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| 74 | Call me a noob but honestly, I don't get how people talk to girls on Snapchat... | JZheng03 | /r/seduction | 18/01/22 12:53 PM | |
| 2 | Am I a bad person for doing this? | JZheng03 | /r/seduction | 18/01/22 05:59 PM |
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| 1 | Getting IOIs for the first time in my life, unsure how to reactIt may make it easier to see them not as a sexual prospect but instead as a person your trying to become friends with. Once you get really comfortable just conversing with girls in general, then start learning how to flirt and everything else in game will seem way easier. | /r/seduction | 10/03/22 05:20 PM |
| 1 | Getting IOIs for the first time in my life, unsure how to reactGet in conversation with them. | /r/seduction | 10/03/22 03:31 PM |
| 2 | My 10 Year Journey To Dating Freedom As An Asian GuyBeen learning game for 1 year now, and I'm finally starting to understand the powerful nature of non-verbal communication. Is there any resources or materials you'd suggest for learning stuff like: body language, tonality, vocal inflexions, delivery of lines, when to smile, when to laugh, how much to laugh (like you said), how to walk, how to look at girls when they smile at you, how to react to girls and how much to react, how to stand and sit, when and how to precisely to takeaways, body-rocki… | /r/seduction | 24/01/22 02:39 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Everything you said helps you get girls but you need to figure out the most efficient way to do it. If you spend 2 years getting super buff but spending zero hours on social skills and practicing game, you'll only be 10% of the way there. The same goes with money which probably makes up like 30% or 40%. Personality is the rest. Personality includes everything in game which is stuff like how you talk, body language, confidence, wit, humour, inner mindset, all of that. For me personally, I feel li… | /r/seduction | 19/01/22 12:23 AM |
| -5 | how to escalate conversation and invoke attraction?So what do you think he does? Goes out all night and asks random people to kiss him for the camera before he starts filming? Don't you think people would have said something by now? Mate you need to take a good look at reality. I can guarantee you still probably have approach anxiety and can't carry a conversation with girls. I'm not saying this to be mean or to shame on you but you need to get rid of those stupid limiting beliefs you have and instead take the attitude of "Ok, let's try this out… | /r/seduction | 19/01/22 12:10 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]sounds like your problem is more about how you approach and what you say when you do it. Your physical appearance has nothing to do with it and nor does your hobbies. Don't give up, you're already better than most guys out there who are starting out since they all have approach anxiety and you don't. Go watch Jack Denmo's prank pickup videos and mimic his confidence and body language. Then go watch some Todd V videos and learn some theory. If they're saying they have a boyfriend, most likely it'… | /r/seduction | 18/01/22 11:56 PM |
| 2 | Call me a noob but honestly, I don't get how people talk to girls on Snapchat...Just do it and if he asks or makes it weird, you could always play it off as "Wanted to see how you're getting on" in like a platonic way. I mean, that's usually how it goes isn't it? Gotta make sure you friendzone him first if he's thinking of doing it to you. | /r/seduction | 18/01/22 11:23 PM |
| 1 | Call me a noob but honestly, I don't get how people talk to girls on Snapchat...he could be waiting for you | /r/seduction | 18/01/22 10:07 PM |
| -6 | how to escalate conversation and invoke attraction?No it's not. But you're free to express why you think that and what evidence you have to back up this claim. Plus I know he's the real deal because he was testing out a livestream the other day and I had the chance to ask him very specific questions that only someone in this community would know the answers to. It took him 4 years (17 to 24) to fully learn and internalise the skillset of game. Plus, I been learning game for over a year now so I can tell who is faking it and who isn't. | /r/seduction | 18/01/22 08:38 PM |
