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1

There's nothing subtle about licking lips. The meaning may be uncertain, but it is a big action.
/r/seduction24/07/26 09:43 PM
1

No she's not worth it- still garbage
/r/seduction24/07/26 08:59 PM
0

It's hard to consider coffee a date.
/r/seduction24/07/26 08:57 PM
1

What about hands are you thinking?
/r/seduction04/07/26 01:39 AM
1

Hope is the first step on the path to disappointment.
/r/seduction04/07/26 01:37 AM
6

Because they get to pick and choose, PLUS there is added competition (including from the guys who tend to end up with them).
/r/seduction15/06/26 10:16 PM
10

"...For being themselves" is the worst excuse I've heard in a long time- bad behavior is bad behavior, period. And how is this relevant to this cccommunity?
/r/seduction01/06/26 10:37 PM
1

You're being silly with your accusations, and jumping to irresponsible conclusions. Grow up. Why do things need to be personal in your eyes?
/r/seduction01/06/26 06:47 PM
0

Show your work: 1). When have I ever claimed to be better than anyone? 2). Where am I "lying all the time"?
/r/seduction01/06/26 04:57 PM
0

And dishonest when it suits her.
/r/seduction01/06/26 05:52 AM
1

Nothing is "always a no", but either case, this indicates poor character.
/r/seduction31/05/26 09:03 AM
0

When it's a lie, that is indicative of her character.
/r/seduction31/05/26 09:02 AM
7

Deep pain can do that to a man.
/r/seduction31/05/26 03:20 AM
0

I genuinely appreciate you spending the time to fill me in; I know that wasn't why you logged in, and writing it not just in detail, but in a well-organized manner probably relived some of the pain.. This is a very different perspective from simple racism (which I don't deny, of course). It was... deep. I'm going to put this into a journal of Life Lessons, because I can see some of it applying to many people (not only those of Indian descent, also other Asians). I did have a friend explain to me…
/r/seduction31/05/26 03:09 AM
0

I sincerely appreciate you sharing your experiences and observations. Where in California? Why do you think that was (with the girls)? Why different results with Hinge?
/r/seduction31/05/26 02:52 AM
1

I'm very interested to hear how those people in the room responded to you, then.
/r/seduction31/05/26 02:44 AM
1

Thank you, but I was asking the gentleman. So... you listen to those statements, then?
/r/seduction31/05/26 02:03 AM
1

Why is this such an issue with men of your ethnicity? I'm asking sincerely and respectfully.
/r/seduction31/05/26 01:38 AM
1

Join the Lollypop Guild, get bling and wingmen and perks.
/r/seduction30/05/26 06:50 AM
1

.....What does that have to do with seduction?
/r/seduction28/05/26 08:34 PM
1

IDK what you're trying to do here. It is kinda strange and you should have more info. This isn't even the right community for the post. So all I can think of is you can be an actor- create this character you want to be, develop the character, and play the role in real time. Or just be yourself.
/r/seduction28/05/26 05:20 PM
1

???
/r/seduction28/05/26 05:16 PM
1

You can't communicate.
/r/seduction28/05/26 07:43 AM
1

IDK how to even answer this. Hmm. Well... Either create and play a character, or be yourself .
/r/seduction28/05/26 03:20 AM
1

Because the SA stats you reference include a hug or kiss that wasn't outwardly declined in any way, yet someone eventually decided should count as sexual assault. I remember when the stats came out that one in four women were sexually assaulted in college... the absurdity of that survey (before being discredited), like fathers wouldn't have burned structures to the ground or military troops deployed to campuses.... Rape is rape, obviously, and consent is justly sacrosanct, but creating the term …
/r/seduction25/05/26 04:08 PM
1

That is because they aren't believable, and the classifications used for this (especially SA, which is a sad joke) are almost laughable and designed specifically to make it seem far more prevalent than it is. I say that as someone actually sexually molested at the age of six.
/r/seduction25/05/26 06:32 AM
0

