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Ehh idk that it's necessarily considered desirable, definitely not when saying a "huge number". I think the idea is based on the concept of "more experience means better delivery", similar to how many ppl shop around when looking for a good restaurant, hotel, a mechanic, hair stylist...most ppl want to go with a reputable source. When it comes to sex, we can't really read reviews or look up a rating for how good or bad a person is in bed(although...hmm, not a bad idea haha). What we can do is as…
/r/seduction30/04/22 05:44 PM
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Well ofc those are my personal preferences. I mentioned them in response to you saying I personally am most likely a girl without many options and so on...which isn't accurate. My point is there are women out there who don't fall into these boxes society has made. Not everyone is shallow and money hungry. Ofc, IF you're shallow and money hungry then it's best you get with someone who is also shallow & money hungry. Similar values are important. I would just be careful saying "women work this way…
/r/seduction10/03/22 10:20 AM
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Haha, ahhh I see how you think...well, I'm not exactly hurting for options. However, a high value male imo isn't defined by being tall, rich & goodlooking. Plus, those characteristics are far from impossible to find so they're not that intriguing to me. I prefer an odd but interesting mind, independence and similar sense of humor.
/r/seduction09/03/22 10:13 PM
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Ehh, maybe I'm weird, but I don't choose a guy based on how many women are interested in him. If I like a guy it's bc he seems interesting to me, simple as that. Whether other women see what I see or not, it carries no weight on my interest. Also, if I were to place myself in the scenario you mentioned, I would say I'm more likely to think, "hmm, no one else seems to want him?? Pshhh, they don't know what they're missing ig." Lol
/r/seduction09/03/22 09:51 PM
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If you're halfway decent in appearance & alone at a bar, you're most likely gonna get approached lol.
/r/seduction17/02/22 10:02 PM
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Hmm, maybe she felt like she'd feel bad if she didn't respond, but then eventually that feeling of obligation subsided..? It's also possible she's kinda keeping you around for times when she has nothing to do. If so, she won't spend much time responding unless she is bored, and then she'll suddenly be very available lol. Ofc that only lasts until something more interesting comes along.
/r/seduction15/02/22 10:57 PM
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Was she drunk when you guys had sex? Considering you met at a bar, she was most likely drinking. Drinking lowers inhibitions, causing us to make decisions we might not make if sober... it's possible she isn't typically the type to hook up,, and she's now experiencing remorse. Another possibility is simply she got what she wanted so she's done. It's harsh, yes, but it does happen. Maybe she has a bf or something, had a night out, slept with you, and she's now back to reality... It could be so man…
/r/seduction15/02/22 10:33 PM
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Hmm, I don't see an option for that, at least not under the comments section. You might be able to edit your original post and add it there..?
/r/seduction12/02/22 10:37 PM
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Eek...yeah, as you know, this isn't good at all :( I'm really sorry about this. She needs to improve on her communication and learn how to tell you she isn't interested anymore instead of leading you on. I can't say what happened, but given that you asked about sleeping over Wednesday, she didn't respond, you asked about Vday, she didn't respond, and the fact that it's been almost a week since you've spoken...yeah, sounds like she is done. It really isn't fair to you either bc one of the benefit…
/r/seduction12/02/22 10:28 PM
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Hahaha well I don't expect most ppl to be THAT honest... it's just as simple as maybe don't cuddle up with someone you're not sexually interested in..? Lol
/r/seduction11/02/22 01:06 AM
1

Well I'm sure it's hard to turn it down in that moment, but at least you're aware now
/r/seduction11/02/22 01:05 AM
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So since he COULD HAVE done worse things to her but didn't, he's a decent guy? Come on, ofc things can always be worse...that doesn't mean what happened was ok.
/r/seduction11/02/22 12:19 AM
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Yeah I mean ofc every one has the right to say no. I'd never suggest otherwise, but this guy clearly knew he was not physically attracted to her...he viewed himself as "out of her league"...I don't think he came to that revelation during or after the blowjob haha. He used her for what he could stand to use her for.
