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It's not a turn off but is a guarantee if awkward sex.
/r/seduction03/10/18 01:58 PM
2

I would think she does like you. Generally if your presence can change a person's personality just by being present it's because they are attracted to you. Just think about yourself have you ever been laughing and having a great time when a beautiful woman walks by? Almost always you tighten up and try not to look foolish.
/r/seduction14/08/18 01:46 PM
1

Be more assertive about what you want not ashamed. Look people directly in the eyes, don't close off your body language unless there's a good reason. Take care of your home and look your best.
/r/seduction07/08/18 02:37 PM
10

What the fuck? You are dumb as hell.
/r/seduction03/08/18 05:24 PM
3

I'd just tell her I think it's lame to ruin a good thing because of what other people think even if they are your closest friends. Really nothing you can do.
/r/seduction03/08/18 04:24 PM
1

pretty much I think the only creepy way is if you don't handle rejection well... Make some eye contact and approach them friendly I kinda think is your best bet.
/r/seduction27/07/18 01:13 AM
3

you aren't necessarily risking rejection, you're just striking up and conversation, whether or not you make any type of move should be calibrated for during that conversation. And ya as soon as you see a girl you would like to talk to you should go and talk to her, It used to be called the 3 second rule, because after 3 seconds you will start second guessing yourself, but if you just go up and approach you won't have time for doubt.
/r/seduction16/07/18 04:30 PM
1

Women aren't the same as men. You can be ugly as hell as a man and still have beautiful girls attracted to you. Girls certainly notice good looking men and find them interesting but it's not the same as a man who can feel attraction based totally off looks. It's about confidence and about how you can make her feel. How much have you read about seduction and pick up?
/r/seduction04/06/18 04:38 PM
2

The advice they give is good but I find them both irritating. bro.
/r/seduction02/05/18 12:42 AM
1

Rejection is pretty hard to take. I think you are in a bad environment though. You need to think where will single men be. As a man, when I'm approached by a woman in public I think either she's selling me something, she's in a cult, or shes trying to scam me. That may be why you got a no right off the bat.
/r/seduction19/04/18 01:23 PM
1

Sounds pretty lame.
/r/seduction07/04/18 10:38 PM
2

It's all good, rejection is not always a personal thing. Other guys are telling you you were too needy or whatever... I don't believe that's the truth, you were honest about how you felt, that's what real men are able to do.
/r/seduction22/07/17 01:22 AM
11

Why are you concerned with getting more Snapchats and not with meeting up?
/r/seduction15/06/17 05:20 PM
2

It's kind of strange to see how much people in this forum over think small shit. This is not complicated, she wants to meet up tomorrow, meet up and game her.
/r/seduction30/03/17 09:03 PM
2

Getting checked out by a girl really doesn't matter, what you want to look for are IOI's or Indicators of Interest. Search Google. A girl maintaining eye contact with you doesn't mean shes attracted to you, and most likely means shes not intimidated socially or otherwise by you, but it really depends on reading the rest of her body language.
/r/seduction12/02/17 12:29 PM
1

You just need to learn not to give a shit what she says about you. Be the guy you like to be and your natural confidence will never be inauthentic.
/r/seduction12/02/17 12:34 AM
3

Relaxed open body language that takes up lots of space and moves deliberately.
/r/seduction20/12/16 06:52 PM
5

Look, you just say to her this "I'm not looking for anything serious, I just want to keep this casual" You say you don't want anything "bf/gf" style. Well sorry to break it to you, but shes probably not going be your fuck buddy for very long if you can't put a little effort in to spend time with her. You do all the same shit with her, you just make sure she understands where you are which is "not looking for anything serious".
/r/seduction28/11/16 10:59 PM
-7

"They don't like having men they don't know that well at their place." If this is the type of girl you're sleeping with, then you aren't seducing them, you're just fucking sluts.
/r/seduction18/02/16 11:11 AM
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if music is your key to seducing a woman I guess, and hey, tell me again why you can't start escalating her in the kitchen, why you can't fuck her right there in the kitchen? please tell me for I am said virgin.
/r/seduction18/02/16 11:05 AM
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Wrong you have a better shot at seducing her at her place where she feels more comfortable.
/r/seduction18/02/16 09:52 AM
1

Watch chasing amy then realize people have sex sometimes with people you would prefer them not to and move on
/r/seduction26/01/16 08:34 PM
3

First women don't shit test through text. They won't be able to actually test you this way. Second you should have told her it won't stop you from lookin either way. "I'll be checking you out no matter what you wear." Something like that.
/r/seduction23/01/16 09:15 PM
1

There is a lot wrong here okay. How do you know she's looking at you out of the corner of her eye. If she's ignoring you chances are you are just another guy she happens to see regularly in a completely normal way. You've got something built up in your head but the problem is reality isn't the same. You feel ignored and she feels indifferent because you're just another dude she exchanged some words with. Did you get a single IOI? If she's ignoring you and given you no IOI'S don't make the mistak…
/r/seduction28/11/15 07:13 AM
1

Best way to flirt is to use what they say to you to playfully tease them. Like if a girl says she loves cats you can say ohhh your one of those crazy cat ladies huh? Just talk to them for a bit and look for an opening to tease them. Don't tease them about anything insecure about. Usually if a girl says something negative about herself that's a safe topic to tease her about. She felt confident enough to for example admit she can't even cook toast. You could text her around dinner and ask her if s…
/r/seduction27/11/15 08:22 PM
5

My advice is to seduce her?
/r/seduction23/09/15 05:05 AM
2

you basically want to win over her entire set of friends so open the entire set and be the best funniest guy you can be till you think you've won them over ask to isolate the girl like taking her for a dance or a smoke or watevr
/r/seduction26/07/15 10:54 PM
2

