JOliMoFo Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	If she wants you, the sex doesn't matter This is the same mentality behind abstinence ed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/26 11:12 PM
2	Being hookup/FWB material is better than being husband material. If I’m that guy, I have no moral or ethical obligation to say “no” to sex with another woman. That’s enough to sell it for me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/26 01:01 AM
1	Being hookup/FWB material is better than being husband material. I would. She’s smoking hot, she’s got options but right now she wants me in her bed, we’re gonna have sex, I’m not expected to tell other women “no thank you, I’m taken” and I don’t have to worry about hurting anyone’s feelings? All pros, no cons. Sign me up. Other guys on this thread might be different, but for me casual sex isn’t about ego, or competition - it’s about sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/26 12:45 AM
2	Being hookup/FWB material is better than being husband material. Women think it’s a compliment b/c in their mind it means: you’re not like these hedonistic pigs who only care about sex, and instead you seem to have a heart of gold and see me as more than just my body, so therefore you are a higher quality of person. It’s a set of values based on the dichotomy between virtue and vice. Plenty of women out there will judge you as a “better man” because you’re less obvious with your sexual urges. Here’s my problem. Just because a man might come across this way to…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/26 12:14 AM
1	Men need to have a certain amount of casual sex before their thirst and desire for it is satiated long term. This amount is unique to each man and he needs to be honest with himself about it. Until you've been there done that, you won't experience the true platonic human side of women I (M) desire casual sex, and you made some statements I think are laughably silly. The idea that sex, whatever kind it is, is something you “get out of your system” is exactly the destructive mentality that leads to dead bedrooms and failed partnerships. And the thing about platonic side of women? WTH is that. Women are people, bud.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/26 07:38 PM
1	Apparently women turn “demisexual” around average men Points 1 and 2 are hardly ever uttered by the same people though. If anything Point 1 is going to come most loudly from frustrated incels and redpillers, certainly not from feminists (except maybe the “less benefit” part). To the extent that women might be less interested in hooking up, I believe wholeheartedly that has less to do with innate desires and more to do with issues like the orgasm gap, risks to safety, etc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/25 11:56 PM
1	Women's infatuation with the lives of celebrities is a male ick Celeb gossip is shallow but I don’t understand why one gender has to be held responsible. It’s a trashy media industry made up of marketing gurus and venture capitalists that’s behind all this, and how many of them would you wager are women?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/24 07:17 AM
0	A man who's sexually inexperienced is not a "red flag" Nah.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/23 11:44 PM
0	A man who's sexually inexperienced is not a "red flag" Nah.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/23 10:23 AM
1	A man who's sexually inexperienced is not a "red flag" Details, details. Focus on the point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/23 04:41 AM
6	A man who's sexually inexperienced is not a "red flag" A character judgement is not an ad hominem. Yes we should all collectively stop virgin shaming, but let’s not put the cart before the horse. I want to get laid, presumably so do you. Cutting some corners to get there - i.e. keeping a lid on your experience level - isn’t wrong.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/23 01:18 AM
10	A man who's sexually inexperienced is not a "red flag" I mean, I’d be lying if I said women saying this didn’t bother me just a little bit. But… no one has to know how inexperienced you are? It’s not like sex life preference, where it becomes an ethical necessity to let someone know if it’s “casual” or “serious” for you (because that can really hurt someone if you’re not diligent). No, the worst that can happen if you sneak past someone’s “no virgins” policy is some disappointing or awkward sex - which sucks, but it’s not violating boundaries. ANYON…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/23 12:29 AM
1	men only dislike ‘hookup culture’ when they can’t participate in it If “hookup culture” in this case was to refer specifically to the behavior of women, then I think there’s almost a fair amount of truth here. Although I would counter by saying: even when they do get to enjoy hooking up, men can still build up a deep seated resentment of women making that same choice b/c it suggests women as a category are less loyal and committed to monogamous partnership than they could be. I suspect that’s why men habitually (and maybe unconsciously) neglect women’s pleasure/…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/23 12:53 PM