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Let it go. There are too many girls around to be hung up on one particular that isn't into you.
/r/seduction31/08/16 07:03 AM
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If I had to make a guess I'd say you probably lack substance and you're also targeting the wrong crowd. Guys in bars are looking to get a lay and when they get that you can't really fault them for parting ways. Maybe try to define your intentions before you sleep with them? I don't know, this subreddit and whole seduction community is pretty male centric. I feel like you should be taking advice from other girls not from your target audience. But instead of being unhelpful, I'll leave you with fe…
/r/seduction31/08/16 06:53 AM
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I wouldn't say "you're delicious" was terrible. This whole mating dance we humans do is pretty cringy out of context anyway, I don't think you've deviated from that norme.
/r/seduction31/08/16 06:41 AM
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Mark Manson
/r/seduction28/08/16 04:20 PM
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Seduction isn't going to fix you. No girl can fix your underlying issues. Take it from somebody who has been treated for depression for 5 years continuously and yet has been successful: you need to talk to a doctor, you need to see a psychologist and you need to take medication. Do not try to date until you're got the depression sorted because even if you do manage to reel something in (highly doubtful) it is not gonna be healthy and when it eventually ends you will find yourself even more depre…
/r/seduction17/07/16 09:22 AM
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If you're anywhere near the average, inherent looks are at most mild drawback or benefit. That's not to say that being good looking isn't important. It is. But majority of what it takes to be good looking is within your control. Have an exercise regime, ensure your within healthy weight, get a decent haircut, learn the basics of dressing well (really all you need is learning how clothes shoukd fit and basics of colour matching), trim your beard (or shave if you're a savage), fix your teeth, use …
/r/seduction17/07/16 09:17 AM
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As with most things, it's all about your demeanour. If she asks you what you do and you shift in your seat look away and mumble something unintelligible she'll think you're shady at best and homeless at worst. But if you say: "I was an astronaut but then I saw the Terminator and decided to instead become a computer wizard in preparation for the imminent takeover of our new robot overlords." with a cheeky grin all she knows is that you work in IT. Thus you've flawlessly avoided her question, gave…
/r/seduction17/07/16 09:04 AM
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This is why I don't pickup around AFC buddies. No woman can unnerve me like people that actually know me can.
/r/seduction28/01/16 06:38 PM
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I don't know. I like this "new agey" pickup, it seems much more human. I no longer feel like I have to hide my personality until I lay her as I did back when I focused just on mechanics.
/r/seduction28/01/16 06:37 PM
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"What if it was a gift?" A simple reframing sentence that was originally put forward by Dr Robert Glover I believe. However it was really driven home for me by Mark Manson's last chapter of Models. Really changed my perspective on dealing with negativity.
/r/seduction26/09/15 01:53 PM
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Cause rejecting is almost as emotionally draining as being rejected, so people make plans to avoid it and when the time comes to following though they don't. It's a form of plausible debiability. They never said no to you directly.
/r/seduction05/09/15 03:49 PM
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I simply don't have the confidence and skillset to approach women in real life Tinder is not easy mode. Tinder is not an out if you are scared of real life. Tinder is harder than normal game for somebody like you. Tinder is raw numbers, solid texting game (texting game is way harder than in person) and then good in-person game when you actually meet the chick. I can guarantee you with 99% certainty that if you actually did get matches, you would struggle to convert them to lays. Go out, learn no…
/r/seduction27/08/15 11:43 AM
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Either not worth your time or crazy sex fiends. Telling them apart can be bit difficult. I usually don't bother.
/r/seduction16/08/14 11:08 AM
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I'm happy for you man, good job. But this is hardly pick up. She liked you, and you managed to not fuck it up. She moved the interaction at every point except for the kiss. You must be good looking. I'm sorry for being negative, but there is little to learn from this. Glad you have a way that works for you, tho.
/r/seduction16/08/14 11:08 AM
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Exiting the friend zone is so hard it is not worth it most of the time. In addition, having female friends has numerous benefits for pickup it is almost always best to accept the friendzone and move onto other girls. That being said, if you're keen to try breaking out of the friend zone you need to vanish from her life for a while (probabaly at least 6 months). You take that time to fix all of the bad behaviours that landed you in the friend zone the first time. Sort your life out, develop passi…
/r/seduction21/06/14 07:46 AM
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Kinda. The key is to break the professional persona. You do that by saying something she doesn't hear often, to which she has to respond genuinely since she doesn't have a line. He did that well with the self-diagnose scurvy comment. He struck the nerve by mentioning annoying self diagnosing patients and she started talking about how annoying patients are (which is something you don't normally do, since it's bad for customer service). Once you break the professional persona, it's just normal gam…
/r/seduction21/06/14 06:07 AM
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I have not done that much day game, and maybe looks are a huge advantage, but those sets are too good. So receptive and open. He should be pulling for insta-dates and shit instead of just taking numbers if he's getting such good response. This is either scripted or he did a ton of approaches and picked just the good ones.
