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OYS 16 Been a fat minute. Just wanted to check in. First, I wanted to show gratitude to all the circumstances that have led me to become the person I am today. Many tears have been shed, much pain has been felt, and much darkness has been visited. Yet, the biggest lesson I've learned this year is that, regardless of any situation, I have the strength to power through all downs and the instinct to figure anything out. I've essentially internalized the belief to "trust in the process that everythi…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/21 08:56 PM
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OYS 15 Stats: 22 y-o – 5’9 – 160lbs – 14% BF – single. Readings -- TRM, NMMNG, BOP, MAP, Models, WISNIFG, Bigger Leaner Stronger, TWOTSM, Atomic Habits. Current mission -- To claim full ownership of my life, while learning to enjoy the process that gets me there. Fitness -- Ever since the October lockdown, I haven’t touched a barbell. To maintain my fitness, I occasionally worked out with my sports team through Zoom, went on some runs, and did bodyweight exercises. Though it sucks that I’m left …
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/21 08:23 PM
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On normal weeks, you can lift your wife. On deload weeks, you can lift the baby. You can stack NMMNG, WISNIFG, MMSLP if the lift doesn't feel heavy enough. Good luck!
/r/askMRP12/12/20 03:57 AM
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I was 7 OYSs in before entertaining the thought that guys weren't replying to my stuff because it was an absolute mess filled with platitudes, empty goals, and acting as if I knew what my underlying problems were. My OYSs weren't written to myself, they were written for others to see. That's my mistake #1. What also seems to be the norm is that newcomers tend to go through a beginning phase where a lot of practical advice is given but we just pressure ourselves to absolutely get it right the fir…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/20 04:37 AM
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Should i red pill my bisexual wife? ​ I'll start with the classic "sorry for the bad english" ​ The result was me and my wife's developing an oneitis for this girl ​ completely not job ​ These fucking killed me. Do what your penis thinks man.
/r/askMRP06/11/20 09:47 PM
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Yeah that makes much more sense.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/20 05:24 AM
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Are you regressing, and rationalizing it? I don't see this as regressing though. I'm detaching myself from the notion of guilty pleasures, because otherwise it throws me into negative feedback loops of procrastination. Either something please me, or it doesn't; I don't want there to be a lingering fear of "what if I get caught?" ​ I don't like this. I think it's a form of validation-seeking, and I would also question how authentic the "you" I'm talking to right now is. The conversation sometimes…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/11/20 05:20 PM
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These are time wasters. /u/rocknrollchuck had a good comment on this. Elon Musk is allowed to relax. Successful people are allowed to relax and do things that aren't focused around accomplishing stuff. Unsuccessful people aka all of you who don't own a home, live paycheck-to-paycheck, have a bunch of debt, etc... you should orient your life around being productive. You shouldn't tolerate a hobby that lets you have fun sitting on the couch. If you are unsuccessful, you have weak will. I have a hu…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/11/20 05:11 PM
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Continued: Personal Project: I’m planning to release a small music album before the end of 2020. Why? Because I want to create a personal project that is fueled by nothing else than my desire to make it. I don’t get compensated for this. I must put time into knowing how to use the software. But I get to test out and display my creativity. And no one but myself is telling me to do it. Completing this will be a self-testament that I can push myself to complete anything I set out to do, strictly th…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/11/20 11:13 AM
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OYS 14 Stats: 22 y-o – 5’9 – 174.4lbs – 20% BF – single. Readings: Have read: TRM, NMMNG, BOP, MAP, Models, WISNIFG, Bigger Leaner Stronger. Currently reading: Just started Atomic Habits and TWOTSM. Mission: To become a self-loving sovereign being. I aim to achieve a level of ownership in life where most of the people, things, and consequences that arise in my life are there because I’ve consciously allowed them to be there. Fitness: September lifts: SQ 225 - DL 275 - BP 185 Before reading “Bigg…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/11/20 11:13 AM
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This is the same girl who visited her ex-plate and cheated on OP. Nuff said, let's not waste anyone's else's time. u/hornsofapathy
/r/askMRP22/10/20 03:47 PM
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360lbs. Goddamn. For now, your absolute main focus should be to cut (lifting, walking, macros, etc.). Resources out there on how to do it are plenty. If you can't show this kind of commitment for yourself, no one here will want to help you at all. (1) my fucking garbage behavior sent her over and I had to watch as I played a part in her being voluntarily committed. (2) I fucking suck here. I wrote a line here that was a fanciful lie. It was me living the fantasy of being a loner. The truth is I …
/r/MarriedRedPill21/10/20 09:57 PM
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Alright, so you get angry at yourself when things don't go according to plan. Have you ever considered why?
/r/MarriedRedPill15/10/20 01:48 AM
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Got it.
/r/askMRP08/10/20 11:31 PM
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I’m here to offer a counterpoint on that user’s advice. His advice is shit, and he’s a LARP. (1) This guy has no track record on MRP besides giving advice. No OYS, no flair, nothing. He also likes to leech off the comment of an approved member and use MRP language to “add to his credentials”. (2) He always gives the same advice: Lift, STFU, sidebar. This isn’t incorrect advice, but that’s all he does. Echo chambering the one-size-fits-all basics. His inability to account for the fact that we sho…
/r/askMRP08/10/20 10:26 PM
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I’m reading the good sidebar and learning how to unfuck myself. I’m recognizing covert contracts in my life, and eliminating them. I’ve learned to say “no” when I want to. I’ve learned not to DEER when challenged. I’m learning to stop rewarding bad behavior, and start recognizing and rewarding good behavior. I’ve stopped running my mouth - I left no room for mystery. I’ve been working really, really hard to make myself my mental point of origin - “what do I want?” I’m working on recognizing shit…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/20 02:01 PM
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You're so focused on not making a mistake that you're denying yourself the very "experience" you credit MRP with. Go based off your own intuition and learn from it, just like you did with your first.
/r/askMRP04/10/20 01:39 AM
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By making this overt, you are giving her reasons (lack of emotional connection, or non-exclusivity) to avoid fucking you. That's totally a fair point and my friends voiced exactly the same concern. The reason why I'm starting out by laying my cards down first is because it forces me to address the topic in an assertive manner. I must own up to it. It's a strict "I-am-this-way-and-if-you-don't-like-it-you-can-leave" policy that warms me up to rejection and that serves to reinforce my frame (which…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/09/20 01:16 AM
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OYS 13 Stats: 21 y-o – 5’9 – 175lbs – 21% BF – single. Readings: TRM, NMMNG, BOP, MAP, Models. Currently reading WISNIFG and Bigger Leaner Stronger. Physical SQ 225 - DL 275 - BP 185 Mental I’m mentally in a much better place than where I used to be about a month ago. It stems largely from a better sense of ownership in certain aspects of my life. I’m able to approach matters more and more with an intent that doesn’t require me to maintain some glorified image of myself. For once in my life, I c…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/20 03:34 PM
