braces already so you can talk about them with their childhood and how it was for them.
/r/seduction15/06/15 09:55 PM
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I'm about to turn 21 and I just got them off so I've also been 20 with them on. Yes they're noticeable but now you have something to laugh about with girls and something to start conversations about. Once you accept the fact that you have them and stop hiding them with no-teeth smiles ect. Then you'll barely even notice the difference. Confidence and attitude always tops appearance.
/r/seduction13/06/15 04:11 AM
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After showing your interest and her giving you disinterest, you then stop showing your interest. Most of the time the girls I talk to pick up my personality switch towards them because then I'm less flirty and fun. And they seem to pick this up pretty quickly. And so if they have any interest at all with me, they might start to be flirty to get me to come back to that state with them because its almost as if I'm showing them 'You could've had me, but you didn't want me so it's your loss now.'
/r/seduction07/04/15 06:45 PM
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When that happens to me I usually try to make it really obvious that I know she's not interested and almost kinda be a dick about it. Like 'If you don't want to talk to me just say so' type of attitude. Then if the girl actually is interested and you give her the intention that now she's too boring and bitchy for you, and you're too good for her to be wasting your time. It flips the conversation so then she's chasing you.
/r/seduction28/03/15 05:30 AM
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Great movie. It really does show how powerful the butterfly effect is. EDIT: It's on Netflix too
/r/seduction12/03/15 04:52 PM
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Yeah I've been just letting regret motivate me lately haha
/r/seduction12/03/15 04:44 AM
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DAMN RIGHT YOURIGHT!
/r/seduction11/03/15 11:06 PM
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I wrote this post just 10 min after the girl I wanted to approach in the campus library left. The very next time I see her I'm going to, because if I wait too long I feel like it'll come off as cowardly to approach her after the 5th or even 50th time she saw me.
/r/seduction11/03/15 11:05 PM
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I know. Sometimes I just count to three and then go for it hoping the best haha. But if I wait to long, then just forget it. I'm just going to come off as needy and awkward.
/r/seduction11/03/15 11:00 PM
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No this is very true. You shouldn't give another person soo much control over your emotions. Especially some girl you've never even met. But when I don't approach, this helps to motivate me.
/r/seduction11/03/15 08:44 PM
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That is absolutely beautiful. Exactly what I'm talking about!
/r/seduction11/03/15 08:34 PM
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I love that ending!!
/r/seduction11/03/15 08:33 PM
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If you don't care about the relationship then go for it but it seems like you were friendzoned. Usually people date within less than a month of meeting each other. Asking someone out who friendzones you shows that you took too long to show your intentions for a relationship. Trust me man I've been there and the regret kills but there is a way out. You can't just suddenly be friends one day and then the next be dating, after a long term of friendship. You have to risk losing contact with her for …
/r/seduction25/02/15 11:49 PM
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For the girls that you've just started talking to and don't know if their single yet, this is the perfect time to ask in a non-awkward way. Like "soo what're you doing for Valentine's Day?"
/r/seduction10/02/15 05:00 PM
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In my opinion it's morally wrong. You could but I don't think you'll feel the best after it. You can bring up friends with benefits if you don't care thaaat much about your relationship with her. But if she's really invested I'd doubt she'd agree. Just don't lead her on and break her heart.
/r/seduction14/01/15 09:22 PM
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Across the board you're going to get "Models" by Mark Manson. He has a great section on neediness that everyone here should learn. Second one I'd suggest is "Text Game" by Michael Masters. It's mostly basic texting tips like 'don't text her back right away' or 'don't send another text if she doesn't reply in five minutes', ext. And thirdly is not a pickup book, it's a book on being outgoing and charismatic. And that is "The Charisma Myth" by Olivia Cobane. It helps in approach anxiety and makes …
/r/seduction12/01/15 05:42 PM
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I agree. I've made it work before but you almost have to throw in a winking face or lol after every msg to say exactly what you'd say in person. Because you would almost always come off as an asshole on most pushes(maybe I push it too far at times) when you can't show positive expressions while doing so. And also if you push and she txts back hours later(maybe work or phone died; who knows) then you unnecessarily question your push when it could've been good; and maybe get a negative learning ex…
/r/seduction12/01/15 11:36 AM
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Are you saying you can't approach?
/r/seduction12/01/15 07:43 AM
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Easier to remember how you got rejected on your approach last month than remembering how some seddit user did on a post you read last month.
/r/seduction12/01/15 07:39 AM
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I have this problem a lot. Here's a quote that helps me from This Article "There is an infinite amount of women in this world, more than you will ever be able to meet in a single life time, many of them are great girls and would fit as a long time partner, if that is your aim. that one girl is not special, that was only you mind-fucking yourself. you are in love with the illusion of her and not her per Se, you are addicted to that image of her you created while mentally masturbating to her, thos…
/r/seduction25/12/14 12:26 AM
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Whenever I'm stuck on an approach I always ask myself these three questions that I remember seeing on TED. What if I succeed? What are all of the possibilities that could happen between you and this girl? This is what gets you motivated to approach. What if I fail? Think realistically on this one. What's the worst possible thing that this girl would do to you in the public setting that you're on right now. Most women wouldn't downright embarrass you and make a scene. Unless she's a total b$@&! b…
/r/seduction24/12/14 08:38 PM
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In the book "Models" by Mark Manson, I remember him describing it as how a woman likes a challenge and that when you give her all of your attention at once, there's no thrill. She already won you and she didn't have to try for anything. Everyone likes a challenge and we're driven by it. It's what makes us feel accomplished once we succeed in getting what we want.
/r/seduction24/12/14 08:18 AM
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Thanks for clearing that up for me, great advice. And nice FR by the way.
/r/seduction25/03/14 03:02 AM
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she couldn't stop fidgeting Can someone explain to me why this is an IOI?
/r/seduction25/03/14 02:50 AM
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Exactly, you are only what you see yourself as.
/r/seduction25/01/14 04:49 AM
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It's that you already have a girl so you don't care what they think. Therefore you are not showing needy ness (dependence). And it shows to others that you are desirable by others which raises you perceived value.
/r/seduction08/01/14 12:37 PM
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