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| 26 | Red Pill Affirmations With a Plate.25-28 is the sweet spot of dating in my opinion. usually by this point you can tell what your going to get out of a woman, they are mature and have found some sort of independence and identity that you don't get with girls younger. past 28, most realize that the wall looms and categorize you in one of two ways, someone to marry or someone to bang | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/21 04:11 PM |
| 2 | Become the king of your world"just be yourself" is advice for relationships, not seduction. if you can't be yourself while in a relationship or pursuing a relationship, then you will feel inadequate and the whole thing will fall apart eventually... the problem with this approach is that humans judge based on appearances, first impressions and won't put in time to get to know you. | /r/seduction | 05/01/21 05:23 AM |
| 2 | Plate thats obsessed w/ me stalks me on IG and sent me this shit lol. Unreal. Thoughts?Yea... I’ve heard this story before. My go to... “I hear you...” I don’t agree or disagree “ i’m always looking to better myself“... or “ I try to have a positive outlook and avoid negativity in my life” Basically some random platitude that probably fits somehow | /r/askTRP | 30/12/20 12:17 AM |
| 2 | What went wrong?ping her today... sooner is better... send a meme or callback humor if she responds positively, go for logistics over the next 2-3 days (don't be thirsty) if it is neutral then build some conversation first. not a whole lot, just enough to get her comfortable and flirty again | /r/askTRP | 12/06/20 03:35 PM |
| 2 | Do you ever create false flag drama to keep them hooked?they want to feel a variety of emotion. If you won’t manufacture drama, they will. You think it’s about control and it’s not. It’s them wanting “to feel” something different. | /r/askTRP | 07/06/20 11:09 PM |
| 2 | Do you ever create false flag drama to keep them hooked?yes, creating false drama for small things can and does work as long as you don't do it all the time and maintain value... ie. blame her for something stupid. Don't act all hurt or anything, that hurts your value... just call her out on something or exaggerate something. Is it healthy, probably not. But it does create and keep some tension there so that she never feels like she has "won" you over. | /r/askTRP | 07/06/20 10:32 PM |
| 13 | Benefits of living alone?Hmmm, this is a tough one and could depend on the circumstances. What do you like to do? how much are you making? What kind of town are you in? KEY POINT! Girls are NOT harder to pull just because you have a roommate. A good roommate can be exponential. You can save money... good for your finances going forward. You can potentially afford to live in a better spot in town (paying $1300/mo for a one bedroom vs paying $1k/mo in the best area of town). Social networks and events are expanded and the… | /r/askTRP | 09/05/20 11:42 PM |
| 2 | What are your raw & honest thoughts on male bisexuality?note that Ive had this actually happen when a leader in my organization was an open bisexual and swinger. I will make a judgement based on their personality and what they bring to the table. If they are cuck or bi, it doesn't really change my opinion on them except that its their personal preference. I'm also very open and liberal about sex in general; i've had, One night stands, threesomes, group sex, bdsm. My thought is that normal society would view this person as "taboo", because in general … | /r/askTRP | 18/04/20 01:51 AM |
| 2 | Talking about sexYes, 1st bring it up in subtle ways that indirectly talk about sex... like pop culture (there is always a sex scandal or celeb breakup or movie to talk about). It takes you out of the nice/safe zone “Have you seen that tiger king shit... it’s wild they are all crazy... one lady killed her husband, one guy has two gay husbands, and the last guy has like 100 wives... does he keep a schedule for sex or is it one big free for all” As the date progresses, then you want to create sexual tension... oft… | /r/askTRP | 01/04/20 05:45 AM |
| 10 | 36 Questions Designed To Help You Fall In Love With AnyoneI used to play a game like this with dates a couple years back... I even think it was an app. It was back when I really had trouble closing. It worked great for that first time you brought a girl back to your place... We’d have a drink and “play a game” to get to know each other deeper. Then we’d each pick like 5-6 questions... and ask each other them while taking turns. And at the end we’d do a 2 minute stare into each other’s eyes (something like that was in the original test). It would always… | /r/seduction | 01/04/20 05:23 AM |
| 4 | My case against game and against PUAgame is like having a sales process/strategy... sure you can sell the product on it's own merits (you have a car, i want a car, so i buy your car), but a true salesman will develop a process that works to bring him in more sales | /r/TheRedPill | 02/03/20 10:12 PM |
