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I think here are very experience people around so maybe someone could give good advice. The thing with 50:50 custody is that nobody cares. When she moved I could drive the 400km both ways several times a week to have maybe 2 hours till she needs to go to bed. 2 hours I could spent outside at my exes new place but in wintertime? At her house? So after all it would turn out like I will have her every second weekend. Sometimes 6 days a week but most times only four...
/r/MGTOW28/05/20 06:31 PM
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Check the comments under the original post. Hypergamy in a nutshell and a perfect example for staying away from online dating, at least if you don't want to be one of dozens of orbiters.
/r/MGTOW19/05/20 11:47 AM
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Fortunately we used her account! No late effects
/r/MGTOW06/05/20 08:41 PM
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What if I told her to stay at home? You read it here and in other forms from time to time, there is no way to stop them once hypergamy took over. In my opinion in hindsight the only thing I could have done was going distant too, focus on working out, hobbies and friends and draw a line in the sand for her to choose if we are a team and both make the effort or leave it. Unfortunately I wasn't capable at this time. I would have never left my child and I deeply cared for my ex. There was just the p…
/r/MGTOW29/04/20 02:44 PM
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Thank you all for your support! Its just ridiculous how a woman could hold that much emotional power over you. I really try to fight it and take back the responsibility for my own happiness but most of the times it feels like my happiness depends on the failing of my exes new relationship that's built on lies and my crushed dreams about my family.
/r/MGTOW29/04/20 07:17 AM
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And the other dude, I spoke to him on the phone when I found out as I said. A few days later I tried to call him to hear the full story of his side but he didn't pick up. Never talked to him again. But its strange to meet him at my former house, making out with my exgf, taking care of my dogs and giving my child into his custody. Ex is already talking about our daughter now has 2 dad's. That hurts and I get really angry inside but I play it cool, my child is the only important thing now
/r/MGTOW29/04/20 07:07 AM
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Luckily I never got married to her. I already talked to friends about how to propose to her but when I realised that she's pulling back, I paused my proposing plans. We almost bought a 400k € house, soooooo glad we didn't! Luckily the highway with all the noise was a little bit too close to it so we searched on.
/r/MGTOW29/04/20 07:00 AM
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I know it was stupid. But what should I have done? In my opinion it's ok for a young mother to demand some time for herself after months and months at home. So even if I told her to not see this guy, what would have happened? Probably she would have told me to visit a friend or hit the gym or whatever. I see no way to stop them if they decided to fuck u over
/r/MGTOW29/04/20 06:56 AM
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I know it was stupid. But what should I have done? In my opinion it's ok for a young mother to demand some time for herself after months and months at home. So even if I told her to not see this guy, what would have happened? Probably she would have told me to visit a friend or hit the gym or whatever. I see no way to stop them if they decided to fuck u over
/r/MGTOW29/04/20 06:55 AM
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/r/MGTOW28/04/20 07:15 PM
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I feel sad for the child. Imagine what devastating effects it could have for this little soul,to adapt to new "dad" again and again while probably will never have a real, caring dad. All because the mother is constantly searching for the bigger, better deal and practiceing her open hypergamy. Pure selfishness and inresponsibility.
/r/MGTOW16/01/20 08:38 AM
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At some point I felt she was going cold on me. I should had mirrored her and focused on my plans and purpose but I couldn't because my daughter was involved. So I tried to talk to her, figure things out and believed this family would have any value itself. Of course it didn't work out because I wasn't ready to see her leave. I ignored a million red flags, wasn't able to step up for my self. Stayed with her till her cheating became too obvious and left our house. Learned so much since April, hope…
/r/MGTOW26/12/19 12:33 AM
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The same here...feeling with you. I caught mine in April 19 cheating with a close friend of mine. Got a daughter of 2 years. At least I can see her for 1 day at Christmas but its definitely giving me a hard time after I believed in my family till the very bitter end. As mentioned: try your best to attach to your children and be there for them no matter what. That's all you can do but probably is enough to keep your offspring close.Take your time to get over the hurt and disappointment. Read, wor…
/r/MGTOW25/12/19 08:51 PM
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