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JacobfromCT/r/RedPillWomen22/03/19 01:36 AM
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The one thing I would counter with is the stereotypical male hobby you left out, weightlifting. It seems like it's mainly insecure men who promote the "meathead bro" stereotype or the myth that muscular men are either stupid, obnoxious or both.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 05:14 AM
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Right, FDS is all about keeping the price of sex as high as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 07:19 AM
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Of course not.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 04:52 AM
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Yes, males display and females choose.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 01:30 AM
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I'm assuming you mean that men can say no to women? Very few women approach men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 05:27 AM
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Tell that to Jordan shoes please.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 06:57 PM
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"Both sides choose depending on their demand" Due to the relative scarcity of female reproduction, women will always be in greater demand than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 06:46 PM
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Gotcha!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 07:19 AM
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If a girl agreed to be in a relationship with you but flatly said she is committed to remaining a virgin until death, would you still date her?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 07:12 AM
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I'm having a hard time following your given example. Could you clarify what you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 06:51 AM
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It may not be sex-based but women can take advantage of a man's economic desperation to cause him pain, suffering and degradation. It's a cold world out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 03:30 AM
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Not really sure who is obsessed with taking away women's economic independence as that's not what I said. The reason men care about their utility to women is because women select men on the basis of their utility. Men don't pick women, women pick men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 03:28 AM
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Just as long as you judge women who take advantage of men's financial desperation too.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 10:48 PM
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Right but at least the guy who straight up pays for sex is being more honest, no? No guy says to a girl "I'm paying for your food and giving you this gift so that you will like me and someday allow me access to your vagina" but we all know that's the subconscious long-term strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 10:32 PM
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I think it was the notable author Dan Ariely who said that every man pays for sex one way or the other. The guy who pays for his girlfriend's lunch and gives her gifts is essentially paying for sex, just on a delayed basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 10:14 PM
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People want to get laid. If a sex worker agrees to accept money in exchange for sex then who the fuck cares?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 10:11 PM
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"The enemy of masculinity isn't feminism, it's technology." Nassim Nicholas Taleb I get what you are saying, with the advent of modern technology women can basically do anything a man can do. Men's physical advantages mean nothing when most jobs require sitting at a desk all day. And while women's economic independence has had many benefits, it has also priced many men out of the dating/marriage market which could have many long-term ramifications. You should check out Jack Donovan's free e-book…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 10:09 PM
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I think most people are fairly realistic about what they can get. The everyday, typical average women may fantasize about dating a hot stud but she knows her dating pool is the average, everyday guy
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/21 08:15 AM
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Because everyone is influenced by the behavior of others, even when they don't consciously realize it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 05:09 AM
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Being turned down gently is still painful for many men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 06:25 AM
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The only thing worse than being catcalled is not being catcalled.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 05:37 AM
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Eh, I don't know. I'd like to see some studies or hard data on how often men react violently to rejection rather than anecdotes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 05:32 AM
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It’s ONE of the reasons. But often it’s simply being afraid of witnessing negative feelings that she caused, aka “feeling like the bad guy” I agree, despite what incels may think, I highly doubt many women genuinely get a rush of pleasure when they rejects a guy's advances.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 05:27 AM
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Let's be honest, there is no "right" way for a girl to turn down a guy. She's rejects him bluntly? She's a heartless bitch. She rejects him but tries to soften the blow by telling him he's a great guy first? She's manipulative and playing games.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 05:20 AM
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But what resources though? The only real resource they would have is food and a hunter-gatherer wouldn't be able to stockpile food, they didn't have any means to. Anthropologists believe that our hunter-gatherer ancestors were pretty egalitarian.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 07:50 PM
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I think it boils down to the different investments and risks that the two genders make in mating. For a man to reproduce all he has to do is ejaculate, a woman has to have the child develop in her womb, give birth and lactate to feed the baby. With more at stake for the women it makes sense that she would want a man with resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 10:52 AM
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I don't think hunter-gatherer tribes had any ancestral wealth, or any possessions at all besides tools and weapons. I don't think wealth and money came around until after the agricultural revolution.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 10:49 AM
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There's a book called Mating in Captivity that argues that when couples are too close, romance fizzles. You need distance to create real desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 05:52 AM
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That's great that you and your husband are so close! I don't mean novelty in terms of trying new hobbies, I mean novelty in terms of knowing someone. When you first meet someone there is a newness to it, there is mystery. What's this person like? What's their story? Once you've been with someone for many years the mystery fades.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 05:40 AM
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I agree with you on self interest. Women have an incentive to keep the "price" of sex high, and legalizing prostitution will inevitably lower the price.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 03:44 AM
