JakeTheAndroid Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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3	Is spawn camping unethical? Lol, okay. Then we go back to my first comment, where you don't want to hear anything other than validation you can do what you want to do. I laid out the reality of what most people will find acceptable. Do what you want with that information.	/r/seduction	06/01/26 09:25 PM
4	Is spawn camping unethical? Okay, let's say that's true. All my other statements are valid.	/r/seduction	06/01/26 09:16 PM
6	Is spawn camping unethical? You called it spawn camping. You're pursuing. You think they're flirting but they might not be. Let them ask you out, you don't ask them out. You don't initiate anything when you're 26 and you've known them while they're under age. You don't initiate physical contact, you don't make jokes about how you'd date them or find them attractive, nothing. Not even a hint. You can banter and hang out with them if you think you can actually keep it neutral. Then, if they make a move on you (while sober) y…	/r/seduction	06/01/26 09:06 PM
9	Is spawn camping unethical? You're asking this question because you want validation clearly. Not because you want genuine opinions. A 30 yo and an 18 yo can end up dating without the 30 yo waiting in the wings for her to turn 18. Still weird but less so. But if a 30 yo is just waiting around for her birthday, that'd absolutely be creepy. The age thing is one part of the equation. The other part is you planning for a child to become and adult. In my opinion, leave them alone. If, for some reason, they pursue you after they'…	/r/seduction	06/01/26 08:53 PM
1	Girl I'm seeing told me shes been with tons of dudes with huge cocks. everyone moves at different speeds and OP says they are having a sexual conversation. Clearly they have been talking long enough for both parties to feel comfortable having a sexual conversation. The amount of time that takes varies greatly for different people. You're spending too much energy looking for a reason this is inappropriate when no such reason was provided by OP. What you think is typical is different than what other people think is typical because we all have a different lived exper…	/r/seduction	29/06/22 10:12 PM
6	Girl I'm seeing told me shes been with tons of dudes with huge cocks. OP Literally described how it came up in natural conversation. She didn't go out of her way to tell him something that wasn't relevant to the conversation. She told him something about herself, a natural part of opening up to someone you care about. When was the right time to be honest about the life she has lived? If OP views her past as something that deems her not worthy for marriage like the post implies, would it have been better to find out 10 years from now once he's committed? People her…	/r/seduction	29/06/22 08:24 PM
2	this 20 seconds of courage changed my life. I had posted this 1 year ago on this subreddit Thanks, I'm glad this was useful for you. And yeah, that example really changes my perspective when I first heard it. Expanding your knowledge wider instead of deeper is not only a great way to avoid accidentally being boring, but also allows you to experience more stuff and figure out who you are. It helped me in both my career and with people, and might be the most important thing I've ever learned personally haha.	/r/seduction	30/01/22 10:35 PM
11	How should I dance at clubs/parties to have that ‘confident’ vibe? If you're concerned about this, go watch videos on how to dance and practice. Once you feel comfortable moving to a beat you'll be fine. I am a bad dancer but many women have enjoyed dancing with me at clubs because I just move with the beat and have a good time. Women aren't dancing to get seduced. In most instances women are dancing to have a good time and let go of stress. So they're already in the mindset of having fun. If a woman starts getting intimate while dancing you just mirror it. Oth…	/r/seduction	21/11/21 04:32 PM
7	Does anyone else find bars and nightclubs super awkward because nobody seems to go alone. Yeah, you need to make sure you are having a good time. If you are at a club/bar in the corner looking around the whole time you look like a creeper hunting for prey or you look miserable. Neither are going to get people to want to interact with you. Go out and have a good time. And, while you're at it, practice talking to women. Two birds, one stone. But, I find that bars and clubs are actually really poor places to get dates. You can't really talk, so outside of your opening lines you're proba…	/r/seduction	07/12/20 07:49 PM
2	this 20 seconds of courage changed my life. I had posted this 1 year ago on this subreddit Well biggssf question i ask my self is how can i make others like me? so you are saying to improve and try new and different stuff. Maybe start by asking yourself, why do you want other people to like you in the first place? At our core, we all want to be accepted. But, what do you actually want from the people you intend to get to like you? Like, what do you want your friends to do with you? Do you want to sit in a room, in complete silence next to one another? Do you want to have deep, philoso…	/r/seduction	16/10/20 12:08 AM
5	this 20 seconds of courage changed my life. I had posted this 1 year ago on this subreddit an this shit is fucking confusing. first you tell me "what do i have to offer" then you say, stop thinking of it as "something to give to Yeah, it was cryptic. What you offer isn't a direct thing. It's the sum of all things individually. Like, making people laugh is a thing you can give but that alone isn't really a thing. In order to be funny in all situations, you need to be familiar enough with every situation to be able to make it funny. The thing you offer is passion generally speaking. It'…	/r/seduction	15/10/20 09:58 PM
9	this 20 seconds of courage changed my life. I had posted this 1 year ago on this subreddit How the hell do i know what i have to offer ? you mean like this? sometimes im funny and i listen to others problems and try to give advice if i can or sometimes smart and im sensitive and cheer up other people. i dont know what else This is tough man. There is no one way to achieve this. It's easier for some than others to be completely honest. Being funny or nice aren't inherently personality traits. They support the other traits you have. The first place to start with this process in my opini…	/r/seduction	15/10/20 08:50 PM
21	this 20 seconds of courage changed my life. I had posted this 1 year ago on this subreddit > What the fuck am i suppose to say? what if i dont have something to offer? what am i supposed to talk about? like all this are not meaningless scenarios... or after a week they get bored of me. i no longer have something to say. maybe this is why im not interested in people? or maybe after a week i lose interest in this??? The first step in finding this courage is to figure out the answers to all those questions. What do you have to offer? What do you actually want from people you'll be around…	/r/seduction	15/10/20 08:01 PM
3	Advice for guys: don't take the friend zone as a forever situation and don't disrespect the girl friendzoning you. While we agree on some things you've said, I reject that this is a conscious decision and that somehow society is to blame. You are to blame for nearly any problem in your life. Life presents opportunity what you do with it is on you. I've been friendzoned plenty of times, and I've converted a minority of those into romantic relationships. But the ones I did took years of growth on both sides. I understood that the best way to get a woman like the one I wanted right now was to have her help me b…	/r/seduction	17/02/19 09:31 PM
8	Advice for guys: don't take the friend zone as a forever situation and don't disrespect the girl friendzoning you. Equally, as someone who's lived in the friendzone for many years willingly, I think many men make it a bigger deal than it is. It's treated like some unfair, conscious choice that women are making just to hurt them. If I meet a woman that has qualities I would marry, shes likely also a person I want in my life regardless. I look for those qualities because I enjoy being around them. Not every woman with those qualities will ever have feelings for me, most probably won't. Instead, I focus on buil…	/r/seduction	17/02/19 07:28 PM
2	Alternate ways to approach and secure girl's number and date ? This! I find it a bit odd that you have actually projected how long it will take you to become successful at this. There is no predictable timeline. Just like anything, you only increase skill level through doing. I am a programmer who's always had pretty decent social skills. Going through school I was able to talk to women no problem. Once I started focusing on my career, my social circle went from being 20 people to maybe 3, and my ability to approach women was severely hampered. I became so …	/r/seduction	19/06/15 10:37 AM