JakarrSlamson Archive

Upvotes	Title	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
4	Being the rebound?	JakarrSlamson	/r/askTRP	22/08/17 04:28 PM
3	Help clubbing sober	JakarrSlamson	/r/askTRP	28/08/17 05:34 AM
0	Roommates or no Roommates?	JakarrSlamson	/r/askTRP	09/09/18 05:49 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	A "pookie" online profile, someone make sense of this. His inbox is exploding with dumb women and bots who nobody here should be legitimately interested in anyways. You could make the same profile with a 10/10 woman with “cunt” tattoed on her face and men would still swipe right. I don’t understand the point here besides that there are a ton of idiots and bots on dating sites interested in matching with each other. Men with frame and good values will always attract and keep better quality women than fuckboys and punks.	/r/TheRedPill	16/07/24 07:10 AM
1	Need a workout routine If you have a busy life and are comfortable with where you’re at, 3 days is enough each week. I usually do Bench+Squat+Accessories on 2 of the days and Deadlift+Incline/Overhead+Accessories on 1 middle day. Then I fit in cardio and abs when I have time throughout the week. If you have a lot of time on your hands and are dedicated to improvement I’d say do PPL or NSUNS. I made the most strength progress with NSUNS and the most size progress with PPL.	/r/askTRP	05/06/19 09:06 PM
4	What to do for my date tommorow? My suggestion is DM the current bf and tell him the situation. Don’t ask his permission to fuck or anything like that. Just be like “look dude, my ex gf hit me up and talked all this shit about you and wants to reconnect with me. Im trying to be a good person and wanted to let you know. Let me know if you want to get drinks. Sorry, this shit sucks - I know.” Basically tell him what’s happening. If he mans up and breaks up with the girl, you might have a new bro and can feel good knowing you help…	/r/askTRP	21/05/19 11:31 PM
1	Is this gym routine good? For deadlift you can replace by doing trap bar deadlifts or single leg deadlifts. Sumo is good too but it’s closer to a squat imo. Many pro athletes do trap bar because it’s less dangerous for your back. Tbh I think trap bar are better unless you are doing professional lifting. I like single leg deadlifts with a kettlebell too, I feel like I get a good burn in my legs and lower back when I do them even though the weight isn’t as high. It’s good for balance as well.	/r/askTRP	14/05/19 10:14 PM
0	3 weeks, 3 dates, no sex... My current ltr is pretty conservative and we didn’t have sex at all in the first month of dating. I would say keep going out, but don’t spend much money on dates or anything. She is most likely looking for commitment, which you shouldn’t ever give her unless you are looking for an LTR rather than plates. I would use commitment as the reward for her having sex with you (if you are into commitment - I know many here aren’t). Don’t give her the reward though until you are sexually satisfied.	/r/askTRP	16/01/19 09:40 PM
14	Gf plans to meet her ex next week. Best course of procedure due to holidays? They will act like that fact isn’t true, but deep down they know it is	/r/askTRP	14/12/18 07:38 PM
11	Gf plans to meet her ex next week. Best course of procedure due to holidays? If OP is as professional as he sounds, the dad should be able to figure it out on his own	/r/askTRP	14/12/18 07:14 PM
7	Girl keeps leaving me on read? Yeah that was a mistake. You should’ve just left it alone. She would either A forget about you or B give in and go on a date. Now she is going to show the internet or her friends lol	/r/askTRP	01/12/18 10:28 PM
2	Girl keeps leaving me on read? She is most definitely seeing or talking to another guy right now, and you are one of her backup options if it doesn’t work out with her number 1	/r/askTRP	01/12/18 10:16 PM
1	Is music or sports a better hobby? I would keep the band and switch from cross country to track. Track would be better suited to your lifting goals and you could probably even convince the coaches to let you do weight training. Kill two birds with one stone while getting to keep your band and sport (I would guess many cross country kids do track as well anyways).	/r/askTRP	07/11/18 09:57 PM
4	Should I stop playing video games? Trp is only against video games when it is an addiction, something preventing you from doing healthy things like going to the gym or being social. I wouldnt make video games your entire life, but there is definitely room for them, especially if you can earn money and gain popularity while doing it.	/r/askTRP	03/11/18 12:22 AM
1	When to text after number close I text nearly immediately. If they flake or ghost you, it was going to happen anyways - you find out sooner at least. If they are interested in you, you can meet up sooner and get things moving faster.	/r/askTRP	01/11/18 09:20 PM
1	As a young man in college with lots of wealth what should i do with my money? If you plan on living near your college for the next 3-4 years, buy a house there and rent out rooms to friends. Basically you are making an investment in realestate which will gain value, other people are paying rent for your equity, and you have complete control over your own home life (can throw epic parties, can have a hottub, etc). This is exactly what I am doing. I pay $0 per month towards my mortgage since my roommates are all paying rent to cover it. I basically get to live in a house fo…	/r/askTRP	01/11/18 08:19 PM
2	When seeing a girl, are you single until 'the talk'? Yes. The girl will always ask first and bring up exclusivity if you are her #1. 1 important thing, do not ask the girl you are currently seeing if you are exclusive or allowed to see other girls. It will definitely end things (speaking from bp experience). Its up to you if you want to kill other options and risk it all on girl 1 or if you want to meet other women and risk girl 1 getting pissed because she had assumed exclusivity. If you want to expedite things, maybe casually mention to girl 1 t…	/r/askTRP	23/10/18 05:20 PM
6	Why not just live the nightlife lifestyle? Someone explain to me where my logic is fucking up on this. To each their own, but I would rather be sexless than waste my time, money, and health chasing the thrill of nightlife adventures. I would rather go out to delicious dinner with an LTR, go back home to my spa and get head in bed on a weeknight than spend hours validating losers, pretending to have fun, and acting like a monkey for attention. I also just hate the majority of people, and crowded places is the opposite of a fun time for me after a hard week of work. Why go out to some shitty club w…	/r/askTRP	23/10/18 04:53 PM
7	Is it ever ok for the guy to bring up dating exclusively? Save yourself the trouble/heartbreak and never go exclusive until the girl asks and the girl is worth it. The weakest thing you can do in a relationship is care about exclusivity early on.	/r/askTRP	22/10/18 07:48 PM
3	I don’t want to go to gym anymore If you stop going now, people will catch up to you by the time you get to college. If you are ok with being average, then stop going. If you want to continue being ahead of everyone else, keep pressing. If it's truly a pain, just go down to a 3 day a week routine.	/r/askTRP	16/10/18 07:27 PM
1	How would you raise an alpha son? Make sure mom has time to read to him and cook for him and that you have time to play sports with him and jokw with him. Make sure he is top reading level and his schedule is packed once he starts school. Keep him away from the tv and outside playing sports. 1 big thing that nobody talks about is that you should try and make sure your kid is one of the oldest in his class. Better odds that he will reach puberty quicker which will help him early on with being the best at sports, gaining confidenc…	/r/askTRP	15/10/18 12:31 AM
