JaapTedros Archive

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5	If a girl says „we’re not having sex”, but we proceeded to make out intensely before and after, what should I take from it? I was in a similar situation, with someone who seemed very traditional and didn't have social media presence. Lots of dates, lots of drinks, lots of movie nights at home, lots of making out, but whenever it came to sex, she always suddenly had to go. She also was NEVER free to meet up on the weekends and always got angry/irritated if I asked her why. One day, after a few months of going like this, she suddenly started ghosting my texts, and a few more MONTHS of ghosting later, when I thought we …	/r/seduction	31/10/22 11:00 PM
2	Is your sexual life going to be lower or over once you're past the age of 25? I was in a similar situation, and it's important to see the full picture. Genetics come first. Some people were born extremely desirable (chad/tyrone), and have no trouble pulling girls their entire life, not needing to put any effort into looks or learning anything about "game". Their physical frame and/or face simply trigger girls' most primal desires, purely based on the DNA in their body. Other people may have started from a worse position (we aren't created equal), but have a good enough ge…	/r/seduction	25/10/22 09:51 PM
103	You are not preserving a woman’s honor by ‘taking things slowly’ or delaying sex. You’re only hurting your chances. Always escalate and avoid the White Knight mentality with sex I was dumb in my early 20's. I've had several girls sleep over, make out with me, then go to sleep, only to break up with me or ghost me shortly after, because I didn't realize this important FACT. These girls were expecting me to initiate sex, and I was too dumb to realize it, thinking I should wait for a few more weeks/months or until the girl showed clear signs of wanting sex. Note that girls will never say that was the reason. They'll come up with some bs excuse, which means you'll never lea…	/r/seduction	25/10/22 09:27 PM
1	You don’t have to kiss on the first date, have sex, or anything. Don’t force it I am quite proud of my first dates. I'm very good at them, always have a good time, and girls nearly always ask me for a second date or at the very least agree if I ask them out again (let's say 95% of the time). I would say I kiss less than half of people I meet on the first date. It's not a requirement at all. Usually 2nd/3rd date is when the mood is better for it, and the girl already agreed to meet up again so you can expect they're interested by this point, unless they're playing with ya …	/r/seduction	25/10/22 09:17 PM
7	Truth bomb - sleeping with women won't better your life by itself Sex is one of the basic human needs. It is directly related to our biological drive to reproduce, and we as animals have only two purposes to begin with, survive and reproduce. Sex is so essential to our being that (unwillingly) being celibate for years can feel similar to being in a desert with no water, or starving for years but never finding any food. It is enough to drive a person mad - it goes directly against our most primal needs and desires (especially for those of us still young and fer…	/r/seduction	25/10/22 09:03 PM
1	What’s the major difference between guys that can attract women and guys that cannot attract any woman no matter what they do? The difference is genetics. People who objectively fall into the chad category do not ever need to do much to be succesful in dating throughout their life. Other than basic self care perhaps (don't smell, wear decent clothes, etc.). If you are an 8/9/10 out of 10 in looks (scientifically, not some rating your friends gave you) and of sufficient height (not at an height where a significant portion of females will start auto-rejecting you), any way you act is automatically confident, any joke you …	/r/seduction	09/10/22 09:53 PM
2	It’s not to do with looks, it’s how you feel about yourself Yes, there is chad looks with bad personality. And he is usually priority #2 (good genes, but leaves something to be desired) for nearly every female below 30 y/o. There is also subhuman looks with chad personality, and he is usually priority #3 (bad genes, less desirable than a chad, but at least tolerable) There is subhuman looks with bad personality, he is priority #4 but actually not even on the chart. But on top of everyone there is the 4th category, chad looks with chad personality. That's…	/r/seduction	04/10/22 01:47 AM
2	It’s not to do with looks, it’s how you feel about yourself This is true. There was this weird tik-tok trend not too long ago, "omg how did my dad pull my mom". Supposedly showing their hot mom being pulled by a much uglier dude. Upon further analysis the dudes are nearly always 1-2 points higher in looks than their wives. Females date up, not down. This trend was true for said generation but increased exponentially since dating apps and social media appeared. Women's dating standards for looks have shot up to the moon.	/r/seduction	04/10/22 01:40 AM