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JakofClubs/r/askTRP24/11/14 11:43 PM
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I have to wonder how they explain homosexuality. A simplistic view of evolution would seem to say that homosexuality would die out. Something else must be at work.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/24 05:35 PM
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When God when out of his way to pack 7' of awesomeness into 5'8", there's nothing to complain about.
/r/askTRP12/05/16 02:54 PM
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More "party people" are from and move to Florida and California and other large cities. But because there are more people, there are more players who stand out, so you notice them. I do think that people socialize more in warm states with great beaches.
/r/askTRP28/04/16 09:53 PM
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The younger you are, the more it matters. But you have to own it and not let it own you and your time. Less is generally more, unless you have some job where you have great, original content to post -- like a bouncer that gets photos with celebrities or someone who travels to exotic places. Not posting that would be missing out on social proof.
/r/askTRP28/04/16 09:35 PM
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If she's sincere, all she has to do is move to Indiana, renounce her past life, find Jesus, join a church and marry a BB.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/16 01:39 PM
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Who says they do? Men and women often have different goals and use different strategies to achieve said goals.
/r/askTRP29/03/16 09:13 PM
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TRP is a useful set of tools, but a lot of the advice you see is geared toward larger communities. You can't next as quickly in smaller towns.
/r/askTRP28/03/16 02:58 PM
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I think it's probably how and when you asked her to pay. What you said was logically correct but not emotionally correct. If you have to explain, you lost. What you said would have been perfectly reasonable to another guy. You have to set the tone from the beginning. When ordering drinks, say "I'll get the first round," implying that she'll get the second. If she really expects you to just pay for everything, she's bad news unless you've been bragging about how much money you make. When asking a…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/16 05:47 PM
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Tell her that life is about the journey, not the destination.
/r/askTRP21/03/16 02:04 PM
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I've left a few female "friends" behind when TRP woke me up to the fact that they were just using me.
/r/askTRP15/03/16 07:37 PM
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You become (statistically) much less likely to enter college if you put it off. Also, you'd be surprised how quickly you forget math. If you're 20 and want to go to college but haven't yet, you'd better do it sooner rather than later. The exception that comes to mind is that if you wait until you're over 25 (last I checked), you don't have to claim your parent's income for financial aid and there are certain circumstances where that makes sense. Just have low income (on paper) for the previous t…
/r/askTRP09/03/16 10:25 PM
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If it's that easy, it sounds like there's a PUA routine here where you and your buddy can take turns being the "aggressor" and the hero. But seriously, that strategy will eventually catch up with you in the form of a knife, a gun or three big friends. My friendly advice would be to learn to resolve the situation before it comes to blows while still coming out as dominate. I think you'll find the panties are just as moist.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/16 05:07 PM
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It sounds like you need more practice talking to women in social contexts versus professional/technical situations. Men value clear, concise language for discussing technical subjects. Talking to women is the opposite of that. They use tons of superfluous words and it's more about how you talk about a subject versus the information you convey. Small talk. Empathy. Build rapport by treating "inferior" people as near equals. Practice by engaging with people, especially women, especially outside of…
/r/askTRP09/03/16 04:52 PM
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The girls will definitely notice the physical and mental changes, like confidence. You don't have to become some huge bodybuilder. A three day a week routine will make you look much better than you do now, especially if you have a sit-down job. If you are totally out of shape, you can start with push-ups, sit-ups, chin-ups and a healthy diet. After 30 to 60 days of that, you should notice changes and it's time to look into gym memberships or buying a weight set on Craig's list.
/r/askTRP09/03/16 04:34 PM
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But you don't have to actually fight. You just have to stand up, not lose frame and deal with the situation.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/16 04:17 PM
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That's a good point you raise. A good law would be mandatory notification of the (suspected) father within 48 hours of a woman discovering that she was pregnant. Sure, it's can be hard to prove when she discovered that she was pregnant, but it sets the correct standard.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/16 03:56 PM
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Getting the paperwork notarized All a notary can do in this case is certify that a copy is a true copy of the original or witness a signature. But it makes it look much more official. Source: former notary public
/r/TheRedPill04/03/16 03:53 PM
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Timing is everything. I've missed the signals a few times (much to my regret), mostly because I thought the girl was too hot to be interested in me.
/r/askTRP04/03/16 03:35 PM
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I'd assume he's banged a bunch of girls and just found someone he really clicked with. When you have true abundance, you don't have to follow the rules. Probably not his motivation, but it does give him huge credibility with single moms.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/16 05:42 PM
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Agreed. It's possible, but it's much easier to make a good first impression on new girls. If you really want this girl, you need to have her see you on dates with other (higher status/prettier) girls and the other girls need to look like they are having a great time. Then, you have a chance with her, but you'll probably find that other girls are just a good/interesting/pretty as your princess.
/r/askTRP03/03/16 05:02 PM
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Girls definitely like to hook up when they are out of town because it doesn't affect their reputation where they live.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/16 04:05 PM
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I used to drink quite a bit, but just started hating it. I find it very difficult to go to bars and not drink at all. My solution is to get a shot of higher-end whiskey on the rocks and a non-alcoholic drink, such as diet soda or juice, which looks like mixed drinks. I nurse the whiskey for hours and no one seems to notice much. I can turn down beer by saying I don't drink beer and no one thinks you're "a puss" because you're drinking whiskey and they're mostly drinking beer. When the waitress c…
/r/askTRP24/02/16 05:53 PM
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You can't find a person that does things that are entirely selfless It's like you're saying that altruism is impossible -- by definition -- because one cannot do anything that has zero positive consequences to the donor. e.g., donate $1 million to charity? Tax write-off and good publicity. Devote your life to helping the poor? Probably expects to reap their reward in heaven (canonically false as this may be). Now, there are individuals and entities that cannot seem to do a good deed without an u…
/r/askTRP24/02/16 05:30 PM
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You don't get to be a senator without being able to play alpha game when you need to. I think Sanders believes that, in the end, you have to work with people to get things done and getting into shouting matches with alphas doesn't get thing done. Trump has alpha game but without political substance. All sizzle and no steak, as we used to say. Strong leadership, but not necessarily in the right direction. Society needs men like Trump, but not necessarily at the helm of government. If I were presi…
/r/TheRedPill23/02/16 04:18 PM
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What kind of person would you have become if people had basically never said No to you and half the human race just bent over backwards for you? You'd become entitled too. Best thing to do is withhold the validation when you first meet them. They're so used to everyone drooling over them, ignoring them initially gets their attention.
/r/askTRP21/02/16 03:55 PM
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Yes. Men "cheat" using game to increase their perceived SMV where women use makeup to increase their perceived attractiveness. It's OK for women to artificially inflate their attractiveness but not OK for men to do so.
