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Yea the people here are weak af but I’m not tho
/r/TheRedPill26/12/20 07:24 PM
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This is exactly correct. This sub skims a line between hope and nihilism, and more often than not, people fall into the nihilism pit. Love is real, and she can love you like you love her. But the process is certainly not as rose-colored as we dream it were.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/20 03:14 PM
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Rows are a good idea, thanks
/r/askTRP24/05/20 11:22 PM
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What’s the BFW sub?
/r/askTRP24/05/20 11:03 PM
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On the other hand, when women go for men that are not attractive, unsuccessful, boring, when the relationship ends or the man leaves the woman a single mom, men will say that she deserves it for picking such a deadbeat loser Who the hell would ever say that? It’s absolutely not the woman’s fault it’s the man’s fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 05:52 AM
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Is a man's worth really quantified by the amount of money he makes?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/19 11:59 PM
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Well there's acknowledging there's a problem and then there's just straight up harassing a demographic
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/19 12:02 AM
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What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 11:27 PM
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This is a lot of vitriol and I’m wondering where it’s all coming from
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 10:03 PM
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A whole generation let down and hurt, becoming disillusioned to the point they don’t know the truth anymore and can never trust anyone again
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 10:01 PM
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:(
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 09:57 PM
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You’re right, there’s always a dam’s worth of men desperate enough to marry the first girl who gives him a passing glance. But I’m talking about, I guess you could say, the female equivalent of ‘spinning plates’
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 07:48 PM
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I’m a living proof that that’s not true
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 07:47 PM
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Oh yes I know there are little hyenas waiting. I don’t like those types of guys and that’s why I don’t have ‘backups’ and it’s why I don’t talk to girls who say they’re taken but are interested in me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 07:20 PM
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See the last half dozen of mycomments answering this exact question
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 05:42 PM
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I bet you’re gonna say marriage is a trap next
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 05:29 PM
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This isn't a gendered thing and it certainly isn't universal. The guys complaining about it simply aren't on the receiving end of when guys do it. They're in a self-absorbed bubble. This is unrelated but what you just said is why I take most classical redpill opinions with a hefty helping of salt. But I feel like I should say, most of the cynical opinions the mgtow’s voice on here are not voiced out of self-absorption, but bitterness. I wish people saw that more
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 05:28 PM
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INTJ, but I never put much confidence in the whole mbti thing. Maybe I should, and start seeking out similar types
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 05:26 PM
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Just because I can do it too doesn’t mean I don’t find it disgusting behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 05:16 PM
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I mean on paper most of reddit would say that’s unhealthy but I seem to be longing to be someone’s universe, but that’s probably my desperation talking
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 05:15 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 05:14 PM
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Options or not, it’s not right
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 05:04 PM
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So what your saying is more introverted-oriented women won’t do this as much
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 05:04 PM
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I asked this question assuming people already knew men can do this as well. Maybe I was wrong in assuming people were smart enough to realize that
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 05:02 PM
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Gee thanks I didn’t know both genders did this, I guess that makes my question completely pointless
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 04:59 PM
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So in your opinion, extroverts are more prone to this behavior?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 04:58 PM
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b i t c o i n
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 04:50 PM
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I guess we are
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 04:49 PM
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Well you’re right but how about having ‘backups’ when in a proper, monogamous relationship? Perhaps a friendzoned guy who she’d go out with if she weren’t with you, for example? Edit: grammars
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 04:16 PM
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Saving this post for the lulz
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 04:01 PM
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When you do your best to post as thinly veiled an attack as possible, you're gonna have a person or two call you out on it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/19 10:55 PM
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Yea? You like posting stuff so you can get people mad?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/19 10:23 PM
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I bet you’ll say love is just a bunch of chemicals in your brain, too
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/19 06:14 PM
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This post makes me furious. Every man should emotionally support their partner but are you seriously comparing emotional support to money?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/19 06:11 PM
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Because as much as you and everybody else say they will listen to their boyfriend/husband, when it comes to actually doing it it’s almost always half-assed at the most, or a complete breakdown of communication at worst followed by breaking up.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/19 04:37 PM
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Before you tell me “women want men to be emotional but then dump us when we are.” No. Women want you to be there for us emotionally as much as we’re there for you emotionally. When you don’t do that, some of us will not stick around and be your emotional doormat. I have five ex girlfriends who would like to disagree. It’s nice to have someone listen to your problems, but when the time comes for you to put in the emotional effort, usually the woman is gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/19 04:35 PM
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Just a follow up, you’ve all been immensely helpful. I think I’ve had a breakthrough in all these questions that’ve been plaguing me for the past year and I think I’m ready to move forward again. So thank you.