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Yeah, cheating provides one thing that is eventually lost in a LTR, novelty.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 03:39 AM
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Men's testosterone levels go down when they are in a committed relationship and even more so when they become fathers. The risk-taking, arrogant guy in the beginning becomes more complacent and nurturing over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 03:37 AM
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If he's good looking. When a woman says "that guy's really handsome" she is basically saying "he has really good genes and if we had a child together it would have good genes, grow up healthy and strong and reproduce and keep my genetic lineage going." Hope that helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 10:08 AM
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Who says there has to be a ten year gap?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 08:34 AM
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No way, really?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 08:33 AM
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In her book Hormonal, Martie Haselton, who is described as "the world's leading researcher on how ovulatory cycles influence women's sexuality" talks about the sexy cad/good dad dilemma women face. Do they mate with the sexy cad who has great genes but probably wont be stick around? Do they pick the good dad who isn't hot but will help her raise the children? Or do they go for the best of both worlds, surreptitiously get pregnant by the cad and have the good dad raise the child as his own. This …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 07:51 AM
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"the reason why women make different choices about different individuals. At first glance it seems like it's really obvious to me, as a woman: that there is no uniform reason among women." There have been global studies asking thousands of women what they desire in a mate and the results have been shockingly consistent. Whether they are from Peru or Portugal, Canada or Cambodia, Egypt or Estonia, women like men who are tall, good-looking and have social status. This doesn't mean that the short, …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 07:37 AM
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I spend a great deal of time at the library and I definitely notice the quiet, awkward girls coming to get their books. They are not the stereotypical sorority/prom queen type girls, they aren't "hot", but they can be attractive. Some may be rail thin but have a cute face. Some may be pudgy but at least have a bigger butt and/or boobs. If you a female and are even somewhat attractive, dudes will notice you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 06:34 AM
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"but people grossly underestimate how social status plays a role" But men generally don't care for a woman's social status when it comes to attraction. A girl could have no real talents, no marketable skills and not be very interesting or bright but, if she looks good in a tank top and leggings, guys will be interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 06:07 AM
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If that's your experience I believe you but it's still somewhat hard to believe that a woman could spend time out in the world and never be spoken to by a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 06:05 AM
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In a strictly monogamous society, sure, but with monogamy declining it's possible that something like 30-35% of women are being selected by the top men. A good-looking high-status man can be fucking several women over a short period of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 09:22 AM
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If populations are roughly 50/50 gender wise, that leaves a lot of single men, which can lead to societal problems like increasing crime.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 09:13 AM
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But if 80% of women are competing for the top 20% of men that means a lot of average and below average women are picky, not just good women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 09:09 AM
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I once had a woman tell me that the men in New York are prettier than the women. She meant that in a bad way, to be clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 09:05 AM
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Did you read the second sentence of your own comment? Context, it's a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 08:16 AM
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Sure but there are a lot of fat depressive internet junkie women too.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 08:03 AM
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This right here, if you have 80% of women competing for the top 20% of men combined with the gradual breakdown of monogamy, you're left with some serious instability in the dating marketplace.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 07:57 AM
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I don't see how average guys could be seen objectively as losers. Average guys are...average. Average is the median. It would be like calling a student with a 2.0 GPA a failing student. A 2.0 is nothing to brag about but it's not failing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 07:51 AM
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But why does it have to be "only"? Is it possible to like a person's personality, their quirks, their mannerisms and also find them sexually attractive? If one of my female friends told me that she finds me attractive and wants to sleep with me, I highly doubt I would feel sad, I would feel extremely flattered.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 07:47 AM
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I don't think anyone faults women for not wanting to date crackheads but if women are viewing average men as "losers" then it becomes a big problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 06:25 AM
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How would you define "early"?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 06:14 AM
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What about a situation where the guy developed feelings for the girl well after the friendship started? If a guy asks a female friend on a date and she says no, I can't blame the guy for not wanting to be as close anymore. I've tried "let's just be friends" thing with a girl I really liked and, in my personal experience, it was emotionally, psychologically and even physically exhausting.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 06:11 AM
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I don't mean to sound dense but what if he did want something more? Is it wrong to want more than a friendship with a girl?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 03:29 AM
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What would be wrong about acting on it? Like, say they asked you on a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 03:27 AM
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Yeah, many men have recounted the experience of being a girl's "therapist friend."
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 01:51 AM
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"I have more faith in my friends than that" Could you explain what you mean by this? If one of your male friends admitted to being attracted to you, would you think less of him?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 01:45 AM
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I read about a guy who thought it was weird that no matter where he and his girlfriend went, they always ran into some guy she knew. That his girlfriend greeted every guy with an enthusiastic hug only added to his suspicion.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 08:34 AM
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