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50/50 with your life partner isn't that rigid, it's not like with a roommate. I mean, I'm sure some couple do it that way, but it's definitely not what is suggested hahaha, but I see where your confusion comes from. If it's indeed a hard 50/50 it's probably not something you should commit to.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 04:01 PM
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Some do, some don't. Same for women. And it's always been this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 04:59 PM
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Maybe "too good" isn't the right term, but the bar is much lower on average for the single men than the single women, so it often ends up being the women who decide if they'll date or not. Doesn't mean the women are "too good", just that they set the bar higher on average.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 04:58 PM
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You're confused because you think feminists all have the same opinions. Even amongst feminists there are disagreements.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 07:20 PM
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Yeah, I don't know about the US or Europe. And it might be an age thing too, because looking at older people, grabbing a beer is a men activity and going to an art gallery is a women / queer men activity. In younger people it's much more balanced.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 12:28 AM
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Maybe they don't like you, but I have plenty of friends who are women and I love them as much as my guy friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 10:04 PM
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It's interesting how gendered these activities are in some places. Here drinking a beer with someone or going to an art gallery are activities that aren't gendered.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 09:50 PM
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especially in this subreddit? Because this subreddit is the one place these socially inept guys can vent and exchange. What does that have to do with my post? You said the problem is "their mom gave them endless amount of validation". Well for me it was my mom and my dad. Both. And I still turned out good.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 02:37 PM
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These are very rare scenarios. Sure, in those cases you're right, but that applies to almost nobody. I was well taken care of by my parents, they gave me a ton of validation, and I'm still doing great socially today.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 02:12 PM
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I can't speak for others, but LTR is working well for us. Our relationship is open Yes I am We're children No need to cheat, the relationship is open We Peter Pan together That's not true for me, I love to do the groceries, cook almost every meal, do the house maintenance, take care of the pets, etc. She does the cleaning, laundry, takes care of the plants, etc. It's pretty fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 11:33 AM
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I don't see the benefit of living together without the legal and social commitment of marriage. Many couples realize once they start living together that they're actually not a good match. It's better to find that out before than after marriage hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 06:11 PM
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Oh well, I hope it works for you. Sounds pretty sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 05:08 PM
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Then they just wouldn't be compatible and that's ok. Live your life in a way that makes you happy. No matter your choices there'll always be people you like but that just don't fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 01:19 PM
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Couldn't you just marry someone who doesn't care? It sounds depressing to stop yourself from enjoying life for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 01:15 PM
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What I meant is that for a lot of people, no matter the gender, being in jail is a lonely life despite being surrounded by people 24/7
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 03:03 AM
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Of course there are trends, but that just means some things are more common than others. There are still tons of reasons, including all those I mentioned.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 12:42 PM
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Some men are lonely because they're ugly and awkward. Some because they're toxic and sexist. Some because they're in jail. Some because of health problems. Some because their marriage is making them miserable. Some because all they do is work eat and sleep. There isn't a single reason and in fact, it's often a mix of many reasons. An ugly awkward broke guy in a small town in Idaho is probably more lonely than a similar guy in Montreal or Barcelona just because of the environment he's in.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 12:32 PM
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Stop the porn, enjoy real women, you'll have no problem orgasming.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 01:02 PM
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It’s the “letting yourself go” that’s the problem. Indeed. Just an average 50 years old woman who trains, eats healthy, doesn't smoke, etc. will be much more attractive to me than an obese 25 years old smoker.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 01:29 PM
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I don't know, I'm 36 and I'm attracted to tons of women in their 40's and 50's, so I imagine if they have a husband he's even more attracted to them. Even at that age they can still look sexy as hell, especially if they take care of themselves. Sure there's ugly older women, but there's a lot of ugly younger women too, and a ton of ugly older men hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 01:15 PM
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They say go to the gym so you're healthier, fitter and more confident, not because you're supposed to find your future partner there. It happens, but it's rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 01:52 PM
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If a woman expects that from you, I'd suggest you cut tie with her. Those are not healthy expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 08:18 PM
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You've clearly never lived in a poor neighborhood. Poor men are dating poor women all the time even if they're not tall not hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 10:40 PM
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we're supposed to have endless compassion for every minuscule problem a woman might encounter and act as their disposable servants. No buddy, we're not supposed to do that lol Please don't do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 07:53 PM
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Why do some men The answer to a question that starts with those words is pretty much always insecurity. They need the validation that they are a good person and that their preferences are the right ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 02:59 PM
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Generally when a man decides to date a tall or short or overweight or bald or whatever woman, he's not thinking "Sure she's ugly, but she has other qualities." He's legit into that kind of body and find her hot. It's not because his tastes are different than those of the average man that he's less shallow. I say that as a man who's into tall masculine women. I'm super shallow, it's just less noticeable because I'm not into the petite blonde cheerleader type.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 01:19 PM
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Maybe /u/Gold_Effective_3973 will see that and change his ways. Fingers crossed!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 02:17 AM
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Exactly. I would never date an overweight woman. It's a deal breaker for me. Nobody has shamed me for that. Why? Because I treat overweight women with the same amount of respect I give to everyone else. I wouldn't date a woman who smokes, yet nobody cares because I treat women who smoke with the same amount of respect. I would never date a woman who has doesn't want to work and prefers to be a stay at home wife, yet nobody cares because I treat women with that preference the same way I treat eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 12:17 AM
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If I'm expecting you to adapt to me, it's tribalism, but if you're expecting me to adapt to you it isn't?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 11:34 AM
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It's not tribalism to expect people who you spend time with to be able to hold a basic conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 12:20 AM
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They don't have to, nobody's forcing them to, but I can point out if they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 09:04 PM
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No, I don't care about body count, unless it's like 0 or 1000, something at an extreme.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 09:00 PM
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I don't live my life to please others so I don't mind. If she had a good time and I had a good time, what third parties think is of no importance imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 07:06 PM
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I didn't say it was a good look. I said she looked good.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 06:48 PM
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Men have sex with people they wouldn't even talk to if they didn't want to have sex with them. For real lol I've had sex with women who didn't even have basic conversation skills, small talk felt like torture. They looked great so that was enough for me. I don't think many women would have put up with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 12:21 PM
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Why would I care if people think I'm a virgin? I'm taking option A without any hesitation.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 11:24 PM
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That's a completely different thing. Don't say kinky sex isn't bonding just because it isn't for you lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 03:10 PM
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Exactly, like every sexual act. Saying kinky sex isn't bonding shows your ignorance.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 02:55 PM
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Many couples bound over kinky sex, including mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 02:53 PM
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OP said kinky sex isn't bonding. That's obviously false. It's bonding for many couples.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 02:53 PM
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Of course it's not bonding for people who don't enjoy it lmao, no sexual activity is. For couples where both people enjoy it, it can be a great bounding experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 02:45 PM
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Not to mention sex has an important function in serious relationships of bonding and intimacy and "kinky sex" doesn't really fullfill that role This sentence alone show you have absolutely no idea what you're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 02:43 PM
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Just sounds like a bad manager, it has nothing to do with gender equality lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 04:52 PM
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Egalitarian relationships aren’t impossible but they only really work when both people can walk away easily and don’t struggle to find options. Makes sense. My wife and I both had no problem in dating, and we make enough to live alone, so the relationship can easily be equal. When one partner relies on the other, it can't be equal. That being said, it's really case by case. Sometimes it's the man, sometimes it's the woman, and it applies to homosexual relationships as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 01:02 PM
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Most people won't see people as losers just because they aren't attractive. Either they don't think you're a loser, or they think you're a loser for more than just your look.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 08:59 PM
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Why do you think women would see you as a total loser?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 08:42 PM
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There's many follow-up questions. Do you have women that want to be your friend but nothing more, or women don't even want to be around you in a platonic way? Is it possible that some women are interested in you but don't think you'll be interested so they keep it for themselves? Is it possible that some women have given you signs but you just didn't notice them? Do you have success on dating apps but not in real life, or you don't have success in neither? Have you ever brought it up with your c…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 08:21 PM
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"Get out of your mom's basement and go meet women in real life" doesn't mean cold approach, it just means to stop relying on dating apps to meet women. I mean, if the apps work for you and you're happy, that's great, but usually it's something told to men tired of failing on dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 08:08 PM
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Successful relationships are the ones where one person gives 55% and the other gives 45%, but both partners try to be the one giving 55% and receiving 45%.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 12:34 PM
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True, and every single girl that loved me has spoiled me as well. When you rrully love someone, no matter your gender or sexual orientation, you'll want to spoil them. I think the difference is sone men try to spoil women they don't loce and who don't love them in order to get some female attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 12:33 PM
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I'm definitely not a chad and never had a problem going 50/50 on dates. One of these women is now my wife hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 01:24 PM
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I live in a very leftist city where feminism is very strong (I'm not in the US) and when I went on dates we always each paid for our own things. Now that I'm in a serious relationship we just alternate who pays.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 01:21 PM
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You're confused as fuck lol, straight women can't be straight, asexual and lesbians all at the same time lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 04:19 AM
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100% disagree. I had sex at 14. I had my first job at 16. I started driving at 17. Started voting at 18. Started my actual career at 24. Etc. We could pick any of these as "becoming an adult", but considering others do these things at different ages and stages of life (or sometimes never) no achievement would be a good way to determine if someone is an adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 12:45 PM
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But other relationships don't have access to the best of both worlds!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 02:11 PM
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Well those that make it work have it figured out
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 01:54 PM
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This is why it feels swinger couples have it figured it out lol, they have their loving relationship and then if they want they can have those hookup moments that mean nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 01:32 PM
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Maybe it's because I'm older but I'm surrounded by salty divorced men but then you look at it and they got married way too quickly to woman with red flag. I see it in all genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 07:32 PM
