| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 204 | No good comes from being a Pickme.Hey, I just want to say that you don’t belong to the pickmeisha hall of shame. You made the brave decision of breaking up with a man you loved because you realized that you deserved better. You valued yourself. That’s not pickmeisha behavior. As for not leaving after the first red flags, I can totally understand. You loved him. Love clouds your judgement. But here’s the thing, you live and you learn. You now know how important red flags are. Don’t be too harsh on yourself, many of us here were o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 06:59 PM |
| 10 | Scrote tried justifying sex work to me on Reddit.Imagine betraying your fellow women to score cool points with men who would degrade you in a heartbeat. Can’t relate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 08:18 AM |
| 7 | Scrote tried justifying sex work to me on Reddit.IKR. I love watching them complain about how difficult minimum wage jobs are. Boo hoo. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 08:16 AM |
| 4 | Scrote tried justifying sex work to me on Reddit.Am I allowed to link stuff on the sub? If I can’t, feel free to check my comment history :). Or I can DM you if you’d like. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 10:30 PM |
| 31 | Scrote tried justifying sex work to me on Reddit.I follow it to laugh at the man children who cry about exploitation but are lazy POS who can only work blue-collar jobs because they refuse to upgrade their skills. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 08:17 PM |
| 44 | Scrote tried justifying sex work to me on Reddit.IKR. Plus, domestic supply of willing prostitutes act as a constraint in developed countries. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 07:21 PM |
| 50 | Scrote tried justifying sex work to me on Reddit.Surprisingly, my comment was upvoted by quite a few people…some even backed me up :0. It has more upvotes than the scrote’s comment lol. Yeah, I agree with you. Reddit men are mostly NVM/LVMs. I was just free today and I thought I’d try to stand up for women/spread awareness. His rebuttals enabled me to bring up even more evidence as to why sex work is horrendous. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 07:19 PM |
| 3 | Inside the 'battery cage': Prostitution in Germany where brothels are legal.Thanks for this. I’ll be using this source in the future. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 06:07 AM |
| 38 | Found in another sub, imagine thinking this is funny.This is what a no effort ring looks like. Also, the amount of disrespect in this picture is off the charts. Go hide behind the bush, you Neanderthal, or hold it in until you find an actual toilet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 06:05 AM |
| 7 | This is just ridiculous (don't forget to swipe)I just wanna say, that title is hilarious. Well done! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/21 12:53 PM |
| 1 | Vetting Men by their job positionDoctors. My mom’s best friend is a doctor and he’s so entitled. He thinks his gf should just bear with him ignoring her because he’s a “workaholic”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/21 03:10 AM |
| 3 | Safety bracelet that can send your location out or call 911 or your phone. Just saw this and thought some ladies might want to know about it.This is a wonderful product, thank you for sharing :). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 11:22 AM |
| 25 | “Can’t make a wife out of a ho*” and more bullshitI’m so happy for you. In my country, it’s even worse. Women are blamed for getting sexually assaulted. God forbid if you are a victim of sexual violence because almost no man will want you, even though it wasn’t your fault. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/21 02:10 PM |
| 45 | Legit fucking terrifying that men like this exist.Someone in the comments asked him if he killed animals as a kid and he said that he did but he’s “stopped now”. Future serial killer in the making. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/21 05:13 AM |
| 13 | These poor girls😭😭😭My heart breaks for these girls. They have no agency over their own lives and have to live according to the whims of negative value men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 08:57 PM |
| 17 | Has anyone else had this pop up on their Instagram feed being promoted by influencers? I don't even really know what to say. It appears to be a new dating app with a "bedroom feature" where you select your preferences.My favorite is cuddling :3. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 04:59 AM |
| 14 | Has anyone else had this pop up on their Instagram feed being promoted by influencers? I don't even really know what to say. It appears to be a new dating app with a "bedroom feature" where you select your preferences.These people don’t care whether women get off. All these activities are done to appeal to male sexual needs. I, for one, would love it if cunnilingus was more widely practiced. From what I’ve heard from women around me, men straight up don’t give any foreplay. Or if they do, it’s a half-hearted fingering (which doesn’t even hit the g-spot). It’s like men as a collective forgot that the clitoris exists. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 04:57 AM |
