JamMan007 Archive

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16	The Reason Getting Dates is So Much Harder For Men Is Women Won’t Look Past Any Flaws You really understand this phenomenon very well. I just think that our notion of our "neighborhood" has expanded greatly because of online dating and social media. As such, a lady can live in a small town in rural Alabama with very few wealthy individuals, but she feels it is wise to adopt a very unforgiving and unreasonable set of expectations that constitutes a high risk all-or-nothing dating strategy that is catastrophic for many women and most men. I feel like everyone in our society has bec…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/25 05:29 AM
3	The Patriarchy Is Dead In Most Western Countries We need to stop blindly following fanatical ideologies. We need data driven nuanced logical arguments. We live in a system of plutocracy. It is an plutocratic oligarchy. There is more work to do to combat sexism. Black people are very oppressed by multiple metrics and sophisticated studies. The vast majority of working class and many middle class whites are getting shafted. The floods of propaganda are so overwhelming that it is always blamed on black people and minorities. As such, most working…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/25 06:47 PM
1	The wall is a fact and you don't do women any favors by denying it You seem like an incredibly intelligent, thoughtful, and insightful lady. Very shrewd observers can carefully examine phenomena for years, and they might have different interpretations. There used to be a website that had a “delusion calculator” that women could use to see what percentage of men possessed the traits they wanted in an ideal man. If a woman even requires that a man is at least 6 feet tall, it would be less than 15% of all men. That one requirement eliminates over 85% of men. Very …	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/24 09:14 PM
1	The wall is a fact and you don't do women any favors by denying it My argument is a much more nuanced one, and I think we have a lot of overlapping points of agreement. I want all people to make clear and informed decisions to advance their happiness. People have diverse romantic interests. Many women in different cultures and times have shown to have a strong preference for taller men and men with greater resources. Those preferences are more pronounced in some societies. Those preferences might be upsetting to some men, but that information is invaluable for …	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/24 06:00 PM
2	The wall is a fact and you don't do women any favors by denying it You are correct to some degree. People have been saying for ages that younger women have much more leverage and bargaining power in relationships. It does boil down to values and priorities. If a woman values having her own biological children one day, she wants to remain cognizant of her fertility window. Conversely, if a man wants his own biological children, he needs to try to pursue younger and more fertile women. As a result, women have the most leverage to secure the best mate when they ar…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/24 03:09 PM
1	What is men's obsession's with dating and boinking teenage girl? This is a very charged discussion. It is hard to be honest. Many systems rely on equilibrium. Biologically speaking, men generally tend to prefer younger women across numerous cultures, societies, and time frames. If a man marries a 20 year old, he might possibly have 8+ children. If a man marries a 39 year old, he might get 1 or possibly 0 offspring. Over thousands of years, the men with a preference for youthful women produce way more offspring. In reality, as a man gets older he also has to b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/24 08:09 PM
–	The emergence of men who hate women on social media: why do men do this? There was a popular daytime show called “The Talk” where they laughed and joked about a man getting castrated, and they said it was a good thing. It was Ozzie Osborne’s wife. Most men would be horrified if a man mutilated a woman’s private parts. Unfortunately, partner violence is a very common threat for women. Life is about balance and values. It just seems like our society promotes lots of vain, shallow, unenlightened, and materialistic values in our women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/24 06:02 AM
1	How much control do women really have over the dating market? 4 is definitely not true.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/24 07:00 AM
1	Do TRULY average men actually struggle to date and have sex? Life is about give and take. True wisdom is about proportionality. The perfect is the enemy of the good. Very few things in life are perfect. People start families and have friends with imperfect people that are like brothers with them. Meaningful bonds are forged by imperfect people all the time. Think about what you want. What do you value. What are you willing to work for?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/23 10:51 PM
2	Do TRULY average men actually struggle to date and have sex? Don’t lose heart. Every system can be analyzed to usually give shrewd individuals a competitive edge. There is a tremendous amount of diversity of tastes in women. I think about 15–35% of women will always be open to a very smart and charming guy. Even if that man looks like George Costanza or a troll, if he can make her laugh and has a decent intellect, he can get about roughly a quarter of women to bed him. Even if they perceive him as ugly or not physically attractive, some women are actually…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/23 02:48 PM