/r/RedPillWives15/05/19 03:29 PM
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This is a fun little read, thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/19 02:32 AM
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Dude chill out
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/19 02:26 AM
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INTJ for what it’s worth
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/19 02:24 AM
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Is that supposed to be an insult?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/19 02:18 AM
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It’s not an alt you dolt
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/19 02:12 AM
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this guy sounds like a fucking pansy
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/19 12:57 AM
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Good job reducing them all to objects
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/19 09:31 PM
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This is dark
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/19 11:56 PM
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I thought it was the general consensus that fathers that walk out were bad people. I can't believe we have to even say it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/19 07:03 PM
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Branch swinging scares me particularly, but I’m having trouble understanding what you mean with all that you said. What do you mean you “just like to play around with it” in reference to branch swinging and hypergamy?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/19 09:53 PM
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Well that’s an extreme example. I’m talking more along the lines of the vain stuff a man/woman can provide their partner. Say a woman cannot have sex with me and I dump her. That wasn’t love that was me valuing her only for sex. Physical assault and lacking a desired trait are two drastically different things
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/19 09:49 PM
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Said no man ever
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/19 12:50 PM
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Just humor me on this, are you in college
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/19 11:12 PM
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Are you in college?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/19 08:27 PM
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I think ‘standard deviation’ was the wrong term to use. Maybe margin of error is better. You could say that women do a little bit more on this if you look at it literally, as if it’s set in stone, but generally it’s about equal. As it should be. No one side excessively saintly and no one side excessively ungrateful.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/19 11:15 PM
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Looks equal, and this is within my own standard of deviation.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/19 10:49 PM
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You mean normal, healthy relationships aren't like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/19 10:47 PM
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Yikes
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/19 02:18 PM
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Status
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/19 01:49 PM
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37% of guys have had sex at all That’s a weird way of saying over 60% haven’t A communist always hates capitalism What? Well, blame men. Women are more of a collectivist gender. Men will kick other men while he's down. Using myself as an example. If an army vet and bachelor in computer science programmer can’t get some, your standards are too high. I don’t ever make absolute statements like that, but that’s some hefty amount of status to leech off of. So no, the problem lies within the standards…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/19 02:43 PM
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Oh, grow up! Just because it hurts your feelings doesn’t mean it’s not true. There’s literally hundreds of academic studies to prove it. The dating market is hyper-inflated, and people are falling though the cracks. Those that do are put through absolute hell. The kind the drives them do do shit like Elliot Rogers did. Belittling that sort of loneliness and making a joke out of it is what drives these lonely kids to shooting people.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/19 02:25 PM
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Also, how about you become the top 20% of men or screw the other 20% of women. Beggars can't be choosers, right? Sorry but this part is delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/19 02:20 PM
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How many men do you see squandering their money on prostitutes then wishing they had a housewife?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 04:38 AM
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That's a nice crystal ball you have, can it tell you what zodiac sign I am?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/19 08:56 PM
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Oh, shut up and grow up
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/19 06:20 AM
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yikes
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/19 04:45 AM
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Well I'm not really talking about circumstances where 'regret' is necessary. Things like cheating or lying are almost invariably unforgivable, even if they sincerely believed they deeply fucked up. I'm talking more about 'making it work' with that 400lb woman, cheering her on to shed the weight. Obesity is the most common example, but I can think up more.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/19 05:25 PM
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If they’re willing to work on it, sure
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/19 04:10 PM
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I honestly couldn't tell you aside from the fact that I'm on a college campus and everyone here is an olympian
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 07:54 PM
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As a man it makes me feel objectified - like my only purpose is to be disposed of. I know the alternative is worse, but I still don’t like feeling like I’m disposable.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 05:57 PM
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So?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 12:26 PM
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This might just be the most selfish bitch I have ever seen, you’re an idiot for defending her
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 01:58 PM
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As long as you’re not at the wall, don’t worry
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 01:56 PM
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unfortunately
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 01:43 AM
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They couldn't care less about disposable males or their sexuality. No of course not, they're modern liberals why would they? Anyways, the fact that incels shooting up schools only further damaging their case does not occur to them. They're already too far gone to even begin putting thoughts like that together. It's not a gun problem, it's a loneliness problem. Obviously we can't just pair them up with girls because the girls want someone better. Which is why I say, perhaps wrongly, give the ince…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 01:07 AM
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I like this question. The fact of the matter is you’re not going to find a man with things worked out to the degree you want. We all have baggage in one way or the other. What I think would be best is for you to give a chance to who you think has the most potential and who looks promising. Unfortunately it’s likely you’ll come across a boy who doesn’t just look like a deadbeat, but really is a deadbeat and that’s part of the risk of dating. But having a woman in your life is usually the biggest …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 06:59 PM
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What I meant was, would you say to a man that it’s better to be alone than be with a 300lb feminist (who thinks he’s evil) But you actually presented a good point there too
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 05:30 PM
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Would you say that to a 300lb radical feminist?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 05:17 PM
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Keep in mind I’m not suggesting slavery but I’d like a woman to give that lonely incel a chance. I was in his spot, once. And when I got a girl, it motivated me to become fit and awesome for her. Of course a lot of guys just don’t have it in them and that’s a tragedy. I wish I had an answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 04:52 PM
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You're missing all the things that stem from that. You might not know this but men need women more than women need men. Going for years on end without having someone even touch you can fuck you up. The more these young men are neglected, the more shooters we'll get.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 04:10 PM
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That's not the point. The point is the squandering of that 'window' and then wanting big alpha chad when there's nothing left to squander.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 06:51 PM
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How about as opposed to doing the morally good thing and picking only one like everyone else? Of course you won't though. Society will cheer you on, even if it's not fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 06:48 PM
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Oh my god the arrogance of this post. Let me make some points clear: You, by virtue of simply being a woman, will have unlimited access to sex. None of the responsibility of sex lies on you. Your male partner must initiate and your male partner must do the physical work. You just sit back and feel it. You don't have to pay to have sex. They buy you the drinks, they work for you. This might as well belong on choosingbeggars. "Oh I can get as much dick as I can possibly ever want but half of them …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 05:33 PM
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Having your cake and eating it too, got it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 05:26 PM
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Doing fine in what respect? Sex? Relationships? Mere physical touch?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 05:24 PM
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Except "faggot" IS a meaningless insult there's an entire demographic that would like to have a word with you about that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 05:21 PM
