JSintra Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Any other guys also finding fulfillment in not committing to a woman and being a bachelor for life? 30 isn’t old. Approaching 40 does bring up some thought about family and settling down.	/r/seduction	16/10/21 01:46 AM
3	What do you feel about this? You are confused indeed.	/r/seduction	31/10/19 06:40 PM
2	What do you feel about this? The number is different, but what else?	/r/seduction	31/10/19 06:02 PM
3	What do you feel about this? Are we though? I think it's more of an upbringing thing. We think that way because that's what we see and learn while growing up. I recall some reddit post or comment about some tribe in south america who didn't have this concept, because they thought a child was the result of a build up of partners - they were all considered fathers to him. In this society, there was no monogamy and there weren't any issues. Two people thought each other attractive? They'd bang. No judgment from anyone.	/r/seduction	31/10/19 06:02 PM
3	What do you feel about this? True, it's a "me" problem. I don't ask for many details either to be honest, but I'm not afraid or shy to ask certain questions. As for your hangup, you gotta realize she had chosen you, which means out of a sea of choices, you were top. We all live life differently, and as such have different experiences. Some of those can be awesome, some can be intimidating and make us uncomfortable. We make the mistake of projecting our thoughts (and the insecurity that comes with them) onto other people, an…	/r/seduction	31/10/19 05:58 PM
3	What do you feel about this? Agreed. Then again, tinder isn't really that great of a tool for us men. Should never use it as a crutch, because the courtship process is so unlike real life.	/r/seduction	31/10/19 05:54 PM
13	What do you feel about this? I don't necessarily disagree. But women putting in low effort can't compete with the ones putting in more, and have to settle for less. It's a choice I suppose. Women do put in effort.	/r/seduction	31/10/19 05:06 PM
8	What do you feel about this? Lots. Because they're not afraid or insecure about it.	/r/seduction	31/10/19 05:03 PM
9	What do you feel about this? I don't care how many men a woman's been with. It's not a problem for me. Why wouldn't you marry a woman who has had multiple partners? It says way more about you than her.	/r/seduction	31/10/19 05:02 PM
83	What do you feel about this? It's obviously exaggeration, which is why it's humorous. Women put in effort to be attractive: diets, going to the gym, dressing up well, using matching make up, sending signals to men to come talk to them, and possibly other things that don't even come to mind to us. Then weeding out the "undesirables" that approach, having to be concerned with the more forceful ones, navigating social cues, etc. Sure, it's easier for them, because men typically approach, whereas women do not (generalization ob…	/r/seduction	31/10/19 03:27 PM
6	Being transparent is holding me back... Where is the line between being genuine with my feelings and playing the game? The problem isn't showing how you feel, the problem is what you do with this. If you have an issue (like an insecurity), it's genuine and somewhat courageous to acknowledge it. There's nothing wrong with revealing this issue. But that's not enough: what are you doing to resolve it? If you're not taking steps to solve your issue (and it is yours, not anyone else's), you're probably coming off as insecure and using other people as emotional sponges. This becomes grating and will drive people away.…	/r/seduction	04/08/19 04:09 AM
1	I know that my problem is that I "try too hard" to be likeable, I just don't know how to fix it. We spend way too much time worrying about how we're representing ourselves sometimes to understand that it doesn't matter and you should treat this person like any other person you interact with and have no expectations. This is pretty wise. And it reinforces the idea of learning not to care. Although it's in our nature to try to be likeable, we mustn't overdo it. There's being a pleasant and open minded person (almost) anyone can be around, and there's being a try hard who doesn't let his true …	/r/seduction	02/07/19 03:12 AM
7	How should I respond? With a thinking smiley at the start.	/r/seduction	25/11/18 09:00 PM