/r/seduction10/02/22 11:00 PM
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Omg yes! Lol this guy is uncomfortable bc of how awkward the situation is, but he created the situation to begin with. Op-you knew before the cuddles that you weren't physically attracted to her yet you still accepted a blowjob...so she's good enough to give you head, but not good enough fuck(something you could both enjoy)? That's low. If you know it's not gonna go anywhere, don't lead her on. This includes cuddling & oral...it complicates things, it messes with her emotions, and it also makes …
/r/seduction10/02/22 10:39 PM
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Well, being ghosted hurts, and those emotions need to be explored so that you can become better equipped to handle them the next time this happens. And honestly, why shouldn't it hurt? It's a complete & total dismissal of your feelings, your opinion, your time, your efforts...from someone you THOUGHT was interested in those feelings, opinions & efforts. Being bothered by this is valid, imo. I wish, for you & for all of us, that ghosting wasn't acceptable behavior, but it seems to be the norm now…
/r/seduction07/02/22 11:04 PM
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Omg, I think I'm getting a headache from how many times I rolled my eyes to this post haha. This girl, ugh...come on, don't waste your time on someone who behaves this way. As if all of her actions AFTER sex weren't bad enough, the things she was saying before sex were red flags on their own. Anytime a person keeps flooding you with compliments, beware: sincerity isn't usually their strong suit lol. Also, keep in mind, words are very very cheap and very easy to say. Of the long list of "complime…
/r/seduction26/10/21 10:41 PM
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"This is the antithesis of a needy, unattractive man who derives his self worth and happiness from his relationship." Your post suggests that all men should strive to be X bc X is the only thing that all attractive, established women want. Now, while I respect that you included such a variety of skills & traits that constitute as X(in your opinion), it's a bit of a stretch to group all of these women under one umbrella, don't you think? Your words ALMOST give the feel of being open-minded, nonju…
/r/seduction20/10/21 11:50 PM
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Maybe you should change the word "status" to "skill" bc even after explaining yourself, it seems the term "status" is still being seen as basically financial and/or appearance. Anyway, I notice you spoke for females a couple of times in this post. Well, I'm female, but I don't feel understood at all when reading this lol. I won't say appearance or finances are at the top of my list simply bc they're not, not bc I don't want to sound shallow. Also, I get what you're trying to do with the guys who…
/r/seduction20/10/21 08:20 PM
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Idk, it seems like you got in your head too much over her appearance, and it caused you to act in a weird way. You said you were shaken up by how hot she was on the 2nd meeting, but that you got over it quickly...idk, I feel like you THINK you got over it but you actually didn't. I'm thinking it went something like this...you met the first time, liked each other, she barely heard from you for 2 months bc you were busy with whatever and weren't excited enough to keep constant contact. Then you me…
/r/seduction25/09/21 01:56 AM
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Awww thank you for this :)
/r/seduction22/08/21 05:00 PM
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Well I was trying to offer some insight from the girl's side(which ofc, might not even be accurate). For me, I would want to know if the guy is a virgin before I have sex with him bc it's his first time. I would take that very seriously. I would want to make sure he felt extra comfortable to try to take some of the pressure off of him. Plus, I would want it to be special. If I go into it not knowing he's a virgin then I'm not going to treat the situation as gently. I won't be a bitch about any s…
/r/seduction22/08/21 04:16 PM
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Ok so, if she has any experience, she's gonna KNOW you were a virgin wayyyy before it's over with lol. You can't fake this kind of skill, and any attempt in doing so will most likely not go well for you lol. Imo, the best thing you can do is be open about it beforehand. She might decide she doesn't want to sleep with you, especially if she is sensitive about taking someone's virginity. I know society tends to focus more on how special it should be when a girl loses her virginity, but it's a firs…
/r/seduction20/08/21 03:42 AM
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Female here...I actually don't like big, bulging muscles. I'm fine with a guy who is toned, but once his abs & arms become so muscular that he doesn't even need to flex, I'm usually not physically attracted to it. For me, it's more about his thirst for life & his energy levels. Is he going to be able to keep up the fast paced walking when we're in the middle of a big city? Can he hike a trail that's a few miles long while we explore the mountains? When we go to the ocean, will he walk with me on…
/r/seduction12/06/21 09:28 PM
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I can definitely see how this could work for some guys, based on the reasons given in the post. However, something men need to also be aware of is that SOME guys use this "no sex rule" as a way to manipulate females into having sex. It works like this: a guy presents himself as confident, calm, even caring. The female slowly lowers her guard. The first sign of sexual interaction is cut short immediately by the male, using the "no sex rule" and claiming to be more interested in who she is, not wh…
/r/seduction05/06/21 07:52 PM
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Lol yeah, I'm kinda the same way. I occasionally find myself getting hyperfocused on a guy. It seems to happen when our values & mindsets align, paired with attraction, which unfortunately is rare lol.