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America became a superpower through selling supplies to the entente powers in the great war, and the allies in the second. It's good that women have rights, but that has very little to do with America's prosperity.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 04:07 PM
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You’re talking about a chad at a club. That’s the vernal pool of human emotion and every soul in that building has the whole of three brain cells
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 07:10 PM
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There’s the black pill
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 07:06 PM
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Jesus what job do you have? If you can straight up buy an entire house in one lump sum payment, you gotta be a CEO or something
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 05:38 PM
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This is why I don’t listen to a word you say, you’re way too biased
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 05:33 PM
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You can buy a house without taking out a loan?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 05:32 PM
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Not a woman but I’d rather keep balding rather than periods, they don’t sound fun
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 05:30 PM
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It’s not that easy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 05:29 PM
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I saw merit in it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 04:21 PM
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The data’s pretty black and white
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 02:21 AM
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I'm not interested in sexual attraction anymore, I'm talking about the desire to have a long term relationship. And yes, sexual attraction is a part of that
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 03:38 AM
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I don't want to regard you like a guinea pig but you're a curious case At least on this sub, where 80% of the women are literally just MGTOW's but with vaginas
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 03:10 AM
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No believe me I know. Red Pill can be an extremely blinding thing, and there's a very real chance my own ego is getting in the way from me seeing the truth, as could his too. But maybe not. None of us really know for 100% certainty.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 02:22 AM
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Well we could have an entire debate about that last paragraph but I'm not here for that right now. So, you're presenting a third option to the two that I have presented in my title: Setting the stage correctly for the bigger picture (family and long term, life goals). To me, this doesn't explicitly involve you alone. The 'bigger picture' involves your would-be family and your would-be spouse, so I cannot consider the act of choosing a partner with the intent of possibly marrying them a wholly se…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 02:21 AM
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No, I absolutely admire his work ethic. It's one of the things I MOST admire about him, his ability to see a task through to the end no matter how frustrated he gets. See this is what I was hoping to hear, even if getting that answer was like pulling teeth. I don't care if it just happens to benefit you (it's good that it does, though). What matters is that the admiration part is there. The respect and admiration is what I have always been hung up on. I'm kinda torn between incel mode and an act…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 02:14 AM
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We'll see if he's right or wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 02:10 AM
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So you're saying you don't appreciate the man's character whatsoever and it is completely, 100% what they can do for you? edit: This isn't a 'gotcha' post, this is a clueless man trying to get answers
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 02:09 AM
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But also, why is his being an artist more "who he is" than him, say, being a hard worker or good in bed (things that benefit me)? Because those are things that you don't admire, if what I'm hearing is correct. You like them because they benefit you. Therefore you can say you don't love him, you love what he provides.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 02:08 AM
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But it's a (small) factor?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 02:05 AM
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I asked if the attraction comes from what you can gain from the man, or from his personality
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 02:05 AM
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Honestly if you don't have anything to contribute you should just leave
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 02:03 AM
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Maybe you admire them. Maybe he writes, maybe he plays the guitar.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 02:02 AM
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Okay the observation of it doesn't matter, what does matter is that you're saying you only value the personality traits if they benefit you personally?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 01:58 AM
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and I suck at being chased Out of curiosity, are you normally the one that does the chasing? Also, how worried would you say you are about losing whatever partner you have you are with at any given moment? (Doesn't have to be at this present moment, just in general)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 01:56 AM
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You're dodging the question
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 01:51 AM
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Well then I'll sniff out what parts of the statement are bullshit. Or at least try, because everybody on here seems to want to outdo Freud in making their statements as complex as goddamn possible
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 01:51 AM
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Yes but do you care about the personality more than the actions? That's the question, here, not how similar they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 01:49 AM
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You are seriously overthinking this. How about this: Is your attraction based off of (to a degree) admiration of the man's positive personality traits?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 01:48 AM
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Me asking for an opinion is me asking to get clowned?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 01:46 AM
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Well one deals with his personalty traits and the other deals with the actions that he does
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 01:46 AM
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Neither of us know what is real or what is lies, it's up to interpretations and intuition to decide which is real and which is a lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 01:45 AM
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I think this is as simple as I could make it. Who is "he" The content of his character what he "does" or gives me? What he (the man in question) can provide for you. Money, status, free drinks at a bar, etc. I'm asking which one is more important to you
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 01:43 AM
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I'm asking for a general opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 01:40 AM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 01:36 AM
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Yep. Absolutely right. We're all zombies. Every single one.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 01:33 AM
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Well from what I've noticed, half of the women on this sub are cunts while the other half sound decent. Funny enough, I can identify the cunts by name at this point. My theory is that it is an individual thing, and not a general neurological feeling (I'm talking about the 'I'm looking out only for me' feeling a woman supposedly has while dating)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 01:28 AM
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But they didn't, so you're gonna have to deal with it. Whether that means lowering your astronomically high standards or growing a pair yourself and asking someone out
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 01:15 AM
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Love the hostility, really productive
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 01:09 AM
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this is becoming too much of a drag. Look you already have your answer. Men saw it as a cry for compassion and women saw it as an attack on their gender, there you go.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 11:18 PM
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Well how about you explain since I'm clearly an idiot by your standards
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 11:12 PM
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So you question that men can exhibit compassion in situations where a woman doesnt
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 10:59 PM
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You call that a phenomenon?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 10:47 PM
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But why were you curious in the first place? Does it confirm a view you have, or what?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 10:04 PM
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What were you expecting to gain from it?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 09:52 PM
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Yea it's like I said, it's a people problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 09:44 PM
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Well there's no point in trying to convince you if you're already dead set on it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 09:42 PM
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I never said I was mad nor did I ever say anything about women saying the same thing about men, but you raise a good point. All of this. This post, the OP, the OP's reference post, literally everything can be summed into one sentence: Neither gender trusts each other. It's not a awalt or amalt or whatever problem, it's a people problem. To make broad assumptions of either gender (men or women) is stupid and letting those who do that get to you is even more stupid. What we ought to do is take eac…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 09:36 PM
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imo these statements (women are whores, they'll cheat on you, etc) on a sub which literally has debate in its name, there's a hidden context that nobody really cares to make clear, that they want to be proven wrong. They sorta think that they'll find the one that'll do everything they can to prove them wrong. That's a stupid thing to do but the intention (this ties in to a post i made the other night sorta ) is that they want to be proven wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 09:24 PM
