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That’s precisely my point. Guys don’t get it. They can’t unplug. I know it’s hard. Took me a long time to finally get to that point where I realize the wife I once knew just isn’t here anymore. I had to let her go. My wife is a good woman, we are great friends, we are loving and affectionate etc but her libido for me has gone. I have chosen to stay because I have 5 kids and I don’t think she could handle them by herself even part time. She doesn’t handle that stress well. So I’m staying. And I h…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/01/24 05:13 PM
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She says no, then go get a side piece. Very important first step. It will improve so much for u.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/01/24 01:06 PM
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No I don’t care about the wife fucking or not lol My goal is getting sex from other, better women. I don’t want to fuck the wife anymore lol That is my point. Most of the guys here are hell bent on getting the wife to fuck them more, and it’s sad.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/01/24 12:50 PM
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You’re thinking about what u would admire about a dude, size and strength. Gotta look through female gaze. Christian Bale American Psycho, not Batman Begins
/r/MarriedRedPill27/01/24 06:22 AM
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Are u aware of how many times you contradicted yourself? “Women are horny, they shit test.” It was easy in the beginning, but dynamics change lol yeah but I prefer the dynamic that gets me laid most enthusiastically and most easily—aka new relationship energy. When it starts to feel like work then it’s time to walk. It’s taken me a while of being red pill to realize that married red pill is really about trying to out maneuver nature. It’s anti red pill. If you’re just dating and she stops sex or…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/01/24 05:15 AM
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I’m curious your height and weight. You seem very hung up on getting bigger.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/01/24 02:54 AM
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he’s 6’2, 200 lbs. getting bigger will make him less attractive to women. He needs to get tight and cut. He has muscle already. So fat loss focus is key here. Women are turned off by big beefy guys. Soccer/surfer/swimmers build. I don’t know why but they prefer this. Rollo, Rich Cooper, Rian Stone—they’ve all spoken about that.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/01/24 02:52 AM
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Right on. Guys too scared to cheat with random hot girls throwing themselves at him, so they go to the wife to pass shit tests (aka negotiate desire) You can fool yourself into calling it seduction , if u want. Nope. It’s a negotiation. It’s annoying. Its work and the rewards are not great 🤦‍♂️ Its “successful” blue pill game. Technically you get laid more but it’s borderline duty sex. Still lots of rejections. “But I plowed on” which is desperate and even if she gives in or just wants u to work…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/01/24 02:42 AM
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Stop caring about passing shit tests. Walk away and ignore. If it’s a silly test about something trivial, agree and amplify can be fun, stay playful, but if she’s being bitchy at all, walk.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/01/24 02:33 AM
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U meet with a lawyer yet? Stop talking to her. You know to STFU. Why do u want to stay married? She has lied to u your entire relationship. She was never really attracted to u; she basically said this. The likelihood of her suddenly seeing you as a sexy Chad is almost nil no matter what u do. And all that is implied in your covert contract of being jealous of her sexual past. Your goal right now is getting your shit together to leave. You should be checked out. Hell you should be looking at gett…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/01/24 02:17 AM
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You talk to a lawyer yet to see what divorce would look like? U should soon. And start trying to get a side piece, a slump buster. It’s far easier to feel abundance if u actually have it. Too many guys on here wait for months to see if the wife comes around before doing this. Why? That’s a covert contract right there. And if guys disagree with this it’s because they still haven’t unplugged. They still have love and fear. They still have oneitis. Terrified to take that step and truly walk. She’s …
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/24 02:29 PM
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Why do u care about a test? You handled your business. U trying to make this woman happy? U care what she thinks? Wrong mindset. She asked you to get her a drink. Did u want to get her a drink? If not just tell her no. You’ve got some unplugging to do. You’re trying to get more sex and love from her. Covert contract. You’ve got to realize this relationship is basically dead. You’re moving on. It’s up to her to decide if she wants to keep u.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/24 02:14 PM
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Running dread on a pregnant wife is a bad move.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/01/24 09:48 PM
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TLDR—Way too much fucking work 😆
/r/MarriedRedPill16/01/24 09:20 PM
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Well I’ve been lifting regularly for 3 months. Down 85lbs. Doing the work. Doesn’t matter whose fault it is. It’s up to me to get my dick wet. But I am genuinely confused about the hotel thing. She says she just thinks the kids might hear at home and other bullshit. But she will fuck me in a hotel room and it’s not starfish, which is not practical and not nearly gonna be often enough. I mean if she didn’t want to fuck me at all then why would she in a damn hotel room?
