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if OP is talking about how to attact "both girls and women" that makes the post take on a much more sinister tone than I initially thought. In defending the use of "females" this way, you're making it sound even creepier. Not sure that helps your case. Could you point me to where I said "using female is sexjst," btw? I don't recall saying that but I'm open to being mistaken. Nice try. I said "girls or women" not "girls and women". And even if I didn't, he could be saying attracted to girls in th…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 03:55 AM
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Mine, because you can almost always replace the word "female" with "woman" in a sexist statement and it would still be a sexist statement. "Females can't drive" "Women can't drive" Is it not sexist now? Attacking the word female is something that radical extremist have latched on to, and I can even argue is somewhat racist. Female is the more appropriate term in many use cases - as we are usually talking about something that can be observed in both girls or women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 03:10 AM
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The "females" issue is absolutely something my friends and I notice and talk about irl Female means girl or woman according to the dictionary. It's factually not sexist.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 02:38 AM
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Men going for inexperienced women shows that they lack competence and experience themselves and thus have to target women who are easier to fool and manipulate. On the contrary, women with alot of "experience" that are still single are emotionally broken by men and a headache to deal with.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 07:29 PM
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Agree to some extent. At least restructure welfare to not assist you more if you have more kids. Idk about the birth control stuff. I would add legalize prostitution and polygamy. Women claim to support legal prostitution but are never in a rush to propose the law to be changed in a way that would "benefit men". If you believe in gay marriage (most women do) you she ne able to have multiple spouses. This would fix the "chad" problem (along with no child support/alimony) because chad will just ta…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 10:55 AM
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Nature only matters to women when it benefits them. "Consent" doesn't exist in nature but you don't see women complaining about that
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 10:42 AM
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Now add in the men that are in jail ( i believe 5x as many) or dead because they are a bigger target for non sex crimes. It's like saying "if you take out all the zeros in my grade book I would have had the highest average grade in the class".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 12:17 AM
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But they aren't looking because they gave up
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 11:16 PM
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this is also from pew research
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 10:56 PM
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Don't know where you get your numbers. 60% of men in their 20s are single compared to 30% of women. This is most relevant to current dating trends and not including 60 year old married couples. The numbers become even as they get older because women run out of options.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 09:50 PM
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exactly 🤣 all this tells most women is that men will eventually stop “loving” us and that we probably shouldn’t rely on them in the first place. If all they care about is youth and beauty and both of those things are extremely temporary then why should we care about being with them? Or maybe you’re marrying the wrong person. Maybe if you didn't take turns dating the 20-30% of men who get attention from women they wouldn't leave you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 05:26 AM
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A man doesn't only solely take into account the person's age. He will take a variety of factors into account. And women can easily meet those standards. The factors that hurt women like being overweight and having kids are avoidable for women. Men can't meet women's physical height requirements. I'm just trying to illustrate that when we talk about "pickier," it completely depends whether we're talking about just dates/sex or we're talking about a committed relationship/marriage. Women have both…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 01:53 PM
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This happens to older women not women in their 20s. That same women was able to get a relationship in her 20s and men are 100% less likely to be in a relationship. It also perpetuates the standard that men have to propose - like why don't all these women get down on a knee to men?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 12:36 PM
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It you were able to take the percentage of people men and women are willing to date, men are willing to date a significantly higher proportion of women. Therefore women are Pickier.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 11:23 AM
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No one knows. But it seems to really pass women off when what they deem to be unattractive men dating women out of their league. Virgin men are considered "losers" and virgin women are "high class" so even though they are equivalents, women don't like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 05:41 AM
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Ok, well they will get overwhelming negative comments from women expressing their "preferences", even though those women tend to have obscure preferences themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 03:17 AM
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If a man says he would only date a virgin even as a virgin himself you would think he started WW3.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 02:43 AM
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They are choosing not to though. Because they are not sexist like the frat bros. There is no might be just as abusive, they are not bas abusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 07:37 PM
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I outline in a previous comment the most likely to be sexual abuser frat bros and loud types of guys. The idea that guys in their mom's basement playing video games are sexual abuser is sexist fan faction. Women look down on those guys and assign negative traits to them unfairly.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 07:19 PM
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It's called sarcasm
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 07:12 PM
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But it's less likely to be an asshole if you're quiet and awkward. The poster children for sexist men are Trump and Andrew Tate. Are they quiet and awkward?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 07:12 PM
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Yea because they really let you know they are a fuckboi and women have a fuckboi radar.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 07:10 AM
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Most sexual assault happen from acquaintances. Frat bros and guys that go to parties are the kost misogynistic men who engage in "locker room talk". Even in media , people like Trump and Andrew Tate fit the description and have sexual assault cases. But if you ask women, nerdy awkward guys are playing world of warcraft in the day and raping women at night. Clearly they just are assigning negative traits to unattractive men. It's the same thing men do when they characterize fat or obese women as …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 06:49 AM
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It's fascinating to me that the men here insist on consistently characterizing any man who happens to be awkward, quiet, and/or ugly as "safe". They are by all accounts of logic and reasoning better on average by a significant margin. Also "fascinating" that women tend to ignore this and date assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 06:03 AM
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Yes, but the women I date are not 'average'. It's the average age gap not average women. AFAIAC, a man 3-4 years older is in the same age cohort. And the level of resources b/w men 3-4 years apart isn't going to be that great. Many people do not save. Look at the Boomers alone; they were given the ball 1st and goal on the 1 and most of them fumbled. Factual untrue. The level of resources of someone 3-4 years older is higher for a reason. They are not dating slightly older men for the hell of it.…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 09:01 PM
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Only on an absolute number basis, however given the relatively few women who are into older men (in my case MUCH older men) this should have no impact on any individual man AND the reality is that women who prefer older men exclusively aren't going to bang a young man anyway. The average woman dates a man 3-4 years older, even 20 year old women. You are absolutely taking young women from young men. The level of resources a man 3-4 years older has is mostly going to be greater so of course they w…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 07:33 PM
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Because you are taking the women in their 20s from the new men in their 20s by being a sugar daddy. If you care about men as a whole you wouldn't enable women's hypergamy fetish.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 02:44 AM