1	What's a sport you can start at 14? I played all the way around and we won league. Most people on our team picked up the game once they got to highschool. I'm 6'3" and have a pretty good vert I think since I can dunk. Im in norcal- I think mens volleyball competition wise can differ alot based on location though. Our final game I remember I blocked some black guy who had a D1 scholarship 3 times in a row lol. Honestly sports is gonna depend mostly on genetics so you just have to get lucky. One guy had started playing a year before…	/r/askTRP	14/10/18 06:41 AM
1	What's a sport you can start at 14? You can also look into more specialty sports like rafting, skiing, snowboarding, mountain biking, rock climbing, etc. Those will be more enjoyable post high school, get you outdoors, have plenty of hot women, and seem to rely less on talent and more on fitness and practice. I remember the skii and snowboard club at my college had the most ridiculous parties.	/r/askTRP	14/10/18 02:53 AM
1	What's a sport you can start at 14? Rec sports keep you busy, you meet more friends outside of your high school, and you will get better at sports for when it comes time to play in college+ (as everything becomes rec after that point). They are also less committment- usually 2 practices a week and a game on weekends vs practice every day. You can also build your skills playing those sports and maybe compete for a spot in your school later on. For example, I feel like if you played soccer enough on your own and upped your already d…	/r/askTRP	14/10/18 02:45 AM
2	Is it possible to be a weeb Chad? The only difference between a weeb and a chad is confidence and attractiveness. You should like whatever you like and not worry about what other people think of you. Just beware that it is harder to meet hot women into videogames and anime than it is to meet hot women into rock climbing and kayaking. Make an effort to be well rounded.	/r/askTRP	14/10/18 02:32 AM
-1	What's a sport you can start at 14? Volleyball was pretty easy if youre coordinated and tall. I had never played before my junior year of high school and ended up winning mvp of the team my senior year. Everyone on the team was chill too because nobody took it seriously. Every practice we would goof off to the point that our coaches kept quitting. Whats funny though is even though we didn't care, we won most of our games. If you have a school where the team are all tryhards though dont play. Id say something like rowing, golf, ten…	/r/askTRP	14/10/18 02:27 AM
2	Is it rational to beat up a guy you catch cheating with your woman? My take would to be just ignore the dude. Then just show the girl that her cheating doesn't even matter to you. If it's an LTR, ghost her if she isn't worth the effort or just silently demote her into a plate and start seeing other girls. If it's a plate, you shouldn't care in the first place. It's not worth the energy to stir up drama when you can simply move on and forget, especially since girls tends to crave the drama. Moving on and forgetting is honestly the best weapon you have, because it…	/r/askTRP	12/10/18 02:09 PM
2	Got bullied, was too timid and nervous about the consequences to fight back First off, lift to make yourself look more threatening. What i do if some drunk prick is trying to pick a fight with me or something is just laugh it off and start recording.	/r/askTRP	10/10/18 04:21 PM
2	Public hugging One time i was at the uni gym and got blindsided and kissed out of nowhere by a plate. I straight up told her never do that again, and it only made her more interested in me lol.	/r/askTRP	04/10/18 03:59 PM
1	Too lazy to workout at 100% effort at the gym You should probably eat a lot more. It's not even worth worrying about being lean until you make it to the 1000 club, and even then you should get beyond that first. I would reccomend eating 4 meals a day. Meal 1 a protein shake (or eggs if you like then) and some sort of carbs (bagel, toast, muffin, etc). Meal 2 a lean meat (chicken, fish, turkey) and veggies. Meal 3 a pick-me-up pbj or similar 500 cal snack before you head to the gym. Meal 4 a red meat (steak, ground beef), carbs (potatoes, pa…	/r/askTRP	04/10/18 02:23 PM
1	Combining lifting and Combat Sports I think you can balance it just fine as long as you listen to your body at first. I like to workout a lot, but also love playing basketball to the point where I'll spend 2 hours maybe twice a week playing fullcourt 5v5s. This absolutely kills my legs, so I make sure I only have arm routines for the days after. Getting exercise through a sport is the best 2for1 though. I'm always in a great mood after sports and enjoy the social aspect. I actually met a majority of my friends in college just by g…	/r/askTRP	04/10/18 02:10 PM
-8	Did taking vitamin D improve you in any way? Get that calcium, vitamin c, and vitamin d fortified Minute Maid Orange Juice. Perfect every day after my morning jog.	/r/askTRP	01/10/18 04:48 AM
3	TRP Transformed My Entire Life Keep lifting. Will help your confidence and frame immensely. What I found to help me the most was forcing myself into uncomfortable social situations. For example, find a corec sports league at your city or university and sign up for a team alone as a free agent. Go in with the frame of mind that you aren't going to try and mess around with any girl on the team. It is much easier to socialize when you have something in common to talk about and are only interested in finding friends. Eventually a…	/r/askTRP	28/09/18 08:52 PM
50	TRP Transformed My Entire Life Similar to me. I went into trp an 18 year old boy and leave a 22 year old man. While I might not be able to pay it forward online anymore, I will try to offer my advice to young men I sense struggling the same way I did.	/r/askTRP	28/09/18 06:43 AM
38	Why is the red pill sub unavailable ? TRP is the one thing that finally motivated me to start loving myself. Got me to work harder, lift, and be more social. I used to be pretty depressed and socially anxious and didn't understand why people didn't like me. The truth that the red pill taught me was that it was because I didn't like myself. TRP didnt teach me to hate women or be "alpha", it taught me to accept that some things are out of my control and to focus on the things that are in my control, the same thing that stoicism teache…	/r/askTRP	27/09/18 09:38 PM
1	Hiding that you are rich guide? Wealth can help you so it would hurt to hide it. Best option for you I'd say would be to let girls figure out that you're wealthy on their own. Don't flaunt wealth or anything, but leave subtle hints that let them "find out on their own". Then girls will see you as both high status and humble.	/r/askTRP	25/09/18 08:10 PM
6	What I realized when I started working an 8-5 office job: about time, money, and women. Are you from sacramento too? Im in the same situation right now haha. Im 22 and making 70k a year as an actuary, just bought a 4 bed 2 bath house for like 340k total with a huge backyard for parties. I will be able to rent out 3 of the bedrooms to students because Sacramento State is down the block and not only pay for the entire mortgage, but profit. I also just bought a brand new car. Basically after car payments, food, etc i will be savings around 3ishk a month while getting 1200 a month in e…	/r/TheRedPill	25/09/18 05:06 AM