| 20 | Fellow redpillers, what are your thoughts on this one case?This is the right answer... and he has created a lot more feelings and investment (shared experiences) in her due to the amount of time they have been together. This is the same reason that girls date dirtbags. Its a different type of value. | /r/askTRP | 27/01/20 01:31 AM |
| 80 | An Existential Crisis, Impermanence, and TRPLife is a lot like a choose your own adventure... it is what you make of it. You can be a guy that just fucks random hoes and doesn't get married You can be a guy that doesn't bother with women and pursues something else, MGTOW You can be a guy that treats it as a challenge to find the right women for the life you envision. It doesn't matter, what we tell you, you can choose to pursue whatever you want. All the red pill does is show you the dirty truths about men and women. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/01/20 05:35 AM |
| 1 | Tried putting together a "guys' poker night", all but one bailed. Any advice for building a network of guys, or even just "dudes to hang out with"?https://course.jordanharbinger.com/ A quick course on developing your network | /r/askTRP | 15/01/20 04:31 PM |
| 80 | Seduction's being plagued with mainstream media advice! BewareUpvoted because I think the message is correct, even if i think the reasoning ("mainstream media") is wrong | /r/seduction | 14/01/20 07:15 PM |
| 3 | Soft nextingJust hold frame, "so you only want me for sex?"... "no, i like you otherwise i wouldn't have spent so much time with you. But after thinking about it, I realized that u aren't ready for that and I don't want to be the guy to pressure you into something." "But I like you as a friend, can we stay friends?"... "of course, i'm sure I'll see you when we are out (or through mutual friends). But, I think for the next little bit we shouldn't spend so much one-on-one time together." | /r/askTRP | 14/01/20 12:49 AM |
| 5 | Soft nextingPretty much this. Usually by date 3, if it hasn't happened, then something is really wrong. I'm usually like "come over and watch a movie" by then and just escalate for sex... However, it sounds like this is not the problem if you have had her naked already. If she is truly a virgin, you should be upfront with her... "Look, I like hanging out with you, but I'm also a man and enjoy sex. I don't want to pressure you into it, so I don't think we should be hanging out." If she is not open to it, the… | /r/askTRP | 14/01/20 12:23 AM |
| 5 | Ex wants sex. Am I relenting Frame?lol, this is kind of a weird post. Do you want to have sex with her? If you do because you enjoy it, that is your frame. The only time you are giving up your frame is if you are having sex with her when you don't want to. ITS OKAY TO WANT SEX. your frame doesn't have to be at odds with others and it is often best to be in alignment as long as it doesn't compromise you. What the red pill teaches it to bring OTHERS into your frame, whether that is your boss or your ex. | /r/askTRP | 13/01/20 05:06 PM |
| 0 | Do looks matter in sales? (business red-pill question)Depends a lot on what you are selling, but in general I would say no. The "Halo" effect is where the impression of the someone (or brand) creates a biased perspective of the product (or company). this bias means... People that look good will create more trust in the people they are selling to. This is beneficial in a simple sale, where you meet face to face and are only selling to one buyer... think car sales. But it wouldn't matter as much in relationship based sales (focused more on personalit… | /r/askTRP | 11/01/20 12:46 AM |
| 2 | Fwb's friend supposedly hates meJust say you are too busy, and ask her whats up? If she gets angry and dramatic, copy it and send it to the friend. | /r/askTRP | 10/01/20 08:21 PM |
| 7 | LTR being corrupted by TED talkBalance Dread with plans into the future (preferably low investment for you). Like, "lets do xxx or go to xxx when spring comes around"... or... "do you think I should reserve a restaurant for valentine's day or is it too early". It tells her logical mind that you have "plans" together, but her emotional mind is spinning with the dread. | /r/askTRP | 08/01/20 02:32 AM |
| 2 | Red pill anger. How do I handle it?I can't tell you what that picture is, because you have to make it for yourself. Don't let society shape your hopes and dreams! Do some true honest self introspection and build a vision for your future. You have to ask yourself the hard questions... What do you truly value? what type of person do you want to be? is it honesty, is it passion, is it excitement, is it adventure, is it relaxation... pick 5 or pick 10 different values... order what is more valuable to you. I just heard this example, … | /r/askTRP | 07/01/20 01:39 AM |
| 2 | Red pill anger. How do I handle it?Only YOU can attribute certain meanings and emotions to this. If you think this is a reason to be angry, then you will be angry. If you think this is a reason to find peace about the fucked up relationships you have had in the past, then you will find peace. If you think this is a reason to let your Dark Triad personality to have more free reign, then you will let it out. Nobody else can tell you how you should feel about this, only you can give this feeling meaning. My recommendation is to use … | /r/askTRP | 06/01/20 09:48 PM |