| 23 | This is why single women live longerNotice the 8 year age gap as well. 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/21 10:35 AM |
| 4 | Lundy Bancroft's book "Why does he do that" is an eye opener.Thank you for the link! It’s definitely a really difficult book to get through. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/21 05:06 AM |
| 12 | On a popular sub not even an incel sub, i used to enjoy that sub but good lord it's a circle jerk of misogyny. But men have great senses of humor right. As long as no one jokes about them.Jesus, what sub is this on? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 05:38 AM |
| 30 | Jimmy Kimmel segment where men struggle to answer the most basic questions about their girlfriends. Ladies, never settle for someone who doesn't take an active interest in your life.I feel so bad for the women :(. They’re laughing to hide the pain they feel at being slighted on national TV. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 04:26 AM |
| 44 | Men are grossHe liked being able to be stinky? 🤢 Girl, throw the whole man out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 04:18 AM |
| 15 | The FDS answer to everything. Kick him out, sis. Block and delete. Go live your best life.Omg xD I love this meme template. What’s it called? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 04:11 AM |
| 13 | So few words, so much accuracyI feel like this could swing the other way for pickmes as well. “I’ll tolerate my bf’s abuse because I have this romanticized idea of him in my head. I’m just waiting for him to act that way.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 04:06 AM |
| 15 | you’re doing what now?I was curious about BDSM some time back. Apparently, there’s a sub kink called “blood and sharps”. It’s about whipping women until they bleed, cutting, or stabbing them.🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 03:42 PM |
| 6 | The lowest of the low, that I've never thought possibleHow is he not in jail?! That poor woman, the justice system has failed her. How much do y’all wanna bet that when he gets hauled up by the police, he’s going to claim it was an “accident” and “BDSM gone wrong”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 03:39 PM |
| 98 | I Always Wanted to Date a Man I Could Look Up To. It Appears There Aren't Any.Every “educated” (PhD candidate) guy I’ve had the misfortune of conversing with is utterly condescending. They think they’re better than you if you have a bachelor’s or master’s. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 03:32 PM |
| 4 | Ladies, I’m a failureI’ve read all the comments and I really must thank you all for the support. It’s really heartwarming ❤️❤️❤️. I contacted a female friend of mine and she’s been helping me through this entire process. She’s a mutual friend of ours and even she thinks he’s acting like a dick. She wants me to tell all of our mutual friends about him but I don’t think I want to do that. I’m more afraid he’ll twist the narrative and turn them against me. I also know that while they’ve known him for longer, they’ll ta… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 07:41 PM |
| 8 | Correlation between paper and dice roleplaying games (e.g.: D&D) and LVM?I sell cards to magic the gathering players and the number of times my clients have tried to flirt with me (as a female player) is actually astounding. That being said, most of my male friends are into magic and they lead balanced lives. Maybe they’re the minority but magic isn’t a priority for them. They’ve got better things to do in life and are focused on advancing/bettering themselves. I can concur that they’re nerdy but I don’t think it makes them LVM in particular. I think the issue of LVM… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 06:40 AM |
| 1 | It's empowering!!! /sWtf why are all the comments supporting her pimping out these girls? Liberal feminism is so detrimental to women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 12:18 PM |
| 50 | OP drank the LibFem koolaid and posted nudes online... now the same redditors who jerked off are judging 😳🥸I hate how hypocritical men are. They consume pornography yet deride the people who produce it. They don’t see sex work as empowering, sex workers are mere objects to them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 10:50 AM |
| 45 | If a guy has a high "body count" he is probably a rapist.How the fuck can someone be unsure if they sexually assaulted someone? That’s bs. He knows what he’s done and just doesn’t want to confess as he’ll face repercussions for his actions. Fucking scumbag. I hope you are doing better, though. I’m so sorry you went through that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 10:37 AM |
| 3 | It's 100% not your faultI’m so sorry you went through that :(. Stay strong! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 10:35 AM |
| 211 | If a guy has a high "body count" he is probably a rapist.Can confirm, my abuser boasted about how many women he fucked before sexually assaulting me. He even told me “I don’t know what it is, but women with anxiety love being with me” My dumbass back then couldn’t see the massive red flag🤦🏽♀️. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 02:18 AM |