5	Do TRULY average men actually struggle to date and have sex? Some studies have it as high as 38%. The difference in the last 10–15 years is very starkly bad. I also think we are witnessing a delayed catastrophe. People look at men that are 48 years old or older and say that plenty of average looking men are married. Plenty of Baby Boomers experienced a sexual revolution, cheap housing, a manufacturing boom, and middle class suburbs. There romantic environment doesn’t resemble the current hellscape at all. Many people that are recently divorced and over 45…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/23 11:49 PM
7	Do TRULY average men actually struggle to date and have sex? I think there is evidence that slightly below average men and below average men are in some terrible relationship droughts. I think our society has disconnected and de-industrialized in a manner that is devastating to most working class men. Since 1980 almost all societal wealth gains have gone to the top 10%. Very few working class men can buy a home or pull themselves out of poverty. Those men aren’t viewed as viable partners by women that have been heavily indoctrinated by very radical and un…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/23 11:16 PM
0	I am NOT seeing "average" men having sex "all the time" Numerous studies show that roughly 38% of men 18–30 are either virgins or haven’t had sex in the last 12 months. I think you are looking at a lot of old data. The situation is bad for many average and below average men. This data is much worse than even 10 years earlier. People need to wake up to the truth.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/23 10:46 PM
9	The entire pill debate has been obscured and distracted by a bizarre fixation on unattractive men’s struggle. While this sucks, it actually makes logical sense unlike the main problem, which is average and above average men struggling to the degree they are. I strongly disagree with your assertion. I care about the general welfare of my fellow man or fellow woman. People aren’t entitled to a mate, but a society that fosters strong and meaningful connections and relationships is a much happier and healthier society. Lots of angry single men and angry and bitter single women will continue to be a huge issue for our collective prosperity and stability as an enlightened society.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/23 04:36 PM
3	Is it “pre-selection”? Or is it simply he’s an attractive man and thus attracts more women than unattractive men? Essentially, you seem to very reluctantly agree that Pre-selection exists in human and animal mating behaviors. I assume the bizarre NPC analogy is an indirect reference to the degree to which it influences female attraction. I think you are probably a very independent thinking individual. You don’t personally feel very influenced by other’s opinions. However, many people use those social cues and other’s opinions as a major determinant in their decision making. It is similar to how I generally …	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/23 09:17 PM
16	I think the biggest problem in dating is that women are simply not honest about what they are attracted to, and despite the fact that men have learned this they are simply told: “so you’re going to tell an actual woman what she wants?” When men say never take dating advice from women. There are countless studies that show the average woman rated as a 5 is attractive to over 80% of men. The average woman with a decent attitude will make the vast majority of men happy. Whereas, the average man doesn’t turn on women. Social media and internet dating have made most women’s expectations unrealistic. They chase after the top 5–15% of men. When it comes to height alone, 14.5% of men are at least 6 feet tall. About 7% of single men make $100k or more. Many of those single men are 50 …	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/23 11:01 PM
1	Is "the wall" something that really happens to women and affects them more than men? I think we all offer different perspectives. A lot of life is about balance, cooperation towards common goals, and promoting non-zero sum scenarios that offer pareto efficient outcomes. Ideally, we as a society want happy, productive, and fruitful people. I don't think any man or woman that doesn't want kids, should be coerced into bearing children. As I mentioned earlier, I am a firm believer in feminism and the wide array of options that all modern people should have available to pursue to the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/22 03:45 AM
1	Is "the wall" something that really happens to women and affects them more than men? I definitely think if a man has no ability to attract a mate to copulate, it would preclude him from having children outside of a medical intervention. I do think our reproductive strategies leave a handful of elite men with endless choices and a lot of women holding out for those elite men. There is a massive disconnect. Men and women have been socialized with very divergent expectations in American society. I think most of the problems stem from the gross economic inequality, de-industrializat…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/22 01:06 AM