1	What im i doing wrong? This is the best i can do.. im like this even in real life, how can i stop being boring? Yes, with people who know nothing about you. That's how you make friends. Nah, you won't be like this forever. But you'll have to do something about it. Small steps: get curious about people and try to relate to them. Don't judge them; every time you're about to judge, stop and try to figure out why they have a certain opinion (that will obviously require you asking them).	/r/seduction	13/09/18 02:08 PM
3	What im i doing wrong? This is the best i can do.. im like this even in real life, how can i stop being boring? I feel like asking her to much would be asking for her attention. This is what people do to get to know each other. We ask questions about them and why they have certain opinions. If you don't know anything about mental issues, why didn't you ask her about it? For instance, you could've asked her why she thinks it's so important and if it's had any impact on her life. Drop the high and mighty attitude and stop being afraid of appearing ignorant - ask why and show them you're interested in them a…	/r/seduction	13/09/18 01:41 PM
34	Guys who have a crush on your GF and your GF tells you... How to react? Is it a test? First of all, women, and especially attractive ones, will always be getting attention from men. It's just how it is, and you have to realize that every guy with a girlfriend has to just live with it. We can't do anything about it, nor should we try. With that said, it's totally on her on how to handle this kind of situation. A good and mature girlfriend will defuse the situation (they're painfully aware of what's going on and how to do this) or ignore it, either moving the conversation in anothe…	/r/seduction	01/09/18 05:37 PM
1	Great sex with previous casual partners, can't stay erect with gf (a 10) It sucks that she mentioned her ex. That's something you don't do. Asking you to do something specific during sex is totally normal and expected. Don't frame it as you not being good, it's you guys working together to have fun and get pleasure. She likes you and wants it to be you doing these things. Uncharted territory is scary. Try not to be in your head and follow your instincts. Ask her what she likes while you're going at it. Then do it, but not too intensely so you can gauge her reaction. …	/r/seduction	22/08/18 12:27 PM
3	Assume something about her that’s WRONG. She’ll be fascinated. Obviously said teasingly with a smirk. But only do shit like this when a chick is showing signs of being attracted to you already. Might be obvious to you, but this needs to stand out for anyone new to this. She has to know you're playing with her! Otherwise it's not fun and she'll think you're an asshole.	/r/seduction	25/07/18 05:27 PM
1	10 Years of PUA: A More Nuanced Case of One-itis Are you asking "how do I make this woman my girlfriend?" Because there's only so much you can do or control. She's recently out of a relationship and there's always an emotional turmoil after a break up. People in this situation can go from warm to cold in an instant and there's nothing you can do about it. They need some time to figure out exactly what they want so they can be in a position to go into another relationship. With that said, relationships usually develop within a spirit of romance…	/r/seduction	19/07/18 06:00 PM
1	STOTD - I like big strong men I agree, only reply that made me chuckle.	/r/seduction	20/02/18 09:59 PM
61	STOTD - I could out drink you, any day "You know you can just ask me out, right?"	/r/seduction	10/02/18 11:18 PM
10	Self-Deprecating Jokes Because your joke is funny and ridiculous. And that's key: anyone who hears it just knows you're kidding! Everyone's comfortable and it elevates the mood. Honestly, it's not even close to the examples OP gave. I wouldn't even classify yours as a self-deprecating joke. To the OP: don't make self-deprecating jokes. Calling yourself garbage? What the hell man?	/r/seduction	27/01/18 02:14 AM
2	can someone explain outcome independence? Outcome independence is something that can be applied to several aspects of life. In general, it means that no matter what happens, you will be ok; it won't affect you much (or not at all) and you'll comfortably move on to other things. It displays confidence in your ability to make do and deal with difficult situations. Applying it to the job market, it can mean that if you were to lose your job, you know that you can find another one. It's a shitty situation, but you're not overly scared or co…	/r/seduction	05/02/17 11:02 PM