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Indeed, and that's not even a gender thing. The amount of people who date shitty people because and then complain when things go wrong is frustratingly high.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 05:56 PM
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If there's one thing a lot of us should be more selective about it's who we decide to get married to.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 05:53 PM
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Some people believe Germans are very by the book and favor efficiency over creativity, which makes them less fun to be around. None of these people would be in trouble for saying that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 12:53 PM
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What do you mean? People make assumptions about all groups of people all the time and nobody's in jail for it lmao You'd have to go pretty freaking far for the police to get involved 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 12:32 PM
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Just don't date women who use 9 inch dildos then lmao I don't, you don't have to.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 12:21 AM
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Just date women who are okay with porn if it’s so important to you. For real lol /u/N_Count_Council has the simplest solution right there, yet prefers for some reason to get angry that not all women are ok with porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 12:19 AM
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Lmao ok 🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 08:53 PM
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It's definitely part of the help offered to autistic people. You clearly have no idea what you're talking about lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 08:34 PM
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They don't need the red pills lmao There's professional help for autistic people, that's what they need if they struggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 07:17 PM
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Blue pill, red pill, black pill, it's all BS. I didn't need any pill to make it work and neither does anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 04:15 PM
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It's attractive content to unhappy losers because it makes them believe 1) it's not their fault they're unhappy and 2) if they change who they are they'll be happier. It's definitely not all bad. For some it ends up being helpful, for others it's harmful, but what's sure is influencers and platforms can make a ton of money spreading that content so the algorithm will spread it to a lot of people. Happy Christmas to you too OP!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 02:20 PM
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Exactly, so calling him a less attractive man is stupid, he's definitely up there in term of attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 12:55 PM
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Sounds like a cash grab lol But just the idea of receiving honest feedbacks from women (or men if you're into men) sounds like it could be useful to some people. I fee like most people just learn as they go, but if you struggle, for whatever reason, to get your first experiences, then it's hard to start learning and this could help get people going.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 12:53 AM
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We didn't prove your point, we showed how stupid your tastes are lmao Pete Davidson (or anyone as attractive as him) will have no problem finding women into him. That's a fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 12:46 AM
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He is 5 foot 3 with a robust jawline and decent skull measurements I think you meant 6'3 lol He also has a smile that lights up the room! But yeah, I'm with you. The fact /u/LillthOfBabylon thinks he is considered by most as ugly really shows how disconnected from reality a lot of women (and men) here are.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 09:16 PM
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I know that wasn't the point of your post but Pete Davidson is very attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 06:22 PM
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which decreases the chances of a second date Wouldn't want to date a woman who wants me to pay for the dates anyways, so it's a win win.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 02:09 PM
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Indeed. I just split the check on first date and if she's not happy then it's a sign we're not made for each other. Didn't prevent me from finding love. I only date educated women who make good money so that certainly makes it less likely they have a problem with paying.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 01:52 PM
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If he/she lied to me for a whole year I'm done with him/her. Gender doesn't matter here for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 02:35 AM
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I don't understand what this has to do with my answer. In poor couples, they wouldn't be better off with the woman staying home couponing because you can't live off of one low income alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 09:11 PM
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A significant amount of the bottom socioeconomic half of people would be significantly better off if the woman stayed home and clipped coupons, and the husband worked. Poor people can't afford to live off of one salary anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 08:30 PM
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Exactly!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 02:27 AM
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I'm a guy. I'm nice to other people. I get laid no problem. If you're nice to other people and can't get laid, I guarantee you being nice isn't the issue lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 01:44 AM
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That's literally what you want to happen lol "Could we help this woman who struggles to support her child? Sure! But better take her kid away instead and take care of it ourselves."
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 10:28 PM
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Revoking the costudy of all poor parents, that's a pretty wild take lmao This sub really has all kinds of people
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 10:22 PM
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Exactly. Plus you can have a ton of fun without putting your penis in a vagina.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 08:10 PM
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If both parents are ok with it, I see no problem with the father surrendering his rights and obligations. The problem comes when there's a disagreement. If you're just trying to get out of paying support but the mother wants that support then too bad, you shouldn't have impregnated her. I think it's also a problem if a woman becomes pregnant and decides to keep the baby but never tells the father. I find it pretty wild that a woman can have a man's child and is allowed to not inform him.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 07:59 PM
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I hate the whole love languages thing. I think it's important to show love in different ways. You clearly don't know what love languages are if you think it prevents people from showing love in different ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 05:16 PM
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Putting effort in is identifying what's preventing you from finding a partner and then working on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 11:57 PM
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I just answered now, couldn't answer earlier. I'm 35 now. I was single for a while in my 20's, like for years lol, but I was pretty busy. Then I decided to work on myself and start dating, I got a lot of partners, some were just flings, some I dated more seriously, and then 5 years ago I started dating who is now my wife. I probably met 25-30 girls in that span. I used online dating, OKCupid mainly. I also used the Meetup app and Fetlife website to find events around me and meet people that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 11:50 PM
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So you think that men don't get a girlfriend because they use loose clothes and don't meet people? For me my look and the fact that I didn't put myself out there were the main reasons yes. People (men and women) have to study themselves a bit if they don't know why they're single, there's so many potential reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 11:33 PM
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For me putting effort in meant wearing clothes that fit me better instead of just XL t-shirts and doing activities that'd allow me to meet a lot of new people instead of just hanging out with the same 12-15 people. Of course it'll depend on the individual. Some people need to work on their social skills. Some people on their weight. Some people need to get over an addiction like alcohol or video games.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 11:22 PM
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There aren't many men who couldn't find a partner if they put the effort in. Sure, when I wasn't putting any effort in, I stayed single for years, but when I actually tried and put myself out there, even as someone who isn't "wow" looking, I met many potential partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 06:38 PM
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Well, many do because women would rather be single than pick a guy who they're not physically attracted to. Indeed, and it's not just physical attraction, it's overall attraction. There's less pressure now on women to get married and start a family, so those who are happier single than in a relationship with someone they're not attracted to will just stay single. Thankfully it's not that difficult for most men to become attractive to women. If you're kind, have your shit together and are healthy…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 06:03 PM
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1kg = 2.2 pounds.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 03:23 PM
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Yes, I click really well with women doing yoga, the ones that aren't too spiritual and "out there", it has lead to some great moments both at the studio and outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 12:16 AM
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As a man who does yoga and am often the only man, I never got that vibe. I'm either ignored or people are happy that a man joined in. Of course I never flirt in the yoga room lol, I just make connections and later on if I want to make a move I do it outside yoga sessions.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 12:44 PM
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A single man with the right mindset can be at peace. Single doesn't mean nobody loves you lmao Love is a need for almost everyone, but it doesn't have to come from someone you're in a romantic relationship with. It can just be your friends for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 03:58 PM
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after she's put all her fun years behind her I don't know any good men who would talk like that about women. If you think there's an age where women stop having fun and being fun, then you either don't spend enough time with women or aren't a good man. If you have different values than a woman, that's ok, don't date her, but don't act like she's expired or damaged good, that's not how humans work.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 11:56 AM
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100% agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 09:51 PM
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Indeed. Being an amazing person will help you find a partner, but it won't guarantee you a great partner right away, the same way it'll help you get a job but won't guarantee you a great one. Patience is important, and you have to learn to appreciate the process. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 08:22 PM
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Maybe, but who cares, if you're not into trauma dumping people, don't date them. As OP showed in his examples, these people are usually pretty forward with their needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 01:01 AM
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Hahaha no, no need for a medal no thank you. I'm just explaining that it's possible, you can have your life together, date a man or woman who has their life together too, and have together a great sex life!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 04:50 PM
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Some women would prefer not to be in a LTR with a man who has a tiny or huge penis, so I can understand why there could be a ''Boyfriend size'' zone for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 04:33 PM
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I managed to become a good lover without becoming a dysfunctional toxic person, I don't really see why it wouldn't be possible for other people too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 04:30 PM
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Just be friend with those you find interesting. Most men aren't interesting (to me) either but that's ok, I become friend with the men and women who I find interesting and who find me interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 11:44 AM
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I agree with that yes. I disagree that being a good guy is detrimental to dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 11:20 AM
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So being a "good guy" isn't the problem then.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 10:59 AM
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So being a "good guy" isn't the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 10:59 AM
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I'm what most would consider a "good guy". In school I was a starter on the basketball team and football team, in class I had good grade, I didn't drink, didn't do drugs, didn't get in trouble, I was always home by 11pm, I was friend with everyone, I was an introvert without being shy. Despite that I never had a problem attracting girls, and the girls who weren't interested in me were usually the ones making the "bad decisions", like partying, smoking weed, having many sexual partners, etc. I at…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 07:33 PM
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Oh no, I'm just adding context, but of course there are people who wanted kids who couldn't, just like now. Not one single thing can explain those percentages. you can't seriously know much at all about history to have this attitude about it Take it easy red pilled man, we're just having a discussion 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 07:05 PM
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which men cannot do today I can. Many others can. Sorry you can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 06:25 PM
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It was a lot easier back then for a man to decided he'd live a childfree life than for a woman. Now women and men can make that choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 05:49 PM
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Older people, do you remember your n-count? I certainly don't remember how many women I slept with in my 20's. I feel at a certain age it completely stops being relevant because it's so far back and doesn't impact your life anymore, like the grades you had in school or the number of games you won in whatever sports you played.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 11:04 AM
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You still weren't blindsided by the divorce. You two have had disagreement, you never solved it so over time it killed your marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 10:54 AM
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I mean, yeah, we work because of the threat to our well being of having no money. In a different world people might not consider income to be that important but in our world it's very important. I wouldn't date a broke woman because it'd impact my well being.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 10:50 AM