/r/seduction04/06/21 02:32 PM
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It sounds to me like she definitely enjoyed your company, but her top priority is her career. That means, for now, most of her energy is going to be put toward her career & internship. A romantic relationship simply takes a back seat to the career. It isn't personal; it's just a matter of priorities. It sounds like maybe you put a bit more focus on a relationship than she does.
/r/seduction04/06/21 01:40 PM
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Ok, yeah, I'll give it to you...this is pretty accurate lol
/r/seduction31/05/21 05:41 PM
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Wow, you seriously made every point I was planning on making lol
/r/seduction30/05/21 07:53 PM
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It started off about the landscape & wildlife of the area and then moved into how every region of the US has its own unique landscape, from marshes & swamps to high elevation mountains. We talked about how there is beauty in everything, even in the dry, barren deserts. How most ppl don't look closely enough at the small pieces of nature. How they don't slow down long enough to really LOOK at the beauty that surrounds them. We compared the different landscapes of the US to the many different ethn…
/r/seduction30/05/21 05:38 PM
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I've experienced this before, and it's definitely not all sexual lol. I had an hour long Uber ride one time, which would normally involve silence or useless small talk, but instead the driver & I had this deep philosophical discussion on appreciating life. We asked a few typical questions in the beginning, but other than that the conversation was about some of our deepest thoughts. I'm not one to open up easily, but I felt as if I had known this guy for a long time. At times, our eyes would meet…
/r/seduction30/05/21 01:49 PM
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That would be well received by me :) It's one of those situations where less is more; post too many before/after pics & it starts coming across like you need validation or that you're focusing too much on the physical. One before/after pic is good bc it will show ppl where you've been & that you put in the effort to get yourself out of that situation. Perseverance & determination are always attractive. Now pair THAT with humility...🔥🔥🔥
/r/seduction22/05/21 06:46 PM
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I'm female and completely agree with this. Pics of a guy showing off his muscles are an instant turn off for me. Sure, there's a chance he isn't shallow, buuuut ehh, giving that kind of guy the benefit of the doubt has never paid off for me personally lol. However, I don't see anything wrong with dressing for your new body type. You deserve to FEEL GOOD! Now, that might not mean walking around shirtless or wearing skintight tshirts, but as long as you wear clothes that fit YOUR body, your hard w…
/r/seduction22/05/21 06:00 PM
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Well in that case, I think the easiest thing you can do is not give away TOO much, too soon. Ppl who share tons of details about themselves in a short time span tend to lose their mystery quickly.
/r/seduction15/05/21 04:56 AM
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Hmm, so you're trying to consciously become mysterious? That's an interesting concept. Maybe you're already seen as mysterious by some ppl..? I've been described as mysterious even though it's never been a conscious decision. I've been told it's bc I'm quiet yet confident, I'm mostly a loner and apparently I use a lot of analogies/metaphors during everyday conversations that some ppl find a bit odd hahah, idk. I'm also very private when it comes to sharing certain aspects of my life that others …
/r/seduction15/05/21 04:46 AM
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Lol well ig I don't count then
/r/seduction22/03/21 01:21 PM
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Maybe I'm in the minority here, but imo a guy can definitely build up sexual tension thru text. These are the guys who have a great imagination and aren't afraid to use it. Now, a dick pic for example, is NOT imaginative haha. Sure it gets the point across of what you're after, but most females won't respond to it. Not saying we need romance to get turned on, but we usually need some form of connection TO YOU. Whether it's purely a physical connection, a mental connection where we're both hot fo…
/r/seduction22/03/21 01:22 AM
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So basically, she was having second thoughts(for whatever reason) and the whole virus story was her way of getting out of the plan. However, she changed her mind back so that's what counts lol. Why was she having second thoughts?? Well, that could be so many things. Maybe she wasn't sure she wanted to have sex with you. Maybe she has anxiety you've never noticed. Maybe she thought her period would be over by that night but isn't as sure now. Maybe you were a backup plan. Maybe her roommate is co…
/r/seduction18/03/21 10:53 PM
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The way I see it, you have nothing to lose so why not?
