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| 3 | Got results but realized casual sex isn't for me.Don't beat yourself up too much OP. I'm a 35 yo divorced man, and I have to say a lot of this is figuring out what you do and don't like. The trick is finding somebody who's on the same wavelength. My marriage and divorce taught me a lot about what I want and what I don't want in my next future long term partner. | /r/seduction | 15/11/24 12:57 AM |
| 1 | I feel like this "always stay persistent, it’s your fault if she’s not interested" mentality is messing up my headOn a long enough timeline, all eventualities are possible. That said, we get the time we get on this big blue marble, and you can get other resources (money/material posessions) back. You ain't getting any time back. So to waste it on one woman when there's literal billions in the world is illogical. | /r/seduction | 01/11/24 08:50 AM |
| 1 | how to find gf at 16 yoStaying in shape. Staying out of debt Acquiring assets like a home a car and building your credit score. Basically build your kingdom and then the queen should reveal herself. | /r/seduction | 15/10/24 07:16 PM |
| 2 | how to find gf at 16 yoBecome a man who provides value and they'll flock to you. Stay out of debt, stay in shape and whether you decide to go to college or not, get you a nice well paying job with benefits, women will be flocking to you. | /r/seduction | 15/10/24 07:50 AM |
| 4 | Literal model walks into a bar and it's amazing how girls naturally gravitated towards himMost women want you to spend money on them. They may not be sex workers directly, but if they know you buying stuff and taking them out and treating them, you can get women that way. | /r/seduction | 09/05/24 01:33 AM |
| 46 | Literal model walks into a bar and it's amazing how girls naturally gravitated towards himLooks and money are the 2 cheat codes. That said, as stated above, you gotta have something to keep them past the initial attraction. You may draw them in, but if you have nothing to offer once they get there, looks will only take you so far. If you just tryna hit and quit tho, yeah its easy mode. | /r/seduction | 08/05/24 01:01 PM |
| 2 | Having more success sealing the deal with girls that acted cold towards me?Oh well if you just want her on the roster then i think the lovey dovey messages are fine. Just make sure that while you're working on projects, you got some guaranteed. As a now divorced man, I can def say one of the mistakes I made in roster construction before I settled down was putting all my eggs in one basket and then getting pissed when she wasn't moving like I wanted her to. Now that I'm single again and rebuilding the roster, I make sure I keep some guaranteed that I can get whenever I … | /r/seduction | 29/04/24 09:36 PM |
| 5 | Younger woman shows mixed signals and I don't know how to behaveBased on what you described, I think she likes you. At 20, she's probably very inexperienced, and doesn't want to come across as easy but also may just be oblivious. You're gonna have to play patient game with her. Some guys (myself included) aren't into the patient game, but dates and little escalations to test here and there are the way to go. To use a football analogy, take what the defense gives you, and don't try to score in one play. | /r/seduction | 29/04/24 09:28 PM |
| 0 | How to handle a super shy womenI mean if that's a deal breaker for you then it's a dealbreaker. I will say that some people just suck at keeping in touch even with their own family let alone people they tryna get with. I've met people who are such space cadets that they can get a text at like noon, say in their head "oh I should respond", then they start doing their own stuff, and they have no concept of time. Then once they log back in to check their socials it's that whole "oh yeah other people exist" thing. Granted that's … | /r/seduction | 29/04/24 09:18 PM |
| 6 | Having more success sealing the deal with girls that acted cold towards me?Hatred ain't the opposite of love. Apathy is. You get with women that you make feel something. | /r/seduction | 29/04/24 09:12 PM |
| 4 | Having more success sealing the deal with girls that acted cold towards me?That depends on what you want. I'm a firm believer in honesty is the best policy, so if you're just trying to hit and quit, it might be best to stop. If you're tryna see where it goes, then keep it going. Maybe they decide to go for it eventually, but this is the patient man's road. Me personally, if I'm confused, I move around. | /r/seduction | 29/04/24 09:07 PM |
| 29 | Having more success sealing the deal with girls that acted cold towards me?Not nessicarily. It's possible that the warmer girls see you more as long term boyfriend/husband material and they're not in an emotional place for that so they self sabotage. Whereas the colder ones know this ain't going further than where it's at, so might as well both get your rocks off and fill a need and go your separate ways. Just one man's opinion tho | /r/seduction | 29/04/24 07:44 PM |
| 1 | examples you do that show you're not a "nice guy"One of the biggest changes I've found from when I wasn't getting female attention to when I started getting it was my switch in mindset. You've gotta get out of a scarcity mindset and switch to an abundance mindset. This can be hard if love and affection has been rare for you, but you gotta not put individual women u want up on a pedestal. You've gotta have the mindset of "so what Rachel said she was busy? I've still got Sophie, Sara, Alexis and Taylor I can talk to" Once you think of it like th… | /r/seduction | 29/04/24 07:39 PM |
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