Don't be a POS and actually lie for sex. It's pathetic and undignified.
/r/seduction25/05/26 05:46 AM
2

WTF, SA?? I agree with everything else you said.
/r/seduction24/05/26 08:18 PM
1

No, don't do this. It's even worse than hitting on coworkers. Besides, it's impossible to impress when you're a delivery driver.
/r/seduction24/05/26 08:17 PM
1

More like corroded copper.
/r/seduction24/05/26 09:48 AM
8

Well, yeah. If you don't make eye contact with people (male or female), you're kind of suggesting you're a cuck. But don't be stupid and treating the gym like hunting grounds the way you can a bar or club.
/r/seduction24/05/26 03:03 AM
2

It's about a relationship, and it isn't useful to anyone except you.
/r/seduction24/05/26 12:42 AM
1

No, it's too fucked IMO.
/r/seduction21/05/26 01:22 AM
1

No you totally shouldn't take the chance. So... send me her IG instead.
/r/seduction20/05/26 05:30 AM
1

Then fill me in, sensei.
/r/seduction19/05/26 08:39 PM
1

Actually, a baby gator was tossed into a Royal Palm Wendy's drive through window not long ago. I have a photo on my phone of my tv playing the news report. Guy was 24 and chsrged with assault with a deadly weapon.
/r/seduction19/05/26 02:26 AM
1

I assume you mean something that can be seen through when wet. No, it's absolutely not appropriate in public, nor on most (non-residential) private property, aside from the many many many porn productions in Miami. I live in OC, California, so I think I have a view that reasonably translates to Miami. But the fact you're asking here suggests your motives are veiled.
/r/seduction19/05/26 02:22 AM
6

Agreed. I don't get the butthurt whining about something that is quite useful.
/r/seduction18/05/26 04:52 AM
3

It would be hilarious to use the book How To Say It (when I was a teenager, my mom had me use templates to send thank you notes).
/r/seduction18/05/26 04:37 AM
1

If not outright rude.
/r/seduction18/05/26 03:08 AM
2

Because it's generally considered taboo to approach girls at gyms.
/r/seduction18/05/26 03:04 AM
5

Gotcha. I recently sent one that went fantastic.
/r/seduction18/05/26 12:45 AM
2

Oh, I'm sorry. I thought you were simply asking what to write- like you never had done it before.
/r/seduction17/05/26 11:57 PM
-5

You are merely assuming AI. But even if correct... so what? It doesn't matter, and regardless, by your own logic, this entire sub is trash.
/r/seduction17/05/26 11:55 PM
1

I don't need to look IOT know it's hardly "the only".
/r/seduction17/05/26 11:52 PM
39

Just be honest. Say you really enjoyed talking (if you did), the connection (if you did), and that she was just as excited by you as you were by her (might be a fib if she was more excited... but I think it is fine).
/r/seduction17/05/26 11:37 PM
2

Talk to more girls, but not at the gym- leave them alone. That's a basic custom. Maybe she ghosted you exactly BECAUSE of this.
/r/seduction17/05/26 09:48 PM
5

"I got my Magnum condoms, I got my wad of hundreds. I'm ready to plow."
/r/seduction15/05/26 09:55 PM
1

Depends on a lot of circumstances, but sometimes I use mind games and table-turning. And if I can get them to actually expose themselves, it might ultimately be beneficial.
/r/seduction15/05/26 08:19 PM
1

They are INCREDIBLY toxic, destructive, unjust, presumptive, and vile....
/r/seduction15/05/26 08:17 PM
1

How do you make a circle out of three objects?
/r/seduction15/05/26 08:10 PM
2

You're putting way too much weight on this- you weren't a chick magnet, a SINGLE chick was into you... which could mean anything.
/r/seduction15/05/26 07:28 PM
1

