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DiscussionJakub-Jakub/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 10:28 AM
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Okay I understand all of that and that getting cat called and followed can feel scary. But at the end of the day I as a man am more likely to be physically assaulted than you, what would you like me to say, how would you like me to express empathy? Like I'm sorry that you live in a less violent world than me??
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/19 05:23 AM
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Lol men know what it feels like, men are more likely to be assaulted by a stranger, men are more likely to have experienced physical violence in their lifetimes, men are more likely to be murder victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/19 04:32 AM
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Option B This seems like a false dilemma anyway. I dated a heftier woman once and she was total homebody.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/19 07:28 PM
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Men are more honest, not they're completely honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 02:02 AM
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Got another female brainlet over here
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/19 09:57 PM
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An "attractive woman" can choose whoever she wants, and given this dating market she's likely to get it too. Some of the men here just don't want relationships with this transactional bullshit and so we want to avoid women with these kind of entitled princess expectations. Maybe it's a losing strategy but it's better than being some beta bux. Me and many other men were able to find good relationships regardless, so who cares
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 01:16 AM
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Water is wet isn't controversial, who's saying it is? It is a silly argument, it's your argument
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/19 06:36 AM
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Like among my gay friends Pretty sure you're just not aware of how slutty your gay friends are.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/19 05:59 AM
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You can't know what it's like to be a single man who claims to be an expert on marriage, so ur not allowed to argue. Let's just shut PPD down and never talk about anything
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/19 05:34 AM
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Being a single man sucks to be put it simply. There's no way I'd be envious of that. And yeah yeah Leonardo DiCaprio's single life probably doesn't suck but that's not who I'm talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/19 03:22 AM
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This is a worthless statement, it can be applied to anything. "You'll never truly understand what it's like to be a middle aged Guyanese tax accountant living in Newfoundland!" Yeah ok, so?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/19 03:21 AM
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It is significant to me, and I will not give it to someone for whom it means nothing. This is just so bizarre to me. Like if it came from a woman I could understand but damn. But hey it's your life I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/19 04:33 PM
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but I paid a woman to have sex decades ago and never met her again Why would you feel bad about this? Like honestly. Don't let the feminists and weird religious people get you down. I didn't settle for less than what I wanted. You're not settling unless you marry the whore
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/19 07:31 AM
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What's with all these virtue signalling comments. No a man cannot be happy going from the ages 18-40 without sex. There are probably some weirdos who can but who cares, there are some weirdos who can do anything. The vast majority of men would feel absolutely terrible. And not for some bullshit reason like 'wanting companionship', no, sex for sex's sake is equally if not more important as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/19 07:28 AM
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Agreed and also everyone has different life experiences. You can denote something as 'common sense that everyone knows' but there are people who actually don't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 02:41 PM
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He was with her for 14 years lol that's probably 50x the length of the average Hollywood marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 10:04 PM
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cheating and jealousy is based on ego too
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/19 06:56 PM
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A girl she'd have an easier life
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/19 08:39 PM
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often will even clarify that it’s used as a thought exercise to take women off the pedestal. That's not at all mutually exclusive with what Atlas said, in fact she even addressed it ("treat all guns as loaded"). It’s biggest hindrance is mostly because it has a reputation problem. Throwing around AWALT just to “trigger women on Reddit” doesn’t really do anything other than give bloops more ammunition. Hindrance with regards to what? TRP is supposed to help men in dating, if some men are so bluep…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/19 06:28 PM
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It's a useful heuristic to avoid thinking of women as wonderful angelic beings and getting taken advantage of, that's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/19 04:30 PM
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slapped my aunt's ass
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/19 04:28 PM
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Then they just won't match with the most attractive men which is what they want. The myspace angle is annoying, but clearly a winning strategy for those women. Getting your foot in the door is better than nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/19 08:23 PM
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0% chance man
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/19 08:07 PM
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Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/19 06:39 PM
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I generally think dinner is too stuffy and formal for a first or even second date anyway, so I agree. Not because of the money stuff though. The money, as a man at least, is a pretty easy dilemna to solve. Just... split the bill. If she gets offended, she's on some entitled princess shit and isn't dating material anyway, so no skin off your back. If you just want to fuck her, well then sure, go ahead and pay. But idk, if you want a hooker you might as well get an explicit hooker. When you start …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/19 06:20 PM
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lol what? It's always the white girls who want you to pay for them
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/19 06:09 PM
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Tell her but don't be too candid about it. Like don't be crying in front of her about why you're depressed or anything. But it's good that she knows, so she can give you space at certain times and so on.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/19 05:58 PM
