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A cult of self improvement and getting laid? Umm yeah it's a no brainer. Would you rather i try to negotiate genuine desire? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 10:32 PM
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Bro tell your wife to quit and start over. If you're the captain that you claim you are, you can carry the household bills for a few months.
/r/askMRP10/07/22 08:25 PM
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you probably should leave China before you find yourself in prison. The woman in question seems unstable, and that's mostly your fault. Don't be an idiot, once you have a kid with her it's over for you.
/r/askMRP10/07/22 08:18 PM
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Bro your wife sent me the videos, there you have proof you suck as a man. Get in the gym, STFU until you have a plan to leave this relationship. You can stay if you want, but she won't stop cheating on you with someone she finds more exciting.
/r/askMRP10/07/22 08:11 PM
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The cult of Rollo tomassi doesn't sell anything. All the books are available for free and a planet fitness membership is only $9.99. Again I don't know what version of the red pill you have been exposed to, but the version i know was directed towards self improvement. The people trying to buy courses want a cheat code without doing any of the work... And that's why 90% of them fail. It's simple, get into shape, make more money and start learning how to game people (men and women). Anything beyon…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 06:22 PM
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But there's studies on this and women will happily tell you about some bad boy they dated in college. Guess what? He probably was a scum bag and years later all she can remember is how "exciting" this man was. Lets face it, most boring beta men turn to the red pill when they realize their mating strategy doesn't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 12:09 PM
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I don't know anything about that movie, but no red pill male is going to spend 3 hours watching a shitty movie instead of lifting or going out to a bar or club. The group of males you would like to speak to are black pilled. They complain about everyone and cry about their looks. Funny thing is, it never occurs to them that two ugly people procreated and that's why they are here. They prefer to think every happy couple looks like brad and angelina in 2007.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 06:29 AM
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Its 10% and 90% respectively. Being a man is hard for most males, they would rather sit at home and live vicariously through Andrew tate.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 06:26 AM
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Bro my weed dealer in highschool was a middle aged soccer mom, she was always super friendly and always available. God bless her tainted little soul.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 06:25 AM
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The truth? It's narcissistic masculine ego masturbation. It's all about their egos. Look at their gurus. Egomaniacs who get their kicks belittling women and conning insecure men out of money. They all look like coke dealers. They're slimy people. Jerks, creeps, and assholes. Conmen and manipulators. Sociopaths. The type of men who sleep with majority of the women, are teaching other men to become just like them? Wow that's crazy! Who would think of such a crazy idea?!!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 06:24 AM
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Definitely. But at least you had fun when you were together right?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 04:44 AM
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Women in my experience like to fantasize about relationships, especially if the sex is good. It's your job to have boundaries set and as always lower your expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 04:26 AM
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It means she thought about it a lot, but she was more realistic than you were. Not saying you wouldn't make a good match, but someone would need to sacrifice who they are for it to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 03:30 AM
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It's sex without the burden of a romantic relationship... IDK know about you but I'm ok with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 12:52 AM
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She was a hardcore feminist. I was a hardcore Frat boy That makes perfect sense. And you were a fool to think you would have a normal relationship with a feminist, she would very likely make you the submissive. She didn’t want her friends knowing “staying late at the library” was “having sex with a Frat boy”. 😂 Right? Complete contradiction. Part of that was absolutely on me. Good. I would suggest some sort of therapy, I've had CBT therapy and it was great. Understanding why and how we do certai…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 10:23 PM
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“I thought we had a good thing going. We both know it would never work with us. And she was probably right. But that’s what catching feelings is, isn’t it? Bro you blew this. She probably really liked you too. She was just more realistic about your situation. These women could tell you were attractive enough to sleep with, but you sucked at relationships. In my view you would rather be the other guy, relationships are incredibly hard and can be a huge distraction. because even though I was like …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 09:26 PM
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Exactly. People can only pretend for so long before they break bad. As someone who's been married, i would advise anyone to wait at least 3 years before making the commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 09:11 PM
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because sometimes I’d catch feelings and want more Did you really catch feelings or did you spend too much time around them after a hook up? they didn’t introduce me to their parents. Looking back I get why That's the question, why would you want to know the parents? Why would you want to stick around in that situation? Do you understand that the average woman who engages in hook up culture might not be the best person to start a long term relationship? Or do you think she was only sleeping with…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 09:10 PM
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Because once married they don't feel the obligation to do so. If you're smart you'll wait years before you make a huge commitment like marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 08:43 PM
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Bro why would you feel bad about casual hook-ups? If you pushed the issue, of course she would introduce you to her family. Saying they only want a hook up is basically a defense mechanism, they don't want to get hurt by getting their hopes up. The girl telling you “she just wants to have fun” isn’t lying. And the girl doing keg stands in her sports bra going “whoooo!” Probably isn’t looking for a LTR. At least not at this point on her life. Absolutely. But some are already in relationships, the…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 08:32 PM
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Many of them are good looking and have received validation to an extent that many other women don’t. They’re typically educated and well-off financially. Some of them seem to have lower libidos Are they good looking or are the males thirsty?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 05:27 PM
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How are men trash if your mom had unprotected sex with several men to have you? 😑
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 05:26 PM
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Exactly. Don't take women seriously. See win win.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 07:46 PM
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Why would a man plan out his family and then abandon them? What sense does that even make?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 10:15 PM
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Every child wants a bond with their father was my point. Unless he was abusive or dangerous to be around. So you’re saying some men like dying alone? I'm saying in some cases they would rather die alone than remain in good terms with people who don't appreciate or value them as human beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 09:30 PM
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I had step children at some point in my life and like I said, complete bullshit. The kids always asked about their father even when he wasn't involved. Some were present fathers but they left 90% of the child care to their childrens mother(s), others were, drifters who didn’t see their kids often etc. They didn’t put effort into forming strong friendships etc. So they die all alone with no one to care for them. Most men die earlier than their wives or former spouses, trust me if they wanted they…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 08:37 PM
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Biggest reason right here. They slack on doctor visits, diets and overall health. God bless all the helpful women in their husbands lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 01:42 AM
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Older, single,men, for whatever reason, are far less capable of forming that circle of friends and far less likely to be a significant part of their adult children’s lives. If you are a 50+ male without a wife, the odds are good your life ends in a hospital room by yourself with no visitors or family. It is what it is This is complete bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 01:41 AM
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My mom lives a somewhat similar lifestyle to yours, after she became a widow she had no interest in getting back out there. I also think older men don’t do as well being alone compared to older women. I don’t have actual stats to back this up but in my line of work, I do notice a considerable health decline within the first few years of men losing their wives compared to women. I think the men in question depended on their wives for everything. They are completely lost and don't know where to st…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 01:39 AM
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I suspect once menopause sets in and the eggs dry up, they don't feel the pressure to get involved with anyone. Interestingly enough, that is Donald trump's core demographic. "Suburban women" between 45 and 65, basically your average Karen.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 01:37 AM
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The actor Jesse Williams did this. When he was a struggling actor, he married a doctor. Now that he's famous and makes more money, he left her alone and is fucking his way through Hollywood.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 04:46 AM
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Look if I can't fuck you, then maybe i can fuck your friends and maybe get a few free lunches while i vent about how difficult my life is. The assumption here is that you're a hypothetical woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 12:14 AM
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This. Fuck that guy, any guy really, lol. That's what drives me TBH.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 12:29 PM
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I would still choose my life today, it just would feel empty. I've always been competitive, doing better than others is a primary motivator for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 12:28 PM
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It's terrible, i really wish we could save the younger men, but so many of them have turned into beta soy boys comfortable with being mediocre and fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 05:08 AM
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I don't think women can be genuine friends with men, we have competing interests that are diametrically opposite each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 04:47 AM
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As a red pill aware man, i suggest you make sure you're using them more than they use you. We tell you not to be in a woman's friend zone, there's nothing wrong with her being in your friend zone or fuck buddy zone. Having attractive female friends does give you social proof, but don't discuss anything with your GF or SO about those friendships. Just act nonchalant and never ever disclose anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 12:42 AM
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Don't fall in love, have fun with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 12:37 AM
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I agree. The detail about semen seems like a personal problem, not a widespread concern.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 12:33 AM
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How you get em is how you lose em. She's not yours it's just your turn. Enjoy brother.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 09:54 PM
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Educated guess like everything else. Can you imagine getting penetrated by 300 different men? She's never going to be able to hide that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 09:53 PM
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You live in a conservative country. How many slut walks do you hold annually and is abortion celebrated in your corner of the world?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 09:52 PM
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I mean unless she's some Mormon virgin, you're going to find a woman who had a healthy sex life before you. Having sex is not promiscuity. Having sex with anyone for whatever reason is promiscuity. The two situations should not be conflated.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 09:14 PM
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Not the sex, but a man will potentially think about her as a liability in a monogamous relationship if she had a promiscuous past.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 04:31 PM
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Having a mental image of your girlfriend covered in spunk isn't normal, but having concerns about a woman's sexual past is absolutely normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 04:25 PM
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Your friends don't care about a woman's past? That's not possible unless you are all under 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 04:24 PM
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I agree with this. A lot of escorts and lonely fans content creators are married , some men don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 03:09 PM
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Absolutely. If cleaning is a major issue in the relationship,split the cleaning bill with your SO and spend your time doing other more productive tasks.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 03:04 PM
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If women had more to lose, they would stay in miserable relationships like men. Newsflash, if you're doing majority of the household tasks chances are you're a stay at home mom or you work part time. If you hate housework, get a cleaning service, pay 50% of the bills and STFU.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 01:36 AM
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Is she hitting the gym, making more money and becoming more interesting to attract a high value husband? 😐
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 12:02 PM
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Red pilled women don't exist. This isn't open up to debate, a woman only needs to be, men must become. This is literally trp 101.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 05:08 AM
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Multiple men have cheated on you? 😐
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 01:02 AM
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Multiple? 😐
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 11:21 PM
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Red pilled women don't exist, complete nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 10:08 PM
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BTW as an addition, nobody cared about the 60 year old granny who was a whore, she was way past child bearing age, and was probably a widow. Men frequently would hook up with someone like that and most people didn't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 05:02 PM
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Yup, only one of them can get pregnant and pin it on someone else. That's why adultery in most societies was punished by death.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 05:00 PM
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Where is this culture? Because in Muslim countries if you rape a woman she's allowed to condemn you to death, and if a man sleeps with someone else's wife, both of them are put to death.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 04:08 PM
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I suspect op asked why she cheated instead of leaving the moment he found out. Cheating is self explanatory tbh. They just wanted someone who wasn't you. That's enough information for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 04:06 PM
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The boy was 18 I'm assuming? He wasn't really a man now was he?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 04:05 PM
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Sounds about right.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 04:04 PM
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Because men don't want to think the woman they committed to is a slut. That same man will have no problem participating in a public gang bang with a woman he doesn't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 04:01 PM
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I'm lost, what was the original question?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 02:13 PM
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Yes, but they prey on insecure moist men. Don't take dating advice from women, ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 01:26 AM
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Submission as defined in the bible is the only definition. It's a biblical/religious concept. All other modern definitions fall short because they don't have a framework to exist in. You can't redefine a concept and think this will work.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 03:07 PM
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From a red pilled perspective, why would he commit to someone he never had sex with. Demote her to a fuck buddy situation, her actual fuck buddy is the guy she wants but can't have. She settles for NSA sex to keep him in her life.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 09:35 PM
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Well hopefully, you never will have those issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 03:50 PM
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So your intuition has failed you at some point? Interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 03:21 PM
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So you've never been played by anyone, or have you never been played by a woman? The nope doesn't specify.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 02:54 PM
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Are societal norms a stereotype? Why do you think this perception exists? Are women better nurturers than men?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 06:24 AM
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If the option of fleeing isn't there and they can't run an ambush, who should confront said intruder and should they take turns?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 06:23 AM
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That's not the only responsibility Didn't say it was, we're discussing hypotheticals. Women tend to focus on housework only. They, the women in this scenario view housework as some sort of servitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 04:37 AM
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So they should both confront the intruder at the same time? Who gets to stay with the hypothetical children upstairs?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 04:36 AM
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When someone kicks down the door, who's turn is it to confront the intruder?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 04:27 AM
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The data points to that. Look i have no issue with women filling for divorces, i just wish the average male would stop trying to get into a marriage. It is responsibility without authority, that's slavery
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 02:50 AM
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You skipped over my question, i didn't ask about women. I asked you if your ability to judge people has ever failed you, and if you were religious?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 01:35 AM
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You can't even understand that what you posted and fact disproves what you're saying What are you on about?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 01:34 AM
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I trust my ability to read other people, Oh cool. Has that ability ever failed you? As a side note are you religious?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 10:00 PM
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So the “lower divorce rate” is basically nothing more than a media fabrication by people who don’t understand math. As a percentage of failed marriages in “age matched” cohorts, the Millenials/Gen Z (or whatever we’re calling them this week) are basically no different than the boomers/Gen X. Makes sense. I normally see women express this, i think the goal is to try and convince more men to take on the risk of marriage. Smart men will not.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 08:35 PM
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most educated and employed couples don't actually get divorced. And when they do the women are the ones choosing to break up the families.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 08:33 PM
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I think more educated and employed couples actually do get married than broke people. I don't think statistically this is possible. Most American people don't go to college or finish college. It's a small percentage of the population. With that being said, i would also think a middle class family with assets and access to resources like therapy, have an incentive to stay together even though the relationship may not be working out.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 03:06 PM
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In a gynocentric society, women get to define everything. They control how the average male sees himself, they do this through sexual access.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 03:07 PM
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Not anymore no. I judge women more harshly since i found the red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 01:50 AM
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Neither what?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 01:07 AM
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Yeah they are both old and love each other. You don't suddenly get a hard on for a 60 year old woman because you love her personality, stop. Physical attractiveness is the number one reason most women and men have sex. If that part is missing, you are headed to the friend zone.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 11:16 PM
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This is complete bullshit. If physically she's not attractive to you, she won't fuck you. The sub r/deadbedrooms wouldn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 09:07 PM
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Your dick wont work if she's ugly, her personality doesn't cause you to get erections,stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 11:13 AM
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Only if they find you attractive. That's the caveat
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 09:17 AM
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I don't hate mgtow, but no man under 30 should even consider mgtow. Go out there and learn how not to fail. At least try to start a family before going mgtow, understand the risks and plan accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 01:37 AM
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Men cheat mostly because most relationships and marriages are sexless. I won't debate this because the word (cant get laid voluntarily) is used as a common shaming tactic. Women know sex isn't available for all males, even the ones in relationships. Whenever the average woman complains about infidelity, she's talking about some guy who is desirable to MOST women. She's not talking about some guy on my 600 pound life.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 06:40 PM
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It has everything to do with their needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 06:33 PM
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Fds was probably important for the female spergs that exist. I don't think reddit should shut them down, let them share their ideas freely with other women on the spectrum.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 04:33 PM
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Not more than 700 to 1000. There's a study or survey that points out that some of them also use escorts. Essentially when you get used to fucking the best of the best, you get bored and want variety.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 05:51 AM
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When i think about it, korean pop artists kinda look like you. So you might be onto something.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 12:51 AM
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Don't date people that don't respect you. You make yourself even less attractive to available women. This is actually true, everything you mentioned before that is debatable. Only date whoever likes you and ignore everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 09:14 PM
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Advertising wouldn't exist if they weren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 08:15 PM
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The fashion industry/make up industry wouldn't exist if they weren't. Most women tend to think the same and like the same things. The only reason why "the hive mind" offends them, is that they don't want to be compared to other women, even though they literally have similar likes and interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 11:08 AM
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Preselection is not as you described, however men don't care if a woman is taken, the average male will still fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 01:05 AM
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Yup they claim they had fun, but i can assure you they carry on the trauma through sexual dysfunction.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 01:00 AM
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I would bet at least 60% of the adult black men were introduced to sex at an early age by people much much older than them. The reason it's underreported, is because the men glorify it, that includes the fathers who should be protecting their sons. globally and it’s defended by saying the girls are “fast/fast-tailed” The one thing people overlook, some of these young girls were violated by female predators. It's all messed up, and because this has happened to multiple generations, it's deeply en…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 12:59 AM
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Don't know if you are black, but I can't even begin to count the number of black males who had their first sexual experiences with someone much much older than them. Typically it's some neighborhood thot, a baby sitter, an older cousin or a friend of their mothers. In no particular order.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 09:59 PM
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Yes. Ask them if those women were related to them by blood and watch for their responses
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 09:57 PM
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LMAO. Yeah I've seen the same doctors man, I don't actually think it's a problem, i just wish women would drop the act. They will take a hawt/exciting man over a stable Billy beta any day of the week. Even the women living in poverty make the same decisions as upwardly mobile women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 09:56 PM
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come across ones who think their childhood sexual assault/rape was a good thing For men if it was by a girl or a woman, they rationalize enjoying the whole experience. The only time they will have a negative reaction is when it's done by another male or if it's an older female blood relative.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 09:53 PM
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Yes, but for different reasons. Sex is the only meaningful thing they can leverage for a relationship or resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 11:56 AM
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You don't need money to date,period was my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 10:56 AM
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Become more attractive, date single moms and never commit. Works very well, if you remember to always wear condoms.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 04:47 AM
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It happens to a lot of men, they just go with it. In my experience, the men who undergo this, end up being hypersexual and promiscuous. It rarely ever ends up well for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 02:03 AM
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You don't need money to date, she either likes you enough to overlook your deficiencies or she doesn't and expects compensation for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 01:01 AM
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They don't care. Ukrainian women might, but that's because collectively they face an existential crisis.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 01:19 AM
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Oh... No, you have children. That makes it more complicated. I would advise you to talk to a solicitor to find out the best case/worst case scenario. I'm not familiar with UK laws around child support and common law marriage, so i wouldn't know.
/r/askMRP03/04/22 09:30 PM
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No wife, no cohabitation, no children. Have her get her own place before. At 24,you should be saving money for your own home and working on doubling your income every two years.
/r/askMRP03/04/22 01:34 AM
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Embrace the burden of performance, chances are this relationship is done. Even if you do become alpha chad, your wife already has seen the beta side of you. Amicable divorce, split your assets and co-parent peacefully.
/r/askMRP01/04/22 03:44 PM
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haven’t read a plethora of RP stuff.bit hostile m It's meant to be hostile. You are supposed to be offended and think about what you didn't do through this journey. If you didn't post here, how exactly did you keep track of your progress? A diary? Seriously cut the shit. We aren't your friends, but we absolutely want you to succeed and as of right now you are not. Divorce is probably the best thing, start over and don't be a pussy in your next relationship.
/r/askMRP01/04/22 09:57 AM
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This is not an alt. First time posting. Ok. You should leave your wife, she deserves better.
/r/askMRP01/04/22 09:48 AM
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I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 10:57 AM
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No one notices me now and that’s how I like it Interesting. But if it works for you that's ok as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 10:56 AM
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Yeah but you're 160 pounds man, that's literally it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 07:45 AM
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Work vs social setting, come back and let us know when you observe that. Waitresses do not like being hit on at work, i would imagine it's not very different in whatever you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 07:44 AM
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Lol that has absolutely nothing to do with it The question was in context. In long term monogamous marriage, time is scarce. Most couples have boring vanilla sex while avoiding their children. That was my point. I’m single because I enjoy dating multiple people Congratulations,you are honest and that's rare. I’m not sure why anyone would want kids so I have none. Your parents had you as a continuation of their genetic legacy. That is the reason why most people have children.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 11:04 AM
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, I am however, saying that there’s something wrong with someone who says they like “boring sex”. How many children do you have and have you ever been married? I ask because that is important for this conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 04:59 AM
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Vanilla sex is a sign of lack of experience Yes... Are you kink shaming people who prefer boring sex? and insecurity This is a reach. I don't like starfish sex, but i would not shame any woman who prefers this. I would not be with her, because i wouldn't enjoy sex with someone like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 11:02 AM
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Because the average couple overworked and with adult responsibilities can only have regular vanilla sex. Also this wasn't about me, we were talking about the average couple. I don't have regular vanilla sex, haven't had that since i was 18.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 05:43 AM
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Most of her clients are very successful, very driven individuals.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 03:24 AM
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She disavowed the video. I have no thoughts beyond saying all women are like that
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 03:23 AM
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<10 partners Imagine if it were only 5 partners,but it involved heavy BDSM, aggressive sex with gangbangs in public clubs included....would that person reasonably leave that experience and go back into vanilla sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 03:22 AM
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No. I think it sets both genders up for failure. You suddenly have a buffet of sexual partners and activities... How exactly are you supposed to go back to regular, boring vanilla sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 09:00 PM
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They have an abundance of bad choices, like being surrounded with fast food restaurants with no real sit down quality restaurants to choose from.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 01:39 PM
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No. Not even Saudi women. You should keep everything casual with no contracts just incase she leaves.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 05:43 AM
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I do that all the time. I have no issues with socializing, but as I've grown older i have found that I can't fake sexual attraction. I either find them attractive or not, no grey areas. Obviously i treat attractive women better, but i tend to treat everyone with respect and kindness.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 02:33 AM
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I’m a tall woman so I don’t care about height because I can’t afford to care about height I keep telling the short kings about this. Tall women don't really care if the height difference is a few inches. In my opinion i have had better relationships with women who were taller than me(5'9")
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 02:30 AM
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Options for sex doesn't mean options for a relationship. Billy beta is only attractive if he offers long term stability for both her and her bad decisions. Depending on how badly she's screwed up, his cash may not be enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 10:02 AM
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Matter of fact, if a guy wants a quick discreet lay he should hit the nice hotel bar nearest your airport. You'll have flight attendants and various businesswomen on business trips at the hotel bar. A lot of them won't mind a discreet fuck. I can confirm this works. When i travelled while working, there was always some random dtf. Even if they didn't fuck, they partied and made out with everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 07:08 AM
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Eventually they will meet your replacement, they audition every night.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 07:06 AM
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Add nurses who work nights, bottle girls and tattoo artists.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 07:05 AM
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What in my description gave that away Why do YOU care about who she's engaged to? That emotional investment, probably means you have some feelings for her. I m not gonna lie and say I don't enjoy the ego boo Hahaha see there you go, you haven't grown beyond not needing validation from women, sure you can enjoy it but you shouldn't need it. Expect my wife is low-key getting a kick out of it too. She is not, her best friend is a slut with poor judgement. I very much doubt your wife is what you des…
/r/askMRP11/03/22 02:49 PM
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Reading your description of her fiance was a dead give away. You like this bitch, you like the attention she gives you and she knows it. Guess what you idiot, she wants to fuck and break up your marriage. If your wife's BFF is engaged to some bipolar scumbag (your words) what does that say about her judgement as a person?
/r/askMRP11/03/22 08:11 AM
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Even if she got fat and had 9 children, she would have many more options than the chaddiest of chads on tinder. Male thirst is the problem, and I'm a part of the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 01:42 AM
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Starfish sex is not sex, its borderline rape. So is pity sex, she's either incredibly excited and turned on Everytime, or she's not and she's giving you maintenance sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 01:34 AM
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For the men, no. If you think your male friend isn't attracted to you, get drunk together and come onto him naked, his response will inform you everything you need to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 01:24 AM
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Before the red pill, i wouldn't care. Post red pill, having close male friends is a red flag. Those are beta orbiters she keeps around for validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 01:19 AM
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I agree, but the fucked up environment we are in encourages them to fuck forever and never settle down into a serious relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 02:48 AM
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Lost all interest in her when she said she had kids. Maybe she can get a beta bux to take care of her? Idk. Casual sex is always an option. Dont meet her kids, wear condoms and make sure she pays for her trips if you travel together.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 01:59 AM
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Most red pill aware men do not subscribe to poly. Will they have a non monogamous "spinning plates" situation? Sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 10:32 PM
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The average woman wants to be equal to men and not share the same level of accountability men take on everyday. This isn't just about dating, but if you've worked with women or had a lot of women as platonic friends you would know what I'm talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 10:10 PM
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Y’all are obsessed with women taking imaginary accountability which assumes better options exist yet the men y’all think women should actually go for could very well treat them the same way as the attractive man did. We judge women by their outcomes. If 40% of children in the US are born out of wedlock, who else should be held accountable other than the woman who decided to have them? 🤨 It kinda insinuates that being attractive and charming are always the signs that a man is gonna treat you like…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 10:09 PM
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Filling up my gas tank was interesting this morning, but other than that everything has been really good this year, can't complain.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 04:50 PM
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Indeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 04:49 PM
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I would hope so yes. "Just be yourself" is single handedly the worst dating advice anyone can give you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 04:25 PM
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either you're <17 years old, you have the emotional look on relationships that of the same age. I think i mentioned this twice? And it was in context. But ok, lets assume you're right... What 17 year old boy doesn't have female friends? You seem to follow the 'red pill', and continue to try to negate women's problems. Blaming them for their 'poor choices' in casual sex, while you also 'Call up your exes and start banging' after you were cheated on. The red pill is about self improvement and lear…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 03:55 PM
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Oh ok. I hope you are feeling better now, hang in there bruv.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 03:50 PM
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Specifically which one?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 02:11 PM
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my female friend brought me bandages, a crutch and spent some quality time with me. She might be a good catch, what's wrong with her,is she handsome or why is she in your friend zone? assistance i might just come and hang out with you trying to figure out whatever is wrong waiting for a mechanic This is useful, standing on the roadside at night is scary for most people (not me, I love being outside at night)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 02:10 PM
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you're having negative experiences with women You made this assessment based on what information? 🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 02:08 PM
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For the record, my opinion has always been ignore your friend and fuck her friends instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 01:19 PM
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If you're not trying to get into the pants of every woman you meet, some of them might actually be your friends. And that isn't a bad thing. Call your female friend at 3 am if you ever need roadside assistance and watch your friendship crumble.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 01:19 PM
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Username checks out.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 04:58 AM
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Laughs in female nature
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 01:58 AM
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Women have always had their little secrets the men and the prudes didn’t have to know about. Thank god for the red pill eh? 🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 01:12 AM
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LMAO OP, this is the best way to end up in the friend zone.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 11:01 PM
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I thought all the men were guilty of stealthing? I mean who wouldn't want to sign up for 18 years of misery and child support checks? Also a hysterectomy should be required for every vasectomy. That's a fair thing to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 03:34 PM
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A man should be able to opt out of a child he did not want.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 03:29 PM
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Get rid of child support laws and alimony and watch those abortion numbers skyrocket into the stratosphere.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 03:10 PM
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We love babies, we don't like paying for them. Single dads don't get paid to have children out of wedlock, single moms do.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 03:06 PM
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Yes, the government will do whatever to save the average woman from her bad reproductive choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 03:06 PM
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Lol you are as wrong as two left shoes, but i have no desire to debate you. Continue to live in your delusion
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 02:51 PM
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Always be cheating, it's the only way to even the scoreboard.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 11:40 AM
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Your speculation seems pragmatic because you are male. Women will simply pair up with each other and try to survive. They will not shack up with billy beta or have his kids. They will continue to have children with the best men, and those who won't will still not settle with a beta. I suspect humanity will end eventually due to our own collective hubris, no one can stop the inevitable.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 06:57 AM
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Unattractive but in shape male here, yes women will hook up with you. Proximity and them being horny. In my experience they will try to stick around after the fact so you don't attempt to judge.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 04:39 AM
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I also added what happens if their spouse is sick and cannot have sex with them. I still think he should see escorts and have protected sex. Sure it sucks to have a sick spouse, but it's much much worse if the man is sexually frustrated.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 01:15 AM
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I think deep down any woman would feel like biologically that man is vulnerable. It's a bad bet for parental investment. I get it, i don't judge it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 08:55 PM
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Her vagina must've felt numb after all that. And this was all in one day? No two. I think she was high and drunk. Just nasty and unnecessary for all parties involved. I can understand that though some have argued what would be grounds for leaving and what caused the sexlessness. The relationship is over once sex becomes a chore. Two people can be platonic friends and not have sex. Weird shedding the rest of that mindset since with what limited sexual activity, I've tried with my ex I don't like …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 02:09 PM
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added emphasis on never denying your husband no matter what. I don't think this should be the case... However from the husband's perspective, he shouldn't stay in a sexless relationship. . Recently though they said bestiality wasn't adultery though and they've been hiding a list of members and Elders who have been sexually abusing children. This is absolutely horrible. I think if enough people came forward with their stories,that whole cult/religious organization would unravel. ..how does this e…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 07:50 AM
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. I guess you actually understand what I was saying? Absolutely. And even if you were Katsumi( she had a 50 man gang bang in one night and is a swinger) your personal life has nothing to do with the question. But back to your question,i believe most red pill men would have option 1 as a wife. Like i said missionary sex can be spruced up. I believe in some religious communities like the one you belonged to, emphasize missionary only.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 07:28 AM
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Which came first? pun intended
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 07:23 AM
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Men can separate the two. I tend to think women fall in love with the partner who gives them the best sex... Men, especially sexually experienced men are more pragmatic than that. For example being poly is a good thing, however I don't think bringing a baby or multiple babies into a poly relationship is a good idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 07:06 AM
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Right? The sex position police would be busy watching through every window
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 07:03 AM
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Can't cheat in this world and can't watch porn. It's either Option 1 or Option 2 and you already made your choice. I'll take option 2. I haven't fully explored all my kinks, but i will not have children with that woman. Option 1 was the best for parental investment.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 06:59 AM
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Was taught that kinkiness was sin and so was trying different positions. Probably gonna have to add this to the post since everyone is whining about me and claiming I'm bitter and a slut. I can only go by personal experiences and how I was raised, I don't know everyone in the whole world. Switching sex positions is illegal in Washington D. C. The law is that missionary sex only is accepted, if some DC cop saw you taking it doggy, your partner and you might be arrested. I wish i was kidding, lol,…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 06:58 AM
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Virgin, I'll keep seeing escorts for my kinks. BTW missionary sex is great with the right person,it doesn't have to be boring. Especially in this scenario where she's a virgin? Oral on her would be amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 06:46 AM
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What words are you trying to put in my mouth Have you ever turned down a man and kept in touch with them after the fact?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 03:55 AM
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Plenty of the ones I Plenty not all
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 01:40 AM
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Instagram, Facebook or kept their professional contact was my point. You didn't meet a potential gigachad who arouses you and you were repulsed by their approach, stop lying sis.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 01:03 AM
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There is no way this story is true, ,and if it is the boy is 17,what father do you know would subject his son to this? Come on people, some of you are too easily triggered by nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 10:24 PM
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Wait you're married, if this happened during your marriage then it doesn't count.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 10:17 PM
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Women make just as much as men, they prioritize careers first and lastly easy access to top tier chads makes it harder for women to want to settle down with the average man
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 06:47 PM
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Female popstars do this too. It's been the norm for decades, more now because soy boys need a virtual waifu they can cling to
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 04:05 AM
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Blessings to you kind internet stranger.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 04:47 PM
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You need equal parts physical attractiveness (meaning being reasonably fit,dress well and good hygiene) and a great personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 04:39 PM
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attractive antisocial ones Added a qualifier. Ugly confident guys Also added a qualifier. See how that works?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 04:30 PM
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True but you can be all that and if you aren't physically attractive, you will be in everyone's friend zone. I'm not really a fan of relationships, just regular access to casual sex is all i need to survive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 03:54 PM
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Just dont do it solely to meet women Why not? I can admit to staying in shape to only attract women, otherwise being huge and sloppy is way easier than spending 6 days in the gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 02:24 PM
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attractive men and turned them down. You weren't upset though, you just weren't interested and I'm sure you kept in touch. OP meant women who quite literally were repulsed by the men who approached them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 02:23 PM
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On tinder so they can reject you from their safe space.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 02:21 PM
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Because no woman with a functioning vagina is truly alone. She had beta orbiters, ex boyfriends, stalkers, random male acquaintances and all her girlfriends. The only scenario where a woman can be alone is a 65 year old spinster with no children.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 06:46 PM
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No, give her my number and ask her to send nudes. You pack your shit and leave.
/r/askMRP01/03/22 06:44 PM
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Give her my phone number and tell her to send me nudes.
/r/askMRP01/03/22 03:02 AM
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Anna Nicole Smith enters the chat
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 02:33 AM
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Live longer and you'll understand why you shouldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 01:24 AM
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You already know why...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 10:49 PM
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Bro, thank you. It only gets worse from here. Make money, strong social circles (preferably only with like minded men which are a lot), stay healthy, fuck around and if you have an itch and no woman around, fuck a hooker. Sage advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 10:48 PM
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Divorce at 40,the carousel starts after that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 10:47 PM
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No. If you get punched in the face a few times, you rarely get frazzled by the average man or woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 10:46 PM
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Very well thought out and presented. Amazing work OP. I have no thoughts on the issue, other than i took the red pill permanently years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 10:31 PM
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I ordinarily would be against this advice.... But now? Hell yeah get out if you can
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 10:30 PM
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Without getting into details i know many developmentally impaired individuals with healthy relationships with women on the spectrum or have some other issue going on. Try to get out more if you can and meet your "tribe".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 05:41 PM
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I’m autistic, have terrible motor skills, no friends, no hobbies, incredibly picky eater, and am just boring Ah ok got it. Sorry about that man. Have you tried therapy?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 05:35 PM
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You are probably right. Blessings to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 05:31 PM
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Why? And i need answers that doesn't involve your looks. I'm uglier than you and i got dates all the time when i was blue pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 05:28 PM
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Buddy get an escort and get it over with.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 05:27 PM
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Nah, if she's not into it leave her alone. Cheating is horrible, but being accused of pressuring anyone into sex in a relationship is much much worse these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 05:42 AM
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Escalate and watch her body language... If she backs off, give her space and try again. The second time she says no, end the encounter.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 04:05 AM
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Same, don't get pregnant or don't get any STDs. I will never get married, so a woman's promiscuous past is not my concern.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 04:03 AM
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If you fall into a pattern of pairing up with abusive people (as i did in the past) something is definitely wrong with the victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 03:26 AM
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Sounds like victim blaming. It is. people will only do to you what you allow, as a victim of traumatic experiences, i was wrong for staying around when i should have exited the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 03:26 AM
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You are either an adult who makes decisions and deals with the consequences, or you are a child who needs a paternal figure to guide you through life.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 02:50 AM
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Didn't say they did. But they aren't passive bystanders either.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 02:49 AM
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The common denominator is them, male or female.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 10:27 PM
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Or they are just oblivious and are lying by omission?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 01:03 PM
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Because if they actually extolled the positive virtues of the relationship, other people would judge them. Women do this ... Some men too. The idea is to perpetually portray themselves as victims, never the aggressor or co conspirator.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 01:02 PM
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I know girls who shoot down guys they're hooking up with that want relationships Because she might be having sex with multiple men and doesn't want to be exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 11:43 AM
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They are. Last time someone debated me , i found that 40% of the women were ok with being single moms. As long as they can get that kid by a high value Chad, everything else will be taken care of by the government.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 11:45 AM
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It doesn't. The trp is not a cult or a religion, its a general guideline or a map if you must. Nobody gives you exact information, they tell you what you need to know and encourage you to use that information responsibly.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 09:38 PM
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Check out BPD and see if she fits. Having an abusive ex is how i found the red pill.
/r/askMRP12/02/22 08:51 PM
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Stop, go out and do something fun instead.
/r/askMRP12/02/22 01:14 AM
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No. He should absolutely bin her shit and take time with his son instead. If her mood has improved, cool she can come along with them and enjoy the day.
/r/askMRP12/02/22 01:13 AM
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The silent treatment makes me think she's a narc, unfortunately because you have children you should stick this out. Become the bigger asshole she desires, keep lifting, read, STFU.
/r/askMRP12/02/22 01:11 AM
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Most people are average, women tend to think they are better than men because they have tits. Side note, titties are awesome so there's that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 12:09 AM
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Interesting, thank you for your responses, i have learned alot.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 02:04 PM
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However, they tend to have lower birth rates than Orthodox Jews This makes sense. Religious couples tend to have more children than their secular counterparts. I recently learned that in the developed world, only Israel has enough births to replace the ageing population. I suspect government incentives and religion has a hand in that. Orthodox is a minority Side note, I've visited Lakewood in NJ, i thought it was fascinating. I would estimate 60-80% of the town is Orthodox.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 01:55 PM
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Ah gotcha. I think i tend to conflate the religion with the people who identify as jewish? Confusing i know.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 11:47 AM
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we are growing. Good. Jews are generally a small group Im guessing this is in the US not globally right?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 11:42 AM
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Oh ok. Orthodox jews are a very small group no?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 08:15 AM
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Cool. I did not know jewish match makers existed
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 01:37 AM
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Oh, no im not new i was curious. I can see how offensive. I think some men are permanently stuck on red pill rage, they can't grow beyond it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 01:37 AM
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Im guessing you're indian?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 12:58 AM
2