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This sub displays levels of vulnerability that the main one is too afraid to show, and it strongly factors into the feeling of community I get out of this.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/09/20 09:22 PM
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It's refreshing to see that the more experienced guys have a genuine appreciation for each other. Makes this sub all the more awesome.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/20 11:15 AM
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Dude, who are you? And why are you always leeching off the comment of another guy?
/r/askMRP17/09/20 09:05 PM
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It seems that you've been operating in her frame from the get-go, and that she's easing the shackles as you've become more attractive. The short term solution would be to implement a MAP and slowly reclaim your frame. This also means that you'd be ultimately willing to leave her if things don't end up your way. The longer term solution would be to clearly formulate not only what you want, but also why you want it. Why would you leave her if you claim to truly love her? Now that you've improved, …
/r/askMRP16/09/20 04:24 AM
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A lot of the "friendzone" shit is simply in your own head. I can share some things that happened to me this week that helped me update my perspective. So this girl and I know each other for 2+ years. (1) Our relationship has so far been entirely platonic; we would say "hi" to each other and all, but never follow through with a conversation. We are part of the same sports team, but never hung out outside it. (2) I also used to chase one of her best friends, and that ended in a disaster, because I…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/20 08:39 PM
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Hey dude, I’m 21, single and doing my own thing. I journal on the side, and post my progress here occasionally. Nobody tells me I can’t and from what I’ve witnessed so far, MRP cuts through the bullshit and keeps shit real. Do OYS at your own pace.
/r/askMRP12/09/20 05:32 PM
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OYS 12 Stats: 21 y-o – 5’9 – 175lbs – 19% BF – single. Readings: MRP sidebar, TRM, NMMNG, BOP, MAP, Models. Currently reading Self-Esteem by McKay and Fanning. ​ Physical SQ 235 - DL 275 - BP 195 - Pull ups 10 reps x3 ​ Mental Two weeks ago, I hit a huge mental block. I’ve done a lot of introspection since, and so far, my observations lead me to the following takeaways: ​ Lack of commitment in my professional life; It seems harder and harder for me to commit to my career. I don’t spend any time …
/r/MarriedRedPill25/08/20 02:47 PM
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Sounds like your father has been a repressed nice guy for the longest time. Doesn't seem like the marriage could be saved. How about you hand him a copy of the book and lend him an ear whenever he needs to share something?
/r/askMRP25/08/20 01:23 PM
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During my "fake it till you make it" phase, if I somehow became successful in my approach, I probably would've ridden the momentum and fuck every woman I found attractive. But it didn't turn out that way. I was unsuccessful. So I had to reframe my way of thinking. Some find solace in their mission. Some find it after post-nut clarity. I find it through honesty. And if you know what I'm talking about, then the end-goal isn't the outcome I seek to get from being honest. It's honesty in itself. It'…
/r/TheRedPill14/08/20 07:13 PM
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Fuck, you described me exactly. Thank you for that much needed gut punch.
/r/askMRP13/08/20 06:23 PM
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You're using honesty as an end to reinforce your own perception of frame. Never tried, so can't really argue about that. Unless you're then using frame to another end, now that a different story.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/20 04:36 PM
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It all boils down to interpretation. "Fake it till you make it" is a phrase that has a different meaning for people with different experiences. If guys can understand it through your definition, then that'd be great. Unfortunately, that isn't the case and I'm a great example of that. I offered a different perspective to those who may have fallen into the same trap I did.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/20 03:12 PM
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Please elaborate. Being red pilled means understanding the world for what it is. How does being more honest relate to how red pilled a person can be?
/r/TheRedPill13/08/20 03:08 PM
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I don't get the feeling you've understood my post. Honesty transcends your notions of alpha and beta, blue pill and red pill.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/20 05:12 AM
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I commend you for taking those steps. I haven't found anyone uncomfortable with my proactive approach with honesty, but I'll make sure to calibrate accordingly too. Will keep in mind your don't ask don't tell policy. As for my group, I went the the /NMMNG subreddit and asked if there were people in my region. A redditor private messaged me and corresponded me to a facilitator in the area, and the rest is history.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/20 04:25 AM
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Interesting last bit. I'm also planning to do a mushroom trip in the near future and try to reframe some of the bad experiences I've had in the past. Would love to know how it works out for you.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/20 04:21 AM
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Well if you're a natural, sit this one out. The noobs are talking. Not everything is about how you perceive it.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/20 04:16 AM
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This post is dedicated to those who don't get it. Those who ask themselves these questions, but never quite answer them: What does their ego give a shit about? How does it affect them? And why should they apply this ego investment elsewhere? ​ When you shut down your ego and act genuinely without a weird misapplied investment; your life feels and gets better. That's a simple one-liner that can fit anyone's situation, regardless of redpill. I tried to tailor the discussion into past recounts that…
/r/TheRedPill12/08/20 08:20 PM
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The casual dating phase between the girl and I is over. We’re done. Throughout the process, I am proud to say that I have maintained my honesty. In fact, my honesty was a contributing factor to this separation. When I got hit with the “what are we?” question, I gave a genuine answer that did not give a fuck about her opinion. Our clash in value systems made it apparent that neither of us was willing to compromise for the other party, which resulted in this outcome. So what essentially happened w…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/07/20 10:26 PM
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u/redpillschool I'm all about rants about the anger phase once newbies read pieces about women's nature, but this post is different. Simp-shaming is gay. Those dudes who were once plugged into the Blue Pill now start riding their moral high horse when they start warming themselves up to TRP. I sense a sort of ego-driven defense in such posts that drives this new narrative where they think they're no longer blue-pilled. And what ensues are a bunch of circle-jerkers and wannabes with the same ment…
/r/TheRedPill16/07/20 06:29 PM