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I've been to a meetup and there were a couple weirdos but most people were completely normal, if nerdier than the average person. Talking about niche internet shit irl is actually kinda nice I wish I still lived in that city.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/19 05:56 PM
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All women are crazy even if they're boring. Not mutually exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/19 10:59 PM
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I mean the whole fantasy is that the girl likes you intrinsically so putting in lots of effort to get her kinda defeats it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/19 10:56 PM
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It's just less likely that's all. Those aren't the only two features that one looks at either.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/19 03:57 PM
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Well yeah I literally said it's just a rough heuristic.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/19 01:33 AM
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Look it's not about "respect" or thinking The Sims is lesser or anything, idk why you're taking this weirdly personally. I like playing The Sims myself. When Rus says he would prefer someone he could play games with he's specifically talking about someone who can hop on like a COD game with him (or whatever he's thinking), he doesn't care about The Sims. You can read between the lines pretty easily, there's no need to be autistically indignant about what is technically a video game. I'm not gonn…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/19 10:30 PM
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Yeah nah you're being way too charitable towards women. Having a high status partner is mostly about bragging to all her girlfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/19 09:49 PM
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Why's that?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/19 09:48 PM
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Nah you can't have fun and be a high achiever at the same time unless your definition of fun is "I get drunk once a week" or your definition of high achiever is doing well at some bullshit liberal arts program. High school and below doesn't really apply since you have all the time in the world at that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/19 09:30 PM
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lol who cares if it's a video game or not, obviously it is but that's not the point. It's not a common interest if all she's playing is The Sims and you're off playing competitive multiplayer games. Idk if you're a woman or not but maybe you can understand this comparison- you want to watch a romantic move and he says "oh Marvel movie #76 has a romantic subplot, let's watch that". Also no The Sims is not like Minecraft at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/19 09:15 PM
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In my experience attractive/desirable men are more discerning actually, but I suppose it does make sense that high n men care less (the two don't always correlate). It's not some strict rule or anything, but I think the majority of men do in fact care.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/19 09:00 PM
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Uhh I don't know if I'm being clear, but I'm talking about valuing status in a partner, and in that sense women absolutely value it more, it's not even close. Unless you're trying to say that looks = status, which is true in some limited contexts but not in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/19 08:42 PM
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It's a pretty weird mentality to me to think of the sex, specifically, as meaningful. Like being with a low n woman would probably make the relationship more meaningful I guess but the sex is pretty irrelevant to that, it can be good or bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/19 08:34 PM
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Many men won't ask but that doesn't mean they don't value not having a high n count. They just look for other indicators instead. Like if she's from a good family, is she university educated, etc etc. They aren't guarantees but they do provide a rough heuristic. It's kinda like how women won't directly ask you what your salary is. But will take note of if you have a car, what your job title is, and so on.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/19 08:29 PM
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Do you actually think that women don't value status?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/19 08:27 PM
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Sex is an important pillar of a relationship, it's not tangential. A ONS or FWB isn't equivalent to a sex-filled relationship, they're not replacements. Instead of complaining, just have ONS and FWB. You're a woman right?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/19 03:18 PM
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WTF I literally just got out of bed are you an insane person? A relationship with someone who doesn't enjoy morning sex sounds like hell tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/19 02:02 AM
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I mean I'm not necessarily talking about you if you're truly disgusted by "gay" shit but I think a lot of men put on that they are to re-affirm their masculinity. And this can be about really mundane stuff like men hugging each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 10:07 PM
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I think you'll find that approximately 0% of men would choose the latter
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 08:28 PM
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Tattoos are just ugly and non-feminine. A small one isn't a big deal, but a woman without any is better still.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 08:25 PM
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No it doesn't, but that's not really the point anyway. This sub gets like 10 posts a day. What's the point of restricting topics like the OP, of which people in this sub are interested in? Like it would be one thing if someone made a thread about sharing sheep or whatever the fuck. A thread about sexuality though! Too off-topic for PPD!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 08:13 PM
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Straight guys are as disgusted at thinking about guys sucking dick as I would imagine straight women are disgusted about thinking about lesbians This is definitely not true. I do think a lot of the disgust straight men display towards homosexuality is empty bravado. But all the same, straight women report more gay experimentation than straight men do. But why does disgust turn into hate with so many straight guys? As for this, idk. Macho culture I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 08:07 PM
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I don't see the point in gatekeeping this very low activity subreddit. Why can't PPD just be a general debate sub about gender and sex, everything that can be said about TRP has probably already been said.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 08:00 PM
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Nigga did you really just look it up on wikipedia What personal experiences do you have with arranged marriages? All my family in my grandparent's generation had arranged marriages, some in my parent's generation. I know lots of non-family who have had them as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/19 12:17 PM
