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| 1 | I’m so happy!Yup. In the mean time stand for women. Open doors for them. Open their car doors. Bring heavy stuff in. Protect them. So many men these days think men shouldn't have to do that because "equality" but they expose their own mediocrity. Do what's right. Not what's in. Women need our protection. Check on the women in your life regularly. Lead by example. Crime is increasing. Make sure the women in your life have protection against predators. I make sure all of my female friends are armed with tactic… | /r/ExRedPill | 10/07/22 10:16 PM |
| 8 | Darius M exposed himself on liveThis guy always struck me as a psychopath. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/07/22 12:33 AM |
| 1 | Are relationships transactional?I wouldn't say so. However, it is true that you shouldn't invest in relationships where they only take and don't give unless they're family or something. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/07/22 07:54 AM |
| 1 | Redpillers hate western womenThanks | /r/ExRedPill | 16/06/22 01:49 AM |
| 2 | this subreddit is promoting female abusers and silencing male victimsBro, I am not a feminist. lmao Check my post history and I still abhor red pill. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/06/22 06:07 PM |
| 4 | Redpillers hate western women????? | /r/ExRedPill | 15/06/22 05:27 PM |
| 2 | Redpillers hate western womenTell it. Just paid for both for everything when spending time with female friend last week gladly. They do not understand Arab != Muslim and culture often plays more than Islam itself. | /r/ExRedPill | 14/06/22 03:37 PM |
| 3 | Redpillers hate western womenThis. I'm a Muslim man and I love being that. Being Muslim gives me a strict skillsheet of what I should do and providing is one of them. Being the main provider and working hard appeals to me because it gives me a strict role. In Islam women have full rights. | /r/ExRedPill | 14/06/22 03:35 PM |
| 4 | Redpillers hate western womenAdd African women to the list too. | /r/ExRedPill | 14/06/22 03:23 PM |
| 4 | Redpillers hate western womenDepends. I know some traditional women that are in the manosphere. But you're correct. Most dislike them, speaking as a black Muslim. | /r/ExRedPill | 14/06/22 03:20 PM |
| 1 | Redpillers hate western womenOr Colombia | /r/ExRedPill | 14/06/22 03:01 PM |
| 7 | Redpillers hate western womenCurrently flirting/teasing with a woman that's slightly taller than me. And she's flirting back! Oops! Oh, and she's black! And I'm black! The horror! | /r/ExRedPill | 14/06/22 02:59 PM |
| 3 | Red pill ruined my relationship and is ruining my lifeI'm proud of you dude. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/06/22 08:16 AM |
| 1 | Boyfriend has gotten into Fresh and Fit the past year... can this be undone?I'm glad we can agree and find commonality despite our differences. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/05/22 06:25 PM |
| 1 | Boyfriend has gotten into Fresh and Fit the past year... can this be undone?I'm a very traditional man and RP belies tradition. Men arguing with women isn't tradition. Men thinking they shouldn't sacrifice for women isn't tradition. Men thinking they shouldn't provide isn't tradition. Men thinking women shouldn't be protected isn't tradition. Men not being responsible for their actions and not wifing a woman they get pregnant isn't tradition. Tradition isn't bad. Redpill is a warping of tradition that demeans women. Your definition of tradition is patriarchy. My definit… | /r/ExRedPill | 25/05/22 05:35 PM |
| 1 | Boyfriend has gotten into Fresh and Fit the past year... can this be undone?That's a fair postulation. I just don't want you to think just because some men are conservative means they're sexist. I'm very protective of women partly because I feel it's my duty to protect and provide for instance. A woman without rights is a shackles family. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/05/22 05:25 PM |
| 2 | Are women who say they want a "provider and protector" in a man toxic or hateful for feeling this way?Not inherently. In Islam that's the way it is and I run to my role gladly. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/05/22 02:27 PM |
| 1 | Boyfriend has gotten into Fresh and Fit the past year... can this be undone?Fyi, I'm extremely anti red pill and I'm conservative. This stuff has no real political compass. I know liberal Democrats hooked on this stuff. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/05/22 09:45 AM |
| 3 | Boyfriend has gotten into Fresh and Fit the past year... can this be undone?Wow. I'm so sorry. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/05/22 09:35 AM |
| 1 | I feel like my life would be easier if I was white.I don't really love white women. It's just that white women historically make their interest in me known. I'm an educated black man and none of the black women in my life were ever interested in me but I had white women come to my dorm room and beg to be with me or try to seduce me. So for me, it's not that I loved white women. I just loved women. And if a woman makes her interest known then I'll go after her. Unfortunately none of them were black. I see both of you mention your education. Are y… | /r/ExRedPill | 17/05/22 08:43 AM |
| 2 | I feel like my life would be easier if I was white.I'm black and male. I'm not intimidated by educated women. On the contrary. However, black women never took an interest in me so I went after different women. But black women were always my number one. | /r/ExRedPill | 17/05/22 08:39 AM |
| 4 | I advocate to all men trying to leave Red Pill to quit porn useNo offense, but I don't you read a thing I wrote. "There's a difference between watching porn and masturbation." Did you not read the part where it said that porn psychologically addicts the user? It alters the brain chemistry to expect more porn. When one quits porn and tries to masturbate now they can't get off without porn. You literally have to detox your brain off of porn to even masturbate naturally. Your comment presumes the idea that men are growing up being introduced to masturbation wi… | /r/ExRedPill | 12/05/22 09:12 PM |
| 2 | I advocate to all men trying to leave Red Pill to quit porn useI think getting addicted to it, is where the problem lies. The problem is that porn is inherently addictive. As said, it's designed to be, especially porn streaming sites. First you start on the vanilla stuff. But then the vanilla stuff stops getting you off. Then you have to up the ante more and more until you get into truly depraved porn. It gets to a point where you can search for minutes at a time finding anything to get you erect because nothing really does as you keep searching and searchi… | /r/ExRedPill | 12/05/22 09:10 PM |
| 4 | That didn't go well for Frest & Fit...Ughh | /r/ExRedPill | 03/05/22 02:28 PM |
| 5 | That didn't go well for Frest & Fit...Disgrace. For one, Muslims aren't supposed to commit zina. Much less date in a Haram way. Muslims marry; not date. He is a disgrace and is warping Islam. Is he an NoI "Muslim"? Women absolutely lead but we have certain responsibilities we must carry out. Women don't just follow without you carrying out your role to provide. To provide and sacrifice as a man is Islam. Not trying to get dates to force women into sex. May Allah guide him. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/05/22 08:32 AM |
| 9 | That didn't go well for Frest & Fit...The fact one of these dudes claims to be a Muslim while treating women this way makes me angry, speaking as a Muslim. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/05/22 01:16 PM |
| 5 | Why do Red Pillers hate western women?Red pillers lump all western women as feminists. Soy boy mentality. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/04/22 11:05 PM |
| -3 | Why there is no lot exfeminsts as there is exredpillThere's plenty of ex feminists. They're just often demonized by feminists or quiet about it. In fact there's a growing movement aligned with red pill where women are teaching the dangers of feminism like Chantelle on YouTube. I have no idea where the OP came up with their conclusion but it's wrong. Former feminists are everywhere. | /r/ExRedPill | 18/04/22 04:34 PM |
| 2 | Why there is no lot exfeminsts as there is exredpillr/redpillwomen ? | /r/ExRedPill | 18/04/22 12:56 PM |
| 11 | What makes you an exredpiller?I realized it was damaging my relationships with women, whether romantic or platonic, and assumed ill intent from any woman. I started to loathe and hate them. I realized RP was just a cover up for the fact I hadn't healed from the abuse - sexual and emotional - that I had received from women, that RP was cult like, and that I had too many leader attributes inside of me to mindlessly follow another man's picture of what a "real man" should be. I've since came to create my own definition of healt… | /r/ExRedPill | 14/04/22 04:08 PM |
| 2 | If women have never been attracted to me before, isn't that a large enough sample to concur I need the redpill?You sent me a reply and reddit is stopping me from seeing it. Can you please resend it? E: I looked through your post history and can see it there but not in the thread wtf. Anyways, I agree somewhat. Open doors for women, treat them right but don't put them on a pedestal. The problem with red and blue pill thinking is that it can too far in one direction. One hates women, the other infantilizes them. I think mainstream society pushes too much into the blue pill which makes guys pedestalize wome… | /r/ExRedPill | 08/04/22 04:46 PM |