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It's part of my new value system: to approach with 100% honesty. If I do indeed meet other women, I'd prefer letting her know from the get-go than to have her discover and throw some fit over lack of communication. And if she isn't happy with that, the clash in perspectives means it probably wouldn't have worked out, or that I'm not HVM enough for her. I'm fine with both. And I'm not at the point in my journey where my actions convey abundance. I'm only getting started. Honesty is my default go-…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/07/20 03:12 PM
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If I could, woulda started MRP straight outta my mother's womb. It was the stepping stone to all of my real self development work.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/07/20 01:01 PM
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OYS 11 Stats: 21 y-o – 5’9 – 171lbs – 20% BF – single. Readings: MRP sidebar, TRM, NMMNG, BOP, MAP, Models. Currently reading Self-Esteem by McKay and Fanning. ​ Physical SQ 225 - DL 255 - BP 185 - Pull ups 12 reps x3 ​ Mental It’s been roughly a month since my last OYS. Didn’t post because progress was incremental. The book I am currently reading (Self-Esteem) was recommended to me by my pseudo-NMMNG session’s leader; it has a LOT of good content and was an integral book that got him out of cer…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/20 08:38 PM
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OYS 10 Stats: 21 – 5’9 – 170lbs – 20% BF. Have read: MRP sidebar, TRM, NMMNG, BOP, MAP, Models. All other aspects have stayed the same since last OYS, except: Mental Yesterday, during my weekly NMMNG-like sessions, we did a few confidence-boosting exercises. The first one involved complimenting ourselves for being/doing something we believe is praiseworthy. Some of them came up with some really good stuff. I barely came up with anything. The second one involved praising others for a strength we …
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/20 01:01 PM
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I'm in no shape to give you tips, but just by glancing at your post history, you're probably going to get the everliving shit roasted out of you. Have you tried OYS? Edit: Also bring this to /Askmrp
/r/MarriedRedPill14/06/20 09:56 PM
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Here. Self-investment is the best investment.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/06/20 08:54 PM
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As long as you don't seem like a sideliner in your own life, your parents will come to appreciate your efforts. By my family's standards, my academic performance is shit. My step siblings went to Ivy League while I'm here with a meager GPA at a second rate uni. But when I share my ambitions with them, and lay out a plan of the kind of stuff I want to do in the next 3, 5, 10 yrs, they seem to trust my judgment and respect me more for it. And as a result, I might be seen as the most independent ch…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/06/20 02:45 AM
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It'll take time to truly benefit from meditation sessions. Sometimes I feel shittier after my sessions, sometimes I postpone it to a later time and hell, sometimes I fall asleep. Our generation was constantly exposed to stimuli from the start, so our brains are practically addicted to it. We'd prefer to do something useless than nothing at all. That's why in comparison to scrolling social media, meditation seems so hard. If it helps, cut down your 15 mins session to 10 mins. If not, then 5. And …
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/20 06:18 PM
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Never thought I'd ever see you post here. Invaluable content. I plan on starting my own business after a few years working the rat hours. I'll check out some startup literature but will definitely reconsult this post from time to time too. Will be patiently waiting for the follow ups.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/20 02:39 AM
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To clarify: I need an exterior feedback mechanism to add to my image of value. If I'm start BP with the bar, and couldn't add any weights for 3 months even if I went 4 times a week and worked stronglifts, I'd be discouraged as fuck. It goes without say that everyone needs KPIs. Revenues, sale figures, all those things on which you can label a number are all metrics through which one assesses improvement. My current problem is, I'm using other people's metrics to determine my own value. GPA, facu…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/20 01:32 AM
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Thanks a lot for the input. Interesting perspective. I think it's very fair to say that my voice, albeit being there, is drowned the fuck down by a sea of other concerns I accord more weight to. I'll definitely try to be more mindful whenever I can, and try and listen to that voice. What kind of dance? Hip hop mainly. But there's a very specific structure/business model I intend to complement it with that I haven't seen elsewhere. So the style won't be the USP, it'll be more on the way it's mark…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/05/20 09:43 PM
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After that comment, I noticed I stopped meditating routinely after my family saw that I was meditating. I wanted to hide that part of me I was going to roast you until: Gotta get the meditation back on track and not hide that from my family. Now we're talking dude. Own up to it. In most circumstances I've seen so far, hiding shit from close people is usually a sign of fear from judgment, and it's a mental block that needs to be overcome. I've been there too. By learning to own up to it, you'll r…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/05/20 06:03 PM
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OYS 9 Stats: 21 – 5’9 – 170lbs – 20% BF. Have read: MRP sidebar, TRM, NMMNG, BOP, MAP, Models. All other aspects have stayed the same since last OYS, except: Mental Yesterday, I had a mental breakdown. I was caught in a negative feedback loop after analyzing my recent hangouts with some friends. To relieve myself a bit, I puked into my diary, to which this is a condensed version. So, I hung out with my friends three times during the last week. Overall, it was nice. We’ve biked 100+ kms, where we…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/05/20 05:54 PM
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This brings me to the other issue you had last week that I'm still noticing right now: you're still picking too many things to improve. I'd suggest you put a quota and work on those that matter more intensively. For example, you talked about how you don't STFU around your family last week. Seems like recurring issue, therefore you'd want to improve that first. So maybe focus on that instead of improving public speaking. Your lack of meditation could possibly be stemming from wanting to avoid thi…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/20 04:12 AM
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Still a lot of fluff. You merely just talking about your week. Like an anecdote. You occasionally talk about your flaws, like how you're overreactive to your family, or that you're shit at public speaking, but you don't actually reflect on how to better yourself in that aspect. Like how do you plan to STFU? Like how do you plan on bettering your public speaking? My past OYSs were similar; I was babbling a lot of useless bullshit that only clouded what mattered. What are the things that actually …
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/20 02:18 AM
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Never thought about diversifying my workouts. I'll have a look at different variations and give em a try. Thanks bro. For investing, I'm buying the dip. Considering playing the short term gains until the economy reopens for most places, which by then I'll probably stick to the long term game. Biking today was great, went about 4hrs with a friend, was hella refreshing.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/20 02:08 AM
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Spend 10 high quality hours on the side project. - Missed it. Got 8 Something like: "Signing 3 contracts with new clients" is way better than "Got 8 hours". Productivity, while being influenced, is not defined by hours. I can't see through your bullshit if you use such a dodgy metric. I would love to end with "and then when it was done washing over me, I was fine" but I'm not really fine yet. I'm still pretty angry and sad about everything. But I think that I will be ok in the long run, and I am…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/20 04:45 PM