/r/seduction16/03/21 02:22 PM
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So you get this same thing even if the girl has no affiliation with your group of friends or college(and therefore couldn't ruin your reputation by spreading rumors about you bc she doesn't know anyone that you know)??
/r/seduction14/03/21 01:36 PM
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I can understand that. It does usually take some effort to get a girl. A snap of the fingers won't make one magically appear just like it also won't make your parts work when you want them to. Sure finding another girl MIGHT take months(maybe more, maybe less), but you can't say for sure though. What you can say for sure is that you've tried with this girl a couple of times and had the same result. And you can also say for sure that her affiliation with your friend group has caused added pressur…
/r/seduction14/03/21 03:51 AM
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Ok then you definitely need to look at my second point...start fresh. There is a lot of unnecessary pressure(with your whole reputation concern) that could be completely eliminated if you focus on girls that are not from your school, your immediate surroundings or your group of friends.
/r/seduction14/03/21 03:32 AM
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Ok so I read through all the comments. I also read your previous post stating that you met this girl at a pub, she approached you, one thing lead to another and you all ended up in a dark corner with the intent to have sex, but you couldn't get hard so you gave her oral instead...in the back corner of a pub. So one thing I'm noticing is the setting. The first time with this girl, you're in the back corner of a pub and this time you're on a bed...not sure if this is your bed, her bed, the bartend…
/r/seduction14/03/21 03:25 AM
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Damn, I know a guy who could stand to read this post haha!
/r/seduction11/03/21 01:19 AM
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Completely agree!!! A lot of ppl put so much effort in devising a plan to work they system, to appear to be a confident person when they could be putting that effort into actually becoming a confident person. These tips may be valid, at least to some extent, but do you really wanna count on an attractive female friend being available every time you wanna go out?? Lol idk, that crutch wouldn't make me feel confident at all.
/r/seduction16/11/20 11:27 PM
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I don't view asking someone out as a gender-based role, no.The potential date would involve BOTH parties. Therefore, either person can ask the other out. At some point, your desire to attempt a date with this person has to outweigh your desire to remain in your safe zone.
/r/seduction16/11/20 01:46 AM
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I used to lack self-confidence and never started conversations. Now, I'm more confident and have a much easier time starting conversations. Sure, I'm introverted so I don't go around striking up conversation with just anyone, but if a guy catches my interest I'll speak to him.
/r/seduction11/11/20 03:37 AM
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She would probably need you to make the move, but honestly, I wouldn't even mess with that. If a girl isn't confident enough to even speak with you, she most likely isn't confident enough in what or who she wants.
/r/seduction06/11/20 02:47 PM
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Hmmm, very interesting lol. While I can't say for certain, it sounds to me like she isn't very self-assured or secure.
/r/seduction06/11/20 02:44 PM
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If I'm at a party and am interested in a guy, I'll find ways to stand near him so I can watch his body language and observe how he handles himself with others. If I still like what I see, I'll start making more eye contact. This won't be long, lustful stares lol. It's more like I look at him, he notices me looking at him, I hold it for a brief sec or two followed by looking away with a shy smile...but the eye contact will come back again and again. If I'm feeling ambitious(lol), I'll stand right…
/r/seduction06/11/20 02:15 PM
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To put it simply, you're losing their interest, and fairly quickly too, it seems. This doesn't necessarily mean you're in the wrong, but the pattern is definitely worth evaluating. I would look back to your text behavior. You want to say enough to intrigue her but not so much that she feels overwhelmed, annoyed or bored. The amount of times you contact her first should be about equal to how many times she contacts you first. If you load her down with texts every day despite few responses, and yo…
/r/seduction05/11/20 02:01 PM
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Wow, I actually agree! No contact, imo, is nothing more than repressing emotions that NEED to come out. You'll become a stronger person in the long run if you learn how to cope with the painful emotions that you associate with an ex. I'm not saying you need to text every day or even every week, but cutting someone off altogether is avoidance, plain & simple. In order to grow, you have to face your fears & discomforts. Expose yourself to these areas until you become desensitized to them. Trust me…
/r/seduction13/10/20 10:54 PM
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Aww, well I'm sure you'll stand out just by being yourself, at least to someone :) Think of it this way, I'm female and your post caught my attention. It's cute to see a guy trying but also admitting he needs some advice. Also keep in mind you may not vibe well with most girls, most ppl even lol. It's just human nature, simple as that. That's what makes a connection so special :)
/r/seduction03/09/20 04:02 PM
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Slide into as many as you want lol. If the conversation dies, they most likely aren't interested BUT that's ok when you've already sent 5 more DMs to 5 other girls...get what I'm saying? Don't get as invested before anything has taken off. If they never respond, you haven't lost anything anyway. It seems like a lot of ppl just overthink sending a DM. I mean, I get it. I can be kinda shy myself, but that's the beauty of being online lol.