| 1 | Can I get some feedback on my tinder profile?Yea, I can see why you would think that... BUT to an outsider (me)... it reads like a list of facts plus a cheeky line that i don't how to take. Are you looking for something or not? Then your pics show a wide range of who you are, some are serious and some are fun, some with you hiking. All great on their own, the problem is that it lacks consistency for a profile. People don't know what they are getting. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/19 08:25 PM |
| 1 | Can I get some feedback on my tinder profile?Its your chats... pictures look fine to get matches. But your low conversion rate is definitely either due to your messaging or the type of girl you are matching with. I suspect that the types of girls that you are matching with aren't inline with how you are messaging them... Your profile is a little bland. Your bio could be better cultivated... for a certain type of personality (you) or target a certain type of girl (ONS, partier, relationship, etc). Get rid of the 5th pic. If you are targetin… | /r/askTRP | 29/12/19 08:05 PM |
| 20 | Very old oneitis said she wants to date me. Thoughts?This is one of those things that you shouldn't put any effort into and see if it just happens because you live in the same town and see her out, or have the same social circle. If you put any effort into it, you are wasting your time. That shouldn't stop you from pursuing it if the opportunity arises, but I assume you don't want her having expectations or it getting back to other people. | /r/askTRP | 14/12/19 07:53 AM |
| 66 | Lets have a discussion about something thats been bugging me: Unatractive GirlsWhy cant you just be friends with her? Why is it you can only have plans to date her or not? Do you date your guy friends too? I just don't get this line of thinking... its perfectly fine to have a friend that you enjoy hanging out with but aren't attracted to. | /r/seduction | 30/11/19 03:49 AM |
| 4 | How can I, a 22 year old female get laid without dating apps?I find that most girls nowadays are using Snapchat/Instagram/Facebook to vet a guy before hooking up, especially fi they don't know them "that" well. So, If I were you, I would add people that you meet, mutual friends, or people that look interesting to your social media and ping their photos or stories to see if they a) are normal, b) worth pursuing, and c) interested back. Then just invite them over to watch a movie... The other option is just to go out to a bar/nightclub and sit by yourself a… | /r/seduction | 04/11/19 06:35 PM |
| 1 | At my college I want to get this girls snap who works at the food place I always go to, shes showed IOIs and she sexy. How should I ask? And should I even ask because I’m always going there for food so if it doesn’t work out it could be awkwardhave you talked to her more than once and said more than 5 words to her? Next time you see her, just have your phone out and look like you are going through your snap. Then ask for her snap. "do you have snap? (generic sentence about something, makes it better if its in your story) last night was crazy... whats your snap?" post shit on your story there for a day or two and if she is checking out your story, then you can proceed. If she isn't then let it lie and don't fuck up your food situation. | /r/askTRP | 30/10/19 04:23 AM |
| 8 | How can I give a more sexual vibe?I had the same problems for most of my 20s. It took conscious effort to break out of it. I was raised in a semi-religious family and carried a lot of that stigma about sex with me (no sex out of a relationship); still do to a certain extent... A couple things that may help -Treat them like you are already sleeping with them, not overtly sexual, but masculine. Take care of them, while holding your own frame/needs/priorities -overtly hit on them. it shows that you are interested in them; examples:… | /r/askTRP | 10/10/19 09:53 PM |
| 16 | Get Your Fucking City On Lock, The Benefits Are Endless.Pretty much this. I had similar thoughts as the OP when I was 22-25, but now that I'm 30 I realize how little value this really provides to my overall life. You have to put in a lot of effort to make connections with these people who won't offer any real substantial value unless you are going to be a nightclub/bar junkie. Yes, you may meet and sleep with a couple more bar rats, but there is much bigger things to pursue in life. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/02/18 05:42 PM |
| 5 | Approaching: First Impressions and MoreIMHO, The post is stupid and wrong. Cold approach desensitizes guys from rejection. Of course, if you are getting rejected and don't change the way you approach, you shouldnt expect to improve. That comes with learning experience. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/01/18 09:26 PM |