3	How often are women approached? I've asked my gf this sort of thing. Things like getting shouted at from a distance will happen once maybe twice a month, depending in the city zone she's walking in. Actually getting approached happens less often, but it still happens and she can't really frequent any place without getting approached. There are 2 or 3 guys at work that keep trying their luck. About a month and a half after we first started seeing each other, she took a week long vacation in Italy and got approached a few times …	/r/seduction	22/01/17 08:11 PM
14	This is literally the best example of the cool/funny kind of confidence I've ever seen. I think there was maybe one or two more times that he wanted to move in for it, and she avoided it cleverly. Seems like she was having fun and enjoying the attention but didn't have any real intention of going any further.	/r/seduction	08/04/16 01:09 AM
1	Why a man's courageousness is more attractive than his confidence... What if I'm confident in my ability to tackle the unknown? Joking aside, well written and inspirational. This place could use more of this stuff.	/r/seduction	13/03/16 03:24 AM
1	Men 21+ how to keep up with your dating life when you work 50 hours a week My point about the comment not being helpful is that it's pointing out the obvious, and not providing solutions or asking for more information. Stating the obvious doesn't help - we're all aware of it. In my case I don't care about dating from Monday to Thursday; my schedule is full, and I have no intentions of changing it. Friday (after work), Saturday and Sunday are my days to do other things such as dating.	/r/seduction	13/03/16 02:16 AM
1	Men 21+ how to keep up with your dating life when you work 50 hours a week The suggestion is there, but I was putting myself in someone else's shoes. Although I have a tight schedule, I find time to do the things I want. Adding to your comment, I think everyone here should swap at least an hour of gaming/internet every day of the week for working out. Plus, you should also be partaking in sports and other fun activities with other people. TV is a waste of time; if there's something you want to watch, catch it online later. There's really no reason to be wasting your ti…	/r/seduction	13/03/16 02:04 AM
14	Men 21+ how to keep up with your dating life when you work 50 hours a week That's not really helpful. I have a mostly fixed schedule, typically 7 to 5. I can't not go to work. My only option if I wanted to change my schedule would be to search for another job, but my job is great and I want to keep it. I imagine there's plenty of people like me who are satisfied with their job and its schedule.	/r/seduction	12/03/16 08:00 PM
2	What are some fun alternatives to lifting/fitness? There are plenty of sports which are fun and will give you a good workout. Especially those that are team based, like soccer or basketball. If you have a particular friend or girl you're interested in, something like tennis or badminton can be great for bonding and teasing.	/r/seduction	06/12/15 07:57 PM
1	I'm a mute girl, how would you guys go about seducing me and how can I cooperate? Be creative about it. Wear a t-shirt with some sort of message alluding to your muteness, but how you still want to be approached. Something catchy and funny.	/r/seduction	25/07/15 03:30 PM
5	Seddit listen up. Relationships are hard work. If you are not ready to work hard then don't start one. I feel the same way. It really shouldn't be hard work. If it is, something is wrong.	/r/seduction	14/04/15 01:53 AM
2	Reputation as "honest" It's a good thing in social groups, and it's really great in relationships. It's not going to make much of a difference in terms of seduction, unless you only "game" girls in your social circles, since new people aren't going to know you are honest until they get to know you well. Once you get a partner though, it will come in handy. The fact she knows she can trust you will make the relationship much better.	/r/seduction	14/09/14 03:26 PM
1	[Cautionary Story] Don't call your ex - get over her Same. Just spent a month away on vacation. Get back in town, text the ex I'm back and she invites me to spend the night.	/r/seduction	22/08/14 06:01 PM
1	How did you get laid recently? Similar here, my ex actually comes over to my place.	/r/seduction	31/07/14 01:31 PM
1	"Confidence" is not the right word. The word you are looking for is DOMINANCE. Hahaha, and you call yourself dominant? Ok, go ahead and good luck with your articles, you're going to need it.	/r/seduction	19/07/14 03:25 AM