/r/seduction03/09/20 12:46 PM
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I see your point, but I gotta say I love a logical mind! I'm more emotionally driven so I'm usually thinking about how my decisions will make others feel. So when a logically driven guy makes a decision based solely on "it's what needs to be done" and follows through, regardless of negative feedback from others, I'm drawn to that. It's like his mind has a strength that mine lacks. So while I can learn how to be more logical from him, he can learn from me how to be more emotional. Win/win!
/r/seduction19/07/20 10:14 PM
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Best of luck! It's worth a shot :)
/r/seduction19/07/20 09:27 PM
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Completely agree; great advice :)
/r/seduction19/07/20 09:14 PM
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When a guy is very direct with me(ex. "...I think you're really pretty, and I'd like to get to know you.") it grabs my attention, regardless of what he looks like. I know, I know, a lot of ppl are gonna say that's bs, but it's true for me so there must be other women who think the same way. That one interaction tells me several things. 1.He's willing to take a chance. 2.He goes after what he wants. 3.He's acknowledging that, while he finds me physically attractive, he also wants to see if there'…
/r/seduction19/07/20 08:59 PM
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"How easy and how fun/interesting she makes your life." I really like this :) Sure, a good relationship isn't always EASY, but it rarely, if ever, feels like a chore. Both ppl should bring stability to the relationship, otherwise, it won't work. All it takes is one insecure person to create chaos in both, much like what you referred to as "diffusing a bomb every time you send a message." That part made me laugh bc I've been on both sides of that lol. Imo, a high-quality person is independent wit…
/r/seduction18/07/20 02:42 PM
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Haha no prob!
/r/seduction16/07/20 07:50 PM
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She was looking at you like that bc she was trying to see if you ONLY wanna fuck OR if you're gonna stick around after you get some. And from what it sounds like to me, you won't be sticking around long enough to even use that entire box of latex-free condoms lol. After that much teasing, then having to go through the hassle of driving to get condoms, then coming back again to more teasing just to be told you gotta get up early, of course she isn't gonna have sex with you. There would be no post…
/r/seduction16/07/20 05:45 PM
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Lol that is understandable, but at the end of the day it's your life & your decisions. I know it can be difficult, but maybe try not to let the world make you think you need to do this or that by a certain age. What you think of yourself matters more :)
/r/seduction14/07/20 06:54 PM
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Well, I think you pretty much can't go wrong with the truth. As long as you're upfront with women in what you're looking for, it will weed out the ones who don't fit into that category, which saves time for both of you. And while this date was bad, it wasn't a total loss bc you gained some experience :)
/r/seduction14/07/20 05:01 PM
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Ok, first off, this girl is rude, immature and extremely judgemental. It sounds like she feels the need to be the one at the top of the relationship(picking you up, accusing you, interrogating you, etc). Imo, she is simply not a healthy person, and given your mental health issues this is not the type of person you need I'm your life. Secondly, you are not weird for having 1 or 2 friends. You have problems with anxiety so it's understandable, BUT at the same time, even if you didn't have anxiety …
/r/seduction14/07/20 04:07 PM
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Yes lol. Be the guy that shows girls that height doesn't really matter! Sounds like your friend does just that lol.
