Jaalde Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	[Tinder] How do I stay in contact until our date? She's not free before then for coffee or something? I'd just get her mobile number and keep swiping. Call her a couple days prior to confirm Friday. Or text. I don't see how being visible on facebook will decrease her chance of flaking. Though I could be wrong.	/r/seduction	22/10/16 12:21 PM
1	How do you smile? Make sure they see a before and after. It is creepy if they see you and youre already smiling. Make eye contact then big smile. When they break eye contact focus elsewhere	/r/seduction	08/06/16 07:56 AM
4	The naked hard truth about LTR tl;dr "As a man with confidence, competence and wherewithal about yourself, if you’re not careful, you may very well find yourself in a position, months or years down the line, where all those great qualities you once possessed prior to the relationship, have now been depleted and eaten away by the vulture-like nature of the modern-day woman called your girlfriend." The whole thing is very cynical and shallow.	/r/seduction	04/06/16 05:36 AM
5	Rejections causing me to sabotage future opportunities.. I don't have any advice but I wanna say that it sounds like you're doing really well so far. You have obviously shown that you can attract women and get with them. Seems to me that you're insecure and your confidence is 100% linked to the kind of women you pull.	/r/seduction	03/06/16 02:33 PM
1	Seriously, how do you flirt...? Just remember flirting is a back and forth thing. No point being witty and clever if they have nothing to say in response.	/r/seduction	17/05/16 03:28 PM
1	"I don't want to risk our friendship for a relationship." Next time make your intentions more clear. If it was a girl you just met then yeah, it might appear more obvious. Since you two are already friends she could have just thought it was a normal outing.	/r/seduction	05/04/16 02:57 AM
1	Want to get back into it, but I'm the Comedian Either you want help or not. If you want to express yourself in the way you currently are then you are going to get a lot of negative feedback. This is our help.	/r/seduction	05/04/16 02:54 AM
2	"I don't want to risk our friendship for a relationship." Judge her by her actions.If she was "afraid" of taking things further but truly was interested she would overcome the fear and go for it. Do you two have a long and good friendship?	/r/seduction	04/04/16 03:07 PM
7	Want to get back into it, but I'm the Comedian Saying "I'm hilarious and make everyone laugh" makes me think the opposite of you. I'm hoping this isn't just insecurity or narcissism? If you find you are talking to girls more than they are talking to you then you definitely need to shut up. Flirting is a back-and-forth interaction, not one-sided. Conversations will also typically involve the girl talking at least twice as much as the guy.	/r/seduction	04/04/16 04:33 AM
2	Can someone be my short term life coach to guide me out of this rut? (31 virgin) Have you been rejected before? If you haven't, that should be your goal, to put yourself in a vulnerable position where maybe you'll be rejected and hurt. Just remember that you are inexperienced and whomever you ask will probably be a bad match for you. The whole point of trying is to get over your fear, to learn what it's like to put yourself out there, and how to get over it.	/r/seduction	11/02/16 11:48 AM
1	Meeting up with her? I don't understand why you think you need to talk to her. It's her own personal health you're talking about, I don't see how it relates to you. If you're worried about pregnancy then recommend to her a morning-after pill. She has 3 days to use them, I believe. By now the effectiveness of the pill should be down to 50-70% because she's waited so long. Offer to buy it for her. Also, dude, a one-night stand and no condom? Hope this was the last time you'll try that.	/r/seduction	04/02/16 11:57 PM
1	Meeting up with her? Can you not be specific considering reddit is anonymous? I'm guessing she had a visible STD and you pointed it out to her during intercourse. You got yourself checked out and you advised her to do the same. What is your relationship to the girl? If it was a one-night stand then a simple text or phone call should suffice. If you two are a bit closer then maybe ask her out for coffee but don't push the issue and give her space.	/r/seduction	04/02/16 12:52 PM
3	Being direct with women You ARE beautiful? Doesn't give them much to say. Maybe be specific? If there is something unusual looking about them it can be flattering to point it out. Maybe they spent hours on their hair and honest compliments are welcome. If they have a tattoo that's slightly covered you can ask to see it properly. Lots of little things like this can help break the ice.	/r/seduction	03/02/16 04:25 AM
14	What to do when a random douche disrespects the girl you're with? I think loudness is important here as well. Speaking meekly or under your breath is an excellent way to crush your own self-esteem. Speak up, get other people to hear what you're saying. Even if what you're saying is very polite, make it loud and clear.	/r/seduction	31/01/16 01:48 PM