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Look at the men Ariana grande married and dated. She's is like 5 ft tall 90 pounds. Her "looks match" is a 5 ft 5 skinny 110 lb man, which women would consider unattractive. You have a skewed view of "looksmatch" like most women if you think and short underweight girl should be dating a 6 ft 5 bodybuilder.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 04:25 AM
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Which is why I used Valentina Sampaio instead. She undeniably has masculine features and is undeniably beautiful. Why? Because it's way easier to fit the woman standard of beautiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 06:55 AM
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Very tall women are just as unlucky as very short men. This is incorrect. Literal models who are stereotypically considered beautiful are tall women. You started the conversation and brought up attractiveness by saying that if Ariana Grande was a man she would be seen as a creep Because short women are also considered beautiful. Men have to be taller than average and muscular which is such a small percentage of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 06:52 AM
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Most men aren’t going after women that are 6’ 5” when he average height of a man is 5’ 7”. Men prefer softer features rather than masculine ones. Bella Hadid does not have masculine features! At the same time when there are lists of women that men find very attractive Bella isn’t usually on there. It’s more like Scarlett Johansson, Emma Watson, Margo Robbie, A 6 ft 5 woman is 13 inches taller than average which is the equivalent of a 7 ft tall male. A 6 ft 5 woman is still probably getting more …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 04:27 AM
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No he wouldn't. He would look like what most female models look like. A more attractive tall woman, which men are also attracted to. You will never see a man say he's not attracted to Bella Hadid because she's tall and has masculine features. Men are attracted to women taller and shorter, skinny and muscular and everything in between.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 04:11 AM
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The beauty standard for women is much lower for women than men. Women are not better looking than men. A short skinny "exotic" and "cute" looking woman like Ariana Grande or Jenna Ortega would be a 5 foot 5 creep if they were born men. Then women go around saying they look better - no men are less picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 03:13 AM
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"I posted in a porn subreddit and 1000 guys wanted to have sex therefore I know all men just want sex". Serious question, do you have a mental disorder? Imagine if a man said "I went to the strip club and all the women wanted to have money therefore all women are gold diggers".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 08:11 PM
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Idn about overwhelmingly.The women of today will reject it but of the next generations they would accept it. I'm old enough to remember 20-25 years ago, when everyone who talked to friends online were considered complete losers. And dating online was considered for the worst of the worst borderline pedos. Then 10 years later women were having one night stands on Tinder like it was nothing. Fast-forward to today and you are going to have a hard time dating without a robust social media presence o…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 06:48 PM
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It doesn't exist in society where women have rights because society refuses to change laws that would vastly improve men's lives over women. But there isn't anything inherently wrong with polygamy, it's essentially illegal because of man hate. Women are more than willing to be single rather than that. Many of them are, many aren't. And as time goes on it will become more socially acceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 05:59 PM
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There are still matriarchal societal factors at play. For instance, why isn't polygamy legal? Like you said, gay men are hornier and many of them are in open relationships. If polygamy was legal and normalized, women would be eventually forced to share the smaller percentage of guys they take turns "dating" (like gay men share).
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 05:27 PM
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Which is why men should get snipped or ensure multiple methods of birth control is used or they stay celibate. That’s what they tell women 🤷‍♀️ That position makes sense if you don't believe in abortion but you do believe in abortions. How are you claiming safe haven laws are infrequent because of abortions? Save haven doesn’t cost money. Women who know they won't be raising their child are going to get an abortion before the need safe haven laws. Also no one I'd not getting an abortion because …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:57 AM
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But then there’s NO BABY TO SUPPORT But the question was show me where their is a baby and women can get out of paying child support. Women aren't giving up a baby with a financially well off man in the picture because they can just get child support from that man. Safe haven laws is infrequent because of abortions. 74% of women get abortions because they can not afford it. And their are over half a million abortions a year. But men who can't afford a baby have a gun put to their head by women t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:32 AM
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When did I ever say women don't have to pay child support? You said men have to pay child support because they have a hand in making a baby. But this isn't the case for women because of safe haven laws. So naturally the amount of men who pay child support is going to be higher because if a woman has a child with a man she knows isn't going to pay she will give it away. If there is a child, you show me where in developed countries women are not partially responsible for “raising” the baby - wheth…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:12 AM
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Women have safe haven laws where they don't have to have a hand in supporting a baby. Men are at the mercy of whether a woman wants them around or wants them to pay child support. They can also get an abortion. This is part of the reason 90% of child support is payed by men. If a woman knows she doesn't want the baby she has ways of getting rid of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:03 AM
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You should have the option to opt out of child support like women have the option to not raise a baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:53 PM
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Compared to the rest of their life successful men have dating issues. Of course most (over 50%) of successful men don't have dating issues. But it should be over 95% considering that's around their success rate in other aspects of life and it's not even close.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 04:44 PM
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If this was true why do the most successful men have dating issues? Because Women are attracted to degenerate behavior to some degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 12:21 AM
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Didn't say that. When women say things like "guys don't know how to take pictures" they mean they don't hide their imperfections like women. An overweight woman never takes a full body pictures. A girl with a blemish takes a picture with her hand covering it. This is deception. Why do men have to take women out to a expensive place, for example? Pretending that everyday they wear a tuxedo. Men can't just be themselves because they won't get attention over the guy who drives a car he can't afford…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 09:39 PM
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Tech bros that "live on screens" are no where near as successful in dating as other aspects of life. Because it's not about being successful it's about deceiving women. What is so wrong with them if not?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 09:21 PM
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People act like 15% is a low number. 15% is huge, considering 99.99% want sex how are 15% not getting it? Also, most men have to date down to get women so it's not the same for women who are dating up.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 08:03 PM
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It's work because you cant just stick your dick out and get off like glory holes. The most educated and successful men in every other aspect of life tend to struggle with dating. It's hard work because none of the rules applicable to other aspect of society don't work. You have to be slightly deceiving and put on a fake persona to impress them to date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 07:57 PM
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the opposite is a guy who plays video games and watches sports.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 11:50 PM
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My thought process is while male abuse is on the rise Idk, beating your wife was pretty normalized 100 years ago and even worse before that. And ironically, there is your reason. Men today treat women better than they ever had and I can't say the same for women. They are alienated because women are assholes too but not allowed to talk about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 04:36 PM
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It does tho." Signed, The Bros. Yeah, no. Data would suggest the most attractive women have less sexual partners. The most educated, highest earning women have less sexual partners. Most female engineering students don't have 2 babies by two different guys; virgin women are generally more attractive. I think the reason women get so mad at this is because they are not the virgin women and it's not true in the case of men. A large portion of virgin men are in their mom's basement playing world of …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 06:13 AM