No such thing as casual AND exclusive.
/r/seduction10/05/26 11:15 AM
1

My only one is on my scrotum, so it is irrelevant.
/r/seduction10/05/26 11:03 AM
1

True. Though oddly enough, last week I saw a woman make the exact same reference. That's why it popped up in my head.
/r/seduction03/05/26 08:29 PM
2

No one said "fanatic". The lack of literacy is depressing.
/r/seduction03/05/26 08:27 PM
1

I was pointing out the ironic humor in an alternate interpretation of the OP's sentence.
/r/seduction03/05/26 02:43 AM
2

You, in a very serious tone, say, "I've been wondering something all day: Are you wearing the panties your mother laid out for you?" EDIT: No Seinfeld fans? That was a good reference.
/r/seduction03/05/26 02:05 AM
3

"If you see a couple kissing most of them already came together." Are you talking about sex clubs? Asking for a friend after recommendations.
/r/seduction03/05/26 12:47 AM
2

Lol You have answered your own question, mate. You're hung up on this, and you came here to ask strangers instead of asking the SOURCES what they meant by their own words! You really need to deeply think over this revelation. I've been told many times I was analytical (I am), but not in a detrimental way, like implying I'm on the spectrum.
/r/seduction02/05/26 11:11 PM
0

"Gen Z age" have HORRIBLY DEFORMED AND INCOMPETENT communication skills, that's exactly the problem and it's massive- reading divining portents in animals' entrails and interpreting smoke signals, instead of speaking directly and getting clarity like any functional adult.
/r/seduction01/05/26 04:56 PM
0

CALL HER. Enough speculation and mind reading and textx- actually speak to her.
/r/seduction01/05/26 05:12 AM
1

I'd be interested in book recommendations, if you have them.
/r/seduction29/04/26 01:22 AM
1

It isn't "banned", but why is it gone?
/r/seduction28/04/26 09:40 PM
1

You go to SEXUAL on a cold approach?
/r/seduction28/04/26 09:19 PM
1

I'm good at working out acronyms. Is that Indications Of Interest?
/r/seduction28/04/26 09:17 PM
1

Yes, it is. But this is the worst place to ask.
/r/seduction28/04/26 06:20 AM
2

It's TIKTOK- that girl probably changes to a new gender every 45 days to protest Trump. Stay off there.
/r/seduction28/04/26 05:36 AM
1

TM, buying the Blu-ray now.
/r/seduction28/04/26 02:45 AM
2

Oh, okay. You started with "most people", which is very indicative.
/r/seduction26/04/26 01:42 AM
2

I still don't see what ADHD has to do with any of this (at least as adults). I just realized you're completely overlooking that this has vastly more important consequences than sex (it affects all human relations in your life). That suddenly explains a great deal.
/r/seduction26/04/26 01:02 AM
2

You did say "too assertive" (abrasive) and "...most people may find too much" (dislike). So.... Now, I'm going off exactly what you wrote. At the same time, if your description was inaccurate, that throws off my assessment. But realistically, you probably either are repeating what people told you about yourself, or you are just backpedaling because a lot of people here are telling you what you clearly don't want to hear... but is based off yiur own composition. I totally get it is an ego blow. I…
/r/seduction26/04/26 12:20 AM
1

Care to share the post? I'd like to read it, it would be useful in general.
/r/seduction25/04/26 08:50 PM
2

First off, this is an advice group. You posted for advice regarding your faults, using your own descriptions, so you can't take the replies as overly offensive- these are unavoidably personal, yet not personal attacks. Yes, we all have flaws. Accepting them instead of addressing the need to improve is a huge obstacle to growth. Your exact title is, "Should I Embrace my faults?" The answer is, "Never." That changes you from "just human" to "limited maturity" and toward "actually flawed". It means…
/r/seduction25/04/26 08:15 PM
4

