| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 41 | Should I pursue women or focus on myself | Lifestyle | JXMMY11 | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 03:04 PM |
| 5 | I think a girl is showing me signs...but she have a boyfriend | Conversation | JXMMY11 | /r/seduction | 07/08/21 12:39 AM |
| 2 | First week of college and I got a number | Field Report | JXMMY11 | /r/seduction | 26/08/21 09:05 PM |
| 1 | What should I say to her? | Conversation | JXMMY11 | /r/seduction | 13/09/22 02:46 PM |
| 1 | How to ask her to hang out as friends? | Conversation | JXMMY11 | /r/seduction | 23/06/22 03:07 PM |
| 1 | Should I wait for her to get it together? | Escalation & Calibration | JXMMY11 | /r/seduction | 25/09/22 02:26 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | Do people usually date the same level of attractiveness?I believe women date a little less attractive or at most same level all the time | /r/seduction | 27/09/22 11:20 PM |
| 5 | How do I escalate/start building tension after initially meeting a girl?HOW DO YALL FIND THESE F*** BUDDIES?? | /r/seduction | 08/09/22 12:15 PM |
| 3 | How do you know if a woman is looking at you because she is interested?Yea I pretty much had that same interaction at the gym that was a on going thing for like 3 months… it was exhausting trying to figure that girl out | /r/seduction | 06/09/22 12:34 PM |
| 1 | Would you prefer a relationship or having a bunch of casual sex with tons of women ?RELATIONSHIP | /r/seduction | 05/09/22 03:04 AM |
| 1 | Cold approaching has lead to the most embarrassing moment of my lifeWell this a big lesson for you, a lot of people start cold approaching out of high school and your starting early so just look at it as a head start | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 02:21 AM |
| 1 | Cold approaching has lead to the most embarrassing moment of my lifeHonestly I say just wait till Monday… prepare your mind for it bro. If she say no, keep it pushing. If she say yes, then good for you | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 06:55 PM |
| 2 | Asking out office receptionist… thoughts?The Office- season 2 ep. 4 | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 07:57 PM |
| 1 | Girls/Women: What if a guy left you a note instead of directly approaching you?It’s valid… I would do the same | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 06:45 PM |
| 1 | Should I pursue women or focus on myselfCopy | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 01:12 PM |
| 1 | Random sex textCheck DM | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 02:51 AM |
| 1 | Should I pursue women or focus on myself5’9 is not bad at all, you should do well most girls are under 5’8 you’ll be good | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 02:38 AM |
| 1 | Should I pursue women or focus on myself6’2 | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 02:28 AM |
| 1 | Should I pursue women or focus on myselfWill do | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 02:27 AM |
| 1 | Should I pursue women or focus on myselfThanks I’ll try both | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 02:27 AM |
| 1 | Should I pursue women or focus on myselfThanks maybe the best advice I’ve seen | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 02:26 AM |
| 1 | Should I pursue women or focus on myselfThanks will do | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 02:25 AM |
| 1 | Should I pursue women or focus on myselfGetting women is not the problem I have good game…I’m just tired of giving in to girls that I don’t fully like or attracted to | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 09:54 PM |
| 1 | Should I pursue women or focus on myselfConsider it watched… thank you | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 08:01 PM |
| 2 | Should I pursue women or focus on myselfWill do | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 07:34 PM |
| 1 | Should I pursue women or focus on myselfThanks | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Should I pursue women or focus on myselfWhen I meet a girl I like I get way too attached. That’s main reason for my problem I displayed | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 06:31 PM |
| 0 | Should I pursue women or focus on myselfThat’s the thing, when I’m interested in a girl it runs my mind all day, my last relationship was on my mind all the time in a obsessed way. | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 06:00 PM |
| 1 | Should I pursue women or focus on myselfThe thing is when I like a girl or interested it takes up all of my mind and time, like it’s annoying | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 05:01 PM |
| 1 | Should I pursue women or focus on myselfBut here’s the thing I’m pursuing my engineer degree, I’m in my major and it takes a lot to get the grade I want the movies is not where I want to be. But will apply the 20/80 tho thanks | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 04:59 PM |
| 2 | Should I pursue women or focus on myselfI do a lot, I’m very confident in myself on talking to women, after my break up in may I’ve been talking to 6 girls at different times it’s just not working out | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 04:41 PM |