1	"Confidence" is not the right word. The word you are looking for is DOMINANCE. See, you/re not fine with it. I'm not the only one thinking that way, and you've been lashing out because of it. If you want to be a writer and submit articles about any subject, you have to use a common outlet that your readers will understand. You tried to define dominance when there is no need: it is an english word and it has a definition. You should instead expand on the word and explain that your idea is not quite dominance but based on it. I'm just saying, if multiple people are having is…	/r/seduction	19/07/14 03:11 AM
1	"Confidence" is not the right word. The word you are looking for is DOMINANCE. If you can't take criticism then you're gonna have a hard time improving in life. No need to be so negative about it - I do think you touched some good points. Just too much rambling (lack of conciseness) and misuse of the word dominance. There are much better words to use, such as recognition, or influence, that don't have the connotation of coercion and authority. If you don't care about the meaning of words, why give this much importance to the word dominance?	/r/seduction	18/07/14 09:36 PM
4	"Confidence" is not the right word. The word you are looking for is DOMINANCE. But you failed to define dominance. He, on the other hand, defined both dominance and confidence and based those definitions on the actual definition of the words. What you attempted to describe was a mix between confidence and leadership. His post is far from dumb; it actually is quite bright because he can explain himself clearly and to the point in much fewer words. A confident leader is someone you can look up to, someone you trust and can rely on. That is actually what women (and men for th…	/r/seduction	18/07/14 07:23 PM
5	Self amusement at its finest. "Tell him I'm your gay friend." That body language is really obvious: I don't want to be here. Protecting the stomach by bending away, closed fists showing the inverse of being relaxed. They are not holding hands, he grabs her wrists. It's terribly forced and most of the new members in this sub shouldn't be trying this. You shouldn't pay too much attention to what she says. Guys are more likely to mean what they say, girls just say things to get reactions. It doesn't mean anything.	/r/seduction	13/07/14 07:42 PM
4	Self amusement at its finest. "Tell him I'm your gay friend." Wow, really? This isn't really what you want to be showing here. Let's see, a pretty drunk and non-confrontational girl gets pulled in, goes along with the role playing and then gets locked in - the guy pulls her in and locks, and you can tell by her body language and closed fists she is not comfortable with this situation. He then demands for her name and number, which she gives away in order to de-escalate the situation. She then grabs her clueless boyfriend and gets the hell out of there and …	/r/seduction	13/07/14 06:48 PM
2	Recent break-up; how do I get back to gaming? I'm in a similar situation, although I'm (guessing) a decade older than you. You know what I'm doing? Taking my time. I'm watching the world cup with friends, I'm playing soccer twice a week and I just started playing Farcry3. I'm also taking advantage of the opportunity to watch movies I missed out on. I need some time to go through the whole "grieving the end of the relationship" phase before I start throwing myself out there. But that's not stopping me from engaging and talking to other peopl…	/r/seduction	23/06/14 02:28 PM
2	Have you ever given a girl your number, instead of asking for hers? Horrible idea. Tried it before, she didn't call. Girls hate being responsible for that stuff.	/r/seduction	15/06/14 07:40 PM
20	Other gimmicks like the 'question game' or 'the cube'? If she says no, you take a long pause, look all dejected, fake a serious tone and exclaim: you've played this game before! If you deliver correctly, she'll think you're serious and go "no, no, no, I haven't!", and that's where you get her.	/r/seduction	16/03/14 08:49 PM
1	"How to hold a conversation like a man" IN FIELD I'm not surprised. It makes sense; showing some flaws or vulnerabilities is endearing to women and lowers their "defense". Alas, at the moment I have neither time nor patience to watch long videos (I actually skimmed this one quite a bit).	/r/seduction	08/09/13 05:27 AM