| 1 | If women have never been attracted to me before, isn't that a large enough sample to concur I need the redpill?Can you please go over blue pill thinking? I haven't studied it enough to understand what it means and I'd like to help our friend here. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/04/22 03:01 PM |
| 5 | If women have never been attracted to me before, isn't that a large enough sample to concur I need the redpill?But women aren't attracted to red pill men. Don't get me wrong, this doesn't mean you have to be a pink flag wearing feminist but red pill treats women like crap and you will not get an emotionally satisfying adult relationship. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/04/22 02:59 PM |
| 1 | this subreddit is an echo chamberAlright. I'll report when I see it. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/04/22 07:38 PM |
| 0 | this subreddit is an echo chamberI tend to not report because frankly I'm a free speech absolutist. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/04/22 11:06 AM |
| 4 | this subreddit is an echo chamberThey might not be harassed daily but they're harassed far more than most men I guarantee. Let's not go down that hole. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/04/22 12:55 AM |
| -3 | this subreddit is an echo chamberYeah I don't have ill will towards those that come with good intentions but unfortunately many come here to mock and rant rather than help. Not all, but quite a few. Thankfully there's many helpful women here that are genuine in their attempt to help hurting men. Those ladies are truly cherished. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/04/22 04:53 PM |
| -20 | this subreddit is an echo chamberA lot of people here are feminists with an axe to grind and not here to help actual hurting men that want to change and grow but mock and belittle their "inferiors". | /r/ExRedPill | 06/04/22 03:31 PM |
| 10 | Is it really just a numbers game, after all?It's sadder because they're harder to find. With no soul mates this means you have more options. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/04/22 03:52 AM |
| 1 | Really good Tumblr post on Twitter about what a trans man has observed:A lot of this is biological, much of it social. But yes, being a man isn't all privilege and gold as women think it is. Grass truly isn't greener and sometimes the grass is well and truly burnt. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/04/22 12:28 PM |
| 2 | The Friendzone complaints are utter bullshit. Here's why.Thanks a lot sister. That support means a lot. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/04/22 12:10 PM |
| 1 | Should a parent warn their daughter that how they dress in certain environments may attract more predators?I'm not sure what your point is. After all, I said women no matter how they dress will be seen as targets. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/03/22 05:03 PM |
| -2 | Should a parent warn their daughter that how they dress in certain environments may attract more predators?Yes, a warning seems reasonable. Saying,"it's not you but their actions" is pretty idealistic, as if that will stop it from happening. It's good to be prepared and aware of potential dangers. Saying you shouldn't talk to them about this is like saying you shouldn't talk to your daughter about how she shouldn't accept drinks from strangers because it's the personal responsibility of men to not spike a drink. That is daft logic and isn't an actual proactive solution. Personally, I have hopes that … | /r/ExRedPill | 29/03/22 03:20 PM |
| -1 | Where does this idea that men get better as they age?Men have more long term upward mobility. It's true that we get more money as we age. Where TRP strays is mistaking that high net worth means high value. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/03/22 03:13 PM |
| 2 | Blaming mens actions on women, but not the other way aroundStick around this sub. Make a post about how you want help but don't think it's possible. Be earnest. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/03/22 05:52 PM |
| 2 | Blaming mens actions on women, but not the other way aroundI'm not loud. I'm quiet as shit. I don't try to be funny. I'm introverted as fuck. Go for similar women. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/03/22 05:41 PM |
| 2 | Blaming mens actions on women, but not the other way aroundFrankly, it's not your dick size but your attitude. Saying you're not worth being with, having low value, not being able to have standards. All of this shit. Fuck it. That's what's killing you. You talk about yourself so badly. Why would any woman want to get with that? Hell, you're turning me off and I'm not even gay. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/03/22 05:40 PM |
| 2 | Blaming mens actions on women, but not the other way aroundLooked it up and you're right. So what? What's wrong with average? Many women prefer average. A lot of big guys don't know how to use it. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/03/22 05:32 PM |
| 3 | Blaming mens actions on women, but not the other way around4.6 girth is a big dick dude. Join us at r/bigdickproblems it's common for us to think we are small because of porn, which is ruining society frankly. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/03/22 05:29 PM |
| 1 | Blaming mens actions on women, but not the other way aroundI do have a big penis but I used to think it was small because a girl insulted me and called me small when I was a teenager. Being a man it's not like I can compare myself to others. My penis is my penis. When she called me small I thought I was small my life. Turns out I'm a bit above average. But that doesn't matter. She was shallow yes, but a lot of women aren't and having a big penis is actually a detriment if it's too big. Unless you have a micropenis you have nothing to worry about. Learn … | /r/ExRedPill | 28/03/22 05:21 PM |
| 2 | Blaming mens actions on women, but not the other way aroundI used to think I'd die alone. Now I don't. We don't start running. Learn to crawl first. Have confidence in yourself brother. What do you believe about women? | /r/ExRedPill | 28/03/22 05:05 PM |
| 1 | Blaming mens actions on women, but not the other way aroundNah. Intellectual women. When I say intellectual I don't necessarily mean with a PHD or whatever pretension you personally have. I get bored by women that lead with their body. If she thinks men are mindless animals only controlled by our sex then I won't deal with her. Looks are great but if you can't carry a good conversation about life in a down to Earth manner I'll get bored of you. What values do you have? What's important to you? A good connection is one where you two share a bond emotiona… | /r/ExRedPill | 28/03/22 04:45 PM |
| 3 | Blaming mens actions on women, but not the other way aroundOkay. Believe what you want. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/03/22 03:37 PM |
| 3 | Blaming mens actions on women, but not the other way aroundTime to work on yourself then and stop blaming women for your failure to get with women. A lot of men make excuses too. Like my height or my looks or whatever when I live in NYC and pass by dozens of couples a day where the dude is like 5'5 and with a baddie. Often men that say women want this, women want that are projecting their insecurities. Most women just want a man that treats them right. This doesn't mean kiss their ass but respect them and lead like a man with some cojones. When I say le… | /r/ExRedPill | 28/03/22 03:27 PM |
| 1 | Blaming mens actions on women, but not the other way aroundAgreed entirely. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/03/22 02:28 PM |
| 0 | Blaming mens actions on women, but not the other way aroundShe's right only in the sense that women are continuously picking bad men. She fails where she's not placing any standards on men and excusing their behavior. Women can be extremely bad at mate selection but the men aren't growing either. It results in a situation where two parties are both are jaded towards the other and neither are responsible for their own actions or growth so men become cynical of women and women cynical of men. Many women will resort to "all men are dogs" and men will say "… | /r/ExRedPill | 28/03/22 02:14 PM |
| 7 | The 5 Types of RedPill Men and Why They Turn Toward Redpill! (An Original Post)What about the man that was sexually abused/assaulted by women and turned that into hate towards women? | /r/ExRedPill | 25/03/22 12:11 AM |
| 2 | The Friendzone complaints are utter bullshit. Here's why.I feel like maybe exceptions exist but for the most part it holds true. Saying romantic interest from the start is different than being lovers, though. I can show romantic interest and still choose to take it slow. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/03/22 05:03 PM |
| 1 | The Friendzone complaints are utter bullshit. Here's why.When I was a teenager I was basically told by girls they only wanted me for my penis and even had my dick grabbed without consent so that likely plays a huge role for me. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/03/22 12:56 PM |
| 2 | The Friendzone complaints are utter bullshit. Here's why.Your sex is only one part of you, though. Not all. I really sympathize with women because of this. Sex is very important to me and even I don't want to be someone's fuck toy. I'm more than my dick. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/03/22 12:16 PM |
| 3 | The Friendzone complaints are utter bullshit. Here's why.Being transparent should be part of the process any how. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/03/22 08:00 AM |
