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Not to claim any of this is wrong, but do you have sources to back these statements up?
/r/MensRights07/02/19 10:16 PM
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It starts young too. My son brought home a 'stranger danger' booklet that the kids got from the local police department. In every single illustration of a dangerous situation, the danger was a man (except one, where the kid was playing alone at the park). Every single illustration in which the kids were 'safe' had a women close at hand. They even had a section with pictures of people that the kid might know (doctor, milkman etc) and they were all women; the men were just a woman with a fake must…
/r/MensRights07/02/19 10:11 PM
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As further proof, I bet he gets charged and she doesn't. That's...not how proof works. It's literally every clip involving the police, courts, judges, bystanders. That is categorically untrue. There are many instances of men being treated fairly, or even more than fairly, if you look for them. I, personally, was awarded full custody of my kids over my ex by a female judge. Your frequent use of absolutes and extreme remedies suggests to me that you are suffering from some level of ideological pos…
/r/MensRights02/02/19 04:29 AM
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Sure, but it seems like if he had called for help security could have gotten there in a matter of seconds. I can't see a good reason for him to continue the fight. The woman is obviously not right in the head (moreso after getting ka-bonged) but I don't see an issue of gender here; if she'd been a man I would expect them to react in the same way.
/r/MensRights02/02/19 03:29 AM
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Do the detrimental effects on children stem from not having a father specifically, or is it simply a consequence of being raised in a single parent family? As a single Dad it would be good to know.
/r/MensRights02/02/19 02:18 AM
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There are things men can do that will tend to inflict damage that when women will do tend not to. Like being punched in the face by someone that's supposed to care about you? Pretty sure that hurts regardless or gender.
/r/MensRights01/02/19 01:14 AM
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I like this. We need kids, kids to better with married parents so lets stop trying to eliminate marriage entirely and figure out how we can change things to make it work.
/r/MensRights31/01/19 03:03 AM
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Maybe, maybe not. I could have described myself the same way 5 years ago except add two kids. Now I'm a single Dad who has to compensate for having our personal life and finances ripped apart. Things change quickly these days.
/r/MensRights31/01/19 03:00 AM
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The way I've always looked at this is: to take care of everyone else I need to be in peak condition so taking care of myself is priority. It would almost be nice to be able to sacrifice myself for my family but if no one's willing to step up when I'm sidelined...
/r/MensRights31/01/19 02:51 AM
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Well, women may say they want all different types of man but was there ever a period where being high on the social hierarchy was unattractive?
/r/MensRights31/01/19 02:48 AM
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I think the StatsCan report provides some excellent insight into the systemic issues boys face. “Boys also lag behind girls on the developmental side of things in the early years. For example, from birth to three years, only 12% of boys are categorized as having advanced motor and social development, compared with 21% of girls. It's no secret that girls tend to develop faster than boys but it's telling that there's a constant push to start school earlier and earlier. In the 90s I started Kinderg…
/r/MensRights28/01/19 05:52 PM
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If you participate in a community (such as TRP) that actively teaches people to manipulate others for their own benefit (for example), being called on that abusive behavior is not invalidating the abuse you have experienced. So are you arguing that MRAs are inherently abusive? I think it's a pretty big stretch to equate pickup artists with MRAs, though there may be some overlap. And also no one is entitled to have their experience of abuse validated before they stop abusive behaviors. No one is …
/r/MensRights18/01/19 09:38 PM
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First, I'd like to commend you for the work you do on Abuse, Interrupted and I appreciate you not wanting to have political and ideological discussions distracting the conversation from helping people. I'm also disappointed that you're being downvoted because I think this is an important conversation to have and am glad you're hear having it. That said, by stating that you're effectively anti-MRA, you're failing to include a lot of men. As you mentioned, there aren't many resources for men and o…
/r/MensRights18/01/19 05:19 PM
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I suppose I phrased that poorly. I meant assume guilt in the same way that people are arrested and held for trial, even before being proven guilty. I'm not sure what you even call that.
/r/MensRights16/01/19 05:08 PM
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Coming from someone who isn't strong and works a physical job; being strong is much less important than being tough. Pretty much everyone where I work can life 50%+ more than I can but I make sure to push myself and don't shy away from the hard or unpleasant jobs and no one thinks less of me. Don't worry so much about the cards you're dealt; worry about how you're going to play.
/r/MensRights12/01/19 04:26 AM
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Sometimes stereotypes exist for a reason :p I live in an area with lots of immigrants from all over and the only times I've ever had someone try to tell me how to parent (usually because I'm letting the kids be independant) it's a middle-class white woman.