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If you look at the women on r/thick, most men are attracted to them so they are attracted to a wide range including fat girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 02:40 PM
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Because it's not true for black women but it's true for all other women
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 06:05 AM
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Which laws? Reproductive rights is one area. The idea that control of a woman's reproductive functions is still being debated is ludicrous. How can it be irrelevant when it's the single most important factor in most women's lives, sexual or otherwise? Apart from a legal perspective, there are many, many ways society's approval or disapproval works toward encouraging women to repress their natural sexual feelings. How could you not have noticed this? Slut-shaming, n-counting, etc? Abortion laws a…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 08:26 AM
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Most of the world, even the western word doesn't agree with this. The age of consent is 15 in Sweden, a much more progressive country than the USA. And it is 16 in alot of places including the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 02:28 AM
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Society "limits the choice" for men by denying women the right to determine their own sexuality. Repressing and denying their sexual nature is not women "doing better". It's definitely not the same thing as what's caused by limited communications. What laws are denying women a choose in their sexuallity? This is irrelevant. So, being able to seduce children, avoid financial commitments to women as well as to their own offspring, rent women's bodies like they do cars and enter into fraudulent mar…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 12:22 AM
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You meant "gay marriage have only lasted for 20 years max" so their is something incorrect but nothing triggered over
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 04:27 PM
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I don't think online dating will fix anything like op, but society "limits the choice" for men all the time which has created an imbalance where women do better. The age of consent laws, alimony, child support, illegal prostitution, illegal polgamy, and more exist to improve the sex life of women and make it worse for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 02:56 PM
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You said "gay marriages can only last for 20 years max" as if the marriage has a warranty and is null and void after 20 years
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 02:41 PM
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Again, not talking about Trump, talking about people who are loud and obnoxious like Trump.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 11:28 PM
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I'm not talking about his fame or fortune, I'm talking about his personality. He boasts and brags about every little thing despite barely knowing what he's doing. Women love this over the quiet guy. Silicon Valley is filled with a bunch of quiet guy making $200,000 with degrees from MIT who never had a girlfriend while obnoxious misogynistic dude bros have no problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 07:53 PM
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Examples? And I never said be equal on all metrics because it's impossible. But when women usually play the "men and women complement each other" game, it's to justify them dating up in almost every metric and dating someone that's better at life than them. The average women date significantly higher payed, older, smarter, more mature, more fit, taller, ect men and I could go on. This isn't them playing the societal role of men and women, it's them being shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 06:22 PM
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Literally the most common type of relationship so you have no point.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 05:33 PM
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Not talking about older and rich guys. In general guy with his obnoxious dude bro personality, or as women call it "confidence". You definitely don't need to be mentally ill to sexual assault women. You just need to be misogynistic enough to not care about consent. The situations where women are most likely to get assaulted are when they are around the loud frat bro types, not the quiet ones. Women hate on "nice guys" the same way men hate on fat women. They assign loose stereotypes that could f…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 02:22 PM
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But men who act exactly like him never have any problems with women. Women love guys who act like that. And guys who act like that are the ones sexually assault women which is worse than the quiet ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 07:17 AM
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Different things like Different body parts. If you are a short person wanting a tall person or a non virgin wanting a virgin you are a hypocrite.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 06:44 AM
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Because men know better. The most sexist, chauvinistic, abusive, violent, misogynistic men are the "fun" nice guys. Think of the orange presidential. He is your quintessential charming chad and women love guys thatbact like that when he is their mascot for sexist men. But women seem to think the worse men are the quiet ones who got mad at getting rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 06:35 AM
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Women don’t care about absolute stats, they care about relative stats. They want top percentile. This is why men can go to poor countries and have way better results.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 07:53 PM
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how is the relationship statuses of 20-somethings is related to whether men treat super attractive women better than average women The average woman is in a relationship, the average man is not. plenty of guys would settle for an average girl, it doesn't mean he's treating her good And just because they are with an attractive girl doesn't mean they are treating her good. Literally the most high profile domestic violence case is Rihanna. This is a moot point. studies show that men, not women, sen…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 12:29 AM
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They were all good looking but not hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 01:37 PM
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It's 60% to 30% for women and men in their 20s respectively. You say it wasn't true that average women are treated way better, but the 50 percentile of woman (average is in a relationship while the 50 percentile of man isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 11:42 AM
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How is it misleading? Both of these stats can be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 08:47 PM
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The best part is, anytime I talk to a guy like this in private it fucking blows my mind how misogynistic they are Literally. In 2017 before crypto was a mainstream red flag a 29 year old cryptobro was hired at my job, ran through almost a dozen of 19 year old cashiers and broke up with them in a few weeks. Many of them always said they had had no interest in dating coworkers then he came along.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 08:45 PM
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Literally data that says 60% of women are in relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 08:38 PM
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You do know what money and status brings right? Money and status is being able to afford a car and have a social life they are attracted to. Money and status is being able to afford a prescription skincare routine and be more attractive. Money and status is being able to afford to go to yoga classes and the gym a have a physique they are attracted to. Money and status correlates to having a certain level a education to intellectually stimulate them. This is why you see all these women complainin…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 07:50 PM
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I never said this. Part of being attractive to them is money and status. "Betabux" men are better at life then the women they date so that's why they are attracted to them. But they aren't attracted to men of equal status.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 07:36 PM
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This is more true of men not women. Women overwhelmingly date people with similar or more money than them. Why can they almost never fall I'm love with a guy making min wage? Are they all unattractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 07:30 PM
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Because if 80% guys that they "aren't attracted to" pulled up in a Lamborghini they would be attracted 50% of them. So they are not actually not attracted to them, they are just being excessively picky. When men say they aren't attracted to a woman no amount of money or status will change that. They might use them for money, but they won't actually be attracted to them. I feel like Hasbulla is genuinely more attractive to women than most men and they that is ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 07:24 PM
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Also women all over the world can have different standards, so bullying them definitely does work.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 09:27 PM