/r/seduction21/06/14 05:11 AM
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+1 for Models by Mark Manson
/r/seduction07/06/14 02:37 AM
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Models by Mark Manson. It will change you.
/r/seduction06/06/14 03:51 AM
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I'm in same situation as you, except I broke up with my girlfriend 5 days ago. I miss her, but it needed to end. I cling on this hope that maybe in few months, when I rediscover myself, we could try again. I'm probably doing myself a disservice with this. I've been trying to jump start my social life once again. I reconnected with the local liar and I'm dive G head first back into the game. But this post makes me wonder if I'm making a mistake ignoring the grieving process. Maybe I should give i…
/r/seduction30/05/14 02:05 AM
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Classic bitch shield. Treat it as a shit test. If he's fake, you've DHV'd, if he's real and you got positive response, she might cheat.
/r/seduction04/03/13 06:15 PM
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Hey, I just met you, and this is crazy, but here's my bracelet, so save it maybe?
/r/seduction04/03/13 06:08 PM
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That's not helpful. That's like telling a new dude: "Open with "Hi"." No don't open with hi. You will blow it. Have a plan. Same goes here. Having tits makes this whole exercise infinitely easier, but if she just rocks up and says something stupid she will blow it. Tits are, for all their magnificence, not that rare.
/r/seduction04/03/13 06:00 PM
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While I have huge respect for Mystery as one of pillars of The Community, I always get the impression that he was at one point the very definition of awkward and hasn't entirely hidden it away. And he realised that he was awkward, and worked on it, and now he's god damn Mystery. But for us, people who study his technique and craft, or at least for me, there is still this very faint undertone of awkward. As if he knows his technique and has polished it to this flawless masterpiece but if you coul…
/r/seduction04/03/13 05:56 PM
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Why do I have you tagged as a SRS warrior? The fuck are you doing in /r/seduction? Anyway, respond with "I'm fun sized." or "Trust me, I'm just the right size". Also, veggies response is decent. Or just ignore it.
/r/seduction22/01/13 09:11 AM
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I went out three times a week for about four months and less often for another two months. I also did occasional day game. I know, sounds like a lot but: I had a stable wing and we always went out together. He was also a newbie when he started. We even had two man routines and secret code to mark targets and obstacles and shit. I did not drink at all. Except for the cover charges and fuel, I didn't spend any money on it. But even for cover charges, I often got free entry through different people…
/r/seduction22/01/13 09:04 AM
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I'm not gonna address your sob story part, cause I think you're just being lazy. As for the armchair PUAs... Yeah, there are some. But I came to this, with no skills. I couldn't get a girl to save my life. Within 6 months I was a changed man. And all I did was what this subreddit and other PUA resources told me. So no, this shit isn't just for naturals who need to hone their skills. it can take you from neckbeard virgin to relationships with women you choose, if you commit to change. It did it f…
/r/seduction17/01/13 09:45 AM
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Approach one person, become friendly, and then work their social circle. This includes both guys and girls, and especially girls that you've attempted to pick up but failed. Yeah, she will friendzone you, but then just pick her friend up. Abundance mentality dude.
/r/seduction12/12/12 08:02 AM
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http://www.pick-up-artist-forum.com/the-dicarlo-escalation-ladder-vt16552.html
/r/seduction12/12/12 07:58 AM
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Thanks, but I'm also a PUA. I took the time to figure out how to tailor my approach to make it the best experience both for her and for myself. So, next time somebody bashes our community, do stand up for us. Thanks. :)
/r/seduction08/11/12 03:34 AM
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I got bestof'd? Do link me. :)
/r/seduction08/11/12 03:29 AM
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I'm in a LTR with a girl who had ZERO romantic/sexual experience before me. Virgin / no first kiss, etc. I brought her from nothing to fucking on regular schedule within 5 months, which I consider major success considering how shy she was. Firstly, I'm strongly against fucking around no-strings attached with a virgin. First sexual experience is fucking strong, and lot of comfort and trust is needed. Unless you're happy with a relationship, I'd stay away from her. Primarily in terms of leaving he…
/r/seduction06/11/12 10:45 AM
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That explains why I've had shitty success opening with variations on "You look bored/sad/angry/lost". Project positive personality, not negative. Thanks.
/r/seduction15/03/12 03:22 PM
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Oh, do you know anything more than us mere mortals about the supposed upcoming The Game movie?