| -4 | how to escalate conversation and invoke attraction?it's the moment before you go in for the kiss. You slow your speech, relax your eyes, start talking in almost a whisper and you look the girl from the eyes to lips and you go in for the kiss. Search up Jack Manley on YouTube. He does interviews where he kisses random girls 5 seconds into meeting them. It's crazy and definitely a paradigm shift for me. But study the body language before he goes in for the kiss. The way he tilts his head, the way he smiles and makes facial expressions, the way he … | /r/seduction | 18/01/22 07:00 PM |
| 0 | Am I a bad person for doing this?Yes, but if she isn't your type from the beginning, there's nothing to turn it around. With us guys, game has us covered | /r/seduction | 18/01/22 06:37 PM |
| -4 | Am I a bad person for doing this?I guess I feel bad because there isn't much girls can do to up their attractiveness if they aren't already physically attractive. With us men, our attractiveness is based on charisma, confidence, social status and money and looks only play a tiny part in the equation. It's easy to up your attractiveness as a guy by simply learning a few lines, acting in a certain way and presenting yourself in a specific manner, not to mention, you can go to the gym as well to build physical attractiveness. Even… | /r/seduction | 18/01/22 06:28 PM |
| 2 | Call me a noob but honestly, I don't get how people talk to girls on Snapchat...😂😂😂 This is the funniest shit I heard | /r/seduction | 18/01/22 06:13 PM |
| 11 | how to escalate conversation and invoke attraction?What does romantic conversation mean to you? In game you don't talk about opinions on sex while having sex. If you want to kiss a girl, you do a phase shift and make the vibe super intimate for only a second, and then afterwards, you go back to having normal convo. If you are talking about teasing, negging and flirting then I got a bunch of material for you to use but it's not a step by step system, you just throw in a line here and there. If you want to escalate to talking about sex and her opi… | /r/seduction | 18/01/22 06:09 PM |
| 3 | Call me a noob but honestly, I don't get how people talk to girls on Snapchat...I know how to carry a conversation, I was just asking how to start one on snap without making it seem random. I got enough info from the other comments but I appreciate the opinion. | /r/seduction | 18/01/22 06:01 PM |
| 2 | Call me a noob but honestly, I don't get how people talk to girls on Snapchat...I would when they actually post one | /r/seduction | 18/01/22 05:46 PM |
| 3 | Call me a noob but honestly, I don't get how people talk to girls on Snapchat...but people still use it like it is | /r/seduction | 18/01/22 05:40 PM |
| 0 | Call me a noob but honestly, I don't get how people talk to girls on Snapchat...yeah, alright dude we get it, you're smothered in pussy 24/7 😂 | /r/seduction | 18/01/22 05:39 PM |
| 4 | Call me a noob but honestly, I don't get how people talk to girls on Snapchat...Wow, you are so cool. I wanna be just like you one day. Homeless guy: How do I get off the streets? You: Lol, just get a house. I buy houses all the time. I only buy mansions when I see one that I want to live in. | /r/seduction | 18/01/22 05:18 PM |
| 0 | Call me a noob but honestly, I don't get how people talk to girls on Snapchat...nope, this ain't the case for me. Most girls I add on quick add are friends of my friends and they usually live in the same town as me. | /r/seduction | 18/01/22 04:39 PM |
| 2 | Call me a noob but honestly, I don't get how people talk to girls on Snapchat...that's clever, imma steal it👍👏 | /r/seduction | 18/01/22 03:50 PM |
| 3 | Call me a noob but honestly, I don't get how people talk to girls on Snapchat...DW, got that covered ;) | /r/seduction | 18/01/22 03:17 PM |
| 1 | Call me a noob but honestly, I don't get how people talk to girls on Snapchat...Ah, fair enough | /r/seduction | 18/01/22 02:03 PM |
| 3 | Call me a noob but honestly, I don't get how people talk to girls on Snapchat...dunno, like I said, I don't use it either. I prefer gaming in person | /r/seduction | 18/01/22 01:35 PM |
| 0 | Call me a noob but honestly, I don't get how people talk to girls on Snapchat...about what?😂 hey what's your fav food? That's normal? | /r/seduction | 18/01/22 01:15 PM |
| 5 | Call me a noob but honestly, I don't get how people talk to girls on Snapchat...I never went on a blind date | /r/seduction | 18/01/22 01:14 PM |