3	What are some things every man should experience once in life? A near death experience or watching somebody you love die. Not on purpose obviously, but I think both of these events can completely change your worldview.	/r/askTRP	18/09/18 03:22 AM
12	Career Save up as much money as you can working your boring job and buy up real estate until you get to a place where you make enough money from your real estate that you no longer need to work.	/r/askTRP	11/09/18 12:01 AM
1	Roommates or no Roommates? Im 6'3" and in great shape, im also a pacifist though so I literally never get into fights. I wouldnt worry about that. I think having my own place would be dope, but it might be even better to save up a little more money so I can capitalize once the housing market dips (I know it wont crash again, but sooner or later it will fall back down a bit). My social circle is pretty bleak because i just moved home from college and most of my old friends are gone. Any tips for finding quality roommates?	/r/askTRP	09/09/18 09:39 PM
1	Roommates or no Roommates? Yeah that makes sense. I'm thinking about maybe just dealing with the shit commute until I can find someone who would make a good roommate.	/r/askTRP	09/09/18 08:28 PM
0	Roommates or no Roommates? Yeah, i had roommates in college because it was a necessity for money. Now that I have money, the situation is different. I always liked having roommates, but I would have to find a great set of roommates to make it worth it at this point.	/r/askTRP	09/09/18 08:00 PM
1	Roommates or no Roommates? Thats another pro, but it completely depends on the roommates.	/r/askTRP	09/09/18 07:58 PM
4	I don’t wanna be a sucker and spend so much time and money on a girl who doesn’t sleep with with me, but then I don’t want a hoe. What’s the happy medium? I give 3ish dates. First date should be easy and less than an hour. Coffee or froyo. Figure out if they are a hoe or catfish and if their personality is passable. I usually schedule like a friday or saturday date and then try and squeeze in this easy predate during the week so they dont lose interest. Only light touching and hugs on date 1. 2nd date is the real deal. If you dont end up at least kissing or feeling her everywhere, then you should probably move on because your opportunity is gone. …	/r/askTRP	08/09/18 06:30 PM
1	Tinder opener for extremely generic girl Not worth it to think hard for an opener. Just say their name. If they respond, they are interested and you can think of something then. If they dont respond, they were never interested, so you didn't waste time thinking of something clever to say.	/r/askTRP	05/09/18 12:57 AM
2	From a messed up virgin, I decided to change and went with an escort If you are in great shape and have a bachelors in electrical engineering, your problem is probably social anxiety. I'm guessing you are a great texter, but shy as fuck in real life. The escort experience should help you when you actually have sex, but to really help yourself, you need to put yourself in uncomfortable situations. An escort is just an easy way out, a comfortable situation because you don't need strong social skills. Your steps should be (1) make friends, (2) go out with these frie…	/r/askTRP	24/08/18 05:51 PM
1	LTR is going on a trek with one of her guy friends. Next? Oh my mistake. If he was invited then he should definitely just go lol. Its one thing if its a plate, but this is an LTR	/r/askTRP	23/08/18 11:20 PM
-3	LTR is going on a trek with one of her guy friends. Next? That doesn't make any sense why they wouldn't let you come. The dude sounds like a real POS to set up a 1on1 trip with a girl whos already in an LTR. My move would be to try and set up some sort of lunch/dinner or something with both of them beforehand so you can get to know him. If she says no, then its obvious that youve gotta next. If she says yes, you should be able to tell his intentions at the lunch/dinner, even ask about the upcoming trek.	/r/askTRP	23/08/18 09:02 PM
2	A little advice from you guys Martial arts, swimming, and basketball will at least keep you in shape and should be enough for cardio. You still need to lift though, at least 3 days a week.	/r/askTRP	22/08/18 06:25 PM
2	How do i approach this scenario? Best approach would've been to forget about her the moment you got that text, rather than posting on reddit. She is clearly still on your mind, when she shouldn't be anymore.	/r/askTRP	22/08/18 06:11 PM
1	How do i approach this scenario? "Ok, enjoy the rest of your summer"	/r/askTRP	22/08/18 06:03 PM
2	How do some of these women stay so skinny? Most jog or do bodyweight workouts like pilates. Think about it too though. If these women can make themselves as attractive as possible, they can probably get any man they want. If you were given a guarantee that you could get any girl you want and the only conditional was that you had to stay thin, wouldn't you?	/r/askTRP	22/08/18 05:41 AM
1	How do you guys deal with depression? +1 on diet. Definitely experiment with dairy and gluten. I would eat yogurt and drink milk nearly every morning, and would always feel gassy and bloated. Cut out the yogurt and switched to almond milk and now I don't have those issues any more. Gluten can be the same way, and can even effect sleep.	/r/askTRP	22/08/18 05:21 AM
7	Do you guys do dates? Do coffee or ice cream as first date. If you can close, close. If you cant, then you should at least have a better picture of whether or not the girl is worth any further effort or not.	/r/askTRP	21/08/18 02:16 AM
5	Any redpill advice specifically for school? Wake up before 6 and go to sleep before 11 on most days. Gym before class nearly every morning. Join the club for your major. Look for the most successful looking people at the first club meeting and introduce yourself to them. Network and put in the work here. This will look good on your resume, make you solid connections, and possibly help you land a job. Also gives you something to do and people to meet. Join a club for your hobby or interest. Then just be yourself here, dont take it seriousl…	/r/askTRP	19/08/18 11:23 PM
-1	Any redpill advice specifically for school? It's important imo to sleep how much your body tells you to. Lebron mentions sleeping 12 hours per day. Meanwhile, Kobe claims to sleep 3-4. Arnold says 6. It depends on you. Usually 7-9 is correct for the average person. Just have to test out different schedules until you find something that works. A routine is very important as well to improve sleep hygiene. Sleeping 6 hr per night on a scheduled 12-6 will likely be just as good as sleeping 8hr from 12am-8am one day, 3am-11am the next, 10pm-6a…	/r/askTRP	19/08/18 11:04 PM
3	Is fucking chubbys 4s and 5s better than fucking nothing? If you need sex that bad, then go for it. Odds are though that you will regret it as soon as you nut, and once you get back home, you will regret all the time and effort you put in just to fuck a fatty when you could've been improving yourself so you eventually don't have to fuck fattys.	/r/askTRP	19/08/18 02:02 AM
2	What do you do for 2nd Tinder meetup? If she wants a second date, that means there's unfinished business obviously. I agree with the other guy who mentioned bowling. Let her escalate on date #2 and if she doesn't, go home and leave her wanting more with dread game. Then, if she wants a date #3, should be a piece of cake at that point to close.	/r/askTRP	31/07/18 05:46 PM
2	Girl I matched with on Tinder asked for dickpic, I asked for one of her in return. She refused, I then refused to send my dickpic. Only send dick pics to girls who have touched it. It's that easy.	/r/askTRP	31/07/18 04:37 AM
