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| 1 | Almost anything a man does can screw him over in datingGeneric at first genuine with more time. Just how it is 🤷🏽♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/23 03:56 AM |
| 1 | What even makes a woman unattractive, really?Social media addiction/need for male validation. Seems more and more women crave validation online. Not suprising when companies make it as addictive as possible especially to any decent looking women who gets tons of attention. Idk I feel if your always on social media and posting about your life you tend to be pretty shallow 🤷🏽♂️ Men seek validation the same, but an average looking man isnt get 1/10th the attention online. If men got the same amount of attention they would be in the same boat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/23 04:04 AM |
| 3 | Alpha widow ?Its grass is greener on the other side mentality. Old people tend to regret the things they didnt do rather than things they did do. People like their current relationship but part of ur brain still wonders “what if”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/23 02:52 AM |
| 1 | Creeps and a-holes keep hitting on women because sometimes they get results. A guy who's respectful will be seen as boring or not even noticed.A good guy with confidence > bad guy with confidence Bad guy with confidence > good guy who is meek/shy Women are more attracted to good guys generally, but its good guys with confidence. I would say on average “bad people” are more confident tho because they are less considerate of others. “Good guys” tend to overthink to be considerate instead of trusting their own judgement. There intentions are good but they lack the trust of themselves to take action. More guys lack this confidence then eve… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/23 01:30 AM |
| 1 | Creeps and a-holes keep hitting on women because sometimes they get results. A guy who's respectful will be seen as boring or not even noticed.I think its this . Weird mf’s who dont understand boundaries are more likely to hit on women. Older men are much worse with this as they grew up under different norms . This causes women to not like men approaching them in general. Yes it would be nice if a “good guy” approached them but in general most dont. This leads to a narrative about how “men shouldn’t approach” . “Good men” hear this and dont try to approach women because they respect boundaries. This leads to the only people approaching… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/23 01:08 AM |
| 5 | The body positivity movement is a way for healthy looking women to reduce their female competitionU can get bullied for anything. Fat people r insecure af and will even mock “thin” people | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 08:14 PM |
| 5 | No, women have not "left men behind and upped their standards", they have left themselves behind and there are few worthwhile modern day women to date long-termThey r promoted on the platform because their style of content hits the metrics the algorithm wants. It there wasnt money involved they wouldnt be doing the podcast. No one is saying they are being paid to peddle this. Simply there is a cash incentive to make reactionary content to “get big quick”. Sneako is the best example of this and we are starting to see social media platforms “crack down”. Its just ironic because people like tate and fnf r so popular because divisive rhetoric like theres b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 04:10 AM |
| 0 | No, women have not "left men behind and upped their standards", they have left themselves behind and there are few worthwhile modern day women to date long-termYea but it normalizes the behavior. If these people didnt have influence they wouldnt be paid. I just think people downplay the amount of influence content has over you. Most people think advertising doesnt work on them which is hilarious if you know how it works and the billions spent on it. I agree not everyone who watches is trashy. Most people watch because they think “hey my life isnt the best but atleast im not this bad” or for a cheap laugh. But by participating your helping to lower the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 03:28 AM |
| 0 | No, women have not "left men behind and upped their standards", they have left themselves behind and there are few worthwhile modern day women to date long-termThese people have influence tho thats the problem. These companies pay influencers big $$$ because it works. You have a bunch of influencers promoting awful shit to impressionable people (which is most people). People say “its just the internet” but at this point these people have real influence on culture and how people form their own opinions. I agree these women are just there to “play their part” and get some clout like most influencers. The problem comes from all the women who see these “su… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 03:12 AM |
| -1 | No, women have not "left men behind and upped their standards", they have left themselves behind and there are few worthwhile modern day women to date long-termDo you not think most people in general are pretty trashy and like this both men and women? There is a reason content like this gains all the traction it does. Same thing in the early 2000’s with jerry springer. Most people are pretty trashy and they outnumber those “normal people”. If you are middle/upper class tho its ez to simply not see these people and think your experience is the default. Most people arent that educated and easily mislead. We like to think we are all smarter than we are. A… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 03:04 AM |