3	Is "the wall" something that really happens to women and affects them more than men? Do you honestly think my comments were ever intended to "attack" her? I think these are critically important discussions that have lots of grey areas. I will be clear that I don't have all the answers, but I am inclined to interpret the data within the larger societal context of music, culture, and many of the larger programming messages that elites use to inform the population at large. I think that feminism and modern fairness and empowerment have been great and there is still a lot of work to…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/22 04:12 PM
8	Is "the wall" something that really happens to women and affects them more than men? I believe that intelligent people can agree to disagree. Whenever I try to bring up factual arguments supported by mountains of data and hoards of anecdotal information, people question my tone or speak about emotional impacts. We are trying to engage in a serious informed conversation about a very real limited female fertility window and the implications for people's romantic and child bearing decisions. All the data that I have seen for years on female fertility show that there is a slight dec…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/22 07:26 AM
27	Is "the wall" something that really happens to women and affects them more than men? Once again, my original statement still rings true as ever. Anything a man does to poison his body could also poison his semen and sperm. There are countless studies that have shown that most of a man's actions don't have nearly the profound impact on the developing fetus and the woman's actions do on the fetus as it is developing in her body. Everything is about nuance and degrees. Epigenetics is a very exciting field that will illuminate many new mysteries. However, make no mistake, THERE IS N…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/22 03:51 AM
2	Is "the wall" something that really happens to women and affects them more than men? What if a man wants to have biological children and build a family with a woman? The wall is a reference to a fertility window that influences people's mating and matrimonial decisions. I fully support equality, feminism, and a progressive world outlook where everyone is able to determine their own path. However, there are some very minor physical differences that can and have influenced people historically. Why should people be restricted to only loving people within a very narrow range of ages…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/22 02:04 AM
2	Is "the wall" something that really happens to women and affects them more than men? I can't speak to the fetal alcohol syndrome claim completely, but it does sound absurd and it is probably untrue. However, male fertility gradually declines over time and there are countless studies that have carefully studied this phenomena. Many of the reputable studies were conducted by distinguished female researchers. I am a big believer in equality and feminism. I do think there are very minor biological differences that sometimes have implications. I suspect you truly know your statements…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/22 01:35 AM
1	What’s the best size? Look, how you handle your fate is a testament to your character. We all have life challenges. Vanity is a vice to some degree. Some people are born blind or they can't use their Johnson at all. There is so much diversity in tastes and sexual preferences. I think that 25--45% of women are size queens and passionate about penis size. However, I have seen multiple instances where 2 very sexually experienced women had arguments about whether size mattered and accuse the other women of lying. Bottom …	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/22 10:38 AM
8	The bar for men is low. Men who have zero success with women are doing something really wrong All the mountains of data and countless reputable studies speaking about legions of virginal men in their 20s is all made up. It is so weird when people always discount well researched data and material facts. It is obvious. We have lots of awkward incels and alienated men. There is also lots of evidence that many women are obsessed with the top 5--20% of men. Polyamory is coming and lots of single women sharing men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/22 06:21 PM
4	the divorce rate isn't as scary as men here make it out to be You know that is not true or supported by any data. Most divorced men in America have their wealth adversely impacted as a result of a divorce.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/22 01:49 AM
1	The reason that the disparity in sexual privilege between men and women is so obfuscated not because there's any real doubt about it, but because of the solutions it implies I feel a huge portion of the problem is we moved away from much more egalitarian economic policies that promoted economic empowerment for middle class and working class men and women. When America had a much more progressive taxation system and promoted independent and active unions during much of the middle portion of the 20th century, our society had widespread middle class opportunities and wide home ownership. Those policies promoted family formation and family cohesion. Working class wages …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/22 05:38 AM