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I think I misunderstood what you meant by 'lay into'. I thought you were trying to say he was arguing whatever points were thrown at him but you're more just pointing out how he was ragging on girls in general, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 09:09 PM
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Which comment makes you think that? let's talk about it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 09:02 PM
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was that post in fact some sort of cri de coeur for compassion or sympathy? Yes it absolutely was and good job perceiving that. But the question I care more about is why are you asking? If the fact that men on here are more compassionate (which may be true or may not be), what would you do with that information?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 09:00 PM
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There's a problem with a lot of men today, and that is that they don't trust women. They don't get laid, they don't get compassion and it makes them resentful. Most women don't understand this because they can get laid and get compassion in the snap of a finger and you will never convince me otherwise. So why would it matter to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 08:56 PM
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Apparently OP from that thread did the same for the few comments he responded to. I'm reading the whopping four comments he put down in response to people and I don't think so. Only on one comment can I say there's a chance he might be trying to be confrontational but I don't think so. And the other comments are just him poorly trying to get sympathy (which I think we all should have no problem giving in moderation, btw)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 08:54 PM
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The line between wanting to be proven wrong and wanting to prove everyone else wrong is a blurry one. I think a lot of the men on this sub come from a failed relationship and have had their wings clipped hard. They're angry and frustrated that things didn't work out but at the same time cannot possibly give up hope. I think half the time it's the emotion taking over, and the other half is a legitimate debate. But I stand by my case that most (say, 90%) of these types of posts are with the intent…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 08:48 PM
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Just sent a response to it on the other comment, but in the event I'm completely misunderstanding, how about you explain?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 08:41 PM
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Who cares is a statement of there is no significance to this But there's all significance to this. How can you have a relationship if you cannot trust the other gender? And it's not just that one poster, it's so many more men than you know. I regularly hear from my friends talk about how they don't trust women, mgtow and all that bullshit. My father, my uncle, and absolutely countless sergeants from when I was in the army, saying to never trust a woman. Now you probably don't care because you're…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 08:41 PM
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Why are you worried about all of these cynical women if you're one of them?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 08:38 PM
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who cares If people didn’t care they wouldn’t be posting on this thread
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 08:25 PM
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EXACTLY
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 08:25 PM
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No it’s not I promise you. I’ve been in this guy’s situation more often than I want to admit and I can personally say that I wanted to be proven wrong (still do). But it’s something so important that I am not just willing to go with anecdotal evidence to accept. There is usually an aspect of wanting to get some feelings out and for that a therapist is appropriate and not reddit, but these questions are not made with the intention of trying to prove you wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 08:23 PM
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Wait weren’t you one of the compassionless responders?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 08:21 PM
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and OP was actively seeking that response so that he could then gleefully lay into all the girls. This an awfully broad assumption
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 08:20 PM
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Well the way I see it, find whoever you like for their personality. Whether they're fat or otherwise ugly can usually be changed over time, but the personality cannot. So find who you're good with and then work on what's gotta be worked on (on both sides of the relationship) It's that compatibility, like you said, that carries relationships over time. It's very likely your ideal match won't even pass your initial first impression. Gauging who you want to be partnered with through the first glanc…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 02:51 AM
1

I think you and I have the same theory in our heads
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 02:30 AM
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yea it looks like most women on here are
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 01:35 AM
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Like, they want the best for people, etc. Example, a girl dumps a needy man. The girl is turned off, yea, but does she wish him the best? See my thinking with all of this is that I see people do horrible shit to each other. What gets to me is that at face value it just looks like a rat race - some sort of eternal cycle of malicious back stabbing. That's really been getting to me. But all of these misdeeds - manipulating your partner, dread, pickup game, whatever, are these done with the intentio…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 01:22 AM
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idk then, I guess I gotta spend more time articulating this
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 12:08 AM
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Well how about this: A guy falls prey to his lizard mind and mindgames a girl into sex. You can call him a player, a shallow man, but he does want a proper traditional relationship. Or likewise, a young woman spends her years riding the carousel and then wants to settle down. Intentions. People make bad decisions but their intentions are ultimately pure. See what I mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/19 11:53 PM
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Yea brain fog makes me sound like a zombie I’ll admit it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/19 11:50 PM
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That's kinda the theory I had, unfortunately
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/19 11:18 PM
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You think I'm wrong, I'm assuming?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/19 10:56 PM
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How come women like you are so rare?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/19 10:12 PM
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Aren’t you also the one that admitted to cheating on her partner? Edit: nope that’s someone else
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/19 10:10 PM
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Yea this is pretty much my view as well, I'm a very cynical person too. I'm kinda hoping hearing people's responses will help change that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/19 09:52 PM
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Back to mgtow, then
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/19 08:11 PM
1

Great, thanks for confirming I was right in not taking anything you say seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 02:05 AM
4

I bet you're gonna say they're all rapists next
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 01:58 AM
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So what? No one feels pity for the height problem. Everyone on here talks about how we’re all just animals that care only about the appearance of the partner, but then whine when we encounter something we cannot change appearance-wise.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/19 05:58 PM
1

I guess that’s true
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/19 05:54 PM
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So what about the objectively hot women then? They’re just being celibate?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/19 03:21 PM
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Every letter here is the truth
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/19 03:17 PM
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You've probably produced a lot of MGTOW's
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/19 12:29 AM
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"As long as the guy looks hot his looks don't matter"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/19 12:17 AM
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And what's the point? That we're all fragile white men who want marriage to be a rape prison?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/19 01:27 AM
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You don’t gotta obsess to not want your partner cheat on you
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/19 07:12 PM
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What’s wrong with wanting your partner to be faithful?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/19 06:51 PM
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What, do you think they’re all in a global conspiracy against us?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/19 01:19 PM
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Yes. A lot is expected of me and I will disappoint everyone. I would rather be a woman and be expected to have a family and have the state give me every benefit while having my pick of the litter.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/19 10:52 PM
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If I were confident she were the one I’d start my own family with, then I’d cautiously (and probably with quite a bit of grief) move forward with her
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/19 08:20 AM
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You’re a sociopath
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/19 08:17 AM
3

Fuck no
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/19 08:09 AM
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This is a good thought but the problem is that we have zero idea what our personal niches are, since it’s such an abstract thing
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/19 08:07 AM
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Why are you asking this
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/19 08:04 AM