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many allow something like income to be one of the biggest factors in who they choose to love I mean, finances is one of the main cause for divorce. I'm a man but I wouldn't be with my partner if she didn't make much money or managed her money poorly. It's easy to understand why it's a criteria for most adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 08:35 PM
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When I was younger I did things I didn't like because I felt I needed to, otherwise I wasn't a good partner. Now that I'm older I know that it's actually counterproductive to do that, it doesn't make your sex life better, it makes it worse. So I'm a much better sexual partner despite not doing the things I don't like but that I did before. It leads to a healthier, richer sexual life.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 04:13 AM
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Or maybe she's just more mature and understands now that doing things you don't like in bed is rarely the way to go for a rich and fulfilling sex life. If your sex life is about both of you doing things you don't like to make eachothers happy, it's not going to be very good. If indeed you focus on finding all the things you both enjoy doing and exploring these you'll have an incredible sex life! Took me a while to learn this, and I'm sure it's true for many other men and women out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 03:58 AM
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Lots of women (and men) have good sex with men who don't fit all these criteria.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 04:18 PM
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TRP isn't about treating women as equals, so yeah, it's normal that they have different standards for men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 11:04 PM
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You spend an average of $165 per date? 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 11:28 PM
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The victory is when a woman that makes good money decides to be in a relationship with you. I wouldn't trade that for a sugar mommy that would most likely be a lot less attractive and wouldn't love me the same way my partner does.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 08:16 PM
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Oh, so /u/HighlightDowntown966's point is that women can become millionaires if they find a sucker like him to give them money hahaha, I see
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 08:02 PM
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Why the fuck are you spending $350k on dating 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 07:17 PM
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Most women don’t do this That's ok, you don't need to date most women. If it's something you care about (I do) then it's not that hard to find one that'll compliment you like a gay bro would. ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 11:38 PM
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No reason to stay in a bad relationship my man, you deserve better. You'll be back on your feet quickly I'm sure!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 10:33 PM
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They compliment each other often, praise each other, and love every inch of the male body. If your girlfriend isn't doing that with you, get yourself a new one lol, it feels incredible to have women compliment you this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 09:59 PM
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Yeah. If you don't want sex as much as I do we might as well just be friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 09:47 PM
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She has to be able to communicate. I don't blame people who can't communicate clearly, sometimes it's caused by trauma or just lack of experience, but at my age it's a deal-breaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 06:57 PM
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Can you imagine the insane levels of outrage? There wouldn't be much outrage, just people making fun of these men and lot's of trolling like "SlowEffective8146's mom body count is 8146, that's why he chose that username".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 11:43 AM
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I mean, yeah, if she's into you, you can just go for a walk with her and she'll have an amazing time, it's not rocket science lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 11:34 AM
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If these are the only women who want to date you then that's on you lol, don't blame them
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 10:40 PM
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If everyone who's bisexual, no matter their gender, were dating men and only men, do you think it'd make the dating world better?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 06:09 PM
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Unless you live in a tiny village where there's no other women your age, then no. There are enough women out there that'll be interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 05:00 PM
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If your N count is higher than your age divided by 1.25 but lower than your height in inches minus the number of LTR you had then I'll date you. Otherwise nah, not wasting my time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 04:43 PM
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Oh no, it has nothing to do with who the ruling class is, they could be white men, Asian women, aliens, it doesn't matter here. What's clear is the hate between people who struggle (women and incels in this case) are because the ruling class manipulate them to hate eachothers and they fall for it. If instead they banded together and tried to change things, it'd fix everyone's problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 06:57 PM
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Because in a society where people aren't overworked and tricked into hating eachothers by the super rich they'd have no problem getting a date. If we redistribute wealth, people will have time to work on themselves, relax, socialize, etc. and it'll be easier for everyone to find a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 06:46 PM
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It's rich men that control the world. They control women and they control other men. Idiots like red pillers (but tons of other people too) are manipulated into hating others who are also victims like themselves instead of hating the very rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 06:14 PM
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I never said you're a man. No matter your gender, if you date a woman and you find her hard to please because you can't yell at her you have a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 01:21 AM
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This makes her not easy to please If you find a girl hard to please because she doesn't want to be yelled at, you have a problem my friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 01:17 AM
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What? It's not hard to please someone who asks you not to yell at them lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 12:52 AM
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/u/LeanderGrant clearly doesn't have a successful long-term relationship and that's why they're at the point of playing games to try to make things work with someone for once. I hope they find a good match and realise that with the right person, you don't want that kind of thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 12:29 AM
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If you love your partner and you have good communication that's not a problem at all. You talk to eachothers about what you want, what makes you happy, what you're thankful for. If you have to play hard to please for your partner to be invested in your happiness, you got the wrong partner my friend hahaha Good luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 12:25 AM
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hard to please Why lol My relationship with my partner works so well because even the little thing we do for eachothers make us really happy. Once you're in a real, long-term relationship, you'll realize that not every day together can be filled with love and affection. Sometimes the best thing you can do (for whatever reason), is to make them a grilled cheese, give them a kiss on the forehead and tell them you love them with all your heart. Enjoy the small things everyone, they're as important …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 11:02 PM
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If I end up single again and can only get average/below average men, I'll just stay single lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 09:26 PM
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Ok? And? My point still stands. If you have a kid, take care of it no matter what. People love to blame single parents but you never hear people blame mothers and fathers who abandoned their kid because they didn't want it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 01:46 PM
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You don't give a shit about my preference, but as I have said a lot of people do. No we don't lol Just move on with your life bro, your preferences are 100% valid, you don't need to keep seeking validation for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 02:54 AM
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for some reason It's called compersion and it's a wonderful thing. ♡
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 08:25 PM
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This sub 🤣🤣🤣 I'm all against getting married. My parents never got married and had a wonderful relationship. My partner and I aren't married, never will, and we're extremely happy together. I think most people get married because they think they have to and wouldn't get married otherwise. Having said that, getting married to the man or woman you love isn't prostitution.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 03:48 PM
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I'm happy I got to live different parts of my life with different women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 05:20 PM
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talking about the positive things done invalidates said acts No it doesn't lmao If I save someone's life and then talk about it with other people, it doesn't invalidate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 09:36 PM
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I don't know, must men I know who are in a relationship didn't hit on that many women. What determines who has success with women and who doesn't is who's low value and who isn't lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 08:35 PM
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Or could it be that male loneliness and social decline make them more likely to fall for misinformation?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 09:09 PM
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What about rabies? That sounds worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 07:49 PM
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As a teacher I can tell you that a lot are but most aren't. I still think too much are, but I understand why it happens. I think after school activities like joining a sport team, a music band or doing theater for example can make a big difference in these kids' lives and that's why I encourage them to do it. Those that come to school, do their classes and go back home after are missing out and I find this unfortunate.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 10:55 AM
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We both throw ideas and decide together what we want to do. If it's a Friday or Saturday we'll probably go to a party or something like that while on other days we'll just go to the restaurant or to the movie.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 09:12 PM
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many men hate it Sounds like they should communicate that to their partner and find a way to celebrate it in a way that makes both happy. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 06:32 PM
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I don't understand what you mean by "women get Valentine's day"? On Valentine's Day we just go on a date together, my girlfriend and I, that we'll both enjoy, and then we go home and have sex, sex that we also both enjoy. It's not like my girlfriend likes the date and the sex while I'm miserable the whole night lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 05:04 PM
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I'd prefer a completely flat ass than a super fat disgusting one.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 05:20 PM
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Essentially, when a woman says she is single, she just means that she isn’t in a committed, exclusive relationship. However, she may be having casual sex. I mean, yeah, some women (and some men) who are single have casual sex, that doesn't mean they're not single. Sometimes you just don't have any stable romantic and/or sexual relationships, you just have sex here and there, but it's nothing regular or serious, so you're single. Some attractive women are single and aren't having any casual sex w…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 10:08 AM
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Are you in an abusive relationship and need help to leave or there's another reason you're still with him?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 07:18 PM
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A month ago you dumped your boyfriend for wanting kids and now you're dumping your new boyfriend (or the same one?) because you don't like sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 07:15 PM
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Older single women would have no problem finding a partner, but since most single men their age are walking disasters they have no interest in them, which makes perfect sense. I was happily single for 5 years before meeting my current partner with whom I live now, and I have no regret. Better single than with a bad partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 12:27 PM
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If you're in your 30's or 40's and happy single, it'll take a lot to convince you to give that up, no matter your gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 04:47 PM
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Then it's my brother that's the real problem here and I'd let his partner know.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 10:03 PM
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I don't have a brother but if I found out my partner fucked my brother I'd cut tie with them both lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 07:47 PM
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By shitty personallity I mean boring people nobody wants to be around. Frat guys can be assholes but often have no problem finding people with similar values to hangout with because they're fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 08:43 PM
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Another man who thinks the only thing making someone attractive is their look lol Most men with shitty personality think they can't get women because of their look, but that's usually only a small part of the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 07:55 PM
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I hate to be cold approached when I'm just going on with my life and I'm a man lol, so I imagine it must be even worse for women. If I want to meet new people I'll go places where people are down for that, not the fucking bus stop or grocery store.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 12:03 PM
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Sometimes I'm not horny, then my girlfriend starts teasing me, touching me, kissing me and I get turned on, it's perfectly normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 05:46 PM
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unrealistic body standards It's not about unrealistic setting body standards, it's about setting realistic habits standards. Do regular physical activity, eat healthy, don't smoke, clean your clothes and bedsheets, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 01:26 PM
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The flair was discussion when I made my comment. Blame OP, not me. My comment got upvoted and if I delete it and repost it it won't have them and won't be visible because of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 03:14 PM