7	"How to hold a conversation like a man" IN FIELD You'd be surprised with the stuff you can get away with if you just feel comfortable. You don't have to be super exciting or hyped to keep interest or a conversation flowing.	/r/seduction	08/09/13 02:19 AM
1	[Advanced Discussion 1] Your game VS her attractiveness You forgot to leave your sorry-judging-ass at the door.	/r/seduction	06/09/13 08:40 PM
5	To all the non-believers, and especially those that like to be vocal about it in the comments I just hope the dude doesn't get discouraged by the downvote brigade that stormed the thread, but judging by his balls and willingness to try things out, I'm sure we'll see more of him.	/r/seduction	08/07/13 04:44 PM
0	[FR] Decided to try something new, can't believe it worked! F-Close Hey, don't forget to call the other girl!	/r/seduction	08/07/13 02:27 AM
1	[FR] Girls with boyfriends, and other obstacles. I understand the point you're trying to make, but this comparison is a bit poor. A woman isn't property, she doesn't belong to anyone, unlike a vehicle, which was purchased and worked for. And she can very well damn choose who she wants to be with. If she's willing to cheat on her bf, that's her choice and we aren't stealing anything nor breaking anything that isn't already obviously broken.	/r/seduction	03/07/13 04:06 PM
11	How strong is the female sex drive after all? Yeah, the girl I'm dating now just recently told me something along these lines. She said that she's never really wanted sex (she can go for very long periods of time without it), but she would participate anyway because she liked the intimacy and all the attention. And that sometimes the sex would feel alright. After she started seeing me, she began to realize that she could make herself horny and actually crave for sex, but that it required me to engage her: by touching and kissing. And with t…	/r/seduction	03/07/13 03:27 PM
11	Some notes I took that I thought you guys would be interested in reading. Guidelines mostly. People, don't take these lists too seriously. Not one single point mentioned here applies 100% of the time. Whenever you hear someone using the word 'never' in a list, you are encouraged to strongly doubt this person. With that said, some of these points are good, But some of them are not. Rapport mostly with Betas. Rapport with everybody instead. Answering questions with bullshit. It's ok to give serious answers. What is meant, is that you should introduce some humour in your conversations. Giv…	/r/seduction	11/01/13 12:06 AM
2	[FR] Met a girl on the street. Three days later I had her in bed. Four days after that she told me she loved me... Society largely judges and shames girls who attempt to be adventurous and go out looking for the guy they want, which in turn leads them to settling down for someone who they don't really love (because girls usually do not like being single), which in turn leads to eventual cheating. If society just allowed them to explore and figure out what kind of guy they want before going into a relationship, most cheating would fade away. But no, they must be called sluts and whores because they enjoy sex …	/r/seduction	14/12/12 02:37 AM
9	[FR] Met a girl on the street. Three days later I had her in bed. Four days after that she told me she loved me... Newbies make the mistake of thinking that PUAs can supernaturally pull even the most faithful of girls. Honestly, if a girl is really happy in her situation there's nothing you can do to "pull" her. She will shoot you down. She might be nice about it, still want to keep you as a friend and even introduce you to her friends. But she will reject you. There is no magic code to make things happen. You are totally correct. Women are given the chance to cheat. As for them not being that good of a pers…	/r/seduction	13/12/12 03:13 PM
1	Lets talk about cultural differences when picking up girls. Fair enough!	/r/seduction	11/12/12 10:03 PM
1	Lets talk about cultural differences when picking up girls. Depends on your social circles. If you make friends easily, then no it is not a problem at all. But the question is, why cheat at all? If you don't want to be in a monogamous relationship or you're not happy with your current partner, why not just break up and look for something else?	/r/seduction	11/12/12 09:57 PM
1	Lets talk about cultural differences when picking up girls. I've only once had a girl become somewhat violent towards me and she attempted a half ass slap to my face. I shoved her away and said we were never speaking to each other again. I wouldn't say it's custom or the norm, but yes it can happen.	/r/seduction	11/12/12 08:06 PM