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Can you remind me what STEM stands for?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/19 12:45 AM
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Approach Defend their man Be chivalrous Pursue STEM careers I'm gonna try to tackle these issues specifically. Approach The current sexual market (i'd say dating, but you guys seem to rather call it sexual market) is as follows: Women get to chose, all men are simply equatable to 'merchandise' for them to pick the best of. Black pill? Well it's reality so I guess reality is black pill. An average man stands no chance in today's market. Absolutely no chance. They will be shot down hundreds of tim…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/19 12:22 AM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/19 12:11 AM
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That’s not true, there are men who don’t play the relationship game aspect. I know because I’m one of them, as well as a lot of men on here. I used to think what you think but with women instead - they never truly love you, they just want you for your status and comfort. Then I realized it’s not a certain gender, it’s just shitty people. So far I have yet to find someone who isn’t like that, but I have faith that there’s someone out there who isn’t vain and doesn’t play games.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 04:03 PM
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Actually I can’t get with girls. They’re all too picky
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 03:15 PM
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About 90% of men on this sub have not had someone touch them for years. One woman's harassment is another man's reprieve from suicide
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 07:12 PM
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That's not the point. This has nothing to do with rape. It's about the fact that women can be just as vain as men if not worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 07:09 PM
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He’s not I was being sarcastic
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 03:55 PM
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No that’s true as well, alpha fucks beta bucks and whatnot Women have been given the keys to have perfect hedonism and most will abuse that, since relationships require effort. So why not just stay single and when the time comes strap down the lucky beta so you can have your cake and eat it too, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 02:08 PM
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Gee, friendly neighborhood misandrist I guess you’re right since you clearly know more about men
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 02:05 PM
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No I’m talking about the guys who have sex period. You don’t know how rare it is for an average man to get some, do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 01:54 PM
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Ah yes, the ‘happily married’ guy. Every thread has one
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 01:33 PM
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Sex
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 01:31 PM
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Well where else would work? Here in New England, #MeToo is in full swing and most of us are extremely apprehensive about cold approaching because of what they might think of us. Or worse, rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 10:51 PM
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This is the crux of everything I have been trying to get to the center of. Hell no they’re not on Instagram. But where the hell are they?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 10:49 PM
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:(
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 10:46 PM
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I mean when someone’s on their back I’m not usually thinking about their gender that much
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 10:46 PM
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No I know that, but too often it just all devolves into a bitching circle (which I'm doing here aren't I) and I'm sick of it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 10:31 PM
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Yea but trust me I've had sex with guys too
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 10:30 PM
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Yea im bi as hell
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 10:30 PM
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I don't know what kind of guy this was but something tells me he specifically isn't a listener. Also this is something I just remembered: I was in a similar situation to your guy once and consider that they're most of the time too fucking out of it with the horniness to even comprehend what you're saying. It's a lot more powerful of a force than anybody gives it credit for - horniness
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 10:23 PM
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I have no idea where the hell all of these arrogant, catcalling know-it-all men with an IQ of 60 are. Either I have never met one in my entire life or they're damn good at hiding it. I'm not saying you're wrong, I just have never met someone like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 10:19 PM
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"Now, women probably do this, too, but..." This would shut me and probably 60% of the commenters up so maybe it is a good idea to start
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 10:18 PM
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And have you ever had a guy go down on you and directly do the opposite of what you told him to do? As in, rub this and he flat out tells you know or does the opposite?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 10:14 PM
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Oh yea because it's about 'fragile male ego' I can't say a word or else I have a fragile male ego
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 10:13 PM
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So this isn't about getting it right in sex, this is about 'fragile male egos'
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 09:47 PM
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This is why I discount advice from old married men
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 12:44 PM
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I can tell you're a woman just by reading this
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 03:24 AM
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Guys in their 40s have a much smaller selection of 'good candidates' than a woman in her 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 06:34 PM
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Whatever, enjoy being a barren 50 year old cat lady
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 12:21 AM
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No, you're just being a cunt. Clearly nobody believes a word you're saying. All you're doing is just name calling
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 09:48 PM
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Oh fuck off with the childishness
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 03:59 PM
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This account’s oldest post is a day old
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 03:57 PM
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Yes yes and yes
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/19 10:43 PM
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It’s gatekeeping
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/19 07:18 PM
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Whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/19 06:07 PM
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Well then I guess you’re gonna have to be content with that
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/19 05:27 PM
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Other way around, my alt is a part of this community
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/19 04:44 PM
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I never said to ban anyone. I even made it a point to not alter the mod rules. I’m saying to look at whatever you are looking at with unbiased eyes. And yes it is possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/19 04:41 PM
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Why should I take that last sentence seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/19 04:40 PM
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Alright you win, they don’t exist. Enjoy the trophy
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/19 05:52 AM
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Or maybe you should just put up with it and accept that you can’t control people?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/19 05:28 AM
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This is hilarious wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/19 05:22 AM
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No they do, they’re just very rare. Like, .1% rare. They’re the 300 pound ones that believe they’re 115 and have a model face. They don’t get dick because nobody can find where to put it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/19 05:18 AM
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Ayy lmao I summoned it b0ss
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/19 05:17 AM
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Just more proof that it’s a growing problem
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/19 05:15 AM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/19 05:06 AM
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Of course there's a solution. If we can form from a bunch of elementary particles in a chain of events that is statistically impossible, I think we can put biases aside.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/19 04:50 AM
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Well if you're working on your body and your career you're doing about 50% more than about 50% of the guys in Uni, if that's what you're getting at
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/19 04:47 AM
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Well the whole CMV thing is the symptom of a larger problem, and that problem is polarization. Things are getting more and more black and white in this sub. Your gender is the good gender. Their gender is the bad gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/19 04:46 AM
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I don't know what that's supposed to mean
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/19 04:43 AM
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How do I do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/19 04:42 AM
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No I'm not talking about the warning I'm talking about how this question is obviously just an attack. To say every single man is a sex-hungry child is not something that has been thought out and is a statement made by somebody obviously not looking to debate it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/19 04:09 AM