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My theory is that unsuccessful men like to see women humiliated. Nornal straight men who are struggling to get laid work on themselves, go out more to meet more women, etc. and eventually get there. Unfortunately some men just don't want to put in the effort and just get angry at women instead, blaming them for their shortcomings.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 12:51 PM
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Depends where you live. Good luck dating as a lesbian in places where homosexuality is frowned uppon, or worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 10:34 PM
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I'm 32 and lots of people around my age, men and women, have hit the wall lol On the other hand, some (men and women again) look even better than 10 years ago and are the happiest they've ever been.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 10:32 PM
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why is vomit gross? it just is? Would you kiss a girl that has puked in the past? Sounds pretty gross to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 10:51 AM
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But if a bunch of feminists aim to and successfully manage to turn Bob's wife against him, how is not their fault then? Because she couldn't be turned against him that easily if he wasn't a pos lol Like if someone tried to turn my partner against me, they'd fail miserably, because they have nothing to build their arguments on.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 03:39 PM
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I'm pretty much sure you know a guy on your city that's big and badass yet lots of people think he's a good man. Yes, and when he sees a tall fit man like me, he doesn't think "I could beat him up!" Only a dangerous man or an insecure man would have these kinds of thoughts.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 10:38 PM
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Bro, of course people aren't going to say to your face what they think if they know you beat people up. You'd do the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 10:12 PM
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Of course his neighbors will say he's chill in front of him, they're worried he'll beat them up. I'd be curious what they say when he's not around.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 04:34 PM
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/u/FlyV89 thinks of beating up people that make him insecure. He wouldn't think of beating up a regular short ugly dude because he doesn't feel threatened, but a tall dude yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 12:20 PM
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It's funny because I'm 6'4 and when I meet someone around my height or taller I'm always happy. Makes me feel like I stand out less lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 12:19 PM
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I understand why having sex with a virgin is attractive, but after having sex with 3 virgins and many more experienced women, I'll say virgins aren't for me. Not only aren't they good at pleasing you, which is normal, but they also don't really know what they like. I'll leave the virgins to more patient men than me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 12:14 PM
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Obviously not. Whoever's body it is in get to choose.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 12:27 AM
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If you don't know what you can bring to the table and why someone else would want to that you, you'll need to figure that out first lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 12:25 AM
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Exactly! Maybe they'll date, maybe they'll just be friends, maybe they won't click, either way it's not up to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 02:40 PM
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Not really. I introduce them to eachothers but I don't make any recommandations.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 02:28 PM
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A backup guy is cheating. How? If my girlfriend left me tomorrow I have backup girls to go to, but that doesn't make me a cheater lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 11:41 PM
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Yes, women can go sexless. It's not because you have a lot of options that you're actually interested in those options lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 05:04 PM
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Lots of couples have a very active sex life in their 50's, 60's, 70's, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 12:12 PM
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My partner and I have an amazing sex life, very active with lots of passion and some kinks here and there we experiment with. It only makes our relationship stronger. Where there could be a problem is if sex if what your relationship is built on. Then yes, it won't last, but at least you'll have fun for a while lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 12:11 PM
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The problem is you can be scared of anything. Yes, we all have different fears. This is one of mine. Meanwhile some people aren't scared of that but are scared of spiders lol We're all different, who knew?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 07:31 PM
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I'm a bisexual man and it's honestly scary to turn down men sometimes. Sure, it's a minority of men that'll react badly, but it's still scary. It's the same reason I make sure cars stop before crossing the street even if I have right of way. Most cars stop, but it only takes one to fuck me up.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 07:23 PM
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I wish I knew lol I'm looking for bi men to have threesome with us but they're hard to find.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 05:29 PM
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Childfree Attractive Fit and active (so she's able to workout and be active with me) With a nerdy side (so she's down to play D&D and all my board games with me) Financially responsible Accepting of my bisexuality and my desire to have other sexual partners Wants to stay in the city where we live (my career and social life is here, I have no interest in leaving) Is ok with having a dog No addiction (alcohol, drugs, cigarettes, etc.) Has a schedule that somehow works with mine (ex: doen't work ni…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 05:22 PM
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I'm in a relationship now, but the reason I was single wasn't that women were too picky, it was that I was picky lol Eventually I found someone who fit what I was looking for but I had to be patient.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 05:04 PM
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It's important to put effort into building relationships, and not just romantic ones. Just make sure you're not the only one putting efforts. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 03:18 PM
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PPD isn't "men" vs "women", it's "LV men" vs "everyone else".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 11:31 PM
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You're literally trying to justify the injustifiable. There's nothing wrong when it's done between consenting adults. I like to be dominated, biten, scratched, etc. by my girl, and she likes to do it, so why would it bother you?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 02:39 PM
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Sometimes you know someone would make a great partner but they're just not the right person for you so there's no point starting a relationship you know won't last.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 08:09 PM
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Sure, as long as you're surrounded by people you love it doesn't matter if you have sex with them or share your blood with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 08:24 PM
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Yeah, or just without dating anyone at all really.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 07:45 PM
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Now that I'm successful with women, I would say it's a nice boost to my happiness yes. It just feels nice to be able to explore your kinks with girls you find incredibly attractive, and it feels good to be sexually satisfied, and it's a nice boost to your confidence which has an impact on other parts of your life. The romantic love aspect is also great, it allows you to have a life partner to build a life with. I'd still be happy without it as I have a rich social life and don't need a successfu…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 07:42 PM
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Never had a problem with that on my end. Must be cultural.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 10:10 AM
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Just split expenses 50/50 with women and you won't attract gold diggers lol That's what I do and girls in there for free stuff don't stick around for long.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 09:55 PM
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Avoid friendships at all costs (As an adult there aren't really potential friends to begin with). Half of my good friends are people I met in my 30's.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 11:24 AM
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Women’s value is 90% her looks Lol, I guess you should just print a picture of a cute girl and call her your girlfriend then. It's probably the only way you'll get in a relationship anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 06:10 PM
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Shouldn't you go see a gynecologist once in a while?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 12:48 AM
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Because some stupid women will fake for decades with their man and wonder why he's not getting better lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 09:21 PM
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I wasn't interested in dating when I was single, I was happy and focusing on other things, but then I met my partner, we bécane friends and eventually started dating. Often when you're happy single, you're not really open to dating, but the right person might make you change your mind hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 03:10 PM
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I feel like women cheer eachothers up so much more than men do. We (men) could gain by complimenting and encouraging eachothers the same way women do with other women around them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 09:59 PM
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I agree that chill pill is great for most men, it's pretty much what I do and I've had very positive results. Unfortunately it won't work for low value men and that's why they end up in the red pill community. These men cannot go with the flow because they're not attractive at all, and I'm not just talking physically, so they have to either work on improving themselves or learn to lie and manipulate women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 12:13 PM
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Even now, there is this 27yo girl at work who I've been crushing on for months who has apparently been single for the entire year that I've known her. I think, L, you could have my love... You could surely have SOMEONE's love who is bigger and richer than me... Are you really going to gamble all that away? She'll definitely be happier single than with a guy that makes this kind of posts on Reddit lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 12:12 PM
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Yeah, it's a lot easier to find a boyfriend/girlfriend than to make many good friends. It's also a lot easier to find a boyfriend/girlfriend if you have a healthy social life.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 07:40 PM
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You people will say this and then complain about how the world perceives you. Lol bro, I have no problem getting laid and people have a great opinion of me. I wear clean clothes that fits me well, I don't need to get the latest overpriced fashion bullshit to look good. Maybe you do, but I don't hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 10:54 AM
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a decent budget set aside for the latest seasons designs 🤣🤣 When you're good looking you don't need to be scammed by fashion companies telling you the clothes you bought last year aren't good enough anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 10:10 AM
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My girlfriend likes to be dominated but not degraded. She loves to feel a big strong man that she loves dominate her, it makes her feel loved and safe. I think it's pretty common for people to want to be dominated sometimes. It's the case for me too. I prefer to dom, but to bed dommed once in a while is fun and really different.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 11:24 AM
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Asexual This isn't a red flag, the same way someone being homosexual or heterosexual isn't a red flag. You just need to match with someone that fits your preference. If you're asexual, finding someone else who's asexual is great! If you have a low libido, having an asexual partner might actually be comforting. It all depends on the individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 01:30 AM
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I'm not even attractive or interesting and I don't struggle lol If you have social skills and look at least ok you won't struggle at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 12:39 AM
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But have you ever turned it down because you didn’t feel like it was worth your time and/or effort? Yes, and I get your point. It's not something I want as much as before.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 05:24 PM
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Some men just want a life partner to love, live with, and have kids with. In that case they'll focus on finding that instead of casual sex. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 05:15 PM
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I've had a lot of casual sex and I'm not tired of it, I don't feel like it gets old. Sure, sex with my partner is much better, but sometimes it's fun to just have a third person for a threesome with no strings attach or get a handjob from a friend just because it's fun. Some men will do it and be over it, some men will always want it and some men won't care about it at all. Everyone's different, there isn't one rule for all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 05:13 PM
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You already decided two months ago you'd dump him but waiting until after your birthday in case you could get a gift or a free date out of it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 01:33 PM
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men are both (1) putting low effort in dating profiles and marriage and stuff but also (2) desperate and sexually frustrated A lot of people (men and women) don't seem to make any effort making themselves good potential partners. They're fat, broke, have no friends and wonder why nobody want to date them. Desperate in the sense that if they get one bit of attention from the opposite sex, they'll stick to that person like a leech. Even after being told that the other person isn't interested or ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 12:21 PM
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but nobody has the time to play them Nobody makes time to play them. It's a choice for most people. They find time to watch Netflix but not time to practice boxing? It's a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 03:51 PM
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Society used to address this by allowing young men to form a brotherhood and engage in aggressive but ultimately harmless activities You mean like American Football, the most popular sport in America, hockey, one of the most popular sport in North America and rugby, one of the most popular sport in Europe? Or maybe you mean combat sports like boxing, wresling, mean, karate, judo, etc. which are very popular everywhere on Earth?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 03:17 PM
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Easy? No. Took me until my mid-20's to really come out of my shell and build a good social life. Sometimes I still have periods where I isolate myself and need to make efforts to go back out there, but it's worth it, give it a try. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 11:44 AM
1