If it is a fault, then it is bad and no man should simply accept his defects by using an excuse like "drive to life" or "adhd quirkiness". There is nothing wrong with being assertive and energetic, but you should be maturing and practicing self control and not alienating people- that is called growing up. And you have most certainly really blown it, considering you're in a seduction group at all, and asking if you should keep doing the things "that turn women off". What are "Ls"?
/r/seduction25/04/26 06:20 AM
2

WHY would two adults meet for just coffee? That's extremely low effort. "Hey, let's get our cars washed at the same time."
/r/seduction24/04/26 11:46 AM
3

Well, if you go to school together....
/r/seduction24/04/26 07:31 AM
2

Exactly.
/r/seduction24/04/26 07:30 AM
0

Avoid women 24 and under.
/r/seduction24/04/26 07:30 AM
1

This isn't about seduction or validation, this is about your personal problems with social media.
/r/seduction24/04/26 07:14 AM
1

Oh, that means you have a social media problem. And you're in the wrong place for this question, anyway.
/r/seduction24/04/26 06:48 AM
0

"Hi. Time is a precious commodity I cannot reclaim. I appreciate yours is valuable, too, so better, prompter communication is to our mutual benefit. Thus, I'd appreciate if you didn't leave me in the dark, blocking out my schedule while waiting for your responses. Thank you."
/r/seduction22/04/26 08:17 PM
1

Being a good man is its own reward.
/r/seduction22/04/26 08:13 PM
1

You're expecting a lot of linear behavior from someone who would be down for this in the first place.
/r/seduction22/04/26 06:10 PM
5

It sounds... risky. Some people DO NOT handle kisses well, have traumas. But you have kissed her before, so there is that. Still though, as a greeting? I don't think the benefits come even close to justifying the risks. But you CAN ask her.
/r/seduction22/04/26 01:54 AM
1

It's the context of the environment- there to get sweat and burn on. Wearing very revealing clothing, and now some guy is looking at you and examining you, while you are showing off in a way you'd normally only do to hook up. It's also unwelcome in gym culture, there are trust problems that turn it into an uncomfortable environment.
/r/seduction20/04/26 04:57 PM
3

The significance of everything else happening at the time makes that risk much larger early on, and frankly, failing to recognize that as at least a potential element contributes to the magnitude of the risk
/r/seduction20/04/26 12:46 AM
4

And... yes you do. That title is silly.
/r/seduction20/04/26 12:21 AM
52

It's about making wise decisions with big picture thinking, not impulsive ones from short term desires. EVERYTHING has an opportunity cost.
/r/seduction20/04/26 12:19 AM
6

Just don't. It is a very creepy place for this.
/r/seduction19/04/26 10:02 PM
1

Gotcha. Well, we don't know the convo "bluntness", so can't say at all.
/r/seduction19/04/26 03:07 AM
0

Of course, it sounds like she DIDN'T fuck you, so maybe not easy in the first place.
/r/seduction19/04/26 02:55 AM
1

Not necessarily... but very likely. Sort of like how she who cheats with you will cheat on you, or he who gossips to you will gossip about you.
/r/seduction19/04/26 02:54 AM
1

Just ASK HER.
/r/seduction18/04/26 09:07 AM
11

Uh, NO. Hard to believe this is real. But NO ONE would be stupid enough to do that to you in public, and NO dress up or body language is going to convince anyone or even signal your desire. So NO.
/r/seduction18/04/26 08:58 AM
6

I'm kind, but that is all. If she won't go, I explain I'm having personal time with my girl and not available. If she's autistic and needs more, I explain she's intruded into our private time, and while she seems nice, this is inappropriate and we'd appreciate it if she left.
/r/seduction17/04/26 07:29 PM
1

It's not at all "all you're saying", and we know that....
/r/seduction16/04/26 11:56 PM
1

It's the childishness and projection. If you can't handle a discussion, you are not suitable for here. No one else seems to struggle. Why be so edgelord? It certainly doesn't impress.
/r/seduction16/04/26 11:26 PM
1