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OYS 8 Stats: 21 – 5’9 – 170lbs – 20% BF. Readings: MRP sidebar, TRM, NMMNG, BOP, MAP, Models. Current read: Nothing, I’ve read too much theory, not acted enough, so I plan to let some of the concepts sink into my daily habits before I introduce any new literature. Physical: Currently bulking. When I was sub 15% fat, I was in the wrong mindset of letting my body attract women. After discovering that I was really just compensating my lack of game (and avoidance to deal with that weakness) with loo…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/20 04:37 PM
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That's the point. They won't be instinctual at first. The unplugging happens gradually when you expose yourself to such situations, with an increasing awareness that it really doesn't matter. You will feel pain. But it'll be a pain worth suffering for, because you're choosing to be better in that area.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/20 01:43 PM
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I don't really care about the girl, it's me that bothers me. The fact that I got invested before meeting up, that scarcity consumed me and I was helpless even though I was aware of it happening. I can totally relate. But don't fall into this trap of thinking you're back at square one. You might still be in the early stages, but the unplugging is apparent. What's good about attempting to own your shit is that you gradually get to choose the pain you want to deal with. While scarcity factors in, h…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/20 02:36 AM
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Glad to see someone my age posting here. Keep up the good work. MRP is probably one of the best resources for self-development I've seen. Unfortunately, we don't receive a lot of feedback. But if you're up to it, we can post weekly-ish where we can hold each other accountable through OYS. Let me know. On another note, I notice a lot of fluff. Long term goals are rarely set in stone, so don't feel yourself pressured to spit out lists. Two items per list will do. I noticed that I have been stress …
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/20 12:48 AM
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Well good news and bad news. The bad news is, you're fucking boring. The good news is, we're still in lockdown so you can still find some time developping some other skills.
/r/askTRP02/05/20 01:25 PM
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I get that. I did exactly what you want to do right now. But I learned the hard way that you should NOT compensate your game with looks. If you can game today, regardless of your muscles, do it.
/r/askTRP01/05/20 03:06 AM
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Been there, done that. Would not recommend. A little bitch with gains is still a bitch. Few months ago, I originally decided to cut for the summer and flesh out that six pack. Now, I'm deciding to bulk for a whole year nonstop. Told myself that my body shouldn't be reason I attract women.
/r/askTRP01/05/20 02:57 AM
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That's not an introversion issue. That's a self confidence issue. What do you have to hide from other people to justify being a hermit all the time?
/r/askTRP01/05/20 12:16 AM
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Sup RPS. Think the lack of structure within this sub is what contributes to this kind of post. Asktrp and the main sub could benefit a lot from following MRP's mandatory display of body stats, readings, and weekly progress reports. Wdy think?
/r/askTRP30/04/20 02:56 AM
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Well you naturally got 3 side hoes with open legs waiting to take daddy's cock back at home. Why does one more bitch matter？
/r/askTRP30/04/20 02:43 AM
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Here's a post that can serve as a great analogy. We don't expect anyone outdoing Steve Jobs for Apple anytime soon. The burden of living up to the expectations of others is something that many to-be leaders struggle with. You aren't your father. You shouldn't live in someone's shadow because others expect you to. So don't hold that standard onto yourself; doing great in business means so much more than being a CFO. Tim Cook may not have introduced a wide array of new product lines, but Apple is …
/r/askTRP30/04/20 02:29 AM
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Damn, shoulda provided some comfort dude. That's fucking hilarious. Something along the lines of "Next time, I'll fuck your brains out" would've done it. Wouldn't hold it on her unless it reoccurs.
/r/askTRP30/04/20 02:04 AM
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Think the lack of structure within this sub is what contributes to this spergathon. Asktrp and the main sub could benefit a lot from following MRP's mandatory display of body stats, readings, and weekly progress reports.
/r/askTRP30/04/20 12:06 AM
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I carry a similar story. There was a girl back in college I was lusting after. Petite, cute as hell, great smile. I only knew her a bit, we exchanged a few words but I never had the balls to polarize the interaction into anything more. Fast forward a year later, I meet a good friend of mine at an event, and lo and behold, I meet her again. They were dating. My mood took a huge shift. I was having fun until then, but now there I was, feeling this huge slice on my ego. I was jealous, resentful, an…
/r/TheRedPill29/04/20 09:46 PM
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No one can tell if she actually gives a shit about you. Girls are bored. They'll talk to anybody. Once social distancing gets lifted, she might actually drop you harder than a deadlifter doing his 1RM. Keep your options high, your investment low, and work on your main projects. I say that from strength, not as an average frustrated chump on the path to oneitis. Tell your hamster I said hi.
/r/askTRP29/04/20 06:15 PM
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I enjoy my interactions with friends, but when cold harsh truths need to be said, the relationship can turn sour. I tried to red knight a few friends, but they didn't take it well. They just wanna chill around. This group exists specifically to keep each other accountable. Everyone's on a journey of self-betterment. That's why, for this purpose, the sessions are much better.
/r/askTRP26/04/20 12:25 AM
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This concept first came up to me after I read NMMNG. I've searched a bit on the internet for such spaces around my area. Came into contact with a facilitator and the rest followed.
/r/askTRP25/04/20 05:29 PM
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I condone you for putting in the work before asking your question. That's a great first step. 1- People like to debate whether looks, game, or status (money) plays the bigger role in attraction, but imo the debate is pointless. They're mutually exclusive. Treat them as separate fields that you need to improve on. 2- Dominance as an isolated character trait doesn't do much, because the blue pill sells the dream to women as much as it does to men. It's more like: When a woman looks at you, she ins…
/r/askTRP25/04/20 03:14 PM
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Bingo. A common misconception is listening to girls who say "I like a person 30% for their looks and 70% for their personality". The truth is, the moment you attain a certain attrativeness threshold, she opens herself to being gamed by you. She won't do it for ugly guys, unless the guy has shown tremendous social proof beforehand. But you shouldn't ever compensate one for another. They're two different components that play specific roles in attraction.
/r/askTRP25/04/20 01:28 AM
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Come on. It takes a two minutes snippet at his post history to see that he doesn't get it at all. A contributor providing him with that sweet, sweet validation won't help his case.
/r/askTRP24/04/20 01:41 PM
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Sell us the bad shit going on in your life and maybe we'll consider giving you a more honest reply.
/r/askTRP24/04/20 01:35 PM
1