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Have you looked at the mail order bride websites or watched mail order bride documentaries? Every single mail order bride is at least somewhat attractive. With a much lower success rate because a local woman is much more aware that the guy sucks in comparison to other guys This all sounds like bullshit marketing to me The familial vetting you speak of is the poorer family gladly accepting the money and selling their daughter off. No it is not. Arranged marriages do not take place between familie…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/19 05:05 AM
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Watch documentaries, there have been mail order brides who have rejected men despite them being rich. There is some vetting going on, on both sides. Won't the low SMV men risk getting further rejected then? Are the mail-order bride's criteria different than local women? Prostitution is far more expensive in the US Idk man. Depends on the nature of the relationship you're paying for. Some women are really high maintenance. But sure, it can be more expensive. nets you someone prettier too Doubt. W…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/19 04:24 AM
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Why would you want to marry someone from an entirely different culture from you, who only wants your money? What kind of shitty life is that? If you just want sex, a prostitute is cheaper and easier. If you want companionship and love, you're not going to get that with some rando filipino goldigger. It's probably still easier to find that with a local woman. Divorce rates don't tell us the full story. These marriages could be just as unhappy as others, but the woman doesn't feel as free to divor…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/19 03:29 AM
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She is 100% a gold digger
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/19 04:32 PM
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If both work same hours and have same amount of time to spend on chores, then why women should do them? Who says this? Who are you arguing against?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/19 09:20 AM
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Nah this James Charles thing is stupid af. Cancel culture is just fuel for dumb white bitch drama needs. As far as I can tell his only crime is propositioning straight men, i.e literally nothing. All your cases are exactly equivalent to me- trivial shit no one should care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/19 09:10 AM
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I have no idea what you're trying to say
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/19 01:00 PM
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She could still have a low RMV. If she was unpleasant to be around, she couldn't cook, she was uneducated and trashy. These are hallmarks of promiscuous women. But otherwise yeah, you're absolutely right. There's always that ick factor naturally, but a slut who still worships you like a virgin without being as frigid as a virgin is fantastic.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/19 03:29 AM
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I really don't think so. Not for something that affects such a small proportion of American women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/19 03:16 AM
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Men who have had LTRs with women can tell. Others, probably not. I’ve never seen women drastically change their appearance with make up unless they’re serious make up addicts like in those popular youtube videos Idk what your threshold for 'drastically change appearance' is, but makeup is often the difference between "she's hot" and "she's ugly", so yeah it can make a pretty big difference. I would have thought guys would prefer all-natural girls if they believed make-up was such a problem. It's…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/19 03:01 PM
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Most people don't seem to be into this sex strike stuff, except weird radfem types and femcels that don't have sex with men anyway. It's a shame, because watching a genuine sex strike attempt would be fucking hilarious. You'd have women accusing other women of being scabs on twitter it would be great
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/19 02:40 PM
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She doesn't get to just say, yeah, not my kid, not my problem, I’m just going pretend like it never happened Yes she does lmao it's called an abortion That you guys keep trying to make this an abortion right argument only proves your real issue is that you resent that women do have bodily autonomy. Nah it's because it's a pretty close parallel. Abortions allow for women to avoid responsibility for unprotected sex. Which is fine of course, I'm not a tradcon and I have no problem with that. Societ…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/19 02:09 PM
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So now we all get to shirk our responsibilities because we don’t like the outcome of our choices? You better be pro-life with a comment like that
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/19 01:01 PM
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We'll see 50 more superhero movies released every year.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/19 07:27 AM
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if they can't have functional relationships with people who aren't a decade younger than them then maybe they should just stay single, it really isn't my problem Why is it your problem if they date teenagers in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/19 07:22 AM
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Well it does sound like your problem is being too clingy. I don't know why you have to take a sabbatical to fix that, in fact it might make your problem worse. A woman who is clearly hunting for a long term relationship from the minute you meet her is pretty unattractive in general. women over 30 being too old and desperate and not appealing that quite frankly it made me really depressed. You said it yourself, you're getting plenty of male attention. No point in listening to what TRP says if you…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/19 07:18 AM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/19 01:11 AM
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literally every morning Are you implying this is abnormal? If you're a healthy young man you'll wake up with a boner and want to fuck. Though occasionally I will admit, I'd take the sleep. But my girlfriend usually manages to change my mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/19 08:03 PM
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The femcels here are a hundred times worse than the incels. It's like two outspoken socialists, one of them from a poor Latin American country and one of them from Luxembourg. They're both annoying, but you can kind of still empathize with the former. There are a few great female posters but so many of them are clearly missing a few braincels. You can't have a conversation with some of them without seeing them lose their grasp on what was discussed, like a bird or some shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/19 04:44 PM
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Damn, all the dairy farmers are rich af where I live. It's a cartel basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/19 07:22 AM