/r/askTRP17/02/16 06:20 PM
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Most people will say you need to study a grappling style and a striking style. Everyone has their favorite and there's an eternal debate about what's best. Often, you end up with what's available in your area. Any good instructor will get you in shape and give you more self confidence. Chose an instructor over a style. You have to decide if you really want to fight or just get in shape. If you just want to get in shape, consider yoga, especially if you're older. People will debate the "combat ef…
/r/askTRP16/02/16 06:46 PM
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I had a boss in construction that did the 30/30/30 as materials are often about 30% of the total job. He would buy the materials and expect to be paid for them (at about a 10% markup). The customer can just take the materials and walk away. Nothing lost. If the customer doesn't pay, at least you have the materials. Then he would build the project in the shop and expect to be paid. The customer can just take the product if they want. If they don't pay; you have the finished product and can try to…
/r/TheRedPill09/02/16 05:27 PM
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Pardon me for saying so, but it's not all that different from how women manipulate men into doing all sorts of things that they wouldn't have done, had they foreseen the totality and outcome of the situation. Yet society seems to hold the view that manipulation is a much lesser evil when accomplished by women.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/16 04:06 PM
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If she systematically awards good grades to women over men, maybe you have a discrimination complaint. But maybe that would open a can of worms best left closed. It would be interesting to request her (anonymized, except for gender) grading from the last few semesters to see if there's a pattern.
/r/askTRP31/12/15 10:00 PM
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Very rare. It's a weak bargaining position. It's like everyone you knew from your beta/blue pill days has a bad (weak) impression of you. You're better off meeting new girls with a good (strong) first impression. The only times I've seen it happen is when someone comes back to town after a few years from college or the military. You can rock the "You've changed" vibe.
/r/askTRP22/12/15 04:45 PM
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Hold on. Prejudice is real. I had an internationally known Kung Fu instructor visit who was Turkish but looked like an Indian (Native American), who are often looked down upon by the local whites in my area. He was tall, slightly better than average-looking but very outgoing and in great shape. He approached a few white girls who would have nothing to do with him. He asked me what their problem was and I tired to explain it as delicately as I could. If they had known he was Turkish martial artis…
/r/askTRP25/11/15 10:45 PM
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I don't think any cities have more or less attractive girls than other cities, other than the racial preferences you mention, but temperament/personalities differ with regions and small town versus big city. Who really has a large enough (and non-biased) sampling to answer that isn't just the product of their anecdotal experience? That said, college towns are usually a good bet but that varies with the academic calendar. I'd say it's more about knowing where the girls congregate in any city. The…
/r/askTRP25/11/15 09:57 PM
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You can tell her that you found a new recipe you want to try (or an old favorite) so you'll be cooking dinner at your place (or hers if she insists) and that you'll be going out for drinks and dancing afterwords. If you can, meet her for coffee first and then go to your place. This gets you a couple of venue changes so it seems like three dates. If she won't go for this, she probably is just trying to get an expensive dinner out of you.
/r/askTRP25/11/15 05:25 PM
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Worked for me, once. It was a long time ago, but I'm pretty sure I was outcome independent and truly had an "I don't give a fuck" attitude. Was probably the embodiment of amused mastery.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/15 10:43 PM
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Take college SJWs as a perfect example. I believe they are a perfect example of sub-group conformity because none of them thought this up on their own. They merely conform. They would argue (I hope) that the down-trodden deserve a chance to succeed, which they do, and I don't see this as a slave-morality, per se. Where SWJs go wrong is when they pander to the weak and somehow equate equal opportunity with equal success. Equal opportunity means that everyone get to try out for the football team (…
/r/TheRedPill13/11/15 09:05 PM
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Morality isn't just arbitrary rules of culture and society. True. All morals (and laws) made sense to some group at some time, in some situation. The question is, Does a certain moral (or law) make sense to us in the here and now? Reality is perception. I would say that perception is tantamount to reality in the mind of the belief-holder, but is not actual or ultimate reality. The difference is that if you believe something that is incorrect, you will act accordingly, but that will not protect y…
/r/TheRedPill13/11/15 02:36 PM
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Tell them that marijuana is a gateway drug that will doom the next generation to addiction, and suddenly all of the "moral" people will start informing on their neighbors I think you're confusing morality with legality. People inform on their neighbors because marijuana is illegal. Though the neighbors may be hard-presses to define the difference between legality and morality. The difference here is that growing/smoking marijuana it not immoral (though it may be a poor life choice) whereas rape …
/r/TheRedPill13/11/15 02:28 PM
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She may get interested in you again when she sees you having fun with another girl.
/r/askTRP12/11/15 04:49 PM
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People often see Nietzsche as immoral or amoral, but what he said was to will your own morality. As the superior, value-making individual, you make your own morality and live by that. This is distinct from Machiavellian cunning or deceit, which is more like the idea of winning by any means necessary or expedient.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/15 03:20 PM
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MintJellies, if you read more than a few threads, and ignore some of the more inflammatory comments, you'll see that the goal here is self improvement. One of the many benefits of this is being desirable to "hot girls." Women give each other advice on makeup (among other things), men give each other advice on weightlifting, etc. Yea, there are always guys here looking for a short cut, but that won't get them very far versus really becoming a better person. All of the female behaviors you've outl…
/r/askTRP05/11/15 11:20 PM
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+1 for proper use of the word "hysterical"
/r/TheRedPill08/10/15 09:36 PM
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About half of the women I've dated were my height or taller. I'm 5'7". Some women just won't date shorter men. Pass on them.
/r/askTRP06/10/15 08:26 PM
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Yes, I'm way too old for you and your father absolutely wouldn't approve ... but is that going to stop you?
/r/askTRP29/09/15 09:00 PM
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What I'm trying (poorly) to get at is that the big city 9.5 isn't a one out of ten "9.5"; she's a 1 out of 10,000 or 100,000 9.5. The backwater 9.5 is probably out of 100 or 1000. If you take ten random girls off the street, the hottest is probably an 8, max. That's why I'd like to see some actual research on people's perceptions. Take 1000 female high school graduation photos. Make one group of evaluators put 100 in each class. Have another just assign numerical values.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/15 04:14 PM
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Biologically and statistically, that should be true. But my question is do people really rate that way, on a bell curve?
/r/TheRedPill28/09/15 01:04 PM
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I've been wondering about this for years. Are looks really distributed on a bell curve or is it something else? I think we need actual research. I'm thinking something along the lines of a high school year book's senior pictures and have men assign numerical values to the pictures and see what we come up with. I think someone once did some analysis on Hot or Not, but that suffers from self-selection bias.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/15 08:56 PM
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You're not reading to get the natural part of sex, you're reading to understand the convoluted dance that the current social milieu has placed between you and sex. I'd have to read a book to farm wheat successfully though I take it that raising wheat was once considered common knowledge.