| 20 | It's 100% not your faultI told a male friend that I was viciously sexually assaulted and almost murdered and he went “did you enjoy it?” To be fair, the women in my life haven’t been much better but at least they didn’t ask me if I liked it. They mostly tell me to get over it because it “wasn’t that bad” and that I was “asking for it” because I trusted the guy who assaulted me. My mom even went so far as to say “oh, I know someone who’s actually been sexually assaulted. As in, she got abducted from the streets. You cho… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 02:14 AM |
| 3 | Don't date an asshole man child.Lol what. If he’s sooooo good at the game and got that rank, he can obviously earn it again. I play league of legends with my bf and even though I’m a really bad player, I enjoy the game and he doesn’t care that I make him lose some of his games. I guess I’m lucky that my bf is a gamer but actually has a life apart from gaming and isn’t completely engrossed in it. Imagine being this angry over an imaginary rank. Get a life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 06:52 AM |
| 6 | Don’t know if this one has been posted, but the absolute depravity of this man.I was in a BDSM situation 2 years ago. As in, I’d spoken about being curious about bdsm (mostly because it was so common in porn) but straight up told my abuser I didn’t want to engage in it with him. My abuser lured me to his house, locked me in his room, and wouldn’t let me go. He beat me so hard he left bruises on me and choked me until I almost passed out, while telling me how I was lucky that he wasn’t raping or killing me. He ended up sexually assaulting me so it was just shy of rape.I was… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 06:47 AM |
| 16 | I don’t even know what to say to this. This is just really sadBlegh. That guy is such an immature scrote. I don’t understand how anyone finds him appealing. I didn’t know he played league but I suppose he wants to pander to a larger audience. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 11:15 PM |
| 1 | A boyfriend you don’t like looking at naked, who STINKS?! I’d rather be single, thanks 😘Oh my god...I would never tolerate that. My bf always smells sweet (aka like soap) and he makes it a point to shave. This is basic hygiene. And how does the water turn brown?! How much poop do you have in your butt? Do you not wipe? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 11:08 PM |
| 2 | My gynecologist told me the REAL reason she shortens IUD strings- it's because men try to remove IUDs with out their partner's consent.The scrote who sexually assaulted me blindfolded me (I probably should’ve tried to run at this point but he was blocking the door) so I couldn’t tell if he put on a condom or not. Turns out he didn’t but I was fortunate enough that it didn’t result in pregnancy or an std. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 11:00 PM |
| 3 | I don’t even know what to say to this. This is just really sadWho is this guy? I play league of legends too but I don’t think I’ve heard of a top player do this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 10:51 PM |
| 1 | Luxury home in Montreal owned by Pornhub exec burned down in apparent arsonMaybe he should sell himself to a guy with a “bbc” that will painfully split his ass in two, call him a “filthy sl*t” and degrade him in other ways. Why not, right? Since he has no issue with subjecting women to that. He’s gotta pay off those repairs somehow 🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 10:08 AM |
| 49 | I'm a porn addict, my wife forced herself to watch with me instead of asserting healthy boundaries. Now we are divorcing, she resents me. It couldn't have been the porn. Anyone? 🤡Oh boo hoo, your wife doesn’t like you jerking off to other women, who would’ve thought. I like how he says she didn’t want to work on their marriage when HE was the one who messed it up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 02:02 PM |
| 227 | Weird Red Flags?Asking you “am I doing anything right?” when you get into an argument with him so that you have to ditch your point and reassure him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 06:35 PM |
| 3 | I’m Celebrating My Submission Of My (Final) Honors Essay Tonight!I’m so proud of you! I know how difficult honors can be and I’m so glad that you managed to persevere through it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 06:29 PM |
| 61 | Prof made us watch a documentary called “Cowboys in Paradise”, it truly highlights how disgusting men are.He wants us to write a reflection piece on it and ascertain who the “real” victims are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 04:44 PM |
| 2 | Concrete initial steps for decentering men from your lifeThank you for your kind words :). FDS is the only safe space I have. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 04:12 PM |
| 61 | Prof made us watch a documentary called “Cowboys in Paradise”, it truly highlights how disgusting men are.I agree. At least with prostitution, there’s a common agreement between both parties. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 04:10 PM |