| 1 | Call me a noob but honestly, I don't get how people talk to girls on Snapchat...like I said, I don't use snap, I prefer gaming in person | /r/seduction | 18/01/22 01:12 PM |
| 4 | Call me a noob but honestly, I don't get how people talk to girls on Snapchat...nah, they added me | /r/seduction | 18/01/22 01:11 PM |
| 11 | Call me a noob but honestly, I don't get how people talk to girls on Snapchat...sure...🤨go on, enlighten me | /r/seduction | 18/01/22 12:58 PM |
| 10 | Call me a noob but honestly, I don't get how people talk to girls on Snapchat...eh? what are you on about? | /r/seduction | 18/01/22 12:55 PM |
| 1 | Approach anxiety? How to overcomethat's cool man. You do you. Its not like I can force you to do anything but if you really can't even take a chance with yourself and try something out, that's your own problem. I've told you exactly what to do, where to access more information, reasons why your thinking is wrong, and all you had to do is just take the first step and go read a book and watch a few videos and if you can't even do that, well, there's probably nothing else I can say to change that. The solution is right in front of… | /r/seduction | 04/01/22 05:35 PM |
| 1 | Approach anxiety? How to overcomeOk, you know what, I give up. There is just too many of the same objections and mindset issues here. I actually turned out to be wrong. I could probably sit here and tell you all the reasons why your way of thinking is wrong and still you'll either revert back to a previous excuse or, just come up with some other excuse that has no correlation with reality. Here's what I'm gonna tell you: you either go read books like The Game and The Mystery Method, watch videos by Todd V Dating and look at his… | /r/seduction | 04/01/22 05:02 PM |
| 1 | Approach anxiety? How to overcomesomehow you managed to turn the fact that being both tall and stereotypically having a large dick, which is two physically attractive things women notice, into negative attributes. I am genuinely impressed | /r/seduction | 04/01/22 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Approach anxiety? How to overcomeAnd how did you come to the conclusion that people with average or even bad looks can't get women? | /r/seduction | 04/01/22 04:41 PM |
| 1 | Approach anxiety? How to overcomeand I know looks don't matter because I had my own fair share of rejections | /r/seduction | 04/01/22 04:34 PM |
| 1 | Approach anxiety? How to overcomeI'm Asian mate | /r/seduction | 04/01/22 04:33 PM |
| 1 | Approach anxiety? How to overcomehonestly, this is the exact same mentality that poor people use to justify why they are poor. They blame it on their circumstances, their childhood, their financial situation, their parents, society and even the rich for "stealing" everyone's money. What they never blame is themselves. They never try shit out, give up before success even has a chance to show up, don't read any books, don't learn any skills and all they do is sit on their arses complaining why they haven't "got lucky". Luck doesn… | /r/seduction | 04/01/22 03:20 PM |
| 1 | Approach anxiety? How to overcomeso how come it almost always work for me? | /r/seduction | 04/01/22 03:13 PM |
| 1 | Approach anxiety? How to overcomeHave you gone and approached a bunch of girls? No. Have you got and experience or evidence to back up your claims about girls giving out hints? No. So how come you are telling me what "the entire point is"? You probably haven't read anything on the subject, done no research, tried out nothing in real life and all you're doing is shitting these words out of your arse. Don't start talking about odds of success when you literally have no data. What odds are you even on about? 90% of the non existen… | /r/seduction | 04/01/22 03:11 PM |
| 1 | Approach anxiety? How to overcomethat's because you'd take it no further | /r/seduction | 04/01/22 12:19 PM |
| 1 | Approach anxiety? How to overcome🤦🏻♂️you really should go study some theory. Go read The Mystery Method because let me tell you, IOIs don't occur until you have approached AND flirted with the girl. It really seem like you haven't done any research or experimentation into this and you are already making wild statements as if its a fact. This is like saying you can prove a theory without using any data to back it up with. If you haven't approached a girl, how would you know how she would respond? Girls literally never make the … | /r/seduction | 04/01/22 12:18 PM |