/r/askTRP25/09/15 04:37 PM
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It's a losing game. It's OK to have some female friends in a group in some situations so it's not a sausage fest, but you can't have a women as your best friend and not be a beta.
/r/askTRP24/09/15 04:09 PM
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Some women are really into tall guys. If you're not tall, it's really an up-hill battle with them, so better to try elsewhere. Being short, you do have to be a little more assertive because guys will shit test you too. Just don't over compensate. Yep, naturals have it easier. The rest of us have to make it up with game and lifting. If you can't be tall, be wide (through the shoulders).
/r/askTRP24/09/15 04:06 PM
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It's like when you find out there's no Santa Clause. The world has been complicit in a lie and you're angry about it.
/r/askTRP24/09/15 03:39 PM
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When-ever I see a thread on an image board that says, "Post 10's only" or "Post the hottest porn star," I see 7's to 9's. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
/r/askTRP24/09/15 03:03 PM
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The only exception are girls that were "ugly ducklings" in high school and got their looks later in life. They had to develop a personality instead of just coasting on their looks. These are the best catches, IMHO.
/r/askTRP24/09/15 02:46 PM
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In about the same boat. My Dr. put me on Androgel about 8 years ago. I see changes in my attitudes and temperament that seem to go beyond just being 8 years older. I also own more guns than I thought I needed 8 years ago.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/15 01:41 PM
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If anything, the modern public education system is the main culprit for brainwashing youth into being worker drones and stiffing any creative outlets and stamping out ingenuity. I don't know that you can find this plainly stated in US educational doctrine today, but (I believe it was) John Dewey, a leading educational theorist a century ago, explicitly stated that the goal of the public education system was to turn out factory workers, not doctors, lawyers and engineers, of whom we have plenty.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/15 01:34 PM
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This study seems to be using facial structure as a proxy for actual testosterone measurements for subjects prior to the 20th century, so there's a lot of conjecture going on. Everyone on TRP seems to want to be a "high testosterone" alpha male. But the relationship between testosterone levels and social and physical dominance is more nuanced. I asked my endocrinologist and he said you can't just look at someone and guess their testosterone levels. Or to put it another way, if it was that easy to…
/r/TheRedPill23/09/15 09:08 PM
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I probably wouldn't have started, but I'd continue with fitness regardless because I like how it make me feel. More energy.
/r/askTRP22/09/15 09:50 PM
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"Socialism" means different things to different people. There's top-down redistribution that is generally "bad" and bottom-up collective action that is "good." I personally believe that it is in society's best interests to provide a minimum, base-line level of education and healthcare but to not fund every last thing. I don't think you can have a workable system that's 100% anything. You need elements or capitalism for efficiency and incentive and elements of socialism because bad things happen …
/r/askTRP22/09/15 08:56 PM
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You get more respect from men when you're fit and it boosts your confidence. You don't have to be Mr. Universe, but anything less than fit is points against you, especially with women (in general, of course).
/r/askTRP14/09/15 08:35 PM
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They went after "skinny white guys" because all of the tall/handsome/buff guys were taken.
/r/askTRP14/09/15 08:30 PM
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I'll bet that you are approaching (or failing to approach) girls that are out of your (current SMV) league. If you're really in that bad of shape, start with girls you don't even care about and don't want their phone numbers. It's practice talking to girls and starting conversations. This will build your confidence. You have to start somewhere.
/r/askTRP21/08/15 09:58 PM
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I asked my endocrinologist about outward signs of testosterone and he said that you can't just guess someone's T levels by outward appearance. People that you'd think would have high T might have low T and vice-versa. People tend to associate testosterone levels with many physical characteristics and behaviors, but it's not that simple.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/15 07:23 PM
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There was a more immediate problem in the 70's. Gas prices and stagflation.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/15 02:02 PM
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Incidents get less publicity if they are handled in-house and universities are trying to protect their reputation.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/15 01:57 PM
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Agreed, Yes and No. I've only seen a couple of episodes, but he gets the girls because that's what the script says, rather than what he actually did (or didn't do). In the episodes I saw, he did maintain his narrative. Maybe more of a PUA than an alpha. Many TV shows and movies show a guy hitting on a girl in a bar and fast-forward to them in bed, skipping the seduction part. I haven't decided if the writers are clueless, if they're afraid of offending the main-stream (with the truth), or it wou…
/r/askTRP08/07/15 08:32 PM
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I've read a couple of Steven Pinker's books. I don't recall him saying anything pro or anti-feminist in either.
/r/askTRP07/07/15 08:31 PM
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There was a time when only military members and outlaw bikers (who were often former military members) had tattoos, and they meant something. Now anyone with a few hundred dollars can sit down and get any tattoo. You get the ink without the rite of passage, which is just posing.
/r/askTRP23/06/15 08:56 PM
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It's one thing to have a "rational, philosophical understanding" of something in an abstract sense and another to apply that to your life, in real-world situations.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 04:51 PM
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Minds clouded by pussy.
/r/askTRP22/05/15 08:04 PM
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I think he has a lack of empathy. Interestingly, this lack of empathy is part of what makes him successful (a la dark triad), but will ultimately limit his success.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/15 07:39 PM
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That's just the one time that made the news. He probably banged 20+ more discrete interns in his career.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/15 07:28 PM
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Sometimes Roosh is more PUA than RP.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/15 05:50 PM
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Concepts like "the beta/alpha dichotomy" are introductory teaching tools that are necessary oversimplifications to get a point across. Humans need terms and paradigms so we can wrap our heads around new information so we can process it. Reality is naturally more nuanced and situationally dependent. Though I personally prefer alpha, beta, omega, that's not current RP usage and you have to "speak the language of the tribe" to communicate.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/15 05:48 PM
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Nope. Feminism ruined a generation of men. Retreating into technology is a symptom, not the cause. Zimbardo wanders into controversial territory when he argues that the loss of male exclusivity in the role of breadwinner is damaging to male psychology. I think it's the loss of many activities that were previously 99% male, like when I see a woman on a Harley. It's kinda cool, but there's nothing left that's male-only. It was the previous status quo or milieu that made men what they were. You can…
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 11:53 PM
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My approach has been to replace "shit" food with healthier alternatives and set the example with exercise. I (try to) only buy healthy food at the store. I only cook healthier food when it's my turn to cook. Meals at restaurants are so huge that we can often split an order.