/r/MensRights11/01/19 03:10 PM
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Women are constantly being fed low-key messaging about how they're being oppressed by an all-male patriarchy and that they're highly likely to be sexually assaulted. If a man looks at a woman the wrong way (male gaze) or doesn't defer to women properly (man-spreading/splaining) then he's, supposedly, attacking her, which would basically be all the time. It's no wonder women, generally speaking, treat men like monsters; they've been conditioned to fear us. And men are conditioned to view themselv…
/r/MensRights11/01/19 03:02 PM
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It's a tricky one, right? Very difficult to discern the truth in an instant. It would be better to assume everyone's guilt and protect the child from both of them until the police get there to sort things out.
/r/MensRights11/01/19 02:26 PM
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On the one hand, I used to work a job where I was in near constant contact with customers. It was stressful and I felt somewhat used in having to hide my true feelings behind a mask of polite helpfullness, so I think it's valid to say that emotional labour is a thing. On the other hand, I didn't like the job so I left and took physically demanding work instead. Now I have to lift, climb and carry stuff 10 hours a day. I come home tired, sore and, on occasion, bleeding from somewhere but I'm not …
/r/MensRights06/01/19 03:44 AM
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I really don't get the "he deserved it" sentiment in a lot of these comments. It sounds like this young man was completely surrounded, socially, by feminist ideology which, if not examined critically, seems to be a reasonable and compassionate belief system. Then suddenly, while surrounded by thousands of people he thought were his friends and allies, he's named as a heretic by a woman he trusted intimately. How many people that he called friend or family treated him differently after this? His …
/r/MensRights02/01/19 01:30 AM
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So we'll celebrate Mens Day by mocking them and minimizing their problems? I guess this is what they mean when they say "Everyday is Mens Day".
/r/MensRights19/11/18 06:57 PM
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Showcasing the accomplishments of men, right?
/r/MensRights19/11/18 02:05 PM
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Well, to be fair, if we're going to have an event talking about men's acheivements it should more like Men's Month :p
/r/MensRights18/11/18 09:00 PM
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I would argue that the rise in nihilistic violence coincides with the rise in dominance of female-centric education policies in North American, at least. It's no secret that there was a massive push to acheive gender equality in schools in the 80s; the most obvious examples being zero-tolerance policies around physical contact and the focus on stillness, passive listening and fine motor skills instead of athletics, debate and gross motor subjects like shop. If we assume that men and women are th…
/r/MensRights09/11/18 07:17 PM
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I'd agree women are more sensible, in general, and prefer to play things safe rather than take risks. I think this is obvious in terms of biology as it doesn't make evolutionary sense to put oneself in danger if you're significantly responsible for the reproductive process and caring for children. It's not exactly a great thing, it shows a lack of self worth and it's quite sad that this man values his life so little. This, I feel, is extremely ungrateful. I don't think this act demonstrates a la…
/r/MensRights09/11/18 05:09 PM
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This is probably the most fucked up thing I've read today and it gave me a solid belly laugh. Have an upvote sir. Edit: Is the rape like a dominance thing or is he just overly horny? I mean to say, is it a matter of expecting sex in return for heroic acts and not taking no for an answer or does he just randomly pick people he's rescued and tells them they're fucked?
/r/MensRights09/11/18 03:18 AM
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I see stuff here I don't agree with all the time but if a sub can't be a place where a man can speak his mind freely (and maybe emotionally) then it can hardly call itself pro-men. If you see comments that you disagree with, find the highest voted one and say so, clearly and specifically, instead of making broad statements about 'toxic' comments and then announcing that you'll unsubscribe to show how much better you are than us, morally speaking.
/r/MensRights09/11/18 03:12 AM
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Lol, menslib in a nutshell; intersectionalism, telling men their issues aren't real and killing humour.
/r/MensRights09/11/18 03:03 AM
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Downvotes are how you know you struck a nerve.
/r/MensRights09/11/18 03:00 AM
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That's it. A certain amount of self-sacrifice is intrinsic to masculinity at a very basic level. This was a sudden, chaotic event and these men acted instinctively, not idealogically. The terrible thing is that this spirit of sacrifice to the greater common good is not respected. Feminism creates policies preventing men from exploring sacrifice (among other things: responsibility, aggression, danger) but doesn't seem to care that a mastery of these things is critical when faced with an existenti…
/r/MensRights09/11/18 02:57 AM
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I agree. What these men did was of their own free will and extremely heroic. I don't think they're being tricked or oppressed into anything, they're just exemplary guys. It's just a shame that people are frequently complaining about "toxic masculinity" when actual masculinity inspires acts like this.