Incels: "Average men can't get laid" Average men: "We're getting laid..." Incels: "SHUT UP CHADS!"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 11:41 AM
1

What percentage of men are "average men"?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 11:39 AM
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If you're an average dude like me, the best you can do is to be outgoing, have a healthy social life, and then as you meet women and they get to know you, you'll get dates and such. Dating apps and such are worth a try, but it shouldn't be the only way you try to meet women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 11:37 AM
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Oh no, boobs! 😱
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 10:52 AM
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Men flirt with taken girls all the time lol, it's definitely not a turn off for most.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 02:29 AM
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Is it? I feel they're the only ones that care about me. When I wanted affordable education, it's the left that had my back while the right was against it. When I wanted a vasectomy despite young and childless, it's the left that had my back and the right that was against it. When I came out as bisexual, it's the left that had my back and the right that was against it. Now that I want affordable housing, it's the left that has my back while the right is against it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 01:32 AM
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"Every man can become a 10/10 except those that can't." -/u/RespiratoryClinician A real genius lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 07:42 PM
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If you take a normal guy who works out a lot and makes enough money is good with social stuff but isn't overbearing or over masculine he will do worse than the guy who doesn't have all that but can still master acting like a jackass. Depends what kind of girl you want lol I'm sure some drug dealers pull more women than I do, but they're definitely not the kind of women I want around me anyways. I get all the girls I need without that "alpha killer instict" that you talk about because I'm not int…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 10:32 PM
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While that sounds nice, that's contrary to women's behavior. Women don't view men's sexuality with value Some women love sex too. A lot of women have sex with me just because it's fun and feels good. When I'm licking her pussy or I'm taking her from behind, she's definitely valuing my sexuality lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 05:45 PM
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She had sex with someone else while they weren't exclusive but once they became exclusive she stopped? If so, then I'd be totally fine with that. That's usually what I do too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 01:10 PM
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it sounds like the virgins u dated just werent compatible Yes, that's exactly my point lol It's much easier to figure out if you're a good match when you both have experience then when one of you is a virgin. Date virgins if you want, I'm not telling you not to, but I won't. I enjoyed the 3 I had but in the end I prefer more experienced woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 01:59 AM
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ive known what i was and wasnt into sexually before i ever had sex Good for you man, but most of us discovered it though experience. The girls I thought I was compatible with 15 years ago are definitely not the girls I'd want to date now. As I said, it's perfectly fine if you want to date virgins, but I gave it a try 3 times and it never worked for me so I'm done with it. I want a woman who has at least some experience because she's more likely to know what works for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 01:48 AM
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I've dated three virgins. I took their virginity and all. It never lead to anything serious because inexperienced women don't know what they like, what they're looking for, etc. I don't plan on ever dating a virgin again. It's not for me. I want a girl with at least some experience and who can tell me what she's into and what she's looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 01:42 AM
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I don't believe you shrug Alright lol Maybe I was just lucky. Maybe being 6'4 and fit helps keep them away. Maybe I just picked right. Let me guess, my friends "asked for it" too? They didn't ask for it. They just picked wrong lol It happens, we all make mistakes, don't beat yourself over it. Just ask yourself what you can do to avoid making the same mistake. ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 11:15 AM
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Amber Heard is NOT an anomaly, she's a fucking archetype every man has dated more than once. My n-count is over 30, I've dated tons of women, even lived with a few, and I never had one be abusive with me. At some point you need to look at yourself in the mirror and ask yourself why you always end up with abusive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 10:47 AM
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Yep, those men deeply want a woman in their life but since they're not able to get one they decide to insult them in different ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 09:41 PM
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masturbating to porn is akin to cheating if you already have a partner Cheating is whatever your partner and you decide is cheating, there isn't a set of rules that applies to everyone. Some couples will consider porn a form of cheating, some won't, as long as your partner and you agree, it's all good. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 02:38 PM
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Exactly. /u/edjohn88 is super confused if he thinks "don't shit where you eat" means not having sex with a girl because she goes to the same gym as you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 07:19 PM
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Tons of couple don't get married but have kids anyways. My parents are an example.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 04:43 PM
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I think he means that not having sex isn't always a problem, but it's the reasons why you don't have sex that can be problematic. If both partners have decreasing libido with age and they're ok not having sex, opting for other ways to give eachothers affection like kisses, cuddles and massages, then there's nothing wrong with it. If they're not having sex because only one partner wants sex for example, than that's a problem and needs to be fixed or the relationship will sink.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 06:01 PM
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You're a terrible bullshitter lol You need to be more subtle about it if you want people to belive your lies
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 12:27 AM
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and there is nothing worse than a spineless man in my mind I can think of thousands of things lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 04:58 PM
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Yes, but I'd have to be sure there's no margin for error. Imagine losing your partner because some "expert" didn't interpret the results properly.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 11:35 PM
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Women can't properly bond because of hormonal BC Maybe leave your house a bit and you'll meet tons of women on BC who have no problem bonding properly with their partner. I'm against BC and I know it has tons of negative effects, but making a comment like that boxing all women taling BC together is extremely ignorant. You're showing your colors with this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 03:49 PM
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The point was to say during that time is when people started having less sex because women are actively not looking for it. Even if they were having more sex they wouldn't get pregnant, that's the point of birth controls.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 03:41 PM
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Birth control lowers birthrate you say? How surprising lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 03:11 PM
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I didn't say everyone could get Tinder matches. I just said some of us are getting Tinder matches so there's not reason to get rid of it. If you can't get matches, try something else.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 12:06 AM
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Just like your average 30 years old caucasian dude
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 11:41 PM
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I'm in a relationship now, but when I was dating I was getting enough match to go on a nice date every weekend. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 11:37 PM
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There are still a lot of us that get matches. If you don't get matches it doesn't mean we should all stop using it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 11:25 PM
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Threesome time!!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 07:15 PM
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Would you still date your SO if they took really good voice acting classes and then spoke like the opposite gender for the rest of their lives? No, that'd be a sign something isn't going right up there and I'd strongly encourage her to get therapy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 06:58 PM
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Interesting formula. So my body count became high in my mid-20's, and I imagine it'll get low again one day when I'm really old.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 12:32 PM
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The Red Pill community has two kind of people: Losers and people making money taking advantage of losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 06:00 PM
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No I mean, I don't even see the button, so I can't downvote you even if I don't recognize you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 06:14 PM
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There's no downvote button on PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 06:11 PM
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Yeah, /u/TatePilled is ignoring my comment because he knows honest communication will limit his options hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 12:13 PM
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Why not talk about it? You tell eachothers what you're looking for and what are your expectations. It's not surprising that if you both make blind assumptions that you'll end up having a conflict eventually. Communication is important, it'll save you headaches. ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 11:51 AM
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Generally if I pick up a girl and shag her, and don't have a conversation about what we are, why wouldn't the automatic assumption be FWBs given that women enjoy sex as much as men? Because it's stupid to assume she wants to be FWB with you. Maybe she has no interest in ever seeing you again for example, so by assuming she wants to be FWB with you without discussing the subject with her you're just setting yourself up to be disappointed.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 11:35 AM
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Always say yes sexually I completely disagree. Sex is fun when both people are enjoying themselves, so it's important to communicate what you like and dislike. My girlfriend and I have an incredible sex life because we know how to drive eachothers crazy. This came with good honest communication. Of course, if there's something your partner is into and you're on the fence about, it can be good to make an effort to say yes and try it, but always be honest, it's important and it'll make for a bette…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 12:23 AM
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Guess I'm just surrounded by the fun open minded ones then ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 03:50 PM
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Tons of people have an abortion despite being with the partner they're happy with and will spend the rest of their life with. Maybe it's because they're not ready to have a kid yet, or because they already have enough kids, or because they're childfree and don't want kids, etc. Your post only talks about one of the many reasons to get an abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 03:45 PM
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Oh no, the hetero reddit women won't date me, what will I do lmao Don't worry about me man, I have no problem getting laid ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 01:51 PM
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Around my age, funny, athletic but with a geeky side, college educated and usually working in more social jobs (educator, nurse, etc.), atheist, middle class, not sure what else to add.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 01:25 PM
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I'm a bisexual man and women aren't bothered by it. In fact, they find it super hot to see me kiss another man. I'm a millenial living in Canada, women might not be so open to it if you live in a more conservative country or are part of an older generation.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 12:36 PM
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I think all pills are dumb but I'm all for the Red Pill community encouraging incels to be more active.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 11:52 AM
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Everyone should do regular physical activity.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 02:36 AM
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Oh yeah, for sure, physical attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 07:03 PM
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What do you mean already? We didn't know eachtohers, we just talked at the gym and liked eachother as we chatted yes, that's how things work lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 06:20 PM
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You likely ran into a guy who knew exactly how to pursue you She's a woman lol, I'm a man. She just talked to me one day and then we became gym buddies, after a while I asked her for lunch and later we were dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 06:02 PM
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A lot of people meet their partner through activities of some sort. They meet them in a class they took, at an event they attended, while practicing one of their hobbies, at a get together organised by a friend they have in common, etc. I met my partner at the gym. Neither of us was there to find a date lol, it just happened. It was like that for most of my relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 05:49 PM
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It's complicated: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kansas_City_metropolitan_area
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 02:34 PM
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It's just fun to share my life with my partner. I don't need a partner, I'm childfree and perfectly happy when single, but I do enjoy a nice romantic relationship. For principally romantic men how did you manage to protect your values on sex and romance in the face of hook up culture? I don't understand your question. Hooking up helped me build my confidence and my skills, making me a better partner. It increased my value. How did you get into romance like how did you develop desire to want roma…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 08:09 PM
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Because I really doubt that. I'm taking the loving wife 100% of the time lol $2000/month would be nice but I wouldn't trade my partner for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 07:30 PM
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What is attractive to you might be average to me and vice versa. Don't base your decisions on what other people think, if for you it's a 5 star restaurant and it fits what you're looking for, who cares if others think it's a 3 star restaurant?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 10:36 AM
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I've had sex with three virgins and the sex wasn't good lol, which is understandable, I was terrible at sex too when I started. I much prefer women with experience. They know what they like and they have developed the skills to be good in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 02:48 AM
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That's the same school of thoughts that blames women for getting raped or that make excuses for the abusers in a abusive relationships. It's pure bullshit and we all know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 05:18 PM
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women wouldnt fuck "fuckboys" they "dont even like as people, its just sex", because they can catch feelings Nah, they can tell they won't fall for a fuckboy, but when the man has many qualities of a good long term partner that's when there's risks.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 02:00 PM