/r/seduction14/02/12 05:13 PM
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Wat did he say? I MUST NO!!!
/r/seduction14/02/12 05:10 PM
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How active have you been in the community since the game was published (outisde of your Stylelife company and books such as Rules of the Game)? How has your game progressed since times of The Game? What are the some sticking poits you've solved since The Game? Can you even pickup anymore or does your fame interfere? What do you make of the sharp turn towards natural game community has taken and do you think it is a good or a bad thing? Do you still use canned material yourself? Do you adhere to …
/r/seduction14/02/12 04:49 PM
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Perth FTW. Will be 1am here. :)
/r/seduction14/02/12 01:47 PM
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I think pickup has serious potential to change you both for better and for worse. You gotta strive to not change for worse as much as you strive to change for better.
/r/seduction14/02/12 04:12 AM
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Only way to fail in this game is to not attempt. If you went to the mall and didn't approach, you would have failed. But you did approach (and 5 at that, first time and I presume solo). That's a success.
/r/seduction08/02/12 02:43 AM
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Ummmm... /r/perth?
/r/seduction06/02/12 06:40 AM
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Perth reddit meet was yesterday. Don't tell me you're from Perth...
/r/seduction05/02/12 09:08 AM
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If you have her showing clear interest and committing value it can be done. But if not better not to do it. I generally don't. I either get them a water or I try to flip it on them and sometimes I get a drink.
/r/seduction03/02/12 10:37 AM
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Hey, being funny is enough of an achievement for DanishPUA to warrant listening.
/r/seduction31/01/12 07:01 AM
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Less effective but still useful. If she resists, you cause a BT spike and eventually get compliance. Then in future, she will give you same level of compliance because she gave it back then, regardless of her current temperature.
/r/seduction30/01/12 06:06 AM
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BT stand for buying temperature. You temporarily raise her emotional state by sexualising the conversation or doing some role-play and shit like that. Gives you temporary increase in compliance but can be lost upon state breaks and after a day or so of not seeing her.
/r/seduction29/01/12 05:08 PM
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NLP isn't 100% embraced by science, but psychology is probably the shiftiest science there is (see Rosenhan experiment). I think basic idea is sound but I don't think it is THAT magic nor THAT easy. I don't know NLP nor do I use it (except when using in-jokes and nicknames to make girls remember me) so I can't really tell you how to actually do it. Are you looking for NLP related to pickup or just general NLP stuff. Cause when it comes to pickup Ross Jeffries is your man, altho I think NLP is no…
/r/seduction29/01/12 04:51 PM
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From what I gather, basic idea of NLP is to elicit desirable emotions and then anchor them to yourself or to a word or an action that can fire them on demand. So you for example get her to remember the most amazing sex she ever had and then associate it with a word which you say when you want to get her into that state. It is similar to how certain songs will make you remember certain good or bad experiences. Patters are just routines which achieve the above goal, it can be pretty hard to come u…
/r/seduction29/01/12 04:35 PM
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Nope, they don't put that up, obviously.
/r/seduction29/01/12 08:57 AM
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Really? I'd take that any day over this (happened to my wing a month or so ago): He opens a 3set in a loud bar and I instantly get opened by another 3set. We are split at this point. His chicks are 8s+ and mine are 6s and 7s. Mine are happy, I flip "buy me a drink" on them and they buy me a drink. Meanwhile he is chatting to his 3set and they are instantly hooked. One of them has a birthday. She asks him to guess her age. He says 21 and she screams "Yes!!!" and hugs him. At this point my set kin…
/r/seduction28/01/12 04:36 PM
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Go out consistently, you got the right mentality, but understand that Simple Pickup guys do tons of approaches. Their game is just spewing jokes and not giving a fuck, and while that works it is a huge numbers game. They mentioned once that they filmed 3 hours of straight approaches (literally from girl to girl) to get enough material for 5 minute episode.
/r/seduction28/01/12 04:22 PM
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We cannot, nor do we want to, hold your hand through this. To use Mystery's line: "We've opened the door for you but we can't drag you through it." At this point join your local lair. Google is your friend. Then go outside, talk to strangers (follow the 3 second rule) and gain experience. Then come back with FR and questions.
/r/seduction28/01/12 04:19 PM
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As all of the kids who don't even know the name of their father can attest to.
/r/seduction28/01/12 09:30 AM
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Jon Sinn was right. Fuck Neil Strauss.
/r/seduction28/01/12 05:34 AM
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The fuck. This is seddit. GTFO.
/r/seduction28/01/12 05:32 AM
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I considered that. Maybe having a half-white baby would raise her standard in the eyes of society. Dunno.