Oh, excuse me "Exdeath". I didn't realize you were still that tender.
/r/seduction16/04/26 11:20 PM
1

Then act like one, Voldemort. No one is intimidated.
/r/seduction16/04/26 11:16 PM
2

It's self-seduction.
/r/seduction16/04/26 10:58 PM
1

A). She knows her husband . B). She did not indicate "thicc".
/r/seduction16/04/26 10:57 PM
1

Cardio and diet. Burn more than you intake. If your problem is because you're chubby, then this is the easiest, most reliable thing. It'll also improve your stamina and let you do more sex stuff for longer, and boost your mental health in general.
/r/seduction16/04/26 10:56 PM
1

That's just stupid. If it is in her set of values, then it's automatically a moral obligation.
/r/seduction16/04/26 07:33 PM
2

Why are you doing this to her? It's fucked-up selfish and twisted, dude.
/r/seduction16/04/26 07:31 PM
1

Why presume it doesn't? There are a lot of possibilities.
/r/seduction16/04/26 06:47 PM
2

No. Instead you should move on.
/r/seduction16/04/26 05:41 AM
2

You sound like that's a preference. Where do you find them? Just random places? I'm guessing the club scene isn't the spot.
/r/seduction15/04/26 06:04 PM
1

I think it's unrealistic, awkward, and bizarre to think a three-way is happening if neither or the others has actually expressed interest in it. There are enough boundary, safety, and logistical issues that it should be actually discussed ahead of time. And alcohol is NOT a good idea here.
/r/seduction15/04/26 03:53 AM
2

"Work the same building" Like she "services" the residents, so you only see each other when she "comes or goes"?
/r/seduction14/04/26 09:49 AM
1

Bars, bars, bars. Look for divorcees, they likely are trying very hard to look like they are 22 again. They are awesome. Cougars rock, they eat you alive. But make sure they aren't married, dude. Come on.
/r/seduction14/04/26 07:39 AM
2

It may well be. But you left the most important info out of the post- where you live, the local culture, the racial demographics, what you do, how old you are, how you describe yourself, how OTHERS rate you, your weight and fitness....
/r/seduction14/04/26 07:06 AM
3

I don't think so. I think it results in wasting too much of very important years, and comes with life-altering risks.
/r/seduction12/04/26 10:25 PM
1

No, it's wrong to do that to an employee at their place of work.
/r/seduction11/04/26 02:26 AM
1

Come on, who do you think keeps the population growing?
/r/seduction09/04/26 09:51 AM
1

You're assuming your pipe is actually different.
/r/seduction07/04/26 06:05 PM
1

ALL smoking (tobacco, marijuana, meth, etc.) is a severe turnoff. It's a huge problem for kissing, it makes clothing and vehicles and homes stink, it toxifies youd body for momentary enjoyment. Also, in your case, let's be honest- why would I spend time around someone giving both of us potential cancer? What does that say about the person? This isn't 1890, it isn't exactly sophisticated. If it's that big a deal to you, realize you probably are limited to fellow smokers (and even some of them wil…
/r/seduction07/04/26 06:04 PM
5

I have had that, kind of. I tried to follow up, it just got me completely, permanently cut off. The problem is she's been really clear with you, and you are saying nothing of the circumstances surrounding it.
/r/seduction05/04/26 07:31 AM
2

Not when she wants to ventilate you, though- it is too late and provokes terrible things.
/r/seduction05/04/26 07:30 AM
1

Check out Literotica, EroticWriting.co.uk, and Lusty Library (now gone, but on Internet Archive). I have about a 150 handpicked stories from them (over many years).
/r/seduction04/04/26 04:37 AM
1

Serious question: Do you write messages to them like this?
/r/seduction04/04/26 02:27 AM
1

I HATE fanfics ("shippers"), TBH, but love short form erotic fiction and sex stories, which can be very good material.
/r/seduction03/04/26 10:17 PM
2