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Each place has a different crowd. Where I live one play is mostly younger crowd, a lot of BDSM enthusiasts, rock/punk music, etc. One place is for the older crowd, mostly swingers, a lot of gangbangs, it's the ideal place for people that just want to have sex without all the chatting around. One place is classier, the dress code is strict, people are much more attractive, they have a lot of themed events with shows, it's by far my favorite place. And then you have private parties, the crowd is w…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 04:16 PM
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Aren't all fetishes preferences?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 04:10 PM
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I've dated poor people. It's not fun. I won't do it again. My girlfriend and I aren't rich (we work in education) but at least we don't stress about putting food on the table or paying rent on time. That's all I want really, when it comes to finance.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 07:26 PM
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all the reasons men give for caring are non applicable because different sexes are different What are those reasons?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 11:07 AM
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People need to learn to listen and learn to communicate. This will help people 1) not get in relationships with people they have no business dating and 2) help fix little problems here and there that happen in all relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 01:17 AM
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Don't care. My parents never got married and have been together 40+ years. My partner and I will never get married and we're perfectly happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 12:26 AM
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I asked him and he said 6'.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 03:25 PM
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Is there a correlation between unhappiness in relationships and antidepressants? I imagine you're more likely to be unhappy in your relationship if you need antidepressants yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 12:48 PM
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I definitely don't see "giving birth" as a pros lol, I'm happy I'll never have to do that
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 12:48 PM
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I see. Would be a bit weird for me to tell my friend "Sorry, you're too attractive, we can't be friends anymore" hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 11:44 AM
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I'm bisexual, I have tons of friends I'm attracted to, it's not a problem. It's only a problem if you start wanting more than friendship and they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 11:13 AM
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The denial is strong with you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 05:43 PM
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Attractive guys can get away with having a poor personality, economic standing, etc and still get plenty of opportunities thrown at him That's true, but a lot less than attractive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 05:38 PM
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The difference is that you even if you're healthy, you can become sick at anytime, but if you're a normal person you won't suddenly wake up one morning as a complete loser who joins a pill community.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 11:29 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 08:14 PM
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Is not having sex at 18 really that weird? I didn't have sex at 18 later just became more sexually active. I don't regret it either, my sex life at 32 is incredible and I think it was good to not rush into it as a teenager.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 08:07 PM
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What the fuck kind of questions are those lol Are you 12?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 09:05 PM
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what they have done is settle into a relationship dynamic where they feel safe and affectionate, but not legitimate attraction I can't tell if you're trolling or just a piece of shit, but either way, you can't judge people's relationships because it's different than what you've experienced. especially if they aren’t having sex with each other Oh trust me, they have a lot of sex lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 01:39 PM
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Lol, sure, ok, you definitely know them better than I do. Say hello for me next time you see them! :)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 01:25 PM
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There are bisexual women that like to have sex with men and women but are only romantically interested in women. Two of my friends, both women, are in a relationship together and have no interest in dating men, but they do sleep with me from time to time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 01:21 PM
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My FWB were usually women with different long term goals than me. For example I'm childfree and they weren't, or I want to live in the city but they want to leave the city once they've graduated, or they're bisexual but romantically only into women, etc. I have sex with a lot of my friends, but they're just that, friends, because we never saw eachother build a life together. My partner is someone with who my life goals and values align with that's why we fell in love.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 10:42 AM
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They’re just told to suck it up and stop being bitter I mean, both are true. People shouldn't shame others, but if someone shames you, they're not worth your time, just suck it up and move on. So yeah, most people are decent human being and won't shame others, that's what we encourage. Then you have some people that are so miserable the only way they found to make themselves feel better is to shame other people because they're short or whatever, just ignore those people.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 05:56 PM
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Everyone can have whatever preferences they want. The problem is when you start shaming people for not fitting what you're attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 05:50 PM
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How old are you and do you know your exact N-count? I feel like once you reach a certain age ans N-count, things get blurry. I'm in my thirties and my N-count is around 30-35 I think, but I couldn't give an exact number.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 11:06 AM
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College lecturer, 20h/week on average, some weeks it's 50, but most weeks it's not much or nothing at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 04:40 PM
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I respect two of the three 6's, fit, blue eyes, beard, make good money (60k) despite working part time so I have a lot of time for fun, had a vasectomy which is super attractive for childfree women and my life is drama free!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 04:27 PM
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My fethish make my life better, but it's a negative for some people. It depends on the individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 06:26 PM
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You're attracted to who you're attracted to. If that person is a woman or a man or whatever is not a problem, as long as you're attracted to that person it's what matters. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 05:47 PM
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This is quite perplexing as a male looking to pursue a female sexually, how do I know I’m going after the right female? I don't understand your question. Are you attracted to them? Yes? Good. No? Move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 05:34 PM
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North of the border?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 08:39 PM
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Having bonding experiences is how I build an emotional connection with a girl. Don't just do activities that are fun, sometimes try to go further and do things that get you closer (figuratively).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 07:46 PM
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Because they fell in love with them and are happy with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 01:28 PM
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As long as he's polite to her about it, not at all. Of course I'll judge him a bit if he himself has a high N count but doesn't want to date a woman who has one, but either way it's acceptable if you ask me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 10:55 AM
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I mean, it makes sense. Sex with a virgin usually sucks and it takes time to be good at sex, so not everyone wants to commit to that. I've had sex with three virgins and it was great for them, but never for me. I'd prefer to avoid it in the future. I'm too old and impatient for that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 10:46 AM
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I'm always surprised that so many men on Reddit are complaining about "having to carry the conversation" when dating women. 80% of the women I've dated talked way more than me, and the other 10% were either very shy or just flat-out not interested in me lol Was I just very lucky or are these men just not realizing it when a woman isn't into them?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 10:42 AM
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the journey you've traveled to become the ultimate version of yourself does not and will not aid in attracting the opposite sex I've fucked girl that I wouldn't have fucked if they didn't decide to improve their fitness level (lose weight, get stronger, stop smoking, etc.) and I'm sure that's the case for tons of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 06:22 PM
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I'm a man, but attractive enough that I never had problems getting girls to go on date with. The difficulty isn't finding someone to go on dates with, it's finding someone you want to build your life with. Took me a lot of time to find someone like that and I totally understand why some people are struggling.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 12:16 PM
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If all bisexuals, no matter their gender, only had sex with men, would that help struggling men or it'd just lead to more sex for those of us that already have sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 05:56 PM
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No, it can be just values or interest. For example I don't want a friend or a romantic partner who's homophobic or who's very sedentary, but for someone else these might be positives.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 10:35 PM
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If you're busy with other things and you know it's temporary you don't really care. I had a period of about 7 months without sex after one of my breakups and it was ok. It's weird because these days I have a lot of sex so I want a lot of sex, but when I didn't have any sex I was fine with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 11:43 AM
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I can see many more kids in your future lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 04:30 PM
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they will friendzone you if you don't meet their physical threshold And they won't even want to spend a minute with you if you don't meet their emotional threshold. I've ran away from super hot people just because we didn't connect at all on an emotional level.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 01:17 AM
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My parents aren't married...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 12:40 PM
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Yeah, if you're kind of a loser and women don't care about you, I can understand why you'd be bitter. It's not a good reason to treat women badly, but I understand why you wouldn't be happy about it. Also, everytime my relationships ended, I was sad for a bit then moved on to dating again, but if you don't have that options it's hard to get over your ex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 11:15 PM
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The problem is that you're a right winger trying to sleep with left wingers. Find your own people lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 08:42 PM
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maybe women now just want slender effeminate men who are into drugs. No wonder you're single 🤣 Any advice for getting out of a slump? Maybe try to be less bitter. Why would anyone want a relationship with someone so negative?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 07:59 PM
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People that use "gay" as an insult: 8 years olds Right wingers
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 09:45 PM
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When I was between relationships and not looking to date, I'd still have days where I'd have intimate conversations with friends or have some platonic cuddles while watching fireworks or a movie. I'd also masturbate almost everyday lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 08:13 PM
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i sayd that women that do this are braindead If you don't see what's wrong with this statement we can't help you lol If you're not able to say something along the line of "these women are terrible at communicating properly and I have no interest in dating them" instead of calling them braindead, I'm not surprised you're single. Both you and these women who play games are terrible at communication.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 12:18 PM
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Of course!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 08:45 PM
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Then do like we do and only play with other women. Find yourself a bi partner and you'll live the good life 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 08:45 PM
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Yes. Once a week the female should tie a sponge around the penis of her male partner so that he can clean the inside of her vagina while they have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 08:33 PM
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Nah man, nobody should have sex they don't want to have. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 08:29 PM
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I think men in their late twenties to early or mid thirties should use this time window to settle down and forget about "making up for lost time by oing on a fucking streak " Why not both? I'm 32, in a serious relationship, but we have threesomes and group sex all the time. People are so close minded, they always close doors they don't need to close.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 08:28 PM
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There's a reason a lot of men and women struggle to get over their ex after they get dumped, even sometimes when in a relationship with someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 03:48 PM
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"Fucking fridge ate my cereals again!"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 12:42 PM
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Yeah, I'd hate to have a small penis in our society. Must be rough. Even very polite girls will talk shit about small dicks behind men's back. Of course having a gigantic penis wouldn't be pleasant either, but it wouldn't be as bad I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 06:48 PM
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What is it about them that changed your preference? I just loved to touch their bodies more, because of their strong legs, strong shoulders, strong back, etc. It's less exciting for me to touch fat or bones. I also love that they have the strenght and endurance to follow me both in the bedroom (long sex sessions, they can be on top for a long time, they don't get tired) and outside the bedroom (we can do lot's of physical activities and they don't ask to stop because they're tired).
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 05:23 PM
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My preferences changed with experience. I didn't know I liked women who could be dominant in bed once in a while until I tried it. Before that I wanted girls that were always submissive in bed. I didn't know I liked muscular girls until I slept with one and I much prefer them over the slim girls I prefered before. I prefered completely shaved pussies before but now I prefer a bit of hair (trimmed, nothing wild), it looks sexy and feels good when I go down on the girl. Preferences change all the …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 05:10 PM
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I see that song somewhat differently. The song is sang from the POV of the skater boy's girlfriend (Avril), not the ballet girl, which I think is an important point to keep in mind. From what I get, the girlfriend is jealous that her boyfriend was into that girl and made a scenario in her head where ballet girl is now miserable when in reality she has no idea what the life of the ballet girl is like. She made that scenario in her head to make herself feel better and wrote a song about it. I'm no…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 02:36 AM
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Through my hobbies mostly, or when my friends organize events I meet girls there.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 06:15 PM
1