I would tell you what I think of this and what I think you need to do but it looks like from your replies you only want your hand held by this girl and be high fived by us for doing it. The way you're going is only going to make getting over it harder. Any girls she introduces you to are going to quickly realize the way you feel about her. It'll seriously hinder your ability to build attraction with them. Meanwhile you'll see her socializing with different men and it will destroy your confidence…
/r/seduction07/05/15 08:47 PM
9

This is not a shit test. Shit test's are designed to test your response to her creating stress for you. This is her fishing for a compliment, you should say you think she looks great.
/r/seduction29/03/15 02:09 AM
2

Tell her to pick you up. She'll feel more comfortable in her own car and you'll reap all the benefits. If she suggests a place to meet up act like you don't know where it is and tell her just to pick you up.
/r/seduction04/03/15 11:23 PM
1

Don't over think it and don't give up. Just keep doing what your doing. Don't get too attached to her unless there is very good cause. I might flake on a date with a girl I'm attracted to if I put on some weight or wasn't looking my best. She might have some sort of issue like that. Ignoring you saves herself from having to explain what might be embarrassing for her.
/r/seduction18/12/14 04:33 PM
1

No you should be taking any info like that and using it to calibrate your frame for the rest of the conversation.
/r/seduction18/12/14 06:13 AM
1

No you should be taking any info like that and using it to calibrate your frame for the rest of the conversation.
/r/seduction18/12/14 06:13 AM
2

The first situation what you said wasn't so bad, but when they got up you should have reassured them that you were happy to have their company. The second situation makes me cringe, when you said that I think you turned all 4 of the girls off. You didn't have to reply directly to her comment, you could have asked them where they were headed, where they were coming from, if she likes basketball players, what you said is almost certainly the worst thing you could have possibly said. To me it says …
/r/seduction31/10/14 02:31 AM
1

engage her guy friends and ignore her until you've won them over.
/r/seduction30/10/14 10:55 PM
7

The biggest tell is that they're never very far away from you. They'll apologize even when they don't have to. They'll bend over in front of you or just stand with their butt right in front of you, and if you start some kino with them they will ping you back.
/r/seduction01/10/14 10:26 PM
1

The only sure cure is to meet other girls and objectively understand the object of your one-itis. Generally those who have one-itis have an unrealistic expectation of what she is really like.
/r/seduction02/08/14 05:30 PM
3

what makes you think they are trying to get yo to follow? You're teasing needs to be two fold push and pull. If all you do is push, eventually ya they are gonna leave and they aren't going to want to come back.
/r/seduction25/07/14 03:24 PM
3

Really? Then ufos are equally well documented. You're over estimating the level of science employed in seduction.
/r/seduction21/06/14 08:13 PM
7

I dont just parrot what I read on the internet.
/r/seduction21/06/14 08:05 PM
7

Its also well known that we only use 10% of our brain, but not true. Shit tests are designed to cause anxiety and panic in men to gauge how a man deals with adversity. Asking to hold her drink signifies her intent to come back. That's not a shit test. Asking to hold her drink while she goes off to dance with another guy... that's a shit test. Otherwise its an IOI.
/r/seduction21/06/14 07:56 PM
1

Don't over think it. Go for isolation and escalate. If you can't get the girl isolated then start thinking about what types of changes you need to make in conversation.
/r/seduction09/06/14 09:03 PM
2

You're not going to pull that off. You have already shown that you're not the fun partier guy. If you change now she'll see you being submissive to her. Instead determine what she values in men cross reference that with your own strengths and emphasize them. Her saying she doesn't want your life is kind of a good sign For you since you're really only trying to have fun.
/r/seduction13/04/14 04:42 PM
1

It may not be a shit test. She might have someone her friends aren't aware of. Based off this it looks like shes using you to help her with her class. If you never helped her why are saying "again"
/r/seduction13/04/14 04:20 PM
0

You're probably gay you should s a d and find out
/r/seduction01/02/14 05:43 PM
1

If you REALLY prefered being alone then there is no issue. Be alone. Be happy. If you're unhappy then you have changes to make. Make them. Be happy.
/r/seduction05/01/14 09:07 PM
2

They can't tell.
/r/seduction03/01/14 07:57 PM
2

The concept of being better than others leads directly to megalomaniacal fantasy. All you want is to be confident in who you are. If this guy is jokingly putting you down then take the joke. Make it funny. If he's being a douche then let him and don't sink to the same level. Nobody likes the guy who is an asshole to someone else who doesn't deserve it. If the group finds you annoying or irritating then he (the group alpha male) will actually be improving his status especially if he gets you to l…
/r/seduction11/12/13 03:41 PM
1

you just need to start more kino. Or you need to be more aware of they way she responds when you do kino. but you should learn to naturally escalate kino to kissing then kissing to fucking. she'll stop you somewhere. or not.
/r/seduction02/12/13 01:15 PM
6

Guys love girls with a good sense of humor. Guys are also extremely shallow about sex. Do what you can to make yourself as attractive as possible. Let them check you out without being too obvious. Like finding some sort of excuse to let them see your butt. And if you think you've got a guy interested don't give him reasons to doubt himself. Like don't flirt with another guy. Ask if he'd like to take you home.
/r/seduction25/11/13 03:17 PM
1

Misleading title. 1/10. Would not read again. You know why you weren't successful. But you didn't completely blow it with her. Take some comfort in that.
/r/seduction24/11/13 04:12 PM
63

hey guys check out this hot dude (hd10) he met.
/r/seduction14/11/13 05:17 PM
4

I usually jokingly say "ya she's much better looking than you are" Probably wouldn't if I thought the girl was vain but If I think she's vain I probably don't care if she dislikes me.
/r/seduction11/09/13 03:26 PM
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