Any specific examples that stuck out to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 12:44 AM
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No we shame fat betas all the time. Women are men must become.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 12:43 AM
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Being aware is good, what they do with that information is entirely up to them. I like that simps are being shamed publicly by everyone, that is a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 12:33 AM
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Women tie their sexual attractiveness to their self worth/relationship worth. In the minds of many, if Chad thinks she's good enough for sex, she should be good enough for a long term relationship with Chad or a man like Chad. Obviously this isn't true and it creates problems further down the line.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 12:33 AM
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The only problem is that they can't get that man. Chad is unattainable to most women. He can pump and dump as much as he wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 04:39 PM
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I don't think they care anymore, seriously. Every woman under 25 brags about how sexually promiscuous/fluid/ unhinged they are. Tattoos and purple hair is the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 12:05 PM
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TRP is not for everyone, and it's definitely not geared towards women. It's information given to men who need it and will apply it to their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 03:07 PM
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If you happen to be average and don't self-improve, then your genes die with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 01:02 AM
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Do you know how expensive daycare is? She can run a small online business and stay at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 07:08 AM
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Dont conflate living with, to being born to single moms. Im guessing the step father's step up after the single mom has had her "fun"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 01:14 AM
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being born in single-parent(mom) households. https://www.statista.com/statistics/276025/us-percentage-of-births-to-unmarried-women/
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 01:13 AM
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50% of all American children are being born in single-parent(mom) households. The number will jump to 82% when everything is said and done. Women arent settling, but they are not abstaining from procreating. The ones who don't have children, fill the void with pets, and of course have mental health challenges that come with being pumped and dumped by the chads. More children,less families,more male virgins and obviously a very fractured and very divided society.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 09:16 PM
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But you wouldn't be attracted to a man who is too eager to get married. Attraction is not voluntary, we like what we like.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 04:05 AM
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Yea, Willing to give commitment easily lets her know you are low value. They will deny it, but it is what it is
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 04:03 AM
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Please dont pump and dump me for the 60th time. Im tired of getting my hopes up even though i suck as a person- woman on dating website.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 04:00 AM
1