/r/MarriedRedPill16/01/24 01:15 AM
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Didn’t say I wasn’t angry lol my wife and I adopted kids. She immediately went low libido. She’s fine getting a hotel room and having sex, but can’t get in the mood at home. I don’t understand that shit. So yeah I’m angry, bitter, etc. But I kind of had a moment of clarity the other day when I realized she will never be the woman I married again. My wife is essentially gone. And I’m becoming ok with it. It’s a process. And I’m working through it.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/01/24 11:34 PM
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Remember the mission? To improve the sex life. Not to stay married. It takes many of us a long time to recognize the covert contract associated with a misplaced Dread agenda. I’ve recently recognized mine. I’m trying to save other guys time. Clearly you are still struggling with yours. You seem offended that I dare advocate getting divorced or cheating. Neither of those is an ideal option and both carry risks. You’re clearly paralyzed by those risks. “If I get divorced I’ll lose half; if I cheat…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/01/24 09:58 PM
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I prefer fork feeding lol and women don’t test guys they really desire. They’ll do anything to get with him.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/01/24 09:23 PM
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Your comments spew with blue pill idealism and covert contracts of being scared to lose the wife. I’m fine with whatever happens. But I’m in no rush to leave until things are where I want them to be. But if it happens it happens. I’m sure she wants to be a 35 year old single mother to 5 psychotic kids lol she can be my guest
/r/MarriedRedPill15/01/24 09:15 PM
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Beginning of a relationship where the sex is enthusiastic and frequent-no testing. If it doesn’t stay that way it’s over.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/01/24 09:13 PM
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I am? How’s that?
/r/MarriedRedPill15/01/24 08:48 PM
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Have u talked to a lawyer to see what divorce would look like?
/r/MarriedRedPill15/01/24 08:11 PM
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Right on. But I’ll clue you in. Rare is the woman in a long term cohabitational relationship who is able to keep strong sexual desire for the same man. It’s just the female biology. And no amount of money, muscles, or game will fix this. U can keep it from being sexless with good dread, but it’s far from ideal or how it was in the beginning. So either leave or just cheat discreetly. It’s not hard to do if you use common sense.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/01/24 07:47 PM
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“Live like she is dead.” Guys say this and it’s a fundamental part of dread, yet they continue to game and try to fuck the wife. I don’t get this. Unless she starts initiating, I think you should ignore her and immediately get a side piece, even if she’s just a slump buster. Even if you choose to stay married and things improve with the wife, you should always have bitches on the side. Having only one sexual outlet isn’t healthy.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/01/24 07:42 PM
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That’s cool but her throwing a tantrum to begin with is not cool. For me that’s enough disinterest to say the plan is still to get out or get easier pussy on the side, new, better, hotter, younger pussy that doesn’t test u with drama and bullshit. And I know they all will start eventually and that’s when u drop them.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/01/24 07:26 PM
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Depending on one’s own unique situation, leaving isn’t always better. That’s why I said leaving or getting other women. Some guys would be in a huge mess to just leave. There’s a process to get shit in order. And some guys would be much better off overall to just stay and get side pieces until they are in a better position financially, with their kids, etc. if it was so easy for most of us to just walk out there wouldn’t be a specific married red pill. But yeah the goal is still fucking other wo…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/01/24 06:01 PM
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Why are you trying to get your wife to be attracted to u? Covert contract all over this. Your wife is gone. That’s the mindset. She hasn’t been your wife since she stopped fucking u. Your goal is moving on. You don’t care if she comes stays lays or prays. You’re done with her and if she wants to keep you she’s gonna have to prove the shit out of it. Your goal is becoming more attractive, getting better women, and moving on. Stop working on this “relationship” That’s her fucking job.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/24 09:43 PM
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Ok, you should be angry but it’s a waste of time. You should actually be happy. You have a plan to fix your life. And it has nothing to do with your wife. Guess what? She’s not your wife anymore. She’s your wife on paper. She’s your business partner, nothing more. You need to check out mentally. Basically act like she’s already gone. You are doing everything for you. You don’t care what she thinks, feels, or says about anything except house or kids etc. Your goal is either leaving or getting wom…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/24 09:24 PM