Fix yourself first. The rest will come.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 04:59 PM
18

Men rejoice at marriages because they think they'll get daily blowjobs for the rest of their lives. Women rejoice at marriages because they don't have to give daily blowjobs for the rest of their lives. It's not because you're a hubby that you deserve sex. Look at dead bedrooms; they're full of fat older dudes tryna do chores and shit to relieve their women from stress. They have no clue about the laws of attraction.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/20 04:36 PM
2

The point is: Who gives a shit if you like uglier girls. You won't need our opinion when you start like black chicks. Just do you.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 04:10 PM
8

Some people like anal, some people like sucking on toes. The amount of questions about personal preference are ridiculous.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 04:03 PM
5

Pook has once said: "Women become what they wear, but men wear who they are." First, as shallow as you want to label it, you need to put some effort into your physical appearance. Nobody wants to deal with someone who physically conveys themselves as an emotional wreck. You can gather dirt all you want, if you're not putting some effort into your appearances, you'll always be subjected to negative bias. Second, you're definitely speaking out of resentment. Anyone in your shoes would feel the sam…
/r/askTRP21/04/20 11:36 PM
1

You're missing the forest for the trees. Altering whatever definition I had doesn't make it any better for you. I'm probably not the first nor will I be the last to call you out on your bullshit. You seem hopeless for now. Peace.
/r/askTRP21/04/20 07:48 PM
3

My question is, why is she so invested in all of this? That's hilarious. Did you see yourself? Look, the bigger problem here has NOTHING to do with her. It's about you. You've created this ego-invested image of yourself that emulates all sorts of alpha behavior without actually being one. We call those people LARPs. You may be physically miles ahead from who you were, but internally, you're weak. And you like playing with other people's perceptions to shield your weaknesses. You are a narcissist…
/r/askTRP21/04/20 07:15 PM
1

It's a journey. I'll let you enjoy discovering those things by yourself.
/r/askTRP21/04/20 06:37 PM
5

Menial and moral values that have been of extreme value to the progress of humanity as a whole. The Blue Pill is absolutely needed to sustain society, but the Red Pill has the most potency on an individual level. It's useful to consider the weight each side holds.
/r/askTRP20/04/20 06:35 PM
22

Fresh meat always gets butchered, you absolutely need to break down your old world views in order to give place to this new one. Nothing worth fighting for comes easy. Welcome to the Red Pill.
/r/askTRP20/04/20 04:18 PM
4

Thanks for clarifying bro, I'm not super English proficient.
/r/askTRP19/04/20 03:35 AM
7

Good shit OP. How'd you network during this period? On another note, it'd be nice to have this kind of post weekly.
/r/askTRP19/04/20 03:29 AM
1

How are the knee bruises going on for you?
/r/askTRP19/04/20 03:27 AM
1

You think women like you for your: height, face, hair, dick size, whatever else. Height and dick size are out of your control. You can complain, you can fight whoever the fuck you want, those won't change. Women actually like you for you: game, muscles, social status You can practice game everywhere, you can build some nice gains at that gym, and a nice job (school) will do a of good things to your social status. Those are all within your control, shit you can manage. So stop complaining about t…
/r/askTRP14/04/20 04:54 PM
1

Her attempts to make you jealous are called shit tests. There's a nice link on the asktrp sidebar covering most of the topics needed to handle them.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 02:15 PM
1

Stopped at 17. Hard truth fella, but you're probably not well-versed enough to contribute to this sub yet.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/20 02:35 AM
1