2	Good response to this Snapchat story? Yup. Personally I'd just cringe and delete that person on Snapchat.	/r/askTRP	17/06/18 05:35 PM
2	How can I earn 5k this summer? At the end of the day, you just have to weigh your options. Ebay you will probably sell more items, but make less profit per item. If you are selling alot of stuff, it is definitely better than Craigslist/OfferUp. I think Craigslist is only really useful for selling large things that are hard to ship, like bikes, furniture, lawnmowers, etc.	/r/askTRP	27/05/18 05:30 PM
4	Is it me? or are girls today more on that "princess" mindset. Very correct. Was plating a girl for a while who I met on tinder. She was probably a 6.5 or a 7. I'm a bit above that. She straight up told me she matched with over 1300 guys in the one week prior to meeting me. She was pretty average and boring, yet she had this many guys thirsting for her. She also told me about her past ex's who gave her gifts like jewelry and stuff, and I was like "lol, I don't do gifts unless its a birthday". She would try and kiss me in public and even at the gym too (we w…	/r/askTRP	27/05/18 05:12 PM
1	How can I earn 5k this summer? Depends. Craigslist involves more driving and risk since you deal with local people, although if you find the right person you can make more money on a deal. eBay you can do from home and matches you with way more potential buyers, but you have to pay for shipping and eBay's auction fee. I would say that eBay is better overall, but not until you get your seller rating up to a certain point. Make sure you watch out for scammers.	/r/askTRP	27/05/18 04:41 PM
3	How can I earn 5k this summer? Buy things cheap online via liquidation auctions or Craigslist and then resell them on eBay. Best way to do this is find a niche object and learn everything about it and the market rates. My friend made a bunch of money buying pond filtration systems on a liquidation site and then selling them for like 4-5x as much on ebay. Speaking of ponds, you can aslo make alot of money breeding fish. You can make a significant amount if you breed something like koi. Not only do you make money, but taking ca…	/r/askTRP	25/05/18 08:52 PM
13	Playing a popular video game for social benefits Lol this is ridiculous. Play the game if you like it, don't play it if you don't like it. Why the fuck would you spend so much time thinking about this.	/r/askTRP	23/03/18 07:38 PM
1	How important is nofap to someone trying to swallow the pill? No porn is most important. I personally treat fapping as a reward. Only allow myself to do it on days that I work out.	/r/askTRP	20/03/18 02:59 PM
7	Can we please ban MGTOWs from TRP? The difference between the subs is that mgtow teaches men how to not need/desire women, whereas trp teaches men how to get women to need/desire them. I agree that alot of mgtow are incels in denial pretending like they don't need women, but I know there are also plenty who don't care for sex enough for women to matter to them.	/r/askTRP	10/12/17 07:02 AM
1	I can't flirt/joke around for the life of me I'd say go on tinder and use it as a practice ground. Swipe right and talk to everyone, see what they are receptive too. Otherwise you could listen to stand up comedy from time to time. I like to listen to it in the car. A show that made me better at improvisational comedy is Whose Line Is It. Be caught up in all news, even news you aren't interested. If you don't know what's going on, its impossible to talk about thinks let alone joke about them.	/r/askTRP	01/12/17 09:46 PM
1	What the fuck is wrong with me? The only person's validation who really matters is your own. It seems to me like you're trying too hard, maybe struggling with perfectionism because of something that happened in your past. I can be the same way at times. I guess the only thing that can really help you get through it is to learn to not care or worry about things that are outside of your control. You might feel like all the hard work in the gym, at work, with your diet, etc should be fruitful and give you instant rewards. You mig…	/r/askTRP	30/11/17 04:52 PM
1	Be a nice and good person, don't challenge TPTB, or be ruthless in a pursuit of power? Not just homeless people are poor. There are plenty of lonely, depressed, people out there in every country at every economic level. Sometimes all it takes to help someone is a kind gesture like asking how their day is going or giving a friendly smile. I'm not saying that acquiring power to make change for the greater good is a fruitless effort. If that truly is your intention, you can get there with integrity and hard work.	/r/askTRP	29/11/17 08:20 AM
1	Be a nice and good person, don't challenge TPTB, or be ruthless in a pursuit of power? I have the same internal struggle. I desperately want to grow old and look back on my life and feel good that I was a kind and respectable person. However, I also fear growing old and seeing that I had no fun or accomplished nothing. The easier path is obviously the "fuck the world" Machiavelli style. That's why so many politicians are seemingly sociopaths. I personally choose to believe that being an honest and respectful person is the best path, albeit the hardest. It requires much more patien…	/r/askTRP	29/11/17 07:53 AM
1	Greek life in college Pros: -access to lots of parties and social events -good networking for after college -helps you make friends very quickly -girls like guys who are in frats. It's funny, if you're attractive girls will just assume you're in a frat or an athlete. -lots of possibilities for gaining experience with leadership Cons: -loud and long nights make being organized with hw and school a priority. You may have to sacrifice time you would've spent on hobbies that you enjoy in favor of lifting, doing frat stuf…	/r/askTRP	29/11/17 07:42 AM
13	I push for sex too soon, end up creating plates. I don’t want plates anymore. I’d like a relationship eventually while spinning plates lowkey. If you're really at 200 n count, you should imagine the girls points of views. You're probably attractive, aggressive, and have a smooth personality, which is what draws the women towards you. They like sex, they feel validated when they're with you, and they desperately crave your attention. Perhaps you're feeling like "Why do I deserve this attention?" or thinking "Does any girl actually like me for who I am?". That's one of the problems I saw when I got in better shape, started making income,…	/r/askTRP	28/11/17 09:26 PM
2	[30M] virgin omega. Woke up to TRP and life in general some months ago. What to do? Greeting strangers is a good way to practice. If I see someone with a shirt or coat of my fave sports team I'll give them a shout-out or try and start a convo. Talking to Uber drivers or people sitting next to you in public transit is a good way to get better at small talk. In fact, becoming an Uber or Lyft driver or getting a retail job might help you alot when it comes to being a friendly conversationalist. If you want to be funnier in conversation start listening to standup comedy. Whose line…	/r/askTRP	27/11/17 06:02 PM
1	How do YOU do it? Make it so not going to the gym is going to make you let someone down. My advice is get a gym buddy. Then you feel bad saying you can't go to the gym 1 day because you'd be making your friend go alone. For waking up early, it's the same thing. You might need something pressing in your life to wake you up. Besides a job, one thing that can get you out of bed is having pets. My cat always forces me to wake up and feed it by jumping on me at 6. A dog might be better, because you can go for a quick …	/r/askTRP	15/11/17 04:27 PM
