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| 2 | How to Embrace RejectionYou're assuming they were "yours" in the first place. The world doesn't owe you, me or anyone anything. If I approach Shakira, will she "reject" me? Of course. But what business do I have approaching Shakira in the first place? In this way, rejection is actually a blessing because it lets you know where you're wanted and where you aren't. That's the key. | /r/seduction | 20/11/15 12:15 AM |
| 2 | What are your best methods for maintaining attraction?Don't kill yourself overanalyzing this. I've had about a thousand cases like this. Just move on and keep going. And, as others have rightfully mentioned in the comments, you need to escalate very quickly or the girl will lose interest. | /r/seduction | 20/11/15 12:12 AM |
| 4 | How to Embrace RejectionThe key is to give them permission to reject you. They're not rejecting you—"you"; they're just choosing to do something else with their time. Change your mindset and your thinking. | /r/seduction | 19/11/15 09:09 PM |
| 1 | How to be authentic and self-confident, when you are still psychologically somewhat fucked-up?Confidence is a very relative term. The way to solve the confidence conundrum is to be completely comfortable in being unsure in situations where you just can't be confident. Confidence comes from experience. If I drive to work for two years, I'm pretty confident that I'll drive there without getting lost. But I can't be that confident if I'm in a new city driving to a job interview. I might get lost a couple of times. Speaking a new foreign language is another example. I'm very confident speaki… | /r/seduction | 18/11/15 12:15 AM |
| 10 | "Models" has given me clarity with an ex-girlfriend. Has it given you insight with an ex too?"I need to meetup with her and tell her how I truly feel. I love and care about her too much to just be friends. She has a lot of guy friends she just talks to and I refuse to be one of those. Honestly, if she rejects me again I'm ok with that." I don't think that's going to work. You guys broke up for a reason. Also, I believe what you're describing is not vulnerability that Mark Manson was talking about in the book. He meant it in a non-needy way. It seems clear that you're still pretty needy … | /r/seduction | 17/11/15 08:24 PM |
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