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Ive found that more poor efforts inside cleaning weren't nearly as bad as made out. I do NO extra and keep the house tidy and feed myself just fine. Btw she didnt work and grown children while i did everything outside and for a long while on a second 5 acre property where mowing and maintenance were extremely time consuming.
/r/Divorce_Men01/12/24 09:46 PM
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Fight for your family, forget the short term gratification because thats all it is, short term. You have two children and a wife you love, what more could you want? Now man the fup (yeah i know thats not PC) and get to it! More seriously though, just think what may happen. You see you're kids less and/ or some loser steps in the daddy role who doesn't really care about them. Have a look at the stat differences between children brought up by single mums to a traditional family unit. Start off wit…
/r/Divorce_Men05/11/24 04:25 AM
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IF it happens, and thats a big if then treat it like a reset. You'd both have to discuss whatever issues caused the breakdown and how you plan to address it in future. In my case she worried we were renting while i was investing and it might lead to uncertainty. So i agreed to buy a house outright without debt. I wanted her to put more effort into understanding what makes relationships work. Like 30min a week reading self help for couples or podcasts or just discussion of our goals, dreams and f…
/r/Divorce_Men01/11/24 02:02 PM
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Have you taken stock of what you're doing to contribute to the divorces? Unless we're honest with ourselves we'll make the same mistakes over and over again.
/r/Divorce_Men22/10/24 11:19 PM
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Personally from where i stand you'd be the type worthy of consideration at the very least. First you didn't dispose of a good man because 'im bored' and second you've taken the time to understand a man's POV. Just those two things mean you are or are close to unicorn status imo.
/r/Divorce_Men22/10/24 11:07 PM
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Good stuff mate, rediscovering ourselves is a huge part of it.
/r/Divorce_Men22/10/24 11:03 PM
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Not exactly here by choice, but you let a child loose in a candy store
/r/Divorce_Men22/10/24 10:56 PM
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Wow 9 down votes. Doesnt matter the fact i speak from firsthand experience where my wife who asked for separation started wanting lunches to talk about the kids, keeping in touch more and what not only to want me back. And the guy i replied to clearly said he wants his life and wife back. Being hostile in that situation gives it zero chance.
/r/Divorce_Men22/10/24 05:17 PM
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Goofy little girl, 28 years married and 2 children? Ive never a worry about me, ill move on just fine. But as one of the good guys who provided, protected, never harmed her or abused her i wont be making any large commitment again unless she's a deadset unicorn. Without any real commitment the moment women try to turn the tap back a bit why would guys hang around? Nope at this stage of life, its us giving them a turn now. So the good guys with half a brain wont commit, then the rest of the guys …
/r/Divorce_Men22/10/24 05:04 PM
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Im going through it myself and still in massive pain, its hard to accept. But i do know she's making a massive mistake just as all these women do who burn good men for nothing more than being bored. Why am i so sure its a massive mistake? Because lets face it we age better than that they do. For many the wall is about to mess em up big time, we on the other hand can shake of our dad bods in the gym and now have all the time in the world to do so. They think something better is awaiting them, but…
/r/Divorce_Men17/10/24 11:15 AM
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Yeah let you work for 30 years and then decide you're nothing but car to get from A to B and now a new one might be nice.
/r/Divorce_Men17/10/24 10:41 AM
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Yes there are many out there, but only one you spent so much time and effort on to build a future with. Sure we all know things wouldn't have been perfect, but you expect given the efforts they'd try to work though issues as adults rather than breaking up like 16 year olds would.
/r/Divorce_Men17/10/24 10:39 AM
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Kicked in the nuts while having your heart and future ripped from you with little to no consideration to decades of busting your ass....... its tough, real tough to jump when they ask for it.
/r/Divorce_Men17/10/24 10:36 AM
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I don't want to give false hope, but maybe she's looking for excuses to see you. If you want your life back with her perhaps chill, make her a coffee, invite her to go for a walk with the dogs. Baby steps. You never know.
/r/Divorce_Men17/10/24 10:15 AM
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