| 1 | Approach anxiety? How to overcomeOk, what would you say is an indicator or interest from a woman? And how can you be sure that if you were to go up and started flirting with her, after you've had some conversation, saying things like "u know what, I didn't expect to like u at first, but now u actually seem pretty ok", that you wouldn't get a positive response? How can you be sure if you never tried it out? | /r/seduction | 04/01/22 10:35 AM |
| 1 | Approach anxiety? How to overcomeso what happens if you do? what would happen if you went up to a girl and asked "hey excuse me, u look like u come out a lot, do u know where (name of place) is?" what happens? | /r/seduction | 04/01/22 10:26 AM |
| 1 | Approach anxiety? How to overcomeThe reason you were confident enough to respond to my comments is because you stuck to your own beliefs that approach anxiety is a real thing. Now that's good that you are grounded in your beliefs, but the only problem is that those beliefs are not doing you any good at the moment. | /r/seduction | 04/01/22 02:15 AM |
| 1 | Approach anxiety? How to overcomeUmmm...if you're so insecure, how do you have the confidence to admit it? I am far from good looking and I'm average at best, and as for being really social, I am also an introvert myself. How did you think confidence came to be? Did you think a charismatic guy have never been teased or challenged before? No, it's the way you think about tough situations and deal with them that makes confident guys seem the way they are. Back when they were young and got teased on their looks or fashion, instead… | /r/seduction | 04/01/22 02:13 AM |
| 1 | Approach anxiety? How to overcomeyou really not gonna explain your reasoning? | /r/seduction | 04/01/22 01:51 AM |
| 4 | Approach anxiety? How to overcomeIf you don't get rejected, how would you know if you suck? The girl is literally doing you a favour if she rejects you because she is basically saying to you that your game is shit and you still got a load of shit to learn. I think of rejection as kind of a benchmark test to see if my skills in game are up to standard and if it's not, then I go and improve it, simple as that. You don't need to take it personally. As with not knowing what to say, this is a common problem with beginners and all is… | /r/seduction | 03/01/22 12:44 AM |
| 1 | I want to approach this girl but...I know this sounds harsh but I started learning game when I was 17 too and now that I'm 18 and it's been a whole year, the fact that I was bothered at losing that first girl I talked to now make me cringe inside. | /r/seduction | 02/01/22 10:10 PM |
| 1 | I want to approach this girl but...at this point in time, if you are asking how to approach questions, your are not going to get this girl. That is fact. Think of this girl only as a way to improve your skillset because as of right now, you are no where near capable enough with your game. If you want to learn game to pick up any one specific chick, you are never going to succeed, because the whole mindset behind game is about abundance and seeing no one girl as the soulmate or the perfect one. If you are looking for a magic pill,… | /r/seduction | 02/01/22 10:08 PM |
| 8 | Approach anxiety? How to overcomeit doesn't exist. What exists is you thinking that it is unnatural to go up to a random person and start a conversation. It's not. If someone ever asks why I'm talking to them I just reply either "geez, you don't come up much do you" if it's a bitch response or, "I kinda find it hard to communicate with only hand gestures". I mean, how are you going to meet new people if you don't speak to them? Also, what if your current friends all die and now you have to make new friends, you just gonna stay … | /r/seduction | 02/01/22 09:25 PM |
| 0 | Witty Banter"didn't you receive any presents under the Christmas tree?" "sounds like someone didn't receive any presents from Santa" "someone's jealous they didn't receive any presents" btw if they say "yeah I did just not from Santa", just drop the previous thread and say "really? what did u get? And it better not just be something boring like flowers." | /r/seduction | 02/01/22 09:07 PM |
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