2	To Those Worried About What the Banning of /r/Incels Means for /r/MGTOW. And the more people like you who get mad about the shit they say0, the happier they get. Im anti Donald and anti incel philosophy, so I filter them. That's it. The best thing to do is stop caring about all those hateful people and leave them alone for your own sanity. They get off via your attention. In addition, if we are so interested in stopping people who talk about doing bad things, why don't we shut down the subs that actually doing bad things like r/shoplifting	/r/MGTOW	09/11/17 12:40 AM
3	To Those Worried About What the Banning of /r/Incels Means for /r/MGTOW. All of the incels all talked shit and said horrible things, but is there actually evidence that most believed any of the ridiculous things? Do you truly believe every subscriber revered Elliot Rogers as a saint? No. The vast majority are just ugly depressed teens laughing at edgy hyperbole humor. Subs like imgoingtohellforthis still exist despite constant jokes about genocide and rape. Would've been better off just leaving them alone and ignoring them because it seemed they relished in the atten…	/r/MGTOW	08/11/17 11:16 PM
26	To Those Worried About What the Banning of /r/Incels Means for /r/MGTOW. No matter what I think this sub will be banned soon. The only excuse the admins apparently need is one autistic teenager with a regular mgtow post history to make a comment in a different sub condoning rape.	/r/MGTOW	08/11/17 04:27 PM
15	Brace yourselves for an influx of violent posts from /r/IncelTears trolls. MGTOW is next in their cross-hairs. Please report them to the mods as soon as you see them. The precedent surrounding the way the sub was banned is scary. I mean, there were some complete assholes among the incels, but a good amount were just depressed people making edgy jokes, the epitome of every subreddit. If it was truly banned because just 1 person asked how to get away with rape, then that is fucked. Could've been some inceltears person just trolling and making easy fodder for karma. Not only that, but the ban of a sub over just 1 or a few psychos is ridiculous. Every sub could b…	/r/MGTOW	08/11/17 04:08 PM
9	Drinking On The Rise In U.S., Especially For Women The more people who feel like you do, the harder it is for me to make friends. I feel like a lot of drinkers dislike non-drinkers because they feel like these non-drinkers think that they are perfect, without vice, and better than everyone else for something as artificial as taking a drink. Many non-drinkers have perfectly reasonable excuses to not drink. I, for example, don't drink because I grew up with alcoholic parents. After countless dissapointments caused by alcohol, such as getting locke…	/r/MGTOW	26/10/17 11:29 PM
1	Need some advice/help about starting my career. If you want something in your field and have no connections, you pretty much have to shoot your load at every opportunity possible and hope you get lucky. Your best case scenario is your dad or some other family member knows somebody who knows somebody in the industry and you get straight into an interview. Otherwise, it's gonna be a numbers game. 25+ isn't enough to feel sorry for yourself yet. Wait until you get up to like 500+.	/r/MGTOW	26/10/17 09:25 PM
4	"i want a man to be ambition" they say That's the most suffering pill to take. Your personality, your charm, your ambition, and your values remain constant, but as your ambition starts to show itself, as you go from chubby to ripped, poor to wealthy, loser to popular, only then do people value you. What matters most to others is how you appear, not who you are. Some here might preach the redpill, to try your best to appear like you are a great person. I prefer mgtow though, to focus on being a great person, being a person that I myse…	/r/MGTOW	26/10/17 08:28 PM
7	Doctor fired for asking to add her patient on Facebook This is why I deleted nearly everyone from my facebook and refuse to add women who I know. Even girls I'm friends with I won't friend until they add me first. Your career can be ruined simply for looking creepy. One time I added a girl on facebook from my friend group who I just met and almost immediately after, the social group shunned me and stopped inviting me places.	/r/MGTOW	26/10/17 08:20 PM
174	My first POF message. I'm done. Ask how much she makes, then say "sorry, that's not enough" and ghost.	/r/MGTOW	26/10/17 08:13 PM
16	Drinking On The Rise In U.S., Especially For Women Never sipped alcohol and never will. Not partaking in alcohol or drugs is one of the things that has led me here. Small things like this will lose you friends, make it so you can't get invited to parties or even hangouts, and label you as boring. I've had many women laugh or lose interest based simply on the fact that I don't drink. What used to be a moral quality is now seen as being a boring loser. It's stupid because I know they all want to party the night away with all the other substance us…	/r/MGTOW	26/10/17 06:44 PM
3	Has it already been a year since this gem was posted? Would it be misogynist of me in the future, as someone studying actuary science and specifically health insurance, to charge larger premiums to women who are fatter?	/r/MGTOW	25/10/17 08:21 PM
1	Unless you're super hot, Tinder is a waste of time If you are wealthy the only option you have for a somewhat healthy ltr is going for girls who are wealthy themselves, which are few and far between. Most women not as wealthy will be looking to use you imo. You can respond to this in 3 ways: (1) taking advantage by being cautious, tempting them with money, and never letting them near your bank account. Can take precautions to avoid false rape allegations, avoid pregnancy, etc. (2) you can just avoid all these women who aren't wealthy, the proper…	/r/MGTOW	23/10/17 11:31 PM
3	MGTOW is not a woman-hate group. It is a human-hate group. I think most of us here are without hate. We expect the worst in women. It's the only way to avoid being let down over and over again. I don't hate women for acting the way they do. I understand that every woman wants to have the best possible man in their life. This is common sense. They will always leave you for someone more attractive, wealthy, and popular. To waste your time hating women for making common sense decisions brings nothing to your life. Best to simply stop caring. Be happy doing…	/r/MGTOW	19/10/17 03:41 PM
36	This is why MGTOW is growing... especially among millennials They are going to all spend their 20s dating around pursuing careers like acting, modeling, social media, traveling, writing, and dancing based on their liberal arts majors. Having a "passion" for a career is most important. Then they complain about making less money then men. Then they will turn 30-35, their trustfunds will run out, they won't be as attractive, and they will try to settle down with a bachelor betabux who spent the better part of his life working in fields making money like engi…	/r/MGTOW	16/10/17 04:30 PM
3	Police tell me she cheated on me after I am arrested I agree with the other guy. Get DNA test for the 3rd child. She might have come running back to you not because she was jealous, but because she got pregnant and wanted to have sex with you asap so that you'd think the kid is yours.	/r/askTRP	11/10/17 04:46 PM
5	These Lions Became LGTOW! Yeah WTF. How did the people running this little experiment not think that would happen? I feel like if it's your job to make lions breed, you should at least know about their sexual strategies.	/r/MGTOW	06/10/17 02:22 AM