| 4 | No, women have not "left men behind and upped their standards", they have left themselves behind and there are few worthwhile modern day women to date long-termTbh i think yall underestimate how dumb most people are. Like only 30% of people go to college and most people r really low class. The women on f and f r def exaggerated but there is a huge subset of women like this and directly influenced by it. Social media has allowed the town jester to gain an audience and influence and we r seeing the effects in real time. With that said if you brought on a bunch of average guys they would say equally dumb shit most likely. Most people are easily influenced… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 03:00 AM |
| 1 | Is sex better when you’re older?Everyone has different problems. Thats why asking for advice from strangers online only leads u down rabbit holes. Idk you so how could i give u any type of solution? Touch grass maybe? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/23 05:28 AM |
| 1 | Is sex better when you’re older?I find it interesting to read and comment. I feel people here acknowledge real problems but have dogshit solutions 9/10 times | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/23 04:52 AM |
| 1 | Is sex better when you’re older?Same idiots who want a “low n count women”. You can tell they never been with women like this because its normally garbage. They barely want to have sex and clearly dont feel the need to get better at it. Some of the posts on here make it obvious mf’s dont be actually fucking lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/23 04:04 AM |
| 1 | Men love whoresDudes here for the most part just cant get women and often get in their own way 🤷🏽♂️. If you take the complaning here as gospel i got a boat to sell you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/23 02:55 AM |
| 1 | Men love whoresStill not enough what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/23 02:39 AM |
| 1 | Men love whoresSociety trying to sell being a whore as a good empowering lifstyle. Reminds me of this - https://youtu.be/X7F7Ca3TEhQ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/23 02:04 AM |
| 1 | Is sex better when you’re older?Yea this person 100% has bad sex LOL. Mf’s act like technique and “skills” are just made up. “Love” can make sex better but it doesnt make a bad blowjob a good one. It doesnt make boring sex somehow good lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/23 02:02 AM |
| 2 | ChadsImo “chad” has more to do with status and confidence than looks. If you have status and confidence there are a lot more doors open for you. Good looks 100% help but status and confidence matter MUCH more. Like out of the 3 if you could pick 2 its obvious what the 2 choices should be | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/23 11:38 PM |
| 1 | What are signs that a woman does not get men?Life isnt a disney movie and you should expect less of men because “they are just people to” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/23 11:32 PM |
| 7 | White women are the most, by far, privileged group of people in Western societyEmmit till 🤷🏽♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/23 12:33 AM |
| – | Framing men as the ‘villains’ gets women no closer to better romantic relationshipsProjection | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/22 10:37 PM |
| 1 | What’s the most disheartening thing you’ve seen in your local dating marketWho knew making a lifelong commitment in your early 20s is dumb af 😂🤷🏽♂️. Mfs out here want the status of being married and dont realize how much can change in even like 5 years. People be together 2 years and think they will be together forever 💀. Think real life is a disney movie or something lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/22 11:03 PM |
| 1 | As a man, your personality can never make up for your lack of looks or status. All it can do is make a woman pity date you to feel more safeBlackpill is a reaction to how social media has changed dating. Social media companies know there methods are questionable but they dont care because the $$ is there. Young people of today r very superficial and constantly fed a bunch of narratives used to typically sell them something or boost an individual’s career. Blackpill is a symptom of a much larger problem. Like meta has data that says their ruining young womens self esteem and causing self harm etc. think they care? Nope they dont care… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/22 12:40 AM |
| 1 | As a man, your personality can never make up for your lack of looks or status. All it can do is make a woman pity date you to feel more safeYou could argue looks matter more because of social media. OP is obv a schizo but the people bringing up looks mattering more have somewhat of a point. Where they r wrong tho is that charisma trumps every other factor imo. If u have good charisma you can succeed in a lot of areas u prob shouldnt | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/22 11:38 PM |
| 1 | It's bad for men's mental health to tell them that women like sex as much as themNope its just they only try online dating because meeting people irl is becoming more and more difficult as society moves online and social norms change. Talking to a woman irl compared to dating apps are two different worlds. Literally all the bitter men here are a result of online dating and its dynamics. Also typically the women who need online dating are lower quality to begin with for many reasons. The women u meet in person are 10x better than the small minority online. A lot less entitlem… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/22 02:36 AM |
