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I feel like people fixate on the loud minority when it comes to lonely men. I'm involuntarily celibate, but I don't visit incel forums nor do I blame women for where I'm at. I dont frequently post about my issues because I know no one wants to hear it, and I'm not interested in being grouped with incels which is exactly what happens if you try to start a dialouge about how many men are set up to fail in dating. So you don't hear the opinions of men like me as often, but you DO hear from the most…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/10/23 06:58 PM
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All that socilialzation means is that the behavior results from the nurture side of "nature vs nurture". It isn't an excuse nor does it hold any ethical weight. Most feminists would absolutely attribute misogyny to socialization, but they sure as shit wouldn't accept that as an excuse. We don't have to either.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/06/23 12:46 AM
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Yeah this post read as skin deep to me as well. The issue is there is a kernel of truth in some (not all) of the problems the red pill bemoans, the red pill just has horrible solutions to them. Feminists have slightly better (if vague and incomplete) prescriptions but a lack of drive because most feminists don't feel a lot of sympathy towards these issues in the first place because of how they've been used to radicalize men. Most feminists also lack lived experience of what it's like to be a soc…
/r/ExRedPill28/05/23 08:53 PM
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Just show her a minute of this video at the linked timestamp. The gist is that most alternatives are just vague platitudes. The red pill might give bad advice, but it's specific and actionable. Highly recommend that whole video btw, one of my favorites on the topic of male dating struggles.
/r/ExRedPill24/05/23 01:04 AM
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The issue is that dating is a struggle for lots of men and there aren't really any alternatives to pickup/red pill beyond empty platitudes. I highly reccomend watching this video on the topic as it is the single best deconstruction of pickup and male dating struggles I've ever seen.
/r/ExRedPill13/12/22 07:43 PM
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That sounds like it would be a great service to myself and many other men. Is intimacy coaching widely available/affordable?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/12/22 09:16 PM
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I'd actually be interested in learning about bi women's dating expectations when dating men vs women.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/12/22 07:24 PM
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I feel the need to link this every time the issue crops up. It's long but I promise it's well worth the watch. If you're short on time or attention span then start at Chapter 2 for the most relevant bit to this topic.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/08/22 04:01 AM
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I dont think confidence itself is toxic but the disproportionate pressure applied to men to be confident definitely is.
/r/ExRedPill08/07/22 09:10 PM
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As someone who's circumcised and suffers from many of the aforementioned side effects, I can't believe I'm just now hearing of this. I thought I was just naturally a coomer lol.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/06/22 06:26 PM
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I'm in the same boat as you (23yo virgin) and I gotta say I understand where this sentiment comes from. If I could I probably would just live that hedonistic, sedentary lifestyle forever if I could get away with it. I hate how unfair the dating game is as well but I just liken it to the job market. You have to put in more effort for less in comparison to those further up the hierarchy and if you're in the US like me the power balance is off kilter because there are hardly and unions to speak of.…
/r/ExRedPill17/01/22 07:56 PM
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Idk viagra can come in handy.
/r/ExRedPill31/12/21 11:00 PM
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There are a lot of lonely insecure dudes out there. Either dudes are just genetically predisposed to be this way (which doesn't track given how much that's increased in recent years) or its society's fault. There really aren't any other options. The key distinction is which facets of society are causing men to have these problems, some people say it's women, others will say it's the internet/social media. I tend to lean more towards the latter but that's still absolutly a societal problem.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/12/21 04:49 PM
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I dont know that I agree that there are more "leftover" men than women. If society is largely monogamous and there's 50/50 split between men and women then there's most likely an equal proportion of older men and women who are single. How many are suffering from that is the real variable I suppose.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/11/21 06:37 AM
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Eh fair enough, but I think we can agree that the things you mentioned and being shy are "bad" in different ways.
/r/ExRedPill07/09/21 08:23 PM
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Racists and psychopaths can still get dates if they are confident and socially competent. I dont think OP is talking about the worst trait to have morally (obviously being shy isn't immoral) but for your own personal happiness. Unfortunatly you can still live a comfortable life with a bigoted or monstrous personality.