7	Men complaining about women who complain about age gaps are just shifting the blame. Yeah, I see your point. Most women tend to prefer men their age. However, tastes and public sentiment have dramatically shifted. Men might be more physically attracted to a much younger lady, but there are complex tradeoffs. One might not be nearly as emotionally or psychologically compatible with a woman more than 8 years younger than oneself. It is a dramatic tension. Public sentiment and any public stigmas are huge factors. I knew somewhat sane people that refused to date anyone outside of 3 …	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/21 08:47 AM
14	Men complaining about women who complain about age gaps are just shifting the blame. You don't think that wildly venomous threat is indicative of some portion of the population that habors a genuine hatred for men who date significantly younger women. Threatening to "cut a man's balls off" is a very strong sentiment. Many men that date significantly younger women are routinely called pedophiles. That type of rage will deter many men. Pedophile is probably one of the worst things a person can be called for dating a grown adult woman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/21 08:23 AM
1	Listen lady, this isn't build a man. (repost) 1 I	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	08/02/21 09:54 PM
2	The western world is actually the best and safest place for men I think education is key. If people had courses in relationship conflict management in high school or college it might help. Also, older couples that have been married for over 15 years should come talk to people and give some tips. I think groups of women could assist new parents during pregnancy and later on too. Maybe, people could take a course before divorce that would give them a minor discount on a divorce, or a financial bonus to stay together because kids have much better outcomes. We c…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/20 07:56 PM
5	The western world is actually the best and safest place for men I understand your argument, but this situation has terrible implications for our society, financial security, and children's lives that shouldn't be ignored. Marriage and traditional family life with an involved father are absolutely beneficial and immensely important for most children's well being. I sometimes wonder what strategies our society can employ to mitigate the problems associated with family breakdown and working class men's wage deficit. Please forgive the rant.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/20 07:31 PM
1	Does sending unsolicited dick picks or otherwise opening with a very sexual message ever work? I definitely think that is the rational for some men, but I think there are other reasons that are major factors as well. I think that online dating has significantly shifted the different strategies people employ for dates or casual pickups. I think many guys that send dick picks are using a strategy similar to spam marketers. As distasteful as it might be to think about, it could be advantageous for a man to show his junk. I think it is illegal and wrong, but I knew of very well endowed guys t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/20 04:01 PM
1	It's not womens responsibility to have sex with any type of man or any percentage of men. There is no sex quota to filled. You sound like a very sophisticated guy. How much of the current predicament is a byproduct of the current economic condition for working class people, and more specifically, working class male wages. Working class men's wages have stagnated since the late 1970s, while corporate productivity and corporate profits have skyrocketed. Hypothetically, how much would gender harmony and overall happiness increase, if we were able to significantly increase 40% of working class men's wages by an addition…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/20 03:10 AM
5	It's not womens responsibility to have sex with any type of man or any percentage of men. There is no sex quota to filled. You sound like a very sophisticated guy. How much of the current predicament is a byproduct of the current economic condition for working class people, and more specifically, working class male wages. Working class men's wages have stagnated since the late 1970s, while corporate productivity and corporate profits have skyrocketed. Hypothetically, how much would gender harmony and overall happiness increase, if we were able to significantly increase 40% of working class men's wages by an addition…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/20 03:09 AM
1	A few days late but still lmaoo 3	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/20 03:54 AM
1	Do men REALLY like “good girls”? It is difficult to convey tone in these discussions. I hope I haven't offended you or projected an overly aggressive tone. I feel like reddit reflects many of the same problems seen in American society. We have all these very rigid ideological fanatics screaming at each other and refusing to engage in any meaningful civil discourse. Instead, everyone desperately seeks out like minded individuals that will serve as convenient echo chambers that will permit people to validate whatever preconceived…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/20 02:45 PM