| 1 | Most average men would be happy with a healthy weight, average looking women.U have to work less to fuck than someone on ur level. Why so many women are afraid of being pumped and dumped 🤷🏽♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/22 04:08 AM |
| 3 | Women don't necessarily want the best men, they just want a guy better than themThey just dont want to be put on a pedastool. A lot of guys fail for being “nice” because insecure women think lowly of themselves. This leads to them seeing your value is lower if you “treat them like a queen”. Guys buy into this whole “treat ur women well” thing and it fucks them over in the short term. A lot of seduction is about the “will they wont they” and if you are super into someone and make it obvious it kills any tension. This is why “nice guys” fail they show their whole hand and all… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/22 02:11 AM |
| 1 | Will dating become less accessible to the poor and working class folks as the standards get tighter?2016-17 tinder was goated tbh. WAY less flaking and peoples standards werent super unrealistic. Tinder is a joke now and almost all the matches u get flake or have 100 other options. Then if u dont pay ur not seen by anyone so the free version is basically pointless now | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/22 01:56 AM |
| 3 | What do you define as flirting?Been fat and non fat The difference between how ur treated is comical. Everyone in general treats you better. If i go somewhere now its not uncommon for me to be approached which NEVER happened before lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 03:37 AM |
| 1 | Men are easily fooled when it comes to understanding why women are around certain men. This is the source of bitternessThey dont what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 01:49 AM |
| 1 | Men are easily fooled when it comes to understanding why women are around certain men. This is the source of bitternessIf it works for them then it worked for them 🤷🏽♂️. Im sure their parents told them the same thing but they didnt listen. The messanger is more important than the message. Look at politics how people will change their whole beliefs based on what someone on their team said or did, | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 01:40 AM |
| 1 | Men are easily fooled when it comes to understanding why women are around certain men. This is the source of bitternessIn a lot of cases the messanger matters more than the message to a lot of people. A homeless guy can give you the same advice as a rich man but which one are you more likely to listen to and take seriously? I agree tate is saying generic shit but for some people they need a guy like tate to be the messanger to fully grasp it if that makes sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 01:36 AM |
| 1 | Men are easily fooled when it comes to understanding why women are around certain men. This is the source of bitternessLosers = obsessed with tate to the point of giving him money Normal people = seeing like most “controversial” figures he tells some truths mixed in with lies. Its not a zero sum game. Tate says some stuff that is true and could help people depending on what they take away from it. Feel this is a case of “throwing away the baby with the bath water”. Like i saw a video clip of him where he was describing video games and how he doesnt play because he knows he will get sucked in to much because of h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 01:33 AM |
| 2 | Both men and women in relationships are far better off in every metric than those who aren’t. We should acknowledge thisTheir r ups and downs to a relationship. Most people would rather be in a bad relationship than be alone tho which is a problem. I believe the people like this tho have hopped from relationship to relationship when they were young and regret never being single for any extended period. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/22 07:52 PM |
| 5 | Both men and women in relationships are far better off in every metric than those who aren’t. We should acknowledge thisIdk any grown man or woman like 40+ who are actually happy alone. Being single as a young person seems important to some extent. However going “im happy being alone” is such a bad mindset to have. People underestimate how much your circumstances will change when u get older. There is a reason a lot of people opt into having families. Most people who say they are “happy” are mostly coping imo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/22 09:28 PM |
| 1 | The average straight woman would be getting no girls if they magically turned into a straight man.Young people are really well known from taking advice from their parents LOL. I think it takes a bit into adulthood before you really start to go “oh damn i see why they did/said that now”. Almost always young generations brush off “old wisdom” and have to learn for themselves the hard way | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/22 01:01 AM |
| 70 | Anyone notice that in a lot of male-oriented space, the general consensus is that they hold themselves accountable for their self improvement, while in female-oriented spaces, they focus on placating their members?Yea this whole way of thinking just assumes every women is already some prize that good men want. The ego a lot of women have is fucking crazy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/22 02:08 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Women are bad at detecting fake confidence, contrary to popular thought“Confident” people always come across super insecure to me. People eat it up, but to me it always feels like they r performing for people and dont even believe their own BS | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/22 01:12 AM |