/r/MensRights09/11/18 02:46 AM
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Technically, feminism is about equality. The problem is that they want equality of outcome instead if opportunity, which is why feminism can push for the multitude of systemic supports that women receive while denying the same to men and still keep their internal logic. It is very telling that some feminists want to kill men or otherwise reduce male populations; they think so little of the abilities of women that they want to eliminate competition completely because the think men will always win…
/r/MensRights08/11/18 10:09 PM
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They may not view it directly but it's a great resource to refer to when people assert "Feminism is about equality".
/r/MensRights08/11/18 10:02 PM
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Are most SJW philosophies not fundamentally racist?
/r/MensRights19/10/18 01:42 AM
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There's no way to know for sure bit I suspect that many progressive types are on the kids side just because he's black since there's a long history of black people getting hurt by false accusations from white women.
/r/MensRights19/10/18 01:40 AM
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Men are theives, murderers and rapists...but some of them are good people /s
/r/MensRights18/10/18 02:01 AM
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Try asking revealing questions instead of outright disagreeing; at worst you'll seem a little slow, at best she won't be able to respond well and embarass herself. Don't be unecessarily confrontational but if you think she's wrong I think challenging her is the courageous and responsible thing to do.
/r/MensRights18/10/18 01:54 AM
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So what does he do, when he suspects someone's about to assault him? Film it. Get evidence. If he goes to court he will almost certainly win because he has actual evidence. Everyone scared of being assaulted should take note of this; you can't always prevent the assault but you can prove that it happened and get justice.
/r/MensRights16/10/18 01:28 AM
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I don't agree with pretty much all of his politics but what, specifically, makes him bad?
/r/MensRights12/10/18 06:37 PM
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Good old human rights code. We can thank Trudeau senior for that.
/r/MensRights12/10/18 01:45 AM
1

What!? Who wouldn't want a job with long hours, in all weather, doing dangerous and physically arduous tasks? /s
/r/MensRights12/10/18 01:44 AM
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Brock Turner dragged an unconcious girl behind a dumpster and was in the process of raping her when two men saw him and pulled him off. This is not a worse crime than that. I'm all for due process but Brock Turner was found guilty because Brock Turner is guilty. He is a privileged rapist who tried to use his athletic exploits to gain leniency. Excusing what he did is the MRA equivalent of excusing false rape accusations or female on male domestic violence.
/r/MensRights07/10/18 11:11 PM
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It's funny how it's completely acceptable to mock the holy books of Mormons, Jehovah's Witnesses, Christians and the like, and to call them out for specific acts but the second it's tried on Muslims (or Jews for that matter) then everyone's a Nazi.
/r/MensRights05/10/18 01:27 AM
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Also households on government assistance.
/r/MensRights25/09/18 06:19 PM
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Something else to consider, most of the false rape accusations that we know about are from people admitting the lie themselves; if they're punished then they'll be disincentivised from confessing and more false rape charges will go through.
/r/MensRights24/09/18 01:34 PM
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I'm glad you posted anyway. I can see why there's salt around personal anecdotes; many subs have a policy of not allowing questioning or criticism of 'lived experiences'. This is ridiculous and I think there's a bit of a knee jerk reaction against anything anecdotal. I take the position that, if I question a story and can't find any contradictions, I can at least take a story as hypothetically true and worth discussing. I agree with your overall solution. I think the best way to minimize unneces…
/r/MensRights21/09/18 01:28 PM
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It sounds to me like reporting isn't a good way to deal with a situation like this; especially where the details are vague. The only person who took responsibility for their actions and may have been open to changing their behaviour was removed outright and everyone else became resentful and more subtle. I can see why administrations would not want to get involved with situations like this; they're complicated, time consuming and likely to stir up controversy if anything is misjudged. Unfortunat…
/r/MensRights16/09/18 04:14 PM
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it is almost impossible for what she explains to happen. Why?
/r/MensRights16/09/18 02:40 PM
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Basically, I don't believe you. Fair enough, but we have no better reason to believe your version either; it's a classic he-said-she-said. Not siding with either of you, per se, but it's disappointing to see a non-abusive comment downvoted like this just because it goes against the narrative.
/r/MensRights16/09/18 02:29 AM
2

and my access to the lab was frequently blocked by undergrads and TA's alike who demanded my digits (or often much more than that) before they would let me in. This sounds like a pretty clear-cut case of harassment; did you ever report it? If so, what was the response?