1	Do men REALLY like “good girls”? With all due respect, you must be a woman. I have never ever in my life ever heard a man say anything remotely like this ever. I have never seen a guy say he wish his wife would nag him or bitch at him more. I think there is an exception to every rule. I don't want to be graphic, but a small minority of men are into weird quirky forms of bondage and humiliation fetishes where women treat them horribly, but the opposite scenarios are much, much more popular. Women that like dominant guys that are…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/20 12:42 PM
3	Unattractive men have absolutely no idea what the life of an attractive man is like L Pu	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/20 09:04 PM
4	How often do you think about how your physical appearance helped you? Your standards are fine. You probably are very physically attractive. You are atypically tall. I am certain there are quite a bit of men that are good looking, funny, and intelligent who would cherish your company. There is a spectrum of attractiveness. More narrow minded women will say that some men will "fetishize" you, but that is an unfair characterization. If you go on the internet dating site for BBWs and post a normal profile, you will probably attract plenty of men that would want a norm…	/r/RedPillWomen	18/01/20 02:58 PM
1	CMV: Most men don't give a shit about woman's age, even for LTRs and marriage. If a woman is hot enough, they won't care if she's 25 or 50. That was a very disturbing analysis, but it was more accurate than it should be. I think nowadays people value a lot more than purely superficial traits and qualities and modern relationships are much more about compatibility. In the past a lack of fertility would have meant more scorn from the rest of society. I think many men do view younger women as more open and more impressed by simple things. However, much older women are impressed by basic things too. People have much more diverse tastes …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/19 07:58 PM
1	CMV: Most men don't give a shit about woman's age, even for LTRs and marriage. If a woman is hot enough, they won't care if she's 25 or 50. I would love to learn more about that methodology. I have seen a bevy of studies that show people are happiest surrounded by very close relationships that are typically found within the context of close family, extended family and community friends. We evolved to be very social animals and need lots of social capital to thrive. I think people are very individualistic and need private sanctuaries, but I think most people are psychologically happiest around friends and family. Unless someone has m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/19 07:50 PM
1	CMV: Most men don't give a shit about woman's age, even for LTRs and marriage. If a woman is hot enough, they won't care if she's 25 or 50. I usually hate these discussions because people employ absurdly extreme examples. People have remarkably diverse tastes. I think biological clocks are real and many people want to have a family with a nice partner and biological children. That is a huge factor. Sometimes because of medical issues, age, timing, etc, someone meets a very special person that they are compatible with that means adoption or foregoing children altogether. Every relationship has different terms. People live so much lon…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/19 07:13 PM
3	30's male here. Been reading TRP for years. I recently had a revelation about "The Wall" and would like to share. I agree with the vast majority of what you wrote because people have very diverse tastes. However, I do think fertility is a huge portion of the real wall. If a man is interested in having biological children within the context of a marriage with a woman, her age becomes a genuine concern. Near a woman's late 30s and early 40s, there is a very sharp and rapid decline in fertility. They used to say a woman's overall fertility drops in half every year from 40 onward. If a woman has 100 "fertility …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/19 03:59 AM
8	Women aren't shooting out of their league; "Chad" is not hooking up with ugly women. This is such a brilliant and succinct analysis of what is actually occurring. Women say they want a normal "average" man that is more than 6 feet tall, when that is about roughly 15% of the adult American male population.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/19 08:26 PM
4	Is this female entitlement? Why does this 30+ woman thinks men should pursue her? Your raw unadulterated logic and analytical skills must really piss people off when you give them clear answers based on genuine evidence.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/19 03:54 PM
2	Q4All: Why the disconnect between dating single mothers vs dating single fathers? They have scientific drug studies that show White people use drugs at much higher rates than Blacks. Also, a much higher percentage of White people get charged with drug crimes and acquitted than Black people. If you are an impoverished White person or Latino or if you are Black you receive the brunt of the War on Drugs. Police don't do regular drug raids on suburban teenage house parties, Wall Street firms, and other elite venues. Look at the opiate scourge. It is a mostly White phenomena and t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/19 03:56 PM
