JN3LL3V Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
6	What is LVM? He can’t. He’ll expect the people around him to do the work for him. But reject any conclusion that means change.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/02/21 05:08 AM
11	What is LVM? Inflexible, impulsive, hypocritical, insecure, not introspective, therapy averse, individualistic, coward.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/02/21 12:42 AM
122	Male projection is pathetic. It absolutely was deliberate. They stood me up so I would chase after them instead of only them chasing after me. I think for insecure men, the vulnerability in pursuing women who they see as out of their league causes them to try and build an anxious attachment with us. A dynamic where we would ultimately be chasing after them instead of them continuing to be vulnerable by chasing after us. Unfortunately for them, they’re idiots and I’m a literal behaviorist who has been in therapy long enough …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/01/21 04:28 AM
239	Male projection is pathetic. Yep. Was acquaintances with a man who everyone I knew liked. He asked me out randomly and I agreed. Physically, he wasn’t what I usually dated but he seemed like he had a nice personality, so I decided to give him a chance. He stood me up. Tried giving some weird excuse why but I blocked him in the middle of his explanation. Every time I’ve seen him since he’s asked me out for dinner. I ignore him. Another man in the same social circle was 2 hours late and expected me to still be around. I know …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/01/21 03:09 AM
3	Another epiphany on male jealousy 👁️👄👁️ I dated a very insecure man. He couldn’t convince me I’m unattractive, so he tried to convince me I wasn’t capable of making good choices without him.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/01/21 04:22 PM
18	Another epiphany on male jealousy 👁️👄👁️ My ex used to tell me I had “horrible taste” for finding Idris Elba attractive, and that I should be glad I was able to find a man as attractive as him to be with. He’d remind me often of my horrible taste and of how wonderfully attractive he is. I always thought it was such a strange and insecure reaction to something so minor. In reality it was psychological abuse.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/01/21 05:01 PM
10	Posted in /relationships 6 days ago. Husband paid for Tinder and saved the number of a prostitute. Redditor says she wants to save the marriage😢 Why would you want to trust someone who doesn’t respect you? That doesn’t even sound possible.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/01/21 02:13 AM
32	How the Hot Girl with boundaries suddenly becomes invisible ✌️ You become unattractive as soon as they realize they can’t control you with their cheap ‘validation’ and no longer have a reason to lead you on. You are more than enough on your own. Insecure men prefer insecure women so they have someone to feel superior to.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/01/21 11:28 PM
20	What’s the worst neg you got? He called me lame but still wanted to go on a date lol. I told him if he didn’t neg, he would’ve had a chance and that he should try a direct communication style with the next woman. Then I blocked him.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/01/21 08:56 PM
11	Shoutout to all the Queens battling Anxiety/Depression and STILL leveling up unlike these trash men Agreed. We understand that getting better means putting in work, while men look for someone to do the work for them. There was a time when I was dealing with PTSD, depression, and anxiety all while studying for a grad school comprehensive exam. I was not doing well and confided in my brother about the trauma I went through and asked for support. Somehow, the conversation turned into him sobbing about not making the basketball team in high school. He’s 30. I went no contact. Women are taught to b…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/01/21 11:28 PM
51	Saw this in r/niceguys of all places. "Your hurt feelings do not override my right to say no." “What does that have to do with me?”, “I don’t care.”, and “You should go to therapy.” have become my go-to responses. We have our own emotional selves to care for that take extreme priority over men we don’t even like.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/01/21 11:06 PM
10	[Rant] Men are far more 'high maintenance' than any 'high maintenance' woman I've ever met High maintenance women put a lot of work into maintaining themselves. High maintenance men expect women to put a lot of work into maintaining them.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/01/21 04:44 AM
10	Nailed it!! It’s their birth right to objectify and disrespect their partner. So stop being insecure and accept your mistreatment This logic can be applied to other behaviors as well. Insecure men don’t want women to have any ego. They don’t want us to have pride. Men want women to view their worth as dependent on them, or else women won’t need or want men in their lives. My first and last committed partner projected self-assuredness well, but in reality was one of the most insecure men I have ever met. And I come from a patriarchal family. He was very threatened by the fact that I was more intelligent than him and would t…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/01/21 10:00 PM
7	Women are WAKING UP! 👑 found this on r/sex 👀 It’s simple. People do the things that are important to them. If he doesn’t do something for you—despite you saying how important it is that it be done—then your wants aren’t important to him. If he says he didn’t remember, then your wants aren’t important enough to remember, he’s a liar, or he has a brain tumor. No amount of cOmUnIcAtIoN will make you more important to a man. You either are or aren’t. I am no longer interested in trying to talk people into being more considerate of me. It never…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/01/21 09:32 PM
26	A co-worker was let go today because of his actions towards me... If his family is affected by his firing, it’s his fault. He had no business sexually harassing you. You had every right to protect yourself. You did nothing wrong.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/11/20 09:47 PM
22	Reason #473726 to never entertain a coffee date. No response even necessary just block and delete! This poor woman. Porn/sex addiction is real and it’s prevalent, and easy to hide. That question is why I became a behavioral neuroscientist. You have the right answer.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/10/20 05:44 PM
5	CALL THEIR BLUFF 2020 To make the conclusion that people should abandon BLM as a movement against police brutality shows you are clearly against BLM. BLM is more than one Twitter/Facebook page. It is a collective movement of many different activists, in many different parts of the country, all working toward dismantling white supremacy and undoing its evils. You would have needed to look at a lot of different people’s social media pages to understand the collective stance on any issue not exactly specific to the blac…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/08/20 01:28 PM
4	CALL THEIR BLUFF 2020 I have never understand why people think BLM ONLY cares about brutality against black people. We are against all brutality and systems that uphold white supremacy. BLM activists loudly spoke out against the anti-Asian attacks related to COVID. Why? Because we understand that there is no anti-Asian sentiment without white supremacy unduly making Asians a “model minority” and a target of interracial anger. A lot of the people raiding and rioting at the beginning of the protests were widely known t…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/08/20 01:12 PM
55	Their egos can't handle it any longer I always say, men love smart and pretty until smart and pretty makes them feel dumb.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/03/20 02:44 PM