2	Asked out girl from class - confused by her response? Whenever someone says they can't hang out because they're studying, I take it as them just not wanting to hang out. Guys and girls do this. If they have a test it's one thing, but studying for a whole week? Come on. Not to mention girls studying is more like spending 25 minutes texting guys and then 5 minutes actually reading.	/r/askTRP	05/10/17 02:14 PM
225	Plates dad died Alot of people on here are assholes. You should offer to help if she needs anything. If you want to go above and beyond, bring her a casserole or flowers or something. Would reccomend leaving her with family for the interim. Don't treat her like nothing though simply because she's a plate. Treat her like a human being and a friend, how you would want to be treated. It doesn't matter if she wouldn't do the same for you. Be the best person you can be.	/r/askTRP	02/10/17 08:29 PM
0	What to do about all those guys who are pretending? I know one of those guys lol. He would act like he just read a book titled "how to be alpha" and was trying his best to follow its tenets. Funny thing is he would act like that in front of people smaller than him but always seemed timid around me and my roommate who are both bigger than him. Everyone would make fun of him behind his back. He was still successful with women though. If you have frame and are confident in who you are, you don't have to show it off. People will know just by looking …	/r/askTRP	02/10/17 04:14 PM
3	Is cold approaching seen as "creepy, awkward"? It's only creepy to a girl if she thinks you aren't attractive, which means it's completely subjective. No girl would disapprove of Brad Pitt cold approaching them. If you are confident and don't mind getting rejected, then it doesn't matter coming across as creepy. Just don't cold approach in scenarios that could come back to bite you in the ass (like at work).	/r/askTRP	21/09/17 03:33 AM
2	Has T.R.P ruined women for anyone else here? I think they are capable of unconditional love as sisters, mothers, and grandmother's. It's maternal instinct to care for those related to them because biologically, nurturing offspring is the way to best ensure their genetics are passed on. I think women are only capable of conditional love as wives or girlfriends. If you looked completely different, we're damaged, had a different personality, women who would've loved you before wouldn't love you now. In contrast, I think no matter who you are …	/r/askTRP	19/09/17 08:10 PM
2	Has T.R.P ruined women for anyone else here? Why do you want a relationship in the first place?	/r/askTRP	19/09/17 07:49 PM
26	Clay Travis Tells Female CNN Reporter live on Air that the only Thing he believes in is in the 1st amendment and BOOBS Lol i like how he sets up the straw man so nonchalantly for them to attack. His base probably sees the boobs thing as a joke whereas CNN felt attacked due to the political incorrectness. They launch full front onto his straw man and lay him with ad hominem arguments just because he likes boobs. His whole argument about ESPN is never touched on, and CNN believes they won the debate because clay Travis is "outed as sexist". Meanwhile we all know that no young female journalist (especially one who …	/r/MGTOW	19/09/17 05:20 PM
4	Dread game too much? It's better for girls to show you off then for you to show girls off. You posting pics with a hot chick is obviously going to be seen as bragging and probably hurt her ego. It's better to get tagged in girls photos on facebook or instagram. Then it still builds dread, but doesn't look like you did it on purpose.	/r/askTRP	13/09/17 10:08 PM
1	Men in LTRs, do yourselves a favour and don't respond to her texts/calls for 4-6 hours occasionally. Sometimes even with alot going on I still respond to girls. I'm the type to respond quickly to anyone. Ignoring all texts could also be ignoring invitations from friends to do cool shit or family emergencies. My advice is to have one app designated for plates and potential plates. I use snapchat for this and make sure to disable notifications when I'm busy. Posting cool shit you do and jokes on your story also works as good dread game. Leaving a girls message unread and then letting her see your…	/r/TheRedPill	13/09/17 03:33 PM
7	What do you text a girl after you get her number? I guess that's true. I still struggle sending texts when I should be busy, like sitting at a red light or at a club. I've experimented recently with using my phone less. Letting it die on campus without caring, going to class without it, leaving it turned off in my bag. It's always fun to turn it back on after being away for awhile and see messages from 5-10 different girls.	/r/askTRP	07/09/17 02:42 AM
15	What do you text a girl after you get her number? It's better to actually be too busy to respond to girls than pretending you are too busy and don't care enough to respond to girls.	/r/askTRP	07/09/17 02:23 AM
2	How to do "be mysterious" correctly? Yeah social media I've found is kinda walking a thin line. On the one hand, you want to put yourself out there, talk to your friends, see what they're doing. On the other hand you don't want to be an attention whore and be addicted to being online and feeling inferior when everyone you know is trying to show off to the max. Whenever I do a snapchat story, it's never more than 3-4 snaps. I like using it in case I see something funny, want to make a joke, or, in some cases, dread game. I agree tho…	/r/askTRP	03/09/17 06:16 PM
2	How to do "be mysterious" correctly? That's true. For facebook I just trimmed my list down to like 200 core people rather than deleting. The absolute worst imo is instagram. Unless you are a celebrity, it's not worth using because it seems like its just a huge popularity contest.	/r/askTRP	03/09/17 06:00 PM
2	How to do "be mysterious" correctly? I wouldnt reccomend cutting all social media. The 3 I keep are LinkedIn, facebook, and snapchat. LinkedIn for professional shit. Facebook for keeping contact with good friends and family. Snapchat for friends and girls (also because it's less permanent). I like snapchat because you can use it as dread game by taking videos or pictures of cool shit you do while away from plates. I think it's better to just spend less time on social media than delete it if you have the discipline.	/r/askTRP	03/09/17 05:45 PM
2	How to do "be mysterious" correctly? Teleports behind HB9 "remember remember the 5th of november" drops guy Fawkes mask and tips fedora "how about we leave these chumps behind" In all seriousness, never try to be mysterious with girls you don't know. They will just assume you aren't confident. If you are regularly texting or plating a chick, you can start being vague with shit, not responding to her promptly, and not showing any social media presence. Some of the early levels of dread game are similar to keeping mysterious I'd sa…	/r/askTRP	03/09/17 05:13 PM
4	do you think learning an interesting trick would help? Laying in bed after having sex, tell the girl you want to show her a trick and tell her to close her eyes until you say open. Put on your clothes, leave her apartment, and never talk to her again. Issa trick.	/r/askTRP	01/09/17 03:53 PM
1	How to have a dreams to chase? I'm in the same boat. I don't really have a passion for anything. I found the best thing to do to keep me happy for now is simply following a solid daily routine. My mind might be wandering or bored, but my body feels happy getting good exercise and healthy foods. I feel like one day, I will find my passion, and when that day comes, I want to be prepared mentally and physically to jump on it. Life's all about opportunities, and I want to be as best prepared as I can for when an opportunity prese…	/r/askTRP	01/09/17 03:44 PM