| 5 | Single Men vs Single WomenNo one cares till white people in nice areas get effected. Those people in the nice areas actually vote which is the only reason politicians care enough to appease these people. They could give less or a fuck about inner cities because they get nothing out of it at all. Same how the “opiod crisis” only became a thing when rich whites started to OD. Funny how the rhetoric changes when certain groups are effected | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/22 10:09 PM |
| 1 | A "Red Pill" scammer got exposed recentlyDestiny, he does politics and his recent arc has been debating red pill/blue pill people https://youtu.be/y9T_cmjHsIk Good vid to start with | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/22 06:29 AM |
| 1 | A "Red Pill" scammer got exposed recentlyDestiny the 🐐 Can acknowledge the realities of trp while simultaneously pushing back on the dumb shit they push. Also dude actually gets women and isnt talking out of his ass lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/22 06:28 AM |
| 1 | All issues with dating in the west stem from women and their standards.Yup funny how these same women will agree about systemic issues but only when it benefits them or shits on men. Bring up how those same systems do harm to men tho and ur shit on. Guess their can only be one group who is the victim 😂🤷🏽♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/22 10:04 AM |
| 1 | All issues with dating in the west stem from women and their standards.Did the men come from homes with money tho is the real question. Lot of classism in dating tbh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/22 09:59 AM |
| 1 | All issues with dating in the west stem from women and their standards.Also the ol “if your not doing well its all ur fault” Funny how these progressive women use standard conservative rhetoric whenever it suits their agenda. Just reeks of “well it doesnt effect me negatively so i dont care”. Same way most progressives r rich whites who push for things and sow division because it will never reach them. Same mfs who pretend having any centrist position is bad and u gotta always be all in on one side. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/22 09:58 AM |
| 7 | If hypothetically, female participation in the Job market drives down the value of male labor- creating an economy requiring Dual income households. Why do SOME women get upset about splitting bills or going “50/50” ?If thats what ur worried about then i dont feel bad for women who end up with shit men. If you prioritize “status and material items” over the character of the person you deserve whatever comes your way lol. Its funny cause its only the dusty ass women that expect the most. Almost every college educated women ive been on dates with have had no problem splitting the bill or paying for the next one if i pay for the first lol. If you not paying “turns her off” she wasnt that into you to begin with … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/22 11:04 PM |
| -1 | For all this talk of “the Wall”, I think in big cities (certainly London in my experience), men need to be alive to the fact that there are a lot of women out there who are totally fine with remaining single well into their thirties and potentially foreverUr a schizo if u think women are happy their husbands died before them. Working with old people for years, this couldnt be more untrue. A lot of them are lost, especially because they have been together a long time. The only people who actually care about them r their kids. Its sad af when you see some of the older people who legit have nothing 🤷🏽♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/22 05:20 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on the Piers Morgan/Andrew Tate interview?Piers said it was bullshit as well, he doesnt agree with deplatforming people even trump. He only did the tate interview because he felt tate was being portrayed as “the devil”. He even said when he looked more into tate he disagreed with him but didn’t understand what he did that was so bad he deserved to be banned lol. Yall shitting on piers but atleast he had the integrity to bring someone on he disagreed with and let them address the bullshit going on. Idk its respectable to disagree yet sti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/22 02:25 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on the Piers Morgan/Andrew Tate interview?He brought it up because “effect on the youth” is the reason tate got banned. He went on to say how the ban on tate was bullshit, especially when these platforms allow dictators of other countries on the platform. Did you even watch the interview or just watch the trailer? Tate even thanked him for clarifying that he had nothing to do with the girl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/22 02:15 PM |
| 6 | Are women happy with the current state of dating?It worse than that social media actively encourages people to spout “hot takes” wether they believe it or not. When ur algorithms are driven on “interactions” good or bad then this is the result. The social media companies know how harmful this is, but do everything in their power to pretend to be the good guys by banning figures like tate even tho their system perpetuates people like him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/22 06:45 PM |
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