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You sure you're free?
/r/ExRedPill10/07/22 08:03 PM
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This is an excellent insight.
/r/ExRedPill24/12/21 03:04 AM
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I think you are still very young and are still sorting out a lot; therapy is probably a good option.
/r/ExRedPill10/12/21 03:31 AM
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Where do you see this happening? Ultimately, regardless of gender, no one wants to feel unloved, unwanted, or taken advantage of. Taking self-ownership and realizing we can't control the actions of others, therefore, love oneself, respect oneself, take care of oneself, and know no one else owes us anything, so it's better to just learn how to relate to other human beings, is just good general wisdom that serves anyone well.
/r/ExRedPill09/10/21 11:53 AM
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Then why are you even on this sub?
/r/ExRedPill09/10/21 11:50 AM
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It really depends on the person. If I'm completely honest, I tend to be drawn to tall, skinny men, but there are some hot shorter and/or stockier men whom I find more attractive than someone who is taller. It's ultimately about the individual. Height is just one variable. If there is a mediocre tall man and a handsome short man, I am going to be more attracted to the shorter guy. At 5'6, I'm exactly average, so for a guy to be shorter than me, he's going to be pretty short. I've dated a few whom…
/r/ExRedPill18/09/21 02:43 PM
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Run the lids under some warm water, and/or get a rubber band for more traction, and all is well!
/r/ExRedPill07/09/21 03:02 AM
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Came on here to say exactly this. Someone who is a bit frustrated that they can't get laid does not an incel make. Someone who feels entitled to sex with the women they want and hates women when they can't have them, and takes it out on everyone around them, still carries those attitudes and traits with them even when they can eventually sometimes find a relationship. They make those poor women positively miserable, too, and oftentimes spew that rhetoric.
/r/ExRedPill05/09/21 03:52 PM
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I think you're getting close to the concept of intersectionalism here. It reminds me of a time I stepped into an elevator as a white woman, and a younger African American man was already in there, and I could tell by his facial expression he thought I was going to be afraid of him. My thinking (to myself was), "I'm not afraid of you due to your race, but as a woman, I have been taught this situation of being alone in an elevator with a strange man is inherently dangerous to me, and that if somet…
/r/ExRedPill17/04/21 04:41 AM
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I am sorry that you had those horrible experiences, but thank you for these insights.
/r/ExRedPill19/12/20 04:30 PM
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The chances of the girl cheating are only high if she is a cheater, same with if a guy is going to. It's an individual's character, not their gender or external factors, which determine that.
/r/ExRedPill12/12/20 10:40 AM
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If I’m dating A girl, I’m not going to see another better looking girl and want to get in a relationship with her because of it A lot of guys would. You know what determines if someone is going to cheat? If they're a cheater.
/r/ExRedPill12/12/20 10:38 AM
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Then I can promise you, you can find women who don't do this, either. And how is it different or somehow better? You say "high quality," and on what basis? If you're a stoner who spends all his time playing video games and ignoring her, then yes, she's probably going to leave you for the 23-year-old who has a professional job and takes her out to dinner. But women aren't constantly dumping their boyfriends and husbands and "trading up" because someone has a nicer car or better job than the perso…
/r/ExRedPill12/12/20 10:19 AM
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How about how men will leave their wives for younger women?
/r/ExRedPill12/12/20 10:10 AM
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Also, girls and women might get pursued a lot, but most of the time, it's just because the guy wants to hook up, not have a relationship. It's not exactly flattering to know someone is just looking to use you.
/r/ExRedPill12/12/20 10:08 AM
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Wow, there's so much here. Do people like feeling attractive, especially if they put in the effort? Certainly, most people in general do. We don't like being harassed constantly, in the streets and online, which is the experience just about all of us encounter on the regular. You're saying if you're decent and have a personality, you'll be fine, but we want decent-looking people with good personalities, too. I hear guys complaining that no one wants to date them, and they're not taking care of t…
/r/ExRedPill12/12/20 10:07 AM
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That's because the red pill is bullshit. We love whomever we love, and there's a wide range of human beings of any gender who will choose different things. Looks, money, status, being alpha? How many times are women expected to be "the ride or die" chick? And you're saying a man can love a woman based on her personality and doesn't have to be a supermodel, but our society puts tremendous pressure on women to meet ridiculous beauty standards.
/r/ExRedPill12/12/20 09:55 AM
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On what basis are you making your assertion that men love more unconditionally than women?
/r/ExRedPill12/12/20 09:43 AM
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Trust me, most of us don't want an "aggressive dominant man". We want a mature, confident partner, and there is a HUGE difference.
/r/ExRedPill12/12/20 09:41 AM
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Men love more "unconditionally"? How about all the ones who leave their wives when they get cancer?
/r/ExRedPill12/12/20 09:40 AM
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I relate to so much of this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 02:51 AM
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Can I ask why you would find low extroversion and openness to experience as positives? What's wrong with being outgoing and adventurous?
/r/ExRedPill20/07/20 04:49 PM
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