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Patient for what? That’s a covert contract. You’re hoping she comes around. First rule of dread; this is not about her. You need to feel that this relationship is over. Your goal is becoming the best you can be to get the best women you can. If she comes around and becomes the woman you married again or even better then you can consider staying. But you shouldn’t hold your breath for that to happen.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/24 09:16 PM
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Disagree. He needs to operate as if the relationship is over. You think he should expect his woman to come around and things to get better? That’s covert contract thinking. He needs to check out. This can take time but sounds like he’s finally there. Dread is pretending as if your wife died or already left. It’s up to her to become the woman he wants to convince him to not leave. But that’s a least likely scenario. The goal is to become the best possible version of yourself so you can attract th…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/24 09:13 PM
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“I’ve been trying to fix this for a year.” That’s your problem. U can’t fix this. Your goal is moving on. You are done with her. It’s up to her to convince u otherwise and that would take her becoming your personal pornstar. Very unlikely. Too many guys can’t get out of that covert contract. That’s why I think using game on the wife is useless. Using game on any woman is kind of useless. Become an attractive product. An attractive product sells itself. A good salesman can convince alot of people…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/24 08:44 PM
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When women are turned on they don’t shit test you. They tell u to fuck them. The first several years of my marriage the wife never said no or gave resistance to me when I initiated. Same with all the women I fucked before her, too. The ones who gave shit tests were flaky and not really interested. Passing shit tests is negotiating desire. If she has real desire she won’t give up LMR. And yes sometimes you’ll get starfish sex that way but it’s typically not worth it.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/24 08:35 PM
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Your wife resisting you just means this relationship is still over. You should be planning a good exit strategy. The shit testing means she still isn’t the woman she should be. She still isn’t getting the message that you are slipping away from her. Sounds like you are still doing this for her. Because u are happy when things “go well” Wrong mindset. A woman who really desires you will be enthusiastic and do everything she can to fuck u. Stay on course. But be aware of your covert contracts. The…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/24 08:29 PM
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You’re getting unsatisfying sex and you feel better about the relationship? News for you. There’s no relationship. You need to have that mindset. You can’t negotiate desire. The plan should still be leaving. Unsatisfactory sex isn’t the goal.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/24 08:15 PM
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U meet with a lawyer yet? Do that first to find out what divorce will look like for u. As far as the mutiny withdrawal your time and your support. Stfu is good. Don’t tell; show. This sounds like a bad situation. Your goal is leaving.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/24 08:10 PM
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You’re trying to fix a dead bedroom with a woman you are not legally married to? Dude… get off that train. If she’s this lackluster without marriage it’s always easier to just break it off. If you can’t then you have major oneitis and are still clutching blue pill delusions. Even if it gets better, it will just likely get worse again. Seriously, marriage will only make this worse no matter how good you become. Guys who stay married after finding red pill do so because they are kind of stuck at t…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/24 07:44 PM
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True, but why does it matter? Guys get way too upset by these shit tests and comfort tests. Why do we care? We don’t want anything from her. The goal is leaving or getting other women. The goal is being checked out. It’s up to her to give us a reason to stay. And it’s gonna take some amazing shit on her part for us to even think about staying faithful to her. We don’t care what she says or does or how we respond. We just enforce the boundary and remove ourselves when the boundary is crossed. “Te…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/24 07:26 PM
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Yeah it is a struggle but guys got to muscle through. They must detach from her emotionally. They have to realize they are rewarding bad behavior to continue to pine for this woman who doesn’t want them.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/24 02:16 AM
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Well said. This is the mrp in a nutshell. That’s why I get aggravated at guys who have been doing this for several months and initiating with wives who reject, then he withdraws, then she initiates etc this bullshit back and forth. These constant shit tests. This is negotiating desire. This is not having frame. This is playing her fucking game. If she isn’t initiating and enthusiastically responding then the plan is still leaving or at the very least fucking other women who will respond that way…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/24 02:11 AM