/r/MensRights16/09/18 02:26 AM
1

I think the important thing about this case is not that feminists are just as bad as the men they accuse (I don't think Ronell is even close to Weinstein, for example) but that the hysteria over /#metoo has made even relatively innocuous situation taboo. At the risk of victim-blaming, none of the things I've heard from this case have been particularly objectionable in the context of two close friends with an idiosycratic relationship (with the possible exception of her pulling him onto the bed a…
/r/MensRights19/08/18 05:10 PM
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Agreed. Feminism isn't even good for women anymore (if it ever was). The last thing we want to do is start thinking like them; their ideology is self-defeating and based in victimhood.
/r/MensRights19/08/18 02:02 AM
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"Most women had already pursued and completed their educational and career goals but by their late 30s had been unable to find a lasting reproductive relationship with a stable partner. This is why they turned to egg freezing." So, forgive me if I am misunderstanding, but women say they want good long-term relationships but then spend their prime child-bearing years working on their career for ... reasons ... instead? It's almost as if they've bought into some kind of pervasive ideology that is …
/r/MensRights02/07/18 07:52 PM
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Yeah, doesn't seem like a full feminization, more men are being encouraged to act feminine without being treated as women.
/r/MensRights01/07/18 05:58 PM
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It sucks how poorly the legal system is at dealing with stuff like mental health and parental relationships. I've heard MANY stories of legitimate cases of child abuse being ignored, but when someone knows how to work the system they can move a complaint forward on basically no hard evidence. I'm sorry this happened. You mentioned 3 kids and 2 daughters, do you have a son? How's your relationship with him? Kids can do some extremely stupid things, especially at that age, especially with someone …
/r/MensRights01/07/18 02:14 PM
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Not upset, per se, but broad generalizations based purely on emotion make the entire sub look dumb when they just go unchallenged.
/r/MensRights01/07/18 01:58 PM
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Yes, obviously every single woman is a bitch and is abusing the matriarchy to steal your children /s
/r/MensRights01/07/18 01:55 PM
1

I don't see how masculinity can exist without describing some kind of objective concept, such as behavior or opinions (or human beings). How does one measure masculinity? And where? I'm not trying to be facetious but your post fills my thoughts with the image of some kind of free roaming cloud, choking passers-by. Where does it come from and how does it manifest?
/r/MensRights28/06/18 07:05 PM
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I hear that, I'm in Ontario and our election was seriously disrupted by 2 weak allegations against a candidate. Even if the overall proportion of false accusations is low they're still being weaponized by people trying to accumulate power. However, given that they're false, I don't see how avoiding women offers much protection.
/r/MensRights28/06/18 07:00 PM
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Not necessarily disagreeing but, from what I've seen, this imbalance is less a discrimination issue as a 'gender preference' issue. In every case of a woman getting custody/child support that I've seen, the woman was caring for the kids before the ruling was made. Generally the legal system wants to do as little as possible to change things, especially where kids are concerned. It is 100% possible to get custody and child support as a man but if he's working 40+ hours a week while she's a home c…
/r/MensRights27/06/18 09:21 PM
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I am confused by this term, is it referring to societal attitudes towards men or is it actual behovioral patterns men exhibit? It seems to be used interchangeably.
/r/MensRights27/06/18 09:03 PM
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Terrible name; instantly implies that victims are less of a man and people are saying otherwise to spare his feelings. Don't know many men who like being pitied. Imagine #didntaskforit Besides that, yeah, more of this. Although, if we were treating both genders as equals, maybe we should be directly telling girls that it's not okay to hit boys rather than telling boys it's up to them to do something.
/r/MensRights24/06/18 02:51 AM
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I am 100% ready to stay home and raise kids. I'm just waiting on finding a woman who will go out and work/beg/whatever-needs-doing in order to financially support me and my kids. Until then, off to work I go.
/r/MensRights13/05/18 08:48 PM
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This exemplifies perfectly the dangers of Title IX. Everyone cheers when it's not their group being persecuted; they forget that anyone can use this weapon they've crafted.
/r/MensRights12/05/18 01:45 AM
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Who are you, sir, to speak for all women? Or are you inferring that, in a world where people will occasionally choose to throw themselves in front of a moving train, there are zero people who would choose to give up their sexual agency? That said, guys, if you suspect that a woman is trying to encourage you to take advantage of her, for whatever reason, do a 180 and just keep walking.
/r/MensRights11/05/18 03:06 AM
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Something we should be cautious of as well.
/r/MensRights11/05/18 01:22 AM
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Listen, I agree with the gist of everything you're saying but the way you're saying it makes it really hard to do so. You're using absolutes, generalizations, hyperbole and you make completly unfounded assumptions and it makes it seem as though you've watched a few videos and are now convinced that you've discovered the ultimate truth of the world. You don't know everything. I don't know everything. u/Fluorita doesn't know everything. We're all just trying to figure out where we are, how we got …
/r/MensRights21/04/18 07:19 PM
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