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On the contrary. I detest him and his shitty, shitty writing. I’ll never forget the day one of my students told me he aspired to write like Derrida. Rene Girard, though, he’s a super fun read.
/r/seduction05/12/19 03:43 AM
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I know this thread is old, but it was at the top as a hot post so I just started reading. Your comments have been spot on. I have no idea why everyone was downvoting you- oh right, because they don’t understand women.
/r/seduction04/12/19 05:34 AM
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Just remember that women want to be attracted to you. They get bitchy when they aren’t feelzing that attraction, like your girl telling you to leave. She’s pissy that you are making her be the man (by not escalating, by letting (making) her initiate). You need to up the dominance. That’s likely all it is. She needs to feelz like the woman. Easy ways to act more dominant- more ass slaps, firmer hands, always be escalating. If she gets bitchy or tests you in a way you don’t like, you can always sa…
/r/seduction04/12/19 05:17 AM
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No, it’s not the best way to react. It looks butthurt and autistic. She saved him from walking out, but most wouldn’t. It’s a perfectly great response IF it’s delivered with an ass smack (the smack on the ass is you calling her on it). When a woman who likes you begins to get pissy and mean like this, it’s because you haven’t escalated fast enough, haven’t shown much dominance, etc. So it’s fine to say you’re going to leave, but you need to up the dominance to get the desired effect. Or you coul…
/r/seduction04/12/19 04:29 AM
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Because she’s pissed off that he didn’t escalate sooner because now he’s seeming more and more unattractive to her. She doesn’t want that. She wants to be attracted. She forgave his being a pansy when she asked him to lay down when he planned to leave. But his response to her did not cause any attraction- granted, it’s better than him having a hissy fit, but it’s not a good response at all. The only way to make “okay, I have groceries to get anyway,” into a good response is to deliver it with a …
/r/seduction04/12/19 04:03 AM
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See the comments in this thread before you proceed.
/r/askMRP30/11/19 01:05 AM
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Sounds good. I stand corrected. You offer great advice and something to strive for.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/11/19 05:00 PM
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Isn’t it “soul sucking” to go to work every day and know you’ll have to do this until you retire or die? Isn’t the responsibility of having everything on your shoulders absolutely crushing? Yet men do it every day, for their entire lives once they are out of school. To provide for themselves, their wives, their children. It seems like it doesn’t matter what job it is. And anyone who has ever worked a comfy desk job knows that they aren’t too comfy, after all. You work one- do you agree with me? …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/11/19 04:47 AM
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Are you dominant in your interactions with her outside the bedroom? From how you describe your wife’s actions, it seems like you’re not. For her to be submissive in bed you need to be dominant outside of the bedroom also. Work on your frame and dominance. This will help create the trust she needs to submit. She’s bored in bed because she needs more dominance from you. She’s not going to submit if you’re being a pansy.
/r/askMRP18/11/19 12:26 AM
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Your comment is great. I think I understand my husband a lot better now. I’m not OP but I appreciate this.
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/19 04:27 AM
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If you do want button downs for under sweaters or to cover cleavage and such, try out a few fake collars (a dickey). I love them and wear them often. I usually need to alter them just a bit, but it is generally not involved. I did have to take one to the tailor but it was a cheap fix. I could’ve done it myself if I had been braver.
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/19 03:14 AM
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Let me know if you find it online. I’ve been looking also.
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/19 04:10 PM
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Art of Seduction by which author?
