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James-Bancroft/r/askTRP11/04/21 06:25 AM
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Another big point: even if they were, it’s less healthy and so you still shouldn’t have one.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 01:04 AM
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Hahaha. And women aren’t? XD
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 07:02 PM
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especially if you have a right wing viewpoint Shit. I’m a paleolibertarian 😂
/r/askTRP11/04/21 05:12 PM
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Fuck I’m a retard bro, don’t even know what the word “sidebar” means 😅
/r/askTRP11/04/21 04:31 PM
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Forgive me, but what is “frame”? I see the term used a lot but I’m not sure what it means.
/r/askTRP11/04/21 04:00 PM
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Thanks. But what if I’m in a polisci class?
/r/askTRP11/04/21 03:50 PM
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Men are a lot of work, y’know? No, I don’t know. How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 03:49 PM
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Ah okay. What if I’m not too mainstream myself? Would it be fine to marry a girl who’s a so-called “normie”?
/r/askTRP11/04/21 03:49 PM
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Alright
/r/askTRP11/04/21 07:22 AM
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Very true. Another question: to what extent is the idea that “one must marry someone with similar political beliefs” true?
/r/askTRP11/04/21 07:22 AM
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thanks for your advice!
/r/askTRP11/04/21 07:20 AM
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Ah, thanks man!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 06:21 AM
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We were (and are), but I’m connecting it to a more general idea. I’d didn’t say that it doesn’t affirm those values. And perhaps they could be affirmed in a different way.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 01:28 AM
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I would believe that if they attacked men in the same way. They don’t. Well it seems that with men that stay single, don’t marry or have kids, it’s more often than not because either they gave up or are incels. It’s not usually something they can just go out and do, and yet don’t. So I would think that it’s a different problem. And another thing, while yes, people are often rude about these sorts of things... how could one know that it’s not an instance of so-called “tough love”? I understand wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 01:22 AM
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Well, like I said it’s an impression, but it seems like girls that can’t consistently find a man (at least at my age of 20) tend to have an attitude of “I’m a queen, I only deserve the best”... which unfortunately for them is self-defeating. I’m guessing that for some women (the so-called “cat ladies”) they never abandon this attitude and may perceive men to be more trouble than they’re worth even when they are not. But, just to clarify, are you saying that a lotta these women are kinda like fem…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 01:16 AM
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I never said it was. But a guy can say “you should get married and have kids” without calling you a “cat lady”. Most of the usages I hear of that term are applied to third parties anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 10:26 PM
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Question: are they then the type of people that tend to engage in open relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 10:23 PM
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What about a guy who can’t ask a girl out unless he knows her a bit already and feels comfortable with her? (i.e. a guy that doesn’t do “cold approaches”)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 10:22 PM
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This guy gets it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 10:18 PM
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How do you know that thought?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 10:17 PM
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Have you ever considered that perhaps the motivation for many people’s encouragement of marriage for women is not what you think it is? Like isn’t it possible that some of them don’t hate women? But rather they believe that most women who don’t get married will end up being unhappy? They could be wrong of course, but given that we don’t have any studies about their motivations, why should we be ascribing malicious motives? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 10:16 PM
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RPer here. Yeah I don’t associate “party girls” with being future cat ladies; I’m more inclined to view future cat ladies as women that... have issues, among them that unlike the party girls that eventually drop their (physical) standards, these future cat ladies believe that they are owed a damn near perfect man, and refuse to be realistic. Furthermore, while most party girls tend to be vaguely left wing (as most young persons are), my impression (just an impression!) is that future cat ladies …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 10:13 PM
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Quite possibly. Given the obesity rate in the west, plus the number of men who don’t work out, plus the number that don’t read, I wouldn’t be surprised if that’s the case. In fact these factors are so bad that I’ve heard that some ugly guys who read, aren’t fat and lift score high SMV women. Just what I’ve heard though, take it worth a grain of salt.
/r/askTRP27/03/21 06:48 PM
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From personal experience, yes
/r/askTRP23/03/21 09:20 AM
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This
/r/askTRP23/03/21 08:09 AM
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except asking a girl out takes very little effort
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 11:09 AM
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the bigger question to me is: what will replace it? polyamory? or will the present system of a few men “pumping and dumping” most of the women merely intensify? Or will polygamy occur? Thoughts?
/r/askTRP04/03/21 02:20 AM
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Even if just to fuck-n-chuck the bitch Not really into that tbh, I’m moreso intrigued by polygamy if I had to pick anything other than standard monogamy. But thanks for the whitepill.
/r/askTRP27/02/21 07:24 AM
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not autistic well shit, I have Asperger’s 😂 Any way I could compensate for that?
/r/askTRP26/02/21 06:03 PM
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luckily at least some countries are realizing the mistake (like Denmark), and getting more restrictive. Anyways, I was saying if polygamy became normalize here, in the US
/r/askTRP26/02/21 09:34 AM
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yes but if a bunch of Americans invaded the EU... there’d still eventually be a gender disbalance.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 07:56 AM
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well I’d be content with multiple non-civil marriages tbh; I don’t believe in civil marriage anyways. There’s no way I’m converting to Islam (which only allows 4 wives tops), or some fringe Mormon sect. Although polygamy makes me wonder: what would all those single men do? And would the catastrophically high levels of weak men today (seems only to be rising) mean that the social tension, violence, etc. of traditional polygamous societies would be lessened?
/r/askTRP26/02/21 06:57 AM
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sheesh that sucks :/ . Maybe polygamy will make a comeback, in some form?
/r/askTRP26/02/21 05:25 AM
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fair enough, but if more men are getting worse and worse, then if women have slimmer (relatively) pickings for commitment, wouldn’t they have to settle for less than before?