/r/seduction28/01/12 05:27 AM
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don't want to change too much and end like one of those sluts from my school... There is so much wrong with that sentence that it makes me physically sick. If you spew that kind of shit on regular basis you have a mindset that is insanely unattractive. Change is ESSENTIAL. Settling for the way you are now without desire t improve will get you nowhere. That is not to say that being wildly unhappy about yourself and hating yourself is good, it isn't. You should be generally happy with yourself but…
/r/seduction26/01/12 04:06 PM
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If I can tell them I'm a historian you can tell them you are an engineer.
/r/seduction26/01/12 03:45 PM
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Reframe what failure is: Me and my wings consider it a failure only when you fail to attempt, not when you fail to succeed. You are failing when you don't approach, not when you get a cold/bad set or a rejection. You are failing only when you fail to ask for a number, not when you are unsuccessful. You are failing when you fail to go for a day2, not when she flakes on the day2. You get the idea.
/r/seduction26/01/12 03:43 PM
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Man, I'd be too scared to stick my dick into anything in Africa. How can she be so laid back about the condom? We in developed countries are scared as fuck of STDs and yet our AIDS and STD rates are negligible compared to Africa. And yet she's like: Whatever dude. No wonder AIDS is rampaging across that continent.
/r/seduction26/01/12 03:37 PM
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We have yet to figure out where DutchPUA is actually from...
/r/seduction20/01/12 05:17 PM
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You won't develop the reputation as a creep if your approaches are not creepy. So, don't try off the wall silly shit at the campus, go with friendly more indirect stuff. Nobody can fault you for being nice friendly dude.
/r/seduction19/01/12 01:32 AM
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MM has fallen out of favour with most of community exactly for the reasons you mention. It works and is effective (especially against 10s/strippers/hired guns) but there are simple, more true models. Dominant view of the game is MM-based natural game such as stuff taught by Lovesystems and Real Social Dynamics or even push for developing truly natural game (Just go talk to girls until you figure it out for yourself although I am personally not a fan of telling people this). MM works for Mystery …
/r/seduction19/01/12 01:23 AM
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When she opened that chick looking at the fruit.
/r/seduction18/01/12 06:25 AM
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I felt much the same way. When I discovered pickup I thought that a) it probably doesn't work and b) if it does work it is immoral. But I kept reading, I suspect because I thought that if I'm gonna hate something I should give it the courtesy of understanding it. What salvaged it, for me, in a moral sense is the fact that you are taught that some women will simply not be into you and that is alright. If this was a foolproof method of getting any woman, even an unwilling one, to be with you I wou…
/r/seduction17/01/12 03:08 PM
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DO IT!!!!
/r/seduction17/01/12 08:41 AM
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Her verbal game is tight. I don't think she said one thing that was not perfect. That escalation of: Target: I know a girl named Lisa. PUA: Is she a good news or a bad news? And when she called (note the fact she called) she opened with an anchor and a joke. She kino escalated during the fruit conversation, she is light and playful. That 20 sec handshake with the first girl was epic. She ignored the boyfriend and got her to agree on same-day date. Man, she is a machine.
/r/seduction17/01/12 08:31 AM
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Not just that, Ryan Gosling's PUA character is shown to be emotionally empty person trying to fill the hole in his soul with SNLs. His careful game is de-constructed by Emma Stone in one night. No PUA of that implied calibre would fold so easily. That scene when he asks her to ask him something personal made me want to puke. Are you freaking serious? It is basically male slut shaming. Which is ironic because movie ends with what could arguably be called statutory rape when the babysitter charact…
/r/seduction15/01/12 09:24 AM
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First language Croatian, moved to Australia at 14 and learned English at that age. Humour has never been my problem. Different cultures like different kind of jokes (puns are huge in Australia while I don't think I have heard more than 2 or 3 in Croatian) but otherwise I have had no problem, so dunno what to tell you.
/r/seduction12/01/12 04:54 AM
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Textbook stuff really. he sounds like a PUA hiding the fact he is a PUA. maybe 4chan will get laid more now that they repost this in oblivion.
/r/seduction12/01/12 03:27 AM
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Female friends (and true friends, kind you don't wanna bone) can be good for this too.
/r/seduction12/01/12 03:13 AM
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No, they are not deceptions. Conspiracy plotline is when you pull the girl into "us world" and you tell her that you two are gonna do this, or that you two are only one who know this. She feels like she belongs to you in a social sense and they like it. It's not a lie, you can actually tell them whatever the conspiracy is/was. Jealousy plotline is when she comes up with a conclusion that she has to compete for you. It only works if you establish higher value. You can introduce her to your female…
/r/seduction12/01/12 03:10 AM
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1st PUA: Cool. I've got a puppy. Look, I've got his picture, I bet he is cuter than your boyfriend. [pull out your phone, show a photo of a puppy] HB: Awwwww.. What's his name? He's soooo cute... PUA:[stack forward] 2nd PUA: Can I grab your number? HB: I've got a boyfriend. PUA: That's alright, I don't need his number.