/r/askTRP31/03/15 11:38 PM
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From and RP perspective, one could say that charity and altruism are merely public displays of wealth and generosity to further ones reputation. That's a Machiavellian take on things. Another way to put it is that a truly superior man has excess and is simply not harmed by giving some of it away. A true abundance mentality. I think of all RP behavior as tool to be applied when the situation warrants. One need not be 100% hardcore RP in all things. It's a general tendency versus an absolute posit…
/r/askTRP26/03/15 11:52 PM
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It's harder to change the perception of people that have known you a while versus making a good first impression on strangers.
/r/askTRP05/02/15 06:38 PM
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I just can't stop picturing Patrick Bateman in American Psycho fucking two hookers. No offense.... Bateman obviously had high SMV but enjoyed the convenience of prostitutes.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/15 11:35 PM
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This worked for me: Deep, short strokes to start; longer strokes to finish. I was desensitizing myself by fucking too hard, especially for the first five minutes. Now I put it all the way in, and use very short deep strokes and grind until I want to cum and then start fucking like "normal" to get off. I figured this out after reading about how uncircumcised guys tend to stay in deeper and circumcised guys tend to go for longer strokes. This article said that women tended to like the staying in d…
/r/askTRP30/01/15 09:51 PM
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Do we? In some situations it's useful to have chick-friendly music. If you let the women pick the chick-friendly music, it will usually suck. Better to turn them on to female bands that are acceptable. There are female-audience-friendly bands and female-audience-only bands. tl;dr I'd rather listen to Bikini Kill than Enya. But then I'd rather take a bullet then listen to Enya.
/r/askTRP15/01/15 06:05 PM
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A firearm is the last line of defense. I usually keep a pistol in the car (legal in my state), but I've never carried it into a club, nor do I choose to frequent clubs where I think that carrying a gun is necessary. It's not the "biker" bars that are dangerous in my city, it's the cowboy "redneck" bars. Dumb, drunk "cowboys" (most haven't been on a horse in the last year) just want to fight and don't realize the potential hazards, both physical and legal.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/15 11:10 PM
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What you have stumbled upon is freedom and it's terrifying at first. It's the weight of knowing that, ultimately, you are the one responsible for your actions and your place in the world. It is only in our darkest hour that we may realize that the world doesn't owe us anything or give meaning to our lives -- we give meaning to the world by our very existence and by the sheer force of our will. If it's any consolation, only smart people are afflicted with existential depression. You never see poo…
/r/askTRP09/01/15 10:29 PM
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For the drama. Why just have sex when you can have sex and drama?
/r/askTRP07/01/15 06:32 PM
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I'd add: Make sure your credits are going to transfer if you plan on switching schools. Most liberal arts degrees aren't worth it economically and unless you can get a free ride, you'd be better off going into the trades. Liberal arts degrees make you a better, well rounded person, but you can do that by reading.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 04:56 PM
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AWALT is kind of like saying all dogs can bite or all horses can kick. They may not exhibit the behavior at this time, but they are certainly capable and will do so under the right circumstances.
/r/askTRP31/12/14 02:44 PM
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Hamster just hit overdrive.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 11:24 PM
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Thanks for that link. We're in agreement about the "necessary evil" role of religion in society. Whisper's comment is pure gold.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 09:56 PM
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It doesn't matter so much what you say as how you say it (frame) and if she thinks you're cute. If the girl thinks you are cute, she'll take it as a compliment. If she isn't into you, she'll label you a creeper.
/r/askTRP19/12/14 06:11 PM
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I agree with what you say, but it's always made me wonder why marriage and long-term pair-bonding are so prevalent in various successful cultures if it's in the male's best interest (genetically) to be in a LTR. Maybe this can be partially explained by the prevalence of cheating & mistresses in various cultures. I would just think that marriage for ten years would have became the norm if we weren't missing something here.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 06:06 PM
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...convinces men who aren't getting laid that the problem isn't them but women This is the exact opposite of the truth. TRP says if you aren't getting laid, the problem is you, so go improve yourself.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 05:21 PM
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If power in a relationship is a zero sum game, any male empowerment means a commensurate amount of female disempowerment. Feminism is all about shifting the balance of power in women's favor, so, of course, they are against it.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 05:17 PM
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"Never Marry" means the legal construct of marriage is fucked for men. It doesn't mean "never commit" to a woman or never enter a LTR. The RP haters haven't read enough to understand the nuance of the argument.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 05:13 PM
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Funny though, they don't want to be raped by any actual rapist, then want to be raped by Brad Pitt. They want to be told what to do, but they want to be told to do what they secretly desire but are ashamed of.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 05:05 PM
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The early 90's Internet was a place where virtually everyone on it was in college or had a degree of some sort. Many user had advanced degrees. The average level of conversation was so much higher then it is now. Theses days, trying to have an intelligent conversation on the Internet is like trying to pick up skinny chicks at Walmart.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 05:00 PM
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I never really thought about this before but it makes me wonder how much men believe that women are good and nice because our first experience with women was out mothers who, on the whole, were good and nice and loved us unconditionally and accepted us unconditionally -- something you'll never find in another women. Kind of set you up with a skewed perception of women.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 04:53 PM
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Once knew a white girl that tanned heavily one year at the beach. She was 20, cute, fresh looking. I saw her two years later and she looked like she was 30+. Girls: Don't sunbathe!
/r/askTRP18/12/14 10:33 PM
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5'8" here. I've never got lifts but I do tend toward shoes/boots with 1" or better heels. Thanks for the Amazon link. Those really look invisible.
/r/askTRP18/12/14 10:29 PM
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How would you feel about a "turn the tables" question like, "How would you feel if I wanted to go on a date with a girl I met in a club before we got together?"
/r/askTRP18/12/14 10:26 PM
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Religion requires (mostly blind) faith. TRP is a way of life -- a way of looking at and engaging the world but it's doesn't require much faith. RP is truth, born out time and time again. BP is faith that being a nice guy will get you what you want in life (and get laid), which it won't.
/r/askTRP18/12/14 05:59 PM
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There are probably a few racist poster, but there's no strong racial current or much about race in the sidebar. There's talk about how girls from different backgrounds will react differently, but skin color seldom enters the conversation except when in help to explain the situation.
/r/askTRP17/12/14 12:32 AM
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Better the devil you know. Then in six months look for a new job that pays even better.
/r/askTRP16/12/14 11:17 PM
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Well, the other side of that is if the only the wealthy, landed class can vote, they will enact laws that tilt the field even further in favor of the wealthy.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 11:05 PM
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I know a girl HB8 (not much of drinker) she always goes out without any money and can always get guys to buy her drinks.