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What a childish view. Why even try to change your view when you won't take what I say seriously? What if I said take only 5% of what women say seriously because they have the emotions of a child? This is little more than mudslinging or an outburst.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/19 12:03 AM
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So this isn't a forum for debate? It's a forum to see which gender is better and throw shit at one another?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/19 12:01 AM
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lol this is clearly not a CMV and if the mods don’t see that then this place is gonna go the way of TRP
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/19 05:09 PM
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Alright you clearly don’t want to talk serious so I’m gonna stop this here
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 06:34 PM
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If you’re okay with having sex with a doll, yea. But it’s not the same as a real human. And I said humans. Not just men. Women will get told more and more that it is ‘liberating’ to push for supremacy in all things, beating whatever it is out (whether it’s men, a certain religion, race, whatever) I’m not one to give into conspiracy theories, but if today’s society of insanity had its way, 60 years from now we will have decent humans as the permanent undesirables, while whoever makes themself loo…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 06:15 PM
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Lol yea What do you think comes next after men are reduced to drones? You think things are just gonna get better for the common human?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 04:43 PM
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Without it the world seems like a bleak, every-man-for-himself eternal cycle of pain and suffering. After a millennia of building society and refining morals to what they are today, seeing humans revert back to the tribal is essentially the beginning of the apocalypse. Yea for most it’s probably because they want sympathy because they’re ugly. But existentially, to abandon the disenfranchised is inhumane and a telling sign of trying times at the best, Armageddon at the worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 04:33 PM
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No I think there’s a culture where animals are adored more than human life
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 04:30 PM
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Yea I’m sure everybody here knows that, so why even bother saying it? Like, at what point is it just becoming circlejerking? After the eighth time? Eleventh? I see something like this at least twice in every damn thread
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 12:41 PM
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I almost forgot, the men who are afraid of rejection are regarded very coldly by the same women who are afraid of rejection. Dammit. Didn't put that one in. Fucking this so much. Yes men who are afraid of rejection may do it too, but the problem is so much worse with women. It’s hypocritical
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 05:07 PM
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Did you really have to say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 05:04 PM
0

You're asking this question on Reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 05:38 AM
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It’s like having your cake and eating it too. It annoys me but not enough to be a deal breaker
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/19 07:08 AM
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Something tells me nothing would change your opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 03:12 AM
1

So let me get this straight. You advocate against marriage, but you have a wife and kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 12:14 AM
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By yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 10:09 PM
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Because I’m implying your standards were too high and the only reason you got someone who fulfilled it was that you got lucky. You said it yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 10:08 PM
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I bet you’re gonna say you shouldn’t have kids next
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 09:52 PM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 09:39 PM
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You know you do, even if it’s unconsciously. We all do.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 09:37 PM
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There’s a difference between respecting yourself enough to know you deserve someone good, and being so arrogant that you think you deserve Hercules with a PhD
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 09:34 PM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 09:31 PM
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I think you already knew that looks mattered. We all did even though Hollywood tried their best to shovel their bullshit down our throats. But again, this is not about being rejected, this is about being rejected in mean, hurtful, and dismissive ways that I wouldve never done to anyone else. But if this is the crux of your problem, it's much easier to answer it for you. They're cunts. They do not deserve your attention, even if they are more attractive than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 09:52 PM
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That’s ridiculous. Don’t be the reason the cycle is continued.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 06:36 PM
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There are girls like that, but they’re all invariably the bad ones that are going to crash and burn when they hit the wall. So take some comfort in that they’ll be torn to shreds when the power is taken from them when they lose their looks and have nothing else to make up for it. But focus on the fact that there are nice people out there who would not do that. They’re the ones that will keep you sane and they’re the ones you need to talk to. I haven’t really devised a good method to sifting thro…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 06:35 PM
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My redeeming thought of what OP is saying is that the good ones, while they do not regard the fat and ugly men, do not do so with disgust as if they are better. They do so as we do to a 300lb woman: indifferent and maybe even with sympathy. They hope they can become better men, and they know there is nothing they can do, and that it’s all up to them. That’s whats been getting me by. I feel disgraced when I have to accept the fact that some girls won’t look at me, but as long as they sincerely wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 05:33 PM
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I don’t even know who Richard Cooper is, I was more talking about the statement
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 08:54 PM
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...morning blowjob?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 08:53 PM
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Okay thats still a lot compared to most guys
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 08:43 PM
1

Well what do you think then
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 08:41 PM
1

Why do you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 08:39 PM
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Nooooooooooooooo
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 08:39 PM
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No most women don’t have them. But could it be something similar to a tattoo with its effect? Like, “I have a little bit of edge to me, I am not a weakling” sort of message?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 08:32 PM
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It’s a legit question I want to know why it’s appealing
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 08:29 PM
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How do you explain women getting men birthday presents when they are twenty years into a marriage, then?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 08:27 PM
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When you get down to the fundamentals isn’t it true?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 08:26 PM
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Yes. This is why I’ve sworn it off.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 02:45 PM
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Why even have a CMV when you’re just gonna ignore what everyone says?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 04:04 PM
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Wonderful. I hope you have a good pair of ear plugs, then, because you’re gonna hear the same thing over and over again.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 04:03 PM
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What do you want me to say? To confirm that there’s nothing you can do to get confident because you’re ugly?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 03:51 PM
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Of course they are. It’s a social wasteland, why wouldn’t they continue to tear themselves apart?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 03:50 PM
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No confidence is not just looks, it’s a combination of looks and things you have achieved
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 03:34 PM
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It’s a proponent, imo. I know this is gonna sound like I’m bragging, that’s not my intention, but when I got out of the army, I still was a baby faced, chinless weirdo. But I was a baby faced, chinless weirdo that survived Fort Benning. In my group of friends I felt like I was the ‘alpha’ because I have done something that my friends have not done. Of course that cockiness has since worn off, but I carried myself a little higher after that. Even if my hair is falling out and whenever I get carde…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 02:19 PM
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I wish there was no such thing as SMV. Like, pick someone you're compatible with and then make yourself handsome/beautiful
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 09:32 PM
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The man knows logically that a handful of woman "probably" do want him, but they dont approach him because thats not what women do. This is me indulging my own selfish desires but I have approached a lot of women and only had one of them accept a date and that was in high school and she was fucking insane. I guess dating apps are a different story. Also but they dont because shes not putting herself out there on social media and trying to obtain followers. Is this actually how girls gauge their …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 08:58 PM
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To feel wanted is different from improving yourself. They may come to the same ending, but they are not the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 05:39 PM
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Well inadequacy is a personal problem that can be resolved with a different mindset. Most people don’t seem to want to change it, though
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 02:58 PM