Agreed. The height thing is a good intro, but you still need game. On my end the most successful chad ive seen is 5' 7" ish. Multiple businesses, lifts, has a never ending revolving door of women( nothing spectacular, mostly plain jane types, but alot).
/r/TheRedPill27/01/22 03:58 AM
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He's 6'4" and love bombs the women. Basically beta tactics but he is smart about it. As soon as he gets what he wants, he is out the door.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/22 03:34 PM
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Hypergamy.the woman has to be absolutely sure you are the man she wants. Sex can result in a baby,who wants babies by undesirable men?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 11:22 AM
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Lol nah everytime I've been in a vegas casino, usually, someone is giving out free drinks. They don't care until you start to lose your shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 11:21 AM
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Only if they are belligerent. Otherwise free drinks at most tables, they don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 11:19 AM
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Imagine if she blew some guy outside the bar with some witnesses and withdrew consent the next day? I bet there is a judge crazy enough to consider it assault or grape. M'lady can not consent you see, even if both of you are intoxicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 11:18 AM
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How likely is it that some guy is 6'6 260? Hell even 5'11, 180 when the average male height is 5" 9- 5" 10'? If in all cases the woman was saying no and pushing the guy off,do you think MOST men would proceed? No. Most guys meet a drunk woman, have sex with her, and don't think too much of it UNTIL some police officer shows up at the door. Regretting having sex with someone because you happened to be drunk is not the same as some guy forcing himself onto the victim in question. I would bet many …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 11:14 AM
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Hypergamy enforced by the state and blue pill men. The woman has to be 100% sober to pick her mating partner....otherwise what if he's undesirable and she made a mistake? Now she's stuck with a baby by and undesirable man. The idea that she felt violated after the fact only means she made a mistake. If she accidentally fucked a top tier Chad,do you think she would see it as a problem? No. It is only a problem if the guy in question is the type of man she would never sleep with in a million years…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 11:04 AM
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ETA: Best sex I’ve ever had wasn’t in my crazy toxic relationships. It’s with my current partner who makes me feel secure and safe and very, very loved. Good for you. Id link the study that had information about 62% of women having a fantasy about non consentual sex with someone significantly stronger than them. I guess i found the other 38% /s I’m specifically talking about wanting a healthy relationship here And there is nothing wrong with that desire. My point was that good relationships are …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 03:10 PM
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because I feel like he’s invested in our relationship. So I’d argue the the TRP route won’t lead to long term satisfaction or a good relationship. And a good relationship where both people are happy is the key to more sex. ETA: key No, sex is about physical attraction. Nothing more. Women have crazy passionate sex with toxic men they can't stand everyday. So I’d argue the the TRP route won’t lead to long term satisfaction or a good relationship A long term relationship is playing TRP on hard mod…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 12:13 PM
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Yes. It has to be a rollercoaster. Beta men keep the ship moving smoothly and rarely have any conflicts... That makes everything boring and predictable. A good relationship will require some beta ways. You can't be alpha god chad thunder dick 24/7/365. It will make your woman uncomfortable and she will leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 12:10 PM
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No, the covid jab.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 12:06 PM
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The only caveat to that would be a rape charge like it has happened in India. Don't commit, just let her get bored and have her leave you alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 10:10 PM
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This.
/r/askMRP23/01/22 09:58 PM
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Hopefully they get their 50th booster shot.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 01:12 PM
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If the apps worked very well, eventually everyone would get off and they couldn't make a profit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 09:38 PM
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I think most women want comfort and security. A guy who earns more is a good bet she wont ever need to worry about money.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 03:23 PM
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Good. They both bring baggage and headaches for "love" to conquer /s
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 02:07 PM
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a bunch of childless simps on the tap... Scarcity mindset. Guy thinks it's the best he can do .. and even if it is, why settle? Single moms are a bad investment all around.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 02:06 PM
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What would be the new age word for this? CoHabParen?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 03:52 AM
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Single dads and single moms should get together and make blended families.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 02:36 AM
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All of this is correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 11:23 AM
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Women have always cheated better than men. Infidelity in my opinion has always been about opportunity,not morality. A top-tier Chad will probably cheat because he has access to sex. A fat overweight stay at home mom who is bored has more opportunities for sex than aforementioned Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 04:14 AM
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Numbers still show men cheat a lot more than women, This isn't true for past generations( paternity fraud revelations by ancestral DNA websites like ancestry.com) and it is false according to Millennials surveyed some years back. I will link the study.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 04:12 AM
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It can be argued both can be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 12:44 PM
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For others, im staying fit so i can fuck more women. The fortunate side effect is that i keep my physical health intact as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 12:44 PM
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You can't afford more children, you are already poor. Let her file, she would be doing you a favor. Hold off ok getting a better job because child support. Your focus should be lifting and getting ready for whatever outcome. My guess is she is already a single mom and has her family as back up. You should be working on saving yourself, this relationship is very likely already over.
/r/askMRP18/01/22 07:26 AM
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Will do, thank you for being respectful in some of your responses. Good talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 11:04 AM
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You need to lower your standards, as much as they do. I've seen what that can do, three generations of dysfunction. If I can't find a normal woman who comes from a stable home like myself, i guess I'll die alone with a dog of course. all men who didn't have a stable household with a father are useless" except if they were in dysfunctional family dynamics with an abusive father then they are also useless Both things can be true at the same time... I think their willingness to learn how to be a ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 09:37 AM
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There is no replacement for a father. Your father is the foundation for how you relate to the men. Yes they are screwed but cbt therapy might help avoid some of the obstacles that they face.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 08:55 AM
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women need tips to attract serious commitment from the type of man they'd want it from? Absolutely. No. She should know based on having a competent father in the home. If the man doesn't have the same traits(assuming he was a good dad) she would know. I tell you guys all the time, running game on genuinely good women doesn't work. They immediately see it for what it is and end all communication.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 03:35 AM
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I think alot of FDS disciples and black pill doomers are on the spectrum. Think about it, they see things in a very black and white sort of way. There are no nuances or exceptions, they tend to think in absolutes. If they spent more time in therapy and less time on the internet, I'm sure they would have less trouble dating. Of course the dating market is fucked, but come on man finding a normal man or woman within your social circle isn't hard(it never was for me even as blue pill nice guy at th…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 03:33 AM
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Our patron saint Kevin Samuels.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 03:02 AM
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They could be black too, context matters. The second half is the most widely accepted definition of high value.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 03:02 AM
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Not really, but i worry about being the older dad. I see the problems my peers have with their wives/girlfriend's and i feel relieved not having those problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 10:35 PM
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Interesting theory, why do you think then,female teachers are going after some of their students?( im sure more would if it wasn't illegal)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 12:45 AM
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Oh yea I've been one. She might sleep with you, or use you as a rebound but if the guy was more interesting than you, emotionally she is tied to him instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 05:57 PM
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Canadian?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 04:28 PM
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Ideally sure, but my red pill awareness informs me otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 04:28 PM
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No. Relationships,even the best ones end eventually. Look at Karl Drogo just got divorced. The guy is 6ft 5 and a good-looking beta guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 04:13 PM
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Being beta works in the short term,so try and get everything you want out of the relationship upfront. Eventually when she loses attraction,you can let her go.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 04:12 PM
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Being beta will end the relationship. You go from being assertive and being in charge, to going to being soft and needy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 02:15 PM
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No restart. Think of every relationship as a learning opportunity.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 02:15 PM
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Don't get married, everything else you can control. Don't pump and dump,just become beta and they will leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 01:01 PM
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I agree. Very insightful
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 11:50 AM
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Im blindfolded and she has a bag over her head, see romance.
/r/askMRP07/01/22 08:59 PM
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Attention. A hawt Chad might be single nand and why not show him what he can get?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 02:58 PM
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Anal with Chad and none with me. Definitely a deal breaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 05:53 AM
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Sarcasm do you understand any of it old man?
/r/askMRP07/01/22 03:32 AM
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Especially while doing missionary.
/r/askMRP06/01/22 08:41 AM
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Pete Davidson has BPD. Of course women love the guy, he is incredibly unstable and probably treats them like shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 08:23 AM
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I agree with this assessment... But i also know women can be dumb, just take time and get to know what she likes and charm your way into her pants. Dont be hideous, have good hygiene and get her relaxed enough to put out. You will never be as attractive as the Chad's, but you can get laid if you know what you are doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:32 AM
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Very light gaming, only when bonding with your children. Otherwise no. I stopped gaming cold turkey when i turned 30. I have other important shit to do.
/r/askMRP03/01/22 01:43 AM
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I've said the same. Michael Phelps or guys built like him will beat out body builders in most cases. But if you aren't Michael Phelps, please hit the gym, get a better haircut and develop your social skills to compensate for not being 6ft2.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:53 AM
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Guy number two looks like me if he was black... That being said he will not get as much attention as the other guy with blonde hair. Nobody ever said being jacked beats out good looks... But if the second guy was 400 pounds he would never get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:48 AM
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Bro those seem like good boundaries, she acted masculine and bitchy did you release her to the streets? No. You don't need to control everything. When she's being annoying ask her pointedly and immediately to cut that shit out
/r/askMRP01/01/22 10:09 AM
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People prefer the people who they are used to not a shocker.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 04:04 AM
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This is an obvious answer. Did he explain his boundaries to her before she became a girlfriend? If so what are the consequences that come with that? A fucking massage?
/r/askMRP01/01/22 03:02 AM
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Bro maybe this sounded good in your mind, but it sounded retarded and autistic as fuck. Check her bad behavior, let her know you don't appreciate her tone and leave it at that. Give her a warning and provide a consequence. Dont be the idiot who controls every aspect of the relationship down to what shoes she wears.
/r/askMRP01/01/22 02:57 AM
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Looks get you in the door, your personality is what gets you laid. If You're a chad with a 15 inch dick with a terrible personality, you will not get laid as often as you should. Looks are important, you can't look hideous try to dress well and have good hygiene. Lastly for fucks sake get off the internet and make friends, you can get more action through meeting people online than swiping right on tinder for hours. Online dating is a joke, stop using it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:11 AM
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To me in all honesty the relationship is a lot better without small children Even parents with children understand this. I'm not disputing the time freedom, I'm more curious about some guy meeting the woman of his dreams and having zero desire to start a family with her. That is incredibly rare in my opinion. Most have the desire, but they decide for pragmatic reasons not to. In theory i would be an excellent dad, but in reality i couldn't find the time to raise a child or to be there for them l…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 11:48 AM
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I agree, im not nice but i get along fine with people. I can talk to virtually anyone about anything. That gives me an edge in social situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 11:45 AM
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Interesting. Thank you for being honest. We had to come back, the mother was upset, i was too but i wanted to travel and not having children made it easier for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 11:41 AM
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You didn't answer my question, what would you do?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 11:39 AM
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The kid fell and broke his leg playing soccer. He is really good BTW.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 11:37 AM
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The US. I have traveled all across Europe. My best times have been in Spain and Germany.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 11:33 AM
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Lmao. German women shit test harder than others sure, but it's all a front. I have had sex with one who was 6'2" it's not impossible, but i also have an awesome personality and have traveled alot. Work on that too bro. You shouldn't only be about working.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 11:28 AM
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You should be paying for it. You can earn money online with your talents. Bro how are you not getting laid in Germany? I get plenty of action whenever I visit. Fuck one time i randomly made a friend at the airport waiting for a taxi.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 11:21 AM
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I don't disagree. That's why the new step dad should maintain his place in the family.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 10:00 PM
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Everyone loses. Especially the kids. You are absolutely right the children need their mothers and fathers.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 09:55 PM
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Very interesting thank you for sharing. It would seem this is an outlier case,especially custody being split. Most judges would rather the kids stay with the mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 09:22 PM
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Self improve and become better than you are. Eventually you will get a decent woman,she will be somewhat resentful because she was pumped and dumped through her 20s, but you won't care because you are awesome and life is good.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 07:47 PM
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Even if he was your age,if he doesn't fit your physical preference its a no. This isn't a problem,just understand it may not be possible to find someone to be faithful because the men you prefer are also preferred by other women who look just as good as you or better. He will be spoiled for choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 07:29 PM
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Even worse she gets pumped and dumped but has no clue why those guys don't stick around.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 06:30 PM
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Lmao yea. But to be fair most women are solipsistic in their thinking, if they can't find attractive men then the dating pool is ruined in their opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 06:21 PM
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Yes, but a good dad means you are the patient provider type women love AFTER getting pregnant by the guy with better genes than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 04:34 PM
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OP trains with Jason Statham. Makes sense, he just looks like he could kill the entire planet.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 11:16 AM
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Listen to what someone said, it's usually famous guys, the good looking guys, then the body builders. Not saying body builders don't get action, but most of them can't dress and they can't avoid talking about fitness.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 11:09 AM
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Alpha male strategies was a bouncer/security guy with his own company before his videos took off on YouTube. he was getting women from clubs all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 11:06 AM
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Oh no i was being modest, lol. I lived a full life in my 20's. I can no longer do that in my 30's, im building businesses and working towards early retirement. I can't suddenly take a spur of the moment trip to Peru because i found cheap flights.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 04:12 PM
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No i didn't mean it like that, I meant i think it's impressive, most women aren't adventurous. I won't go into why this is a red flag, but good for you for taking initiative and living life on your own terms.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 03:24 PM
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I like that you have hobbies and are out going. Unfortunately because i believe in the red pill, i would also view that as a strong red flag. But i absolutely think it's awesome that you are not afraid to try new experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 03:02 PM
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Several psychedelic experiences, especially DMT This is actually interesting. Going to a seven tier waterfall in Croatia and spending the day there This too. Nowadays, most my excitement is sourced from either sex, BDSM or regular missionary? Missionary sex is boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 12:45 PM
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I've made lots of incredible memories through experiences, Top three? If you're comfortable sharing that is?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 12:31 PM
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Hmm.... I'll bite, what makes yours exceptional or exciting?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 12:22 PM
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Exactly. Life is incredibly predictable and boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 01:56 AM
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Drunk woman, tried to give me oral and she threw up. The end.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 12:03 AM
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Nobody gets sexually successful without trying. I've had someone throw up on me. Traumatizing sure, but after a while i got back out there
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 06:20 PM
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Share the data sis I'm curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 06:28 AM
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the men on this thread think that having a high body count makes a woman not wife/GF material. The consensus is that even a high body count man should be looking for a low body count girl for LTR. This was based on data not subjective opinion. Plenty of data on paid bonding and divorce, the mgtows can't wait to debate with stats in hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 03:53 AM
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They don't unless you had sex with a guy or was pegged. Oh and hookers. This very question came up years ago on this sub. Women listed their deal breakers when it came to a man's sexual past. If you've been fucking a lot, it might mean you are great in bed and women love that. Don't brag about fucking, but by all means don't disclose, let them find out organically.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 03:51 AM
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Oh good. Just curious if you were.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 03:43 AM
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i can do one better
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 03:42 AM
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Oh... Interesting. Have you heard about "love map" or "imprint"?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 02:08 AM
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Do you like fat chicks or do you like fat chicks because that's your comfort zone?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 01:36 AM
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I wouldn't, but my dick tried once and it never took off if you know what im saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 01:35 AM
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Bad hygiene, substance abuse, not feminine, abortions, STDs, argumentative, promiscuity. The list is endless,but that's what comes to mind in my opinion. A low-value man is an unproductive male. He is content with being nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 12:18 PM
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No. I've met a few actual "10's" in the entertainment industry, they just exist. Men and women fall all over themselves doing favors for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 02:25 PM
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They are having casual sex with men far far out of their league. A drunk Chad doesn't care if she comes or not, he has other women on speed dial. In the case of relationship sex not being satisfying? Guess what, the man usually is not remotely her type. They aren't compatible because he doesn't arouse her as much as she was with previous partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 12:12 PM
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Meaning if a woman is actively fucking multiple other men and being promiscuous, There’s something wrong with her. Even psychologists know this Are you saying women who committed paternity fraud over thousands of years are mentally ill?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 10:09 AM
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prostitutes. LOL are you kidding me are we that desperate ? Not really, there are hundreds of thousands of men who are locked out of the sexual market place. Not saying they will chase down drug addicts, but if the opportunity presents itself they can't really say no can they?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 10:02 AM
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Make yourself more desirable is sage advice. Everything else is bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 08:39 PM
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The women with options mostly choose the best option they have instead of rotating all the options in a polygamous relationship. So your claim doesn't align with the reality. Nothing you have communicated on here makes sense. Are women fucking multiple men or not? My claim was that they are, rising rates of infidelity and paternity fraud points to this. If you have evidence of a different reality, please share the information with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 08:38 PM
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Not knowing doesn't mean they don't exist was my point. The existence of homeless, drug- addicted pregnant women proves men will do anything for sexual access.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 08:36 PM
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Historically,men kept harems,had multiple wives,sought out prostitutes while most women married one man and stayed with him till death (divorce was exception in the past not the norm) Not true. Most men couldn't afford to live like ghengis khan. most women married one man and stayed with him till death (divorce was exception in the past not the norm). Ancestry.com is dispelling this myth. Those women were actively cucking their absentee husbands. Women in 21st century are financially stable so t…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 12:32 PM
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Poly by definition means many partners. I was talking about monogamy. No woman on earth is disciplined enough to be monogamous for her entire life. Not one. Monogamous marriage is doomed, but poly relationships are much much worse. It's just some guy coping and hoping his princess will eventually get tired of the carousel and run back home to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 12:00 PM
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Women have good options even on the lesbian side. No one is telling women to have sex with men they don't find attractive, im saying having heterosexual sex with a man is always possible for 99% of the women. For 30% of the men, they can't have gay or heterosexual sex. I remember a few years back, a bisexual man on this sub said he had higher standards for the men he dates as opposed to women. It thought that was fascinating, a man turning down another man because he didn't find him attractive e…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 11:36 AM
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I can't speak for the entire population, but i listen to some talk about their work on personal podcasts and some say they do. If this seems unlikely, i would urge you to listen to more porn actresses talk about their experiences in the sex industry.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 11:32 AM
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I don't know a single man who would view the drug addicted, homeless prostitute an actual option for sex. If you do, I have good news for you - you can have sex at every corner Keep in mind you have unsuccessfully tried to shame 1.4 billion men from having sex with drug addicted prostitutes. How do you think these women end up pregnant? There are actually stats on pregnant, homeless, drug addicted moms. If this wasn't common, statistically they wouldn't even show up in any survey or study.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 11:31 AM
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It's less complicated sure. Couples swinging is more about sex and less about having multiple people in one relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 08:19 AM
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Being open minded won't save an underachieving, overweight, working class male. Women want what they want, most will not have sex with a man they don't find desirable in any way.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 06:21 AM
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Men can separate the two, women can't. A guy can fuck a homeless drug addicted prostitute and go home a happy man.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 06:20 AM
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I hope you’re not suggesting women in porn actually orgasm, Listen to their respective podcasts. Some women do, some dont. remotely enjoy their ‘work’? Some do, but most dont. Lonely fans has been a game changer, they can now shoot porn with their boyfriends, sugar daddies or husbands.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 06:19 AM
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This isn't a fair or reasonable comparison. A poly cuck protects and provides for the woman while she gets to fuck everything and anything she likes. Those other men don't do anything beyond providing orgasms.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 04:11 AM
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It's mostly women. Men don't really have that kind of sexual access, even the top good looking guys can't successfully build a harem.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 04:10 AM
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That's like offering someone rotten food, and then telling them they have plenty of options, and to stop complaining about being hungry. Oh, i misunderstood. In general yes women have plenty of access to sex, they can't find quality men because most men are below average in everything they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 04:05 AM
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The risks out weigh the benefits in every conceivable way.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 10:44 PM
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My gut instinct when I see this kind of thing? She got dicked by someone else or came awful close to it (Oh I just sucked his dick, that's not real sex). This becomes trust but verify territory. Brother i had the exact same thoughts, her becoming cold probably means she slept with someone else.
/r/askMRP12/12/21 12:06 AM
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She cheated and found out what a taste of freedom looks like. Not really a problem. You have no children together, she's older and about to hit the wall, why not start over? Staying in this relationship is a mistake, exit with some dignity and let her find happiness somewhere else.
/r/askMRP12/12/21 12:05 AM
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Therapy is feminine... Yet they struggle with establishing basics human relationships, make it make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 03:04 AM
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Oh boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 09:58 PM
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Most of their problems stemmed from very bad self esteem and having a toxic family or friend group Sounds probable. Most of those young men need guidance and therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 02:53 AM
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Kinda need to work on the maturity part because we will roast each other in a playful manner and we love cringy stuff. This is actually good. Love doesn't last forever, you learn to grow beyond that. I feel like the lucky one because he actually communicates with me so as a result we don’t really argue or have disagreements, not saying we don’t have our moments but we both wanted our relationship to be founded on maturity and trust and open communication Sounds good. Like i said, i hope this las…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 02:52 AM
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Cool. Thank you for sharing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 02:51 AM
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Wow, he got incredibly lucky. I hope the relationship lasts forever, but if not at least you both tried.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 12:43 AM
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Im curious could they legit not get laid or they were hung up on the blue pill fantasy of finding some Stacy who would love them despite all the issues they potentially had?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 12:42 AM
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Her overall attitude towards it is what would affect how i feel. She had anal and liked it? Cool. As long as she's open to exploring sexually as she did with Chad then fuck yea that's good. The reality is that very very few women can or will want to replicate what they had with their gigachad. Not saying it doesn't happen, but it's very unlikely she would want that with her dutiful beta.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 12:38 AM
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Anal is in, starfish is out
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 12:27 AM
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Interesting. How old is he? And how old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 10:23 PM
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Incase you haven't noticed i was being sarcastic.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 10:22 PM
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But he wasn't someone you were attracted to. By your admission it was soul crushing no?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 10:22 PM
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. I would never marry someone that doesn't excite me sexually. Been there done that Do you understand you just made my point.you married someone you didn't care about, he didn't excite you sexually. Tell me did you experiment sexually with this person?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 06:35 PM
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So you aren't solipsistic and haven't left an old relationship for a new one? Congratulations you are more self disciplined than most women. Those traits are passed onto you through evolution, not some evil force.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 06:34 PM
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What? Vodka, re education camps i mean what better adventure is out there?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 06:32 PM
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Your experience isn't the norm, congratulations on your marriage. Try to keep this one longer than 20 years, jk
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 06:31 PM
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Women are not a monolith, but female nature is. Well I guess a lot of us are defective then since we don’t act crazy. Female nature has nothing to do with mental health or anything remotely close to mental health. Solipsism, monkey branching, shit testing, AF/BB the usual bullshit, that and a few others is what you should always expect from every woman. A break up isn't devastating if you understand hypergamy. A shit test isn't aggravating if you understand female nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 01:56 PM
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I was thinking stealing a poster while drunk on north korean vodka is something Jesus would want me to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 01:54 PM
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How’d you meet them? I traveled to Japan regularly before covid. They seem to think that submissive means dumb doormat who lets you walk all over them but smiles and nods. The media portrayal of Asian women influenced them basically. Unfortunately most of them rarely traveled or have been outside the US. Side note i keep thinking i should make a trip to North Korea, do you think that is a bad idea?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 01:00 PM
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And I care about the lives of a sketchy CEO and some actor because? Ah solipsism. Found the mythical NAWALT. While acting like women are one monolith but then getting mad when people make generalizations about men. Women are not a monolith, but female nature is. when people make generalizations about men. Nobody gets offended about generalizations about men. The only time it might be considered is when all men are lumped in with the dregs of society, ie murderers and rapists.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 12:57 PM
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So you guys kinda are the same in the sense they you guys think women are fundamental evil, not flawed evil, and every little action is specifically done to get this elusive muscular Chad or Tyrone trope fellow or somehow screw over nice men. That’s about as nuanced as it gets with the exceptions of a few people they can explain otherwise. Kinda FDS-y actually 😬 This is an over simplification. The MRA movement and the red pill are not the same. They have different goals. Women aren't evil or fla…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 12:40 PM
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Oh you're asian? Cool. Yeah some men seem to think Asian women are more submissive, not really the case in my experience. Every Japanese chick I've known had some sort of personality disorder, that isn't to say you are Japanese or have a personality disorder.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 12:30 PM
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Real life, noticed some odd rhetoric and ended up going down the rabbit hole Humor me, what did you look up or Google to end up on the TRP/MRA blogs. Not a Christian either. Apostle Paul is responsible for most if not all of the new testament. That bit of information is important if you seek to understand Christianity. I'm an atheist so i couldn't care less, but if i ever need to criticize a religion, it is important for me to understand it's basic tenets.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 12:14 PM
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Interesting, thank you for sharing. have my needs and that is what is important
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:56 AM
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Most of the blog posts, AVFM before things got worse and I used to look at some TRP YouTubers Ahh this makes sense. You conflate the men's rights movement with TRP. They seem similar, but I assure you we are not the same. They want laws changed, we don't care. Once you understand women everything else comes easy. Never heard of the Rollo guy until recently but I probably read some of his stuff. Rollo's work is the foundation of the red pill. It's like being Christian and never reading about apos…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:54 AM
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Bravo my good man. Also your ex being pretty and intelligent should keep things interesting in your current relationship. Smart man
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:49 AM
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What if she initiated more with her previous partners, would you feel any different?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:47 AM
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The love of your life may not be the most attractive man you've ever had sex with. Don't conflate desire and love. The women on the cheating sub swear they all love their husbands, but they need some excitement to spice up their otherwise boring sex lives
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:46 AM
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We all have a price. Eventually if the saudi billionaire is persistent enough, you will let him do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:44 AM
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You do understand female nature isn't something you would understand because you aren't subjected to it right?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:43 AM
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If you have a weed guy, ask him how many women paid for weed by sucking his dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:41 AM
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Bingo. The timeline, OP conveniently conflated both.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:41 AM
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Lmao touche stranger on the internet. But more importantly, you dated thugs and drug dealers in your youth... Once you got through college and have a career, you will only settle for a beta bux who is much taller and doing better than you financially.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:40 AM
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Where are you from SA?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:39 AM
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And yet strangers keep having kinky sex with little to no boundaries. I keep thinking women downplay how much men value absolute submission when it comes to sex. Somewhere somehow, a pair of good looking strangers hooked up yesterday and had the nastiest, kinkiest sex known to both of them... She was happy, he was probably surprised it happened. She would absolutely let him do it again... But 10 years from now if she decided to get married, she will not do it for her life partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:38 AM
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I'm not hung up on the scat analogy, but you are absolutely right.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:35 AM
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It would and it wouldn't. It all depends on how invested she is in this relationship, and whether or not scat play was something she really enjoyed or did it for the express pleasure of her former exes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:34 AM
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Source? I've never heard about this, i would like the proper context. If it involves sex,i could see how some men may view it as gas lighting. since I was 17, Side note,why were you a 17-year-old girl interested in the red pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:15 AM
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This isn't the red pill sub. Most men are never going to be truly red-pilled. Disagreeing with a woman over her boundaries isn't something I've ever seen or heard from other men who are red pilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 10:37 AM
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That's not true. A person having boundaries doesn't make them a bitch. Now if turning down sex is her boundary? Maybe, consider the fact that she sucked, fucked, swallowed everything she could when she was on the carousel. The only reason she won't do it now is because she's not attracted to you. That's not her being bitchy or unreasonable, it's just her not having genuine desire for that person.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 10:16 AM
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Her boundaries mean nothing. Her willing to respect and let you have those boundaries in the relationship is what counts. Her being a bitch means nothing, she can be whoever she wants, she just wont be with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 12:23 AM
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Attraction can't be negotiated, she did what she did with those men because physically they were her type. Being an ugly asshole won't get you laid, but being charming and ugly will.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 11:07 PM
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gaslighting or being a bitch anymore? Interesting. This was never a thing, unless it came from a different time before 2015 when i discovered TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 01:01 AM
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People change all the time, like that preachers wife who turned into a lonely fans whore. Be ready to enforce your boundaries at all times. Boundaries work better than vetting, as soon as something you don't like happens just ghost that person.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 11:19 PM
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Oh man someone reported this?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 05:41 AM
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I’m doing just fine. I’m just playing with you dog Cool story bro, but ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 12:06 AM
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Even thought you said I’m a bitch that will never find love 🤪 Projection much? I said you were insufferable and eventually men will figure that out. Finding someone to love you with your affliction will be a challenge,but it's not impossible. Listen therapy will help you make better choices, ignore it at your own peril.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 12:01 AM
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They already are. How hard her/they clit gets for someone will always override common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 11:54 PM
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Unfortunately attraction isn't tied to common sense. Do whatever makes you happy, or arouses you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 11:53 PM
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Yes. That's the demographic. You'd also be surprised to see how many women support those types of men provided they have above average looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 07:58 PM
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Oh shocker, lol not. Not my place to say this, but because of how young you are, please avoid casual dating because it will damage you long term. The chef is your best option at this time. He will break your heart and teach you a valuable life lesson. Your attraction to the other simp wont grow, it never does. Lastly just a bit of therapy, I'm not trying to be an ass but i promise you it will make you better at making decisions while selecting men for relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 07:57 PM
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Marriage rates are plummeting and almost 30% of the men are sexless. Again this is a reflection of women's mating choices, basically trying to punch far out of their league looks wise.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 07:46 PM
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The other half are smart enough to get an abortion. I don't know about you, but if it was up to me I'd only have sex with the women who are 10's. Tinder makes this possible for most women, not so much the men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 07:45 PM
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They’d be better off alone than with many of those men This statement isn't rooted in reality. Those women you speak about haven't or couldn't accomplish anything without the existence of the men around them. Law and order, structure, hell basically everything is maintained by those men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 07:36 PM
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Barely scratches the surface, but I'm intrigued. You do realize eventually ALL the men you've been with figured you out?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 07:35 PM
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Granted, I don't know how common this situation is. Very. Half the children born in the United States are born to single moms. The father couldn't be bothered with anything other than ejaculation and evacuation.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 07:34 PM
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This isn't true. But I'm also not going to argue with you about it. All I know is that if a woman finds the man attractive enough, like ted bundy she will overlook all his short comings. The barrier to entry is basically whether or not you match her physical type, not whatever attributes she pretends to be attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 07:31 PM
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You’re kinda daft Ahh there you are, lol i was waiting.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 07:29 PM
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The specific guy I’m thinking of was very open to me that I’m the hottest whether it’s true or not it was just part of the fun of the experience and was almost like a role play thing. It was very powerful for me. You're the hottest girl I've ever been with is a complement, you reacting by saying well the only reason I'm with you is because you aren't attractive and will treat me better than the other more attractive men I've hooked up with is obviously emasculating. Not trying to come across as …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 06:46 PM
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the guy is always in on the joke with me You'd be surprised how much shit some guys take in exchange for sexual access. If you have a brother, run that joke by him and see what he says. I can assure you the reaction would be the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 06:43 PM
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I wasn't talking about you. The statement you made was general "women should be more picky" ,not Orange Paisley should be more picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 06:42 PM
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powerful about knowing you’re the hottest girl a guys ever been with and how they treat you so I’ll just say that lmao I know this sounds ok to you and other women... But to a straight, regular guy this sounds emasculating and downright disrespectful. Some guys will stick around, but it will break his tender spirit to think his girlfriend/wife doesn't think much of him.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 05:52 PM
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Right? There's a crop of top tier chads just waiting and hoping to get a chance with m'lady.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 05:50 PM
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Yes they are. If a woman has been on tinder or any dating app she knows what's available. She's not going to settle for some pudgy plumber when she saw a hawt personal trainer with a lambo and no dependents.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 05:40 PM
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Yes, but it's not a problem unless you don't understand that love is a transaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 01:23 PM
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I mean you could hypothetically ask to be executed at one of those 6 star resorts they always advertise on tv.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 03:47 AM
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Me neither. Replacing a functioning democracy with a theocracy is the easiest way to destroy a once thriving economy. Those places look like shit now, with the exception of maybe Dubai and some parts of Saudi Arabia.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 10:09 PM
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K miss lipstick, you enjoy the rest of your evening.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 10:06 PM
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Exactly. They had more freedom than their western contemporaries of that time. Fascinating to think about.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 09:51 PM
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mostly about people spending more years in school and spending more years living at home. Scrotes can't provide, got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 09:50 PM
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Are you high? Who is complaining about anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 09:49 PM
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Umm speak for yourself hun, pornstars are the shit. Rent yourself one and you will understand what im saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 08:22 PM
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I think sex work should be legal. The average prostitute is going to be better company than the average civilian woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 07:40 PM
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Cool, write a book/blog and help men get laid. They would greatly benefit from your perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 11:31 AM
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Lol what exactly do they bring? Kids? Debt? Mental health issues? I'm i missing something?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 08:36 PM
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Killed no. Shamed and publicly humiliated yes. Funny thing is those countries were very liberal before the first and second world war, it was only after the theocracy took over that things went south. If you look at pictures and documentaries of Afghanistan, Turkey, Lebanon you see a stark contrast to what is happening presently.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 11:39 AM
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Makes sense. The market needs to self regulate and sluts make it hard for them to maintain a standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 12:45 AM
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Forget value. Their personalities suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 12:44 AM
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Yes. Rollo acknowledges this in most of his broadcasts. This is much ado about nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 04:38 PM
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Sexual access. Basically women can easily get sex from good looking chads easier than they did a decade ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 03:09 AM
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And not a single one of them was worth competing with another man for LMAO. I believe you, the dating market sucks ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 03:01 AM
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Bro, there are hundreds of fat chicks who will sleep with you. Don't commit and don't get anyone pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 03:00 AM
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Lmao, for some weird reason Muslim women too. Especially in their younger years.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 10:53 PM
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Email? What girl is hooking up with email is this 2005 Incredibly sneaky i know but watch out for work email, an old married coworker I'm banging used that to cover her tracks. Those frosted flakes deserve it I mean if they'd waited a bit more before getting to know the milk they'd be fine :-(
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 10:43 AM
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If you didn't cum it wasn't cheating, or if she only blew you it's not really cheating, if you didn't kiss it's not cheating and finally my favorite if the husband doesn't get anal and you do, it's not cheating because anal.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 10:36 AM
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The majority of women who are waiting to fuck you are not secretly fucking 15 taller bigger dicked dudes behind your back the whole time. If i can confirm this by going through her texts and email,then yea she's ok by me. But guess what? Her old boyfriends are still trying to hook up with her, and that one annoying guy she slept with a few months ago. I think men should wait for sex, but they should understand her desire for you is less than she had for for other men. Somewhere in her sexual pas…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 10:33 AM
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It's confirmation you are not as exciting as you think you are. Most women have had one time stands with men they could barely remember, you are the one guy who was submissive enough to wait while beating your dick. Expect to be in a dead bedroom sometime in the future, your wife loves you sure, but deep down she knows you are too much of a nice guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 11:56 PM
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15% means 85 % of the recipients are women... Overwhelmingly these government programs benefit women and more importantly women who reproduced through their vagina. If the provision of the benefit skews to women, tell men to step up and take care of their kids more. I know you don't care but black men more than other races of men are very involved in their kid's lives. No man should wait on the government to teach him how to be responsible. What it means ls what is says: low income adults with c…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 11:19 PM
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Mrs Kamala Harris. He is the the first male to serve in his position as the stay at home dad in chief.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 11:14 PM
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regarded as a loser? Doug Emhoff enters the chat
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 10:00 PM
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Hey man,i think the question is for the other poster, but I absolutely agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 09:59 PM
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that ANY of those programs are given only to women. Again. We will wait. Low Income mothers,the motherhood part implies women only are you ok sus? transmen cant give birth,you do know that right? Do you also understand that the government can not advertise that the program expressly benefits women, because that would be a form of discrimination based on gender?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 09:58 PM
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while SAHDs are made fun of and shamed. Where is this happening? 2010?lmao. Women outnumbered men in the workforce precovid. The SAHM population now is much less than it was 10 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 12:38 PM
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I’m sure all these false narratives you’ve been reading in the manosphere feel real good when you want to rail on women, but they’re easily proven wrong with simple facts. Hmm.. you haven't debunked anything, your condition was merely having a vagina and i gave you literal examples where the only requirement is a vagina. Do you know men have zero homeless shelters? Where are the homeless shelters for transmen?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 11:53 AM
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Every school gets money from the government — subsidies, research money, tax breaks Oh so the school operates a for profit business? Cool who would have thunk. Section 8 does not make rent free. It’s a voucher program that does not cover market rate rent. Maybe in the coastal cities. In the Midwest and down south, it's more than adequate in majority of cases. About the free gas do you want to see what non profits offer free gas and used cars for single mommies?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 11:38 AM
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Do you have any idea what it costs to raise a kid? Rhetorical question of course 250k on average. Every school gets funding and subsidies from the government Wow, that global government endowment fund. Yes yes I've heard of it, it might be the reason why private student loans debt is in the trillions of dollars. nobody gets free rent in America Section 8 landlord enters the chat There is no free gas given to single moms but there is
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 11:27 AM
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don’t ever recall a landlord telling me I didn’t have to pay rent because I have a vagina. Get a baby and watch that change. Never had a dealership hand me a car or the station give me free gas for being a woman No on the car, yes on the free gas. Again have a baby, there is a government program for tax free gas for single moms. Haven’t gotten any free food from the grocery store either. Have a baby or simply apply for food stamps, don't worry about your current income most times they wont even …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 11:12 AM
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If feminism is about equality, realistically aren't women equal to men now? What are women not allowed to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 11:03 AM
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In today's world it's seen as being subservient to a man. The mainstream believe nothing should be done for the express pleasure of man, yes staying at home to raise YOUR child is seen as aiding a man's mission and that is a big no no in today's society. On the other hand if a man decided to stay home and give up his career? He would be applauded and seen as a progressive hero.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 11:02 AM
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Self improve or die.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 12:06 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 05:58 AM
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Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 08:07 PM
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Perspective Chubbs, perspective. A woman getting down on her knees and taking his member in her mouth, ultimate sign of submission.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 03:15 PM
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Yet here you are, two people fucked and came, voila you're the daily reminder of hot and sweaty sex between them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 09:14 PM
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User flair checks out.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 01:52 AM
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Yes, the men with sexual access. You can get unlimited sex with zero responsibility. As a side note you don't need to be a top tier chadrone to get laid,you need to be interesting and have a charming personality .
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 01:51 AM
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Sex is a form of submission, think about it you willingly give yourself to a guy to show him how strongly you are attracted to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 11:58 PM
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Ladies how do you feel about being "anything"?😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 09:18 PM
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They join FDS and pretend to be high value women. Most of them are on the spectrum, have below average looks and social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 10:52 AM
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Im not talking about Robert, the other kid who was a werewolf. Did he capture the attention of every teen girl at the time?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 09:29 PM
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It's some sure, nothing is absolute unless you're captain dick pics over here.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 12:26 PM
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Captain dick pics and captain blue pill working together,a love story.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 09:47 AM
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I'm arguing based on facts and scientific research. You expect women in these studies to be honest? I have repeatedly told you watch what they respond to, not what they say they respond to. Do you remember the excitement around twilight? Why do you think that was?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 07:46 AM
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Ah ok. Women don't like dangerous men got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 07:44 AM
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Because if given the opportunity (50 shades of grey anyone?) Women overwhelmingly prefer men with dark triad traits. Hell 50% ( i think) of the women in north America are single moms, who do you think impregnated these women? Kind empathetic Chad's?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 07:38 AM
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I encourage you to travel more and visit some of these prisons. Don't be the idiot on the internet who argues based on feelings and wont actually bother to verify the information.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 07:35 AM
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Do you mean the conjugal visit buses? Do two people need to “pile into” those? Whatever am I even responding to?! Lol. You're adorable.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 03:11 AM
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I don't understand this response, do you not believe women are attracted to incarcerated men at higher rates than non incarcerated men?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 01:16 AM
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Lol if you believe this bullshit, please visit any prison during visitation days and watch who is piling into the buses to see the thugs and criminals.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 12:18 AM
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The women never get off the carousel, and the men never settle down. I mean it looks and sounds good to everyone who's "winning" but long term its not sustainable.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 11:04 PM
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Female solipsism surprises you bro?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 10:25 PM
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Beyond that, as a man, one has to understand that 90%+ of women in any category isn't going to want to bang you - that number will be even higher among lesbians, ofc. The trick is to find the pool of girls who are into you and select girls from that pool. For me that means tall, feminine introverts. I also favor submissive girls because they favor me, and I will be able to do what they want done in a safe and fun manner Bro i wish more people understood this. Find your tribe, stop trying to bang…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 10:00 PM
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Younger women love the financial safety and security older men provide this isn't a debate. Would they prefer a younger BF? Sure absolutely, but most understand if they want nice things and a comfortable lifestyle without having to work a soul crushing job, they need to find a beta bux boyfriend or husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 09:57 PM
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Ah makes sense. The part about being religious.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/21 01:52 AM
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The abortion was probably because she didn't know or wasn't completely sure it was yours. Trust and believe unless you have some genetic defects, most women would keep the baby
/r/TheRedPill09/11/21 10:27 PM
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I wasn't talking about sexuality... But you might have a point there.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 09:07 PM
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Ah you get it lol. Granny let her freak flag fly.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 03:09 AM
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Men and feelings don't mix. Trust people to be people, but understand a woman is a woman is a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 03:08 AM
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Absolutely, i remember seeing some 80 year old on tinder getting banged out by much younger guys. She wasn't embarrassed about getting fuxked by potentially hundreds of thirsty simps on tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 12:58 AM
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Lol, trust a woman to be a woman my son. Her loyalty is to her feelings and needs, not you. She loves the way you make her feel... And when that changes, so does everything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 12:56 AM
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I didn't notice you are a woman, makes sense why you would defend this. No offense to you, but you wouldn't understand the pain and humiliation of being cucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 09:14 PM
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I just did, incase the dad is wrong... Do you know what that can do to a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 04:13 PM
1