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The plan is to improve my sex life and life in general. The plan isn’t to get her to fuck me. Let go of the covert contract.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/24 11:34 PM
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Meet with a lawyer to see what divorce will look like for u. Start preparing for it. Give yourself a timeline of when you can start divorce. If she doesn’t do a huge turnaround then divorce it is. You seem to be trying to save the marriage. Wrong goal. Covert contract. Rule number 1. You can’t negotiate desire.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/24 07:19 PM
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I don’t have it all figured out. I just disagree with the guys who think they are having success. If you have to engage in back and forth shit every time u want sex with your wife then your plan should still be leaving if this doesn’t get better. Too many guys here think that’s just the way it’s going to be and you are a rockstar because u game through it. Nope. Her initiating often with you, or her being immediately happy and receptive etc as most of us had in the beginning with our wives-that’…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/24 07:03 PM
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I’m not after your validation. And the wife will have sex with me. Just not in our house lol which is very inconvenient. The house has become mommyland. Even when we are home alone. She can’t get out of the mommy head space. But getting a hotel room and going at it, she’s fine with. But can’t do that often enough. Logistically it just sucks. And yes, you can make your wife a plate. Dread game is basically doing that as she becomes a low priority while you pretend she barely exists lol And all th…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/24 06:47 PM
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I’ve initiated a bit more often knowing she will repeatedly say no and it will make her feel uncomfortable. Is it weird I’m having fun sexually harassing my wife? Like I’m sending dick pics to her phone and random sexual texts because she hates that stuff so much. I’m making her look at my dick unexpectedly like the game they played in that Ryan Reynolds movie “Waiting” 😆 I’m flirting with her all the time. she gets so pissed. And I’m having fun gaming other women. I’ve got a few just waiting fo…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/24 06:42 PM
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I dunno. I didn’t initiate with the wife all of last year. She didn’t even notice. So not working on it didn’t do shit for me lol
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/24 06:33 PM
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This shit testing is annoying and exhausting. Sex with the wife shouldn’t be this hard. It wasn’t in the first few years. All this work that never seems to end is really not worth it. Besides if we are honest we’d all much rather have new, younger, tighter, more enthusiastic pussy. You are playing games and negotiating desire. Yes this whole testing/ passing dance is one huge negotiation. Just to bang the same chick we don’t really want to fuck anyway. I’ve been on my map for a few months and I’…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/24 06:24 PM
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Most of the reports I see on here where guys successfully get sex from the wife, sound exhausting. You initiate, get a no, push forward, sometimes more no, sometimes not etc in the beginning she was always dtf. None of this resistance back and forth bullshit. Is this the type of “success” most of us can look forward to after finishing our male action plans? That’s seriously disappointing
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/24 05:59 PM
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In process now 😎
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/24 03:50 PM
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Exactly. Why indeed. This is a lot of work to get mediocre sex with an aging woman you’ve fucked a thousand times already. Humans aren’t meant for lifelong monogamy. Just fuck a new chick. Bite the bullet, divorce and move on. Don’t try put a band aid on cancer:
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/24 02:38 PM
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I probably should
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/24 07:55 AM
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Well our sex life was fine until we had kids. That changed it all. She’s basically stuck in mommy mode all the time. She’s agreed to get a hotel on date nights and have sex. Even got a sexy outfit. Haven’t fit it into our schedules yet with holiday craziness and the one night we were going to she got sick with a nasty head cold. And she asked me if I still wanted to but I gave it a hard pass. I wasn’t willing to be sick for a damn week for it lol but maybe soon. She really seems to act like the …
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/24 07:14 AM