I'll give him points for this: It wouldn't hurt to have a pdf or a few charts here for fundamentals agreed upon by the subject matter experts here.
/r/seduction03/04/26 10:14 PM
2

I was thinking the same TBH, it just seemed like a perfect opportunity for a little elaboration, for everyone's benefit.
/r/seduction03/04/26 10:13 PM
1

Has it occurred to you that you had a golden opportunity to show at least one of those basics (someone has to, according to your own premise of people should be here to learn them)?
/r/seduction03/04/26 10:03 PM
1

Hey, there's no need for that. The down votes speak loudly enough (and I even abstained from voting).
/r/seduction03/04/26 10:00 PM
0

Oh, you really want to go there? Fine. 1). Only a fool would think "weights" is a term needing explanation (at any level). 2). Your comment was weakly formed, to the point of multiple possible interpretations, especially considering there are many cultures represented. 3). People come here FOR information- that's the purpose. 4). If you aren't willing to clarify your comment, either don't comment or write better ones.
/r/seduction03/04/26 09:48 PM
2

I have a lot of responses to that. I'm going to avoid the first seven of them and just say I was 95% sure what you meant, but simply wanted you to elaborate.
/r/seduction03/04/26 09:14 PM
1

The field?
/r/seduction03/04/26 08:50 PM
5

Fewer fan fics, more sex stories. Try Literotica. I can give other suggestions , too. They are great for dirty talk and sex ideas for trying out to see what she responds to.
/r/seduction03/04/26 08:25 PM
56

I reached the same conclusion- it being an excellent way to "spying on the enemy" (as Jeff Foxworthy described reading Cosmo). The only problem is a lot of what I've read made me think, They should not allow you to access the Internet.
/r/seduction03/04/26 08:23 PM
1

That's not a "small town".
/r/seduction31/03/26 08:42 AM
1

Dude, you WORK there. Just leave her alone.
/r/seduction31/03/26 07:33 AM
3

Dress well, drive well, and flash a lot of money. That's your best shot, you need to be real.
/r/seduction31/03/26 04:04 AM
1

Well, she IS. So really you should either ignore it or work out why it bothers her.
/r/seduction29/03/26 09:56 PM
2

IDK, this sounds like childish behavior from both of you.
/r/seduction29/03/26 09:53 PM
15

It is actually possible for someone that should be wildly out of your league to be interested in you. Therefore, don't lose your chance thinking it is impossible and everyone else must be reading her wrong her perceived interest). I learned that the hard way when twin blonde sisters (about 25, looked like Playmate Sara Jean Underwood) rented the house next door to me.
/r/seduction28/03/26 11:11 PM
0

"...made a lot of filed reports"?
/r/seduction28/03/26 10:48 PM
0

Look, you are clearly talking about nljust hoodrats. Just have a room nearby. Plan ahead. The distance is a problem, and roommates/tenants are a big problem probably for you and them).
/r/seduction28/03/26 10:47 PM
25

WTF are you raving about???
/r/seduction23/03/26 10:32 AM
13

Some women are hoes, ​and target lock onto certain men as fellow sluts.
/r/seduction23/03/26 06:11 AM
1

That's actually a very good point about diet benefits.
/r/seduction22/03/26 08:14 PM
1

Don't date under 25.
/r/seduction22/03/26 05:58 AM
1

I guess I was asking because Tinder was originally associated with hooking up, compared to other platforms.
/r/seduction21/03/26 08:03 PM
1

I'm USA as well (SoCal, major area).
/r/seduction21/03/26 08:02 PM
1

Got it. I appreciate you explaining.
/r/seduction21/03/26 08:00 PM
1

What I meant was, given the name, is it more for hooking up than dating?
/r/seduction21/03/26 07:19 PM
7

