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Shit I'm sorry bro, this is awful. Idk what a paternity test would do since you are the dad on their birth certificate right? That means your on the hook for child support even if they aren't yours
/r/Divorce_Men14/08/23 10:19 AM
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Sounds like ur wife doesn't officially work, so yes u gotta pay alimony, probably til either of you pass away
/r/Divorce_Men27/08/22 12:11 AM
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Sounds like you are mature. Keep it up, the journeys just begun.
/r/Divorce_Men03/12/21 01:25 AM
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First off I'm sorry to hear man. You are correct that living ur best life is the best revenge (along with raising ur son) so the sooner you let go of her and focus on you, the better. That said make sure u file for divorce ( don't wait for her to do it first trust me) so yall can be officially divorced (separation is NOT divorce)
/r/Divorce_Men27/10/21 03:08 AM
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Hate to break it to ya, but this marriage is over. File for divorce and move on asap
/r/Divorce_Men27/10/21 03:04 AM
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Evidence of cheating dont mean shit in the USA, so keep living and enjoy life
/r/Divorce_Men16/10/21 07:37 PM
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Idk about Texas, but here in good ol' FL, increasing ur income before finalizing the divorce and asset division will definitely fuck u. my advice is to get teh divorce completely done with, then start increasing ur $$$
/r/Divorce_Men12/10/21 03:32 AM
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This is cliche but: you MUST learn to let her go and be content being alone ( but not exactly lonely). Best way to do this is to find hobbies/ work towards something. I always recommend building ur money and exercising. Then try improving ur skills or religion (if ur into that) in ur free time, then you will have less time to be doing this begging. its not gonna be easy at first, but I know you and many other men in ur shoes can succeed post-divorce once u start focusing on urself
/r/Divorce_Men12/10/21 03:29 AM
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agreed, u gotta stop being a pussy and get this divorce over with
/r/Divorce_Men03/10/21 06:43 AM
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oof you 're on the hook for lifetime alimony :[
/r/Divorce_Men02/10/21 02:32 PM
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The longer you are considered married, the more of your assets she is entitled too. Its best to settle these assets asap (who gets the house, etc) Longer marriage = (potentially) more alimony Why would you want to still be considered married to someone who stabbed you in the back? If anything its better to be single and not have any legal connection with ur ex when dating new ppl These are what i thought of from the top of my head...
/r/Divorce_Men01/10/21 05:09 AM
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Best to end this quick. File for divorce ASAP, don't wait for her to file. It sucks but u can still live a good life beyond her. Focus on hobbies, make $, and workout, and dont date until you are over her (therapy is awesome for this).
/r/Divorce_Men01/10/21 02:58 AM
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I personally stayed away from all dating for 6 months to get back into dating. I wanted to make sure I was completely over her and in a healthy mind state. The freedom of being single is awesome and you can get a lot from it
/r/Divorce_Men30/09/21 01:31 PM
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What do you feel guilty about? She betrayed you, you did not. She might've loved you but not enough to not cheat (behind your back for over a year). Things arn't always gonna work out in your favor in this life, and we must move on once they do. You might never find someone to commit to again but you gotta prepare yourself for this worst-case scenario. Everyone should be comfortable being alone. As for the divorce, I would speak with lawyer ( without her) just to cover all your bases for alimony…
/r/Divorce_Men30/09/21 02:36 AM
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any kids? Focus on yourself and take at least 6 months before dating again. Also make sure u officially file divorce
/r/Divorce_Men30/09/21 01:58 AM
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Damn, my dead goldfish could've fought better than this shitty lawyer
/r/Divorce_Men18/08/21 04:33 AM
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I'd get a higher paying job AFTER the divorce is finalized (as long as you can be financially secure). Since yall gonna divorce, I recommend you pull the trigger and serve her the dirvoce papers asap. This can give ya an advantage vs her in court when it comes to negotiating custody, marital assets, alimony, etc. Be sure to discuss with a lawyer by the time u give her the divorce papers. And whatever you do, DO NOT lay a hand on her physically, as domestic violation will automatically lose you c…
/r/Divorce_Men18/08/21 04:26 AM
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Shit someone should tell the husband. Poor guy didn't put 2 and 2 together 😢
/r/MGTOW217/07/21 03:59 AM
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Fuck man, thats terrible. How have you been getting that panini in the meantime?
/r/MGTOW215/07/21 10:48 PM
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I agree and let him know she 4 the streets
/r/MGTOW204/07/21 01:58 AM
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Divorce her ass ASAP. Cheating = relationship over
/r/askTRP20/06/21 04:41 PM
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Given her past, I say do NOT have a kid with her (cant turn a hoe into housewife). She has a very high chance of fucking this up and you and the kid gonna be miserable
/r/askTRP02/06/21 08:34 PM
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Do not LTR her ass and keep it casual
/r/askTRP02/06/21 12:03 AM
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Move on, she's for the streets
/r/askTRP01/06/21 07:09 PM
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Id say its over
/r/askTRP29/05/21 01:46 PM
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I think u are thinking rationally. This bitch sounds crazy and u should stay away. The pussy isn't worth the bulkshut that can potentially come from her. Not to mention she can #metoo your ass if she 'blacks out'
/r/askTRP28/05/21 11:39 PM
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Back to the streets she goes
/r/askTRP22/05/21 05:10 PM
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Time to leave her bro
/r/askTRP05/05/21 08:11 PM
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Talk to him over some drinks. Ask him about his marriage(sex life and how the wife is treating him) .
/r/askTRP08/04/21 07:57 PM
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Haha pls tell me u joking
/r/askTRP08/04/21 01:56 AM
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Nah I like your dog too
/r/askTRP06/04/21 01:24 PM
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Think carefully about divorcing him. Cheating sucks but at least he takes care of you and your son. If you leave, do not sleep around. Its also going to be hard to find a good guy once you're a single mom. He may be sleeping with these women but its you he returns to at the end of the day. Also get tested and hopefully he does to
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/21 07:30 PM
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Holy shit, 10/10 response!!! (this coming from a guy)
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/21 04:56 AM
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I can see how it would make him irritable. It sounds like he is taking his anger/frustration on you, which is not cool by any means. He needs self-reflect and find inner happiness (as cheesy as this sounds) that is not reliant on external forces. Most external things are outside of our control, but the way you react to them are under your control. You both should change your attitudes, talk it out, and forgive each other. Don't be so quick to divorce, it sucks for both parties and should be the …
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/21 04:46 AM
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How old is this guy? Is he like this with others ( especially with male friends)? If he's around other masculine men, they probably would call him out if he tried this bitchy shit.
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/21 08:04 PM
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Yes, tell her asap
/r/askTRP17/02/21 01:29 AM
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