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You're advice is essentially the same as telling sad people to cheer up or someone that's stressed out to chill. There are things you can do to deal with anxiety though. If it is particularly bad, see a doctor. I also started using cbd oil and cut out all caffeine. It doesn't stop all anxiety but significantly helps.
/r/seduction26/12/20 11:57 AM
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When talking to someone, man or woman and you realize that you don't give a fuck about anything they're saying and walking away isn't an option, is it better to humour them or just tell them you don't care? Secondly, you guys have shown what you guys wear and say don't make a difference, I suggest smell and look like you haven't showered in weeks.
/r/seduction02/02/12 03:18 AM
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This video is relevant to your interests.
/r/seduction30/12/11 03:21 AM
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No time to really go into too much detail. Just fucking take control of her and do it. Commit to it and you'll get your kiss or more if you go farther.
/r/seduction29/12/11 05:10 AM
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This is also my current sticking point. I've caught myself doing interview style and not holding her attention. I've got a few ideas that I'll try tomorrow and I figure I can share. Say the first thing that pops into your head, regardless of how random it seems. Make up an obviously fake, over-the-top story Have some canned material There's probably some better ways to get over this hump, but it doesn't seem to draw attention from seddit often enough to make the sidebar.
/r/seduction26/12/11 06:57 AM
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Because we were out not giving a fuck and doing approaches.
/r/seduction12/12/11 10:35 PM
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I don't give two shits what anyone else thinks about this community. I study these ideas so I never end up on foreveralone.
/r/seduction10/12/11 10:59 PM
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Not ugly and I can't see if a girl is bonkers before talking to them. It's probably an unexplored area for most mPuas.
/r/seduction09/12/11 11:26 PM
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I think you misunderstand my question. I approach those women regardless but even they might feel weirdly about it.
/r/seduction08/12/11 11:57 PM
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I like to hit on women that most guys wouldn't for good reason. I don't see it as a problem but can see how other people would. Should I call notice to it and say it's no big deal or ignore it completely?
/r/seduction08/12/11 11:17 PM
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Yes. Do it. I've done it while out eating alone. It's no different than approaching directly in daytime, but you get the instant date.
/r/seduction08/12/11 03:20 AM
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Wow. You two new mods are quickly making a difference, just don't go overboard with the CSS. What are the conditions to get flair?
/r/seduction16/10/11 11:23 PM
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It's because that by doing that, she makes you feel like the man (assuming you held eye contact the whole time.) But, she'd probably only do that to really attractive or alpha appearing guys and not all of us have mastered that yet. OP: It depends on where you are, but generally, keep a slow pace, always be dressed as if you might meet someone (you don't want to be wearing that shirt with a mustard stain on it if you get approached) and being around less than 2 guys never hurt. As for night game…
/r/seduction08/10/11 05:01 AM
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If you could add a body language grade to it as well, I'd definitely use it a few times.
/r/seduction18/09/11 06:03 PM
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Although I do thoroughly enjoy them, I'd much rather keep seddit about information rather than karma whoring.
/r/seduction15/09/11 01:30 AM
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I was getting rejected hard some times. I had to reread some of Soul's stuff, but I think it hit upon why I was getting some many non boy friend objection blow outs.
/r/seduction13/09/11 02:32 AM
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TIL about timebridging. Since you seem to be quite familiar with daygame, is it worth trying to hook a woman if the direct opener didn't hook?
/r/seduction12/09/11 02:06 AM
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Of girl 2 hearing the opener you used on girl one and blowing you out for it. Of course if it's as simple as "Hi I'm Jakegarr" it doesn't matter if you just use that.
/r/seduction09/09/11 05:31 PM
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OP downvoted himself, makes me think it isn't worth reading. Is it?
/r/seduction09/09/11 06:38 AM
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Why would you risk using the same opener?
/r/seduction09/09/11 04:51 AM
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I can answer that. It's much easier to "think with your dick" if you don't fap that much. Instinct kicks in and overall your game is better. That's how it's been for me. 6 days porn free.
/r/seduction07/09/11 07:15 AM
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Yes. I ran into a problem today while closing. Is the a particularly good way to phrase it to ask for a number?
/r/seduction31/08/11 01:59 AM
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The windows were down and she specifically told me he wasn't her boyfriend, just friends. That's the greenlight.
/r/seduction30/08/11 06:10 AM
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Thanks for the advice! I already try to hold it with passing strangers, it's uncanny how quickly some will look away.
/r/seduction24/08/11 02:22 AM
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Maybe if we brought a woman into our sausage set we could amog each other. haha
/r/seduction23/08/11 10:13 PM
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Certainly if you mess up the opener, everything else won't matter. With the observations, you aren't trying to create a conversation about that. Hell, sometimes I'll even tell a girl what to do as a follow up to the opener. Of course my nor your method will work 100% of the time.
/r/seduction23/08/11 10:02 PM
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I have to wholeheartedly disagree with your number 1. Doing routines during day game makes you look like a weirdo. Day game is really just a test to see how normal you are. There are really two good ways to transition off a direct approach. Make assumptions about her and comment on them. Or ask a "social question." Direct openers during the day are so unheard of, it's supposed to give her a little time to collect herself.
/r/seduction23/08/11 09:35 PM
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Are there particularly good exercises in which you can improve your subconscious eye contact? I'm interested in if seddit has an answer for this as well.