/r/seduction12/01/12 02:51 AM
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When in fact I'm a socially awkward nerd just like you, only difference being I've decided to stop feeling sorry for myself. Oh and I do my own exams and assessments and I pride myself on my distinctions. Now you are just descending to personal insults. I'm not gonna feed you anymore. If you take our advice, welcome and good luck. If you don't then just good luck I guess.
/r/seduction12/01/12 02:15 AM
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Your problem is probably that you are value-taker, not value giver. Change that and you will see a social circle forming around you. Read up on giving vs taking value. You could go out to bars and just approach girls alone. That's how Mystery (most famous PUA) started. For that you need to have an iron cast mindset and determination. Otherwise just join activities that people your age frequent. Classes, hobbies, interests. One thing you can do pretty easily is keep an eye on your city subreddit …
/r/seduction11/01/12 11:37 PM
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Dude, at my lair there is a dude who's 42 and seriously balding. We had a lair meeting yesterday. He got a number from a hottie (25ish, maybe a bit more) I saw him open 3 days before when we went out. Yesterday he shows me the conversation. He applied the concepts of text-game beautifully and last message from her was, and I quote: 'Do we have to keep texting into oblivion or will you ask me out anytime soon?" He's never been married, started showing up for meetings 3 months ago. Yes, I don't kn…
/r/seduction11/01/12 11:20 PM
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Sedditor If you are an outsider you might see this. It's called AMOGing and they are VERY good at it. They are dominating you socially and will destroy you if they can see benefit in it (called pawning). It sounds brutal, but we are all competing for attention of female gender. But if you get on the inside you'll see that they are great-non judgemental bunch. At least my local group.
/r/seduction11/01/12 10:56 PM
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Sedditor What you most likely do is interview mode. You ask her factual questions or you discuss an activity in a factual sense and while it is keeping the conversation alive it is not moving it along emotionally. What you gotta do is incorporate jokes and funny comments and talk about emotions. Women love talking about emotions. When you tell a story about how your hard drive failed don't say: "My hard drive failed yesterday. It was 11 years old. Solid workmanship". Say something like: "Oh I ha…
/r/seduction11/01/12 10:52 PM
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Meaning, take action NOW, not when you are 65.
/r/seduction11/01/12 10:39 PM
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Warm is when you are introduced. They know of you through a trusted person and they give you basic amount of respect and trust in the intraction. Thus you are less likely to see clear rejection "Stop talking to me". Cold is just walking up to people without knowing anything or anyone related to them. There, they are more likely to clearly reject the interaction althought it happens MUCH LESS than you could ever imagine. Unless you to something that is clearly rude as hell (make fun of then, slap…
/r/seduction11/01/12 10:38 PM
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Sedditor Most people who fail with PUA are those who either can't break their comfort zone or simply cannot muster the mental power for massive change you experience. I don't know of a single case of people who have applied PUA teachings fully and devoted themselves to it and then failed. Regardless of how badly off you are at the start, you will do well. Look at this. Guys picking up girls in WHEELCHAIRS and getting positive response (and that with minimal formal game, they are know for preferi…
/r/seduction11/01/12 10:26 PM
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Sedditor here. But the whole success with opposite gender is based on manipulation. Sorry brah. When you see a hawt lady your eyes pop out cause her lips are so red, her breasts are full and perky, her skin is smooth and even, her eyes are prominent, her hair is smooth and gorgeous and her body is athletic. But her lips are not that red without lipstick, her breasts are not that perky without a push-up bra, her skin is not that smooth without an assortment of different skincare products, her eye…
/r/seduction11/01/12 10:16 PM
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I'm sorry, but where are you from? Who actually uses word "jabber" in a sentence?
/r/seduction09/01/12 11:32 AM
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Does this count as f-close? You know, flight-close?
/r/seduction06/01/12 04:23 AM
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If you want to paragraph break you gotta press Enter twice. But yeah, nice FR, well done.
/r/seduction06/01/12 04:22 AM
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You made me develop intense hatred for the whole flight attendant profession. God damn cockblocks. Insane FR, you sir are a scholar and a gentleman. Major respect.
/r/seduction06/01/12 12:31 AM
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Rebound like it's NBA!!!!