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They struggle to date average woman. Most men date down which is why people say "most average guys I see are in relationships". Yea with women they are smarter, older, make more money, and/or are in better shape than.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 08:45 PM
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Every study I can find says mail order brides divorce at at lower rate.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 03:45 PM
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There is the subreddit r/MailOrderBrideFacts
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 03:28 PM
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Women only date men who are "better at life than them". Go to a country where the average woman makes $2 an hour and you will meet that standard more often.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 03:10 PM
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But women usually never go down in the status of men they date and carry the expectations of previous men. A 40 year old divorced women making 80k isn't looking for casual sex with an average 18 year old man. They do the same thing young women do - look for men who are "slightly better" than them. But those men are already taken or usually dating women that are "slightly better" than them because the power dynamics flip at that age.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 08:38 PM
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Now say abortion should be be banned because women don't need sex. People only take this holier-than-thou stance against needing sex when it's about men not getting it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 07:01 AM
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It’s not even addressing the actual points. I don’t wanna just be eye candy. I want to be able to discuss philosophical and scientific things with. The problem is mostly women who say they wouldn't date a blue collar worker for these reasons have nothing in common with the men that hold certain white collar jobs they wouldn't have a problem with. Tech is overwhelming men dominated and women rarely say they wouldn't date someone in those fields which they could know nothing about. But let a guy b…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 06:52 AM
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It's chicago
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 12:38 PM
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Why
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 11:47 AM
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When I walk past bars or clubs (where most women are wearing high heels) I'm shorter than 90% of the people I wall by. I'm 5'8.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 07:44 AM
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Sex is only not important when you are talking about twice as many men not getting any because it validates how hard their lives are. If we were talking about abortion and I said "women should just not have sex problem 99% solved" they would go on a tirade as if sex is the most important thing in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 01:20 AM
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Not allowing people to date someone in a vastly different social economic status. I.e. No more dating guys who make twice as much money as you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 12:57 AM
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Okay well how about men raise their standards and find better women instead of expecting us to change ours? You can be progressive and support groups of people without wanting to date them, this isn’t a friendship, im sharing my life, body and mind with you so yes I will be picky. I support lgbt, I have turned down a lesbian and I would never date a trans person, I still support their community You picked the worst example on purpose. Being gay or straight is acceptable and turning down a lesbia…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 07:03 AM
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Well I mean who would willingly want to date some loser who’s going no where in life? Um men? Ironically, young women are the ones who politically claim to be progressive and against discrimination against poor people. But in reality, men overwhelmingly are willing to date "losers going no where in life". You can look at the marriages of immigrants by country or "passport bros" as proof of this. relationships with someone and I do feel empathetic to it, humans are naturally meant to have a partn…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 05:49 AM
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Most people have age as a standard. It doesn't matter if they look or act good you probably don't want to date someone 15 years older than you
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 04:49 AM
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Most people would never admit this though and not see the hypocrisy. If you don't date black people be open about it and reap the consequences. This manifest in the real world by women being the most left leaning people politically while data shows they disproportionately date men at the top with "privilege"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 04:12 AM
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But it’s not up to u to say which standards are acceptable Society does say what standards are acceptable. The age of consent is an example of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 04:09 AM
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Problem solved boys. Just get 500 million dollars.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 01:26 AM
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Society has laws about who you can hire or date. You can't not hire a pregnant woman and can't date a underage person. You can expand those laws...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 02:03 AM
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The difference is some standards are acceptable and some aren't. And many people are hypocritical with their standards and the rest of their beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 08:43 PM
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No. Just like their are acceptable and unacceptable reasons to hire someone, their are acceptable and unacceptable reason to date someone. Their are obvious differences like gender and attractiveness ect. Bur their are still reasons, like hiring where it is unacceptable to discriminate like race and national origin.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 08:41 PM
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By shaming someone for their standards, you just admit you are below those standards. And that you want that person to drop those standards out of pity for you. It's such a pathetic stance to have. No it doesn't. It's just calling out hypocrisy and rules for thee not for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 08:36 PM
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I don't think it's obviously since many people on this sub would deny any biases exist
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 08:31 PM
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Actually, this is a gender neutral law. It’s equally illegal for women to buy sex from men. Therefore, it’s not misandristic. Great. You must think banning abortion is a gender neutral law because it's equally banning abortion for men right?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 11:39 AM
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Literally not changing the topic or avoiding anything. You can't name a time period that was essier to build wealth then now.Just take the L.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 08:48 PM
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It's your claim that "you can earn wealth better than anytime in human history" that's simply not true. This absolutely is true and I already gave examples why. The idea of earning wealth didn't exist for women until very recently. That's 50% of the population that could have never earned wealth 300 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 06:37 PM
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There is a stock every few years where if you bought it 25 years ago it would make you a millionaire, you just haven't found it. No one thought the internet book company would be what it is today. Horrible example. 25 years ago is still "today" as in modern times. You think society was more fair when when could go to school 100 years ago? Or when black people weren't real people 200 years ago? Or when you would get you head chopped off for speaking out against the king 1000 years ago? Absolutely…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 06:08 PM
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And the irony in this is young women are the most left leaning anti capitalism group in the country until dating comes up where they basically tell men to pick themselves up by their bootstraps.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 04:46 PM
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And we live in a time where you can earn wealth better than anytime in human history
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 04:42 PM
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You bring up income which is one of the worse examples of women not wanting equal men because they are forced to work anyway unless the are rich. There is the age gap is also a huge power dynamic which also correlates with intelligence and life experience. Fitness level. Men are in better shape then women. Look at any gym or sporting event and who are the people there most of the time? Men. Height - women disproportionately date taller men than them and taller by a wider margin than the average …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 08:15 AM
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Well I know someone that makes $70 an hour as a yoga instructor
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 10:32 PM