Damn. Let's cut through the bullshit here. You're 100% the problem. You're insecure as fuck blaming everything else besides yourself for your weaknesses. ​ I'm 5.9 and he's 6.3. That's your first shortcoming. Unless you're under 5 ft, height doesn't even qualify among the top 5 best factors women are attracted to. You're the ONLY one measuring yourself with this metric, everyone else doesn't give a shit. And that's obviously something you can't change. I cursed them for their awful genetics And …
/r/askTRP13/04/20 10:25 PM
1

I don't know anything about you. Chances are, you know what you want for the future much more than I do. Best all-purpose advice I can give is to lift, to be mindful of your spending habits, and to develop some good friends.
/r/askTRP13/04/20 10:11 PM
2

You might have hygiene, but more importantly, do you lift? Body dysmorphia is meaningless until you chisel yourself to sub 12% & lifting several times more your own weight. Yes, those were shit-tests: there's a nice link on the sidebar on how to handle them.
/r/askTRP13/04/20 10:07 PM
2

That depends, would you suck yourself then?
/r/askTRP13/04/20 10:00 PM
1

Keep your mental jerk off to yourself.
/r/askTRP13/04/20 09:59 PM
5

MGTOW tends to represent guys who've have more of their fair share of women before committing to a dry-spell. Not some kid who decided grapes were sour because he couldn't reach them. That being said, goal-oriented people don't care if you're MGTOW or rainbow pilled. They will take you up with what you have to offer. Those labels mean jackshit.
/r/askTRP13/04/20 09:57 PM
6

Let's establish one thing. There's no shame in making such a mistake. Admit it's simply a fuck up instead of giving it an 9/10 on the fuck up scale. Just don't look back nor bring this up, focus on your own shit, and maybe take up some mindful exercises such as meditation.
/r/askTRP13/04/20 09:54 PM
20

"Social Status Whores" as we call them. Those who filter you out for not having a foreign, a Rolex, and some designer clothes. Social media pales in comparison, but they tend to strongly overlap.
/r/askTRP13/04/20 09:47 PM
6

Guys who start dishing RP advice are validation whores who need their world view approved by others, exactly as you mentioned. I used to red knight people, but all I got was backlash. Your actions should convey your advantage and those who respect you will follow. Those who don't, well too bad.
/r/askTRP12/04/20 03:03 PM
2

Books to read: WISNIFG, NMMNG
/r/askTRP10/04/20 07:11 PM
1

To each their own interpretation. Most Christians are not an accurate representation of their religion either. Only the extremists will stand out, especially on the internet. If it doesn't benefit you to follow this sub, just don't do it. No one gives a shit.
/r/askTRP09/04/20 06:32 PM
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Lmfao at least spell the damn word right. "Fagit" just looks like a failed attempt to seem tough.
/r/askTRP08/04/20 01:56 AM
1

Think you hit the nail here. It's really just therapy by exposure, and having my own experience dictate how much I should calibrate.
/r/askTRP06/04/20 03:08 AM
7

You sound like the kind of guy who would only LTR virgins.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/20 12:10 AM
5

Kinda in the same boat, though I don’t have a father nor a sister. It’s just me and my mother. Ever since I stumbled upon the red pill, I’ve been trying to reclaim ownership of our family, set some ground rules and manage the important aspects of it. However, I came to realize that it was futile: 1- Growing up in a single mother household, I’ve always operated in her frame. She was the breadwinner, she managed finances, she took the major decisions. There’s no short time frame where I can flip t…
/r/TheRedPill26/03/20 08:53 PM
3

OYS 7.5: Taking a Break Stats: 21 – 5’9 – 158.3lbs – 15.4% BF. Readings: 30% MRP sidebar, TRM, 48 Laws of Power, NMMNG, BOP, MAP. Physical: Current – SQ (205 lbs 5x5) – BP (185 lbs 5x5) – OHP (85 lbs 5x3) – DL (245 lbs 5x3) Goal by Dec – SQ (275 lbs 5x5) – BP (225 lbs 5x5) – OHP (115 lbs 5x5) – DL (315 lbs 5x3) All that’s relevant. I keep wasting my time here victim-puking, generating countless excuses, and mentally masturbating. Has been so since my first OYS. More like NOMS. Nothing has change…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/03/20 12:47 AM
1

My question seemed to be "Why is GLO and similar ECs so into their own paradigms" whereas my real question was really "Why are they so much into that intellectualism in the first place". Logic/rationale doesn't exist to objectively understand the world, but to convince others to embrace our own framing of the objective world. And you just hit the nail on the coffin. This whole mental masturbation stems from prioritizing the wrong stuff in my journey. Brb gonna go eat dinner.
/r/askTRP05/03/20 09:50 PM
1

Had to search up half the -ism words. Liberalism is the egalitarian belief we're all roughly equal at the start. I do firmly believe most humans are equal at the start, and that the way you were raised will strongly dictate the way your life unfolds. But I'm not a fan of equal opportunity or equal rights, if that what you were actually referring to. Ever since my frequent lurking, I have taken a much more individualistic approach in life, because I realized that I have been lacking in making dec…
/r/askTRP05/03/20 05:43 PM
1

I got a bunch, they're respective to each field though. Got different ones for academics, lifting, sports, and personal projects. But ultimately that wasn't my topic. My topic touched more on my ego's preservation tactics that restricted actionable contributions to my goals. That's something I'm working on thanks to the help of MRP recommended literature.
/r/askTRP05/03/20 03:21 AM
5

I agreed with most of the content in the video until he slapped a political label on the unapologetic man. I'm not at the point in my life where I deem society worth saving, especially since I haven't even saved myseld yet. Those who simply do not give a shit about Leftist values can benefit from not hearing that noise at all, and that's the temporary solution I've chosen to deal with all that crap. I do however understand much more after your exchanges with u/bsutansalt. Thanks for the input. C…
/r/askTRP05/03/20 01:32 AM
3