| 1 | The Friendzone complaints are utter bullshit. Here's why.How do you ever know if they like you or for your sex? | /r/ExRedPill | 16/03/22 07:55 AM |
| 1 | You don’t know most women /vent postSuper glad a sister is more understanding of me. I'm not religious as I used to be but still think spiritual advice is paramount in building a man of quality. I hope I haven't disappointed you. I still have the same views towards men and women and still believe in a higher power. If you want to talk in private by all means let's do so. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/03/22 09:59 AM |
| 8 | It's a common sentiment within the Red Pill and Pickup communities to idealize Eastern European as "traditionally feminine" and "submissive" in contrast w/ feminist Western women. What these guys are totally oblivious to is that this veneer of "trad. femininity" is informed by a culture of violence.The biggest slight against them is their claim of TRP being natural when it goes against healthy male and female relationships. It is clearly unnatural. It needs to die. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/02/22 05:10 PM |
| 13 | It's a common sentiment within the Red Pill and Pickup communities to idealize Eastern European as "traditionally feminine" and "submissive" in contrast w/ feminist Western women. What these guys are totally oblivious to is that this veneer of "trad. femininity" is informed by a culture of violence.TRP guys are guys that claim to be alpha while demanding a woman to "know her place." But any man worth his salt knows the value of a woman and lifts her up to be by his side. she responds with the same. The so-called alpha guys are the real betas. A man in touch with his masculinity doesn't have to try too hard. He just is. He also doesn't do many things that society tells him he's supposed to value, the way TRP followers endlessly yodel the commands of the so-called Alpha TRP leader on high. I… | /r/ExRedPill | 21/02/22 12:53 PM |
| 53 | The red pill makes relationships sound extremely unappealing.TRP dehumanizes women to the point of making any man distrust them. It is inherently toxic. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/02/22 01:57 AM |
| 1 | Thanks to this sub, a man and a woman somehow fell in love with each other and we thank you for it existingHer body count isn't high, hence why I don't care, and you're really reading into it. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/02/22 12:47 AM |
| 1 | Thanks to this sub, a man and a woman somehow fell in love with each other and we thank you for it existingIt literally doesn't bother me. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/02/22 12:32 AM |
| 1 | Thanks to this sub, a man and a woman somehow fell in love with each other and we thank you for it existingI let my partner know of your struggle. Consider that you as a woman don't like being bunched up with other women, right? You're a woman, certainly, but you're also an individual. Try to see men the way you'd want to be seen: as an individual. It's hard though. First off, I don't think you should define a man that has sexist views as a "good man". You and other women have more worth than that. In my view, men are supposed to protect women. How can a man be a good man if he's sexist? I think that… | /r/ExRedPill | 05/02/22 11:14 PM |
| 5 | Thanks to this sub, a man and a woman somehow fell in love with each other and we thank you for it existingHey there. My suggestion would be to get lots of platonic male friends and bridge a gap between the sexes in the form of dialogue. Explain your perspective as a woman and allow them to explain their perspective as a man and find your commonalities and respect your differences. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/02/22 10:25 PM |
| 2 | Thanks to this sub, a man and a woman somehow fell in love with each other and we thank you for it existingApologize for the outburst earlier. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/02/22 09:41 PM |
| 2 | Thanks to this sub, a man and a woman somehow fell in love with each other and we thank you for it existingI agree with and like your people living their authentic selves definition. That's what we are doing but we aren't fulfilling a "role" on purpose. It's just who we are, although I do have personal definitions on how a man should conduct himself. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/02/22 04:58 PM |
| 3 | Thanks to this sub, a man and a woman somehow fell in love with each other and we thank you for it existingHmm true. My problem was the accusation that I am red pilled. I just..what. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/02/22 04:39 PM |
| 1 | Red pilled men are the beta males they complain aboutYou're right. I realized I sought healthy masculinity and that's how I "found" it. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/02/22 01:10 PM |
| 1 | Red pilled men are the beta males they complain aboutThat's true my point is today's men are severely alone and their masculinity isn't healthy at all. I think the other poster has a point that healthy masculinity is codified and taught in a healthy environment. Things like this are hard to come by with you alone. https://youtu.be/zpZFCubE6Ag | /r/ExRedPill | 30/01/22 02:24 PM |
| 1 | Red pilled men are the beta males they complain aboutHow are men to be exposed to healthy masculinity if they go through life alone? | /r/ExRedPill | 30/01/22 02:10 PM |
| 1 | You don’t know most women /vent postThis sub is called ex-red pilled. I am not a red pill man. However I am giving a black man's perspective. Maybe that perspective is wrong. Just like how women don't like be mischaracterized and judged for being women, it's not cool to judge or assume all men are rigid and unwilling to understand. Please give us the benefit of the doubt and don't think ill of all black men. I can agree that black men need more opportunity. Most of us are trending away from college. I think pushing the trades woul… | /r/ExRedPill | 20/01/22 11:15 PM |
| 3 | You don’t know most women /vent postHm. True enough. I apologize for undermining the experiences of black women. I completely understand and know for a fact they have a lack of viable options. I just, as a black man I have no real solutions for it. All I can do is work on myself. I try to talk to black men about bettering ourselves and most don't want to hear it. What do you suggest we do and do you have solutions? I'd like to hear them if possible. Thank you for challenging me on these biased viewpoints. I especially did not know… | /r/ExRedPill | 20/01/22 09:38 PM |
| 1 | You don’t know most women /vent postBlack women aren't the most educated. Far more white and especially Asian women are educated. This leaves about 70% of black women as uneducated. https://youtu.be/gxY-UCYESgY Those other issues you listed are completely separate and I agree are a problem. Women shouldn't have to lower their standard at all but let's not pretend most black women are educated. And as said over 3/4 if black babies are born out of wedlock so this is the pool black women are choosing to make babies with. It's not the… | /r/ExRedPill | 20/01/22 08:47 PM |
| 1 | This is terrible..He's married?!?!!?! | /r/ExRedPill | 19/01/22 03:47 AM |
| 28 | This is terrible..Darius is a full on psychopath. | /r/ExRedPill | 18/01/22 10:32 AM |
| 3 | What are redpill fathers like? Do they treat their kids as badly as their wives? Saw this post in another sub.Sounds like a train wreck | /r/ExRedPill | 17/01/22 11:49 AM |
| 0 | You don’t know most women /vent postI made the assumption seven years ago that black males hate fidelity and hate women, especially black ones." You would assume ill intent whether I said it or not. Hence, why many (key word, not all) black women are "utterly dysfunctional". You are on the same exact extreme. Hence, dysfunctional. Rather than healing from your past, you leap into your scars like a warm bath. I will extrapolate that when I say black women, I'm mostly talking about black American women. Black Caribbean, Afro Latina,… | /r/ExRedPill | 17/01/22 04:03 AM |
| 1 | You don’t know most women /vent postThe OP is literally about Kevin Samuels. He's literally the topic. Instead of giving me the benefit of the doubt you assume ill intent. This is my view of things on black women, you naturally assume ill intent and skepticism towards black men regardless of context or intention. Even when he's literally the main topic. Hence, my conclusion that most black women are emotionally broken. Kevin Samuels skyrocketed for a reason and rather than concede he has a few good points you label him not knowing… | /r/ExRedPill | 17/01/22 03:25 AM |
| 1 | You don’t know most women /vent postI'm not sure why you're arguing that with me here on a sub called ex-red pill. I frequently vouch for women against red pilled men. Red pilled men hate women so I have no need to defend them. However, women aren't perfect either. It's a mixed bag of dysfunction. | /r/ExRedPill | 17/01/22 02:53 AM |
| 1 | You don’t know most women /vent postHm I agree. But personally as a black man I'm also giving up on black women. I mean, I'll keep my eye out for one, but I've expanded my options. I personally find the way the vast majority of black women handle themselves to be utterly dysfunctional. | /r/ExRedPill | 17/01/22 01:23 AM |
| 1 | You don’t know most women /vent postMost non black men don't want black women though. Also all men are being radicalized by TRP. | /r/ExRedPill | 17/01/22 12:06 AM |
