JTKTTU82 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	I need some positivity Bruce Almighty. The scene where Jim Carey took over Evan Baxter’s voice had me laughing so hard I couldn’t breathe.	/r/Divorce_Men	01/08/25 11:27 PM
3	How do I get the courage to leave her I’m now divorced after 25 years of narcissistic abuse. From my own experience I can tell you it won’t get better. I found a podcast by Dr. Kerry McAvoy, PhD: Breaking Free From Narcissistic Abuse. Changed my life. In therapy and focus only on me now. Life got way better after I got out of that anxiety filled hell. Rip the bandaid off, take the plunge and do all you need to and save your life.	/r/Divorce_Men	22/06/25 10:49 PM
8	First date Just go in expecting you’ll have a good time. Be yourself, don’t put on an act. Nothing says you’re marrying this girl and if things go sideways you can always bail. You are in charge of your life so take control and start living. You got us here backing you up, your ‘family of choice.’	/r/Divorce_Men	23/05/25 09:28 PM
12	She is officially out Yay for you! I went to “marital residence” today and got the rest of my personal belongings. Just waiting on the judge to sign off on my lawyer’s final agreement filing.	/r/Divorce_Men	05/04/25 11:52 PM
2	She's (31/F) moving on much quicker than I (37/M) expected and I could really use some general support and advice. One day at a time. You owned/admitted your mistakes. Huge step to recovery. I attend an Al-Anon group. Has helped me tremendously. We fellas gotta stick together. Sounds like you’re on the mend.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/12/24 04:14 PM
4	Ex-Wife didn't show up for our son's school Christmas party... Again Sounds like ex is a narc. I just filed on my narc and see this behavior as typical narcissism. As others have said don’t rag on her to your son. Believe me, he knows his dad’s there for him. Keep showing up, proving you are the stand up man you are. Make him your #1, earn it. Tell the lad he has a loving uncle out there who would dearly love to go to his parties, band performances, everything. I’ve several nieces/nephews and no kids. They know and tell me all the time I’m their favorite uncle.	/r/Divorce_Men	20/12/24 02:08 AM
2	Help Getting 14 Year Old Daughter Comfortable at My New House I’d start by quit asking. She’s adjusting to a new normal. Anything that’s a reminder is gonna sting. Kids will remember experiences long after stuff and things. I’d be sure to do as much as possible to give her fun and happy memories she can associate with this new 2nd home as a happy and safe place. Don’t be hard on yourself as you sound like you are doing all you can on her behalf in a tough spot for a teen.	/r/Divorce_Men	13/10/24 02:39 PM
6	Further elaboration, please! No matter how good she looks there’s someone who’s fed up with her shit.	/r/Divorce_Men	19/07/24 05:34 PM
6	The new guy We all need to vent. And have a sympathetic ear, willing to hear. I’d suggest letting it go. Your kids should know who their “real” dad is. Be that guy, loving your kids, making them a priority and doing the fun “dad” things good dad’s do. Play catch, toss footballs, fly kites, go to the library, find low cost things to do that proves you are “their” dad. I DGAF what $ this dude has. He’ll never be you.	/r/Divorce_Men	16/07/24 06:54 PM
4	Wife (F30) leaves me (M30) 6 months after marriage, where do you start? Sux but admire your level head & obvious strength. No doubt you’ll be better off.	/r/Divorce_Men	19/06/24 04:37 AM
2	Men from AZ, NM, and TX: I have finally decided to move on and away from the ex. Any recommendations for my trip? Civil War US Army General Philip Henry Sheridan is famously quoted “If I owned Texas and Hell, I’d rent out Texas and live in Hell”. Weather’s not horrible all year but feel since you asked I’d give you lots of info.	/r/Divorce_Men	28/05/24 05:23 PM
2	Men from AZ, NM, and TX: I have finally decided to move on and away from the ex. Any recommendations for my trip? Couple of fun sayings: I wasn’t born in TX but I got here as fast as I could & TX it’s not just a state, it’s a state of mind. We’re proud folks here.	/r/Divorce_Men	28/05/24 02:11 AM
2	Men from AZ, NM, and TX: I have finally decided to move on and away from the ex. Any recommendations for my trip? Native son here. Dallas has hot job market so all are moving here. Traffic & home prices rising. East TX has some redneck hicks. Houston, long time a big city but humid. I 2nd suggestion to look at the “hill country”, prettiest part of the state along with Big Bend. Austin used to have cool vibe but tech has taken over and that’s gone. High housing cost too. San Antone has a lotta character and the Riverwalk is cool. South Padre Island, best beach IMO. Rio Grande valley, mucho produce. I speak S…	/r/Divorce_Men	28/05/24 01:38 AM
1	One year on since being told she wanted a divorce Now imagine a wonderful life going forward, see yourself in it. And allow the universe to bring it to your reality. Taken me years to shrug prior negative crap, not doing it any more.	/r/Divorce_Men	02/03/24 08:28 PM
0	Sick kid/parent, she wants to have a call No. Do not set this expectation. My thought you are doing exactly right for the well being of your child long term.	/r/Divorce_Men	02/03/24 03:29 PM
3	One year on since being told she wanted a divorce Won’t pile on now brother, you don’t need it. Glad to see you’ve caught yourself. Now, deep breath, grab courage, call & apologize. Get a sense & you’ll know. Gut always tells. You’re here to reach out, same as me, just not posted yet. New here & won’t be a jerk. FB refugee, done w jerks. Guys, we gotta hang together or we will most assuredly hang separately, B. Franklin quote	/r/Divorce_Men	01/03/24 10:47 PM
8	My ex was told to pay me $7k and she basically broke down. Big phrase now? FAFO? Yep that’s it.	/r/Divorce_Men	28/02/24 09:54 PM