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They say marriage is a bad deal, partly because all the women they're meant to be marrying are all sluts.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/19 07:20 AM
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Eh tbf most of the women here are blithering retards who can't follow a comment chain. Reading reddit is harder than history papers, apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/19 07:11 AM
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Obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/19 06:53 AM
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I think you're mixing up the cause and effect. I don't really care about women enjoying casual sex, myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 10:22 PM
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What do you think the best/worst parts of being female would be? Worst would the boring af female social groups that I would have. I mean I guess I could still have mostly male friends but idk if my friendships could work the same way. I couldn't play hockey with them or anything that's for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/19 09:21 PM
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They are fun to ride, but you don't want to be seen by your friends when doing it. That's mostly the man's personal sense of shame preventing him from doing it. And he's afraid of what his friends might think, but they won't actually say anything to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/19 09:01 PM
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Sure. This man has zero trouble getting another woman to commit to him, even if the one he hit leaves (and she won't)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/19 04:05 PM
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Nah men don't do this to their male friends. They might make fun of her behind his back but even that is rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/19 04:03 PM
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Yes I agree 100%. As a man it's always better to prioritize relationship advice from your male friends, but a female perspective can be helpful too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/19 03:58 PM
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Either he couldn't attract women in his 20s, in which case he's a reformed beta. I mean this is the best possible partner for a woman. Assuming you're currently attracted to him, of course. Formerly unattractive don't know their options- and they're incredibly loyal (to a fault sometimes) because of it. Or he attracted women in his 20s but they didnt commit Yeah this doesn't happen. Having a high SMV implies you also have a high RMV, that's just how it works for men. A normal man cannot "postpon…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/19 06:38 AM
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A young matt Damon isn't the best example
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/19 04:16 PM
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I'm pretty sure condom use is more common than birth control.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/19 04:13 PM
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Women are expected to take on all responsibility while men expect to take on none Have you heard of child support?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/19 07:28 AM
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Oh now I HAVE to take a gender studies class to graduate, why? Please drop out of that garbage school, if it exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/19 07:24 AM
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It can be fun to read that kind of tripe and be faux outraged about it. but yeah it shouldn't affect your day to day life in the least.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/19 07:21 AM
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Why in the world would you think this
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/19 03:40 PM
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But a woman secretly wanting her husband to physically overpower her by all appearances against her will while she says no is not the norm This is extremely common IME. Every woman I've dated has wanted something like this. Though yes, they do communicate about it in some fashion.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/19 02:33 AM
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Do you think men shitposting on the internet actually represents some kind of danger to unattractive women ?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/19 02:24 AM
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There are plenty of blue flairs on this sub and I see feminist posters all the time as well (in posts less hostile to feminism). If they don't want to defend their views in here that's on them. Why should the rest of us not talk about it? The top comment in this thread is a pretty interesting and informative post. It was worth it for that alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/19 05:19 AM
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We can only move forward. Move forward how? By accepting RP
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/19 12:44 AM
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How is that women’s fault? It isn't women's fault, and the above poster never intimated that. All that said, what do you think the best course of action is for that guy who missed out on his youth? It's certainly not to be a beta bucks and fund some old woman's retirement. His best choice is to go have some fun however he can. That's what TRP teaches. Also the "choice" wording is misleading. Like I agree, no man in his late teens/early 20's should be wasting away his years with video games and e…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/19 06:44 AM
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I'm not just talking about media visibility, the ratio of MTF:FTM is like 2:1.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/19 03:03 PM
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That's true--as there's more acceptance, more people are feeling comfortable coming out I don't think that's it. Like it's definitely a big factor, but I don't think it explains the staggering increase in trans people over the last decade. I think a lot of men just want to duck out of the male social hierarchy and grab some of that female privilege. It is mostly transwomen coming out, afterall.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/19 11:06 PM
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lol the hooker wouldn't be all "oh but reddit thinks my 200 n count is high, aren't they weird??"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/19 10:59 PM
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but it's not easy for them to find relationships I mean it's all relative. They're going to have a harder time than the average woman, but an easier time than the average man. Overall, they're still in a good position to be in dating wise. Even if the rest of their life sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/19 09:26 PM
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I mean no I disagree, 30 is still high in that scene, but ok? 30 is also a low number in a red light district, why is that considered the entirety of the sexual marketplace.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/19 05:47 AM
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I would put money on 90% of men who fuck transwomen also having fucked dudes. Definitely disagree, but we can leave it that as I assume neither of us have stats.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/19 05:45 AM
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lmao that's high everywhere, not just "on reddit".