/r/seduction12/07/20 01:10 PM
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I love it! Lol
/r/seduction12/07/20 01:07 PM
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Every half an inch counts! Hey, guys do it too ;)
/r/seduction12/07/20 01:06 PM
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Lol makes perfect sense. Your story made me smile bc you put yourself out there and even though it didn't go the way you hoped, you didn't let it get you down.
/r/seduction12/07/20 01:42 AM
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Good for you!!! :)
/r/seduction12/07/20 01:33 AM
1

Aww thank you; that's really kind to say! And yes, I am a free thinker :)
/r/seduction12/07/20 12:32 AM
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Well, for me, the shorter guys always had a great face, nice lips & eyes. They had either deep, intelligent & driven personalities or fun & adventurous personalities but they all had a good sense of humor.
/r/seduction11/07/20 07:39 PM
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You could always make a post(on here or another app/site) that simply states what you want. You never know, you might find a girl in a similar situation. That does exist lol. Just keep in mind that some girls might SAY that's all they want too while, in fact, they want more. Emotional maturity also plays a role, something that's often lacking in girls/guys your age.; just keep that in mind when finding someone. I will say I've had a couple of guys approach me this way, and I at least respected t…
/r/seduction10/07/20 10:00 PM
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I honestly don't mind if a guy sends me a text if it seems like I just left the conversation out of no where. Regardless of what my reasoning is, I am fine with a text saying, "Hey, everything ok?" Or even, "Where did ya go?" Bc it only makes sense that he would be curious as to why I just randomly left what seemed to be a good conversation. Now, if I still don't respond, it means I am busy. I realize this isn't always the case. Some women are avoiding you. The only way he will start to look nee…
/r/seduction07/07/20 06:18 PM
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Any time :)
/r/seduction19/06/20 08:48 AM
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First off, congrats on the weight loss & healthy lifestyle change! You have accomplished something that so many ppl struggle to overcome. For that alone, you earn "attractive points" bc you actually set & reached this major goal! Now it's time to enjoy it. One of the keys to approaching ppl is not to get lost in your head. It might seem counterintuitive, but when you see a girl that catches your eye, react to it immediately. Don't give yourself time to think. And yeah, I'm sure you're thinking, …
/r/seduction18/06/20 09:22 PM
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Haha charming
/r/seduction15/06/20 12:55 AM
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Ohhh yeahhhh, I'm just dying for a guy who pulls out an ALL CAPS post! So full of emotion & passion, what a MAN lol.
/r/seduction15/06/20 12:52 AM
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Umm, I'm being myself...??? Lol
/r/seduction15/06/20 12:43 AM
1

Hahaha yeah I'm better than a 5, ass lol
/r/seduction15/06/20 12:39 AM
1

I disagree; if I sense a guy isn't into me, I don't usually stick around for long. It doesn't make him more desirable, at least not imo.
/r/seduction15/06/20 12:36 AM
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I completely agree! I'm glad you found a better way to live :)
/r/seduction12/06/20 05:27 PM
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I like seeing this; I seldom agree with most posts on this subreddit, but this one resonates. Once I stopped trying(and often failing) to live up to other ppl's expectations & ideals of me and started focusing on what I want for myself, life got so much easier & more fulfilling! And yes, some will say, "Umm, wow, that sounds incredibly selfish..." but I've learned is a little bit of selfishness is NOT wrong. In doing so, I now know who I am, what I want and have the courage to go for it. Actuall…
/r/seduction12/06/20 04:59 PM
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Thanks :)
/r/seduction09/06/20 12:30 AM
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How do you stop being needy? The answer is to need only one thing: yourself. Once you've accepted that reality and lived it, others can come & go without your entire world crumbling down around you. As for altering your likes & dislikes based on the opinions of those around you, don't you see it as a huge waste of time? What if everyone else in the discussion did the same thing? Then you would have an hour long discussion built on untruths. I've found the ppl who want the "yes sir" type in their…
/r/seduction04/06/20 05:08 PM
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In the future, just say what you want. Make it clear immediately, and don't waste both if your all's time getting to know each other. Just get straight to the sex; if it's a hookup, treat it like one.