1	Lets talk about cultural differences when picking up girls. oh, no, no, no, nothing like that! But she'll spread all kinds of nasty rumours about you and make sure her friends avoid you or hate you.	/r/seduction	11/12/12 07:34 PM
1	Lets talk about cultural differences when picking up girls. Sure there are. But you have to be trustworthy. Girls over there are pretty ruthless against each other and none of them want be known as a "slut" who goes on ONS.	/r/seduction	11/12/12 07:16 PM
10	" I tell you on behalf of women: there is not one of us who does not prefer a little rough handling to too much consideration." Letters of Ninon de L'Enclos, Celebrated Beauty of the Seventeenth Century (crtl+f to find the letter, XVI) Translation: Don't be one of those nice guys.	/r/seduction	13/11/12 05:50 PM
2	Scary Movies? She's not too finicky and as long as the movies are somewhat scary, she'll like them. I think. Doesn't really matter, I'll find out eventually :D	/r/seduction	06/11/12 12:11 AM
1	Scary Movies? Thanks! I've watched 28 Days Later (and 28 Weeks Later) and it was pretty good! Asian scary movies are usually a little too scary for me though, but I may think of checking those out...	/r/seduction	05/11/12 06:40 PM
1	Scary Movies? Yeah, the girl I'll be meeting up with soon also likes these kind of movies, even though they're not really my style. My question though is what movies would you guys recommend? I've never watched "The Shining" and a friend of mine told me to watch that one, but I'd like some other options as well.	/r/seduction	05/11/12 04:08 PM
5	Using the word LIKE makes you sound uncertain and dumb. To my horror, my friend just pointed out I use the word 'LIKE' all the time. I found this guide on how to stop and thought it'd be useful to you sedditors. And that's just another thing I like about toastmasters. We are taught to avoid words like these and also any ums and uhs. Instead, we are encouraged to talk slower and to use pauses instead of the typical uuuuuuuhhhhhhhhh.	/r/seduction	05/11/12 03:01 AM
1	Where do you draw the line? Only thing to add to this is that she might (don't put too much faith into it) be looking for some casual fun, as long as it doesn't get serious. As for the moral quandary (nice word!), that is really up to you. How do you feel about it? What do you want to do? It is not our place to tell you what you can or can't do, and what you should and shouldn't do. There's already some solid advice for you here. But it is you who chooses where you are going to cross the line, and decide what you are willi…	/r/seduction	22/10/12 03:42 PM
3	How do I meet people in a small town? Go hang out at the local bars. Play some pool. Start chatting people up. Invite coworkers to go hang out with you on a Friday. Find out about local functions, activities and sports. Join them. Talk to everybody.	/r/seduction	18/10/12 04:01 PM
3	Some thoughts on #close. Love this! I think the exact same way! Just wondering, how do you feel about texting?	/r/seduction	13/08/12 07:41 PM
2	What's Seddit's opinion on how to handle a married woman showing much interest? Married women are a whole different level than girls with bfs. This difference is mainly due to the fact that the possible drama that can come out of this can affect you greatly and can be dangerous. You never know what a jealous and betrayed husband is willing to do (to you!), especially if he is of the same mentality as is a lot of advice you've been getting here - that the fault of the cheating lies a lot with you. That being said, if this is not a problem, I'd suggest going with the flow. Do…	/r/seduction	13/08/12 07:04 PM
1	10 Myths About Introverts \| Someone that me, and several other redditors can relate to... Sorry dude, all I have is this lousy upvote and it has no real value. Here you go.	/r/seduction	18/07/12 04:33 PM
2	10 Myths About Introverts \| Someone that me, and several other redditors can relate to... This is the best comment in this thread, and as CostcoMuffins says, introversion and extroversion are just 2 ends of a scale, and you can easily go from one to the other in the space of a week.	/r/seduction	18/07/12 02:32 AM