/r/askTRP13/12/14 12:37 AM
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It's way easier for girls to hook up. Men usually come out on the loosing end of this.
/r/askTRP13/12/14 12:00 AM
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There's the modern American legal construct of marriage that's a bad deal and the age old concept of monogamy and raising a family that's a good deal if done properly.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/14 04:35 PM
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Welfare and television are just modern "bread and circuses."
/r/TheRedPill12/12/14 04:24 PM
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They do it because there is very little in the way of negative consequences and, if she's cute and thin, tons of guys are probably asking her out, so she has tons of options. The tip I've seen is to call or text a couple of hours earlier and say something like you're going to be 10 minutes late or change venue. Just add some small bit of information or say, "Bring a jacket because it's going to be cold out." It's just an excuse to verify without looking needy. The other thing is to have more gir…
/r/askTRP12/12/14 12:16 AM
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Exactly, in college it was easy to have a social life with nearly zero effort. College is the best day-game venue in the world. After college, day-game means going to libraries, co-ed sports, shopping malls, joining clubs, etc. You're going from a looks-based, "free pass" because of athletics & frat game to a game that involves talking girls up and one of the largest challenges is meeting them in the first place. America offers very little social life outside the bar/club scene. There are no mor…
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 09:13 PM
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If your main deficit is confidence, go with martial arts. If your main deficit is low SMV due to appearance, lift. You can do a mix of both. I used to do martial arts. Right now I'm doing yoga and lifting. For me, this is a great balance.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 10:14 PM
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It's probably not as bad as you think. In the US, the easy way out would be to transfer schools, if you really think it's that bad. You could just get a girlfriend from the local town that doesn't know the uni gossip and focus on school.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/14 10:52 PM
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You think that's bad? Females in the military. CC on steroids.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/14 10:41 PM
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Merely possessing over a certain quantity is sufficient to prove intent to distribute in some jurisdictions. This is like saying that if you buy a case of toilette paper at Costco, you are a tax evader because clearly you were intending to resell at a profit.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/14 09:30 PM
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I live in a common law state. I asked a lawyer and he said you're actually better off getting married because some judges won't grant a divorce to a common law marriage.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/14 06:04 PM
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I think you're over-thinking it. Just keep a small bottle of lube by the bed. A couple of drops is usually enough.
/r/askTRP09/12/14 04:40 PM
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Strip clubs are fun but it's very hard to "date" one of the girls unless you know them outside work. Many dancers have a policy of not dating customers, but I'm sure there are exceptions. I have the most fun when I bring a girl or two. The dancers treat you a lot better because you're not just some loser who can't get laid. All of the "no touching" rules don't seem to apply to other girls. We spend about the same money as dinner for two, but have way more fun.
/r/askTRP09/12/14 04:31 PM
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Alpha/Beta is too simplistic. I think Alpha, Beta, Omega sums up things more accurately.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 12:45 AM
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Economic imperialism. The US could easily invade Mexico but it would be foolish to do so when we get the economic benefits of a neighbor with cheap labor without having to extend citizenship benefits south of the border.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/14 02:41 PM
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There are exceptions to AWALT. I dated a couple of girls that were serious about not wanting kids. e.g., had their tubes tied when they were under 30. Most, as /u/fnordsnord says, just mean the don't want kids right now. I'd just agree with her and say that there are plenty of people in the world and there are many ways to have positive impacts on the lives of children without having your own -which basically no girl is going to disagree with. If you want to know for sure, ask her why she hasn't…
/r/askTRP04/12/14 02:06 PM
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You can't use logic to defeat her emotional attachment to feminism. If you must engage logic, I usually say something like I'm for equality of opportunity but not for lowering standards. I'd tell her they've already won. Maybe point out that more women are graduating from college than men. Maybe say that over-all the pendulum has swung near the middle but the momentum is swinging away from equality and men are starting to not be valued as men and their unique contributions to society. Maybe ment…
/r/askTRP04/12/14 12:50 AM
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The reason for this is there's basically nothing you can do that will make the situation better so the best move is silence and move on. If she come to you, fine.
/r/askTRP03/12/14 11:34 PM
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Be your best self. Play to your strengths. Downplay you weaknesses or improve them. e.g., if you are a small, weak guy who likes to read, trying to pick up girls at a sporting event (full of strong, tall guys) is a poor move because you are inviting a comparison in which you will fare poorly and girls at sporting event probably tend to go for athletic guys. You (this hypothetical person) would do better at a bookstore, library, etc. I haven't read "Models" but I'd guess that he's saying not to p…
/r/askTRP03/12/14 11:26 PM
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You can just put: 127.0.0.1 www.lamesite.com in your hosts file.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/14 10:34 PM
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Your post reminds me how very glad I am that I got a vasectomy. Should have done it a decade earlier.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/14 10:10 PM
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Nothing can really re-create the feeling of going into the unknown of a new relationship, but you have work to keep the fire burning. It all boils down to putting in effort (both of you) to stay attractive both physically and mentally/emotionally. A guy's main challenge is to not slip into beta mode becase it's easy and comfortable. A girl's is to stay thin and keep some semblance of mystique.
/r/askTRP03/12/14 04:26 PM
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... ever guy should know How, pray tell, would "every guy" know this? A lot of this stuff seems kind of obvious once it's stated, but there's a lot of conflicting information out there, especially the conflict between what women say they want and what they actually respond to. Please do realize that men and men's attitudes toward women and sex are largely the product of thousands of years of genetic selection wherein women did much of the selecting. tl;dr Women selected us to be this way.
/r/askTRP03/12/14 04:11 PM
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I know people that got all of their pot smoking/drug use out of the way in high school and were both cool and serious in college. Another way I've heard it put is to only smoke weed on the weekends after homework is finished. Actually, the best advice I could give you is to do all assignments as soon as you get them. Don't wait until Sunday afternoon. Do then Friday afternoon and you are totally free for the weekend.
/r/askTRP02/12/14 09:29 PM
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Agreed. Liberal arts degrees seldom have much economic value -- maybe History you're going into law school, but you need to get in to a top-tier law school. Economically, you're better off with STEM or going into the trades. Liberal arts degrees do make you a better person, but there are many ways to become a better person -- like reading books on a wide range of subjects.
/r/askTRP02/12/14 09:21 PM
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I've been working out moderately on and off for the last year, more intensely for the last few months (lift 3x a week for 30 minutes, yoga 3 or 4 times a week). I get unsolicited comments like, "you're fit", etc. Tons of IOI from girls. I'm 49 and I'm turning the heads of 20-something girls. I totally recommend lifting and working out. I'm no where near huge. Biceps have increased a couple of inches. Top of abs starting to be visible.