Keeping a healthy weight helps a lot. Having good hygiene too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 07:47 PM
5

Mommy issues
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 10:46 PM
2

/u/crookedsummer2019 is right, people in Toronto marry late. They're usually more educated, so they study for a long time, then they need years to advance their career enough that they can afford to raise kids in Toronto. Those that want to settle down early don't stay in Toronto.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 10:44 PM
5

If you have nothing to do, learn a new language. Spanish, French, Italian, German, Portuguese, whatever you want. It's never a lost skill. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 10:01 PM
1

Were they nurses? Nurses love veins hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 10:00 PM
1

My nose. Apparently I have a nice looking nose. I feel it's not a compliment men usually get hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 09:59 PM
1

Communication and personality are amongs the most important things for a relationship to work. You can have two rich, attractive persons, but if their personalities don't match or if their Communication styles are too different, it won't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 12:50 PM
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I feel a lot of people here just find it pathetic when losers blame others for their own problems. Look dude, sure online dating sucks and some women have unrealistic standards, but you have no social skills, you can't do a single pull-up and you live paycheck to paycheck. Work on yourself first.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 08:28 PM
3

We treat all problems as "us versus the problem" which has lead to us never really fighting.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 03:27 PM
1

Yeah, true, but in that case I doubt either of you would care about staying friends. I think people get offended when a friend ask them out and if they're rejected, they stop being friends with you. That's what really hurts.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 03:31 AM
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I don't understand why you wouldn't want to be friend with someone you'd want to date. Like if she's good enough to be a girlfriend, she's definitely good enough to be a friend. It's different if you just wanted to fuck her, then I understand not wanting a platonic friendship, but if a girl is good enough to be my girlfriend, she's definitely good enough to be my friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 03:24 AM
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I mean, if you don't trust your girl not to cheat on you, why are you even dating her? This has nothing to do with blue/red/black/purple/pink pills. If you don't trust someone, get out of that relationship, it's not a good one for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 10:55 PM
15

Because they want to build a society where religion doesn't dictate laws?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 10:29 PM
1

I think this is completely rational but some people still think this is a hot take. Basically if your standards are things that you yourself cannot achieve, they're too high. That's so dumb lol It's ok to want a partner who's good at different things than you. You suck at cooking? There's nothing wrong with wanting a partner that's good at it. You're bad at budgeting? It's a great idea to find a partner who's good at it. You're bad at fixing stuff, at doing maintenance around the house? Finding …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 09:59 PM
1

I live in Canada too. Politicians (federal, provincial and municipal) will do what gets them votes. Women ask for more help and vote for those who give them more help. Men don't usually ask for me even when they need it (we "tough it out") so politicians aren't going to put work towards it. We're seeing an improvement with younger generations where men aren't afraid to ask for help. This will definitely help get men the benefits they need. It's not weak to ask for help when you need it, it's sma…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 09:05 PM
1

Of you? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 06:47 PM
1

I am, by all accounts, a 20% or better man. If you need to mention it, you aren't it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 06:46 PM
1

I never needed “weeks” to get laid Then why do you need back up options?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 03:12 PM
1

I mean, when you're kind of a loser like /u/DerekMorganBAU and you need weeks if not months of work just to get laid, you end up not acting rationally.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 03:03 PM
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And they're basically saying that if the girl isn't into you right away there's no point in continuing to "chase" her. This is true for most men, but not for very unattractive men. The first time my now girlfriend saw me, she found me attractive. She loved my body, my hands, my eyes, my voice, etc. Unfortunately, it you're an ugly man, this probably will never happen to you, so you'll have to do some chasing to find a partner. It's not ideal but it can work. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 06:25 PM
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I know plenty of high earning men who are dating yoga instructors, receptionists, etc. And I know high earning women who date men who don't make much money (artists, work in café, work in board games store, etc.) or stay at home dad. What's your point lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 04:04 PM
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So many men in their 30's have lost their six pack, are losing their hair, have less energy, have weaker érections, etc. They're past their peak lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 10:34 PM
1

Can't believe I actually considered waiting to have sex until after marriage That would have been quite risky indeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 12:13 PM
1

Thankfully one of these (well two, but mostly one) is fixable. Going from fat to fit will do wonders for most people! It's worth the effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 12:06 PM
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That's what I thought for the first 26ish years of my life, but things all changed once I had mind blowing sex. Now I couldn't go without it hahaha One day you'll find a partner who'll make you go crazy over sex and you'll understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 11:55 AM
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How wrong do you think it is? I mean, it's bad enough that there's no doubt it shouldn't be done. You need to look at yourself in the mirror and ask yourself what effects being horny is having on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 10:46 AM
52

Do you believe having an affair is wrong? Yes. Next question.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 10:10 AM
4

Slut-shaming is quite common and targets mostly women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 11:03 AM
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In my opinion, it's ok to have preferences on the N-count of your future partner, but it's not ok to be unkind to people who don't match the number. You wouldn't date a guy who's a virgin or very inexperienced? No problem! But don't insult them because of their low N-count. You wouldn't date a girl with a high N-count? No problem! But don't insult them because of their low N-count. I have a N-count somewhere around 30-35. I'm sure some people would find it problematic and wouldn't date me, but I…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 11:10 PM
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There's no such thing where I live.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 06:17 PM
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Nope, we're childfree and are having too much fun to want to change things. We both work in education and love kids but don't want our own.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 04:57 PM
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Isn't he showing his love for you daily through his actions, and you through yours?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 03:28 PM
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My parents have been happily together for 40+ years and aren't married. My girlfriend and I have no interest in getting married. We don't have any reason to get married, we're perfectly happy as it is right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 03:25 PM
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Don't underestimate the number of idiots on both sides who don't know how birth control works either. Yeah, sexual education is lacking, and even with sex ed some people are just not smart enough to use contraceptive methods correctly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 05:26 PM
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they’re never truly ‘platonic’ I'm bisexual. I have tons of purely platonic friendships with men and women. I spend 1 on 1 time with them. Sometimes at my place or theirs. It's purely platonic. With some of them I don't even hug them or shake their hand when we meet. It's possible that for you it's not possible, but most people can have purely platonic friendships no matter the friend's gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 12:42 AM
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Some HVM want a monogamous relationship with one woman. These are the men women of FDS want. There's nothing illogical about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 04:15 PM
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What if I don't want friends? Then do something else? I just said that's what I do, not what everyone should do. Why is it always about "making friends"? Because tons of people found their partner just by making friends at school or when doing activities they like. It's a good way to find a potential life partner, but not the only way. Feel free to use a different strategy. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 10:09 PM
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Probably nothing differently than what I do as a man. Focus on making friends with similar values and interests until there's one with who it clicks particularly well, and see from there if a relationship is a good option. My partner was just a friend and later became a lover. We already knew eachothers well and had a great chemistry when we had our first kiss. I feel it's the best way to find a partner, so that's what I'd do. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 09:01 PM
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I realized that I'm not an average guy. I'm actually above average and can't relate to the problems they're facing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 01:37 AM
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N-count isn't fun any more, what's your M-count? How many people have you murdered? Do you think it's a red flag if a woman has a high M-count?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 01:16 PM
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wtf, you know how many women face same thing Lmao, calm your tits, his message was clearly not directed at women. You need to go for walk or something, being that cranky isn't healthy. ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 01:13 PM
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I mean, if all the girls you date are shitty, it's a sign you should change the way you pick your dates lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 03:20 PM
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That's ok, in the end you only need one, keep looking. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 11:49 AM
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I mean, just don't date these women? My partner and I split 50/50 and it's working well for us. We do the same for chores.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 11:45 AM
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Most women are just annoyed ugly men come bother them. They're not scared, just annoyed.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 11:15 AM
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People here aren't looking for help to find a partner, they're looking for a reason to blame the other gender for their lack of success when it comes to dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 11:33 PM
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Nobody said it was fair. I put hard work to be attractive to women. You can do the same if you feel it's worth it to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 11:22 PM
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if she for example gets pregnant you literally need to be able to provide for both America's so weird lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 10:28 PM
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This sub is pure entertainment lol This sub: Average men have no chance with women, they'll either be sexless for life or will be providing for single moms who'll leave them for Chads. Real life: All around me are average guys in happy relationships with average girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 09:41 PM
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What? Leftists are the ones pushing for changes (I'm not saying it's a good or bad thing) while the right tries to keep things as they are (again, I'm not saying this is good or bad). If someone's happy with how society is it's definitely not the left lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 12:42 PM
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Yeah, but if you're fit and ean, you're good enough for a LTR even with an ugly face or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 03:14 PM
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Oh if he was only complaining about not having fun then there'd be nothing wrong with his post, everyone has their preferences, but when you start saying women are "hung up around their own sexuality" because you couldn't make her cum the way you want, then you're wrong, and honestly a little immature.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 02:56 PM
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Some men like /u/tomsellecksferrari are having a hard time accepting feedbacks on the performances, so they blame women for being "too complicated". Everyone is different, what works with one man/woman won't work with another one, it's normal. That's why communication is key to good sex life.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 02:39 PM
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We need to stop teaching boys that women should be the central focus of their life and that the only way to achieve fulfillment in life is via women. If anyone is really teaching that to their son son, they indeed need to stop. I was always taught that I should build a life where I don't rely on a partner to be happy, and once I've done that I should find someone who's also happy on their own to be in a relationship with. My partner and I were both happy before we started dating and our relation…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 02:00 PM
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Same, we all have weird/funny sex and relationship stories, it's fun to share them, but I only have a vague idea of what her N-count is. To be honest I lost track of my personal N-count too lol, so it shows I don't really care.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 10:39 AM
1

