JamEverywhere Archive

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1	Does the number of sexual partners your bf has had bother you? The number itself is less relevant to me than the context. I would never date a "player" or someone with a long past of hookups and one night stands. If I had to put a number on it I'd say an N count of over like, 20 would be an absolute dealbreaker. (I'm in my 30s fwiw--that number would be smaller if I were younger). I'd prefer a BF with zero one night stands, tbh, but I'm okay with someone who experimented a little in their youth before realizing it wasn't their scene and switching to exclusi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/20 10:53 PM
3	Another Post About Height yeah man! Having dated someone both WAY taller than me and someone somewhat shorter, I prefer someone 1-3 inches shorter to someone over six feet, all other things being equal.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/20 10:48 PM
3	Another Post About Height I don't use bumble but I can hypothesize about it. I'm 5'3". Tallest man I ever dated was 6'4", and the shortest was 5'0". Height never really mattered much to me. I have a preference for men to be shorter than 6'0" (TMI maybe but I like being able to kiss a man while we're fucking, and if he's too tall I can't do that) but a slight preference for him to be taller than me. So I guess my ideal would be from like 5'5" to 5'11". But I'm willing to date outside that because height is just not import…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/20 10:39 PM
1	Swallowing the Purple Pill No stats = confirmation bias. You do know there's a whole world of people who don't do the clubbing/hookup scene, right? Tons of people in the world who don't frequent bars? Millions of people who date without using apps? I dated a good-looking man who loved going clubbing but I broke up with him before we ever had sex. Bad match. My first sexual partner ever was also a virgin and we dated for like 8 months. Ever since then I've only dated men who prefer LTRs and who have either never hooked up …	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/20 10:07 PM
1	Swallowing the Purple Pill I have yet to see actual statistics on this. the only thing I've seen that kinda supports this is a survey if OkCupid users, who arent representative of the population at large. but I HAVE seen believable stats that women with a high N count are more likely to divorce you and men with a high N count are more likely to cheat on you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/20 09:26 PM
1	Swallowing the Purple Pill A lie is someone saying something they know is false. You can believe what I said is false, but I honestly believe it's true, so it isn't a lie. If you disagree with me that's fine, but calling me a liar isn't really a good debate strategy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/20 09:54 PM
2	Swallowing the Purple Pill yep, the future is uncertain. no way to guarantee the outcome you want. but there's definitely things you can do that will make it less likely or more likely.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/20 09:12 PM
1	Swallowing the Purple Pill haha wtf. I don't date men who do the hookup culture thing. period. surprise surprise, I don't want to get cheated on either bro.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/20 08:57 PM
1	Swallowing the Purple Pill Fortunately for you, there's tons of women out there who don't have casual sex. (I mean.... I'm one of them, and most of the women I know only have sex in LTRs.) If you stop having casual sex yourself, maybe you can meet one and fall in love and get your fairytale ending that you want. As long as you're "experiencing abundance," women like me will avoid you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/20 08:47 PM
0	Swallowing the Purple Pill And men who have casual sex aren't LTR/husband material.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/20 08:36 PM
0	Swallowing the Purple Pill " I believe that I must experience abundance before settling down. " Isn't that... what the women you describe are doing?? So if they're savages, that makes you a savage too, right?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/20 08:32 PM
6	Women that complain about men that they're disinterested in approaching them, should APPROACH MEN. I've dated a few "cripplingly shy" men, and they can be good partners if you're a dominant woman who doesn't mind coaxing them out of their shells a bit. But I don't blame any woman for not wanting to do that. Usually people are cripplingly shy for a reason (very low self esteem, trauma, etc) and it will always have ripple effects in other aspects of the relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/20 08:07 PM