| -1 | You don’t know most women /vent postSamuels argues black women started it. Black women have been trashing black men for decades. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/01/22 11:54 PM |
| 2 | You don’t know most women /vent postNo. My point is that the women don't know how to pick. You do not see that level of dysfunction in terms of numbers if both parties aren't doing what they need. Black women pick from a select pool of men. It's a small minority of men they're going for and these men often leave them broken. Women don't know how to pick and the number of good men seems limited. Essentially, the black community as it is now is one characterized by dysfunction on both ends of the table. I personally attribute it to … | /r/ExRedPill | 15/01/22 10:45 PM |
| 5 | You don’t know most women /vent postI agree. However, he also talks important truths. Over 60% of black women are single. It's a mixed bag. On one hand he's talking about very important issues that need talking about. Black women often pick some of the worst men repeatedly. Over 2/3 of black babies are born out of wedlock. This shows insane dysfunction. So he's tackling issues that need talking about without the typical Oprah touch that has done us nothing but bad, but he's doing it in a bad, negative manner that causes men to fee… | /r/ExRedPill | 13/01/22 05:05 PM |
| 2 | I hate how prevalent the red pill/ incel community is in the black community.I support her. But I dislike the false promise of black love video. A big problem with the black love video is that it's one way. Thought I'm not red pill, stats don't lie, and over 2/3 of black children are born out of wedlock. That's not a man problem. That's a man and woman problem. The rate of single black men and women is absymal. As a black man we have a story too and there's a reason many men are pushed into these bad dating techniques. This is a two way street and Black men have been bla… | /r/ExRedPill | 11/01/22 08:15 PM |
| 21 | I hate how prevalent the red pill/ incel community is in the black community.Same. It's amazing how so many men think being masculine is cursing, getting mad and being super extra. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/01/22 08:03 AM |
| 3 | I hate this man. So hypocriticalWhat an awful myopic man. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/01/22 11:59 AM |
| 1 | Is going to the gym for women really a waste of time?Having a fit body helps. Do it for you not for women. A body helps but can't be all you have to offer. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/12/21 10:13 AM |
| 3 | Exactly How Long did you Follow the Red Pill?4 or so months. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/12/21 02:54 AM |
| 3 | Important MessageThank you for the advice and thank you so much for being so brave articulating your experience. I hope and pray you heal. I'll look into intense trauma therapy. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/12/21 08:22 PM |
| 2 | Do RedPillers have Attachment TraumaAs a former red pilled man I would definitely attribute a sizable portion of my being red pilled through my trauma tied to my fear abandonment. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/12/21 07:44 PM |
| 2 | Red Pill only talks about the extreme negative side of female nature.Red pill always seem to be targeting specific women because they look a specific way. These men place a woman's looks above all else, but these ladies might be more narcissistic than most women or even people in general, the red pillers apply this behavior to all women because they attribute a woman's worth through only her looks. My opinion and observation. In a society with creeping narcissism in the general population this is likely to happen more increasingly. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/12/21 07:42 PM |
| 2 | Someone was asking where shitty redpill culture came from and old Maxim mags were surely a part of it.Yikes this is really gross. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/12/21 07:32 PM |
| 3 | Guys, I come bearing goods. It gets better. Holy crap, it gets better. Let go of the Red Pill and follow me into the rising sunIt's traditional. Not red pill. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/12/21 07:59 PM |
| 6 | Guys, I come bearing goods. It gets better. Holy crap, it gets better. Let go of the Red Pill and follow me into the rising sunUm. No | /r/ExRedPill | 10/12/21 06:01 AM |
| 1 | Guys, I come bearing goods. It gets better. Holy crap, it gets better. Let go of the Red Pill and follow me into the rising sunSure. Bed tho | /r/ExRedPill | 10/12/21 05:51 AM |
| 7 | Guys, I come bearing goods. It gets better. Holy crap, it gets better. Let go of the Red Pill and follow me into the rising sunI didn't say looks aren't important. I'm telling you it shouldn't be the most important thing. Also many women are called beautiful all day every day. How are you going to get a woman by focusing on her looks? You've already lost the game. Also you're a Muslim, or at least you.claim to be. You should be looking for a wife and keeping your gaze down to begin with. Most men lack emotional intelligence. They are shallow and vain. A high quality woman - a grown woman with depth and is wife material … | /r/ExRedPill | 10/12/21 05:48 AM |
| 8 | Guys, I come bearing goods. It gets better. Holy crap, it gets better. Let go of the Red Pill and follow me into the rising sunDon't go for every woman. Look at a woman's values. Find them. Emotionally investing early will tell you if it's worth doing. If you place a woman's looks above all else you will miss out on finding similar values. If a woman doesn't fit you plan for the future, end it then. That is if you have a plan for the future. If you don't you've already messed up and should retreat. You as a man have no business going after women without a plan because you see, women like a man with a plan. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/12/21 05:37 AM |
| 8 | Guys, I come bearing goods. It gets better. Holy crap, it gets better. Let go of the Red Pill and follow me into the rising sunEmotionally invest early. Don't waste time. Learn to cut the fat and don't go for every woman. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/12/21 05:33 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts on this? It got 9,500 likes so, this is a very popular opinion among men.Nope but I'm black and have grew up around black women | /r/ExRedPill | 03/11/21 08:58 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on this? It got 9,500 likes so, this is a very popular opinion among men.I agree the phenomenon exists. My criticism with red pill comes from labeling all women or especially black women like this. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/11/21 08:45 PM |
| 0 | Thoughts on this? It got 9,500 likes so, this is a very popular opinion among men.Who cares if it's easily debunked? Who cares if they're not representative of all men? Who said they were? (Oh right, the OP who attributed this to men and not red pilled men) The red pill operates like a cult and fires out catch phrase after catch phrase. Although the example given in the OP is horrific (Kenyan's?) one cursory glance on Red Pill YouTube will show that this is common Red Pill sentiment. You, as a poster on a sub called exredpill, are unaware of this sentiment. Which shows: A. Yo… | /r/ExRedPill | 03/11/21 11:44 AM |
| 2 | Thoughts on this? It got 9,500 likes so, this is a very popular opinion among men.The general red pilled sentiment is that women in their 20's want to be independent and in their 30's panic because they're single and then give up in their 40's and give it all to Jesus. The tweet the OP picked is bad. The random stuff about Kenyan's especially is confusing. I will say that many women, particularly black women, have really, really unrealistic standards and realize when they don't match those standards they acquiesce but it's a mistake to attribute this to all women. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/11/21 11:49 PM |
| 0 | Thoughts on this? It got 9,500 likes so, this is a very popular opinion among men.You picked a very weird version of this and now this entire thread is confused. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/11/21 11:47 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on this? It got 9,500 likes so, this is a very popular opinion among men.This is a popular sentiment among red pilled men. Don't play coy. It's not helpful. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/11/21 11:46 PM |
| 3 | I’m so sorry I hate Kevin Samuel so much, instead of complaining about Modern women, why not teach men to be men, there’s a rise in rejection killings apparently, mostly towards poc.Why did you make this post nsfw? There's nothing nsfw about the content and run the risk of making the profiles of people that view this thread have NSFW profiles, something you cannot remove. Please untag the nsfw. It's just an image of Kevin Samuels. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/10/21 12:22 AM |
| 3 | I’m so sorry I hate Kevin Samuel so much, instead of complaining about Modern women, why not teach men to be men, there’s a rise in rejection killings apparently, mostly towards poc.If he wears name brand clothing but refuses to invest it's because he spends on himself and not on his product. Many greedy people do this. It's pretty simple. More importantly, Kevin Samuels has narcissistic and selfish tendencies. Spending on himself and not on his product which he uses as a platform to blast women while making bank seems pretty on message. I'm not sure where the confusion is? His ex wife has already tried to out him as someone who wasn't "high value" before. His fanbase doesn… | /r/ExRedPill | 09/10/21 12:19 AM |