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Cool. Appreciate your time. I’m aware of most of these concepts. I’ve read Rollo’s book on game, Rian’s books on dread and I was way into studying and practicing mystery method, Ross Jeffries NLP, etc 20 years ago in college. Starting to see more how to put it into practice within a marriage. In your example you illustrated overt dread by flirting with that chick. Most of what I’ve read say that’s a bad idea and a DLV, but u made it work somehow? I see so many conflicting things within the red p…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/01/24 04:53 PM
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I’m on the plan. Hitting the gym. Down 85lbs. But honestly my goal is either leaving or getting it outside the marriage. I just don’t think I care if she comes back around or not. Her rejecting me feels as bad as if she cheated on me. It’s really unforgivable for me. I don’t know if I’ll ever get past it. I hardly even initiate and I don’t think she notices. The other day, she said no, so I took off my wedding ring and set it down on the table. I told her I’ll wear that again when she starts act…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/01/24 03:10 PM
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Ok I think I get what you’re saying, but it seems like you’re rewarding bad behavior. And as far as how in love I was with her at first, yeah because she had sex with me any time. If she’d said no then I would have dropped her immediately. A wife shouldn’t be rejecting her husband. And as far as becoming more attractive, well how many wives are as hot as they used to be? So you’re saying to just come to terms with her constantly rejecting you or even rejecting half the time? That’s something I c…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/01/24 05:03 AM
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Can u explain more about out how we game our wife? I’m kind of new to the space, trying to see the best way to do that.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/01/24 03:09 AM
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U hung out and gave her your attention and time after she rejected u? Seems wrong to me. That’s why I say every guy doing this should have a side piece. Wife says no. “K. Going to the gym.” Go to your side piece who isn’t saying no. Your wife says no and doesn’t owe you sex but you don’t owe her your time and commitment either. Yes, you got sex but it was negotiated it seems. From what I’ve learned it seems that way to me. Why was she saying no? Seems like some game on her part.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/01/24 02:00 PM
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I’ve read mystery method and tons of other pickup books 20 years ago when I was really into pickup. And my wife enthusiastically banged me for the first several years of marriage. Kids came along; she became mommy and stopped being wife. Tale as old as time. Common as shit. And I doubt any amount of game is going to fix that, and I’m not trying. I’m not working on getting her desire for me back. I’m on my action plan , lost 85 lbs and still going, hitting the gym, developing a full life without …
/r/MarriedRedPill27/12/23 05:12 PM
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Tips on improving his game? Seems everyone has a different definition of what game really is. Please elaborate and offer some useful tips. And it seems most of us didn’t need much game in the beginning of our relationships. Sounds like jumping through hoops and lots of work just to boink an aging woman he’s already fucked hundreds of times before.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/12/23 08:09 PM
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Why are u trying to catch her uti? And I can’t be the only one wondering how she got it…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/12/23 08:05 PM
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Yeah that’s what I was thinking. So cutoff emotional intimacy and affection? Don’t share my inner world with her, stop spending time together except for parenting shit etc? But flirting and initiating sex still?
/r/MarriedRedPill25/12/23 09:22 PM
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Have u considered outsourcing the writing to ghostwriters and various pen names, basically being a publisher instead of a writer. With your knowledge of how to make it sell, you could upscale quite nicely. And your wife may have less a problem since now you’re a businessman, not a guy who writes gay erotica. She may wonder how you’re able to write good gay erotica alot of people buy and read while being a straight man 😆
/r/MarriedRedPill25/12/23 08:39 PM
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U used to have erectile issues from watching porn? Can u explain? Porn is something I’m finding difficult to stop.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/12/23 07:04 PM
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Should we show intimacy if we are being rejected for sex? Shouldn’t we just be aloof and “cuddles ain’t free” as Rian likes to say. I’m a little confused on that topic. Like my wife gets much sweeter and affectionate when I act cold and distant. She starts to seek my validation.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/12/23 06:48 PM
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Do we know if she’s fat too? If she’s fat she doesn’t have much to complain about (though of course she will 😆)
/r/MarriedRedPill25/12/23 06:46 PM
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Can u explain for some of us new guys how you initiated the intimacy after she said no and it led to sex later? Like specifically how do we handle that? How do u create the intimacy?