What do you mean "how much"? I don't know how to calculate that, but you already know the final answer- A LOT. Join gym classes, switch to a real diet, take Wegovy, Lose at least 85 pounds (140 would be better, but 85 is much more realistic as a first-time goal).
/r/seduction21/03/26 07:04 AM
1

BTW, looking at past comments, I should have been clear that nothing was intended personally- I was giving honest feedback the way I would if you were one of my bros. Well, I slightly more polite than that, because I don't know you. Anyway, I didn't mean insults or think I was being personal, but I might have come across like that.
/r/seduction21/03/26 06:06 AM
1

I have a dumb question. I have been in a longterm but not really serious relationship for many years, and it is kind of coming apart (for the best). I have been hearing about Hinge lately. Is it just a regular "dating app", or more than that? What do you generally use? I haven't used any apps before, TBH.
/r/seduction21/03/26 06:03 AM
1

I'm legit happy for that unusual (for you– it sounds like you were surprised) experience and that you went to the trouble to legit update me (by responding to my comment, this showed up in my notifications). Congrats, that is awesome.
/r/seduction21/03/26 06:01 AM
1

I know what you're trying to do, of course. But the confrontational tone ("stop thinking...", "don't....", "it's not your..."– over and over) is both ironic and slightly hypocritical.
/r/seduction21/03/26 05:55 AM
1

I'm commenting on the irony of your authoritative wording.
/r/seduction19/03/26 11:07 PM
1

It's impossible to comment on a post and have the comment show up on a different one. So no.
/r/seduction19/03/26 11:05 PM
1

Your post is literally saying we're wrong for how we feel!
/r/seduction19/03/26 10:47 PM
3

"Dude, it's a coworker... and I'm not a POS."
/r/seduction18/03/26 04:12 AM
3

Meanwhile, the "old reliable Toyota" turns out to be a 2024 Lexus LX 600....
/r/seduction16/03/26 07:14 PM
2

I'm pretty low key, but I wouldn't be able to stop bragging if I pulled that off.
/r/seduction16/03/26 07:11 PM
5

Oh. It sounded like you were concealing you even had a place, and were using a Toyota in lieu of it. Very different, thanks for clearing that up. I thought you had epic seduction skills if you hooked up while acting homeless.
/r/seduction16/03/26 06:28 PM
4

Your dates are in a Toyota???
/r/seduction16/03/26 06:06 PM
1

The truth is I've had a Jacuzzi so long I never even thought to use it.
/r/seduction16/03/26 06:04 PM
0

You've self-conditioned something that you want to be true, and doesn't hold up to logic. If you demonstrate all you really offer is sex (and you're reinforcing that in your statements), then you are good for about three percent of the time together (or less) in a legit relationship, and meh for the rest. You have fully established yourself in the purely hookup/booty call category. And you aren't that young anymore, either- women want more and can do better. Besides, your targets are more or les…
/r/seduction15/03/26 10:05 PM
1

Maybe you're boring. It sounds like all you do is work out, athletics, and have sex. FFS, you think the key to a long-lasting relationship is to fuck them immediately, and brag about multiple girlfriends. It could be they rapidly detect you're shallow.
/r/seduction15/03/26 11:15 AM
1

In terms of your actual question, the answer is pretty straightforward: Engage in social hobbies. Find a meetup movie group, hiking group, HEMA group. Look at your local comic shop for events- board game events, D&D, miniatures wargaming, Magic cards. Join a gym class. Take physical fitness classes. You aren't directly adding women this way, but you are getting opportunities to meet them with COMMON INTERESTS ALREADY ESTABLISHED, and that is HUGE for what you're after. And if some of them start …
/r/seduction14/03/26 01:07 AM
1

It is pretty clear that you have some event or series of events causing a past. If that is or even isn't true, you should see a therapist for developmental reasons.
/r/seduction14/03/26 01:02 AM
1