/r/askTRP26/11/14 11:13 PM
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Cursory knowledge of martial arts inclineth a man toward violence. Depth in martial arts inclineth a man toward peace. Nine times out of ten, a fight can and should be avoided. Most guys just want to be seen as dominate and will usually be satisfied with a shouting match or less. The more you study martial arts you realize that this shit will seriously fuck someone up. Hospitals/lawsuits. Guys that are too eager to fight have either nothing to lose or something to prove and may be carrying a wea…
/r/TheRedPill26/11/14 06:18 PM
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It not so much about shaving versus not shaving. It's about putting in effort and a desire to sexually desirable. If she's not going to put in any effort, the relationship isn't going to go anywhere.
/r/askTRP26/11/14 04:54 PM
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I've just been out of the dating game for ten years and don't know what 20-something girls think is acceptable. I'm not afraid or embarrassed. I enjoy it -- it's hot. I'm just trying to figure out if I should be withholding contact or grinding harder. I've been putting my hand on their hips and running them up and down their sides, maybe brushing her side boobs. Most of them like this, or at least they don't stop me. So far, I haven't said anything about it but I've contemplated saying, "be care…
/r/askTRP26/11/14 04:46 PM
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Use her as a social "in" into her group of friends. Don't go past kissing, if even that far. You know that whatever you do when you're with her will get back to her friends, so use that to your advantage to make a good impression on her friends. The usual strategy is to try and get her one-on-one, but in this case only do group things. Then you can tell her friends that you "just didn't have chemistry" with the original girl. e.g., Let's do something some time, but I want to keep it casual -- no…
/r/askTRP24/11/14 11:25 PM
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Hitler was ... Godwin's Law strikes again. I'm not a religious person, but there haven't been any successful, long lived atheistic societies in history -- not any that I can name anyway. Sure, all religions are "full of lies" but the strong cohesive affect is undeniable. Religions is very useful to those in charge. In primitive societies, where religion is near-universal, no one "dies for his country." They fight for honor or cattle/wives, etc. It is only in the modern nation-states where we see…
/r/TheRedPill24/11/14 10:20 PM
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In the social settings I've observed, there are usually one, sometime a few in a larger group, that are the Alpha. Then there are what I'd call Betas, quality men who aren't top dog in this situation, but could be the Alpha in a smaller group, and Blue Pill losers I'd call Omegas. What TRP calls "beta" I think of as being Omega. Most of the people on TRP are Omegas that have tasted the red pill and are transitioning into Betas. Only time will tell if they will ever truly transform into a Alpha. …
/r/TheRedPill24/11/14 04:20 PM
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I don't want to overstretch the analogy, but are women of a given SMV (e.g., an "8") properly seen as fungible goods? Assuming a lack of oneitis.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/14 11:38 PM
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However my friend believes that the redpill is for manipulative assholes... 100% not true of the self improvement half of TRP. The pick-up techniques are just another tool in your tool box. How and when you use the power you gain determines if you are just a more successful man or a manipulative asshole. Sure, you can find comments that say women are just a wet hole, but that's not 95% of TRP. If you lift weights and become a bully, that's you being an asshole. If you lift and women swoon before…
/r/askTRP21/11/14 09:57 PM
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I'm only spending 1 1/2 hours a week lifting, plus a few yoga classes a week and girls are really starting to notice. I'm constantly seeing girls checking me out. Six months ago they wouldn't have given me the time of day. Last weekend I had a girl buy me a shot and got a kiss from a random cute girl I'd never met, just out of the blue, without saying a word to either of them. Plus it makes it so much easier to approach a girl that's already shown interest, either consciously or through body lan…
/r/TheRedPill21/11/14 05:07 PM
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If you can't figure out how to undo her bra, tell her to undo it or just pull it up a little for access. If she puts up solid resistance, back off for 10 minutes and start escalating again.
/r/trpGAME21/11/14 04:46 PM
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I think got mass down voted recently and this is a RP-only account. A bunch of +1 comments were suddenly at 0. I figure I must be doing something right....
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 04:25 PM
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That's some of the mechanics of it, but it's also about maintaining your narrative of the situation, yourself, and life in general versus letter her dictate the narrative.
/r/askTRP19/11/14 04:13 PM
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The 101 version is that you need to be more aggressive. Fine. The 200 version is that you need to have timing and IOI before you start kino.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 11:50 PM
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Yep, "This is a no-clothing bed, feel free to sleep on the couch." She knows that she's twisting you in knots by sleeping next to you in bra and panties. Don't let her do it. It's pure manipulation.
/r/askTRP18/11/14 11:29 PM
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You forgot, "Wear something sexy."
/r/askTRP18/11/14 11:01 PM
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Don't call her on every lie because that will give away your lie detecting abilities.
/r/askTRP18/11/14 10:58 PM
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All theories are valuable to the extent they have explanatory power. A theory doesn't have to be 100% correct to be useful in many situations, e.g., Newtonian physics. TRP has a shit ton of explanatory power about relationships and sex. As time passes TRP will be refined and become more accurate as minor errors are corrected. This is science, bitches. There are no gaping holes or huge underlying fallacy. Shit works. In any given thread you will see minor (or not so minor) disagreements but these…
/r/askTRP18/11/14 10:53 PM
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I'd tell her that you need to spend time working on romantic relationships versus girls as friends and no hard feelings. Then ask her if she has any cute friends. The key here is to not get "friend-zoned" in the first place by making some reference to sex, kino, or some other way to let all females that you meet, that you might be interested in, know that you are dating material, not friend material. If a girl says, "friends", you say, "with benefits."
/r/askTRP18/11/14 10:32 PM
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After reading tons of great lit in school, her writing is less-than-average. None of the philosophy/humanities/literature departments at the two schools I went to taught it. The only place you'd find it on campus was with Young Republicans and some econ profs assigning it for extra credit. Economists like her because a "greed is good" philosophy makes for tidy economic theories. Sure, greed exists and it has some explanatory power, but you can hardly base a philosophy upon it.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 10:10 PM
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The correct answer is, "Old enough to be your daddy" with the appropriate sly grin. Tell her that your age is never the issue, the issue is always young girls being mature enough to handle a relationship as an adult, without all the drama.