/r/RedPillWives07/10/19 04:21 PM
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Get a hip band and a pair of adjustable weight dumbbells with iron plates to put you at 100 lbs total or so. Buy an extra dumbbell with collars to use for hip thrusts. That one will be far heavier than the dumbbells you use for the other lifts. Now you have two dumbbells set to about 14 or so lbs (two plates plus the weight of dumbbell plus collars) and you will use these for everything- except hip thrusts, which you have a heavy one for, maybe 30-35 lbs starting out (four 5 or 8 lbs plates plus…
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/19 01:16 AM
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Which mod?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/19 05:30 AM
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Forget about attachment style. It’s long been known that women are attracted to men who are willing to walk. Go check out MRP if you don’t believe me. You need to make your hypergamy work for your marriage. This can be done. Forget about it not being “healthy” to want to work to keep a man. Women are happiest in marriage when they are serving and pleasing their alpha. Get that book I recommended earlier (how to improve your marriage without talking about it), work on the mindset shift, and begin…
/r/RedPillWives04/09/19 12:21 AM
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Get the book How To Improve Your Marriage without Talking About It by Stosny and someone else. The first half of the book definitely helped reawaken passion, yearning, and desire for my husband, as it gave me great insight into how he feels as a provider and husband. It was an absolutely necessary mindset shift and I reread it often. Seriously, buy the book today. You could also talk to him about sex. Tell him you like to be thrown around, you like to feel his strength and power (if you do like …
/r/RedPillWives03/09/19 12:19 PM
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I consciously (flirtatiously) shit test my husband in front of my boys all the time. My husband says it’s good for them to see how to deal with girls. He did have to tell the kindergartner that it is not okay to slap a girl on the bum at school (my husband is always slapping my ass). It seems my son has listened to his dad about this (thank god!) and tells the little girls things like, “show me that you can be a sweetheart me now,” “well aren’t you a sweetheart?” A girl at the park called him a …
/r/TheRedPill03/09/19 04:06 AM
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Home management plain and simple saved my life and my sanity. It’s very very useful if you have children. Buy it today and then join my pact to offer my soul to Kim Brenneman. Buy it now and reread every year.
/r/RedPillWives15/08/19 12:09 AM
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Please do post more there, and on the parenthood one as well. In our few exchanges you helped me a lot with my young boys. I turned many things around with them and changed my mindset (and theirs) due to your advice.
/r/askMRP07/08/19 11:23 PM
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Check out this thread and the comments. I’d first look at the two Nicola Method ebooks. See if that gives him something simple to go on.
/r/askMRP12/03/19 11:02 PM
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Practical Female Psychology for the Practical Man is absolutely brutal. It is a great book, but it is brutal. I do not think it is into level material at all. I did not recommend it to my father, and I don’t think I would. Because you did find the book useful, as did I, I’d like to ask if you can recommend any other books in the same vein. I’ve been looking around other similar material.
/r/askMRP31/12/18 12:43 AM
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After my father was interested in the few tidbits I gave him on the phone while he was bitching about his wife (not my mother), he called me and asked a little more. I asked if he would like me to email him short ebooks that help with diffusing anger and rage when women get crazy and try to fight. He said yes, so the first thing I sent him were the two free ebooks from the Nicola Method, which helps partners of high conflict women; these are not listed on MRP, but I found it through a poster her…
/r/askMRP30/12/18 12:37 AM
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Okay. I didn’t realize it came off as me thinking that being a woman was an achievement at all. That was not what I intended. I read the sub rules and saw that it was okay for me comment, and I wanted to make it clear that I am coming from the wife’s point of view so as to not cause any confusion or pretend to be who I am not. What OP described seemed so much like what my husband and I were experiencing, down to the little details. I’ll continue to read the subs quietly in order to improve mysel…
/r/askMRP08/10/18 11:57 AM
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I certainly hope this is a positive comment. I’ve heard unicorns used as someone special, but I don’t think I’m that special or my situation is. Perhaps things just had to get exceedingly shitty with my relationship for both myself and my husband, and without getting that shitty I wouldn’t have made the changes and opened myself the way I have. I feel like I’ve done a lot of work on myself and our relationship to turn it around. I read RedPillWives for quite a while but it never helped much. It …
/r/askMRP07/10/18 05:21 PM
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I am a woman. I began reading this sub, the parent sub, and the RedPillWives sub in an attempt to fix my marriage (but not Red Pill Woman; that sub is a shitshow). I just read the community rules and saw that it is okay for women to comment and give advice on this sub, unlike MRP. OP, all these men commenting are absolutely right. I thought that you might need to hear it from a woman. My husband and I were in the same situation as you until I read enough on here and MRP to become brave enough to…
/r/askMRP07/10/18 12:56 AM
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Do you have a link to this?
/r/MarriedRedPill27/06/18 04:55 AM
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