/r/seduction05/01/12 06:41 AM
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I see FTCs as really being for her benefit. You defuse her apprehension about a stranger coming up by suggesting that you will live soon. You know that she has nothing to fear from you, but she doesn't and it is not easy for her. In the end, it is a very small false promise which, if you play your cards, she'll be happy you made and then broke. If you wish you could word it differently, for example: "I should probably go soon but can I get your opinion on something [stack forward]". Whether you …
/r/seduction03/01/12 07:29 PM
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Your rapist senses are tingling?
/r/seduction03/01/12 07:21 PM
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You still come across as somebody who disapproves of our techniques and will use them only in a way which he deems ethical, implying that we are unethical. For example: I used unfaithful techniques because faithful ones are unsuccessful. You are basically resigning to "end justify the means" against your better judgement. I cannot, nor do I care to change your opinion of seduction community. You should just know that we adhere to "leave her better off than you found her" code in addition to our …
/r/seduction03/01/12 04:42 PM
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I don't wanna be harsh, we've all been heartbroken, emotionally confused and insecure. Many of us, including myself, still are. But: Consciously thinking about one's interaction is manipulative and morally wrong. I think you've clicked the wrong online community.
/r/seduction03/01/12 03:46 PM
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I'm interested too.
/r/seduction02/01/12 11:44 AM
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Inspiring shit. Well done, major respect.
/r/seduction02/01/12 11:43 AM
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And that's how I proved that universe is expanding.
/r/seduction01/01/12 06:50 AM
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Your testosterone level spikes at 7th day of not fapping and then it levels off to the same levels as with fapping schedule. There is no solid argument (other than personal challenge) to abstain from fapping for more than 7 days at a time. http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/12659241?dopt=Abstract So ideally, if you pick up every Saturday (with SNL as an objective, assuming 7 days abstinence), you should fap in the morning of Saturday and when the night rolls around you will be able to last longe…
/r/seduction30/12/11 03:26 PM
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HB9 I met recently was a fundie. I tried to ignore it but it turns out she is the "no sex before marriage" kind. Ejected so fast I was a blur...
/r/seduction30/12/11 08:32 AM
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And religion.
/r/seduction30/12/11 08:07 AM
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I'll stop doing it when it stops working.
/r/seduction29/12/11 05:13 AM
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The key really is mentality. You will for sure fail if you don't have the strength of mind. Rest of it takes a while but is easy compared to the effort required to change your mentality. Seddit can't really teach you that directly, but seddit is filled with people who have done the work of changing their mentality. Around seddit it is referred to as inner game. if you doubt yourself, everyone will doubt you. About a year ago I was where you are (not as badly, but I was at brink of some major dep…
/r/seduction28/12/11 01:53 PM
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Have you read Venusian Arts? I think you might benefit from updating your understanding of MM if you haven't read it. They make it clear that the M3 model stemms from their understanding of MM at 2006. In Venusian Arts they focus more on natural game and calibration and less on canned material and strictly structured pickup.
/r/seduction28/12/11 06:05 AM
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Same position. Friend of a friend likes me. I hope I can pull off what you did. :)
/r/seduction28/12/11 05:17 AM
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Thanks man, I'm hoping to pull off a similar kind of feat soon. :)
/r/seduction28/12/11 05:10 AM
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Oh yeah? You're funny looking too!
/r/seduction27/12/11 06:35 PM
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If I'm at a loss to respond with something very funny and situational I respond to compliments with a smile (important to smile) and: "I know".
/r/seduction27/12/11 09:59 AM
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This pickup is over, I promised to update so I'll give you a very abridged version of it. This is all over next 3 or 4 times we see each other, just important points. Next time we saw each other I sexualise the convo and escalate. She flirts a bit (that's the way it seemed to me) and I play into her flirt. Upon clearly defining my intentions, she blows up, saying that she is still in the middle of her messy breakup and that she likes me and stuff but can't have relationship. Textbook LJBF. I plo…
/r/seduction25/12/11 05:07 AM
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Agreed with the first paragraph. It shouldn't hold you captive. Yes, economic meltdown is very complex, but "don't worry be happy" is a part of it. I really hate to do this, but since I'm playing into your argument I'm gonna do it. I am a historian. I've majored in history and I'm finding it very hard to find an example of such argument where intentional delusion was beneficial to the population. I'd genuinely be interested if you have specific example to offer. Regarding the last paragraph: is …
/r/seduction24/12/11 09:35 AM
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While I agree that one should actively strive to act and be happy, I don't think it is very constructive to just flat out ban sadness from your life. Sometimes, it is ok to just be sad. It helps you deal with hardships. If you lose your job it is not a good thing and it is ok to be sad about it and reflect on it. Also, I think the economic meltdown argument is very sound. Clear economic signs that this all could not go on were present but where shut down by the whole "don't worry, be happy" poli…
/r/seduction24/12/11 03:58 AM
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Gee, gee, gee, gee, baby, baby baby.... Is this like your diary entry? Male k-pop bands scare me. Far too feminine. I have nothing against feminine men but they just seem to bask in the femininity of it. And as a man trying to bring out his alpha male I don't think they are good influence. I don't know what to tell you. I didn't know there was female porn but apparently there is. What I mostly get from this is that we need a freaking female seddit.