That's implying that we know exactly what to do to get to our goals. That's often not the case, especially not in mine. I've circle jerked my redpilledness in this sub for a full year before realizing I was a LARP and still didn't understand shit. I glued my fucking eyes to the theory, expecting minimum mistakes, yet that whole mentality was wrong. Guilty as charged. It's clear to me that I must unfuck my programming to a certain degree before being able to use actionable RP advice to embrace my…
/r/askTRP04/03/20 08:10 PM
2

My takeaway is that you've unfucked yourself to the point where you decided it was relevant to help others unfuck themselves too. And that your preferred method of instruction is deeply tied to your beliefs of how the American system should be relative to the European model. I've personally never set foot on the European continent, nor read any of its literature, so I cannot relate at all. So I can't really assess Europe's "red pill level", though I will keep your perspective in mind when I even…
/r/askTRP04/03/20 08:04 PM
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This is not really about theory, but more about the interpretation and the weight attributed to some of the theory. I am aware that experience will mostly dictate what one will say. Though I mostly understand the rationale behind our 30+ y-o bachelor ECs who prefer open relationships and spinning plates (notably Fereally, itswr1tten, Vasya, etc.), I get lost whenever I try to understand u/GayLubeOil's perspective. Take my upcoming paragraph with a grain of salt because I'm fully aware that I mig…
/r/askTRP04/03/20 04:41 PM
1

OYS 7 Stats: 21 y-o – 5’9 – 158lbs – 18.4% BF tested in July – single. Readings: Completed: 30% MRP sidebar, TRM, 48 Laws of Power, NMMNG, BOP. Upcoming: MAP. Physical Current SQ (205 lbs 5x5) – Injured BP (185 lbs 5x5) OHP (85 lbs 5x3) DL (245 lbs 5x3) – Injured Pull-ups (10x3) Injured myself by shooting too high while deadlifting, which also revived an injury I had with squats last fall. I currently cannot extend my right leg without pain shooting in my lower back. Going to do some stretching …
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/20 06:50 PM
6

Why? Just let her know beforehand. There's no shame in hiding your sexuality. Most parents don't care if their kids can hear it from the other room.
/r/askTRP01/03/20 12:31 AM
8

Let's address something we don't often talk about: the fact that many new TRPers, despite chanting AWALT day and night, are still trying to find "the one". They go through vetting processes such as "she has a tattoo, piercings, studies arts, no father" and, finally yours... "she's hella good at sex." Through this experience, you should come to realize that many women, even holding what seem to be red flags, can be effectively managed as long as she sees you as her immovable rock. You have to cal…
/r/askTRP01/03/20 12:26 AM
7

"Hey mom, I'm going on a date tonight, and I might bring her back home. Is that fine?" Logistics shouldn't ever be an issue if you don't have anything to hide.
/r/askTRP01/03/20 12:09 AM
1

I'll address your last 3 bodies. How do you know you’re not simply falling prey to the Just World Fallacy [...] blaming disappointments on external factors out of their control, preferentially identify with black pill & incel ideas. I didn't know what the Just World Fallacy was, so I had a look online. It's described as: "Instances where people want to believe that the world is fair; they will look for ways to explain or rationalize away injustice, often blaming the person in a situation who is …
/r/TheRedPill29/02/20 09:26 PM
90

The advent of social media has greatly skewed the dating pool in favor of women. Guys get teased and increasingly follow women whose profiles showcase ass, tits and filtered duckfaces; they think they're getting their eyes blessed, but reality is, they're receiving the short end of the stick while inflating each instathot's value by showering them with attention. Social media has also raised their expectations. With their 11k follower base, they think they deserve someone with at least that much…
/r/TheRedPill27/02/20 03:01 PM
2

I don't really hold a general opinion on that, because it doesn't matter. You see a wide range of answers on this thread, none of which are incorrect, from "fuck yes" to "never", and it all comes down to each guy's set of values, experience, and knowledge in TRP content. This is essentially where the discussion becomes useless.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/20 02:13 PM
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Cheating, on paper, is bad. Though I'm compelled to think that's a blue pill belief. Cheating, in practice though, needs a bit more analysis. I believe it happens because the other partner is inept to fulfill the sexual tingles in the cheater. Attraction cannot be negotiated, and even less maintained by trying to fix the relationship. I'm talking about stuff like covert contracts, where the guy washes dishes, does chores, etc., basically anything to "relieve his woman from stress" to expect sex.…
/r/TheRedPill26/02/20 05:53 PM
1

OYS 6 Stats: 21 y-o – 5’9 – 158lbs – 18.4% BF tested in July – single. Readings: Completed: 20% MRP sidebar, TRM, 48 Laws of Power, NMMNG. Reading: Book of Pook 50%. BOP is a refreshing read. The tone is completely opposite from NMMNG; one is very technical, the other almost too poetic. And the “stop intellectualizing everything” message really stuck with me. When I grew attached to an outcome, I always tried to compartmentalize the emotions from the rational and approached the situation like so…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/02/20 05:52 PM
2

OYS 5 Stats: 21 y-o – 5’9 – 156.8lbs – 18.4% BF tested in July – single. Readings: Completed: 20% MRP sidebar, TRM, 48 Laws of Power, NMMNG. Upcoming: Book of Pook. Physical SQ (185 lbs 5x5) BP (185 lbs 5x5) OHP (85 lbs 7x3) DL (235 lbs 3x3) Pull-ups (10x3) Recap of Goals from last OYS · Finish NMMNG; Will elaborate more below. · Wreck my exams; · Maintain around 6-7 days of lifting and meditation during the week. Mental Albeit the redundant bullet points and occasional typos, NMMNG was a great …
/r/MarriedRedPill18/02/20 01:27 PM
3