/r/askTRP18/11/14 09:22 PM
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I haven't read much Foucault, perhaps I should read the copy of Power/Knowledge I have lying around. Do you think that's good place to start? My sense of it is that at any given moment in time, the power balance is where it is, even if it's fluid over time. Though you seem to be saying the Foucault rejects this simplistic view. I would agree that people don't possess power as an innate trait so much as it's a situational formulation. Power is only possible in reference to other beings. "...[P]ow…
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 11:44 PM
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Ayn Rand Was such a bad writer, whatever you may think of Objectivism.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 11:22 PM
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...two parties negotiating the terms and rules of social interaction. But an equitable agreement can only be reached between equals. In any agreement between parties of unequal power, the more powerful will get the better deal (or so Nietzsche says). This is why you have to go into negotiations with females from a position of power with a high (real or perceived) SMV and maintain frame. So you can get an equitable deal.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 10:56 PM
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Nietzsche beta-orbited Lou Salomé. He talked the talk but hardly walked the walk in his personal life. Source: Undergrad degree in philosophy, I've read all of Nietzsche's published work. Edit: This isn't to take anything away from Nietzsche. I enjoy his writings quite a bit. I'm just saying that the person that articulates a particular truth in not necessarily the person lives such a truth.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 10:38 PM
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I like asking slightly illicit question, like "what are good clothing stores besides the one you're in" or "does this store server alcohol?" or "Do you have cocktails?" when it clearly doesn't. "Would you date a guy that's wearing this?"
/r/askTRP14/11/14 05:38 PM
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It beats boring. There are only two kinds of people; weird and boring and I'll take weird any day.
/r/askTRP14/11/14 05:29 PM
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Plus you smell funny. Did you shoplift that perfume from the thrift store?
/r/askTRP14/11/14 05:28 PM
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There are some chicks that dig a guy in uniform, but she's after something or she's somehow damaged if she's initiating with a guy of lower SMV. Probably just after something, like backstage access. But there is an opportunity here. You should be asking her if she has any cute friends that might be into you. Suggest that all of you meet for coffee after the show and I bet you have a lot of cool stories about meeting famous people or crazy antics that you've seen. Tell them about the time you bro…
/r/askTRP14/11/14 05:22 PM
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I've hand to upgrade my set of friends twice in my life. I had to ditch my high school friends in college and I had to ditch my college friends that got married/had kids/can't ever go out. I didn't tell them to fuck off, I just don't initiate contact anymore.
/r/askTRP14/11/14 04:19 PM
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You're probably fucked here because women initiate 80% of divorce. No matter the outcome of your marriage, you should start working out and eating right so you can raise your SMV. You lowered your value, in her eyes, by cheating on her, now you have to raise your value. Either it will help your wife see that you are worthwhile even though you fucked up or help you cope with the physical and emotional strain of a divorce and help you get another girl underneath you, which is the best way to get o…
/r/askTRP14/11/14 04:08 PM
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Don't have kids just to make her happy. You have to decide if you want kids, then you have to decide if she's the women you want to have them with and from what you say, it sounds like you could do worse. If you're going to have kids, do it with the woman that will be the best mother and the best wife. The hottest girl you can find is going to look not-so-hot after 30 and a couple of kids. If you need some stray pussy, get some stray pussy before you get married. Just be discrete about it. Out-o…
/r/askTRP14/11/14 03:47 PM
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Exactly. For women of reasonable SMV, getting laid by an alpha isn't that hard, it's keeping him that the hard part.
/r/askTRP13/11/14 09:30 PM
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I think /u/kingofpoplives is personifying women's biological behaviors, correctly. I don't think they are necessarily aware of what they are doing and the end game, but that's how it often plays out.
/r/askTRP13/11/14 09:27 PM
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That makes you feel stuck in certain scenarios you want the girl to follow, else you’re unprepared. This sounds just like bad martial arts training. You need your opponent to do some special thing or else you have no response. "Grab my wrist..."
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 09:10 PM
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How to become Bill Gates? Have wealthy lawyer parents with good genetics. Have them get you into a ivy league school -- not for the education, for the connections. Drop out of school. Take LSD. Have one of your parents on the board of IBM. Don't actually write the software that you plan on licensing to IBM. (QDOS) License software to IBM before you actually own said software. Gain power over competitors by virtue of controlling the OS the the competitor's software runs on. Tweak OS to break comp…
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 06:14 PM
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At first I thought it was going to be misogynistic PUA shit, but it's really just the other (missing) side of the argument and focused on self-improvment. I was starting to realize some of this before finding the sub but didn't have a cohesive narrative. Just some inexplicable data points about confusing female behavior that was the opposite of what females were saying they wanted versus their actions. Then it was like, "OMG, that explains perfectly what happened with that girl." "Now I know why…
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 05:45 PM
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fuck by date I've looked all over and can't find this clearly labeled on the packaging.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 05:31 PM
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I haven't tried this, but if you really think she's going to flake, you could text her and say that you have an opportunity to go out with the guys, but if she's really got her heart set on see you, you'll pass because you made a commitment to go out with her first and keeping your word is something that holds value for you. I like this because it puts the ball in her court, shames her a bit for thinking about flaking and shows that you are a popular guy. You're almost doing her a favor by going…
/r/askTRP13/11/14 05:13 PM
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It only hurts your reputation if you do something stupid. There are a lot of uses for girls you don't find particularly attractive. You don't have to waste a Friday of Saturday night or spend money on her. Use her to enhance your reputation and social circle. Wouldn't it be nice if she told her friends what a wonderful time she had with you? Maybe she has a cute friend outside your social circle and this would give you an in via pre-selection. Imagine one of her friends asking why you didn't sle…
/r/askTRP13/11/14 04:56 PM
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Exactly. You SMV is at its lowest point because you are young and have no accomplishments/job/education. It only gets better from here. You have to play the hand you're dealt and there's no point bitching about it. Become the best man you can be and women will notice.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 04:22 PM
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"me too" I'm a suave fuck around average girls but those god damn prancing unicorns make my brain go blank. Eye contact is important, but looking away from that pretty face can help me compose my thoughts.
/r/seduction13/11/14 04:16 PM
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I asked a lawyer before I got married because we were just "living in sin" in a common-law state. He said you don't have enough assets to need a per-nuptial plus there are limits on what you can specify, and you're better off getting married because a judge will have a hard time granting a divorce to a common-law marriage. An uncontested divorce is a simple matter, with no kids (vasectomy = win).
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 04:10 PM
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Not my situation, but I suspect that single mom's can see it as a plus. I can imagine some girls that are really set on having tons of babies see it as a plus. But the reality is that children, especially young children, are a huge impediment to your social life -- or should be. I've seen single moms take their kids to fairly wild house parties. It ranks up there as the most white-trash thing you can do.
/r/askTRP13/11/14 02:39 PM
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Loudly, at home, when she can hear. Then ask your roommate to make both of you breakfast because you didn't get any sleep.