| 6 | Should I pursue women or focus on myselfThank you | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 03:58 PM |
| 2 | Should I pursue women or focus on myselfAt ours I would be anything like greeter, box office, concessions etc. | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 03:43 PM |
| 2 | I absolutely CANNOT tell if someone is flirting with me!!Being a man if I was in this situation I would: try to talk with you with a lot of eye contact, try to learn a little more about you other than the basic stuff( major etc.) and at the end I’ll ask for your instagram or something. Unfortunately it doesn’t seem like he was flirting with you | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 05:47 AM |
| 1 | She doesn’t text back that much why?Yea it seems like she likes you, she may just be a really really bad texted right. Actually a lot of people don’t like talking to their partner everyday(which sounds crazy nowadays) but it isn’t uncommon. If it continues to bother you I say either bring up again or give her a taste of her own medicine | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 05:43 AM |
| 7 | feel like a total ass right nowI think your overthinking, she may just be hanging with her friends and don’t feel like responding or may have been the end of the convo. | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 05:41 AM |
| 4 | A girl seriously shit tested me.Idk… this seems weird including you | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 05:39 AM |
| 1 | Business Cards as a fast number close? Good idea?If it’s a personal card I would because it shows that you do it often, and honestly cards are no longer needed when you could give your contact out in seconds. Business cards is ok ig but if it’s not work related it also makes no sense | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 05:37 AM |
| 15 | feel like a total ass right nowLol you did nothing wrong… she may have been just playing too or giving you a test. If not, just move on because ion think she has a drop of sense of humor | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 05:34 AM |
| 3 | I totally fucked up boysJust try to learn from this mistake and try to do better next go round | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 05:33 AM |
| 2 | She doesn’t text back that much why?It seems like she does like you but she isn’t ready for anything serious and doesn’t want to lose you in the process… your right nobody is that busy to not text someone they like. It’s annoying when you give girls the choice on what they want to do but their answer is still unclear lol. | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 05:32 AM |
| 2 | Is a woman staring at you a tease or not?It most likely means they are attracted but I’ve been in several instances where women are starring deeply constantly to the point where if it were vice versa then it would be creepy. And at the end didn’t want me either bc they already have a bc or I’m guessing my approach so🤷🏽♂️ | /r/seduction | 14/07/22 12:13 PM |
| 1 | Was he not flirting with me? Did I ruin my chances with thus guy? what happened?From my experience with this literal situation just swapped places (she has a bf). He likes you as a person and maybe if he didn’t have a gf he would give it a go with you. Butttt his relationship now means way more to him and he doesn’t want to lose the one he has and is being loyal to his gf. It’s like Jim and Pam type of thing but without the tv magic. I suggest you try to move on(wayyy easier said then done) and maybe one day it would be the right time for both of yall | /r/seduction | 11/07/22 07:50 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]The shit y’all see on social media is fucking y’all up…IF YOU LIKE HIM MESSAGE HIM. good luck | /r/seduction | 07/11/21 02:36 PM |
| 2 | How effective is the "fuck it, I'm nervous but I'm going to ask her out anyway" approach?Very… if you clear your mind and just keep saying “fuck it” repeatedly approaching her then you’ll be fine | /r/seduction | 28/10/21 04:25 PM |
| 1 | For guys what piece of advice has always worked with you?Always focus on the interaction... never the number | /r/seduction | 04/09/21 11:58 PM |
| 1 | First week of college and I got a numberYou right about the appearance thing fasho | /r/seduction | 27/08/21 02:00 AM |
| 1 | First week of college and I got a numberYea ik, should I entertain it, or don’t even text her | /r/seduction | 27/08/21 12:14 AM |
| -3 | Need a smooth answer for when she asks the question "Who do you think you are?"“Your future husband” | /r/seduction | 24/08/21 07:37 PM |
| 1 | 22M virgin contemplating suicide.Bro, meeting women and having sex will not fix your problem... maybe only temporary, it’s a mindset that you want better for yourself. I’m a virgin too but I’m happy and not forcing anything, find life goals and try to achieve them. Women will not be the solution to your problem | /r/seduction | 14/08/21 06:58 PM |
| 2 | 22M virgin contemplating suicide.Did you stop fapping and started meditating though? | /r/seduction | 14/08/21 06:53 PM |
| 2 | I think a girl is showing me signs...but she have a boyfriendYea I just left that gym in my eyes it’s kinda a lose lose I just wanted closure ig | /r/seduction | 07/08/21 12:58 AM |