/r/seduction23/08/11 03:00 AM
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When I saw it on the website, I didn't bother to look it over. There is some decent information in here, some of which I've never seen before.
/r/seduction11/08/11 10:17 PM
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I managed to convince myself being a passive "romantic" guy was the way to go. What a chump I was!
/r/seduction10/08/11 11:31 PM
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I'm now subscribed to your newsletter.
/r/seduction10/08/11 10:58 PM
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I do all my gaming during the day, classes and all at night.
/r/seduction09/08/11 07:24 AM
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This question is completely aimed at me. Don't worry guys I got this! How do I keep my confidence up? I have fun with it. If I'm vibing that a girl isn't in to me, I'll mess with her. Not in a mean way, but in a fuck you I'm going to have fun way. Funnily enough, I've never been rejected because of my looks. Don't worry about it and have a good time.
/r/seduction09/08/11 07:18 AM
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"Well aren't you adorable! I had to come over and introduce myself." That's a standard one I'll use. If I had to define it, any statement that portray why you approached the woman in the first place. Questions don't count.
/r/seduction01/08/11 08:23 PM
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I heavily favor using direct openers in my day game. It deals so powerful and meets with positive results assuming she responds well initially.
/r/seduction31/07/11 05:09 AM
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"Aw, that was so sweet." Holy hell, I didn't know that was a shit test. I always took it as a compliment.
/r/seduction15/07/11 06:17 AM
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Lucky you. I'm sure Dallas has many malls and college campuses you can go to.
/r/seduction13/07/11 04:00 AM
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Another pua forum I frequent suggested daygame.com It's mainly videos, podcasts and articles, but it really has some good information there. Unfortunately, I can't recall the entire quote, but one of the mpuas running the site said day game is so unexpected for most women, that she will remember it the rest of her life. And it so happens that I found it to be true, to some degree.
/r/seduction08/07/11 05:51 AM
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I gave you an upnote, but I'm disappointed you didn't at least try for HB9's number. Basically, you rejected yourself even after opening.
/r/seduction08/07/11 12:23 AM
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"she's a stupid like me" Honestly, if you bring another girl to the pool with you, jealousy may save it. Otherwise, you lost her by what you've said so far.
/r/seduction08/07/11 12:02 AM
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I hope you don't always eject so soon. Your number will have a much higher non-flake rate if you stick around for about 5 minutes or so.
/r/seduction08/07/11 12:01 AM
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How does a text war work? Sounds like that might be good for online sarging.
/r/seduction07/07/11 04:44 AM
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How does picture war work?
/r/seduction06/07/11 07:39 PM
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I can think of a few things. Body language might have made what you were saying seem forced. I haven't seen the video, but he may have been reading any IOIs and gauged is response to it. Since you copied word for word, the next line might not have been the best.
/r/seduction06/07/11 05:08 PM
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Try chain stores, day game is going to be your best friend here. It's really unlikely you'll find a responsible single mother in a night club.
/r/seduction04/07/11 12:31 AM
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I have no problem approaching. After I use my opener everything just stalls, I keep talking but it doesn't seem to go anywhere. I generally go out to meet people, and with that I usually walk around wherever I'm at looking for sets. So in all, I'd say I have trouble hooking.
/r/seduction02/07/11 10:39 PM
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"I've been studying body language for almost ten years now" You have my support!
/r/seduction02/07/11 03:58 AM
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I'll be regurgitating things I've read. 1. You didn't mention that you get lots of messages from women, in some way or another. 2. Didn't destroy your competition. 3. Offered WAY too much information about yourself. 4. Don't list stuff in the details that doesn't work for you, but don't lie. 5. Needs more DHVs. 6. NO EMOTICONS! 7. "I could be fiddling around with my bass guitar, blogging, downloading music, listening to records, watching horror movies." Take that out, woman don't want a recluse.…
/r/seduction02/07/11 03:55 AM
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http://60yearsofchallenge.files.wordpress.com/2010/03/secrets-of-micro-escalation-vibe.pdf
/r/seduction01/07/11 12:59 AM
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I'm just throwing this out here. It's normally just called seddit, no r/seddit, but personal preference is yours. I've recently looked into a guy calling himself 60 years of challenge, and while I'm not nearly close to being called a pua, I suggest you check it out. There's a free ebook on his site, which I can link to if requested.
/r/seduction30/06/11 07:04 PM
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Wow. The 'natural' part of your FR answered so many questions I had about a new to me style of pickup. I went out yesterday with every intention of trying it out but I wasn't feeling it and it went to shit. I'll try it again the next time I go.
/r/seduction26/06/11 06:25 PM
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I remember reading having twitchy hands or feet, fidgeting with hands or tapping your toes are all IOIs.
/r/seduction18/06/11 07:51 AM
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Some it agree with. Since that list is short, here it is: 1. Approach her 2. Don't wait, 3 second rule and all that Things I disagree with. 1. The value of a man is based on his looks. No, it's based about the alpha-ness 2. In day game, observational openers are much better than what he suggested. I believe this video is meant for afcs and not the enlightened.
/r/seduction10/06/11 04:52 AM
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You wouldn't happen to still have it would you?
/r/seduction07/06/11 07:20 AM
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Approximately how long do your day game pickups go before closing? How many canned stories do you keep?
/r/seduction07/06/11 06:43 AM
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Who's teaching it?
/r/seduction03/06/11 03:27 AM
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Wow that's awesome. Looks like I found this place just in time.
/r/seduction23/05/11 07:06 PM
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