/r/seduction23/12/11 12:22 PM
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Day9 is a boss, and while all this stands, keep in mind: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u5um8QWWRvo
/r/seduction23/12/11 09:01 AM
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Sidebar, please... I have most of lifestyle under my control (except sleep). I understand toolbox but I have very little experience. I'm maybe 50:50 on state of mind (still battling major AA). And 2 dot points at most for the progress :(. I guess I got some work to do. :)
/r/seduction23/12/11 07:36 AM
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Kino stands for kinesthetic which basically means... touch. Women are very receptive to touch thus touch is very important in any PUA game you care to name. it just has to be slow, not noticeable and gradual.
/r/seduction23/12/11 07:32 AM
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in Perth it's called the Elephant & Wheelbarrow Noted. It is now on my places to visit.
/r/seduction19/12/11 12:37 PM
2

I think that if the oxytocin is given covertly, it would be illegal but if it was done overtly, it would not.
/r/seduction18/12/11 12:28 PM
3

I'm sure you can work a "Let me give you this injection real quick" into your game. Perhaps after a compliance ladder?
/r/seduction18/12/11 12:27 PM
2

You can apply Art of War to any aspect of your life.
/r/seduction18/12/11 04:56 AM
1

Seems like a new date rape drug. Drop some in her drink and let the "bonding" begin.
/r/seduction18/12/11 04:51 AM
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96 males and 103 females? Sample size seems too small to be honest.
/r/seduction17/12/11 06:01 AM
0

Not the same. Black person doesn't choose to be black. I could never dislike a person for something that is out of their control. Not believing in evolution is to me kinda like not believing world is round or there is gravity. Just ridiculous. Excuse me that I don't feed ignorance, especially in somebody that should know better. I still think she is smart, smarter than me in fact. But she is heavily misguided by religious dogma. I have no respect for religion, I respect her as a person and just …
/r/seduction16/12/11 03:05 AM
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I find that slightly confusing. Don't take this the wrong way, but you dance and we pay for it. Relationship is pretty simple, and it is overt. There is no other implications. Who tries to pickup strippers while they work (unless it is for pure challenge of it)? I'd hesitate to try picking up a stripper off duty let alone one that is totally in the zone and working above else. If you want to see some tits, that is fine, but if you are craving female validation through sex wouldn't a drunk chick …
/r/seduction15/12/11 08:49 PM
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You get alot of "so why do you dance" stuff?
/r/seduction15/12/11 08:13 PM
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I have to agree with the rest of Seddit. This guys seems to be not running any recognisable game. Small penis comment is as DLV as it gets, big no no and he shows very open interest (discouraged) and a clumsy neg (you don't neg on weight and most of the times don't do it on looks either). An proper neg would be something like: "You dance funny, sure you've done this before? Need help?" From what I gather running game on hired guns consists of breaking through their professional personality. So, …
/r/seduction15/12/11 08:02 PM
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Hey, I never said she's too stupid to pursue. And excuse me if I'm gonna take the word of numerous renowned scientists such as Richard Dawkins over a chick that just got her Bachelor of Science. If that's what being a sumbag atheist is then, by all means, downvote away. I'll still upvote you cause I had a laugh.
/r/seduction15/12/11 08:14 AM
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With either masters you mentioned she got into, she is absolutely brilliant. This leads me to believe shes either a much more shy girl who gets excellent grades or a very dominant girl who goes after what she wants. It wouldn't hurt to take a glance at how prestigious those programs are at her school, at mine they are extremely high level. She got accepted to the most prestigious university in state for her Masters. However, I would group her into the shy but excellent grades. I don't know her s…
/r/seduction15/12/11 04:56 AM
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Practice for the most part. To clarify, I don't like religion, but I don't dislike her for being religious. If religion is mental structure that supports her identity who am I to take that support away? I will strive to leave her better off than I found her, in true PUA fashion.