2	Hobby... It used to be a hobby, but nowadays lifting is a requirement for men. You can tailor the way you lift to a different hobby though. For instance I play basketball and put added focus on HIIT, plyometrics, and agility. A soccer player might focus extra on cardio and leg stamina. Baseball player extra on forearm strength and hip movements. Rock climber might focus extra energy on grip strength.	/r/askTRP	01/09/17 03:33 PM
2	What music would you say is RP? Just because being sad is "beta" doesn't mean you have to abstain from all sad music that you like. I generally choose music based on my mood. If I'm feeling down, I listen to radiohead, nirvana, coldplay. Normal music I'll listen to is some good classic rock or classic hip-hop like Jimmy Hendrix, rolling stones, 2pac, nas, biggie. If I'm with a horny girl I'll listen to some R&B like Frank Ocean or Russ. If I'm trying to be focused I'll listen to some classical or soundtrack music like Chopin o…	/r/askTRP	31/08/17 08:27 PM
6	What music would you say is RP? Listen to the music you like to listen to. Being redpill is acting how you want without caring what others think. Listen to your own goddamn favorite music and move on.	/r/askTRP	31/08/17 07:56 PM
1	Are there any apps or systems this sub would recommend to help improve your daily routine and track progress? I like Jefit for plugging in my lifting routine. Easy to log weights and reps, tells you the length of your workout, has a adjustable timer between sets.	/r/askTRP	31/08/17 05:24 PM
3	Cashier game. Should I go for it? Cashier: "would you like anything else with your sub? " You: "yes actually. I'll have a soda, some chips, annnnd your number."	/r/askTRP	30/08/17 05:31 PM
2	Help clubbing sober The temptation to drink is overwhelming the first couple of weeks if you end up at parties. As soon as you visit home for the first time though, you realize why you resisted the urge though. My advice is don't say no to anything just because alcohol will be there. Go be social (try and find a friend who will drink for you during drinking games) meet everyone before they get drunk, meet other non-drinkers after everyone gets drunk be nice and help people clean and stay safe offer to pay for stuff…	/r/askTRP	30/08/17 04:48 PM
1	I don't "get what I want" in life If you've seen the movie Yes Man, you can try being like that. As far as your calling, the only thing I can recommend is keeping a routine and being prepared. Spend time keeping your body and brain healthy through exercise, study, work, and social interaction. If you keep a steady routine, you're body, intelligence, bank account, and social network will all be backing you up once you figure out what you want to do. For some people (I suspect myself to be this way), having a routine is their call…	/r/askTRP	30/08/17 04:37 PM
2	Can we talk about gym memberships? If you have roommates or other people you live with you can try and convince them to sign up with you as a couple (just have to live in the same household, but some gyms aren't strict on that either). You might find single person pricing to be $45 a month, but signing up as a couple might be $60, which you could split and make it cheaper.	/r/askTRP	29/08/17 12:41 AM
1	Help clubbing sober Yeah, I think I'll stick to caffeine. My friend was saying that his strategy is go after two or three 5/6s as soon as you get there to build confidence and get in the groove, then gradually work your way up. Said if you get rejected, move down the ladder, and if a 2 rejects you, you should leave because the mood of the club is fucked. I'm pretty tall too and have long arms. Always awkward putting my arms up to music because it makes me the tallest thing in the room hahaha. But I guess that isn't…	/r/askTRP	29/08/17 12:06 AM
1	Help clubbing sober Yeah, last time I went I had a caffeine pill and some candy before I left. It helped a little I noticed. Maybe next time I'll have a little more candy. What are some good IOIs from girls on the dance floor?	/r/askTRP	28/08/17 11:25 PM
1	Help clubbing sober Interesting. I'll look into meditation more. Thanks!	/r/askTRP	28/08/17 03:54 PM
1	Help clubbing sober The ones I've been going to are hip hop style. One thing I've noticed too is that, at 21, I look and feel younger than every person there.	/r/askTRP	28/08/17 02:17 PM
1	Help clubbing sober That's true. I've always seen alcohol as a temporary solution, and I'm only interested in permanent solutions. It's always seemed like a cheat code to me TBH. Take this magic drink and become more sociable. I'd rather take the longer, harder challenge and become that way on my own. I'm already pretty confident with my looks and personality. The main thing I need to work on I would say is aggression. I know practice makes perfect here, but are there any other tips you could think of?	/r/askTRP	28/08/17 02:16 PM
2	Any use in having a snapchat? I use snapchat story feature alot. Post 1 or 2 funny snaps per day to show off your sense of humor and maybe a snap showing your busy life. You can usually tell the girl who are interested and gameable because they will keep watching your stories.	/r/askTRP	27/08/17 10:07 PM
3	Got promoted over my "bully" at work. I have now the power to mess with his work anonymously, would you do it? I would treat him as respectfully as possible. If he keeps barking, keep being nicer and nicer. It will drive him crazy that you are completely indifferent towards him and he will make mistakes on his own.	/r/askTRP	26/08/17 10:13 PM
2	How to socialize without alcohol? Well on my dads side I would say there's pretty damning evidence. My dad has been sober lately, but for about 10 years he would drink 3-4 bottles of wine per night. The doctors recently told him his liver is failing and that he has to stay sober, but left on his own he keeps going back to the booze, which is something no rational person would ever do unless alcoholism was truly a disease. And all of my dad's siblings have problems too. His twin used to drink at work and was even worse than my da…	/r/askTRP	23/08/17 01:55 AM
1	Being the rebound? IMO the girl is slutty, but it seems more like revenge sex than casual sex... Sex is sex though so I don't mind hahaha	/r/askTRP	22/08/17 09:30 PM
1	For a guy exiting monk mode of a year You shouldn't be watching porn or wanking it all the time during monk mode. If you absolutely have to, treat jerking off as a reward for working out. Tell yourself that you're only allowed to do it after a workout. This might end up having you work out even more if you stay strict with yourself hahaha, which is a good thing. In addition, monk mode is not an excuse to be antisocial. It's a way to avoid desires (like sexual gratification apparently for you) and spend time on things you need to imp…	/r/askTRP	22/08/17 07:38 PM
1	Being the rebound? Yeah, you're right. I'm just going to forget about it, hold frame, and enjoy the sex.	/r/askTRP	22/08/17 05:50 PM
1	For a guy exiting monk mode of a year If all you care about is sex, then you need to go back into monk mode and keep lifting. I never consider sex with people I go to class with or work with. These are people that are forced to see you everyday however creepy you might be. Your goal right now should be lifting, eating healthy, getting good grades, and making friends. Don't even think about sex in the short term. Join a club about something that interests you that you can talk about for hours on end, go try and learn something new, o…	/r/askTRP	22/08/17 05:44 PM