Bro, most of the men being cucked are in relationships. If i fuck a bitch without a condom, it's only because we were in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 04:11 PM
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I‘m not deep enough in the DNA diagnostic law but I could even imagine that selling a minors DNA is generally prohibited Give them Roblox gift cards, that should work. For a child BOTH parents must consent decisions like that One parent is going to be exposed as a fraud, do you really think she would risk it?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 02:44 AM
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Plus that both parents must consent is not a specific thing for paternity tests, it’s a principal in family law! The woman who secretly went behind your back to have a cuck baby would consent to genetic testing? I mean I've dated my fair share of German women, none of them were that cooperative.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 02:42 AM
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. There is no sending the DNA to another continent and sell it to the highest bidder here. You can pay people and they will willingly sell their personal data. Sure privacy is taken seriously in Europe, but I'm sure given the right incentives people will sell whatever they can.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 02:22 AM
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So what does that mean? You can have every DNA Diagnostik BUT it has to be done with CONSENT and an extensive consultation of qualified personnel. I have had a multitude of genetic testing and it comes with very very long consultation and a boatload of paperwork. I had to sign like 100 pages. So what’s the problem in regards to paternity I bought one at the pharmacy, had the results in about a week and the company deleted the data. Seems simple enough no? Why the hell would some guy sign 100 pap…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 02:20 AM
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Germany as well. I also think 23 &me was sued at some point for similar issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 01:45 AM
0