Missed this completely. I don't have an end goal. I strive to maximize self sufficiency, finances being the biggest short term component. Right now, I recognize that my approach is extremely unsustainable. I'm currently reading NMMNG and I identify myself as the archetypal Nice guy, without a wife. Most of the things I'm doing right now is to try and rewire my paradigm where I can ultimately be comfortable with owning my shit. Right now, I have little to no value to offer. I'm at best a LARPing …
/r/MarriedRedPill13/02/20 04:36 AM
1

Thanks. Nice to be reminded that I always havd the option to walk away.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/20 11:05 AM
1

I’m still trying to figure out what’s relevant and what isn’t in my OYSs. Decided it’d be better to download dating apps once my first wave of exams finish. And I don’t have the balls to cold approach a woman with intention of closing her number. Dating apps and whatever’s left of my social circles will be my go-to for now.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/20 01:36 AM
2

OYS 4 Stats: 21 y-o – 5’9 – 155lbs – 18.4% BF tested in July – single. Readings: Read: 20% MRP sidebar, TRM audiobook, 48 Laws of Power. Read last week: Nothing. I have no excuse. I want to feel comfortable sounding like a little bitch who “just forgets” to read, but I’ll be honest, I deliberately overlook the readings. I’m being a lazy fuck for no reason at all. This upcoming week is going to be pretty academically brutal for me, and yet, because I’ve taken so much slack on this aspect of MRP, …
/r/MarriedRedPill11/02/20 10:37 AM
1

Word. Really proves that I really need to spend more time outside my home.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/20 07:42 PM
1

OYS 3 Stats: 21 y-o – 5’9 – 158lbs – 18.4% BF tested in July – single. Readings: Read: 20% MRP sidebar, TRM audiobook, 48 Laws of Power. To finish (pre-May): BOP, NMMNG, MAP, Models. More readings (post-May): TRM, WISNIFG, MMSLP, WOTSM, SGM. Physical · SQ Current: 135lbs – 8 reps (2 months ago) Goal (May): Aiming for 185lbs – 5 reps · BP Current: 175lbs – 5 reps Goal (May): Aiming for 195lbs – 5 reps · OHP Current: 95lbs – 3 reps Goal (May): Aiming for 100lbs – 7 reps · BR Pull-ups Current: 10 p…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/20 11:59 AM
6

You're not leading your family. All you have been doing is externalizing the blame. How your WIFE is always arguing. How your WIFE is destroying your marriage and kid. How your WIFE has been making you miserable. What you're not getting is that your lack of leadership is the underlying reason behind your whirpool. You are the only one responsible for being the bedrock of your family. You may be STFUing, but without complementing it with the other theory, it's useless. It's not relevant by itself…
/r/askMRP02/02/20 01:42 PM
1

Hmm. You're saying that I have to partially hold my looks responsible for my lack of attractiveness? Honestly never thought of that. Think that's fair. I acknowledge that the gap separating my current self from my best physical form is huge. Though I always thought myself more or less able to stand out wherever I go simply by being there. Maybe not. Regardless, my fitness goal for the next few months is specifically here to address the fact that I should be relying less on looks and more on game…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/01/20 09:23 PM
1

OYS 2 Stats: 21 y-o – 5’9 – 157lbs – 18.4% BF tested in July – single. Readings: 20% sidebar (Had an in-depth look, realized I missed a lot of it) – BOP, NMMNG, MAP, WOTSM, and Models came in Sunday. Haven’t started though. Plan on finishing them before April, then I’ll order TRM and WISNIFG. I’m also about 20 pages into the Manipulated Man, not a fan. Thinking of dropping it if it doesn’t get better halfway. Physical · SQ: 135 – 8 reps (2 months ago) · BP: 165lbs – 5 reps · OHP: 75lbs – 8 reps …
/r/MarriedRedPill28/01/20 04:38 PM
2

Fucking hell that was hard to read. I'm on it.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/20 01:00 PM
1

I have similar stats to you (age & weight). I lost my virginity to a valentine date off Tinder last year. She wanted to feel validated, I wanted that breakthrough. It was an absolutely underwhelming experience. We're pretty much in the same lifeboat. Start by posting on the OYS posts every Tuesday (pinned). You'll have a bunch of templates to read before writing yours. Be brutally honest about your weaknesses. Hope to see you there in the upcoming weeks.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/20 12:34 AM
0

I'm currently recovering from a foot injury, so only doing upper body workouts right now. Should be back to normal in a week. I'll keep you posted on my lifts. Regarding women, I admittedly haven't planned on how to approach this problem yet. Since I have no female friends, I did plan on making a few & keeping them for game practice. I don't plan on forsaking life's pleasures for financial freedom, but I can afford to forsake some short term gratification for long term goals? It's not like I wil…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/20 12:21 AM
2

I'm aware I don't know the answer. I'm many books, a fuckton of experience, and perhaps more than 14 years away from knowing what being financially free means. But I will explore my options as much as I can, and plan on posting in OYS weekly. Thank you for your advice.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/01/20 03:13 PM
1

Sup dude, you're not alone. I think this is a necessary step if you truly want to accept what needs to be done. Expecting to see you every week. Cheers.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/01/20 01:36 AM
1

In short, to have enough passive income annually so that I dedicate my time to other projects (like writing)
/r/MarriedRedPill23/01/20 01:21 AM
1

Maybe you shouldn't pay for sex tapes.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/01/20 11:34 PM
1

OYS 1 Stats: 21 y-o – 5’9 – 155lbs – 18.4% BF tested in July – single. Readings: TRM audiobook (will have to re-read) – 60% sidebar – Ordering NMMNG, MAP, WOTSM, WISNIFG right after I finish this post. Physical · SQ: 135lbs – 10 reps · BP: 155lbs – 8 reps · OHP: 75lbs – 8 reps · BR: 115lbs – 8 reps · DL: 165lbs – 5 reps (was 8 months ago) Mental I’ll start with the facts. I’m a faggot. Been into TRP for a bit over a year, I took all the stuff in absolutes. Stopped talking to all the women during…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/01/20 09:25 PM
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