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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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3	Girl-Dad mentality help There is a mental component obviously. You need to be fully ok with the idea that women do actually like having sex with men they like, which might be a problem for you to accept when you have a daughter, because the idea that your daughter would want to have sex with the men she likes (either now or in the future, depending on her age) scares you and you project that non sexual image to all women in general. There is also a technical component (meaning actually making the escalation to sex smoo…	/r/seduction	25/03/25 10:40 PM
0	How do you decide whether to go direct or indirect Don't think of it as one or the other. There are very direct opens, there are completely indirect opens, and there is everything between. You always wanna be kind of semi-direct. Direct escalates faster if she likes you right away but fucks you up big time if she doesn't. More indirect allows you to do disqualification, teases, push pulls and other attraction stuff beforehand, to make it more consistent, but it will take longer and you need to show at least some interest, to make sure the intera…	/r/seduction	13/03/25 09:20 PM
3	Found out we’re incompatible during the first date. I’m learning to stop simping. You are focusing on the completely wrong things. You are focusing on what she is logical saying as opposed what she is doing/showing. If she says she "doest like physical touch" it probably is that she doesn't like you enough for that yet. If she says she is an "avoidant" it might say something about her dating history but nothing much about this potential relationship. If she gives exuses to going home with you again it's an issue of her not being attracted enough. Focus more on when she showns…	/r/seduction	28/02/25 05:51 PM
8	Found out we’re incompatible during the first date. I’m learning to stop simping. You are focusing on the completely wrong things. You are focusing on what she is logical saying as opposed what she is doing/showing. If she says she "doest like physical touch" it probably is that she doesn't like you enough for that yet. If she says she is an "avoidant" it might say something about her dating history but nothing much about this potential relationship. If she gives exuses to going home with you again it's an issue of her not being attracted enough. Focus more on when she showns…	/r/seduction	28/02/25 05:51 PM
1	I don’t know what I’m doing wrong Making them laugh is good. But it's best when it's stuff at their expense, builds tension and attraction. What do you think you are doing differently/is different about you now after the hiatus?	/r/seduction	29/01/25 09:06 PM
2	I don’t know what I’m doing wrong Even if she would sleep with you it still would be pretty on the edge. Meaning she would be unsure but reluctantly agree. It could genuinely be so close that the class in the morning would make the difference. If she actually follows through with her promise of a "room tour" she is likely to sleep with you. But it's likely that she needs to be a bit more into you to do it. You seem to think that "stating your intentions and doing kino" is "enough" but to put it simply it's more about how much "b…	/r/seduction	29/01/25 08:46 PM
7	How to spark sexual interest in a girl who’s mad at you If she replies just for a few hours a day. Or sometimes replies fast and sometimes it takes hours that's completely normal girl behavior. If she wants to meet up, get her on that date. it's much easier to get her more into you in person. Also, you can tease her about wanting your attention in text if you think she is mad about that (you did nothing wrong btw) flirting of that could make her more into you (though I doubt she is actually mad at you from the info you gave)	/r/seduction	29/01/25 12:29 AM

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