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Men are hornier so demand for women is higher than the reverse and that’s the way our species rolls Don't know if this is true sounds like a stereotype. There’s no such thing as “fairness” in a sexual market place. Things just are the way they are. But women sure love to try to pass law and policies that help women and their failures in dating. Only when it come to men they say it's not suppose to be fair. Mess with a woman who is slightly below your own market value. It’s the best time you’ll e…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 11:28 PM
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A slim in shape woman can be too slim hipped and broad shoulders This is absolutely considered a more attractive body than a slim in shape man. That's the point. Most female models are slim and their counterparts male models have a way harder physique to maintain than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 11:02 PM
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Because common sense says so... Thin men should be equal thin women. In shape men should be equal to in shape women. But women get to be thin and in shape while men have to be in shape to be considered attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 10:48 PM
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Wrong. A skinny girl is not equal to a skinny guy. A short girl is not equal to a short guy. If if did these average guys would be dating girls that look like Ariana Grande but they can't because they are seen as unattractive because they were born a male instead of female.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 05:02 PM
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Some women assume the worst about everything you do because of a guy that broke up with them that also did that thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 05:06 AM
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Search the term "I have a boyfriend" on reddit and you will see plenty of post on askmen or teenagers wondering why women randomly say this. Women don't like unattractive men interacting with them and feel the need to reject them at all cost. If you ignore the irrelevant comment and keep interacting with them it's sexual harassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 06:51 AM
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Most people on this sub are 20 something year olds and the zoo appeals to a different crowd. It is not a fair comparison because they won't be dating the average person at the zoo which is filled with 5 year olds and 40 something year olds.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 06:46 AM
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frequently. Women want to be seen as equal to men when they are, like when they have the same education and experience in a job. This contradicts your next point. Why would I hire a woman who may need to go on leave for months at a time because of pregnancy when I can just hire a man? Being anti maternity leave would make sense by your logic. Relationships are inherently unequal, women have to carry and birth all of the children. It makes sense to marry someone slightly better at life when you’l…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 02:35 PM
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You are exaggerating this. I’d say 95% of people date and marry within their class. You say this because you are conditioned to think women dating men "slightly better" is "dating in their class". Even though men make more, women date men who disproportionately make more than the average gap between men and women. I believe the number is 30% despite their being a 20% gap on average. There is also height. Women date men who are disproportionately taller than the average of 4 inches. Age. The aver…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 12:23 AM
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There is no way to tell if a person is confident; it is just how women justify that they like obnoxious assholes. A "confident" person doesn't need fancy clothes/flashy items, yet a insecure one does. But most women would be more attracted to the guy with Prada on than the guy who wears the same clothes everyday.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 12:24 AM
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Also a product of gender norms women don't break. Why don't you propose to a guy and get married that way you would find out if you were dating the same guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 06:50 AM
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It doesn't matter what you think it is common knowledge in dating that asian men are not desired. Many Asian women have the Ariana Grande body type. Just because American women don't doesn't make it not easily attainable. Men who are around 100 lbs are considered unattractive and they aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 06:02 PM
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Ariana Grande married a Latino man, Jenna Ortega is also not Asian. I was using their body type as an example. It is consider attractive when women have that easily attainable body type not men, and the dating stats of asian men and women have huge disparities because of this. Asian men are seen as extremely attractive, mainly by women in their twenteens. The rise of kpop as example. There's also a demographic of women that chase the kung-fu culture and fit men. Then you have the geeky women tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 10:23 AM
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There is no such thing as a man being a underweight as her and it "being ok because they have a beautiful face". Men have to hours in the gym to be as attractive as women who can just eat less.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 04:40 AM
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For women it does and here lies the problem. On average not automatically. People are talking about women similar to them and the most similar body type for many of this sub is likely that of a K pop star woman. The problem that is considered unattractive for men when it's the most popular body for young women on the planet.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 11:35 PM
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Asian women are proof of how easy dating is for women. Short, skinny women like Ariana Grande, Jenna Ortega, or many Asian women are seen as beautiful while Asian men are seen as unattractive. And when you look at interracial dating stats where around 40% of them date outside their face, it it clear society has come to a conclusion that Asian women are out of Asian men's league.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 11:24 PM
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Most are not talking about models that is a strawman. Most of the men on reddit are in their 20s so it's fair to say they are a "6/10" or higher. This goes back to the problem that men are seen as way less attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 11:20 PM
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Well I typed my equivalent metrics in this site of a 5 ft 3 100 pound woman and most people would say those women are out of my league as a short thin man.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 01:55 PM
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You answered your own question. You said same applies for women who can't find a "good man" yet men are virgins and have never been with a women. Here lies the problem. How come a guy who does nothing but work and watch Netflix can't date a girl who works and work and watch Netflix? Because women are always dating up and attractive men are using these women who won't settle to date the men that are equal to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 05:09 AM
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But if they followed Andrew Tate's advice and were rich they would date 40 year old men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 12:53 AM
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It doesn't - at least not dating above your league. A man with a certain amount of money can always get a woman outside of his league. A 40+ year old woman will have to date someone beneath them because the guys in their league rather date the hotter 20 year old that works at Starbucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 08:08 PM
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But the general advice of be financial well off works 100% of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 07:54 PM
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Average for men means unattractive according to women. They don't date average men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 07:36 PM
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This is not true. Women have a major advantage where they can be extremely underweight like Ariana Grande and be considered way more attractive than men the same size proportionally for instance. It is way easier for women to luck into attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 03:49 PM
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You're right. Everything is a fraction of the price in certain countries abroad so dating can actually be cheaper for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 10:03 PM
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Kinda like the same thing men experience in the West. It's not like western women are paying for dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 10:00 PM
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Therefore women who complain about men dating poor women are hypocrites because they disproportionately date guys with more money. Only because what they deem to be undeserving average guys who found a cheat code to have the same relationship they are having with an attractive woman they get mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 09:54 PM
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Yea and the stats would prove him correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 09:47 PM
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How is getting a passport and going abroad paying for sex? Because you have to buy a flight ticket? So if I pay for a bus ride to a date am I also paying for sex? Like OP said, there must be a catch.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 09:45 PM