1	Q4All: Why the disconnect between dating single mothers vs dating single fathers? This is a BS conservative wet dream interpretation that couldn't be further from the truth. The vast majority of single mothers aren't Black. Teenage pregnancy statistics have been absolutely plummeting for decades. Most of the reasons for some of the terrible single mother statistics are a reflection of a few important factors that are constantly ignored. Many single mothers live and cohabitate with the father of their children. They might not be legally married, but have a functional father fi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/19 01:08 AM
7	Monogamous relationships are necessary for survival of western civilization. Educate these people and disabuse them of these silly ahistorical claims.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/19 06:06 PM
-1	Change My View: Women are more sexual and harass-y to men, it's just that we accept it Thanks for injecting a little nuance and common sense into the discussion.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/19 04:44 PM
1	Change My View: Women are more sexual and harass-y to men, it's just that we accept it That was a very astute and succinct analysis. Well done.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/19 04:41 PM
3	This whole red pill/blue pill culture is something very American. Why though? This is a very complex and multifaceted situation. I think attitudes and expectations for couples and men and women are very different outside the United States. In most countries outside of the United States, prostitution is legalized or widely accepted. When people develop a relationship it is based on more mature factors and not as predicated on potential sexual liaisons alone. Many working class men or very awkward men have more outlets for social welfare supports, 6 week long vacations, soc…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/19 12:29 AM
2	This whole red pill/blue pill culture is something very American. Why though? This is a very complex and multifaceted situation. I think attitudes and expectations for couples and men and women are very different outside the United States. In most countries outside of the United States, prostitution is legalized or widely accepted. When people develop a relationship it is based on more mature factors and not as predicated on potential sexual liaisons alone. Many working class men or very awkward men have more outlets for social welfare supports, 6 week long vacations, soc…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/19 12:24 AM
2	[CMV] Having a child is one of the worst decisions a woman can make. I have seen research that it significantly reduces the chances of autoimmune diseases. Most of history, most women have been pregnant frequently. I was just pointing out that many of the health risks of having children are balanced against the health risks of not having children.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/19 06:22 PM
1	[CMV] Having a child is one of the worst decisions a woman can make. Not to mention, childbirth also significantly reduces the likelihood of a host of medical issues and cancers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/19 03:41 PM
1	[CMV] Having a child is one of the worst decisions a woman can make. Also, children are a form of old age insurance. Especially if you have at least 2 girls, you will probably not die abandoned. If you factor in potential grandchildren, one of those kids might get rich or have specialized knowledge that would be a windfall. We are social creatures and have evolved to appreciate social bonds and it is hard to disavow your own mother. You have made a lifelong friend.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/19 12:13 PM
3	Why are the college rape statistics so high in the US and UK ? I don't want to sound insensitive, however there are explicit FBI stats that reference forcible penetration as a classical definition for what they used as a definition for rape for many decades. There are other crimes like forcible sodomy and other uncomfortable topics and designations, but all of those crimes and definitions have seen a precipitous drop. Most rapes don't get reported, but there are sophisticated surveys that track these data points, and they show a sharp correlation towards a …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/19 06:19 AM
26	Why are the college rape statistics so high in the US and UK ? Actually, rates of rape from the 1960s have absolutely plummeted by almost every metric. I think education and norms have dramatically reduced the incidence. It is remarkably still very common, but it used to be much, much more atrocious. Some people claim pornography and video games are also factors.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/19 07:13 PM
0	If most women dislike casual sex and prefer relationships then why do they continue to participate in hookup culture? A brutally honest assessment. There is a different sort of young ladies' hierarchy of needs.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/19 02:07 PM
14	An interesting specimen. In the United States, approximately 14.5% of adult men are legitimately above 6 feet tall. Multiple sources confirm how rare it is for men to actually be above 6 feet tall. Also, clinical tests with medically trained professionals measuring penis size tends to get an average of approximately 5.1 inches in length. Just saying that your argument is strong, but the data is way more extreme than this lady could conceive of.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	16/05/19 12:04 AM