/r/askTRP11/11/14 11:11 PM
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The only way to "win" some games is not to play. This is true as far as rigged games go, but dating isn't "rigged", it just has its own set of rules that aren't explicitly explained. TRP is like saying, sure the house has some advantages, but there are strategies that can overcome these advantages. Women don't want to you know the true rules of the game because it works against their interests and they often can't or won't admit the true rules. Rules: More like "guidelines."
/r/TheRedPill11/11/14 11:01 PM
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I just mention that I have degrees in history, humanities and philosophy (as well as CS) and say that I wanted to start working on my body after devoting so much time to working on my mind.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/14 06:29 PM
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Go up to a guy that you like and "accidentally" touch or brush into him. Repeat if necessary (some guys are thickheaded). This requires less talking if you are socially award.
/r/seduction07/11/14 05:12 PM
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You're paying for the network of rich and upcoming social and business connections. It's not what you know, it's who you know.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 03:17 PM
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I just ditched a long term ( 10 year) girl friend because TRP helped me realize that she was just taking and not giving anything back. I'm never helping a chick move again. Well, maybe if we're hooking up.
/r/askTRP06/11/14 11:04 PM
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The punishment for a false rape accusation should be the same as for a rape conviction.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 09:45 PM
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Anything by Jared Diamond.
/r/askTRP06/11/14 09:32 PM
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I've had my nose broke three times. Twice by getting face punched, once by a horse. The 3d time actually knocked it back straighter than it has been in years. That horse bashed me with the side of it's head. Pure bone. Man I wish I could hit that hard. Anyway, you can get a nose job if it bothers you that much.
/r/askTRP06/11/14 04:46 PM
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Frontal assault isn't always the best strategy. You need to break contact for at least a couple of weeks. She needs to see you having a great time with other girls that are as hot or hotter than she is or girls that are know for being super cool. I'd say you need to fuck at least two other girls before you approach her again to up your confidence and social standing. She needs to see you as a sexually desirable male. Else you are just playing a weak hand.
/r/seduction06/11/14 04:28 PM
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You're not Brad Pitt, but everyone has a look that works for them. You just have to find yours. You gotta work with what you got. Don't like you nose. Get it broken in a fist fight and blame it on that. Then you're just quirky looking and you can rock quirky. Can't tame your hair? Cut it short or cut it off. Go to a mid-range hair salon and get it cut. Find a pretty stylist. Ask her what would look good on you. While she's cutting, make small talk about what clothes might look good on you.
/r/askTRP05/11/14 11:16 PM
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"I won't tell if you don't tell." With a smile that implies plausible deniability if she's seriously offended. "Well then, do you have any cute friends that you think might like me?" She says, "No." You say, "What? You don't have any friends? What kind of looser are you?" If she's not smiling by then, move on. It's all in the delivery. Up-beat, joking with a sly smile. Edit: Don't mention "pretty." You're not just into her friend's looks. Some girls like to play match-maker and will actually poi…
/r/seduction05/11/14 11:00 PM
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Mini-AMA: The day of the procedure, I didn't feel much because of anesthetics. The next day it felt like I had been kicked in the balls yesterday. Balls swollen. Ice packs helped. Had it done Friday afternoon, was back to work Monday, a little sore. There is a little less ejaculation volume. In hindsight, I wish I had had it done 20 years earlier. I've never wanted kids so that part doesn't bother me. Ten year later, I have maybe 1% regret for not having kids and 99%, "Yea! No kids!"
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 10:50 PM
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You should be more cautions around girls you see daily. If you fuck up hard-core, or pull a complete dick move, it will get around. Girls love to talk. Just don't do anything over the top. Ask them to coffee or to study first and lightly kino to gauge her reaction. If she's receptive, escalate.
/r/seduction05/11/14 10:42 PM
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Your main problem is that you like this girl too much. You're your own worst enemy. Remember, she's just another girl. You'd be better off hooking up with some random girl just to boost your confidence first. Ask out some girls that don't intimidate you. It's much easier to maintain your cool around average looking girls.
/r/seduction05/11/14 10:34 PM
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Your kidding, right? This is totally typical of adult non-fiction and at a lower vocabulary level that any technical paper. I would expect this level of writing from any (non-math/science) undergrad, unless they were specifically trying to dumb it down for a selected audience. I'm disappointed that many here feel that the writing is over their heads.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 04:24 PM
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V. V is for vasectomy. This post was brought to you by the letter V.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 11:25 PM
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The way weights were explained to me was like this: If you're going to do three sets of 10 reps, you should fail around the 8th rep of the 3d set. If you can do all 30, up the weight until you fail around the 8th rep on the 3d set. You might fail on the 10th rep of the 2d set. This is just a guideline. When I can do all 30, I'll make sure my form is correct for a few more sessions before adding weight. There's going to be people here who know a lot more about this, but this is the simple explana…
/r/TheRedPill31/10/14 10:47 PM
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We're the same height. Some women are just into taller guys and wouldn't consider dating us. It's a fact of life we have to deal with. Others would say, "No" to dating a shorter guy if asked, but sufficient game can overcome. This is very hard to do with online dating where they just click "next" without getting to know you. My current SO is about two inches taller than me but I actually prefer the cute type, my height or shorter. Have a personality that's 6'2". Definitely lift weights. This is …
/r/seduction31/10/14 05:43 PM
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Jorge Luis Borges (short stories), Pablo Neruda (poetry) Not the genres you asked about but both excellent. Would recommend to anyone. I don't know how fluent you are, but there are some bilingual books available. English on one side, Spanish on the other. Save a lot of trips to the dictionary.
/r/askTRP31/10/14 05:08 PM
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Food for thought. When Europeans first encountered Chinese and Indians, within 150+ years they adapted and improved on Chinese and Indian technology. SE Asia and Afghanistan where exposed to Eastern Asian technology for over 1000+ years and yet they still maintained their primitive culture. I think you over-simplify. Technology has to be a right-fit for a culture. Nomads, for instance, have no use for stone-building technology. Metallurgical technology doesn't do you much good if surface metal d…
/r/TheRedPill31/10/14 03:09 PM
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I like the concept of talking about sex in economic terms (scarcity, opportunity cost, etc) but I think the analogy breaks down at some point. Normally, some goods are fungible and other are not, but buyers are usually fungible. A high SMV male is not replaceable for a low SMV male from the perspective of the seller. I doubt prostitutes routinely charge different rates based on the male's appearance, but I'm guess that it's happened, where there's room for negotiation. Betas value pussy based on…
/r/TheRedPill31/10/14 02:56 PM
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Any limits on prostitution, stripping, etc, unfairly limit young women's economic options. You don't have to "spin" anything. Where else can an uneducated 18yr old girl make $400/500 for a few hour's work? Not everyone is college material or even wants to go.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/14 02:32 PM
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