/r/seduction15/12/11 04:47 AM
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Wow. First, let me say I truly believe you will be extremely successful with women based on your clear analysis, good memory and recognizing where techniques play into things. Well, thanks. I hope you are dead right. :) There is a tendency, which you'll get past, to place too much importance on techniques and terminology, and break what is basically a normal conversation into a bunch of PUA terms. For instance, when you are inside the girls house talking to her parents, it really isn't a #close.…
/r/seduction15/12/11 04:43 AM
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I am not ruling out relationship either. I will not actively pursue it probably but depending how she plays her cards I'll probably respond in a positive way if she pursues it. If she responds to kino escalation but then gives me resistance as things move in a sexual way I will respect her boundaries and won't push her. But if say 3 weeks or so after that we are neither fucking nor in a relationship I will cut my loses and move on. I am not in need of friends.
/r/seduction15/12/11 04:32 AM
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I didn't think about mother-preselection thing. That may be a huge bonus. I am confident my mum displayed my best side (she takes immense pride in my accomplishments) but if her mum spoke to her. Actually, she did say "I know" to few stuff I told her. So she either spoke with my mum about me (unlikely) or to her mum (more likely).
/r/seduction14/12/11 06:02 PM
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I'm not a fan of movie dates. You can't talk so my verbal game is shut down (which I think is my asset) and if you are going for kino, it is hard to make it natural. Like, if you are making a move, you are making a move and it is obvious.
/r/seduction14/12/11 05:59 PM
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About 3 weeks of material (mostly Mystery Method) under my belt and this is my first significant PUA experience. Yeah, I didn't let he trample over my beliefs. Initially I was pretty clear that she is borderline offensive but after I snapped back I stayed my ground and took neutral tolerant stance before quickly dropping it.
/r/seduction14/12/11 05:58 PM
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Yeah, I'm not initiating anything till the next week.
/r/seduction14/12/11 04:43 PM
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She is single and I think she wants a relationship. She hasn't seen me before (unless she was stalking me) but my mum told her some stuff about me. Yeah, we don't have any solid plans yet which is for the best I think. Giver her few days to cool off.
/r/seduction14/12/11 04:30 PM
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She was talking about how she believe in micro evolution and not really macro evolution. That bullshit story religious people use to try to reconcile their beliefs and science. I got scared that f-closing might be impossible with her but turns out she is really a convenience religious person. If she doesn't like it she doesn't practice that part of religion. I can tell that she doesn't really have a critical mind. She does and believes what she is told which might be a good thing in the end.
/r/seduction14/12/11 04:27 PM
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Game is based on subconscious psychology. Let's make an analogy in male context, both a homeless beggar without high school and a scientist working in CERN will get a boner when they see a nice pair of tits and dat ass. It is subconscious response, has nothing to do with intelligence. But if you are looking for no strings attached sex, intelligence is the last thing you are looking for.
/r/seduction14/12/11 05:14 AM
1

Why does it work then if it is lame? Lots of stuff from the game sound too lame or stupid but works. The whole concept of developing a technique of seducing is to a degree lame, granted, but you don't show the girl (or anyone else who isn't in the community) nuts and bolts of your game and thus it looks smooth.
/r/seduction13/12/11 04:41 AM
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Why is it so wrong to show somebody a magic trick? Are you saying that knowing magic tricks is immoral? Exactly, you got the point. Many guys have walked up to the girl, said "You're hot, can I buy you a drink?". She's heard it and done it before. The trick may be a little random, but it makes you stand out, it entertains the target thus gives the whole interaction value and validation.
/r/seduction12/12/11 03:34 PM
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The game has been developed by equal parts trial and error and observing of naturals. Somebody who runs the game has just learned to do what naturals didn't have to learn and were given. How is it any different?
/r/seduction11/12/11 04:39 AM
1

If you are a jerk you are not playing the game correctly.
/r/seduction10/12/11 10:09 AM
2

They are just mad that we've basically solved the mystery.
/r/seduction09/12/11 04:34 PM
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Man, you are a beast.
/r/seduction09/12/11 11:29 AM
2

The trick he opened the initial 1-set with.
/r/seduction06/12/11 08:12 AM
1

Pics or it didn't happen.
/r/seduction04/12/11 05:24 PM
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Or Australia. It crushes me cause redheaded girls bleach their hair and I am a big fan of readheads. This shit needs to stop.
/r/seduction04/12/11 10:55 AM
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I find it hard to believe that it works for non-lesbian women. Maybe it is because I now know about it but if you came up to me and started trying to cold read me I would call you out on your bullshit. I don't think straight males are wired in a way to respond to the traditional game. There might be a female game equivalent but I doubt this game works on males. EDIT: I mean in the strictest sense of cold approach and f-closing the guy you see. General confidence and body language stuff works on …
/r/seduction04/12/11 10:47 AM
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You must be a feminist.
/r/seduction29/11/11 02:37 PM
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