The rule says that 80% of women go for 20% of the men. Whoever think this is true has never left their house lol Way more than 20% of men have sex, no matter if you look at young men or older men. Source: I'm an average men with average friends and everyone's having sex
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 11:18 PM
1

average women have it so much better than average men For online dating it's definitely true, average women have it way easier than average men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 10:18 AM
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I'm childfree but if I was a single parent I'd be super picky about who I date, because choosing the wrong partner would not only affect me, but also my kid(s).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 07:55 PM
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As a 32 years old man, I agree that most men in their 20's aren't good partners (that includes me when I was that age), but I think you should still give it a try because you might get lucky and find a gem. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 02:27 AM
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I see a lot of comments like this which allude to "great stuff" that you're "missing out on" but never actually give examples of the great stuff. The connection you have when you find someone to be in a relationship with is unique. I have many very good friends and family members that I love, but these relationships will never be as intimate as the one I have with my partner. This connection that makes you feel light and happy all the time, that make you feel loved, that gets you excited for the…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 02:23 AM
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I'd say about half my friends are women and it's definitely a positive. I understand why some people aren't comfortable with it, but for me it's something that improves my overall happiness. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 02:15 PM
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My girlfriend and a stranger we met at the club. We always had the desire to have a threesome, and I was particularly interested in a MFF threesome since I never had one, so when we met this girl who was bi we invited her to join us.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 11:57 AM
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Had my first MFF threesome yesterday. 5/5. Would recommend.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 02:14 AM
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Do activities you like when going on dates. You like to walk? Take her for a nice walk. You like food? Go to the restaurant or do a mini potluck in the park. You like board games? Go to a café and chat over a board game. Even my dates that didn't lead to relationships were pleasant. It doesn't have to be a chore.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 11:19 PM
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values, morals, and personalities But these things can change. I had a very low N-count when I was in my 20's and now I'm a slut now in my 30's. For some other people it's the opposite, they'll have a high n-count when they're young, then they mature and aren't interested in that anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 06:07 PM
1

Guess most men are cuckold and most women are cuckquean according to your worldview lol How odd
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 12:41 AM
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I love how /u/AtTheEnd777 is proving your point while trying to prove you wrong lol You bring up the subject of male suicides and their reaction is to call suicidal men inconsiderate.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 02:50 PM
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I'm totally fine with just cuddling, but it's ok if you aren't. Don't do something you're not comfortable with.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 07:30 PM
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‘Very few’ women I’ve ever met understand concepts like ‘moral growth’. Wow, the misogyny is strong here lol, no wonder dating is hard for you. Good luck 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 11:07 AM
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I’m not investing any more time/money/energy/effort into you than the lowest you’ve required it of anyone to have sex. But don't you think people change? I'm a man, but I gave sex out a lot more easily in my 20's than now. Before I didn't really consider the negative consequences of casual sex (STDs, pregnancy risk, etc) and now I do. If I was single again and met a women who's like me, I'd find it perfectly normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 10:57 AM
1

Then join that group of men if you're interested in casual sex. It's not rocket science lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 04:04 AM
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Her single male peer needs to be in a relationship to have sex. Why? I had sex while single. Tons of guys I know have sex while single. There's nothing wrong with that. Sure, sex is better when you do it with someone you love, but casual sex is still super fun and tons of guys have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 03:35 AM
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The Bible is a work of fiction. It's like if I based my arguments on Harry Potter lol If you want to back your arguments with anything worthy, use original scientific researches.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 06:06 PM
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Eve was the one who took the bite of the apple and fell for temptation. Oh we're going there? 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 12:57 PM
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Because if you’re not entitled to the woman in the same way that others were that means she deems you less valuable. That's not true. Before I'd have sex easily, but not I expect us to build trust first, both get tested for STDs, we have a talk about what happens if you get pregnant, etc. It's not that I value girls now less than I did 10 years ago, it's just that I'm more responsible now and have a better understanding of the possible consequences that sex can have.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 02:28 PM
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Montreal is a very horny city, people don't need to waste time on dating apps and such, they just go out and find other horny people.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 08:29 PM
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Men are always whining Why are so many people on this sub talking like all men act the same way and all women act the same way. This will never lead to interesting debates.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 11:21 AM
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Even if they are obese Straight women: "men, please don't be obese" /u/Jette987: "men are subject to unrealistic body standards."
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 07:47 PM
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I understand, it's definitely not for everyone. For me it's a turn on to see her makeout with another girl for example, or see her strip for another man. We don't do things that would lead to negative feelings and it's great that you're aware of your limits.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 03:00 PM
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For us it's a great way to connect and explore our sexuality. We communicate a lot, which I think is the key here.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 02:52 PM
1

I don't know what this is sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 02:50 PM
3

Going to our first sex party since March 2020 when the pandemic started here. We're pretty excited! Anyone else enjoy these kind of events? If you're going with your partner, what are your ground rules?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 02:23 PM
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Did you even read his post? He said lowering your standards will probably lead you to be unfulfilled. Porn leads to increased standards, which means men have a harder time finding a partner who they're attracted to and who they can have a fulfilling relationship with.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 10:20 PM
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That's ok, you can date the women who won't let you talk about your emotions, I'll stick to the others. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 06:32 PM
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If a woman loses interest in you because you talk about your emotions you know you dodged a bullet lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 06:27 PM
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I don't think it's creepy at all. My girlfriend is 7 years older than me and nobody cares. I have friends who are in 10+ years gap relationships and they're both very happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 06:05 PM
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I met most of them through activities like hiking, yoga, board games, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 04:38 PM
7

Women’s toxic traits are just out of control Why not just ignore those toxic women and date the non toxic ones? It's what I've been doing my whole life and honestly, it makes life easier. No need to play games or anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 03:54 PM
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"Men, if your girlfriend was a virgin, but you suspected that she had sex in her past life, would you dump her?"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 11:25 AM
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House parties where people drink and take drugs so things can get wild a bit hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 01:28 AM
1

Of course, some will do it for that reason. They know men find it hot. I (M) made out with another guy at one party and the girls all thought it was super hot and were all over us lol It definitely doesn't apply to all girls who do that, but I'm 100% sure you're correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 01:11 AM
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So you're standards are too high for what you can currently get and you don't want to lower them. Looks like your only option is to improve yourself. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 01:01 AM
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We need to promote a healthier lifestyle. Men (and women) who are active, have a healthy diet, have no addictions and manage their stress properly generally have no problem dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 08:59 PM
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What makes these "masculine traits"? Having a passion, communication, logical thinking, focusing on your goals, these just sound like functional adults traits, has nothing to do with gender imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 12:50 AM
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I'm not forcing anyone, I'm just here to help. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 08:35 PM
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So why should men who don't have children care about society? I don't have children and never will (I'm snipped) but I still care about society because it makes me happy to see other people happy. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 08:25 PM
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Because "the sex thing always gets in the way." Guess I can't have any friends since I'm bisexual. shrug
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 07:32 PM
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They're definitely not happy men in happy relationships lol
/r/BlackPillScience10/03/22 11:43 AM
1

Tons of sexually unattractive men are in happy relationships. If you left your house once in a while and met people you'd see them. :)
/r/BlackPillScience10/03/22 11:15 AM
1

I don't understand what's the point of all the PUA gimmicks. Just be social and have a good time, the sexual partners will come naturally. I've had had tons of sexual partners and I don't even know what PUA do. I didn't know about PUA until a month ago lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 04:12 AM
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If she dumps you for showing your weaknesses it's a win for you lol, why would you want to be with this kind of person? My girlfriend has seen my weaknesses, I've seen hers, it helps us support eachothers. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 02:47 PM
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Wait, you think being submissive means you don't initiate and don't show your partner you desire them? 🤣 You'd make for a terrible sub my friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 02:50 AM
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2 for sure. I'm not really interested in dating a virgin. I want a girl who knows what she likes, knows her body and is open to the kinky stuff I like.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 01:45 AM
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What? I’ve got laid so many times by being fun or funny charming dude. /u/KitezhGrad just put a clickbait title lol The article doesn't say women find happy guys less sexually attractive, it says they'll find pictures of proud men generally more attractive then pictures of happy men. Think of magazine covers for example. If it's a woman on the front, they'll make sure she's laughing and happy, because that's what's more attractive on a picture, but when it's a man, they'll make him look serious …
/r/BlackPillScience23/02/22 11:37 PM
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You can't judge if someone is too good for someone else just by looking at them.
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