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/19 01:06 AM
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I have a sneaking suspicion that you don't consider men who fuck/date transwomen to be hetereosexual anyway. Regardless, a transwoman would have no problem hopping on tinder and getting a date within the hour. Specifically with men who put "looking for women" in their settings.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/19 12:56 AM
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You live in a bizzarro hyper macho land if you think most men would murder a transwoman. It's a ridiculous scenario in the first place- most don't pass and could never trick you into doing anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/19 12:45 AM
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Trans women have always existed They never existed in large numbers or with this much visibility. They're still not a huge part of the population- but it's increasing ridiculously fast. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5227946/bin/AJPH.2016.303578f3b.jpg Only going up from here.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/19 12:40 AM
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Yes most of the men upset about this have missed out on the wild and adventurous phase themselves. It's not really fair or unfair, it's just how it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/19 12:30 AM
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Apply to university in a computer engineering program. You'll be set for life.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/19 12:15 AM
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This is already happening lol. Do you think a transwoman has any problems getting a date? Whether you call those men heterosexual or not, they exist (and wouldn't have existed 50 years ago). It's not ALL heterosexual men but enough exist
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/19 08:06 PM
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I meant dating in an all-encompassing sense, not LTRs. And yes I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/19 07:46 PM
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I think TRP was more optimistic about dating and more charitable towards women before the rise of the incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/19 06:09 PM
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True. IIRC, the average man gets swiped right on 0.5% of the time. So to get 30 matches a week you have to swipe right on 600 women. I don't think any man is out here doing this (there are swipe limits too), so I gotta believe that this man is well above average.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/19 06:06 PM
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30 matches a week is not Chad tier Of course it is
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/19 05:07 PM
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So lie then
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/19 04:50 PM
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How do you explain height requirements? Is it just a coincidence that the "ideal" male height of 6 feet + also happens to map to the top 18% of men? Do you think that 100 years ago, when the average male height was like 5'6, that women were all still clamoring for 6 foot tall men?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/19 06:23 PM
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I don' think anyone picture guy #1 fucking her. I would agree with the pic you posted of guy #2. And that atually just demonstrates what RP/incels are saying. That below average looking men like guy #2 are fucking 1/10 morbidly obese women like the one posted.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/19 06:14 PM
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k 1 person
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 04:16 AM
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Zero people outside the US know what the steeles are
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 03:27 AM
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pretty thin girls get much, much more of it, and disproportionately so Yes, and that doesn't disprove what I said at all
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 06:55 PM
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My general take is that 'chemistry' is typically something men create to be consumed by women. So men don't often talk about chemistry in their relationships in the same way that magicians aren't awed by their own tricks. I haven't thought about it much though, you've raised a good point.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 06:53 PM
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k but it's reality. My chubby Indian girlfriend gets cold approached in coffee shops and even has her own orbiter. The takeaway definitely isn't 'men are too picky', lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 06:43 PM
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It's not a binary but yes, dating advances
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 05:34 PM
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That chubby mexican gas station attendant is also constantly swatting away male advances
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 05:11 PM
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How old is your friend group? The ratio is not quite 50/50 depending. Like in the US 18-35 age group there are about 1.05:1 men to women. Moreover women in this age group have a larger dating pool (because men like dating younger and women don't like dating younger). Unless there are guys who are dating are dating several girls at once And of course this is true as well
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 05:07 PM
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but - no - there are tons of shy, insecure basketcases of women sitting in their homes watching reruns of Friends. The studies show that male virginity greatly outnumbers female virginity. The idea that there's a 1:1 ratio of lonely homebody women to men is false.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 03:47 PM
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Actually that's a fair point. I commented impulsively with a general statement. I think old man/young woman relationships can be exploitative, but it really depends on the nature of the relationship. Like the young woman is taking his money and cheating on him vs. being a good faith partner in the relationship. I don't think there's a hard rule here.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 08:40 PM
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No one is being exploited in a consensual relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 08:33 PM
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As soon as a man meets another man, he deepens his voice, changes his posture, changes the way he talks. You've got it the other way around. Men are more free to be themselves around other men. It is when he's around a woman that he does all those things. Men still care about what other men think of them, but not to the same extent as what women think.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 08:30 PM
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Not really the point- that woman might still be willing to sleep with a $89k earning man. Or a $15k earning man for that matter. Point is she doesn't know what she wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 08:23 PM
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I have a couple of questions for you, if you don't mind; 1) Are you attracted to women? 2) Do you find that your expected male gender roles/expectations are enforced by men or women?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 07:12 AM