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So you think it makes more sense for these small women to be dating men who are in much better shape than them? If they were to go to the doctor, they would be told to get in better shape while the muscular women wouldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 11:40 PM
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I do say it's the same for tall muscular women. There are way more women who luck into attractiveness than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 10:59 PM
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So what is your league?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 09:17 PM
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If you want to be coy and act like men being twice as single as women is because they are all lying that is
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 08:53 PM
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I don't see how this sub has been talking about it before the data basically confirmed it
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 08:19 PM
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The problem with this is girls are just taking turns dating the same guys. They can't get a stable relationship with them and complain about fuckbois even though there are twice as many guys their age that are single they can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 07:32 PM
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So are you saying looks isn't apart of dating? Or saying the equivalent of an 18 year old man is a 45 year old woman that has similar dating issues?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 04:24 PM
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True in most cases. For women, a muscular bodybuilder is not considered as attractive as a bodybuilding man.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 03:53 PM
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Which is why women saying "date in your own league" doesn't work. Short, thin women like Jenna Ortega or Ariana Grande are considered way more attractive short thin men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 03:53 PM
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Analogous to dating, women preach about equality but expect men to do most of the work.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 08:35 AM
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A tall, broad-shouldered, hulking Chad of a man would be a femcel as a woman. Sexual dimorphism is a thing. Only slender tall women are desirable. Now ask yourself how many tall women there are to short men. Over 30% of men at least are 5' 7 or shorter. Way less women are over 6 feet. Also you can lose weight but not gain height.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 07:45 PM
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This is why the term "overweight" is misleading. People really wouldn't date obese men/women. But overweight women are attractive alot of the times.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 07:37 PM
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If you are a single American woman, there are over a billion men who would date you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 09:13 PM
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Wealthy women absolutely benefit from their wealth just not with the men they want. Poor men all over the world would die to marry a rich woman no matter what she looks like. They just want to date up like women normally do but can't because rich guys are dating the beautiful girl that works at Starbucks and don't care about your accomplishments.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 07:30 AM
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There is a 4 inch height difference, but women disproportionately date taller men by 5-6 inches. And 5'3 as a woman isn't considered the equal of a 5'7 man, even though they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 07:17 AM
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Well you have affirmative action
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 08:34 AM
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Cardi B's fans are mostly women. Overwhelmingly. It isn't men listening to her because they want to have sex with her, it's women because they want to be like her.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 11:43 AM
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Have you heard Chris Brown's music or met his fans? Considering Chris Brown's music is extremely sexual and he literally give girl's lap dances on stage, it is fair to assume many want to date him. It's not like being a fan of an athlete; it's like being a fan of a pornstar.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 10:23 AM
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Chris Brown isn't a serial killer and has hundreds of thousands of girls that are obsessed with him. These are just normal girls and nothing like the girls obsessed with school shooters.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 10:19 AM
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So, short and skinny or 18? You brought up "twinks" not me. All 3 are things that it's easier to get away with being a woman but not a man. BTW, their are standards that make it easier for men than women, but their are more that hurt men. Perhaps very few men can have the body of Ariana grande and be hot, I’d be concerned if a guy had tits. Wow you're on the ropes. Why is this so hard for people to acknowledge? A woman who is shorter and underweight is considered way more attractive, but keep ru…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 11:23 PM
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There is some cute twinks, there is some fat pimply bitches Yea, and a woman has been a CEO so discrimination doesn't exist, i guess. The overwhelming majority of short skinny men have vastly different dating prospects than women. This is just a fact. How many men can have the same body as Ariana Grande and be considered that attractive? And if you look at data for Asians dating (because they generally have that body type) women have it far easier than men and date outside their race more than a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 10:59 PM
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Controversial opinion: unattractive men shouldn’t cold approach attractive women, because this is what happens when you leave it up to strangers to socialize you into self-awareness. But what is an attribute woman/man? 18 year old women are considered significantly more attractive than men? Should 18 year old men go around thinking they can't approach women their age because they are more attractive by virtue of being a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 10:48 PM
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That won't matter when such a high percentage want any foreigners they see. Just pick the ones that don't have kids
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 10:40 PM
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But he thinks he's impressive them with with old age and infinite wisdom when they are really playing him.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 06:16 PM
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Your literally a rich sugar daddy bragging about how you can give 20 year olds an early retirement.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 10:08 AM
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So I guess all the data that supports things he is saying isn't true either? This is ironically misandry. I'm absolutely positive if someone on twoxchromosomes said dating attractive guts it harder it would get no push back. But saying dating a women who never gets asked out is easier than someone who is asked every week means you have a mental problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 02:45 AM
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Lol right over your head
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 11:39 AM
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It IS fucking creepy to stare at women, why are you staring at somebody? To women, staring at them is existing as an unattractive man. If it was an attractive man staring they wouldn't mind. It just as mainstream to be called insults by women as a man nowdays.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 11:14 AM
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I’d rather be falsely accused of something where I can prove my innocence than involved in a violent act that will probably kill me I'm not just talking about the law. Socially almost every man I know has been accused of being a creep for looking at women to long. It can be emotionally traumatizing being called ugly covertly by women on a regular basis. Statistically it is not likely to get killed in some women hate crime anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 10:57 AM
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Men commit violent acts, women make false accusations.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 10:48 AM
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Ironically, many men can post this exact same thing, except the "if my current relationship ends" part.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 10:47 AM
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I'm not talking about celebrities I just used her frame as a reference. Of course rich celebrities can break the mold. But the data suggest otherwise for normal men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 07:51 AM
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The example op used was a scrawny or obese guy or girl and it's true. Arianna Grande is a "scrawny girl" but can date anyone she wants. A guy with her body type and a few inches taller is never considered that attractive. And data to support this is over 40% of asian women dating outside their race while Asian men struggle to get dates. Despite having similar diets and small body types, women are allowed to look like that and men are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 05:47 AM