Most men would not test paternity. If paternity wasn't wide spread, some European governments wouldn't be making it illegal for father's to test their children.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 12:12 AM
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This could be prevented if men either stopped losing interest in women who won't put out right away/within 3 or 4 dates, or stopped attempting to sow their wild oats, and quickly settled down Testosterone wouldn't allow for this to happen. A relatively young in shape guy wants to have sex as much as possible because his hormones are raging. To be fair women's hormones are raging too... But only one of those people can get pregnant, so only one person should be concerned about n counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 09:12 PM
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It's not women who are harmed by this. We don't care what our n-counts are Men tend to inflate their N count, women tend to understate their notches... I wonder why they would do this, if what you say is true?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 02:12 PM
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Men have no need to slut shame. Easy access to sex benefits all men universally...for women thats bad,they then have to put out just as much as your average slut to get top tier chads.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 12:56 PM
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Zero. I expect her to have genuine desire for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 12:32 PM
1

Niche is the way to go.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 09:05 PM
5

Sexually aggressive women like Meg the Stallion.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 10:29 PM
0

Why would a woman need nudes from you when she has identical parts to yours?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 09:07 PM
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Marriages in those states are also on the decline, DV has nothing to do with divorce rates at least not enough to make it a prominent reason. Last time i checked finances were the leading cause, i dont think that has ever changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 11:21 AM
1

They are but only gender roles that don't benefit them. They still hold onto tradition when it gives them an advantage over the men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 10:07 AM
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Exactly. Having a few female friends makes you safe to date. Always always use it to your advantage. The men who don't understand this,have never had female friends. The friend zone only sucks if you have one itis for that woman. Leave her alone and fuck her friends instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 01:27 AM
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husband material men ARE married and snagged up quickly Where in Europe? Because marriage rates in America are plummeting. So who exactly is on tinder running through the 80% of women?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 01:07 AM
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It's men who cannot and have not been successful with women or sex that obsess about this. If this were true,wouldn't all the top tier chads be monogamous and off tinder at home with their prized stacies?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 12:24 AM
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while jerking off to Stacey In his defense, Stacy is hawt and unavailable.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 02:10 PM
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Sure but if they could they would. I'd wager a majority of men are limited to what they can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 01:42 PM
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I can't sleep with a nagging woman for an extended period, I've tried but my dick won't let me be great. That being said, the fact that you found your ex attractive enough to not have requirements for you to fuck is interesting. For the average chad, a relationship is unnecessary. He can procreate easily and get as much casual sex as he can accommodate... Why would he commit to one woman in a monogamous relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 11:45 AM
5

Fuck I missed out again. Fml
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 10:12 AM
1

This is the way
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 12:40 PM
4

I'll choose the hawt Stacy and cheat on her with her ugly friend. Don't ask me why but years of experience lets me know it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 12:38 PM
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In an un ironic way yea
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 10:53 AM
1

Aspergers probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 10:53 AM
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Guys its his personality, I promise you
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:38 AM
1

Do you think being loved and desired by bitches makes you special? I've been to an R Kelly concert ,trust me none of those bitches who grabbed his dick publicly care about him now.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:36 AM
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I agree. That's why some guys get into shape, get money but in their minds they are stuck at whatever they were before they self improved.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:34 AM
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He needed to leave and move further south. Or fuck escorts, he had the money. As a man, your job is to solve your reproductive problems not cry about it and shoot up a college.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 08:48 PM
2

Exactly.he wanted to fuck hawt cheerleaders not the regular women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 08:46 PM
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As a guy, I think he was ok. He had a mental illness and that ultimately led him to do what he did.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 08:45 PM
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Fuck no. There are Mexican men shorter than him getting laid reliably. He was an idiot, he would have done better with Latina or Indian women who on average are much shorter than he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 08:44 PM
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Elliot Rogers was better looking than most guys I know IRL and including myself Exactly,he wasn't ugly he was just an idiot. Big emphasis on the poor social skills and not knowing how to talk with women. That's a big problem even with normal non-incel men. Incel men lose out because they insist on doing nothing about improving their social skills and social circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 08:42 PM
1

Considering prostitutes and pornstars are still highly sought after by objectively HVM Name them. Two famous pornstars who are sought after by high-value men for marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 08:59 PM
0

It happened to me, in my blue pill days. I've even had mothers introduce me to their daughters.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 11:16 AM
1

Do you think some K-pop soy boy is better in bed than an ugly NFL player who is jacked and potentially had a huge dick? Come on, the k pop guys are a status symbol...most of them look like women anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 10:58 PM
3

Don't judge, share your "own " embarrassing made-up hook-up stories and she will share hers. This won't work all the time, but it will work for some.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 10:32 PM
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I hope they find her killer and bring him to justice. Sucks that she had to lose her life. He had the option to leave her alone and he did not.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 10:30 PM
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Anything outdoors like cycling, get into cycling groups. Indoor rock climbing, volunteer in your free time. The more time you spend outdoors and around people the more women you have access to.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 09:33 PM
1

Pre-kids the sex tape was problematic. Reggie Bush fucked her for years and would not commit to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 09:32 PM
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Have hobbies and hang out with SOME coworkers who will introduce you to their friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 07:59 PM
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With 4 kids. Very unlikely.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 10:45 PM
1

Bingo. I didn't grow up in that environment, but I have friends who are from urban neighborhoods and live in a de facto matriarchy. Their mothers and aunts control everything. The men are passive and more often than not live off the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 01:53 AM
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Interesting. I will read up on the men raping the same woman 5 times and get back to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 01:18 AM
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Exactly. Some Scotsman accused me of hating women because I pointed out the failure of their feminist government(made up of Simps and Radical Feminists).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 12:41 AM
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The women you are fucking are likely outliers, if they’re really willing to fuck everything vaguely male-looking under the sun. Good, that proves they do exist. I couldn't possibly have dated every divorced woman on the planet. The sample size I have access to lets me know others exist. My point is that women do not cease to be women. Some divorced women may indeed be less inhibited than shy virgins are, but they are still women and still naturally more selective about sexual partners than men. …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 12:37 AM
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I think he took offense to my using the black community as an example...I'm black so I know exactly what a matriarchy looks like because I see it all around me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 12:33 AM
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Right black people be racist yo!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 12:31 AM
1

Cardi B can do better than Offset, she has more money and has a bigger platform. The Kardashian sister who is a billionaire too can do better than Travis Scott because she's still young. After 35 she is done.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 12:31 AM
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Exactly. The other poster is a woman, never been married so how would she know? Divorced women are dtf because they have a new sense of freedom. They hit the carousel hard and are unlikely to get remarried anytime soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 02:35 PM
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Right because they have no sexual urges. Everyone knows they lost their sex drive once they hit the wall
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 02:33 PM
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it. I honestly don't care. K.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 01:04 PM
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You've met cleaning ladies on tinder ?nice! The ones I know are older and speak mainly Spanish or Tagalog.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 12:15 PM
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Ah, shaming tactics, good to see the Scots are up to date on feminist talking points. Isn't your first minister a woman also?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 12:14 PM
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I used Kanye and Bill Clinton for a reason. They are not simps and they will not stop cheating. The women around them seem to want to stick it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 11:47 AM
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the incels so maybe they can get laid already. Most of those men are psychologically broken, unfortunately. They need therapy, lots of tough love, and some time in the gym. Why are you claiming that divorce causes women to suddenly be attracted to all men Because I know divorced women, they can't wait to go on dates with all the men who are chasing after them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 11:46 AM
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And who raised this fine specimen of a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 11:44 AM
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Thus in lieu of any border policy being specified, the hypothetical society she's describing could be an entirely white ethno-state, if you desire Don't you think lax immigration policies can be directly tied to female leadership?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 11:26 AM
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Or it could be the fact that the recent immigrants flooded the egalitarian society and realized they could get away with violent crimes because the women in leadership were weak?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 11:25 AM
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Proximity, the balding Indian janitor who looks like Ron Jeremy can only fuck the women available in his immediate circle...so yea he will be fucking all the cleaning ladies that he works with.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 11:22 AM
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That's not what im saying. A high-value chad will cheat, his wife isn't likely to do the same was my point. She risks losing chad for some low value tennis coach? Lol come on. And im not talking about some fat fuck who got rich off crypto, I'm talking about top-tier chads with money and influence.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 10:48 AM
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Give me the stats on rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 10:45 AM
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The existence of a small minority of women who will do casual anal with men they choose does not mean all men who want casual anal can get it regularly. Exactly! Anal is only for the man she's attracted to. Some divorced women will go out and have sex, and some won’t…. But only very few of them will fuck completely indiscriminately the way men want to. Fucking “any and everything you can find” is how men choose to pursue sex. Women, and yes, even the horrible divorced women you hate, tend to be …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 10:44 AM
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Let me get some stats for you on rape in Sweden.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 10:42 AM
2

I agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 08:47 AM
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I specifically named Sweden. How are things going for them?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 08:44 AM
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I agree...but I also understand some women have gone through extensive trauma(presumably from men), naturally that skews their view of most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 08:44 AM
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Most marriages are sexless. The last time I checked it was 40 something percent. An FWB arrangement isn't romantic, it's two horny people fucking and then parting ways. The guy won't ejaculate and suddenly start crying because he's in love. That rarely happens for most men was my point. The men will enjoy the sex for what it is and leave it at that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 08:36 AM
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Tl; DR but doesn't what you describe exist in a place called Sweden? How's that going so far?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 08:28 AM
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The other person doesn't have or care for her male relatives, it would be hard for her to relate.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 08:26 AM
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c*nt of a man will attack/assault me. Women don't attack or assault each other in public? Wow where is this feminist utopia?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 08:24 AM
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The black community is a defacto matriarchy...that is exactly what to expect when the women are in charge of everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 08:22 AM
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The male sex drive is what drives men, not feelings. Do.you know how many kids are born from one-night stands? Why didn't the fathers stick around to raise them and make a family?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 08:20 AM
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Are we debating exceptions now or the general rule? I think you are entirely too hung up on the exceptions. Most women don't want to date down after they succeed in getting the highest value male they can get. Mackenzie Bezos allowed her husband to have his affairs, so did Bill Gates. Those women knew this was absolutely the best they could do.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 08:19 AM
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Because most men want someone who will care not someone just to fuck. Bullshit. Men don't require this. but you can’t speak for all men not everyone wants to just fuck and that’s it No, but I can point to studies and surveys done on hundreds of thousands of men who feel the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 08:15 AM
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The hypothetical woman, in this case, will suck and fuck with no expectations on the back end...how is this not a good deal for the guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 07:10 AM
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Projection Of what exactly? How many divorced women have you dated? How often are most men getting the casual anal they supposedly crave from women because the woman thinks he’s the hottest guy she’s ever met, and not because she’s just horny and drunk? These women will get drunk and horny for everyone else other than the husband. Check r/adultery for reasons why.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 06:46 AM
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Yes Will is good looking and a nice guy. August Alsina has a history of drug dealing and violence in New Orleans. He reminded Jada Of Tupac.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 06:44 AM
1

So you want to be a husband then right?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 06:42 AM
1

I mean yeah that is possible, but why would you not want to do some penetrating?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 06:42 AM
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Who is/was Hilary Clinton fucking? What about Kim K? They know they've hit the peak , anything lower is downhill from here on. Meanwhile, Kanye and Bill Clinton keep cheating with zero remorse.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 03:16 AM
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Explain,I'm missing something
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 03:15 AM
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You can play instruments, be interesting or work out, and have a great physique. Do something instead of being a black pill doomer and sulking all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 03:14 AM
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Exactly. Thank you for saying this, the other poster intentionally skipped over this to extol the virtue of lifelong companionship -yuck. What 60-year-old wife is giving anal to her husband? I bet very few hahaha. As soon as she gets divorced, she will sleep with any and everything she can find.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 03:12 AM
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That’s literally the opposite of what this dude is saying (and many on other PPD threads) OP is offended because women dont want to have him as a casual sex partner. They categorize him as a relationship guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 12:47 AM
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OP values sex in relationships, he is the exception, not the rule. That's the reason why women don't pay for sex and men do. It's a quick suck and fuck, then they can move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 12:45 AM
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unless you can find a dude who can really fuck. That's FWB guy. He has five or more women on his rotation. The women he fucks would not want him to be their husband and guess what?the guy is perfectly happy with that..
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 12:43 AM
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Some women cant cheat because once she has had a top-tier chad what else is out there? She can fuck some low-level sandwich artist, that would be a step down, and Chad could ghost her and take everything he has with him. The men who cheat often cheat because they can and they know they can get away with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 12:30 AM
2

True. My point is, if you want to get laid in the current environment reliably, you need to put in the effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 12:28 AM
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Men don't value women in general unless she's adding value to his life. A woman who cooks and cleans frees up time for the guy to do other things. If she sucks and fucks that's a bonus. Beyond that men prefer to be left alone because we are busy with shit all the time, work, hobbies, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 12:27 AM
3

Lmao, what? I hope to god you ended the date early.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 12:24 AM
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Bro, just fucking means I don't have to see you when you're not horny. That's the best deal the average man can get. He gets to have all the great sex and doesn't see her again until she is ready to suck and fuck...why don'tt women understand this?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 12:21 AM
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Because it is. Sex with no baggage is absolutely Supreme for most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 12:19 AM
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Husband material means you are her betabux dutiful husband. She rode the carousel and gave all her holes to chad, now she wants to take a break and only give you missionary once a month.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 12:16 AM
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He still will cheat on her from time to time, think Bill Clinton.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 12:14 AM
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Seal is ugly,but the guy is in great physical shape and can sing. If you're born looking like hulk,it is your responsibility to compensate in other ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 12:07 AM
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90% of chads won't settle. That was my point. A Leonardo Di Caprio has no plans to sit at home and raise kids with some Stacy. He will spend all his days partying and having a blast fucking as many young women as he can.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 11:37 PM
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Lmao, somewhere a 6 ft something black Piller died inside. Yes being a charismatic scumbag will get you laid reliably.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 11:29 PM
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it's just sex and they're not exclusive, women won't care that much. What high-value Chad will agree to settle down when he knows he can get laid everywhere and easily? A relationship is preferable to beta because he doesn't have to go out and approach women for sex everyday.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 10:50 PM
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Yes, they do prefer a high-value philandering man as opposed to a faithful beta.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 10:47 PM
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I understand you love each other, but you need to be the man and either end this or sign up for potential infidelity on either side down the road. Don't think her sex organs are dead just because she is not attracted to you and vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 12:53 AM
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Who hurt you, a random Redditor asked sarcastically? Jk. I'm sorry, you went through that. She likely liked the emotional high that comes with toxic relationships. You cant provide that feeling and eventually, she was going to break bad regardless of what you did.. Understanding something, she was and is broken. Nothing can change that, she would have destroyed your life and any potential children you both would have had.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 12:15 AM
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I want to see how this plays out...you do understand doing this is confirmation to her that you won't leave no matter what right?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 11:24 PM
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The assumption is that the person they seek is already attractive physically...usually that's not the case. The chads and the stacys have awful personalities because they bring being attractive to the table and nothing else.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 12:05 PM
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I think my best option is to try to supress my sexual side, like tone it down, and compromise on sex and see if we can make it through to a better place over time. It's not like our sex life is non-existant, it's just that I need more of her but she doesn't feel it. RemindMe! 360 days
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 10:39 AM
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If you cheat and get caught it will jump-start her sex drive. Tbh you might be good-looking but beta, her view of you will be the same. You are headed to the friend zone...do the smart thing and let her go.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 10:20 AM
1