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No I was talking about me trying to make that appearance lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 02:52 PM
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Groping and cat calling are different than someone politely asking you out. For the record people who grope and catcall are thought of as degenerates through all the male gender. But if we are talking in the context of a one-on-one conversation, like maybe through tindr or whatever, and yes I know this is not the first time you are hearing this, but you don’t know how good you have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 02:27 PM
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Do you know how nice it would be for 80% of men to have that happen to them? I don’t want to turn this into a woe is me session, but most completely underestimate how overpowering the male sex drive is, and even further underestimate how starved they are for it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 01:54 PM
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I mean I’m already doing that. Wasn’t this about hypergamy, though?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 03:49 AM
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...No?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 03:45 AM
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I never said that looks are the most important thing about a woman! It’s an amalgamation of looks and personality!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 03:38 AM
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I don't even want a supermodel, they're probably all vain thots
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 03:32 AM
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You have no proof of that number. Now you're just being a pain I also did not say at any time that anybody is entitled to anyone or anything
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 03:23 AM
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Then you haven't been around mature men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 03:21 AM
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OR you're not as attractive as you think you are. No. They are too high. If there's millions of men across the western hemisphere all saying that, then you should believe them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 03:10 AM
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God this is so true
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 03:09 AM
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Holy shit that must be hard
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 03:06 AM
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Also I personally have decided to sacrifice looks for loyalty. Looks can be changed but a personality can not. The prevailing problem is that most other people have not decided to make that sacrifice. No I'm not bragging about how I'm so virtuous. The standards of women are WAY TOO HIGH because of the overabundance of choices and, yes I will admit, the cowing of the general male population. That last sentence is, I promise you, the biggest issue with all relationships today.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 02:58 AM
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Here's a secret that you probably already know: Men don't care about looks as much as those Victoria's Secret commercials want you to believe. Of course there's a limit (200 pounds, some sort of dermatological condition), but the 80% of men out there with no partner will settle for scraps (and by scraps I mean below-average to average) and to him it would be a dream come true. And those guys you know in happy relationships? Who cares, they're in a happy relationship. There is no problem there, s…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 02:55 AM
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Well that's from your biased eyes of being someone of the opposite gender. That's natural, I have bias too. Men want a woman for them self. If you want to call it possessiveness then I guess that's your choice. Yea there are guys out there who don't care but after thousands and thousands of years of social development, surely there must be some reason monogamy rose above polygamy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 02:37 AM
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So this isn't really about trying to sell hypergamy on this sub, it's about saying that it's a result of when a man misses one of his duties
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 02:07 AM
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What, are you implying that the man just sits around while the woman works and cares for the family?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 01:47 AM
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Gee if only there were another person in the relationship that could do that 🤔 Besides, hypergamy and a woman having to balance a job and a family have absolutely nothing to do with each other. You will never, ever ever get to have your cake and eat it too, no matter how far society has decayed. At least, not with a man of worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 01:41 AM
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So this is a thing
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 01:35 AM
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You just said that hypergamy is logical for women who want to be more traditional. Let that sink in for a minute. You're clearly just trying to justify it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 01:33 AM
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Oh my god this has been talked about soooo many times. Can we, like, make a required reading thing before asking this question?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 04:22 AM
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👍
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 03:07 PM
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I don’t think this is your kinda sub, TRP is just as polarizing as the TBP Also you need to lay off
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 02:44 PM
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Hbu?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 02:28 PM
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Woah there cowboy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 02:22 PM
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This is what I’ve alwwys been trying to do, why the hell don’t people at least give this a shot?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 03:14 PM
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It’s sorta hard to change personality
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 04:15 AM
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Very few as in, to quote the selective service website, 'almost all'?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 11:41 PM
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...then what was that thing I had to sign when I was going for my license
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 10:26 PM
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The hamstering is real
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/19 06:11 AM
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I like the way you think
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 07:14 PM
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This is a very good point
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 06:59 AM
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Nah I think you’re just offended
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 06:52 AM
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I'd rather have a college chick while I'm still in college, I wanna have a partner not a sex doll
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 05:35 AM
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We’ll all be fifty by that time
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 12:22 AM
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Great thanks a fucking lot
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/19 07:47 AM
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Where can I post this then
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/19 07:44 AM
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Bruh please
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/19 07:42 AM
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For your first question, check out the second most upvoted thread on this sub and you’ll see what I mean. I’m confident I don’t even need to explain any further and you will understand when you read it entirely. Secondly you’re right about this place not being a good spot for support. But I’m not here for support, personally. I’m here because I like dissecting theories regarding relationships and human attraction. And maybe if I find one that makes sense, I might put it into practice. The incel …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/19 07:41 AM
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I think we can agree that the basis for most incel resentment is the belief that women are vain, unfaithful, will dump one man to go for another, etc. Whether all that’s true or not isn’t the topic of conversation, but I can say with 100% certainty that they want to be proven wrong when they say things like “all women are whores” or “she’ll dump you when she can get someone better”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/19 07:33 AM
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If the girl has a reputation for being a whore or a junkie I’m not gonna touch her with a ten foot pole
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/19 07:27 AM
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Okay but decent guys don’t date the bad girls
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/19 06:52 AM
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Let me guess, you found someone that you share every interest with and loves you for who you are all while looking good and being in your local area and you've been married to that person for years Edit: as a matter of fact given your post history, why should I take anything you say seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/19 01:52 AM
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Are you a man or a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/19 01:51 AM
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what the fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 10:22 PM
2

Could be trust issues
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 02:13 PM
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drama queen and needy are of the same mind i also have a hundred ex'es who would disagree with you
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 07:13 PM
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No offense but you have no idea what you’re talking about. Maybe you like neurotic, needy men, but the general populace does not.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 06:50 PM
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Are you being sarcastic, because you can't tell over text
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 05:53 PM
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I disagree. In the context of a man perpetually being a neurotic drama queen, then they would be turned off. But if a man who has his head on straight can pick the correct moment where it would be appropriate to let a bit of emotion out, then, in moderation, you could keep the attraction going while not being a cold, soulless robot.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 04:59 PM