/r/MarriedRedPill25/12/23 06:38 PM
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Good job. I’m fairly new to this (month 5 of my male action plan) and from a lot of these posts it seems the wife constantly says no and resists sex and you have to keep initiating until she finally is cool with it. Is that the way it’s gonna be always? We should expect them to say no or some bullshit excuse and then keep trying? That sounds fucking annoying and exhausting. Sounds far easier to get a side piece who is always up for it. I dunno. It’s frustrating.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/12/23 06:32 PM
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Some good playful banter but too much of it. Remember rule number 1–stfu. If you’re giving her a cocky line after every stupid question or statement it starts to sound clownish and it pulls u too much into her frame. You’re giving too much attention to bad behavior. But not bad overall.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/23 06:53 PM
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I’m not sure placing the blame solely on u is right. Pretty sure most of us could go out right now and get a chick of equal attractiveness and she’d boink us just as much as our wives did at first.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/12/23 03:39 PM
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Yeah I’ll probably start posting. But I’m so early into things. And I’ve got a long way to go.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/23 06:05 PM
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Cool. Yeah I have anxiety Attacks in general, especially the bedroom. What steps did u take to fix yours? Besides the reverse kegel (have to look up what that is lol) I don’t have PE. I typically have the other issue of not getting hard due to anxiety. But once I do successfully then I’m fine as long as sex stats frequent. But if it tapers off then I’ll back to anxious square one. And it’s been a long damn time since wife fucked me. Over 2 years smh. But working the plan. Down 73 lbs. on testost…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/23 04:53 PM
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Dick pills work well? I sometimes have anxiety, especially since I’m in a dead bedroom. Does it help even if you’re anxious?
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/23 03:41 PM
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Do u have tips on cheating without getting caught?
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/23 03:34 PM
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Why is she shit testing so hard if she really wants it? What’s the point? It would turn me off in a hurry. And if it’s this difficult to just fuck the same woman you’ve fucked a thousand times before, why bother? Would be way easier to move on. A lot of this escalation kind of seems like negotiating or begging for it. Even though u got laid I would have been so annoyed that I would have said “ this isn’t working,” then left the room to do something else. Just seems like you’re establishing a pat…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/23 03:28 PM
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Why is she giving you tests if she really wants it? What’s the fucking purpose?
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/23 03:19 PM
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You asked a question that was obviously insulting. Don’t give me that crap. And just because you can’t compete doesn’t mean the game isn’t still being played. You can delude yourself all you want. Have fun. Take care now. Bye bye then.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/23 08:57 PM
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U think the red pill movement thinks we are trapped in an actual matrix like the movie? 😆 it’s a metaphor, half wit 😆
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/23 07:05 PM
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What’s harmful is you thinking we don’t 😆
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/23 12:43 PM
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Please stop clinging to blue pill mindset. That’s harmful. Unplug and wake up
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/23 10:28 PM
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U clearly don’t understand red pill lol anything that gets her sexually excited is alpha; anything that gives her comfort is beta. And of course there is a sliding scale, You’re confusing a top beta (leadership, hardworking, ambitious) with omega (lazy spineless ass kisser) Why do u think women will cheat with badboys who are broke as shit? They project alpha qualities (looks, confidence, rule breaking, aggression, dominance, refusal to commit or be loyal) Those are alpha traits. Young women wil…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/23 04:27 PM
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Never said beta was bad lol to have a relationship or family u need both alpha and beta traits. I explained that already… btw I have 5 kids 😆
/r/MarriedRedPill27/11/23 02:40 AM