But they DO WANT to be forever girlfriends to the right men. Trust me they have other offers for marriage and will not take it. They are happy with their choices, leave them alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 10:18 AM
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Women will have kids when they want to,not because the government says they should.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 10:03 AM
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Isn't this already happening today? Nothing changes, just more sex for gigachad. The women are happy to share.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 06:50 AM
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Where is the movement for body positivity geared towards men? Did men's health start using obese models like Victoria's Secret? lmao please stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 02:32 AM
1

similar sex drives! I will just say if there aren't any underlying health issues, libido should be normal to high. The people claiming low libido usually get into new relationships and their sex drive "suddenly" is back to normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 03:44 AM
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A lot of downvotes. The Internet is a giant safe space for snowflakes today.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 03:42 AM
1

I just want to say, Sapiosexuality is bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 12:42 AM
2

it’s all just more important the longer you’re tryna be with someone Absolutely and this should be emphasized when people are dating. The sex doesn't have to be earth-shattering, but it has to be interesting in the long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 10:23 PM
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I agree if you don't want the sex to dry up.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 10:21 PM
1

been called shallow for it before but I place a lot of importance on sexual chemistry in a relationship. Its virtue-signaling from other women. If the sex isn't exciting, guess what? They are miserable and will avoid sex because it is a chore. I also would say sexual chemistry doesn't always mean kinky sex will follow. The reason why I think why all men should be into BDSM, especially in long-term relationships is that the sex needs to remain exciting. Boring missionaries will eventually lead to…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 10:06 PM
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No one wants boring sex, especially if this is someone they are genuinely aroused by. The problem, most people are with people who don't arouse them sexually. What ends up happening is mediocre sex and eventually a dead bedroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 09:56 PM
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OP's question was about not being kinky for one guy and being kinky for someone else, mostly outside the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 09:46 PM
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All women are kinky for the right partner, male or female. She's prudish when she's not into the partner sexually.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 09:44 PM
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They will deny reading or watching 50 shades of Grey... even though the book outsold the bible when it first came out.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 09:42 PM
1

I used ghey in a jocular manner as always, someone got their man panties in a bunch.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 09:27 PM
0

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 09:25 PM
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That would be gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 09:12 PM
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Very, the government usually has to defend them when they do. "She was a victim you see,men bad because men kill women- case closed"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 09:09 PM
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I don't disagree. I worry about women being able to get away with murder under the guise of abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 09:07 PM
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Leaving is an option,there are plenty of resources available to help women in terrible situations. Complain about females all you want, but we let you go to live another day a lot more than men do to us. I'm more worried about the justice system, not females.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 09:06 PM
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It’s been theorized that’s why when women resort to violence they strike to kill This is also how the Justice system views those events...I don't have to tell you how problematic that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 08:57 PM
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Women are still viewed as the weaker sex, despite having equal rights with their male counterparts. The average woman can get away with murder and blame the man for abuse and make it seem like her only way out was to kill the poor bastard.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 12:20 AM
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Edit to add, frankly you have a lower chance of an STD with a good escort over a hook-up. I agree with you on this. The average person doesn't understand this is a profession, nobody is going to risk putting themselves out of business with an std. Many don't get some don't want to bother with hookups or dating. Some are just busy with life and an escort is a 'sure bet'. This was why I did it myself. In a new city or country, I didn't feel the need to go on tinder and look for a date that could g…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 12:16 AM
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More and more women are vastly overestimating their attractiveness now. Mediocre women with a large social media following. Lizzo has millions of fans who fawn over her looks, she doesn't understand she needs to lose half her body weight to look good. The delusion has reached levels that are beyond ridiculous now I agree. Social media-fueled this. In real life, these women get little to no attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 12:12 AM
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Google. I had them put on to take some pics for tinder, after that I took them off. I don't want tribal tattoos permanently on my skin.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 12:09 AM
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This, especially older wealthy guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 12:08 AM
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Some top-tier chads pay for escorts too. The problem is most people equate escorting with basically a street Walker strung out on drugs. Unless they've seen one , they wouldn't understand 0r even care. Like I mentioned before when traveling for work, it's just simpler than trying to hook up with a drunk coworker.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 02:08 AM
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They just want a nice lady, have a good time, and go on with their life. Right. Especially if a guy is married, I would think he just wants an evening out to recharge and go back to his normal life.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 01:52 AM
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I have tattoos, not permanent ones but I have a few.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 01:33 AM
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I agree. It's a professional transaction like anything else. I wonder why it's important to them? Could be an ego thing. The few times I've used the service while traveling was to orgasm and continue with my day. I didn't do it for validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 01:33 AM
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The good-looking ones never say a word about their looks. Not a woman, but this is my experience with above average looking, women. Like if she's a 9 or better with modeling experience, she will downplay her looks. I experience it often as an escort. Many escorts This sounds fascinating, I hope someday someone can make a thread about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 12:13 AM
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Gentlemen women hate the carousel precisely because they can not find guys they are interested in. Eventually, sex becomes a chore.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 09:29 PM
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Sexual access isn't readily available to all men. Even the top-tier chads have a hard time finding a perfectly sane woman to have sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 10:38 AM
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I'm vegan so there is that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 10:36 AM
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This post could only come from a woman, you have an abundance of sexual options. Men don't have that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 01:49 AM
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Lmao I think you are one of the kids left behind, none of what you are saying makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 01:25 AM
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Agreed. But men need to be taught early to embrace female/male nature. In today's society men are raised to suppress what they naturally feel and instead become soy and beta.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 12:12 AM
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I would be concerned for other reasons. Is she watching porn regularly or is it something she needs to watch to get off? Porn is all bad, but it's worse for men in my opinion. You are killing your testosterone for no reason other than a picture on your computer screen.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 12:07 AM
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Nobody was talking about how sexy tattoos look on her at this moment. I'm saying this person didn't put much thought into getting the tattoo. Her impulsivity is what is a concern,not her saggy tits at 60.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 12:04 AM
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Impulse means lack of foresight. Stop trying to redefine words based on how you may or may not feel about tattoos.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 01:04 PM
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That is the literal definition, something done without much thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 11:45 AM
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We are getting off-topic, I needed to know what you defined as impulsive. And based on what you've written, I can conclude you don't actually know or care for the actual definition
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 12:33 AM
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Jesus man, so what about what myself and OP are saying about impulse are you unclear about? Do you really think that dolphin tattoo on some grand ma's thigh was well thought out?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 01:34 PM
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secondhand. Twice with two different women. It was arguably the worst period of my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 06:23 PM
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According to Google that's not what impulsive means acting or done without forethought. Again IDK why you seem reluctant to accept the inevitable.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 06:18 PM
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What is your definition of impulsive?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 06:17 PM
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You don’t know this couple or what they were doing before they got together, your just assuming a lot based on a picture which is a really weird thing to do. Welcome to the Internet,where are you from Afghanistan?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 06:16 PM
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BPD is a monster, sorry you have or had bpd traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 06:14 PM
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to having traits of BPD Do you actually have BPD?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 07:12 AM
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Consent isn't to be fucked with. Expound on this if you may
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 07:11 AM
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I'm too much of a narcissist to ever do this. But I have overvalued the wrong situations and that was always my fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 07:02 AM
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This doesn't negate anything they've said. You need to do better with the shaming tactics.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 03:19 AM
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Regret would imply it wasn't a very well thought out decision. Do you even read bro?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 03:17 AM
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Low impulse control. Sure she can be fun for a fling, but anything more is probably asking for trouble. But don't take my word for it, do whatever you think is best for your situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 03:12 AM
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Thank you for saving me the indignity of responding to this bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 03:10 AM
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In my experience people with low self-esteem often prop up others on a pedestal but I’m also aware that can be common in some mental health issues All of this. And I'm glad a woman said it so you know the simps are going to be upset.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 03:05 AM
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Simps are basically women, learn to Ignore them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 03:03 AM
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Lmao, let's make a few exceptions of every day happy couples the general rule. The guy who was friend-zoned is an idiot. He hung around while she banged some guys. To quote Megan thee stallion," if the guy hasn't hit by now,then he's probably lame(beta) AF."
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 02:39 AM
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The solution to most problems is to just leave. As a man, anything you say and do will be seen as controlling. So she can have all the 13 inc dildos she needs, just ghost her and let someone else have her.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 02:32 AM
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I can relate to this,i don't forgive or forget.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 11:43 AM
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black pill = looks do matter, personality doesn't matter Also life sucks so lets suck the joy out of everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 11:42 AM
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Most women, and to be fair some men are not self aware enough to understand this. Good on you for sticking to your principles.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 10:35 AM
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This statistic was already out among MGTOW men. My only advice is for college guys, find a girlfriend or girlfriend and avoid casual sex. Casual sex and alcohol are how you end up with a "ME TOO" accusation you can't shake even after you leave the school.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 10:34 AM
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Scandinavia concluded that autism was linked to it. This is interesting, most studies i've seen prefer not to speculate what might cause autism. I will check it out thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 10:31 AM
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I'm more someone who realizes just how fucked I am and have radically accepted it. Funny this is what women encourage men to accept about them,shoe on the other foot and they lose it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 10:29 AM
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Yes, some of them tend to be that way. Her being hot made it acceptable the first few times, after a while, it becomes a drain and that's not something I'm willing to deal with.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 10:28 AM
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Old sperm? No. Birth defects? Absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 10:02 AM
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Interesting responses, I'm surprised a lot of people don't want kids, don't follow a religion, or consider politics a deal-breaker. I'm at a point in my life where I can no longer compromise, mostly because I'm older but also because I know some women lose attraction when you compromise. I would expect her to be into me and change for me. Anything less isn't something I'm interested in.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 10:01 AM
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Im curious why didn't he like them?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 09:56 AM
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There is a study pointing to the fact that most people today are having kids when they are older. That would dispell this whole idea that no one wants old sperm...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 02:13 AM
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The ratio is skewed in favor of women, you will have greater success dating within your social circles. Take on new hobbies and get together with some friends once in a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 02:09 AM
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Don't care,please get more baby killers on the table,don't want them raising angry kids who could injure or kill me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 01:23 AM
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why were you making fun of people into hookup culture? Because i couldn't get laid at anywhere in the world, not even at a brothel. See you win, no more arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 09:22 PM
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If we're talking sexual? A guy who's been with men sexually and didn't disclose. That traumatizes most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 12:42 AM
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Bro it's been two days, you are absolutely right about everything. I don't get affection from women and i live under a bridge as a mgtow cell. There you go you got it good sir.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 12:36 AM
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Bro IDK what's going on with you, but whatever it is i hope you work through it . This is the strangest encounter I've had on this sub, creepy doesn't even begin to describe what you are doing right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 07:50 PM
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Don't ever take dating advice from women, go out on many dates instead and see what they respond to. If nice guy game is getting you laid, by all means keep at it. Chances are whatever you decide for your specific situation will work for you the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 09:17 AM
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Good luck with the STDs and rape charges you insecure fuck I knew you'd never admit to not having sex directly lmao. Why would you diss yourself? Notice I used hundreds, not the millions if not billions of men actually having sex each day on earth? Something is psychologically wrong with you trying to make this about me. The fact is by this time tomorrow, some men will be in jail(for a rape accusation),some will be at a clinic getting checked out and some will be stressed out because their one n…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 09:09 AM
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Why would you be interested in my sex life? Casual is great, i hate wearing condoms but thats about it. I don't want to be a boyfriend or a husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 09:17 PM
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Being friends after a divorce is the ultimate beta move, beta men don't like confrontation and or unpleasant situations. Listen once you break up, you can be cordial sure, but you absolutely can't be friends with an ex. There's no point, that person has no interest in you romantically, you shouldn't give anymore of your finite time on this earth to them. Meet new people, make new friends and make newer better memories.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 12:25 PM
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I'm actually zeta.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 12:23 PM
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Not really because your mom's not available. Let me know when she is.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 12:22 PM
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Ah he's a mgtow without being mgtow. Good for him. I mean I'm probably not going to date for a long while and Ive never dated. But I'm not an incel or anything Don't let anyone shame you into doing anything you don't want to. There are hundreds of men having sex right now, they will eventually pay for having casual meaningless sex through STDs, child support, stalkers or even criminal accusations. Protect your peace, date when you want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 03:44 AM
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Look, I'm not keeping in touch with anyone i don't like. None of my break ups were cordial... Maybe in grade school but that's it. All the women i knew in grade school are unattractive and have children. Why the fuck would i be friends with anyone like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 03:42 AM
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Interesting, did he ever say why or is he mgtow?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 03:27 AM
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I didn't keep in touch with the people who kidnapped me as a child either. Maybe i should look them up and send Christmas cards.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 03:23 AM
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I would never get into a serious relationship. Access to regular sex would be great, i would limit my encounters to the weekend. I would have a casual girlfriend, but our relationship would be open on both sides.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 02:08 AM
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I feel bad for him. He should just break up and be friends. This situation seems to be upsetting to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 02:06 AM
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Dad was a beta, got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 02:06 AM
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She's tired all the time, all the time. At least if she has your kids she's helping you advance your genetic legacy. So yes, fuck single moms, but don't fuck with them. Huge difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 01:15 PM
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I don't think we'll ever agree on this, do whatever you think is best for your situation. Blessings to you
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 01:14 PM
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They like fucking, just as much as men do. The only problem is casual sex isn't the same for women. Biologically women need to bond with their partner or partners. Men just need to drop seed and go.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 01:24 AM
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OP you need a six pack, straight teeth and hair. If your hairline is receding get some implants or whatever. Don't worry about height, but don't be too short. After achieving all that, you might not get what you want or keep her for more than a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 02:18 PM
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I'll take your word for it. Blessings to you and be well.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 10:27 AM
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Won’t be me. I don't disagree with this. What most women don't seem to understand is trp is mainly a reactive strategy. The men need a system to consistently get laid, guess what? Being a charming asshole is what seems to work the best, not flowers and not well planned dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 01:11 AM
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I’m no more judgmental than the average rp man. I’ve never been hurt by an rp man. Lurking the manosphere just let me know nothing productive really comes from women interacting with your kind. So that’s the reason for my view. Nothing personal Only problem is this is primarily what most women respond to. Asshole game sucks, but it's very effective.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 01:31 PM
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You made it seem like women have better options than construction ( they don't, most women work in the service and hospitality industry)). You RP men are too much have a good one lol. Judgemental much? Who put you through unnecessary pain?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 02:06 AM
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Most women don't meet the physical requirements is what you conveniently are skipping. That's not a problem, women can work in other industries.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 04:11 PM
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You don't lose anything by not being a dancing monkey.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 12:52 AM
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better prospects Underwater basket weaving? Sure. The same reasons the vast majority of men don’t Most men don't choose to be firefighters, but most firefighters are men. Stop it with the circular arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 12:51 AM
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I don't date, i think it's a waste of time for both sexes. If that person is into you, they will do whatever to be with you. You don't need to be a dancing monkey to pique their interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 11:22 AM
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I love it. Let them make fun of you while you prosper financially. Don't let anyone fool you, with enough resources the Ukrainian immigrant women in the UK won't care what you look like. Just don't get married and at a maximum have one kid. Leave the overweight single mums alone, let the "chads" have them
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 11:21 AM
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There's a mandatory military draft for women? Oooh I'd love that, when does it start? Also being backed into a corner forces your hand in a much different way Like 9/11?why didn't women sign on then? Why don't more women work in the coal mines, firefighting or construction?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 11:18 AM
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I think she's an idiot. Not because she's a woman, she's just not funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 10:15 AM
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They don't do that now, what make you think they'll do that then?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 09:54 AM
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Wait. In your 50's and 60's most women won't want sex anyway. I plan to keep fucking until I die, that's why cohabitation is not a priority for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 03:30 AM
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The well prepared communities will survive. The Taliban can't overun the whole country, they have nothing but guns and a few tanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 03:29 AM
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You don't know that. Their brothers and fathers could be dead from all the different drone strikes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 03:28 AM
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The better lesson here is if the government of the day ever collapsed what will the women and children do? What will they do without fathers and brothers to protect them?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 01:43 AM
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. You believe that women are a monolith and I don’t see how that benefits you Advertisers and corporations know this information too. That's why most of the junk they peddle is targeted towards women. If you were to get off the internet and meet women IRL you wouldn’t have to rely on KS show for your information. K. I'll go to a KS meet up and hook up with the women there, problem solved right?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 10:05 PM
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Not even a bit of self pleasure here and there?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 04:41 AM
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Deception is bad, a well placed truth is better. I can't agree with OP, but his overall premise is ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 04:41 AM
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I think OP was.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 11:33 PM
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Do you still have sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 11:32 PM
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He wouldn't have a platform with millions of like and follows if this wasn't what most women are doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 11:32 PM
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Cool, thank you for you thorough response. I think i have a better understanding of everything now.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 03:36 PM
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I like to think libido is what drives sexually desire. Having a healthy libido and not enjoying sex seems contradictory. Nonetheless, i understand what you're saying, the coffee analogy by OP was good. When it’s sexual attraction it’s mainly about the person you’re interested in which gives you the labels: heterosexual or homosexual, mine is the lack of such person, thus “Asexual" Wouldn't this make that person pansexual? They experience sexual just not defined? From what I've read, asexual peop…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 12:55 PM
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As a side question, do you have a desire for long term companionship? By that i mean normal cohabitating relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 12:51 PM
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I have to admit. That even among the asexual community I’m a rare anomaly, lol. My point exactly, this is rare. A perfectly normal male or female will have some sort of sex drive. But also thank you for sharing and explaining your situation, I'm always fascinated by different people's experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 12:50 PM
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I'm not denying their existence, I'm denying that this isn't atypical. Being born without a sex drive sounds implausible. Having an underlying medical issue that causes this? Absolutely that happens everyday.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 12:31 PM
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Interesting. Have you ever had your testosterone levels checked? Do you use anti depressants or any sort of medication? Just curious because that sounds incredibly rare in an otherwise normal 33/34 year old male.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 07:00 AM
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To be fair, I have an under active amygdala that’s also smaller in size than the norm but this explains my lack of interest in romantic attachment/bonding than asexuality. Like i said before, the exception would be underlying medical issues. An otherwise healthy, "normal" male or female experiences some form of sexual attraction even if it happens to be same sex attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 06:57 AM
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But I get no desire from it During or before? I'm also wondering are you male or female?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 06:56 AM
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Gay people have sex with gay people. That was my point. Biology wired us to want to procreate as a means of survival.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 06:55 AM
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he just does not get visually turned on. From what i remember you are in your 40's or 50's right? Could be a testosterone issue, has he had his testosterone levels checked?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 06:52 AM
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They still have the desire to have sex with someone. Same sex attraction isn't asexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 06:50 AM
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truly never felt a sexual attraction for anyone, only libido Seems contradictory, have you zero sexual attraction or is it that it doesn't happen often. Interesting, why do you take this position and what lead you to it? Biology. Humans need to procreate for survival reasons, it's incredibly rare to find someone or a group of people who don't feel the need to.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 12:53 AM
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Asexuality is bullshit. I don't care what anyone says, unless you have an underlying medical issue, you have some sort of sexual attraction. It could be go some fucking tree, but it's there.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 12:15 AM
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Wait so the numbers game works, OMG you are onto something. Sarcasm aside, yes the numbers game does work, it can't be mindless though, learn to pick up on signs of interest. If zero signs exist, you're not going to change her mind by being persistent.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 12:14 AM
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Are you talking about mindlessly cold approaching? That gets old fast. You don't need to be gigachad to get laid, that's internet bullshit. Proximity matters, make sure you get around the type of women who would be open to banging you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 11:38 PM
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I think OP is a woman, she wouldn't understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 11:36 PM
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Wait i like Giannis better, especially now that he's the reigning champ.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 11:18 PM
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Not since i was ten no. I have 38GGG's now and a beard. So it's like a perfectly packaged transperson in a man's body.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 11:08 PM
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Being a good looking guy would endear you to most women. Frame helps with arousal, but ultimately i think good looks get you in the door, if you're beta and needy your looks can't help.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 05:36 PM
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Sounds like I'd enjoy both those things. Unfortunately I'm not greek so there's that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 05:34 PM
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Is this an ad for soy boy vegans?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 02:02 PM
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It's not, exercise, make money and remain blue pill. Just make sure you are living the best version of yourself. That's literally it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 01:59 PM
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All of this. Just pop into Aventura mall and look around.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 01:57 PM
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Europeans compliment each other more?? Yes. More affectionate is more like it. I guess “thank” a really hot guy for sleeping w me because I feel Makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 07:02 PM
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Are you American or Eastern European? Could be a cultural thing. I don’t really compliment men that much as opposed to women. Even when I’ve hooked up with guys I thought were super hot, I didn’t specifically tell them so. That probably means you're above average in attractiveness. Sure you'll hook up with a hot guy, but you don't particularly care to complement his looks because you too are good looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 06:25 PM
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Height is debatable, but yes good genes and being attractive even in primitive tribes is something that stands out and makes someone appear to be a good leader.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 06:23 PM
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I'm an asparagus, i think most blue pill men would prefer 8. They like casual sex sure, but they would prefer a long term relationship. I know this because in my social circle ( other asparagus aged 23-37) tend to have long term relationships rather than sleep around.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 03:50 PM
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I think in amazonian tribes they face a combined risk of going extinct, their mating patterns choices might be largely influenced by that. Also remember rugged individualism isn't preached anywhere in the Amazon forest, they share everything including women. Can't imagine the tribal chief with a huge mansion and a Cadillac escalade signing up to be a cuck for some crab fisherman with good genes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 03:47 PM
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A Chad who doesn't know he's a Chad is very unlikely. Women have been doing him favors since he became a teenager. Again in this case, your boyfriend might be "very hawt" because he fits your exact need, but to most women he's ok aka "he's cute".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 03:44 PM
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Objectively hawt” is an interesting concept though, I’ve found me and my girlfriends don’t usually agree on that which men are attractive so could be hard to determine. Let's say a Jason Momoa in game of thrones was hawt, most women would agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 03:35 PM
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I agree. OP just threw out a number and i was curious where he got it from. If i were to guess it would be somewhere up his ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 05:08 AM
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Exactly. They don't want to be ever left holding the bag.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 05:07 AM
1