Not sure if you FO-ed, but I recommend starting by taking a yoga class for a semester (around them but not touching or looking), a public speaking class for a semester, then a dance class for a semester. It may be scary, but you need to do it. That last one will change your life. My mom had me do that (when I was much, much younger) and I was paired with an experienced dancer I knew through her mom and mine. I wasn't nearly as uncomfortable and awkward as you, but it made me more comfortable I s…
/r/seduction14/03/26 12:59 AM
1

That was good, once I saw where you were going.
/r/seduction14/03/26 12:53 AM
1

Nothing crazy. But be creative. Have brand workout attire, change into nice clothes, some jewelry and wearable, exit shower smelling nice, waxed vehicle, on date ​take someplace nice and say money isn't an object, but don't be obnoxious. This is only a small thing and doesn't super matter, but some women pick up on this, just don't be TOO flashy.
/r/seduction13/03/26 08:57 PM
1

At least he didn't say, Go into the shower room with them, for privacy.
/r/seduction13/03/26 01:01 AM
3

NONE of the options are valid.
/r/seduction13/03/26 01:01 AM
2

I like to pull a mind fuck and make them feel embarrassed/ashamed for being like that, ask why SHE was being "weird about it". There is no cause for it, and D was in no way vulnerable or confronted. The best way is to do it calmly and politely.
/r/seduction12/03/26 08:57 PM
1

Play SLIGHTLY hard to get, get them to seduce you instead. Mildly drop your financial state or be generous as a boost. Then on date level with them, be honest, you'll be a challenge they'll want. Plus you don't need to lie.
/r/seduction12/03/26 07:23 PM
1

I wouldn't read too much into it. She probably realizes something like this would jeopardize her employment, in which case you don't want to make her feel awkward. I have a strict rule of never picking up on someone where I'm a customer and they're an employee- it's unethical and sometimes predatory, because of the relationship.
/r/seduction12/03/26 06:31 PM
1

You're making irrational assumptions. Who aid ask permission? You mind fuck the friend into feeling ashamed for being rude to her friend (and to you), and the girl into feeling her friend is being rude to both of you, and hopefully the girl into feeling she needs to give you more time IOT make up to you how her friend acted. You have to be good at this sort of thing, sure, but it definitely is doable (and even if it doesn't work, you can still get satisfaction).
/r/seduction11/03/26 01:43 AM
1

Then there is fun to be had regardless.
/r/seduction09/03/26 11:09 PM
2

I understand the challenges, but they can be overcome and it is satisfying.
/r/seduction09/03/26 04:13 PM
1

Maybe the issue is you're focusing on skank hos.
/r/seduction09/03/26 11:31 AM
8

Cut the legs out of the fat friend. Explain you're having a private conversation, and ask your target if it's okay to continue talking privately.
/r/seduction09/03/26 08:51 AM
1

When I got out of the Army, I had pretty severe effects from PTSD, and was very uncomfortable and rudderless in the civilian world, where I didn't want to be and felt wrong for. I went to my local comic shop, started going to their Board Game Night and Friday Night Magic [card game] events. I was treated extraordinarily warmly, and didn't feel self-conscious. I was accepted, and people helped me, and I slowly felt less anxious around crowds and confined spaces and strangers. I also really enjoye…
/r/seduction09/03/26 01:58 AM
1

In general, not for dating but to HAVE friends and learn to interact with people in general, join groups via MeetUp (if still around) or whatever, go do things, learn, get less anxious. Be upfront about your difficulties, they will likely be VERY kind to you and you will benefit a lot. I would do this before even thinking about attaining a GF. It will make you far less anxious, stressed, and confused in a relationship, and increase the odds of that relationship being an overall positive experien…
/r/seduction09/03/26 01:50 AM
3

There's some value here, but it smells of inauthenticity and an agenda. If SHE doesn't mind that, fine. But otherwise....
/r/seduction07/03/26 02:27 AM
2

You should see what SHE thinks. Is she aware of this?
/r/seduction05/03/26 09:56 PM
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