2	Is dating hard for woman or are woman just playing victim? I want to have a constructive and earnest conversation. There are multiple ways of interpreting this dynamic. I think society shifted norms very quickly and that disoriented many men and women as they struggle to grapple with advantageous strategies to find love and companionship. As a result of superior medicine, sanitation, human rights, women's rights, and more liberal notions of human freedom, there are many more choices because women no longer must depend on men for their survival as much a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/19 02:21 AM
3	Is dating hard for woman or are woman just playing victim? The numbers of college educated men and women are not that skewed. Especially if you are not an ethnic minority, it is very easy for a college educated woman to find a college educated man. People are very segregated by class in America.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/19 01:06 AM
3	CMV: Asking for women to lower their standards means you have failed to 'Be The Prize' Yeah, the genuine problem occurs from different vantage points. I think in our society today, most men and most women are unhappy with how relationships occur. Children who are raised without an involved father figure are at a horrible disadvantage based on a host of metrics. The lack of family cohesion is exacerbated by the social capital deficits that used to be found in civic organizations and the devastation of blue collar working class jobs that used to make many more families stable. As a …	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/19 06:23 PM
2	The contribution of women to the social decline One definitely needs to exhibit a certain degree of sophistication in their analysis to properly understand the situation. There are a myriad of factors devastating working class people and compounding poor choices. In addition, the type of social outlets that used to reinforce more constructive and healthier relationships have gradually become curtailed as the list of potential conflicts of interest have grown. Ultimately, working class men have had their opportunities dramatically eroded, as t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/19 09:37 AM
1	The contribution of women to the social decline One definitely needs to exhibit a certain degree of sophistication in their analysis to properly understand the situation. There are a myriad of factors devastating working class people and compounding poor choices. In addition, the type of social outlets that used to reinforce more constructive and healthier relationships have gradually become curtailed as the list of potential conflicts of interest have grown. Ultimately, working class men have had their opportunities dramatically eroded, as t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/19 09:33 AM
1	To Men Who Think Women are "causing the decline", how SHOULD they select for partners? I think we all have to demonstrate a certain degree of sophistication in our interpretations of life and meaningful relationships. There are some stark and difficult tradeoffs we all must undertake in life to advance important values and imperatives we all desire. Ultimately, many of the most rabid Red Pill fanatics are very rigid and narrow minded in their analysis. However, their prospective offers a lot of rare insights and truths that our larger society typically ignores. We have to capitali…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/19 02:19 AM
0	Many manosphere men think marriage is a bad deal, so why do they simultaneously shame and mock women who stay single and collect cats? Shouldn’t they be glad there’s one fewer woman on the market looking for marriage? So it jumps from 5% for the population entire population to over 50% for that narrow segment of women. They have a chart that breaks down age segments that refutes that too. The most basic drive that is even more powerful than a sex drive. Well, no amount of stats will convince you that most women in that age segment actually want children. Best wishes. I will let my delusional facts and statistics lead me astray.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/19 02:14 PM
0	Many manosphere men think marriage is a bad deal, so why do they simultaneously shame and mock women who stay single and collect cats? Shouldn’t they be glad there’s one fewer woman on the market looking for marriage? This is a quote literally pulled directly from the Gallup website: "PRINCETON, NJ -- Despite the recent drop in the U.S. fertility rate, Americans' attitudes about having children have remained unchanged over the past 23 years. More than nine in 10 adults say they already have children, are planning to have children, or wish that they had had children. The 5% of American adults who do not want children is virtually the same as the 4% found in 1990." That was a reference from 2013, but most of th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/19 05:57 AM
0	Many manosphere men think marriage is a bad deal, so why do they simultaneously shame and mock women who stay single and collect cats? Shouldn’t they be glad there’s one fewer woman on the market looking for marriage? It is obvious you are just choosing to ignore the mountains of obvious polls that significantly contradict the majority of your argument. Between religious pressures, societal norms, unplanned pregnancies, and one of the most fundamental drives of biological organisms, I still think the stigma associated with old maids that are alone living as cat ladies is not an aspirational goal for most women. Rather than deluge you with study after study quotes that explicitly reinforce that simple biologic…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/19 12:46 PM