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How many matches are you getting that you need to be cutting them down? Filters would only benefit women (or the most desirable men who pass those filters) IMO. Because women would end up with a more manageable number of matches, but men would have their already low numbers cut even further. women who aren't interested in me anyway Do you not agree with the red pill idea that women often don't know what they want? A woman that applies a $100k income filter might still be willing to sleep with a …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 07:05 AM
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If you asked my girlfriend this question she'd answer along the lines of "of course I'm not repulsed, I listen to my boyfriend cry and think he's super hot :)))". Now, I listen to her full-on ugly cry at least weekly, and she's watched me tear up maybe twice. I've never shown genuine weakness around her, most men I've talked to about this are the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 09:01 PM
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Do you think R.Kelly got paid handsomely for his latest music, or anywhere near what Cardi B gets paid? I don't understand how you could possibly think a washed-up artist releasing an album somehow means that he isn't actually washed up. No one has actually listened to R.Kelly's 2018 album, I can't even see it on spotify.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 08:37 PM
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People know their names, yes. But the height of their careers are over now- people do not care about their personal lives and values very much. They are not the equivalent of Cardi B in any form. Their scandals are ancient. Well, except for R. Kelly, who is in fact being taken very seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 08:37 PM
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Yes I'm aware of all that, but that was in the past. Look it's complete nonsense to say that male celebrity perpretated sexual assault isn't taken seriously in 2019....and then use some scandals 20 years ago as your evidence. Like you can understand how ridiculous that is right? R.Kelly is a particularly strange example, since he's in deep shit for his behaviour both with the public and the law right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 08:27 PM
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no i don't think the mainstream media would care if the male equivalent of cardi b admitted to doing something like this lol They wouldn't care if that rapper's victims were male. If they were talking about drugging women there would be lost sponsorship and cancelled concerts and whatnot. See Rick Ross circa 2013. And his was just a throwaway line in a song, not full on confessing to doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 07:24 PM
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The 130 lb women are much more attractive than the 160 lb women, yes. See how critical, picky, and judgmental of women’s bodies men are? Relative to what? Wanting a skinny woman is pretty low on the 'picky and judgemental' scale.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 06:21 PM
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if every man is a potential rapist because they have the physical capacity to rape, but then so does every woman Agreed but only semantically because 'capacity' is maybe a poor word to describe this. 'Propensity' is more accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 05:32 PM
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I think you've misunderstood the mantra. "All men are rapists" doesn't literally mean that all men rape, but that male sexuality is inherently predisposed to rape. "Teach boys not to rape" assumes this rapist sexuality is so strongly ingrained in men that our current cultural conditioning isn't enough, so we need to men specifically not to rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 05:29 PM
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Don't base your life decisions on some fake post on the internet, for starters. But if you insist- the man said he started cheating because his wife stopped fucking him. So do your marital duty, and don't gain a large amount of weight. Happy men won't seek out the red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 05:14 PM
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A herculean task for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 05:11 PM
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An athlete, unless he's the best of the best, will never be in the same cachet as movie and pop stars. Especially not in a sport only popular in the US. Also big lol at how you used 'released an album' as a metric for current relevance, my cousin released an album too
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 04:13 PM
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Disengage as in not courting or marrying women, not supporting feminist political candidates, etc... Their shitposting habits have nothing to do with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 03:59 PM
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80% of the posts were bitching about single moms, complaining that women aren't capable of love, and stories where OP gets patted on the back for overreacting to some woman being nice to him and going into "begone thot" mode. Yes, that's how it is currently as well. How is that incongruent with what I said?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 03:48 PM
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No one can name a single one of those movies or albums, no one knows who the hell Ben Rothswhatever even is. These men simply are not culturally relevant anymore except in discussions about sexual assault, you're grasping at straws.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 03:43 PM
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MGTOW isn't about "trying to convince themselves they're not obsessed with women". That's glaringly untrue if you've spent even a couple minutes browsing the subreddit. It's about disengaging with institutions they believe advantage women. So naturally, they talk about women. Are you surprised that atheists like discussing religion? That BLM activists talk about white people? That political candidates talk about their opponents? Your take is such an obviously bad one yet it gets repeated ad naus…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 03:36 PM
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They're discussing both- talking about how the problems in the former stem from wider problems in the latter.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 03:23 PM
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Do you think women as a group are like "oh my GOD, we heard theres a group of men who dont want to give us MONEY!!" Absolutely they would, if the size of that group was large enough for them to notice and affect their marriage prospects. You can already see this with men under 35- countless discussion about how these men are 'permanently juvenile' because they're underemployed and less interested in long term relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 03:20 PM
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Would you think for practical purposes that this is a reasonable(sensible and logical) belief to hold and mantra to repeat to herself? Yes, that is entirely reasonable. Moreover IME this is literally what women say to themselves and other women all the time. Where it becomes unreasonable is when she uses this mantra not to protect her own safety, but to rake some innocent man over the coals. Call for him to be fired, socially ostracized, etc...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 03:09 PM
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Should I go on? If we're going to compare this lists you're not going to win this argument. Your list consists of men who were famous decades ago and some random American football player I had to google. It's a complete nonsequitor since we're talking about the current political climate. You definitely haven't won this argument, lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 03:06 PM
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There was a WGTOW subreddit for a time and that was precisely what it was. A combination of /r/gendercritical and /r/trufemcels, basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 07:32 AM