| 1 | 7 Tips on KEEPING a PlateI think sharing yourself and passions definitely needs to be calibrated appropriately. You don't want to share everything right from the get go. But I think the best way to handle it is to describe their place in your reality. Also, you have to be actually living in alignment with your self-described reality and future. For example, I often tell girls that while I have a job, im working on a side business to eventually have a certain lifestyle. I also go to entrepreneurship meetups and seminars … | /r/TheRedPill | 30/01/18 03:39 PM |
| 0 | 0-50Agree with this... there was no value here and i cant believe it got upvotes | /r/TheRedPill | 30/01/18 12:58 AM |
| 3 | Help, advice fuck buddythe thing with FWB relationships is that you should be able to be completely open and honest about whats going on in the relationship. he said he would be back this weekend, so you should probably assume that he will. if you are a little concerned that he didn't give you a response, then ask him what he thought of your narrative and if it turns him on. I think you are jumping to conclusions way to fast if you assume, i sent him a sexy message and now he doesnt want to hang out. He probably went … | /r/seduction | 16/10/17 11:28 PM |
| 8 | Three key tips from a Chad you won't hear from a sedditor (and Q&A)3 is pretty golden... 1&2 are meh at best...girls can give good and bad advice just like guys can. status is all in the eye of the beholder and isn't something that is necessary to meet and sleep with girls. To expand, what may be high status in one scenario if placed in another scenario could be completely out of place. It can help to gain that status in an area that you stomp around in... but in the bigger scheme of things its pretty meaningless. | /r/seduction | 16/10/17 10:52 PM |
| 2 | How to keep attraction over text after you already had some intimacyIn person interactions were always pretty solid; also, I met these girls while traveling. I always flirt heavily and sexualize as early as i think is possible. Some of them I slept with when I met them and others I slept with after i visited them or they visited me. When visiting each other, I have sexualized over text and they know that I am going to fuck them if we meet up. I will usually text them once or twice a month. Usually what happens is something will happen in my day or I will think a… | /r/seduction | 16/10/17 10:22 PM |
| 3 | How to keep attraction over text after you already had some intimacyLol, maybe you cant... But I've got women in multiple cities that I could call up and stay at their place and sleep with even though I may only see them once a year. | /r/seduction | 16/10/17 08:35 PM |
| 5 | How to keep attraction over text after you already had some intimacyTexting with the only intention of arranging a meeting is wasting potential opportunities to build attraction and investment. There are three types of conversation that I have over text (excluding setting up a meet)... Pinging- where you send something super low level just to get a girl to respond... usually send this to numbers that are going cold or a girl that i havent messaged in awhile Normal conversation- simple conversation about what they are up to, necessary for maintaining a manageable… | /r/seduction | 16/10/17 06:33 PM |
| 1 | Is it even worth approaching?Women provide an immediate feedback about your growth, confidence and inner self worth. I can travel to a new city, hell, a new country and still have decent interactions with women. It has nothing to do with your friends, hobbies and other bullshit that you are saying here. Granted that all helps, but it is NOT necessary if you are comfortable with who you are. You should definitely be approaching everyone, not just women... it sounds like your problem is that you are not comfortable letting pe… | /r/seduction | 16/10/17 01:25 AM |
| 1 | Sorority fall party adviceTalk to everybody try and remember names, not just girls you are interested in Keep the conversation pretty normal without being too boring... Flirt a little if the girl opens up into a conversation, but don't go over the top (meaning drop a line or two... ex. i didn't know so and so had such fun friends and your cute too) If you want a same night lay... After the peak of the night, is when you want to get isolated with a girl you are interested in. Usually, in these types of environments, the g… | /r/seduction | 13/10/17 09:03 PM |
| 1 | I can't seem to keep momentum after a third date, what am I doing wrong?This used to happen to me, so i believe I can help on this... Are you having sex with them? If you aren't at least creating some sexual tension, then when they are by themselves, they will tell themselves that they like you but there isn't enough chemistry. Girls will think a lot about sleeping with a guy because that is usually where the power dynamic can shift in the relationship. If you aren't turning her on, chances are she won't see you as a boyfriend... but as a friend. The fix is pretty s… | /r/seduction | 13/10/17 06:20 PM |
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