You inherit infidelity traits from your parents? Or in this case 47% of cheaters do?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 05:07 AM
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He's cute vs he's hot. I'm not saying he's not good looking, but he might not be objectively as hawt as you think he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 05:06 AM
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She's basically the last option was my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 09:47 AM
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LMAO, check back in when she's 30 something after one divorce, she'll have a long list of demands for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 09:46 AM
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Hahaha true. If you run out of options, just wear a condom and protect yourself from permanently attaching yourself to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 09:45 AM
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Spend more time studying the woman or women you're dealing with. You don't need to be alpha, but you need to know what you're doing. Also oral works really really well, practice more if you have an average sized dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 09:43 AM
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It's a bad idea, let her raise her kids and maybe she can be a casual fuck buddy. Anything more than that is a disaster waiting to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 09:42 AM
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Hahaha exactly. You're paying for both, get the one who will generate excitement in your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 09:41 AM
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Oh sorry i hurt your feelings op.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 11:50 PM
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No no most men know if their hot or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 11:50 PM
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Escorts are more fun in bed. Single moms usually don't really care for sex as much, every other day you potentially are dealing with some issues involving her kids or family members.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 11:48 PM
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, I think my bf is hot shit What about your friends and random strangers, do they share the same opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 11:47 PM
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That's the point, it weeds out the wimps. The men who beg and ask for sex are beta. For the confident guy, this is a basic shit test.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 11:46 PM
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And yet it happens. Would you risk getting struck by lightening considering how rare lightening strikes are?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 03:26 PM
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had a lady on here tell me she and her dude would get consent for every act. This is going to be the norm soon. Women like having our balls in a vice.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 03:25 PM
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I think some of the girls were underage and there were issues around what or where the videos would be distributed. Lying to get a woman to do porn is a bad idea, just tell her everything she needs to know and keep a good lawyer on retainer.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 03:24 PM
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The women yes, the men no. Every man knows whether or not he's considered attractive. Women on the other hand gauge their attractiveness by how much male attention they get... Only problem is, the average man will stick his penis in anything that's warm and slippery, looks be damned.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 03:22 PM
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How pathetic, right? Very. You should only validate yourself. Seeking validation from others is a recipe for disaster.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 03:14 PM
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Hahaha, no. I've done both, escorts are hotter and more passionate in bed than an overworked, overweight single mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 03:13 PM
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LMAO this is not new information. But also don't take what standards a woman puts out there seriously, if you're available and halfway decent looking she'll sleep with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 03:12 PM
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Infidelity is around 50% heritable Scientific fact or a personal opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 03:10 PM
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I don't disagree and i don't judge your decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 10:19 AM
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No. People will figure it out, trust me I've tried. A much better strategy is find a hot friend and hang around with her, not as a beta orbiter but as a casual friend. Hot people tend to hang out with hot people, eventually you'll meet her attractive friend and your smv/social circle will improve from then on.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 10:18 AM
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It's not red pilling, infidelity is all about narcissism. You are paranoid about getting cheated on because you are typically the one cheating and don't want to be on the losing side.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 10:16 AM
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since you seem wedded to your position just don’t get into relationships problem solved. Way ahead of you. Only a fool would think he won't get cheated on by any woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 07:05 AM
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But the stats prove otherwise miss divorce lawyer. the estimate in 1999 was 30%, it's obviously much much higher now.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 07:04 AM
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Why do you think paternity testing isn't mandatory? Because most people know it would destroy families everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 12:06 AM
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And no infidelity does not happen to most people Most means more than 50%, here's a study
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 12:04 AM
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The real “strategy” for a woman who’s serious about commitment is to only date men she knows socially first. However a lot of FDS don’t like this because they are often femcels without strong mixed gender social circles. Agreed. If they had decent men in their social circles, FDS wouldn't even be an option.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 07:48 AM
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If you can't get a man, platonic or otherwise to pay for dinner you are either hideous or unpleasant to be around. I have taken out close friends to dinner on multiple occasions and i expected nothing in return.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 07:47 AM
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I have to disagree. The women accept this because you are very likely the best option they have at that time. You can get lucky and get a hot woman who's receptive to TRP because her father and brothers were naturally red pilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 07:40 AM
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I thought you're a woman? Why are two men arguing about mate guarding? Also infidelity happens to most people male or female, my situation isn't atypical. As for mate guarding, i no longer get into serious relationships. Nothing a woman does can move me emotionally. It's not mine, it's just my turn.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 06:58 AM
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men that attempt to employ guarding instincts are doing nothing but creating a false sense of security for themselves Well that's deeply embedded in their DNA, you would literally need to rewire the male brain to get rid of mate guarding instincts. are secure in their relationship have no need for them This isn't a thing. Most men only pretend to trust their mates,they can't. Something deep inside a man's instinct will let him know when infidelity begins. I've been there and i instantly knew som…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 01:34 AM
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Most of them would be alone and sexless if they didn't have working vaginas. They lack any personality or good social skills. The women who post their are insufferable and think everyone owes them the world while they are getting pumped and dumped. Fixed it automod, chill.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 11:55 PM
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their plates feelings You date causally (doesn't involve sex) until the person earns your trust and affection. Guess what most women today are emotionally broken, all they can offer during the dating phase is sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 10:33 PM
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You don't understand male mate guarding instincts because you view it as an insecurity. Men mate guard because we're afraid of being cucked. I can't explain any further than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 10:25 PM
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Please develop some empathy for each other. Learn to love each other and understand each other's pain. Women don't empathize with men's struggles, that's why they make fun of celibate men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 10:24 PM
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Even when you present her with anecdotal evidence, she's hesitant to agree with what she already knows to be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 10:19 PM
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Again why are you all so obsessed about what she did with other men before she met you? who cares? You wouldn't understand. Men and women evolved differently. Please feel free to womansplain how both genders are equal and mate guarding isn't a real thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 11:05 AM
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For some men sure, i don't particularly care because i don't make commitments to women. She could suck 500 more dicks and i wouldn't be bothered.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 11:04 AM
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because women find insecure men unattractive, I agree. men that are obsessed with her sexual history The obsession is because they want to commit to her, otherwise if this was a random hook up no one cares. you all cannot handle 5. Are you womansplainin male insecurity?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 09:43 AM
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Or is it just folklore among men? You got it. That’s one guy’s conversation with his wife. This entire post is about how women do things with their hook ups that they would not do with their husbands Check r/infidelity if you're curious about what most women won't do with their husbands.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 09:37 AM
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A SAHM, 1950's housewife would be great for me. I'd worry about work and being a dad only. Obviously i wouldn't make a contract with the state, and I'd hope she genuinely wants to be a SAHM mom and isn't faking it just so she can stay at home and do nothing all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 07:07 AM
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Because it's all BS, people in PNW pretend to be accepting and they aren't. I've lived in Seattle so i know for a fact it's all an act
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 07:02 AM
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Correct. They tolerate it, they don't approve of it. Women still need to have the ability to control a man's sexual desires/access. Hookers get in the way of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 06:59 AM
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You see she's not easily tricked by those evil men, she's just expressing her sexual freedom. Only insecure involuntary celibate men on the internet would think otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 06:56 AM
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What? Where do you all get this from? How do you surmise it? How men asked their wives this specific question? Has a study been done ? Do you know they were Chad’s? Can you show me documented research on this Not that you'd care, but here goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 06:55 AM
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You're right dear about all of it. Men are so insecure, we'll try to do better m'lady.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 06:53 AM
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Always the mans fault that she sucked 200 penises. He should be more secure with committing to a thot.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 06:51 AM
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Interestingly, Thailand has a renowned sex trade chiefly because thai wives accept that their husbands will be compelled to stray, and they'd rather it be with a prozz than something serious that might damage the marriage They worry about the resources more than the man himself. Conversely,i wouldn't be surprised if most thai wives secretly cheat on their husbands.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 02:43 AM
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Low key I also think they don't want their husbands to have easy access to casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 12:46 AM
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They are no better than the puritanical conservatives that they love to criticize Bingo.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 12:44 AM
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Agreed. He gets the settled version of her. She's not going to do anything she did for Chad in a one night stand.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 08:37 PM
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LMAO i said the same thing. Leave the pessimism to me. Funny i dated a girl who was the opposite... After a while it got tiring, but she was always good company.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 08:19 PM
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Ignorant optimist. I'm already way too pessimistic about everything, i can't have someone like that in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 08:16 PM
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I didn't read, but it sounds like your mommy hates you and she doesn't want to live with her child. The fact that she threatened to call the police on you is actually very troubling. Try being a man and stop second guessing yourself. You broke a vase? STFU it's not something you should discuss over the phone. Stop saying stupid shit to your daughter. Be a fucking man and take charge of the decisions in your life.
/r/askMRP05/08/21 02:23 AM
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My clit is bigger than yours. Well i need to rub mine a little bit, it gets smaller when it's cold.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 08:12 PM
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I would call you involuntary something, but I'm sure the mods wouldn't appreciate that. Also you're a woman so there's that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 06:21 AM
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Society is done. When men and women can't get along everything is basically done. The top tier chads and tyrones aren't enough to keep civilization going.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 06:00 AM
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Nailed it. Eventually the pool of available simps will dry up.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 05:02 PM
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It's a choice. You can always stay single and pay for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 05:02 PM
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I have nothing but respect for them. They are the janitors of the dating market.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 03:52 PM
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They haven't even watched a full video of his. They then claim to know his material when they are assuming what he's like from a 2 minute clip. Even funnier is how they only find the worst videos and quote him out of context. It's infuriating.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 04:02 AM
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Eventually the eco system as it's set up will not be sustainable. BB guys are idiots sure, but if society shames them enough they'll have to stop being the BB in every relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 12:01 AM
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I've always thought the goal is to be picked no?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 11:59 PM
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God bless Becky. Unfortunately if she was hotter she would expect the opposite and that's a no go.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 11:58 PM
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Look up how much money Jeremy Meeks made from women while he was in prison and get back to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 11:58 PM
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Women should have standards and so should men. The end, this shouldn't be a debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 11:54 PM
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Once his dick is hard enough, he'll stop at the second or third at the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 11:53 PM
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Yeah vagina. That's basically it. At the very least the woman can provide sexual access, the poor guy however can't do anything for anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 11:52 PM
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I'm one such guy... It usually is exciting in the beginning until you run into serious shit and or legal trouble. Please don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 11:51 PM
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350k subs and counting. I'm guessing there's a demographic that enjoys their show. Just like everything else don't watch it and you'll be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 11:50 PM
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Good. She can go the Mackenzie Bezos route and be someone else's problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 11:47 PM
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If he doesn't open up to lifelong friends he probably won't talk to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 11:30 PM
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Lmao for some strange reason i believe you. I had a child hood friend who was from Greece. They had a big family deeply involved in everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 09:58 PM
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Oooh sounds intriguing, are we going to have a big wedding like the one in the movie?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 04:15 PM
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I believe you, not all but most of the gen X black men coming of age are dating out more. I'm an older millennial and black, we basically started the trend.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 04:12 PM
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I'm a post wall boomer with a fetish for young women, Sharon Stone is more handsome than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 01:27 PM
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How else would i trigger m'lady this fine morning?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 01:13 PM
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like, when you phrase something like "good looking man, treats her right, takes care of the bills, gives her 10mil orgasms just by looking at her" and then change it to "women tasted Chad's cock and ever since they can't eat anything that doesn't taste like axe and good genetics ofc they hate normal men" then no, wrong answer Change this to I'm 65 year old creepy grandpa, how do you feel now?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 12:06 PM
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Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 12:04 PM
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You're welcome, hawt sweaty sex with a dash of reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 11:51 AM
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mentioned "feminism wanted those kinda men" and all you've proven is, s/he is wrong. I was mansplainin that's why my example was wrong. Men bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 11:51 AM
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Right answer. If a woman can't find what she wants of course she'll remain happy and single.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 11:50 AM
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yeah but the average man isn't a chad and isn't giving decent sex (let alone great) and isn't paying all the bills? Bro, you're making my point. The pool of available men is precisely why women choose to not get into relationships. Sometime in college she had access to a Chad, after that it becomes impossible to settle with some ordinary guy who works a shitty job.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 11:10 AM
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Use Russian or Chinese, I'll translate everything on Google.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 11:07 AM
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Ok I absolutely believe you. Pass my regards to your lovely husband, preferably whisper in his ear while he's doing missionary.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 11:07 AM
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Some men treat their partner like their entire support network. One person shouldn't have to do that. This basically contradicts your statement. Which one is it, do men talk about their feelings or do they dump all their feelings on the women they are in relationships with?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 11:04 AM
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There is a reason (many reasons) why men are called that. I always assumed the devil was a woman, you know because she wears Prada.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 11:03 AM
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Are you angry because i mentioned obesity? Maybe she does not seem validation from men or a relationship Is she a lesbian? Oh substitute chad with whatever the female equivalent of chad is then.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 10:58 AM
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Good to know that you know all of these women Yes, it is good to know all the women on planet earth. can you elaborate more on exactly what happened in their personal situations You would need to pm whom specifically you're talking about. I have an extensive list of what went wrong in their relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 10:56 AM
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Seems like that a few other subjects too I don't understand this, rephrase this like you are talking to a 5 year old special needs child. Are you awkward in most social settings Yes. I'm on the lower end of the spectrum. I struggle with making friends and live in my grandma's basement. How many close friends do you have About 1 and a half. My pet hamster and my invisible friend Greg.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 10:55 AM
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You seem very worried about my sex life and almost mad I’m happy No. I actually regret asking specific questions. I typically tend to lean on my own experiences and form an ego investment around them. My apologies, enjoy your blissful sex filled life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 10:52 AM
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I'm actually illiterate, you know the children who were left behind during the bush years.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 10:51 AM
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and I am part of a racial group that most men find unattractive You're either an Indian guy or a black woman. Interesting, I don't think there is a lack of attractive and hard working black men... However the types most black women go for ( tall athletic types) tend to not work harder in the relationships because they know they are desired by most women in the community.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 10:50 AM
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Men who are equal or submissive to women. They let women lead or otherwise carry the relationship. You know equality and what not.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 10:48 AM
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first response shouldn't be turning it on her. I wasn't. I apologize if it comes off as that. I merely pointed out a pattern. her experience is actually really common among women Which supports my point. These women find men they feel the need to take care of. Usually the men are good looking or are great in bed. No woman signs up to be with an ugly homeless fat guy living under a bridge.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 06:00 AM
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they were deceived Bingo. you honestly believe Prince Charming Extremely subjective. For most women prince charming is that guy from 50 shades of grey.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 05:57 AM
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I agree. She's probably the one person everyone goes to for all their problem solving. Not necessarily a problem, but her emotional and physical needs come last and obviously she gets resentful over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 05:38 AM
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Saw too many women trapped in miserable marriages with miserable kids to fall for that trap. They were miserable because they wanted men whom they couldn't have and had to settle. If they'd found their Prince charming, guess what? They'd be much much happier.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 05:36 AM
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I hear this claim spouted as truth also. It's bullshit. Imagine your average obese woman getting together with an above average Chad who gives her great sex and pays all the bills... How many women would pass on that to remain single?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 05:33 AM
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I already did the living with someone thing and it was awful, it was like I had a 30 year old child. How attractive was this 30 yr old man child?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 05:31 AM
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Probably because women are most attracted to men who happen to be shitty partners Bingo. Chad doesn't have to do anything beyond being Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 05:30 AM
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Self reflection. Not attacking you personally, but what you've described is a pattern. You played mommy in all your relationships, there's a reason for that. If i were to guess you probably had to take care of your siblings at an early age and carried that over into adulthood.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 05:29 AM
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I doubt these surveys and studies because guess what? Being on the carousel sucks for women. It's not as exciting as men think it is. Single women tend to spend more money on useless shit, i suspect the companies that want to sell them said useless shit are the one's behind the different surveys and studies confirming this.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 05:27 AM
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Sexual access, even for ugly drugged out women that's still widely available. The ugly drugged out guy? Nobody wants to touch him or be seen near him.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 05:25 AM
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Congratulations sweaty, you are the exception to the rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 05:22 AM
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How's that attraction to him going, and how long have you been together? Did you ever feel awkward having to teach him about sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 05:21 AM
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Publicly?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 09:58 AM
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Claiming you're a pre op trans man doesn't work? Wow that's crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 05:18 AM
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You do understand money doesn't make you more attractive, otherwise every men's magazine would have Oprah and Mackenzie Bezos on the cover. I’m under 30, $156k a year, no kids, size 8/6, and on a journey to become the best I can be for myself. Everyone is valuable & in this life alone should live to improve themselves Absolutely. And kudos to you for achieving alot in your young life. There’s many bloggers who also claim to know Kevin personally. You’re not unique. Didn't claim to be. I specific…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 05:17 AM
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You do understand money doesn't make you more attractive, otherwise every men's magazine would have Oprah and Mackenzie Bezos on the cover. I’m under 30, $156k a year, no kids, size 8/6, and on a journey to become the best I can be for myself. Everyone is valuable & in this life alone should live to improve themselves Absolutely. And kudos to you for achieving alot in your young life. There’s many bloggers who also claim to know Kevin personally. You’re not unique. Didn't claim to be. I specific…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 05:01 AM
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I understand you possibly felt the need to reply because a man you look up to wasn’t shown in a positive light & I provided facts, but sometimes it’s best to let information be shared without useless debate with minds very different than yours Kevin is a personal friend whom I've known for years... YouTube is entertainment, I don't understand why his content offends you so much. Here's an idea, don't watch or talk about Kevin. Seems simple enough. You’re deflecting because you can’t reply with a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 08:58 PM
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His recent content is basically click bait. His good content was recorded years ago before he started making fun of fat undesirable baby mommas.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 08:56 PM
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Interesting. Well thank you for sharing your experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 07:53 PM
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Kevin actually built his channel to give men advice on how to improve their image in corporate America, but go awff sis.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 07:52 PM
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You don't have a girlfriend, you have an invisible friend, you know like the one you had as a child.
/r/askMRP27/07/21 07:51 PM
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Men are socialized to "try harder". Next time just let them know you were born a man and your plumping is still male, problems solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 06:55 PM
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Didn't say you were wrong. I'm simply pointing out that women view men who they have to constantly give instructions very differently, especially in a long term relationship. How many long term relationships with women have you had if you don't mind me asking?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 06:53 PM
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Didn't say you were wrong. I'm simply pointing out that women view men who they have to constantly give instructions very differently, especially in a long term relationship. How many long term relationships with women have you had if you don't mind me asking?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 06:53 PM
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Oprah built her brand on doing this, you are correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 06:51 PM
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Funny they skip the fact that Kevin is much harder on men than he ever is on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 06:50 PM
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None of this explains why women have unreasonable standards and why most think they deserve high value men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 06:47 PM
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None of this explains why women have unreasonable standards and why most think they deserve high value men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 06:46 PM
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You're looking at this all wrong, your approach is a logical one and makes sense... Sex with men and women rarely is as logical as you put it. Women expect men to just "get it". If she has to give you directions, her attraction to you will diminish over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 06:13 PM
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LMAO, what? Congruence has been discussed ad nauseam all throughout trp. Being attractive projects confidence, confidence comes from knowing things.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 03:02 PM
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Hmm tell me more.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 02:51 PM
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I'm guessing you're a man right?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 02:38 PM
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Well good. I'm happy for you sweaty.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 02:37 PM
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where men are less comfortable sharing Men don't need to talk, we prefer sex over everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 02:27 PM
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Google "Lesbian Bed Death" I didn't even know how popular the phenomenon was. There are plenty of studies to go through, take your pick.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 02:27 PM
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Yea that's my point, he assumes based on previous successful attempts at making said women come.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 02:11 PM
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You hawt husband sucked at sex because he's hawt. He doesn't need to please anyone, you do the pleasing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 02:10 PM
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Lmao of course it doesn't, that's why you've never orgasmed.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 02:09 PM
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Awomen’s sexual desire is a lot more than a physical response. A man will never get the chance to even attempt to bring about that physical response if he’s not doing the things you describe to perk up her sexual desire. It’s men that actually do not understand women’s sexuality, and when actual women try to explain it to them they mansplain back I don't have the actual link,but there's a survey/study that points to lesbian women in relationships having the least sex in long term relationships..…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 09:54 AM
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Like not at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 09:52 AM
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point is that women who are classed as "low libido" in marriages are often just not enjoying the sex and or the relationship, I agree 100%,these women are married to men they don't actually desire. If hook up sex sucked most of the time, apps like tinder wouldn't work so well. If the guy is good looking enough most women won't care, they'll finish the job off with a vibrator.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 09:51 AM
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The top 20% men. The other men not having sex don't generate this problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 09:46 AM
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If said guy isn't in a relationship with you, guess what he doesn't care. He's done something similar before and the women faked their orgasms... He expects the same from you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 09:43 AM
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Best sex came from a chubby chick, I can agree with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 09:41 AM
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The exception doesn't disprove the general rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 09:39 AM
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It's bullshit. Of course her arousal depends on how hawt the guy is. Only problem is hawt guys don't make any effort to be good at sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 09:38 AM
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All i read was she hates her beta husband, if most women were married to the chads they deeply desired, they would stay married bad sex or otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 09:36 AM
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LMAO she's a nurse or doctor isn't she? Yes she did cheat, no idiot don't confront her that was 4 years ago. Yes people who work that shift typical fuck each other, you didn't know at the time so you get a pass.
/r/askMRP27/07/21 01:45 AM
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Im confused so i stopped reading, are you actually fucking other women, or are you planning to? If this is all hypothetical, why would you have that conversation with your wife?
/r/askMRP27/07/21 01:39 AM
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Lil Nas X is that you?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 06:06 PM
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Demands coming from mostly obese/overweight women who weigh more than your average NFL offensive line player... LMAO please. You can keep your demands and take all of your problems to the giga Chad who's desperate enough to engage you sexually.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 06:05 PM
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Yes. Most men can't tell the difference. It's not a woman's fault that she might be cautious around men she's not attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 02:08 AM
2