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If he was significantly older the idea of being alone for a decade or more would definitely get to me. He will still likely die much before you, fyi. Though not by a decade.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 04:30 PM
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Why is that a problem, just ignore them? But ok, you do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 03:36 PM
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Not the one who asked the question but I'm genuinely curious. I know anal is a thing that some men ask for, is there anything else? Cumming on you? I'm actually of the opinion that a lot of the 'porn staples' come from women. As in male experience with women meant that they started expected it in porn as well. I'm talking about spanking, choking, hair pulling, demeaning language, etc.. (not anal). All the women I've been with LOVED that stuff and as a result it's kind of affected my sexuality as…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 03:28 PM
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Someone link that post please.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 05:49 AM
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I'd slut it up big time. Then marry an average looking guy who seems reasonable and non-boring and makes for interesting conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 05:47 AM
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Huh? I never made any claims about the magnitude of institutional female privilege, just that it exists. 6% is a positive number, isn't it? Of course that's a little misleading, checking 'female' will still help you in non-gender based scholarships. And many companies voluntarily implement hiring quotas.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 01:01 AM
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Scholarships, hiring quotas, etc.. Pretty sure her comment was sarcasm by the way. I know, but I do think that female privilege very much exists, and furthermore I think a non-insignificant number of men transition in a misguided attempt to capture that privilege. So I had to comment...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 12:46 AM
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Trans women don't get social female privilege because almost no one genuinely sees them as women. They may get some institutional female privilege, but I don't think that's worth the hell of being a trans woman socially and health-wise. Plus there might be a backlash to this whole trans thing at some point and they'll lost that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 11:47 PM
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Yeah I suppose that's true.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 11:39 PM
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Do you know what the word "if" means?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 11:38 PM
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Orgasms aren't just about physiological mechanics, far from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 11:37 PM
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My takeaway from that piece of knowledge is that it's better to try your damndest to become attractive, rather than trying to please a woman in bed with increased effort or skills. Of course, you're right, not everyone can become attractive. But are those unfortunate people the majority of men or a small minority?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 10:48 PM
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Fair enough, no arguments there.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 10:45 PM
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They have entirely different sexualities by definition, why would you compare them?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 10:43 PM
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I honestly, unironically believe the feminist movement would barely even exist if all men were hot as fuck. Hot men are relatively defined though, aren't they? If every man was hot, no one would be.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 10:42 PM
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I'm aware, which is why I said it's an extreme situation within my comment...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 10:36 PM
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That number is from the USDA, not me. But the number doesn't matter if child support isn't pegged to the actual cost of raising a child. To give an extreme example- Charlie Sheen reportedly pays $55k to his ex-wife for 2 children. That's pure profit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 10:28 PM
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As far as I'm aware, child support is dependent on the income of the other parent, not how much it costs to raise a child. So if a child costs $1000 a month (an estimate I've seen in a few different places online) and you're receiving $1500 a month, you're making a profit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 09:59 PM
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This is just Tinder right now, lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 04:21 AM
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The girl would probably not accept being FWB
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 12:27 AM
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I'd like one based on sense of humor and abstract thinking to sort out the aspergians How would you do this though? Ask each user a series of questions? I don't think this kind of thing can really be classified by a dating app. You just have to talk to someone to get an idea of their personality, sperg-like or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 11:30 PM
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So no text bio and a hard limit on how many messages you can send the other person? I don't think women would go for this idea. Many wouldn't feel safe meeting up with someone they haven't spent some time talking to.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 11:25 PM
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You would just end up with women pricing themselves out of perfectly good but average height men. I wonder how it's working for Bumble, they added a height filter not too long ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 06:26 PM
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lol Well I would be offended in any case.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 06:25 PM
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Why is everyone pretending that cheating is on the same level of paternity fraud.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 05:33 PM
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sex
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 05:32 PM
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Normal people also grow up in happy families and then take 23andMe tests and find out their father isn't their father, so...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 05:25 PM
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The consequence of staying with a partner you didn't know was cheating is that you waste your time and resources on someone you would have left had you known. That's not on the same level of supporting and raising a child that's not yours. Or on the different side of the coin, "losing" a child that you bonded with. A child-parent relationship is a much bigger deal than any romantic relationship. AND paternity fraud naturally involves cheating on top of that. But one paternity test might not quel…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 05:22 PM
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I trust him enough to not cheat on me but if he asked Him cheating on you is not on the same level of severity as you committing paternity fraud. It's not even close. But in any case let's say there was a magic red button that told you accurately whether he ever cheated on you, wouldn't you press it? Not even once?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 05:18 PM