/r/askTRP26/02/21 02:51 AM
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given the high rates of obesity, the fact that many men don’t read, the dropping testosterone levels, etc..... aren’t the criteria to belong to the top 20% of men getting lower and lower? In other words, given the fact that more and more men are having these major flaws, aren’t the standards required to become part of the 20% going to get lower as well?
/r/askTRP26/02/21 12:08 AM
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exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 07:09 AM
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I don’t know, I suspect her was just making a conjecture or an offhanded one. And even then, it seems true to me, that people do lie about this sort of thing often—perhaps not to the extent some think, but still. I mean, it makes sense, at least to me, that inherently men would want to brag about that sort of thing. Also, given that male virginity ,though often not a dealbreaker, lessens female attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 02:36 PM
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didn’t the other guy say women and men both lie
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 02:31 PM
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because not everyone lies 100% of the time, presumably
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 02:26 PM
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no because I’m not as close to my friends as I wished (we never get to hang out), I don’t have a dog, I have no job and no house.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 06:08 AM
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yep
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 10:49 AM
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oh damn man I’m pretty redpilled, but this is nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 08:55 AM
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the problem is though, is that many of the guys on this sub hear “all men want is sex” all the time, when they themselves want more than that, but can’t even get sex, and because of this fact, are genuinely looked down upon (even though they shouldn’t be) by other people. And when you see women continue to give themselves over and over and over again, to the kinds of men that do use them, and then just double down and say “I’m a queen so I only deserve the best” (which results in chasing after l…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 04:58 AM
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“there’s (sic) plenty of men saying all the time that they just want sex”—okay? That’s called anecdotal evidence. I never said that no men use women for sex, I just took issue with that statement of “y’AlL hAvE bEen DoInG iT (using women) fOr cENtURiEs”.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 05:43 PM
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you backed up a woman who originally said “y’all have been doing it [, using women for sex] for centuries”, which is a statement that sounds as if she is stating far more men use women just for sex than actually do. She argued also that “most of the men here aren’t attractive or deceptive enough to pull it off”, which is an assumption on her part. I responded to it, and then you responded to me, critiquing what I said. I never said, and never will say, that there isn’t an appreciable group of me…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 05:20 AM
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“what men literally admit”. Which men? Were those men a cross section of men at large? Where were they from? How do you know that most of your sexual interactions have not been with men who are more likely to use women, and consequently, men that aren’t really into that fly under your radar?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 04:56 AM
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Lol, evidently you don’t know anything other than the men who solicit you. There genuinely are numerous men who would love to settle down with a girl... but can’t. Seriously, pretend all you want that “all we want is sex”, but it’s a falsehood.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 04:55 AM
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project harder
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 03:53 AM
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this
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 01:38 AM
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the number of men who don’t get laid on this sub alone should tell you that your general impression of “men’s using women” is bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 01:19 AM
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no but women are a group, and like all groups, have a general nature...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 01:17 AM
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try to see it as “who cares what some rando asshole like he says on the internet”. Trust me, it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 01:12 AM
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A guy can be a complete loser who is only waiting because he has no other options wow, way to virgin-shame men there. You’re essentially saying that “unless other women want to sleep with him, he’s a loser”.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 12:44 AM
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if you want to improve yourself with philosophical thinking, study Aristotelianism, and mix it with a bit of Stoicism. The only Eastern belief system worth studying is Confucianism.
/r/askTRP13/02/21 05:17 AM
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lift
/r/seduction11/02/21 11:39 PM
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true
/r/askTRP30/01/21 05:15 PM
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we base policy on people’s fears, unfortunately
/r/askTRP30/01/21 04:11 AM
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“the most trusted name in news”
/r/askTRP30/01/21 04:10 AM
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kek autism may actually be an advantage for 7
/r/seduction22/01/21 07:44 PM
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the only question is: what can he do to get something out of it? And what can he get?
/r/askTRP19/01/21 07:27 AM
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nah for me the issue is balancing between being nice and being an asshole
/r/askTRP06/01/21 06:02 PM
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alright
/r/askTRP04/01/21 10:01 AM
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how about that they dye their hair?
/r/askTRP03/01/21 11:25 PM
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okay but if you modify your approach you’ll maximize the number of people’s minds that are changed ehhh but then it’s not shoved in your face constantly so it’d help... plus we should probably have the public opinion that all PDA (even kissing)... is bad
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 03:32 PM
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that’s what most people who claim to want to change things want to do, tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 02:30 PM
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1.) I understand what you’re trying to do... even if those are some clichéd examples, but at the same time... complaining on the internet about it isn’t the way to go about it. I might suggest instead, spreading the view that it’s irrelevant (rather than talking about “virgin shaming” itself), or for example,—if a woman in say a dating sub is wondering if “he’s [insert 20+ number here] and still a virgin, is that a red flag?”... what people like you ought to do is say something along the lines o…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 11:17 AM
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yes but my point is... no one’s mind will be changed by any of this... so it’s unproductive to even talk about it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 11:03 AM
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well even if that’s true... what’s the point of bringing it up? we cannot control other people
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 10:56 AM
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no one I know has ever called me a loser (or anything similar) for it, so I don’t know what you’re on about
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 10:49 AM
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society doesn’t necessarily say, or seem to say, that “virgins are losers” per se... it is just that the constant bombardment of the senses with reminders of, or references to, sex and romance, constantly reminds those who are virgins of their (until then), the seeming inability of others to have romantic and/or sexual feelings regarding them—which is not a pleasant feeling.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 07:34 AM
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ah I see
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 06:47 PM
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ahh okay... what if I meet a girl and she’s my first and we really just... click? PS. thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 06:29 PM
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how can such men become attractive to avoid marital problems?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 02:45 PM
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