/r/seduction18/05/20 02:13 PM
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If a guy barely responds and once he does, it's simple & short, I'm just gonna assume he isn't interested. I won't try much from there. His lack of interest, or the game of lacking interest, will not intrigue me in any way. I don't mind quick responses as long as we are BOTH into the conversation. What IS annoying is when I am barely responding or not responding at all, yet the guy KEEPS sending me PAGES of texts! I can overlook it a couple of times, but once it becomes a trend, I lose interest.…
/r/seduction10/05/20 12:04 AM
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Yeah, I'm gonna disagree with this entire list and suggest to do the opposite lol.
/r/seduction06/05/20 07:56 PM
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Plus those were just examples! It's not about the ZOMBIES; It's about CREATIVITY! And who doesn't like a little break from the mundane??
/r/seduction06/05/20 04:19 PM
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Hahaha I AM A WOMAN!
/r/seduction06/05/20 04:17 PM
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Lol well it seems to work for me. As always, it's gonna depend a lot on each person's personality and how that personality interacts with your's. I HAVE had some guys respond with, "Why would you even ask this?" Hahaha! And yeah, that just lets me know we're probably not gonna get along. Overall, Random Question Time is just a fun, easy way to get to know each other and USUALLY branches off into more side stories and conversation :)
/r/seduction06/05/20 04:15 PM
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Ok...dick pics, BAD, unless requested. However, the 🍆 is something I often use just to laugh about lol. I DID use the cucumber emoji as well, but then they updated it to a SLICED cucumber, ouch! 🥒 OMG it's been restored! No longer sliced haha good to know!
/r/seduction05/05/20 02:30 PM
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Once you get past the initial "How are you? Where are you from?" and all of that, you could try what I call Random Question Time! You can be as creative(or boring lol)as you'd like with the questions. As for me, I try not to ask the same questions. If I used the same questions for every new encounter, it would just feel sleazy to me, even though no one is gonna know lol. Here are some examples: -It's the start of a zombie apocalypse, and you must leave your home. What 3 things do you take with y…
/r/seduction05/05/20 02:19 PM
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I'm happy this technique worked for you, I guess lol. It served it's purpose, but that technique would not work on me. I would just get annoyed. Once I start questioning if the guy likes me or not, I start checking out.
/r/seduction04/05/20 06:18 PM
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Ahhh thanks for clarifying! Lol
/r/seduction30/04/20 07:29 PM
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I understand the concept, but what is it based on? Just assumption? That's what it sounds like. You left off the men who are spending 15 hours a day playing World of Warcraft, barely remembering to bathe lol. And what about the men who are laid up on their couch every day, watching TV and eating an entire bag of Cool Ranch Doritos in one sitting? Lol These guys are gonna get laid after the virus all bc women are gonna be super horny? And what is THAT based off of? Women, as a collective unit, do…
/r/seduction30/04/20 01:09 PM
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Well yeah, obviously not. The key isn't to become emotionless; it's to expose yourself to an uncomfortable situation enough times to where, eventually, it's no longer as uncomfortable.
/r/seduction25/04/20 07:59 PM
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As with just about anything, the more it happens the more desensitized you become to it. It's difficult when you first start putting yourself out there, but it eventually becomes pretty easy. I DO think it helps to start off with a little bit of self-esteem; it kinda helps cushion the fall lol, but I don't think you have to be at the arrogant level.
/r/seduction24/04/20 03:26 PM
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And YOU'RE pretty funny...for a dick ;) jk
/r/seduction17/04/20 06:56 PM
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Lol I guess I can buy that one...IF I was already kinda feeling the guy.
/r/seduction17/04/20 06:45 PM
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Completely agree :)
/r/seduction17/04/20 06:18 PM
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I can't say I would suggest your examples. The "bad" IS bad, but the "OK" is bad as well. Does she feel a bit DUMB?? Wtf? Lol If a guy said that to me, I would reply with, "No dumber than you must feel after having said that. Now, go work on those lines some more; practice makes perfect." With your given scenario, I'd go with something like, "Well...MAYBE you're working HARD on the wrong assignments...?" Followed by eye contact & a slightly smirky grin.
/r/seduction17/04/20 05:07 PM
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Yeah, I think a lot of ppl feel that way too, and there is obviously reason to think it. I just try to remember there ARE some ppl, like me, who have no interest in exposing their lives to the world and/or checking up on everyone else's.
