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| 1 | New Girlfriend Suddenly Not Feeling ItThat’s 3 or 4 person not 3 quarters of a person (depending on whether or not mom has a partner too) | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/08/25 10:31 AM |
| 1 | New Girlfriend Suddenly Not Feeling ItShe’s not their full time nanny but without the recognition. Is she allowed to love them? Are they allowed to love her? If no to either, then you should not be asking why she isn’t feeling it all of a sudden. You need to respect her thoughts on the matter and her input should be considered and factored into this 3/4 person co-parenting team. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/08/25 10:30 AM |
| 2 | New Girlfriend Suddenly Not Feeling ItIf you don’t think of her as a stepparent then why are you living with her? That is disrespectful to her and confusing to the kids. She is probably insulted by your hesitation to treat her like part of the family that she is already a part of. It’s on you. You don’t just let the kids decide how they treat her they are waiting on you to tell them. Smh. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/08/25 10:26 AM |
| 0 | New Girlfriend Suddenly Not Feeling It🙄 | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/08/25 10:23 AM |
| -1 | New Girlfriend Suddenly Not Feeling It🙄 | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/08/25 10:23 AM |
| 1 | New Girlfriend Suddenly Not Feeling ItLike a teacher or a daycare attendant would be in charge of managing the classroom and everyone in it. If you are responsible for their lives, then you should be instructing them on what they can and cannot do, right from wrong. As far as being a jealous stepmom (really??) you are not giving this woman much credit for being an emotionally mature adult here. C’mon. He tells the children Look you need to respect her and the same goes for their mom (who hopefully doesn’t need to be told that I’m su… | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/08/25 10:21 AM |
| 2 | New Girlfriend Suddenly Not Feeling ItJust as jealousy is created so can it be managed. She should be a part of the discipline (anyone who is left alone with kids is not only responsible for their behavior but absolutely expected to discipline them appropriately. Discipline does not mean punishment. It can, but it’s all encompassing guidance at all times, providing safety and protection from danger and teaching them about choices and the consequences of their actions. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/08/25 10:11 AM |
| 0 | New Girlfriend Suddenly Not Feeling ItI think you are wrong on this. I believe that you feel that way so when you say if the genders were reversed. But for many women, especially one who is menopausal so she is never going to have her own children, I think that there are a great deal of women who would absolutely take on the role of stepmothers and I am willing to bet that if you had a discussion about discipline then that is what you should focus on - maybe in therapy or something? Another option would be to take a parenting class … | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/08/25 10:05 AM |
| -15 | Final judgment almost signed — $100k later, bittersweet but relievedEw. Are you fucking kidding? If this happened to you, I would not be surprised. This group highlights how freaking clueless the men are who have been divorced. But when you speak, it becomes so glaringly obvious why you were divorced. In this OP’s case, the roles were switched up from the usual scenario, most commonly reported by the men in this sub. Instead of being the passive aggressive husband who might as well be the one filing for divorce, he at least took the initiative to get out of an o… | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/07/25 04:42 AM |
| 1 | Shocking trends with women and divorceWell since you said please… | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/07/25 09:20 AM |
| 3 | Shocking trends with women and divorceReacting to her behavior. That means? You were actively voicing your concerns and you were communicating in a respectful way that you had some issues with her ‘behavior’ that you wanted to address? Or does that mean, that you were becoming distant, withdrawn, sulking and being totally passive aggressive? If it was the latter, did you think that would be a reasonable response to her ‘behavior’ - something that would result in a positive outcome? | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/07/25 06:07 PM |
| -13 | Shocking trends with women and divorceChecking out completely and focusing on kids and hobbies sounds like a great way to alienate your spouse as you prepare for the divorce, that you are basically passively saying you want. But if you just push it and her into crippling depression and wait for her to ask for a divorce, then you can spend eternity complaining about it in support groups. Go find yourself a girlfriend who is half your age and let your ex-wife find someone who wants to treat her right - and if she never does, that does… | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/07/25 04:40 PM |
| -8 | Shocking trends with women and divorceWhat I meant to add, was that - maybe women do file for the divorce a majority of the time, but if her husband refuses to do counseling (and follow the advice of the professional who is trying to mediate for the couple and find solutions to their problems within their relationship), then he might as well be the one to file. Because what did he expect? That she would simply resign to ignoring the lack of interest, the disrespect, the contempt, the resentment - or whatever it is that she wants a d… | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/07/25 04:28 PM |
| -12 | Shocking trends with women and divorceI think that if a woman wants a divorce, it is usually because they would rather be alone than with that person. If they meet someone else and re-marry or have a long-term relationship, that’s great- but you’re assuming that they just think they are eligible for an upgrade. I don’t believe that is the driving force for getting a divorce. If she wants a divorce, she is typically going to be very unhappy in her marriage. She has exhausted all her attempts to salvage it. She has gotten no reassuran… | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/07/25 04:22 PM |
| 1 | No longer into the same things post-divorce/breakup?I had this hardcore. I felt like i didn’t care about anything at all. No interests. No passion. Some things were definitely due to being painful reminders, or so I thought…maybe we were just together so long, I had infused him into my very being. But I also didn’t care about any of my hobbies that we didn’t share. I just didn’t care anymore. All I wanted or could do was sleep. I was dreaming intensely though. So that makes sense that you’re just processing so much, trying to figure out how you r… | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/09/24 05:57 AM |
| -3 | Increase Income From Here. How?Sorry, just Ugh. I guess I stumbled into this sub accidentally. It’s just gross from my perspective. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/04/24 03:20 PM |
| -14 | Increase Income From Here. How?No s***, right? What kind of heartless person thinks that way? Like she is raising the child! Do you only care about your child if they live under your roof so the overhead is lower? | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/04/24 02:52 PM |
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