| 3 | I’m so sorry I hate Kevin Samuel so much, instead of complaining about Modern women, why not teach men to be men, there’s a rise in rejection killings apparently, mostly towards poc.He's cheap. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/10/21 03:35 PM |
| 3 | I’m so sorry I hate Kevin Samuel so much, instead of complaining about Modern women, why not teach men to be men, there’s a rise in rejection killings apparently, mostly towards poc.He used to teach men to be men. Check his video history. But he caught on with a lightning in a bottle moment during the pandemic and has been catering red pill/misogyny content ever since because it gets him more views/clout/money. I suggest watching Pink Book Lessons for a more well rounded approach which is directly made by a woman. https://youtu.be/gxY-UCYESgY | /r/ExRedPill | 08/10/21 03:30 PM |
| 1 | men go to the red pill because the common advice that's given did not work or they cross past with an abusive womanPrecisely. It's bad eggs that caused me to go red pill to begin with. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/10/21 03:27 PM |
| 1 | The Red Pill teaches that women can't love you for you. Suggestions on how to get past that?I agree it is a load of bs | /r/ExRedPill | 07/10/21 04:32 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadBoth are awful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/21 04:29 PM |
| 11 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWeird comparisons. Yes dude, a woman having sex is on par with pedophilia and rape. Pretty hateful stuff. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/21 05:52 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: What traits make men prime husband material?I really like your take. I fit a lot of these and I'm working on the ones I'm weak at. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/21 05:06 AM |
| 16 | What was your goal as a RP-lerThanks and it's for the best. First off, it's incredibly freeing. No longer do I have to pretend to be something I'm not just to be with women. I can just be me and if she doesn't like that she can go seek out a player like I used to be. Being mindful of any woman who could be a wife hopeful is far more real and assuring than seeking the next woman I want to chew up and spit out like trash. I no longer judge a woman's initial value by her looks but her character and whether we share the same val… | /r/ExRedPill | 05/10/21 10:07 PM |
| 28 | What was your goal as a RP-lerI just wanted to get laid. At that point I was truly hurt by the women in my life and decided I'd treat them like objects because being kind didn't amount to much. I'm glad I've reflected and grown. I've imbued myself with the reality of women's humanity, that they deserve respect, and are people just like me and the rest of men messing up along the way. They hurt, we hurt. They grow, we grow. I'm really glad I've shed this toxic mindset that treats women like meat. Thankfully nothing really hap… | /r/ExRedPill | 05/10/21 09:42 PM |
| 3 | Why do men fail to see that women are just people and aren't so different from each other?Let's not pretend women don't do the same to men. Both sexes need to do more to understand each other. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/10/21 07:27 AM |
| 1 | Do women really have a bunch of orbiters waiting in line for their chance to get with her?I'm really confused by this thread and how the women are reacting and downvoting. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/10/21 09:01 PM |
| 4 | Do women really have a bunch of orbiters waiting in line for their chance to get with her?Why are all the men saying yes and the women are saying no? This is driving me crazy. Are the women this naive or are the men this pessimistic? | /r/ExRedPill | 02/10/21 04:23 PM |
| 3 | Women of exredpill, is it true you don't like it when men are vulnerable with you?I can talk about mental health with my guy friends actually. Maybe I'm lucky. Thanks for the support and resources. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/10/21 01:22 AM |
| 0 | Women of exredpill, is it true you don't like it when men are vulnerable with you?Patriarchy? Women overwhelmingly want men to lead. Women often don't want to make the first move. This is one of my issues with feminism: everything is patriarchy, even basic gender roles. Do you ask men out? If not you are a hypocrite. And yeah, women are individual. But I asked the girl out publicly and brought her roses. It was embarrassing so I never did it again. Many men are like this. You say sample size is one, but boys and men ask out a lot of girls and women and are rejected just as mu… | /r/ExRedPill | 01/10/21 12:16 AM |
| 1 | Women of exredpill, is it true you don't like it when men are vulnerable with you?It's an observation of men dealing with rejection in general. Why continually do things that don't work? It's a mans job to initiate so he gets rejected a lot. You fine tune what you're doing right and what you're doing wrong. It might be extreme but it didn't work so why try again? It's similar to my thesis earlier on vulnerability. If a woman ends up disappearing because of it I might conclude to not be vulnerable with women. This is how my brain works unfortunately. Thankfully there's plenty … | /r/ExRedPill | 01/10/21 12:05 AM |
| 1 | Women of exredpill, is it true you don't like it when men are vulnerable with you?The only time in my life when I saw my dad cry was when we put our dog to sleep. RIP Bo. You were a good boy. He didn't even cry at his mom's funeral. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/09/21 10:33 PM |
| 2 | Women of exredpill, is it true you don't like it when men are vulnerable with you?Thank you very much. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/09/21 08:23 PM |
| 1 | Women of exredpill, is it true you don't like it when men are vulnerable with you?Ah, so you were speaking in general. Makes sense. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/09/21 07:29 PM |
| -2 | Women of exredpill, is it true you don't like it when men are vulnerable with you?I'm not sure why it's continuously assumed in this thread that I'm a needy person with a victim complex. You are making massive assumptions. I don't talk down on myself at all. I brought up a topic to a female friend, I told her it hurt that she did x, she apologized for x, and I said cool. I thought we were good. Next time I text her she refuses to answer texts. Haven't talk to her in months. Congratulated her on her engagement, still nothing. I don't endlessly complain to women at all and ther… | /r/ExRedPill | 30/09/21 07:25 PM |
| 2 | The Red Pill teaches that women can't love you for you. Suggestions on how to get past that?Oh, I read your comment wrong. Apologies. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/09/21 07:23 PM |
| -2 | Women of exredpill, is it true you don't like it when men are vulnerable with you?Why is it assumed I am using women as a free therapist? Isn't men's lib pro-feminist? I'll look into malementalhealth. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/09/21 07:12 PM |
| 1 | Are shit tests real and something you have to pass?Good advice. How do you get so grounded? | /r/ExRedPill | 30/09/21 05:59 PM |
| 11 | Women of exredpill, is it true you don't like it when men are vulnerable with you?Wow. I've really underestimated women. Your comment is really beautiful and gives me hope I can be grounded and trust women again. You have helped me take a massive step forward towards doing so. May God bless you. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/09/21 05:51 PM |
| 15 | Women of exredpill, is it true you don't like it when men are vulnerable with you?The problem with RedPill advice is that it recognises this phenomenon but refuses to say 'stay away from those kind of women'. Instead, it applies it to the whole female population and tries to push young men onto a life where they have to act like brutes. Ohhhhhh, I see. Holy crap what a lightbulb moment. Thanks so much. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/09/21 05:44 PM |
| 0 | Are shit tests real and something you have to pass?Hm well thanks. I find that extremely unattractive though having to ask for a compliment. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/09/21 05:25 PM |
| 2 | Women of exredpill, is it true you don't like it when men are vulnerable with you?I've never complained too much to women which is why I've been mystified at the way some of them react on a personal basis. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/09/21 05:15 PM |
| -6 | Are shit tests real and something you have to pass?Didn't say it was a secret conspiracy. The whole idea is that there's rarely a right answer. Tell her no and you're lying. Tell her yes and you called her an orca. That's the whole reason it's regarded as a shit test. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/09/21 05:13 PM |
| 4 | Women of exredpill, is it true you don't like it when men are vulnerable with you?Very good comment brother. You have some nice wisdom. Thanks for passing it on. I never considered the compatibility angle. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/09/21 05:09 PM |
