JMichelleK Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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3	Hopeless dude. Echoing the advice of a couple others, being in a relationship won’t make you stop looking at porn and masturbating. My husband doesn’t drink, smoke, do drugs, etc and I met him when he gave me a ride to an activity a mutual friend was hosting. Look for people in locations you would want to be with someone from. By that I mean do you like people who drink? If you don’t then don’t go to clubs looking for people. Do you like people who work out? Then look for people at the gym. I’ve never tried on…	/r/seduction	02/11/21 08:01 PM
2	Apart from paying for the services of an escort, what's a good plan of action for an average looking guy to lose his virginity? My husband was 22 when he had his first kiss and it was with me, I had my first in high school but I was his first girlfriend. He also lost his virginity to me when he was 24. I think he is attractive, but I would say in the worlds view he is average looking. I am traditionally attractive (young, thin, slightly above average height, in shape, etc.) You need to have a good personality first. I wouldn’t recommend online dating, meet people in person at school, clubs, bars, etc. because then they c…	/r/seduction	05/10/21 05:07 PM
5	Is it ever appropriate to approach girls on my college campus? As a female college student, I would maybe say approach in the cafeteria or library rather then just walking around campus. It would be more awkward to follow a girl while walking to class or even if she was interested she might be running late for work/class so she can’t talk. If she is already somewhere it puts less pressure and allows you to talk for a bit before giving your number	/r/seduction	21/08/21 02:19 AM
1	How to end a date with a kiss? I (F) went on a couple dates with this guy I really liked and at the end of the second date I asked if I could kiss him, he seemed kind of shocked that I asked but the making out that followed was amazing	/r/seduction	21/08/21 02:11 AM
1	Where to meet women if don’t drink and no online apps? I’m a female who met my husband while I was going to school through a young adult church group	/r/seduction	11/08/21 01:21 PM
1	Girls won’t meet up again after sex My main (along with others in both posts) criticism is his technique, his first dates are always and only sex. They never do any fun activities where they get to know each other like bowling, a walk in the park, skating, or even watching a movie. They have drinks and sex and that’s it. If he were to do different first dates so it doesn’t feel like a one night stand or just hooking up then he might get better odds of women coming back again. The women who are looking for sex on a first date aren’…	/r/seduction	08/08/21 12:12 PM
2	Girls won’t meet up again after sex You seem like a really great guy, so I wish you the best of luck!	/r/seduction	08/08/21 02:29 AM
5	Girls won’t meet up again after sex Yeah, I think clubs are better for having a fun night then finding a commitment. I personally met my husband when I was at school, but I think places like clubs and bars have people looking more for a one night kind of thing. I think dating apps are useful to an extent, but you have to make it clear you are looking for a relationship. I think parties are a pretty good way because it’s a way for you to meet friends or friends so you most likely already have stuff in common since you share a frien…	/r/seduction	08/08/21 02:08 AM
3	Girls won’t meet up again after sex I absolutely agree with you that he should change his tactics, I believe that is the most likely issue. OP just doesn’t think that’s the problem based on him keep making posts so I’m just trying to come up with other possibilities	/r/seduction	08/08/21 01:41 AM
9	Girls won’t meet up again after sex He made a post a couple days ago that he has deleted but he explained he invites women over to his house they have drinks and they have sex, I know some women who would be scared to say no if a guy initiated sex and I was alone with him at his house. On his post the other day I told him that his problem might be his method of sleeping with women on the first date and he claimed that wasn’t the problem so then I said he should clean his house, brush his teeth, and shower and he said that wasn’t t…	/r/seduction	08/08/21 01:16 AM
1	Why won’t they meet up again? What I’m trying to say if women are willing to have sex on a first date (at least in my country) they do not think of it as a date, they see it as hooking up or having a one night stand so they have no plans to see you again. Even when you text saying you want to do it again that’s not what they are looking for in their relationship with you. They are looking for one night of fun and then to never talk again. If you want continuous sex then you have to wait and get to know someone before having …	/r/seduction	05/08/21 09:08 PM
2	Why won’t they meet up again? I agree women love sex, but we also want to know a guy before we have sex with them. My state is conservative but I am liberal and I still wouldn’t want to have sex with someone I just met. You’re right that women have to be aware of creepy dudes who will harass and stalk them if they have sex, but women also have to be aware of getting pregnant or stds. Most women want to know a guy before having sex with them, every one of my female friends feel the same way as me on this. Some of my friends a…	/r/seduction	05/08/21 08:48 PM
2	Why won’t they meet up again? There are definitely more then just the guys who have sex on a first date and guys who have sex and then ditch. I wouldn’t want to be with either of them and I think most girls are the same way. If you have sex on a first date then women see you as that’s all you want (which it is in your case) but you should make it clear you want a friends with benefits. It’s also possible the girls agree to sex but aren’t entirely comfortable with it but since they are at your house they are scared of saying …	/r/seduction	05/08/21 08:04 PM
1	Why won’t they meet up again? As a woman if a guy wanted sex on the first date I wouldn’t be interested in going out again. I would think of it as a negative because of the high risk of std since he most likely does that with every girl, he is looking for one night stands, and he doesn’t want a relationship. Sometimes a one night stand is fine, but if a girl wants a relationship it wouldn’t be with someone she had a one night stand with	/r/seduction	05/08/21 06:22 PM
1	How MUCH Does Height Matter? Yeah it seems like everyone who claims that being short doesn’t let them get laid are probably actual buttholes and that’s the problem . As a girl I’ve dated guys a couple inches shorter and never had an issue besides personalities	/r/seduction	04/08/21 12:10 AM
6	Are height so much important for women? As a girl I’ve dated guys from 5 foot 4 inches to 6 foot 3 inches. It’s the personality that is the selling point	/r/seduction	03/08/21 01:39 PM
-1	There Is NO Such Thing as A Busy Woman False, you do not know someone’s life. There have definitely been weeks I did not have an hour to spare in the evening between work, classes, and school work I did not have time to do anything else. Should someone be able to respond to a text? Probably but even then maybe their phone broke, they forgot it at work, or they struggle with mental health and can’t find the words or mental resources to respond. Claiming women can not be busy is wrong and kind of a jerk thing to say	/r/seduction	02/08/21 01:02 PM
1	How do I break out of the nice guy vibe? There is literally no problem with being a genuine nice guy, you just have to add some sort of a personality because being nice accounts for the majority of the population. Try being funny as well, maybe making pick up lines will help people see you are flirting and not just being casually nice. But if you really are nice when girls get to know you eventually they will start to crush on you	/r/seduction	01/08/21 06:00 PM