Bro, black women really don't want you to turn them down. Not saying it doesn't happen elsewhere, but holy shit man even the less attractive ones think a big ass and some tits is all they need to be attractive... Just no.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 11:19 AM
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If they're both of legal age, nobody should be in their business.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 09:19 PM
2

Don't know about your race, but this is particularly true amongst black people. I'm black and it happens sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 09:06 PM
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Just be yourself ! (sarcasm)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 09:04 PM
1

Date within your social circle, if you don't have one find one. And if by Texas you mean Austin, then yes you'll be fine I've had moderate success in hooking up with randoms in both Dallas and Austin.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 09:01 PM
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I find this hard to believe, what state do you live in?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 09:47 AM
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I'm going to guess you're not American are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 09:07 PM
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What pickle line said
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 09:07 PM
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He doesn't need to be, same thing with hawt women they tend to suck in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 02:48 PM
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Google is your best friend. Check for obesity stats in adults in the US and go from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 05:35 AM
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You assume everyone is attractive based on what you've seen in California? Have you been to Kentucky? Where are the Kentucky 9's?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 05:34 AM
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Or you could start over with someone else?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 05:33 AM
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Because the entire united States population is concentrated in California... How solipsistic of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 05:23 AM
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Those same women will claim TRP doesn't exist, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 09:07 PM
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Doesn't matter, you could die tomorrow and the pilgrimage ends there.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 09:04 PM
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Look at the stats, its somewhere at 70% or 72%
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 09:04 PM
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That wasn't the point. But i understand your need to make all men ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 09:03 PM
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Women don't work that way bud, trust me I've tried. You are only setting yourself up for disappointment.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 09:02 PM
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Considering most women are obese, where exactly can we find these stunning in shape, 9s OP is going on about?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 10:46 AM
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I agree and this is precisely how dead bedrooms are formed. The idea of sex she will turn her completely off and she'll eventually cheat on the guy. Do yourself a favor and move on if that person doesn't lust after you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 10:22 AM
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Ideally sure, but the women will keep having random and spontaneous sex with the men they are actually attracted to while the other poor guy is in the friend zone.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 01:05 AM
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Yes fucking testosterone. Menopause and osteoporosis will in most cases make aging worse for women. Men tend to die earlier or age horribly in cases where the guy worked too hard or didn't take care of himself. Look at Tom cruise vs his ex Nicole Kidman? Who looks better for their age?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 07:59 PM
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Don't they all, lmao
/r/askTRP05/06/21 01:06 AM
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You have to put yourself out there, if it's not working you might need to switch careers and move. Women will always need something from you, it could be resources , your genetics or a shared trauma bond that completes them. Figure out what you have to offer and work on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 08:02 AM
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I agree. Bruh I've seen crack addicted couples procreate and have children, the whole idea that someone is unfuckable is just retarded. My guess is because they can't get their IDEAL mate, they default to blackpill/doompill.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 04:24 AM
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Blue pill men will do anything and everything to be with you. You could adopt a pet turtle and pay for gender reassignment surgery, they'd be fine with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 08:20 AM
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Go semi pro. Some cities have amateur leagues, also travel and join facebook groups in your area that have hobbies you might be interested in. All the best bro.
/r/askTRP25/04/21 07:01 PM
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Get hobbies, play sports and by all means get off the internet. I'm guessing you are european/south american? Soccer is a great way to make life long friends. Stay disciplined about everything, money, game, women and you'll be fine. You don't need to read about trp, become trp. You put yourself in first place always.
/r/askTRP24/04/21 03:50 PM
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You've turned her off. Was that before of after she sucked his dick. Both men want their dicks sucked, one guy had to work for it while the other just made himself available. Where in the world would the man prefer to work for sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 06:03 AM
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Think about it from the guys perspective, he had to work hard for her affection while some chad just had to be available. That's not a fair exchange, that's negotiated desire. That shit sounds good only to a woman who basically doesn't have to do shit but be available.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 06:02 AM
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Men are devious and often abusive when it comes to getting sex (probably why I hate RP so much since I was once a upon a time their perfect victim). If your husband was a smart man he should worry about this. What happens when you relapse and fall into your old bad habits? Then what? He's made a lifetime commitment to someone who could change their mind and boom everything is fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 05:58 AM
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Bitches think they are better than you in every way. My advice get into the gym, a half body pic with your face and abs works every time.
/r/askTRP13/03/21 03:18 AM
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Bisexual bitches are crazy, don't do this.
/r/askTRP13/03/21 02:15 AM
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Ego boost, you coming while mentioning her name seems to be a thing.
/r/askTRP13/03/21 02:11 AM
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Don't send dick pics. If you must, send her a video of you climaxing (weird i know) while saying some shit to her. Personally I've never and will never qualify myself sexually to anyone, but if you must a video is preferred (according to bitches on facebook).
/r/askTRP13/03/21 01:52 AM
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Tl, DR but human beings are very very shallow particularly women. The end this is not debatable.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 10:44 AM
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Bro, magazines and movies are selling a product. If the images didn't resonate with men and women, those products wouldn't sell. We all want to be those people in the movies and magazines.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 12:00 AM
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I disagree, women won't change what they want, they will however be open to using sites like lonely fans to connect with love starved men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 06:39 AM
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Oh god did I offend your safe space? My apologies, i still maintain a 5 is a 5 regardless of how he or she feels. Not every man or woman will win the genetic lottery, you don't get to redefine it just because you didn't make the cut. Human beings are shallow, particularly women. It is not the woman's fault, and she does not overestimate her value Yes and no. But i agree it's no right to harass anyone just because they turned you down.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 06:30 AM
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The 9-10 on instagram just post swimsuit photos and vacation pics all day everyday. They are shallow and vapid... As they should be. Their value is almost always beauty that's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 03:55 AM
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but i know women on social media, naturally beautiful, that i'd (and a lot of other men/women) put way above VS models, if at least for the fact that i like womanly (not fat) bodies the best + women of color This is the woke standard of beauty. I'm talking pre 2010 beauty standards before fat chicks took over the modeling industry.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 03:50 AM
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I have to remind myself not to argue with men and women on reddit. A woman who's an actual 9 or 10 has men lining up to save her from her worldly troubles. Once in a while you might find one who doesn't understand her value ( nearly impossible in the age of social media) but that's about it. Tiger's( woods) ex isn't very attractive ( she's a 7.5 at Best) but guess what the only job she had was as an au pair for a rich couple. She was a single mom after tiger and she was able to get a rich guy to…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 01:04 AM
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This can also be sideways
/r/askTRP08/03/21 11:30 PM
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This is the only way
/r/askTRP08/03/21 10:37 PM
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Get them pregnant so the kids can be cousins. See problem solved/s
/r/askTRP08/03/21 10:37 PM
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Yea, he emotionally is invested in the outcome because he thought he had a fair shake.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 10:12 PM
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You're moving goal posts, i was specifically pointing out that a guy who's a 7 getting rejected by a 6 would greatly upset him. A typical response would be something like "She's not even that pretty".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 09:35 PM
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man fucked a dead rat on tiktok last week. Millennial? My point is attention from men isn't flattering to women Only if she's not attracted to the man. Even men sleeping with you means nothing. Again only if he's not attractive by her standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 09:20 PM
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I said that already. I'm explaining why he's pissed off, he can't believe he's being rejected by a woman who maybe a cute 7.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 09:08 PM
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It's only useful to talk about men wanting sex bc it's so rare they want anything else. True only for the men you are attracted to otherwise you wouldn't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 09:06 PM
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I meant that as a joke.Most beautiful women rarely finish highschool before being discovered and end up as models, actresses heck even pornstars. Some chick working her way through college is going to be a very attractive 8 at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 09:02 PM
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Those are attractive women, they aren't 9 or 10s. Do you think Victoria secret models are in college dealing with complex math equations or are they being flown to Epstein's island to entertain rich billionaires?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 08:24 PM
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Yes because she's regular pretty, not absolutely stunning. Like she's in movies and magazines stunning.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 08:23 PM
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Those men will have sex with a warm blanket if they needed to, doesn't say much about the women they approach in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 08:22 PM
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I meant take rejection too hard. I his mind he's upset at being turned down by an average looking woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 08:21 PM
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There's nothing wrong with below average looking women ending up with below average looking men( most men including myself are average to below average). the above average are the hardest. They have an over inflated sense of self because men approach them all the time. A woman who's a 9 or 10 only gets attention from top tier men and thirsty men on social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 06:03 PM
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Basically a guy getting rejected, he gets butt hurt because he thinks he had a shot.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 06:00 PM
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A 9- 10 can't really sleep around, most men won't even approach her, most times she's not even accessible.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 05:59 PM
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Listen a 9 or 10 has never had to work a job, open a door or do anything beyond staying in shape and pretty. They are ultra selective because they get the best men chasing after them. But from everything I have ever seen ;/ they always end up having less sexual partners than all the 6 & 7/10 girls. It's always less than 10 and a couple LTRs with very high quality guys for them. 10/10 girls get so much validation and love for doing nothing I don't even think they need to weaponize sex to get what…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 05:58 PM
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Huge difference between gorgeous, meaning they clean up well an absolutely stunning 9 who looks even more electrifying when naked.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 05:27 PM
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6-7's are the hardest to fuck, they greatly over estimate their value and that's why men tend to get aggressive with them. Ugly girls know they are ugly, pretty girls (8-10) don't even respond to complements because they get 50k likes on their IG pics everyday. But yea you need to lower your standards, treat the ugly girls like you would an 8, she will reward you with compliance and sex. Don't get her pregnant though, that's a very bad idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 04:45 PM
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I still wouldn't recommend relationships for anyone other than two people who are serious about building a family together. The relationship will be more about their children than it will be about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 10:33 AM
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It was very slight, but i picked up on it and was permanently turned off.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 10:32 AM
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I don't think we should force women into relationships they don't want to be in. My advice is to treat her like she does you, make her disposable. No marriage, no cohabitation and if you have kids make sure you can afford the child support payments incase the mother of your child breaks bad and gets back on tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 12:16 PM
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Genetic currency is limited to the Chads, everyone else has to be the betabux.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 11:46 AM
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IDK, i think she wasn't aroused properly and I was too eager... But seeing that slight flinch was enough for me. Continuing to see her felt rapey and dirty, i wasn't up for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 11:45 AM
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All relationships are transactional, some men have genetic currencies ( the Chads) and some men have physical currency ( the betabux). For most men you will likely be a betabux, hopefully the woman you are dealing with is a brilliant actress who can give birth and take care of your children, and give you some level of enthusiastic sex. As a man you can't fall in love, but you should absolutely love your woman and your children.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 05:00 AM
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Fuck that shit. Feels like a mix between rape and pity I agree. I had a woman flinch one time, i think she was uncomfortable... I stopped and i slowly backed away from her, i don't want to ever sex with her again even though she tried.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 04:56 AM
1

When she's acting out of sorts, if you don't drink i would highly recommend you don't smash while she's drunk. Women tend to revise consent whenever alcohol is involved, it gives them plausible deniability .
/r/askTRP28/02/21 07:57 PM
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Don't act needy, reward good behavior always. In this case what he pointed out is the best way to handle it.
/r/askMRP27/02/21 10:02 PM
10

Rona is making hoes literally mad. Anything for attention my guy.
/r/askTRP27/02/21 08:42 PM
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3 girls and a cup Hard next OP before she poops on your bed and thinks it's funny.
/r/askTRP27/02/21 08:40 PM
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I’m still working through negativity in my mind This makes perfect sense, they pick up on it and react appropriately.
/r/askTRP22/02/21 09:05 PM
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Keep practicing, but whenever a woman overtly becomes disrespectful you drop her without warning. She's communicating something ie you aren't congruent.
/r/askTRP22/02/21 03:17 PM
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Slow strokes and switch positions frequently.
/r/askTRP22/02/21 11:26 AM
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Don't it kills your testosterone.
/r/askTRP22/02/21 11:25 AM
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Head is for your pleasure, sex is mutually pleasing. She's saving her best for someone that isn't you. Don't over think this let her go. Unless head isn't a big deal then sure keep her for now. I usually don't like anal, but i require it from every woman i deal with in a relationship. Why? Because it's uncomfortable and if they do it i know they are willing to be uncomfortable for my pleasure.
/r/askTRP22/02/21 11:25 AM
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Demote to plate, someone in a previous thread was right let her go.
/r/askTRP22/02/21 11:22 AM
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I stopped eating pussy a long time ago, if a woman won't give head that's fine... She's not going to be around me ever again so I'll let her go.
/r/askTRP22/02/21 11:20 AM
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She does, just not you. Fuck her and slowly back off from her, she's never going to give you head because you don't "do it" for her.
/r/askTRP22/02/21 11:19 AM
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Drop him immediately.
/r/askTRP22/02/21 11:18 AM
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She probably was bored and needed attention. Texting is for logistics only. Flirting should end with you inviting her over to your place or you going to hers.
/r/askTRP22/02/21 11:15 AM
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Parents until you find new mates to live with. Also start saving so you don't need roomies or anyone to help with living expenses. You can drive Uber or Lyft and make extra cash.
/r/askTRP22/02/21 11:14 AM
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The girls eventually figure out you're a pussy and they get upset. Women don't want to rub clits together, they need someone to be the man... An authentic man. Date one and two should have ended immediately they both went off the rails.
/r/askTRP22/02/21 11:11 AM
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You probably failed a shit test or her boyfriend caught her... Either way don't waste time with this.
/r/askTRP22/02/21 11:07 AM
1

I think you made the right decision, but over reacted. I would softly next her, she obviously has issues and could be a potential liability. No way I'd ever fuck her again after seeing her collection of dicks.
/r/askTRP22/02/21 01:22 AM
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Always have I'm 5'9". Taller women tend not to worry too much about height. The average woman wants a taller man so she can look good in heels. Women over 6 ft don't tend to wear heels( i know there are exceptions). So yeah i absolutely always have, like literally all my exes were taller than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 09:30 PM
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I believe those women believe they can be single... But guess what? They really aren't. Some low value guy is always pumping and dumping because the average woman will not say no to sex with a hawt guy she's attracted to even if said guy isn't successful or a good person in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 08:09 PM
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Depends are they stay at home wives who benefit from the man getting back on their feet or are they regular career women who sacrificed their own personal health to make sure the husband had a normal shot at life?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 01:29 PM
1

I'm all out of jokes today, ms delrey
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 08:58 PM
1

She is, she is a joke. Except for Rush Limbaugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 10:30 PM
1

You missed the point, the government vets people for good reasons... You should do the same or don't.The outcome will be predictable.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 06:47 PM
1

The Tampa Bay buccaneers did 💔
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 11:26 AM
1

It's been three months sweetie... Let it go
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 11:25 AM
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Sexual attraction and good soft skills is all you need to maintain a relationship. Everything else is bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 11:24 AM
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Ah good old shaming tactics. Well the government does vet for dangerous people and protects you from pedos, be sure to share your personal feelings with them. Tell them why vetting is ineffective and why we should just trust the people wholesale instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 11:23 AM
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