| -1 | Women of exredpill, is it true you don't like it when men are vulnerable with you?Will you believe what women tell you or simply dismiss it as a "women don't know what they want"? lol No. As stated in the OP (did you bother to read it?): Now I know better and know there are some women that aren't absolutely repulsed by men that display a shred of humanity but I'm still slightly red pilled and old habits die hard. I know better now but it's still something I struggle with and was hoping to get advice on how to deal with it. Thank you for the link. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/09/21 05:05 PM |
| 1 | Women of exredpill, is it true you don't like it when men are vulnerable with you?That's fair. However this happens repeatedly so after a while you have no reason to trust the woman to be mature enough to handle male vulnerability. Men are very reactionary in how we solve problems. When I was in middle school I brought roses to a girl I liked. She said no thanks. I never bought roses for a girl outside of special occasions ever again. If a man opens up to a woman only for her close up, that's a sign. If it keeps happening then it confirms to me, as a man, to not open up to wo… | /r/ExRedPill | 30/09/21 04:48 PM |
| -6 | Are shit tests real and something you have to pass?The theory is that women never stop testing men even after getting married to them. The way some think is that it's a way to see how protected she is. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/09/21 04:38 PM |
| 1 | The Red Pill teaches that women can't love you for you. Suggestions on how to get past that?I know where you're coming from but not all women on this sub are like that and some women are perfectly fine with you being vulnerable with them. At the same time one of the most positive things about red pill, I said before, is how it teaches you to be more forward. But you don't need red pill to achieve that. Brother not all women are like that. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/09/21 03:30 PM |
| 2 | The Red Pill teaches that women can't love you for you. Suggestions on how to get past that?You said yourself she only liked him for his looks and money. So are you in agreement many women fall in lust and not love? Men have a similar problem and focus on a woman's body more than her character. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/09/21 03:17 PM |
| 2 | The Red Pill teaches that women can't love you for you. Suggestions on how to get past that?Read the comments further down. They made this recommendation without having any specific works in mind. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/09/21 03:14 PM |
| 3 | The Red Pill teaches that women can't love you for you. Suggestions on how to get past that?You think because we are exred pill that we will be allies with feminists? Think again. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/09/21 03:12 PM |
| 2 | The Red Pill teaches that women can't love you for you. Suggestions on how to get past that?So you suggested something as wide as "art and literature made by women" without thinking of actual examples? Downvoted though I upvoted you before. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/09/21 03:11 PM |
| -4 | Are shit tests real and something you have to pass?Shit tests are not red pill exclusive and widely regarded general male dating advice. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/09/21 03:04 PM |
| -6 | Are shit tests real and something you have to pass?Shit test goes beyond red pill and is general male dating advice. The whole "does this dress make me look fat?" is a culture meme and it's regarded as a shit test. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/09/21 03:01 PM |
| 0 | Are shit tests real and something you have to pass?They're absolutely real and some women will shit test even if they know you to test your masculinity either consciously or subconsciously. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/09/21 10:36 AM |
| 2 | Ex red pill men, did red pill constantly make you feel insecure about your masculinity?No it made me more masculine and direct, the only real benefits of the redpill in my opinion. What it did was made me overly aggressive in my masculinity. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/09/21 02:04 AM |
| 17 | Isn't hypergamy (or whatever the male version is) something women should worry more about in men?Hypergamy was one of the least convincing arguments of the red pill for me. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/09/21 02:02 AM |
| 3 | Curious about the manosphere in other countriesTrust me I'm not proud of it. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/09/21 01:59 AM |
| 2 | Curious about the manosphere in other countriesAnd I think you underestimate it. Many in this very thread have said many conspiracy theories and toxic culture baggage that seeps worldwide comes from America. The entire flat earth thing, antivax, a lot of these come straight from American soil and are transplanted abroad. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/09/21 11:54 PM |
| 3 | Curious about the manosphere in other countriesI doubt it. Red pill channels like Darius M have a foothold all over the world. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/09/21 03:11 PM |
| 2 | The Red Pill teaches that women can't love you for you. Suggestions on how to get past that?Haha okay I'll whisper instead. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/09/21 10:44 PM |
| 1 | The Red Pill teaches that women can't love you for you. Suggestions on how to get past that?Looks like I've been shot down haha. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/09/21 10:28 PM |
| 2 | The Red Pill teaches that women can't love you for you. Suggestions on how to get past that?Best comment I've seen in a while. Brave, open, honest. You're an incredible woman. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/09/21 10:11 PM |
| -1 | Why are some of you here in this subreddit?Where so I can eat some popcorn? | /r/ExRedPill | 28/09/21 09:16 PM |
| 10 | What is the emotionally healthy way to deal with girls going "cold" on you?Red pill is right about this. Be cold back. If someone isn't feeling me then I have the self respect to not feel them back. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/09/21 08:47 PM |
| -1 | Why are some of you here in this subreddit?Red pill has good aspects some not all of it is worth shedding. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/09/21 08:40 PM |
| 2 | Why are some of you here in this subreddit?I'll try to remember that. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/09/21 08:39 PM |
| 1 | The Red Pill teaches that women can't love you for you. Suggestions on how to get past that?Read further down | /r/ExRedPill | 28/09/21 07:34 PM |
| 2 | Why are some of you here in this subreddit?It may seem "ridiculous" but it's an ex red pill sub which will have ridiculous RP talking points. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/09/21 07:32 PM |
| 3 | Why are some of you here in this subreddit?It's not just her some attitudes expressed here in general. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/09/21 06:38 PM |
| 3 | Why are some of you here in this subreddit?I'm definitely not trolling and I will not engage with you because of the accusation especially since you did not even bother answering the question of the OP: "why are you here?" | /r/ExRedPill | 28/09/21 06:23 PM |
| -5 | The Red Pill teaches that women can't love you for you. Suggestions on how to get past that?Why are you on exredpill then? You certainly don't seem to be here to help. If you genuinely think women are incapable of love, that's just straight up nonsense and you need someone above reddit's pay grade to sort it out. Check the subreddit you're in. Why are you here? Why are you in a thread for someone trying to break down red pill arguments and you use this as an opportunity to victim blame? Reported to mods. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/09/21 06:08 PM |
| 1 | The Red Pill teaches that women can't love you for you. Suggestions on how to get past that?I know. But like I said in the comment you replied to it gets to a point where you really think women are incapable of love because your experiences. Like, I know in my heart of hearts that mothers can love their kids and be proud to show them off but it's still hard to deal with the emotion and not apply a blanket statement. It's hard, you know? | /r/ExRedPill | 28/09/21 05:55 PM |
| 0 | The Red Pill teaches that women can't love you for you. Suggestions on how to get past that?It's not a contradiction. While writing it out I realized that the issue isn't other women but my mom but didn't write that part out. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/09/21 05:49 PM |
| -1 | The Red Pill teaches that women can't love you for you. Suggestions on how to get past that?This thread is specifically about the red pill claim women cannot love a man. This thread is about rebutting that specific argument. You're correct some compromise is viable and very much possible. Are you a sister? Assalam alaykum. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/09/21 03:58 PM |
| -5 | The Red Pill teaches that women can't love you for you. Suggestions on how to get past that?Very good points made especially the first. Men absolutely love women for various reasons. I actually don't go for women at a specific age because I want healthy babies for instance. You've got an excellent point and tactfully broke down the arguments walls. May Allah bless you for your wisdom! | /r/ExRedPill | 28/09/21 03:55 PM |
