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I made this thread to talk about how I think Incels in particular take sex seriously in a way that isn't good for them, because they want casual sex, but basically want to get it like committed relationship sex, so they will be dissatisfied by actual relationship sex low SOI people get, while not being able to keep up to get high SOI sex For people who aren't having any sex at all, sounds like they have very refined preferences!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 10:56 PM
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I read the post as getting at if women were more self-aware of their SMV, they wouldn't be victims of pump and dump. You're saying the responsibility should be on the man to not have sex with a woman who is trying to have sex with him? Have you met men? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 06:58 PM
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If it's not enthusiastically "yes" from both parties, it's doomed from the start.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 07:00 PM
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Settling is the only sure way to lose.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 04:22 PM
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Normal sexual intimacy with women would not trigger a disgust response in me or in the men I’ve talked to about this. The ghastly scenarios you paint preclude her from being wife material, but if she had a body count of 20+ with women it’s not as much of a jealousy or disgust response as with 1 man. Just the way men are wired.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 11:08 PM
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The same guy as a 20-yr old college athlete might be marginally more attractive than he will be as a 30-yr old athlete. The difference is the 30-yr old has ten more years of experience, earnings, emotional stability, owns a home, etc. When taking the whole picture into consideration, most women give the 30-yr old their time and attention. You could be different, and that's fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 03:53 PM
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Probably in the gym and running their businesses. That’s where the people I know are. You’re turning it to be just about looks, which is not the context of the post. But even just basing it on looks and not overall ability to be a long term prospect, I think most men peak physically in their very late twenties or thirties. Looks are subjective, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 02:34 PM
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Anecdotally, a lot of these girls have super wealthy families. Their successful dads married younger women and they saw that modeled at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 03:00 AM
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I said average. Not median age of first marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 02:51 AM
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Men peak in their 30s. Anyone who says otherwise has an agenda. Some women may want someone closer to their age, and that’s fine. A lot of women don’t care about age gaps at all or are turned on by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 02:41 AM
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The average marriage is more than a four year gap in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 02:31 AM
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Chris Hemsworth is 38
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 02:29 AM
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If I had a younger brother, I would tell him to try to find a good girl early in life. Being each other’s first and only sexual partner is a huge leg up on having a successful longterm relationship. I can point to a lot of high school sweethearts who are still together happily with kids and that sort of thing. There’s no better way in life than pairing up early and betting hard on each other. Sometimes it doesn’t work out, but it’s worth a shot. If you’re waiting until after college, then it bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 02:23 AM
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"The high value which her suitor places on a woman's virginity seems to us so firmly rooted, so much a matter of course, that we find ourselves almost at a loss if we have to give reasons for this opinion. The demand that a girl shall not bring to her marriage with a particular man any memory of sexual relations with another is, indeed, nothing other than a logical continuation of the right to exclusive possession of a woman, which forms the essence of monogamy, the extension of this monopoly to…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 05:57 PM
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This is a great point and ultimately what kept me from the Red Pill "enjoy the decline" mentality. If you're thinking ahead, you don't see it as a victory to be spinning plates the rest of your life -- even if you theoretically could. I love your point about TRP and BB converging at that point. That's good stuff. I think the goal of any pill should be long term stable relationships where children can be safely raised. The OP is worried about divorce, and I think that's a valid concern that TRP r…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 05:45 PM
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I don't know you. Just answering the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 05:30 PM
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Confidence is very attractive. Covert narcissism/solipsism is the opposite. Knowing the difference is important. Typically women that say "I know my worth" do not know the difference. Just in my personal experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 05:10 PM
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A couple of investments in relationships that end in infidelity on the woman’s part can easily land a good man single in his 40s. He can’t control what his partner does and can’t predict future infidelity with 100% accuracy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 06:04 AM
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I date intentionally to find a wife. Haven’t found one yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 05:40 AM
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Which is it? Am I preying on undeveloped brains, or are they too savvy to not marry me? Men and women have different priorities they’re selecting for. I’d like to have time to get to know someone and vet them before they outrun prime fertility years. Young women like an in-shape, mature man with means. A significant age gap often works best for both and is available to men in their 30s. Don’t know why the personal attacks are coming.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 09:43 PM
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I haven't seen any dating statistics, but you are right that the average age gap in marriages is around 4 years. I have my real age on dating apps, and I consistently date and have relationships with women in the 19-22 age range from OLD. Chris Hemsworth is 38 for reference. Men that take care of themselves do alright.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 08:48 PM
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So much confusion on this subreddit would be cleared up if everyone understood that there are short-term and long-term dating requirements, and that they are different. Men looking for long-term are looking for all kinds of things other than sex. Men looking for short-term emphasize sex, because that's something they can get in the here and now regardless of other characteristics. If you want to make the case that most women are easily sorted out of the long-term list due to red flags, then I wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 07:51 PM