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Maternity leave isn't every month and there is paternity leave for men so it can balance out. If I have to allow women off work 3-5 extra days every month, there is a 99% chance a man will be a better hire.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 08:20 AM
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Most women are dating men who are "better" than them is why it doesn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 03:55 AM
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But I thought a bunch of women were going to Africa and sleeping with poor men? Which is it? Did I say that? Of course. But deliberately going to a certain country (always poorer/always less developed) for women raises questions, and it makes sense that it does. Vulnerable women are more likely to be in danger and non-vulnerable women. They do it because they can't meet the standards of women in their country who date up in social or economic status. Less than 4% of women are married to men tall…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 06:11 PM
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Are they supposed to be attracted to approximately 0% of people in poor countries like women? There are attractive women in every country and most men will date any of them. Women however act like they are proud at how classist they are with who they date.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 06:02 PM
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Care about everything and call them out for their hypocrisy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 03:41 PM
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They don't have relationship baggage because they don't have relationship experience
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 01:20 PM
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The men complaining about being virgins aren't the ones giving women baggage.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 01:20 PM
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So not Traveling to profit from the poor socioeconomic standards of other people is not a problem? And who says they're poor? If anything, they are middle class in their country, but the foreigner is "rich". I'd dating people with less money than you a problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 11:09 PM
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So traveling is what makes it a problem? Women (or men) having higher standards than they hold themselves to?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 11:00 PM
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How can you say people don’t complain when that happens in the west when the term gold digger gets constantly thrown? The women who complain about sexpats or LBH don't criticize gold diggers. The majority of these dudes profit from the status whiteness gives them. Idk why you think there’s no critique to be given to men that specifically seek women in much poorer countries so they can leverage a relationship. Why do you think asians have acronyms like LBH? Just like women leverage dating standar…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 10:50 PM
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They are not going to a store and saying "I'll have one wife please". Women just want to date them because they have 10x more money than local men. This same thing cam happen in America, but people don't usually complain about it like they do when it happens in poor countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 10:38 PM
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instead they use the money as a carrot on a stick to get vulnerable women to perform how they want them to, without ever having to provide financial security to the woman at all. What makes then "vulnerable" because they have less money? Are women in America making 50k dating guys making over 150k considered "vulnerable"? its not. again, it is wrong for ANYONE of ANY GENDER in ANY COUNTRY to use money or any other power to prey on someone. So you basically have a problem with most relationships.…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 10:35 PM
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They are not actually using their money to buy wives. They just so happen to make 10x the average income in the Philippines so women want to date them. Which is the same as women in America if you make 10x average income. Why is it looked down apon when you do it in one country not the other? BTW, women who can do this for men in poor countries too.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 10:23 PM
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I mean power in the dating world. Women can date men and make much less money than them. Do you have a problem with housewives? People only have a problem when it's a women from a 3rd world country.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 10:17 PM
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Why? They are leveraging their power to make it easier to get in relationships which happens in your country with men and women. It's only looked down among when men do it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 10:05 PM
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This is not true. International marriages are more successful. Of course it happens sometimes doesn't make it a guarantee
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 10:04 PM
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Women have lied to me and said they want to be just friends
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 10:51 PM
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If they are on unemployment and sex work jobs are avaliable, you would be forcing women to be prostitutes to get unemployment.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 08:25 PM
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No it doesn't. Plenty of really skinny guys have abs and they are not desirable. To your point though, when u take my shirt off I notice a considerable amount of double takes from women who never would look at me before. It's more of a confused "is that really him" look but doesn't change dating prospects.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 07:16 PM
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It men thought this way they would all leave their wives at age 40 for a 20 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 07:11 PM
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No it's not. he's trying to give examples of people having differences being in a relationship. The reason the age of consent exist is often still valid in a relationship between two "consenting adults". A 21 year old can't have a power dynamic with a 15 year old, but a 45 yo can have an even bigger power dynamic with an 18 yo.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 02:21 PM
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It's because age gaps is one of the few things men gave a advantage over women in dating. Hence why you can find many articles praising women for dating younger guys, but hating on men. 40 year old guys want 20 year old girls more than 40 year old girls want 20 year old guys. By dating younger women men are gaming the system.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 08:59 AM
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None of the examples you give make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 08:53 AM
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And you think those are the same men dating beautiful women?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 05:40 PM
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Because there is always an exception but 1% of people fitting the criteria doesn't mean the trend doesn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 04:49 PM
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But men are into tall and short thin women. Women who are 5 ft 90 pounds rarely date men 5 ft 5 110 lbs. And it's mostly tall women who complain "short girls take all the tall guys".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 02:32 PM
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They find them attractive, even if it's not what they prefer. Women rarely find underweight men attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 02:24 PM
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Well they are considered way more attractive than slightly overweight men, and underweight women are considered way more attractive than underweight men. So saying "just date someone in your league" doesn't work because women are almost always considered better looking with few exceptions like age.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 09:42 AM
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plenty of women go for those types of men. But almost all men will tell you the girl I posted or the skinny girls are attractive. Plenty of women also aren't attracted to certain types where as men have a unanimous opinion on attractive women. Plenty of women go for skinny runner bod men as well. Those guys are still in great shape. Skinny woman don't need to workout and have a runner body.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 08:01 AM
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The problem is there is much more leeway in what's considered an attractive woman vs man. A woman can look like this and be overweight (she's 5ft 4 160 LBs), but we all know women who look like this is 10/10 attractive. I man who is slightly overweight will have a hard time getting a girl that looks like this, despite being "in the same league". Similarly, A woman can have the same body proportions as Ariana Grande (5 ft 2 105 lbs), and still be a 10/10 and "out of the league" of a man who is ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 06:30 AM
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But we are talking about something you said, so should you say "I don't owe you approval"?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 01:34 AM