| 1 | The Red Pill teaches that women can't love you for you. Suggestions on how to get past that?I agree. I'm just using an example. Obviously these mother's love their sons so it's not every woman. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/09/21 03:53 PM |
| 1 | The Red Pill teaches that women can't love you for you. Suggestions on how to get past that?Thanks! | /r/ExRedPill | 28/09/21 03:52 PM |
| -2 | The Red Pill teaches that women can't love you for you. Suggestions on how to get past that?Meanwhile another spectrum of women, who can afford all of the things that they want and they can buy it themselves So they have to be middle/upper class? Does this dismiss women with less than desirable pay? Frankly, as a Muslim, it's my job to provide. That is law. And splitting 50/50 isn't our thing. You're focusing on the provision and not on the argument that women are incapable of loving men. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/09/21 03:43 PM |
| -6 | The Red Pill teaches that women can't love you for you. Suggestions on how to get past that?This sub isn't meant for trolling. It's for helping men (and women) heal from being red pilled. Your lololols aren't helping. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/09/21 03:36 PM |
| -1 | The Red Pill teaches that women can't love you for you. Suggestions on how to get past that?My own mom refuses to friend me on Facebook. Other moms show off their sons on FB and are like,"hey this is my son! I'm proud of him!" but not my mom. It gets to a point where you really think women cannot love you because of your experiences with them. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/09/21 03:35 PM |
| 11 | The Red Pill teaches that women can't love you for you. Suggestions on how to get past that?Very good advice. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/09/21 03:32 PM |
| -1 | The Red Pill teaches that women can't love you for you. Suggestions on how to get past that?This has nothing to do with dating standards. The RP argument is that women are incapable of love. You're focusing on the "you for you" statement far too much. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/09/21 03:23 PM |
| 5 | The Red Pill teaches that women can't love you for you. Suggestions on how to get past that?I've read this comment multiple times and I'm not parsing it. Mind rephrasing it please? | /r/ExRedPill | 28/09/21 03:14 PM |
| 6 | Alt-right ResearchIt's a massive mistake to assume Red Pill is exclusively alt right. I was red pill to Hell and back and never sniffed at the alt right. Maybe there was a connection to the alt right a few years ago around 2016 but no longer. There is nothing Alt Right about someone like the following: StephIsCold - https://youtu.be/B5f8kxIJDBg Darius M - https://youtu.be/r8wXi3KLViA Alpha Male Strategies - https://youtu.be/Y9aVXuWu8hw There is nothing Alt right about any of these dudes. To assume Red Pill is con… | /r/ExRedPill | 28/09/21 02:31 PM |
| 3 | Does waiting for sex make men actually respect you more?Yes. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/09/21 06:46 PM |
| 1 | Do y’all hate when men use the words “female” instead of women?Precisely. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/09/21 10:37 AM |
| 2 | Do y’all hate when men use the words “female” instead of women?Sometimes female is the best descriptor but I usually say woman. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/09/21 01:53 AM |
| 25 | What is actual "alpha" and "beta" behavior?Astrology for men. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/09/21 04:12 PM |
| -1 | As long as we are attracted to anyone, we will never be freeDo I read like I'm joking? | /r/ExRedPill | 26/09/21 01:13 AM |
| -3 | As long as we are attracted to anyone, we will never be freeReligion helps. In Islam we are taught to lower our gaze and not look upon women as objects. Then, in life, you don't socialize with women being buddy buddy. This kills a lot of sexual angst as you're not readily exposed to a lot of women. Let's be honest: a lot of men that want to be friends with women abuse that in the hopes that "there's a chance" but men and women rarely can be friends. Being separate allows us to appreciate what the other has to offer that much more. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/09/21 01:02 AM |
| 3 | If Chad doesnt exist, why dont we see lonely or sexually frustrated women.What | /r/ExRedPill | 24/09/21 11:35 PM |
| -6 | Men exercising their options is such a stupid double standart.Since when? "Options" dating wise means not pursuing one woman. You are using the terminology wrong. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/09/21 10:55 AM |
| -10 | Men exercising their options is such a stupid double standart.Why should a man not have options if a woman had options? At the outset of dating a woman a woman can be talking to ten different men at once. How is this fair to the man and why should a man not excercise his options? What does options have to do with cheating? How is options hypocritical? I can't believe some of you have me defending red pill coaches. Men having options and not latching onto one woman inherently as well as holding him to a higher standard and only going for women that show int… | /r/ExRedPill | 23/09/21 10:32 AM |
| 2 | The dating subreddits are becoming redpill and it’s annoyingI'm not following. That doesn't mean red pill isn't breaking into the mainstream. Kevin Samuels has 1.18 million subscribers. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/09/21 03:44 AM |
| 2 | When red pill men say “genuine desire” is the most attractive trait in a woman it reeks of unresolved trauma or childhood lonelinessIn my experience red pill != Alt right inherently and I've never heard of these guys. I see our red pill experiences were shaped very differently. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/09/21 02:57 AM |
| 2 | When red pill men say “genuine desire” is the most attractive trait in a woman it reeks of unresolved trauma or childhood lonelinessKevin Samuels is definitely problematic. He's very shallow and is best to be ignored. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/09/21 02:10 AM |
| 4 | When red pill men say “genuine desire” is the most attractive trait in a woman it reeks of unresolved trauma or childhood lonelinessSubmission and traditionalism can be constraining and demeaning, most women have dreams and passions beyond being a housewife. This entire post keeps going back to this and I've never seen a red pill coach say that all women need to be housewives. It's confusing as as an ex red piller and you keep saying this is true without any evidence presented. Most women want a man to lead the relationship. That's hardly demeaning. A woman can have a career if she wants but at the house she wants her man to… | /r/ExRedPill | 23/09/21 02:08 AM |
| 2 | When red pill men say “genuine desire” is the most attractive trait in a woman it reeks of unresolved trauma or childhood lonelinessStephiscold: https://youtu.be/xScRyXqKhDg Fitxfearless: https://youtu.be/eSdfRqnAYA4 Rom Wills: https://youtu.be/HodRRzx3DIg and https://youtu.be/WAy9bSpKFWg Rom Wills is extremely sensitive to women's thoughts and wants. Check the Wills video linked. If I were to suggest a guy check any man youtuber it'd be Rom Wills. He's positive, gives good advice, without being toxic or sexist. Here's Wills saying to always check a woman's character. https://youtu.be/lS8RRx6jIz0 I've already linked to Locar… | /r/ExRedPill | 23/09/21 02:05 AM |
| 2 | When red pill men say “genuine desire” is the most attractive trait in a woman it reeks of unresolved trauma or childhood lonelinessSubmission and traditionalism means I want women to be a slave? A lot of these dudes say they already know how to cook. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/09/21 01:58 AM |
| 1 | When red pill men say “genuine desire” is the most attractive trait in a woman it reeks of unresolved trauma or childhood lonelinesshttps://www.theroot.com/why-i-kinda-sorta-hate-it-when-black-people-call-other-1822523375 As a black person here's a basic primer. It started with black folks and leaked into common culture. These days King just can be a synonym for "man" and Queen for "woman". | /r/ExRedPill | 23/09/21 01:52 AM |
| 2 | When red pill men say “genuine desire” is the most attractive trait in a woman it reeks of unresolved trauma or childhood lonelinessI am not a feminist even though I'm ex red pill and do think it has damaged society. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/09/21 01:46 AM |
| 3 | When red pill men say “genuine desire” is the most attractive trait in a woman it reeks of unresolved trauma or childhood lonelinessAre you a man or a woman? Because they say you need to be treated like a king that means the goal is take women back to the 1950's? The overall message of this advice is good and one of the rare truths of the red pill: know your worth. Chasing after a woman, trying to get women to like you does not work and it's what a lot of guys do. Only show interest to people that show interest in you is pretty solid advice, not only in love but in relationships in general. Are you thinking "know your worth,… | /r/ExRedPill | 23/09/21 01:43 AM |
| 0 | When red pill men say “genuine desire” is the most attractive trait in a woman it reeks of unresolved trauma or childhood lonelinessWhat are you talking about? I haven't seen any RP coach talk about hiring maids or the 1950's. You are making points so outlandish that you have me defending red pill coaches on an ex red pill subreddit. I've never seen a single coach even say what you're saying here. Reciprocal interest? Of course you show reciprocal interest. After all the plan is for you to only go after women that show interest. You've made me dig into rp YouTube to show an example of what I mean, and now I'll probably have … | /r/ExRedPill | 23/09/21 01:30 AM |
