Lol I don't sleep in the same bed with my significant other... I sleep on the floor every night on a pad or blow up mattress if I have the time and energy to blow it up... be thankful if you can sleep a night with your loved one... oh so I sleep in the other room cause I snore a lot
No one is forced to do anything in the military... its all voluntary... no one is pushed... self driven women don't need men to push them to do anything...