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It's the same as your partner asking to go through your phone to see if you've been texting someone, with no reason to suspect you. Yeah but paternity fraud has far greater consequences than just texting someone or even cheating. It's also a fairly foolproof way of doing it, you know for certain whether the child is yours after taking a test or two, digging through someone's phone can get you pretty ambiguous results. And it also lacks tact because you could get DNA from the child AFTER it's bor…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 05:10 PM
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There will definitely be software designed to 'slim' videos of women if this video thing ever took off. 110%. It's still a good idea though.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 04:58 PM
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I like the video idea everyone is proposing. I'd imagine it would get pretty competitive too, with men making crazier and crazier videos. It would be a fun creative project, enlisting your friends to help you make "your dating video". OTOH I can see it being a royal pain in the ass if you have to do this repeatedly, so idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 04:55 PM
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I actually like this idea a lot, and I think women would do. I can't speak for them, but it really just...sounds romantic. As well as getting rid of the choice paralysis problem of course. But yeah it's possible that the main draw with dating apps for women is getting access to the most attractive men and this certainly won't allow them to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 04:50 PM
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Well it's a common problem that gay people have on their dating apps, that they've swiped out of everyone in their area. I think if you broke the general population down into all these subcultures you'd have the exact same problem. But maybe introducing less choice is a good thing, good point. You still have the problem of imbalanced gender rations within these subcultures, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 04:45 PM
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Okay but how would you accomplish this? I'm not sure there's any way to get rid of female sexual power because it's so inherent to our biology. Maybe if you altered all the women's profiles so they look older or something, but then people would just stop using the app.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 04:40 PM
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The technology to do that just isn't available. By that I mean downloading people's consciousness into a virtual bot. And if it was if would fuck society up a lot actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 04:37 PM
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I think the problem here is that people will run out of matches in their area pretty quickly. Especially when you're talking about matching people based on very gendered interests. There aren't that many anime watching women and fitness models in the world to get with all anime nerd men and the gymbros.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 04:31 PM
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For example, if you're exclusively looking for people within a 50 mile radius who are your age +/- 5 years, then those are the people who can see you as well. Pretty sure that's how Tinder works, because you need mutual likes to message the other person. If your profile is shown to people 6 years older than you, that's rather pointless, since you won't be interacting with that person anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 04:26 PM
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This is probably the most common type of relationship in the world, tbh. So answering yes would be ridiculous. And you may even find yourself liking her more as time progresses. Just don't marry her of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 11:01 AM
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How long ago did you use it? Almost everyone I know has used Tinder at some point or another. Attractive and unattractive. Naturally attractive guys find women in the real world. Would you say the same about naturally attractive women?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 10:56 AM
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That's a pretty interesting idea. There was a Black Mirror episode about that. Of course, that episode included technology that could download your entire personality. Do you think "simpler" stats like education, race, etc... are enough to select suitable candidates?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 10:49 AM
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filter people out en masse a bit easier Based on what parameters though? And don't you think people could inadvertently filter others who would have been excellent matches?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 10:46 AM
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All the women would swipe left on you and then go download the real Tinder. The End. No, but seriously. An app like that won't have any sustainability. You have to somehow balance the interests of men and women. That's the whole point of this thought exercise. If not, the entire thing will just collapse like Ashley Madison did.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 10:41 AM
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Interesting, thanks for the response.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 06:50 AM
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Radfems believe in patriarchy theory and that all of the patriarchal system must be torn down and all of "society" be rebuilt around feminist values Isn't this just a basic tenant of feminism, no matter what kind?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 10:58 PM
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They post on /r/gendercritical and seemingly hate men, that's good enough for me. I didn't mean that they're lesbians who think penetrative sex is rape, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 10:50 PM
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Pretty sure azngirl and wokein are redfems. I've almost certainly seen others.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 10:06 PM
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Yes, I viewed it a cry for compassion. The fact that he can't trust women is simply a sad thing. Whether it's because they're inherently untrustworthy, or he's got a perception bias, either way, it's sad. I am completely unsurprised by the lack of compassionate responses from women here, of course. Most of the "woe are men" type posts here are either met with derision or gleeful agreement from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 09:57 PM
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Would you date a fat, old, female CEO? Many women would date a fat old male CEO.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 06:57 AM
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I don't really like it but I'd go down on her if she asked, yeah. Idk what kind of answer you're expecting really, no one is going to say no.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/19 02:23 AM
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So many women can't even give themselves orgasms. It's not gonna happen every time, you're asking for the impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/19 02:17 AM
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>if you are a TRP who is encountering tons of "single moms" your dating pool is lower class women. This is because of dating apps. I don't know ANY single moms IRL but on tinder it's like 1 in 4.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/19 04:29 PM
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