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No, but there is a fine line between "past trauma" and "experience." My standards have risen for the type of woman I'll be in a relationship with now. That's not driven by anger at the opposite sex, just lessons learned about red flag behaviors.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 11:27 PM
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There's a lot more nuance than what I initially shared, and you would have to look at a lot of literature to get a feel for it. You might be thinking of the old CDC data from ages 25-44 that was a little lower when it was published five years ago. On average, it seems that gen z college students actually have about 5 partners by age 21. But, in all fairness, Gen Z men's average is significantly higher than women's -- it's close to 7.5 to 2.5 on some recent surveys. However, gay men are driving m…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 04:57 PM
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A lot of the perceived danger is the impact of past exes on your partner. Even when these average guys are dating a woman, if she’s been with a “Chad” in the past she might think “something is missing” with this current guy. Roughly 20% of men are having 60% of sex, according to some surveys (GSS).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 10:22 PM
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I tried to find these figures, and they were pretty close to being right. https://www.census.gov/data/tables/time-series/demo/income-poverty/cps-pinc/pinc-02.html Looks like the median income for all women over 18 is $30,009, and $44,413 for men (Census 2020).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 06:53 PM
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https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2020/08/20/nearly-half-of-u-s-adults-say-dating-has-gotten-harder-for-most-people-in-the-last-10-years/ In the USA, only 35% of men agreed it was "hard to find someone who meets their expectations," while 56% of women did so. Women feel like it's easier for men to date because men's standards are usually lower and attainable for long-term relationships (see stat above). Conversely, men feel like it's easier for women because they would be thrilled with t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 05:25 PM
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It's subjective, but maybe not as much as you might think from talking to people. The trends average out pretty well even across sexes. There are surveys on this information. More than 3 partners starts to have a negative impact on respondents' perspectives of suitability for a longterm relationship. More than 2 for low sociosexual orientation and more than 7-8 for high sociosexual orientation begins to be a negative (average age of 21). Whatever people say to your face is filtered through some …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 05:04 PM
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Why would the best male prospects be married and settled down? You say right after that it's a trap that Red Pill is elucidating to men now. Which way do you actually think it is? Or do you think it's only a trap for the bottom 80% of men? A lot of men are seeing their friends get zeroed out by female-driven divorces. "Winning the game" does not look like a marriage to just any woman. The way things are setup requires a unicorn to engage in a "traditional" marriage. Actually, the happiest marria…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 07:49 PM
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The survey that is referenced in your psypost link is essential reading and should probably be on the sidebar in most subreddits like this. It's only 188 respondents from Wales and the average age was 21, but it does a great job of summarizing the literature on sexual experience and attractiveness. I have a bunch of highlights from that study saved, but here are two of my favorites: related to long-term: "although the optimal number of past partners for the sample was two or three, the mean numb…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 07:07 PM
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Wow, people are off on their hobby horses on this one. To address your actual CMV you need to decide if you're talking about short-term or long-term mate selection. Because the guy that has way too much experience might be who she selects for a short-term thing, but not for the long-term. Prior sexual history (promiscuity) is innately an intimacy killer for both sexes. Neither sex wants to hear about it because it creates a jealousy response. Inexperienced women looking for something longterm wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 05:21 PM
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Probably not until both romance and Herpes are obsolete — so not for a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 08:18 PM
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I dated a woman who had one for a while. I didn’t know about it when we first started dating. She had mentioned that past boyfriends had broken up with her over her past promiscuity, and, ultimately, I was another one added to the list. I’m not quite that cruel to give a reason that someone can’t change when breaking up, though. It wasn’t an issue with her day job other than the occasional stalker that would find her at work. Sometimes they would send ostentatious flowers and gifts and embarrass…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 07:10 PM
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The majority of people are predominately "sensing" types. You sound like an "intuitive thinking" type. You're going to be looking for someone similar to you. Unfortunately, you're going to find that only about 11.1% of the female population is an intuitive thinking type (Hammer & Mitchell, 1996). You're going to hear from these types more so on a place like reddit than in real life. Honestly, I would listen to the women here, because they likely reflect the kind of person you're more likely to b…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 01:03 AM
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It has been shown to be a dangerous dynamic for a longterm relationship. I have seen a woman begin to out earn her spouse and that led to marital problems. I haven't seen it occur while a couple was dating -- which your question is more about. If I was already in a relationship with a career-oriented woman, her salary would not "stop me from pursuing her." The majority of women dial back to part-time work when there are children in the home anyway. Personally, I'm not interested in someone so ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 03:57 PM
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Each type has their own ideas of what "success" looks like. I think dominant Introverted Feelers (Fi-users) have it the worst in this current environment, because ideas about traditional romance and courting are just obliterated in the broader dating culture. You even hear people go as far as to say that Disney "invented" our romantic notions like Byron didn't even exist or something. I'm an INTJ, so Fi is a little further down the function stack for me, but I'm still so put-off by the things th…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 12:09 AM
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