1	How Do I Get Myself to Open Up to Guys and Actually Start Dating? I'm gonna be 23 this month and I still suffer from social anxiety. :( Just follow the advice given to most guys with the same problem. Start small - talk to people who don't make you nervous (old lady at the grocery store, the cashier, etc). It doesn't have to be a long conversation, just talk about something anyone can talk about (what kinds of fruit do you like? Is the weather always like this?). Once you feel comfortable with small talk, then you move to the guys who interest you.	/r/seduction	10/07/12 02:52 PM
0	Are white knights overwhelming Seddit? They're equally unimportant.	/r/seduction	04/07/12 02:39 PM
2	Are white knights overwhelming Seddit? You're right on the money!	/r/seduction	04/07/12 02:38 PM
-3	Are white knights overwhelming Seddit? Fine. Now don't go imposing your stances on others, we can let religion do that.	/r/seduction	04/07/12 01:23 AM
97	Are white knights overwhelming Seddit? Yes, this place reeks of r/relationships. I thought we didn't linger on morality issues and instead cared about being a better self. If a girl cheats to be with you, you are not at fault. She has made a conscious decision to be with you. And no, you don't own your girlfriend, she is not your property (or anyone else's for that matter) and it is her decision to be with you. You are not a bad person if a girl cheats to be with you (actually, it just might prove that you're becoming a better man, m…	/r/seduction	03/07/12 10:39 PM
2	Competition theory One thing my dad taught me since I was just a little kid was that competition doesn't matter if you are good, because there will always be opportunities waiting for you; so, work on yourself, on being a better man, and life will be great for you. Slack off and you'll be in trouble. The game of life is not about beating other people. It's about self fulfillment, being happy with yourself and living a great and memorable life. It's all on you and doesn't depend at all on other people.	/r/seduction	13/06/12 03:22 PM
2	Can we stop trying to help foreveralone now? I honestly think this whole issue is bullshit. I am me, and I get along with almost anybody and I don't have to identify or protect or project any one community. Nonetheless, I like this place and come here every once in a while to read your stories and learn from events that have shaped you guys. It's really interesting and I also learn some stuff. There's nothing wrong with what Tofutofu did, and I understand that he was trying to be helpful... but you can't help those that aren't willing to b…	/r/seduction	07/04/12 07:47 PM
11	Added to r/Seddit because it's interesting to get a woman's opinion of herself; her massively over-inflated opinion of herself. Agreed. Sounds like complete bullshit.	/r/seduction	03/04/12 03:04 PM
5	Great video on power poses that applies wonderfully to the game (cross post from seddit) Also notice how she constantly uses her hands during communication. This is extremely engaging and should be tried by all. A lot of this stuff can be learnt in groups such as toastmasters. Find out if there's anything like it near you!	/r/seduction	26/01/12 01:28 AM
2	The contradiction of Seduction and "Humble Work" Well, you did ask how I do a good job at my occupation, and I've explained that. With my friends and with girls I don't have to worry about being "politically correct", putting on my good behaviour and all the other shenanigans I use at work. I rarely even talk about my work, mostly due to the fact I rarely have any interest in discussing it with laymen, and when I do, it's because I'm asked directly about it - and I'll give out a quick summary and move to any other topics. In other words, being…	/r/seduction	12/01/12 03:28 PM
2	For physically attractive men, how is the game different? It just makes approaching easier. Occasionally women will approach me.	/r/seduction	12/01/12 02:58 PM
9	"I have a boyfriend" comebacks. Fuckin lol'd. And now I'm watching random JB episodes.	/r/seduction	11/01/12 11:38 PM
3	The contradiction of Seduction and "Humble Work" OK, but the truth is, sometimes I have to put up with... stupidity, and I have to try not to lose my temper or get frustrated. Thankfully, I'm usually very patient. You are right, but sometimes I just can't help but feel fake.	/r/seduction	11/01/12 07:08 PM
6	The contradiction of Seduction and "Humble Work" Actually, as an engineer, I'm aware that I'm smarter than a lot of people I know, but I practice fake humility. Instead of outright saying "you're wrong, this is how it's supposed to be done / this is how it is", I'll rephrase as a question or show some doubt; "are you sure this is right? I was recently reading this technical book and it mentions so and so". That way, I create a conversation/discussion and the other person kind of learns by himself/herself, and I'm seen as a pretty open minded a…	/r/seduction	11/01/12 06:49 PM