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There now, I believe that's what you meant. It's all right. You don't owe me or anyone else your approval. You said it in a roundabout way. Saying It's all right. To be condescending and You don't owe me or anyone else your approval. Why are you talking in the second person
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 01:18 AM
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This is a debate sub and your response to so one pointing out irrationality is "I don't owe you reason". No one owes anyone a reason, but you couldn't provide one even if you wanted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 12:53 AM
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The original comment is assuming there is "BS" for women to call out in the first place which is the root of the problem. Anecdotally, older women have been on so many dates they have a laundry list of red flags that makes it impossible to satisfy them. No one man on date #42 is going to be better than every other man the woman has ever encountered, which is what they expect.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 12:44 AM
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women out there who don't see lack of a college degree as a dealbreaker. This isn't a reasonable "deal breaker", it's borderline bigotry. It's like saying you would only date someone who's right handed. You can't provide any reasoning why it makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 12:36 AM
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Education is the second most important value within my family after religion. Comparatively speaking, the fact that I don't require at least a master's if not higher is lenient. Some of the most successful people in many fields leave college because they are so far ahead and get job offers at 20. To say you won't date someone without a college degree is ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 12:19 AM
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You're assuming women are always right.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 12:09 AM
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Anecdotally, younger women are easier to deal with when older women have laundry list of "red flag" that boyfriend number 17 did which is why they ghosted you. It's exhausting to navigate their expectations which get more complex as they age.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 02:20 PM
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People with higher body counts are more likely to cheat or breakup with you. Do you care about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 02:12 PM
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Bisexuality is an indicator of a lot of things. Right. And bisexual men are into alot of stereotypical "feminine" things that women say they want but apparently not when a guy is bisexual. There are bisexual men with extensive skin care routines that are into fashion and yoga but women are less attracted to them because they are bi not straight.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 02:25 AM
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It's obvious that no one is arguing no woman wants a bi man. But it's also obvious they don't want bi men and anyone can attest to this and there is no denying it. It is such a ridiculous preference though; what does someone being bisexual have to do with your monogamous relationship? Nothing, it's just homophobic bigotry.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 02:17 AM
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I love how she's gonna argue with you that some women don't date bi men. Like it is so many studies and any bi man will tell you so, but "I'm a woman and I say so, right"? study It's because it's blatantly homophobic, and gives credibility to the other groups women irrationally aren't attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 11:38 PM
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having preferences for characteristics that don’t apply to themselves Reasonable preferences like gender. Having preferences for hair color or race is nonsensical.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 04:39 PM
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Why? It's bigoted.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 04:18 PM
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It should have told you that it's ok to want what you want. You should "want" what's reasonable to you, not blindly having standards you can't meet yourself. Same goes for men who want virgins but aren't virgins themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 01:50 PM
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Women select for a bunch of things that are all considered acceptable by society but the things men select for are a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 01:33 PM
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It's wrong to be a hypocrite or inconsiderate asshole. Traits like being a virgin is a direct comparison not wanting a masculine/feminine person which is not. This is part of the problem where people all want something they are not themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 11:13 PM
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Then it only takes a few years to get a green card and they will leave then get someone else. If about 50% of these marriages are successful eventually you will find someone who won't use you for a green card.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 05:31 PM
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What is exactly being "above someone's weight class". It's not about forcing someone to be attracted to you. When someone marries you and allowed you to 7x your income and pulls you out of poverty, you will be grateful for that person.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 05:21 PM
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Like I said, they are more successful and it is a myth that they all just leave after they get citizenship.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 05:08 PM
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They are less likely to divorce than an American marriage. And prenups exist. Marriage and divorce doesn't have to be expensive per say. In fact, an easy way to vet if they are in it for the long run is to keep money separate via prenups with no exceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 05:00 PM
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There are millions of women from 3rd world countries willing to marry any American men simply because of there citizenship. Men have plenty of options it's just not mainstream yet to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 04:56 PM
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Why don't women just propose to the guy first? It's because of the advantages women have in dating guys lie to women to further the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 01:31 AM
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I said this before, but female hobbies tend to be alot more sexual than male hobbies, despite stereotypes suggesting the contrary. The music they listen to, the shows they watch, dancing, fashion, and makeup are all very sexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 02:08 PM
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First of all having more casual sex increases the likelihood of being a single mother and having a harder life. Anecdotally, the girls in my high school who had a 3.5+ GPA and didn't sleep around are in grad school now or having successful careers, and the girls with the same grades but slept around couldn't handle the college lifestyle and dropped out or had kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 12:44 AM
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Well women are more sexual than men. The music they listen to, from ariana grande to chris brown to Justin Bieber. Just guys they want to have sex with or women they want to look like so guys want to have sex with them. The shows they watch like euphoria is plastered with sex. Their hobbies from makeup to dancing to fashion is very sexual. But men are stereotyped as the "that's what she said dudebros" who only think about sex. They music and media they listen however is much more diverse. They h…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 09:17 PM
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The same guys get passed around by girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 03:16 AM
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If you have American or 1st world citizenship, you are basically a God in many countries because of the status.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 05:22 AM
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They considered you attractive enough to date. It's another thing when they realize they are unattracted to your lifestyle. Women who are 100 lbs won't consider men with same body type as them as attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 10:11 PM
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A skinny man can say he wants to date a skinny woman, but skinny women are out of skinny men's league. Just look at the stereotypes about vegetarian/vegan women being more attractive with flawless skin, but vegetarian/vegan men are considered weak soyboys.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 10:04 PM
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This is the next evolution in the "men are unable to find relationships" debacle. If you are young and American, there are literally millions of women from 3rd would countries who would marry you. And the thing is, women would never date some poor man from rural Asia, but most men would. The problem is there is no reliable way to find them. Ironically if an app comes along that is basically "tinder for mail order brides", we could see women complaining about not being able to find dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 12:02 AM
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But only slightly enough for it to be 1/720. Randomly measure a man and woman there will be way more than .14% of women taller than the men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 03:55 AM
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