/r/seduction12/04/20 05:09 PM
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Some ppl may assume you're either married or in a relationship, trying to hide that fact by not having a social media account. I dated a guy for a year who had FB; we both did, although we rarely used our accounts. I signed into mine one day, had a message from 2 months prior, some girl telling me that my bf had been looking for hookups on Craigslist lol. Needless to say, he deleted his FB after that lol. Even after that experience though, I don't see it as a red flag. I have only one social med…
/r/seduction11/04/20 10:23 PM
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Lol I didn't ASK anyone to chat. I'm assuming you're talking about the guy who wrote the post. Maybe read the thread again.
/r/seduction02/04/20 10:45 PM
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Why do I want to talk to who so bad??
/r/seduction02/04/20 10:37 PM
1

Lol wtf?? Idk how to even respond to this, but the backwards bat comment did make me laugh.
/r/seduction02/04/20 10:32 PM
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Exactly! So yeah, see? You've kinda already got the answers lol
/r/seduction02/04/20 06:30 PM
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Yeah she won't stay around to talk lol
/r/seduction02/04/20 06:28 PM
1

I've always struggled with putting guys on a pedestal; not EVERY guy, but those few who really get me & inspire me. They come along so seldomly that when they do I get SOOO excited I can't help but express it! I've learned that while I shouldn't have to hide how I feel, SOME ppl get uncomfortable with it. Even if they feel the same way, they might not be used to expressing it, and I've had to learn to honor & respect how THEY deal with emotions. Not every girl will be worth putting on a pedestal…
/r/seduction02/04/20 05:38 PM
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I've had a few guys in my workplace come up and try to make conversation, which I am fine with, but sometimes I can tell it's for more than just chit chat. Once I get that vibe, if I'm not interested I will still be polite but VERY short. I will not ask questions. I will not linger. I may still laugh at his jokes, but I'm definitely not going out of my way to keep things flowing.
/r/seduction02/04/20 05:08 PM
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It seems to be working for him...ok.
/r/seduction02/04/20 04:19 PM
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Aww, well ok. At least you know what you want. Good luck with everything :)
/r/seduction02/04/20 04:13 PM
1

Maybe they got bored bc what/who you were simply wasn't what they were looking for. That doesn't mean YOU are flawed. It doesn't mean THEY are flawed. It's just 2 ppl who aren't compatible. Yes, it SUCKS! Trust me, I know, but there's nothing like finding someone you can be yourself with.
/r/seduction02/04/20 04:07 PM
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The "loser" or "opponent" in this case would have been yourself, not your potential partner. Your former self and/or methods didn't work out so you tried to go the complete opposite route, a competition within yourself so to speak. Honestly, what you just described as how you "used to be" sounds a lot better than the facade you mentioned in your post. That's just my opinion. I hope the new man you've become works out for you. If you choose to go back to being the "opponent" or the "loser" hit me…
/r/seduction02/04/20 03:58 PM
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I'm all about becoming a better person. I just can't see how you get there by forcing yourself to become a completely different person.
/r/seduction02/04/20 03:43 PM
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I have male friends that were at one time interested in me romantically, but I was actually open with them & told them I couldn't see things going beyond that. They respected me for it and were able to move on to the next girl. I understand and agree with what you're saying about goals. To achieve most goals, you have to be uncomfortable for a while. That's how we grow. It just seemed to me that this wasn't an attempt to grow; it was an attempt to "win." I also didn't realize this is who you've …
/r/seduction02/04/20 03:41 PM
1

I'm all about planning & learning, but what are you learning when the foundation you're choosing to start from isn't even real? Maybe if men AND women would start with an open & honest foundation, we could all learn from these experiences a little easier and be that much closer to someone who gets us. Maybe so, maybe not; I'm just an Idealist.
/r/seduction02/04/20 03:29 PM
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Wow, so there ARE actually men who do this whole thing of premeditated manipulation. I find this to be unsettling. I've known a few guys that acted the way you're suggesting, and my intuition told me their "mysteriousness" was exactly that, an act. I left as soon as I picked up on this. Congrats to you, but I prefer someone who is genuine. This sounds too much like a long, manipulative game than a sincere interest in the girl. I would suggest being yourself; you can only play a role for so long,…
/r/seduction02/04/20 02:24 PM
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