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So you're saying that not a single woman in the whole world would accept a man for all their faults?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 04:54 PM
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“Ha ha ha I finally get my revenge by destroying the nuclear family”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 04:06 PM
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What's an MRA?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 05:48 AM
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Men don't like sluts for relationships. They're fine to sate their carnal desires, but nothing more. But yea you weren't the one who I was thinking of lol Even still your post history reeks of a female bias, which is natural. I have a male bias and I try to check it. Look at this objectively, with zero bias whatsoever, and re-evaluate your opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 04:04 AM
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Look, as a woman, you honestly could not understand what it is like to be labeled as a predator. I don't normally say things like that, and I'm sorry but it's true. That's not to say that being accused of rape is worse than actual rape. It's not. But it doesn't change the fact that false accusations are still a very, very real possibility nowadays and every man should be mindful of it. Also weren't you the one trying to justify being a slut in one thread?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 03:58 AM
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What’s with the standoffish’ness? The same law can be applied to exactly what you’re talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 03:07 PM
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Yea that's true. But the fact of the matter is that races usually stick together, whites with whites blacks with blacks etc. From that grouping up, cultures emerge. It's from that logic that one can assume that culture and race might well be the same thing. Also having half of your argument being just an insult only makes you look bad
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 02:04 AM
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In some cultures, this is accepted. In some it’s not. There’s racism, then there’s stating the facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 07:30 PM
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That’s a yikes from me dawg
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 04:48 PM
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Imo if a state of stagnation (IE, wife doesn’t give sex, or the husband doesn’t pull his weight around the house, or both) exists in the house, the surest way to eliminate it, is to start giving the husband sex or for the husband to actually be the man of the house and be responsible. It’s an olive branch, an unspoken request to have things return to the way things were, back in the good old days. One could provide the other with what they need for, say, a year. And if the other does not recipro…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 06:37 AM
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Make sure you’re not looking at this with bias
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 11:13 PM
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And we should all just take this girl at her word? Someone who places such a sacred act as so low a pedestal that it's the same thing as a game couldn't possibly be expected to appreciate something on the same caliber as marriage. edit: btw this whole thread reeks of someone desperately trying to justify their whoring
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 06:12 AM
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Imo most men would be fine with supporting the family. The problem is the economies. Rent is extortionate, student debt is an organized crime ring. It would be decades before millennials that aren’t in a trade make actual decent money. Oh and not to mention that whole mess that came from the bored housewives in the 60’s
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 03:36 AM
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What the fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 02:11 PM
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some say she is still looking for a nice guy to this day
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 04:51 PM
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You haven't been around for long, have you
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/18 10:09 PM
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You must be real fun at Christmas parties
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/18 08:26 PM
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Weimar Germany
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/18 05:30 PM
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But why? Obviously, humans are social creatures. When I say we all have to, I don't mean as if it's a life or death situation. Obviously if you're comfortable alone, more power to you. But I think most of the people on TRP and even this subreddit are only here because they want their own SO one day, and discussing the art of attraction might be the best way on achieving that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/18 10:53 PM
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See I think you're right. But at the same time, boiling this down to "people are vain and weak" simplifies my answer much, much more. I used to go for girls who ran marathons, since I do the same. I thought that, since they chose to forsake comfort for the future goal of fitness/sports/looking good then that is a shining testament to their character. Now, that's my way to gauge discipline. Everyone's probably got their own. Also maybe mine might not be the best example, since thots also infest t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/18 10:42 PM
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So you’re saying decadence has taken over and no one wants to rock the boat?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/18 09:34 PM
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I’m in a mgtow stage in my life, I know very well how petty and base women can be now that the power has been given to them. But just because all women are like that doesn’t mean they will act on their animal impulse. Monogamy is pretty much accepted as a non-natural behavior, while polyamory is natural. I think you and I can both agree that most of the natural tendencies of humans are suppressed for what we believe to be the ‘greater good’, something we know is more than what we would have if w…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/18 09:06 PM
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You’re incredibly cynical
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/18 08:38 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/18 08:33 PM
1

What if I want kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/18 08:31 PM
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Which ones?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/18 03:10 PM
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I think you’re on the right track. If you took the word “rich” out you’d still be right.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/18 09:59 PM
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No sex tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/18 08:03 PM
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Trust me, you got a lot more time before you gotta worry about any sort of wall
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/18 07:49 PM
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Here’s a secret: most men, while they do want a hot young body, they need a companion. The ones who are willing to forsake that higher human need for companionship in place of a one night stand don’t have the willpower to keep their little lizard brains at bay. (In my mind, I call it ‘All Men are Like That’) If you have it in your mind that you want to be a nice stay at home mom, good for you, honest. I think most men want that for a wife. Your job is to find the man who won’t just go chasing th…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/18 07:41 PM
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I disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/18 07:35 PM
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yea saying the other person is wrong and demeaning them is a good way to change their view
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/18 05:25 AM
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It’s a shame to admit it, but looks are the first impression. Getting yourself to look better is easier than you think, but I think if you were the one to make a move first and put your best foot forward, your chances are still probably pretty good you’ll at the absolute bare minimum get some attention Tbh tho, I don’t really think that twitter post is relevant to what you’re talking about. It’s just some picky thot regretting not going for mister alpha when she didn’t know who he was
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/18 05:45 PM
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Yea it’s true. And I know that the only way to really get that checked is some form of Socialism or what Jacquelope said. It’s just human nature, but it doesn’t make it suck any less
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/18 04:59 AM
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I wish this wasn’t a competition
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/18 11:32 PM
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You're married for that long and not only did you just randomly throw the word divorce out there unneededly, but you also pretty much just admitted that she's not enough for you, what do you think happened?
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/18 09:31 PM
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Imo it’s because men rarely (if ever) get any actual sexual/romantic attention at all unless they are in a loving relationship or are ridiculously good looking. Most of the day is spent working and, I won’t lie, I myself am resentful that someone can just stand there and be adored by a bunch of people while I’m lucky for someone to smile at me
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/18 09:14 PM
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I know this is a month old but Never get married unless it's to a decent looking women who earns same or more than you. lol does not exist
/r/TheRedPill11/10/18 01:15 AM
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You sound like a fucking sociopath
/r/MarriedRedPill22/09/18 08:32 PM
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HMMM really convenient that it popped up a day or two after this whole banout nonsense
/r/TheRedPill13/09/18 09:41 PM
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This give me too much hope, what's the catch
/r/TheRedPill05/09/18 08:52 PM
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So what do you suppose we do about it? Just sit back and watch the world empty out?
/r/TheRedPill16/08/18 12:11 AM
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Damn it was a joke, calm down
/r/askTRP06/11/17 05:55 PM
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This needs much more attention.
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