/r/ExRedPill07/09/21 08:09 PM
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I'm not talking about people in general, I'm talking about MRAs. Shit like this is part of the reason why we get a bad rap.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/07/21 06:36 PM
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You misunderstand, I'm saying women will get pissed at the total lack of empathy towards their problems the same way we get pissed when they talk about how much better men have it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/07/21 04:02 PM
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Any conversation about "who has it worse" is going to be extremely subjective and biased with the exception of the most clear cut of cases (rich vs poor, black vs white) where one side has ALL the advantages. It might be that men have it worse, or you could be wrong, but there's no way to empirically test that and all it does is sprout more "men vs women" animosity which is counterproductive.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/07/21 11:11 PM
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This is just oppression Olympics from the mra perspective. Men can't know what it's like to live as a women intuitively the same way women can't know what it's like to be men. Life is shit for all of us in different ways. Having conversations about who has it worse only makes you seem vitriolic and breeds resentment. I get annoyed to shit when feminists engage in this behavior as well.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/07/21 08:28 PM
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I think this video best explains why men are drawn to the red pill, you only really need to watch the first and second chapter to get the answer to your question but I highly reccomend the whole thing. Generally speaking, dating is a big complicated mess and men who struggle don't have any practical advice on how to pursue women. TRP gives actual guidelines to dating by "gamifying" it and this makes it more approachable to men. Even if most most those guidelines are horseshit. Most men don't sta…
/r/ExRedPill16/06/21 02:13 PM
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I would say righties are intrinsically not going to have men's best interests in mind because of their reactionary values. They want traditionalism and more strict gender roles instead of giving people the freedom to live how they choose and this includes men. Lefties have better core values regarding gender norms, ie less of them. The issue is they only see gender norms to the extent that they affect women and have a blindspot when it comes to how they effect men because of the women are wonder…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/06/21 12:04 AM
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Otherwise...its kind of like a much less historied version of the "N" word. It's fine for men to talk about, but not OK for women to use, no matter how many "male friends" they have. I understand what you're trying to say but you really can't be making that argument. If for no other reason than that the optics are horrible. Also, this subreddit criticizes feminism tons and I don't see much reason why women shouldn't be able to do the same with male behavior. Attack individual arguments, not your…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/07/20 04:39 AM
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I've actually had the opportunity to be intimate with a girl twice in my life so far, both times resulting in me getting the sweats and visibly shaking and shivering. Obviously this wasn't conducive to my success. One of these times was even with a girl I trust and have known for years, but if anything I was even more nervous then. I don't really know how to "fake" these involuntary responses due to fear.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/03/20 11:57 PM
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You're right, there's a difference at being confident in sexual situations and being confident in social ones, I'm bad at both though so ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/03/20 11:27 PM
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I wish more people would just admit that sexual experiences are fundamental to building confidence, and it isn't a reasonable expectation that one can be confident without any experience.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/03/20 11:21 PM
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This is basically affirming my current belief regarding my situation. I just need to be more confident and in order to do that I need someone to affirm that i'm a human being and not a cretin by being intimate with me. It's a catch 22 though because in order to get in that situation I need to be confident in the first place.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/03/20 11:06 PM
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You're conflating dating with hooking up. Obviously women take more risk when having sex, I would never argue otherwise.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/03/20 07:42 AM
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I think your post generalizes and demonizes women to an unfair extent but I agree with the main sentiment. Men have it harder when dating in that they take all the risk, and are the ones who have to prove their worth to the women, who tend to have very high standards. Women can absolutely have a tough time dating as well but their problems are totally different and usually won't lead to the total absence of self worth that many men face. I think the prevalence of red pill, incel, and MGTOW commu…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/03/20 02:52 AM
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Same reason people get shit for slogans like "it's ok to be white" it's the implication behind the question. You're implying that young boys are seen as "better off" when they are kidnapped and killed than girls. I've never heard this sentiment in my life but even if there was some merit to it, it's a total non sequitur and clearly troll bait.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/02/20 12:53 AM
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Jesus fucking Christ dude, if you can't see how you're shoving your ideology down peoples throats in a rude, distasteful way, then I don't know what to say.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/02/20 12:44 AM
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This is probably it. Many women on /r/askwomen talk about being sexualized by grown men at a prepubescent age and maybe that turns them off from sexualization entirely. Makes them view men as creeps who only want one thing.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/02/20 12:19 AM
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Can you be more specific in what you mean by "sex negative"?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/12/19 12:54 AM
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