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Why? Those are beta traits lol anything that provides comfort and security is beta.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/11/23 02:23 AM
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Yeah sometimes ending things is best
/r/MarriedRedPill26/11/23 10:59 PM
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Being attractive is simple. Being attractive in a relationship is a lot more with. To be attractive u just have to maximize alpha traits. Looks confidence charm. But to be in an LTR you have to have that and many beta traits too at a high level (great job, great father, husband, dealing with constant shit tests and reading your wife’s moods and the changes that fall after kids (her lowered libido, mommy mode all the time with no time or interest in wife mode etc) it’s a ton more work and not rea…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/11/23 11:56 PM
-10

Sounds like a ton of work just to boink a chick you’ve done a thousand times before but is not as hot as she used to be 🤦‍♂️ sounds way easier just to get a side piece
/r/MarriedRedPill24/11/23 09:20 PM
1

Why do u care? You aren’t doing this to get her to fuck u more; you’re doing this to be more attractive overall. Your goal is actually leaving. Stay plan is the same as the leave plan. She has to convince u to stay. No covert contracts. Get rid of that shit. See the anxiety it’s causing u? Unplug.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/23 05:16 AM
1

You got to keep amused mastery when the wife suddenly throws a shit test at you. “Why didn’t you wake me up?” Great opportunity to smile and say “I was enjoying the extra space and lack of snoring.” Etc That’s something I’ve struggled with is the deer in the headlights feel when a shit test comes out of nowhere. It catches you off guard. So if you can’t think of something good to reply, just stfu and smile slightly. Then ignore.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/11/23 12:29 AM
1

I’m in the same boat, my man. I totally get it.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/23 01:43 AM
1

Lol well I assume he’s not in married red pill to fuck donuts that don’t say no. If his wife is also fat, she married him fat and used to fuck him fat then him losing fat may not make her come back around, not that this should be his goal, which it seems to be. I’d say he needs to work on his covert contract bullshit just as much as his weight.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/23 11:46 PM
1

Im down 55 lbs in 3 months. IF, keto, workouts every day. 1500 calories a day. I’m not even that hungry. You just got to get in the headspace of it.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/23 11:36 PM
1

do we know his wife’s not fat? If she’s fat she won’t boink him until he’s ripped? Even though he was probably fat when they married.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/23 11:33 PM
1

You seem to be trying to get your wife to fuck you. Already you’ve failed due to your covert contract. You should be checked out. Your goal is to be the best version of yourself and work towards moving on. It’s possible she will pull rainbows out of her ass and do some major 180 and become an awesome wife again for you, but the odds are against it. Humans aren’t designed to mate for life. It’s just not in our nature. She’s tired of fucking you and if you really think about it you are tired of fu…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/07/23 02:52 PM
1

It’s because 90 percent of guys going red pill refuse to unplug and they hold onto their blue pill conditioning. So anything that tries to break that tie to blue pill thinking they will fight and attack ruthlessly. Very few of us in the sphere are actually unplugged
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/23 03:03 PM
1

You have no idea what did or didn’t happen on that girls trip. So if she steps out in scenarios like that, you will never know. But hey if you’re fine with not knowing, and possibly raising a kid that isn’t yours (her being totally in the mood for sex when she got back isn’t suspicious at all…) then yeah, u do u. Having abundance is great, but a cuck who doesn’t care is still a cuck.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/02/23 06:35 PM
1

Better than being clueless simp. “You want to take a girls trip like you’re a single college party girl? Fine honey.” “You want to hire this chad looking 21 year old pool boy to clean when I’m at work? Fine, honey.” “You want to hire an equally chad looking guy to build onto the deck all day when I’m at work? Cool babe. I trust you lol” don’t be naive man. If you are red pill aware you should be more aware if hypergamy. All the top guys in the sphere are always warning against stuff like this. N…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/02/23 03:34 PM
1

Your wife went on a girls trip halfway around the world? Hmmm anyone else not be ok with this? That’s dangerous territory for your wife to make some bad decisions under the influence of her friends.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/23 08:20 PM
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