| 1 | Liking this girl at the gym. Any advice??Forget the girl... good shit on the fitness progress | /r/seduction | 06/08/21 11:56 PM |
| 1 | How should I approach this?Also if you just tap her on the shoulder and say she is pretty I promise it would be such a positive noting goes wrong when that happens you just have to have some things to say after like her name, job, etc. | /r/seduction | 06/08/21 11:54 PM |
| 1 | How should I approach this?What I normally do in situations like this when walking next to someone is bring up something they are wearing that sounds like a honest question/conversation starter. Ex. If she is wearing a jacket in the summer you could just say “ your not hot?” And then after that you should have maybe a topic or two since the conversation started and escalate it. | /r/seduction | 06/08/21 11:53 PM |
| 2 | Anxiety when talking to women that you talked to once successfully but now you feel some pressure to "perform" when you run into them again. (neighbors, waitresses, friends of a friend, etc.)Yea “setting up a friend” only works in the movies... ik I would have the confidence to get the girl myself but when people try to help it’s annoying and would make the girl unwanted | /r/seduction | 30/04/21 05:07 AM |
| 11 | Anxiety when talking to women that you talked to once successfully but now you feel some pressure to "perform" when you run into them again. (neighbors, waitresses, friends of a friend, etc.)Yea bro same thing happens to me... when I used to be a waiter at IHOP me and this girl hit off. I did the same thing you did and then I was willing to take things slow but she went and told the whole store trying to ask me out. I’m a private person and I didn’t like the pressure that was put on to me to just ask her out.( I have asked girls out before so I’m comfortable doing it) And every since then I have this unwanted pressure to perform and be the best me bc I’m afraid of being called borin… | /r/seduction | 30/04/21 03:14 AM |
| 1 | “if you think that someone is “Out of your League”…they are!” GREAT READ.I’m saying to build your confidence and work on talking to girls | /r/seduction | 24/04/21 03:43 PM |
| 1 | “if you think that someone is “Out of your League”…they are!” GREAT READ.“I don’t have anything valuable to say” Bro all you got to do is to walk up to her and say that she is so pretty, then ask for her name and small talk. If you literally can’t think of anything else either go for the number or say goodbye.(be super confident doing it) it works all the time if you don’t just focus on getting her number but if you focus on having a good interaction with her. | /r/seduction | 24/04/21 02:00 PM |
| 1 | Girls don't do things by accidentI used to go to this gym and I got rejected by this pretty girl but I did in a way where she was happy to be “friends”. After a couple of weeks I heard her whispering to her friends when I walk by and tried to cross my path but when I say hey it didn’t feel like she was messing wit me🤷🏽♂️ so idk sometimes it happens sometimes it’s just a coincidence. | /r/seduction | 18/04/21 11:52 PM |
| 30 | Lost Virginity From Seddit (part 2)I’m gonna follow you for updates but imo you are wayyy ahead of those others guys if it never gotten sexual with them, I say be attentive to her but not needy. If you like her enough to be your gf take your time and don’t rush bc she may not like you after that. Bc she clearly see you different from the other guys. And those guys, fuck those kids he don’t want nothing to do with you he just want to get with her so stay friendly but aware. Good luck bro | /r/seduction | 05/04/21 12:05 AM |
| 4 | My most embarrassing rejectionYea shawty tripping, atleast it didn’t go any further and started to like her bc you don’t want those type of people in your life💯 | /r/seduction | 03/04/21 12:25 AM |
| 7 | Looking back... i missed a ton of hints.Same bro, I look back a couple years even in highschool... some girls that I liked/ didn’t like showed interest but I took it with a grain of salt. And some just flat out threw pussy my way but once i realize what they are doing I kind of don’t like them as much. I put up a mental block, I think it is a value type thing. | /r/seduction | 26/03/21 03:15 PM |
| 2 | Should you ever wait on a girl to make a decision about you?Bro I’m pretty sure she’s gonna want to make you her bf but the deadline thing is pushing it, I believe she was going to say yes already but now she may feel pressure even though she already had her decision. All you could do is wait... it would hurt if she says no but at least you could try to keep your friendship in tact. Good Luck | /r/seduction | 21/03/21 10:57 PM |
| 1 | [19M]Meeting girl at the gymYea I had a couple of situations like this in high-school when I only read the good signs and I fucked up bad.Anywho appreciate it 👍🏽 | /r/seduction | 14/03/21 01:56 PM |
| 2 | [19M]Meeting girl at the gymI literally try to avoid her, to not make it uncomfortable for her | /r/seduction | 14/03/21 10:49 AM |
| 1 | [19M]Meeting girl at the gymYea is we what your saying, only reason I didn’t let her finished cause I didn’t want her to be pressured or it to be awkward bc most of the time they got their mind made up yes/no. But I could’ve let her finish and dealt with it. | /r/seduction | 14/03/21 10:43 AM |
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