3	[FR] 8 F-(you) closes! Wow, what a stuck up crowd... I say this, cause at the party I went to, everybody was really friendly and I had lots of strangers coming up to me wishing happy new year. It's not your fault, and you're probably better off not knowing these kind of people. I mean, would you really want to be friends with people who immediately tell you to fuck off?	/r/seduction	01/01/12 05:29 PM
1	[FR] K-close after repeatedly being called an asshole I'm mainly confused why an HB would want my hands all over her legs but not be receptive to a k-close? Breath? I don't think it could have been that bad, maybe boozy. Friends watching? But then why the grab at the end? Why so receptive to a theoretical day 2? Some girls see kissing as being very intimate, and she probably only wanted to bang you.	/r/seduction	29/12/11 03:43 PM
1	What to do with a hard to pronounce name? ;)	/r/seduction	15/12/11 05:15 PM
2	What to do with a hard to pronounce name? My name is João which is very very hard for english speaking people to pronounce correctly. Since I've been living in Canada I introduce myself as Jon and ask people to call me that instead. Obviously, if I want to build interest from somebody I'll say something like "do you know my name isn't really Jon?" and go from there. Girls become immediately interested and fascinated by the fact that I've traveled all over the world. The ones that are interested in me insist on trying to learn and say my…	/r/seduction	13/12/11 10:11 PM
2	Can men and women be just friends? (X-Post) Exactly. Sometimes they really can be friends. Most of the time, no.	/r/seduction	11/12/11 07:55 PM
5	How to get your hands out of your pockets Learn to "speak" with your hands. Using a lot of hand gestures while you talk conveys confidence and adds emphasis and clarity to your words. People are more easily convinced of your sincerity and enthusiasm when you have good body language. I imagine this is easier said than done, but the real deal is that body language is everybody's first language. Before you learnt how to speak, you could understand and communicate based on body language. As we grow up and learn to speak and listen, we lose …	/r/seduction	21/11/11 02:32 PM
2	Getting into state. Two kinds of approaches. I wouldn't consider it a competing model, but something running parallel that you can eventually switch to. It's more of a lifestyle model instead of a tool for you to get better at something (in this case, pickup). Does that mean "always on"? I'd rather it be described as "always off". I have a feeling guys are trying way too hard - not to meet women (you HAVE to go out and meet women) but to impress them or prove they have some magic sauce. I totally understand and agree. That's why I like the…	/r/seduction	01/11/11 03:58 PM
1	Getting into state. Two kinds of approaches. You might be on to something there... But here is where you missed a big point in this community: "two things that I think are incorrect: that state is important, and that you have to be on some massive life changing kick in order to be successful with women" That was back in the day, when seduction was simply about picking up women. Focus has been turned mostly to self improvement and feeling good about your life (which leads to being an awesome person and naturally having women become interest…	/r/seduction	31/10/11 02:11 PM
1	What Would You Like Us to Do? Another option is to give some sort of flair to PUAs, the ones that mod's believe are a good source of knowledge. Yes, it would be great to be able to distinguish good contributors, that have proven themselves knowledgeable, from the random poster.	/r/seduction	13/10/11 06:53 PM
3	[FR of an old, forgotten night] Severe blowout: What would you have done? I wouldn't have apologized. But then again, I almost never apologize for anything. You could've twisted his reaction against him: "Anyone else here feeling uncomfortable?" Very likely it was just him. Following it up with a: "No? I guess it's just you dude." and then promptly ignoring him and getting back into whatever conversation you were in. Less reactive would be to ignore him altogether. I guess I'm kinda confrontational, but the feeling I got from what you wrote was that you were too nice.…	/r/seduction	15/09/11 03:55 PM