1	Being the rebound? Yeah I agree with that. She knows I'll be leaving so I was thinking she mightve said that as a defense mechanism for when I do end up leaving. I have 0 attachments right now so it's all good.	/r/askTRP	22/08/17 04:36 PM
1	For a guy exiting monk mode of a year I assume you're in college. If you're looking to get out of monk mode, you should at least be in good enough shape to get matches on tinder (I use this as a general threshold). I'd recommend just making friends with girls in class or even via tinder. Mark some of them as girls you will never Fuck, and then it will make it easier to talk to them. The key is to make a broad network of friends who are girls because then that gives you access to all of their extended friends, who are fair game.	/r/askTRP	22/08/17 04:20 PM
2	Is marrying a young girl a dead reality for millennials? The ideal family dynamic 20-30 years from now, for me at least, is a man living on his own in a comfortable house with his best friend (his dog). If you want children, you're gonna have to either find someone extremely loyal or follow the Ronaldo surrogate method. If you don't want children, then there's no point in getting married.	/r/askTRP	22/08/17 04:03 PM
4	How to socialize without alcohol? I have the same problem. Told myself I would never drink after growing up with alcoholic parents. Am still trying to find ways to overcome it. It honestly sucks though because a lot of friends I meet end up stopping inviting me to anything that includes alcohol, which seems to be everything. I learn that these friends are not the type of friends you want to keep though. I usually get along with best the other people at events who aren't drinking, so if you can, I would try and find those individ…	/r/askTRP	22/08/17 03:56 PM
2	How are some girls able to get so many followers and likes on their pics on Instagram? You can make money by faking instagram accounts, getting a tinder, and then telling every guy on tinder to follow your IG. After getting thousands of followers you can sell the account.	/r/askTRP	12/08/17 01:46 AM
1	IOIs with cashiers - how to make my interests clear without drawing too much attention? Would you want some random person going up to your mom, sister, or daughter and talking like that to them while they're at work?	/r/askTRP	10/08/17 12:13 AM
2	IOIs with cashiers - how to make my interests clear without drawing too much attention? I just wouldn't want to creep out any person, guy or girl, who is just trying to do their job. If it's at a club, party, public space, dog park, class, Starbucks, then whatever. There should be plenty better options out there.	/r/askTRP	09/08/17 11:11 PM
1	IOIs with cashiers - how to make my interests clear without drawing too much attention? I wouldnt trust IOIs as much for someone who's on the job unless they are glaringly obvious.	/r/askTRP	09/08/17 10:48 PM
3	I'm in college and for the next year I will be living off campus with 4 college girls. What are some things that I should and shouldn't do? Still, bathroom will be packed every morning. Clothes will be everywhere. Lots of drama. It will be hell if their periods sync up habahah, GL! People on the phone 24/7. I agree with the other guy on here saying you should just be like the housedad.	/r/askTRP	09/08/17 09:54 PM
12	IOIs with cashiers - how to make my interests clear without drawing too much attention? I don't know. I feel like this is good if you know the chick wants you, but the girl would probably be creeped tf out if she was just being friendly on the job and some guy straight up told her he'd be waiting out front when she leaves.	/r/askTRP	09/08/17 08:26 PM
9	I'm in college and for the next year I will be living off campus with 4 college girls. What are some things that I should and shouldn't do? You should really at least have 1 guy staying with you. 4 Vs 1 is not good.. Ready to watch gossip girl instead of NFL Prime Time? The only thing I see it being good for is your social proof, what with being around hot girls all the time, and with meeting new people through those girls. One fun thing though will be getting to observe beta orbiters and laugh to yourself every day.	/r/askTRP	09/08/17 08:14 PM
45	Why do female family members want to castrate me? "you shouldn't be lifting such heavy weights, you could get hurt" "you're body is fine the way it is. You're at a healthy weight. " "I bought ice cream at the store. It was on sale. Also got some more oreos and cheezits. " "you should take more rest days. " "I personally think bodybuilding is disgusting" "you get plenty of exercise playing sports though! " all things your mom will say to you because she loves you, but also wants to keep you her little boy. She's not a bad person, it's just mothe…	/r/askTRP	09/08/17 03:22 PM
6	My(17m) female best friend(18f) left me for another guy. Need advice.. Hahaha, how is she "cheating" on you if you've never met.	/r/askTRP	08/08/17 05:12 PM
1	I start college in two weeks, what are some tips to start fast socially when I know very few people there? Join the closest club to what you are majoring and talk to all the other new kids there. These people will become better friends after you hit ur upper div requirements and see them all the time in class. Join a club for something random that interests you. Play your favorite intramural sport. Meet everyone on your dorm hall. Dont single out any girl due to hotness, especially on your floor(at least early on). Dont want to strike out and become known as the creep early on. Most important thing i…	/r/askTRP	04/08/17 07:28 PM
2	What broke you? Yeah it's tough. I don't want to grow old and think that I was a terrible person, but I also don't want to grow old and think that I never allowed myself to have fun.	/r/askTRP	03/08/17 08:23 PM
1	What broke you? Funny i was an undersized guard who got little PT on my 8th grade basketball team and now Im the only one from the class who can dunk. When you hit Puberty IMO is one of the biggest factors in your social success in high school because it determines whether you're able to be the best on sports teams and, as a result, meet lots of friends, which would lead to parties and hangouts outside school, which would lead to girls.	/r/askTRP	03/08/17 07:44 PM
1	What broke you? Yeah, was really short my fresh year in hs (like 5'7") , then grew to about 6 foot by senior year. Then over 4 years in college I grew another 3 inches.	/r/askTRP	03/08/17 05:27 PM
18	What broke you? Watching womens interest in me skyrocket after wearing clothes that show off more muscle, making money, faking confidence in public, even growing taller. Had always been athletic, smart w/ good drive, and confident, but none of that matters without external proof. Personality remained constant. Learned everything really is all artificial. Swallowed the pill. Currently stuck between abusing it or just recognizing it. Hedonism or stoicism. Probably a mix of both.	/r/askTRP	03/08/17 05:15 PM
2	My lifting dilemma You should be lifting based on what you want, not what anybody else wants. If you love being strong and lifting heavy weights, keep doing what you love. If you want a better looking body to have a better chance to get laid, then do that. In the end, Id say you're probably better off sticking with a hobby that you love rather than giving up potential progress. If you want both sides of the coin, maybe set a powerlifting goal and once you complete your goal, go on a cut and see how you like it.	/r/askTRP	31/07/17 03:42 PM