| 3 | Left my husband due to his porn addiction. Feeling relieved, but also ashamed and pissed offYou’re not stupid! He’s the one who’s betrayed your trust. You were so generous, you went above and beyond to help this porn sick scrote and he betrayed you. Be frustrated at him, not at yourself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 02:38 PM |
| 3 | So fUnNy sO cUtEUgh, she can do so much better. Imagine having such little respect for your partner that you forget your anniversary. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 02:35 PM |
| 5 | Finally left abusive LVMI’m so sorry you experienced that! People who tend to accuse others of cheating are the ones most likely to cheat. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 02:17 PM |
| 4 | Pick me propaganda! This “advice” is clearly targeted towards women because 99% of men are going to get off regardless. Don’t excuse sexually incompetent men that don’t make an effort you off, there’s already way too many of those. Thank you. ☺️✨Lol...my boyfriend only focuses on my orgasm. He focuses on pleasuring me before himself and I love that about him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 02:14 PM |
| 5 | I am sexually liberated.Agreed! I tried BDSM for a bit after my abuser forced me into it but found that the reason I liked it was because of my low self-esteem and the drivel they feed us about needing to please men. Never again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 02:12 PM |
| 4 | I always wondered why the rest of reddit demonized this subredditI love this subreddit. I used to be pro sex-work/kink but this subreddit has opened my eyes to how men just utilize these narratives to degrade us. Thank you ladies ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 02:10 PM |
| 4 | Concrete initial steps for decentering men from your lifeI find this really difficult to do because I have no friends other than some male acquaintances and my bf and I’m a survivor of sexual assault. I used to feel like my only reason for existence was to please men and after my assault, I even blamed myself. For example, I used to think “that guy wouldn’t have sexually assaulted me if I wasn’t so vanilla and engaged in BDSM with him”. Therapy has helped immensely, as has my bf, but I’m always afraid I’m codependent on him. I try my best to do my own… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 02:08 PM |
| 4 | My wish for y’allOr an Indian man...I’m Indian myself and these guys are often so pampered by their mothers they think that they’re God’s gift to women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 02:02 PM |
| 4 | When pickmes and newbies talk about their "HVM"I wouldn’t call my bf a HVM, because I’m still judging him. So far, he has HV traits but as women, we should never let our guard down. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 02:01 PM |
| 14 | Internalized Misogyny ✊🏾 how have you personally been affected?I have male acquaintances and they constantly call me one of the boys. I used to feel flattered by that but now I’m just disgusted. I get that they want me to feel “included” in the group but surely it’s possible to not look at my gender and just consider me their friend? I’m a gamer too and there’s this one guy who always helps me out since I’m pretty bad and everyone else calls him a simp. =_= | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 02:00 PM |
| 29 | A 49 year old man has an ✨epiphany✨ and people in the comments thank and praise him for his 'insight'🙌 and give him lots of awards 🏅🏅🏅The bar for men is in hell. They expect praise for doing BASIC household chores. I bet she works on top of managing all the housework while this clown goes 50/50 and doesn’t contribute to the chores. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 01:51 PM |
| 11 | Throw him away, you deserve betterHer first mistake was helping to pay off HIS debt. My bf is going to school and had to take a loan. He would never dream of asking me to pay off his debt for him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 01:25 AM |
| 2 | This article made me sick!🤮Imagine selling out to portray child sexual abuse...This is absolutely revolting. I’m disgusted and appalled. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 04:36 PM |
| 4 | A clown in his natural habitatWow...apparently violence against women is a joke? What kind of monster wants to kick anybody (especially someone they “care” about) into traffic? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 04:14 PM |
| 3 | Is it only fair to blame the sex works ?“Adult girl” lol. What an idiot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 07:05 AM |
| 1 | Don’t let your guard down for a single second ladies... Exhibit A as seen on AskTRPThis is disgusting. I can’t believe they just think of women as objects for their sexual gratification. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 07:04 AM |
| 1 | Ohio State Grooms Students into Sex WorkThat’s so depressing. My university (not gonna name it directly but I will say it’s currently the 11th best university in the world according to QS) was going to have a seminar on safe bondage. Luckily, there was enough societal pressure to get it cancelled. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 06:22 PM |
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