| 3 | When red pill men say “genuine desire” is the most attractive trait in a woman it reeks of unresolved trauma or childhood lonelinessThat's fair enough but this is besides the point. I can't think of a single red pill YouTuber saying to not show interest to women that show interest to you. It's like you've made this up in your head and you're presenting it as fact without evidence. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/09/21 01:26 AM |
| 7 | When red pill men say “genuine desire” is the most attractive trait in a woman it reeks of unresolved trauma or childhood lonelinessThis entire post feels like a giant assumption. It's weird. One-sided relationship? Doesn't a lot of RP content say that it's the man that leads or it begins and ends with the man? RP dudes push men as leaders in the relationship. This entire post doesn't sit with the reality of the RP advice out there and I'm ex red pilled. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/09/21 01:18 AM |
| 5 | When red pill men say “genuine desire” is the most attractive trait in a woman it reeks of unresolved trauma or childhood lonelinessMy take is that RP guys want you to go after women that show interest. I think this is overall good advice. Trying to chase or pursue a women is not time effective. Better to go after the girl that shows interest than trying to convince a woman otherwise. I think that's pretty good advice, actually. One problem certain men do is go for women that have absolutely no interest in them. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/09/21 12:49 AM |
| 6 | Do you thin there is a correlation between low intelligence and BP/RP? Or is it just lack of social skills and depression?Low intelligence? A lot of these men are hurt. I got into red pill because I was dealing with the negative emotions tied to women emotionally abusing, sexually assaulting, manipulation, and overall bad behavior I've experienced from women. One YouTube search is enough to conjure up videos on "female nature" to explain "their" (I say that because this is universal human behavior and not just female behavior) and bam. These videos and communities feed on the vulnerabilities of men that are sufferi… | /r/ExRedPill | 22/09/21 10:04 AM |
| 9 | Men are not the prize; Not even women.Ah yes, the "prize" argument. Real talk I never heard women defined as or even described as "the prize" before ever venturing into rp YouTube. There's something to be said about self respect and self love but in hindsight calling yourself a prize in a relationship context sounds hella narcissistic. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/09/21 03:38 AM |
| 36 | The dating subreddits are becoming redpill and it’s annoyingRed pill is mainstream at this point. It's so easy to get into it and find it | /r/ExRedPill | 21/09/21 06:50 PM |
| 10 | What part of Game is bad? How is ugly short guy supposed to get anything or should i wait till i hit 30 to be settled for while the chick is done banging the hot guys and Chad is done with her?Work out on your body to make up for being short. If you're short you need to make up for it in one way: personality, looks, whatever. Height is an excuse. I see fellow short men with women all the time here in nyc. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/09/21 11:43 AM |
| 1 | Regarding the "You guys criticize red pill but don't offer an alternative" criticismClubs? I don't go to clubs. Been talking to a woman on a dating app. Personally I've had lots of bad luck with dating apps. They're mostly for hook ups. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/09/21 05:58 AM |
| 2 | Poster from earlier and one pitfall I'm having is in relation to feminists - they confirm my biasWhen I was first falling down the rabbithole I tried to go to r/menslib and stuff and they'd filter my posts so no one could read them. I couldn't ask questions there. I said I needed help and was scared I was becoming a sexist that hated women and they had nothing to offer. I begged for help on r/askwomen and same deal. They banned me despite my post admitting that I was sexually assaulted by women and emotionally abused. The moderator accused me of being a virgin or something. These things jus… | /r/ExRedPill | 18/09/21 11:08 PM |
| 1 | Regarding the "You guys criticize red pill but don't offer an alternative" criticismI stopped approaching weeks back because PUA tend to emphasize approaching women and some other channels suggested for women to pick you rather than you pick them. I approached lots of women, got a few numbers but they ended up playing me which fueled my red pill descent. As for how, I'd meet a woman that interested me, make a comment about something. I like intelligent women so I'd go for a woman reading a book. I'd comment on the book and we'd discuss what we were both reading. Hi, my name is … | /r/ExRedPill | 18/09/21 11:01 PM |
| 1 | Regarding the "You guys criticize red pill but don't offer an alternative" criticismWhere do I start? I'm serious. I've been praying, working out, reading. How do I start? | /r/ExRedPill | 18/09/21 10:46 PM |
| 1 | The Red Pill Community in a NutshellFor me it wasn't just one woman. It was multiple. Sexual assault. Emotional abuse. Insults. Manipulation. I started to attribute this to every woman I came across. When women flaked on dates and confirmed my bias. | /r/ExRedPill | 18/09/21 12:44 PM |
| 3 | Today I realized I have a problemThanks. | /r/ExRedPill | 18/09/21 05:00 AM |
| 1 | Poster from earlier and one pitfall I'm having is in relation to feminists - they confirm my biasThanks for this. | /r/ExRedPill | 18/09/21 04:28 AM |
| 1 | Poster from earlier and one pitfall I'm having is in relation to feminists - they confirm my biaswell for personally my arguments against feminism is how i got red pilled to begin with | /r/ExRedPill | 18/09/21 04:26 AM |
| 2 | Poster from earlier and one pitfall I'm having is in relation to feminists - they confirm my biasThanks for this. For some reason I'm not getting notifications for replies in this thread so I'm just now seeing this. Thanks for the informative response. I used to be a feminist so I'm well aware of the various strands particularly intersectional feminism. My criticisms of feminism were a big reason I eventually got red pilled. This was a helpful alternative view. My experience with feminists is that no matter their viewpoints, they're overly dismissive of men's viewpoints or go from 0 to 100 … | /r/ExRedPill | 18/09/21 04:17 AM |
| 1 | Poster from earlier and one pitfall I'm having is in relation to feminists - they confirm my biasI barely responded to the entirety of your post not out of malice but because it was assumed I did this with ill intent. The other poster was far more informative and helpful. | /r/ExRedPill | 18/09/21 04:11 AM |
| 1 | How do I break my misogyny?Don't read FDS. Just like consuming red pill content, don't consume it. | /r/ExRedPill | 18/09/21 02:51 AM |
| 1 | Book recommendations to be a good man?I started reading Seneca. He's quite good. | /r/ExRedPill | 18/09/21 02:39 AM |
| 2 | Poster from earlier and one pitfall I'm having is in relation to feminists - they confirm my biasThank you for the helpful critique and good answer without judgement. I know feminists that criticize white feminism are out there. I should listen to them like you said. | /r/ExRedPill | 17/09/21 10:49 PM |
| 1 | Poster from earlier and one pitfall I'm having is in relation to feminists - they confirm my biasBecause I'm slowly unpacking red pill and recovery isn't an overnight thing. Please don't judge me. I'm trying. | /r/ExRedPill | 17/09/21 10:48 PM |
| 1 | Today I realized I have a problemDo you have suggestions on dealing with feminists? I've written a new thread on that subject I'm struggling with. | /r/ExRedPill | 17/09/21 03:36 AM |
| 2 | Today I realized I have a problemThanks for the feedback. I just made a new thread about feminists and could use advice there too. | /r/ExRedPill | 17/09/21 03:33 AM |
| 2 | Today I realized I have a problemAre there anymore stories of female family members that have lost some of their male family to RP? I'd like to read/watch some. | /r/ExRedPill | 17/09/21 02:57 AM |
| 2 | Today I realized I have a problemI'd hide it...until the topic of women came up. | /r/ExRedPill | 17/09/21 02:56 AM |
| 6 | Today I realized I have a problemIt would be but they live very far away. I've spent today talking to female friends because I learned you can't be friends with women as an RPer. I'll give mom and grandma a talk. :) | /r/ExRedPill | 17/09/21 02:16 AM |
| 2 | Today I realized I have a problemWhat are you talking about? I'm saying I was losing friends *because* I was red pilled. Please read the OP very slowly. | /r/ExRedPill | 17/09/21 02:14 AM |
| 3 | Today I realized I have a problemFor being red pilled. | /r/ExRedPill | 17/09/21 01:32 AM |
| 4 | Today I realized I have a problemCutting off your friend or insulting them because they’re being beta is really harsh. Correction: they cut me off. Please re-read. | /r/ExRedPill | 17/09/21 01:30 AM |
| 4 | Today I realized I have a problemI never shared my RP ideas with female (or male for that matter) family members. | /r/ExRedPill | 17/09/21 01:30 AM |
| 3 | You want to leave TRP behind? Don't become Bino Becky.Thanks for this. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/09/21 10:32 PM |
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