0	Many manosphere men think marriage is a bad deal, so why do they simultaneously shame and mock women who stay single and collect cats? Shouldn’t they be glad there’s one fewer woman on the market looking for marriage? As a millennial, I think I have some insights into different viewpoints across various age groups. I viewed a few different websites and polls and all of them show at least 70%+ of women in that age range that desired to one day have children. In addition, I think those surveys have flawed methodology and underrepresent people's true feelings. Of course, I respect diverse opinions and have been privy to many complex ethical arguments for foregoing children. Nevertheless, society functions as a c…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/19 11:07 PM
1	Many manosphere men think marriage is a bad deal, so why do they simultaneously shame and mock women who stay single and collect cats? Shouldn’t they be glad there’s one fewer woman on the market looking for marriage? That is absolutely a benefit of marriage. Only married people can obtain a divorce and gain financially if the relationship fails. In a cohabitation situation where the relationship fails, a would be wife stands to gain nothing, but a loss of time if there are no kids involved. 2 identical failed relationships with very different final outcomes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/19 10:39 PM
1	Many manosphere men think marriage is a bad deal, so why do they simultaneously shame and mock women who stay single and collect cats? Shouldn’t they be glad there’s one fewer woman on the market looking for marriage? Most people will eventually want to settle down and get married to an ideal partner. People go through phases and relationships involve a complex negotiation and interplay between many different partners. A couple might implicitly or explicitly be negotiating different terms of their relationship. Both parties might be better off together, but both parties might have aspects of the relationship that might favor one party at the expense of the other. Whereas, some aspects of a relationship are mu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/19 10:06 PM
2	Many manosphere men think marriage is a bad deal, so why do they simultaneously shame and mock women who stay single and collect cats? Shouldn’t they be glad there’s one fewer woman on the market looking for marriage? If at any time a woman does grow tired of a marriage, she can file for a no fault divorce and petition for child support. Then, she will be single again. In general, married people are happier than single people. The disparity between the two groups is wider as people grow older. Single older people are generally less happy, except for people with very robust social circles of friends and family.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/19 10:21 AM
1	Many manosphere men think marriage is a bad deal, so why do they simultaneously shame and mock women who stay single and collect cats? Shouldn’t they be glad there’s one fewer woman on the market looking for marriage? You genuinely think half the population of women in America never want children? That seems like an oddly inflated number. There are numerous polls that contradict such a high number. It might actually be a sizable minority, but almost all organisms have biological yearnings to reproduce. It is very difficult to curtail or replace those instincts. A bevy of cats and small toy dogs are amazing, but they don't quite fullly replace a living growing dynamic young human being.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/19 09:59 AM
1	Many manosphere men think marriage is a bad deal, so why do they simultaneously shame and mock women who stay single and collect cats? Shouldn’t they be glad there’s one fewer woman on the market looking for marriage? The situation is like many real world negotiating scenarios. There are zero sum aspects to the negotiation, but there are also certain portions of deals that are absolutely pareto efficient dynamics that are mutually beneficial in a manner where both parties would be worse off if they never engaged in a loving constructive marriage. It becomes a more interesting and sophisticated analysis when a timeline is incorporated. A guy in his 20s that is dating around clubbing in his 20s might be discove…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/19 09:37 AM
3	A woman's personality matters just as much as her looks. Strong/alpha personality women get the better men. I disagree very strongly with most of these posters. It is bizarre. I know there is a stereotype that women have a love of bad boys, but I don't think there is even a significant meaningful proportion of men that like women with a stank attitude. Most men value beauty over personality, but they value personality to a greater extent in long term relationships. I still think beauty reigns supreme for most men in various relationships, but personality factors strongly as well in long term relations…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/19 11:46 PM